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WHEN DID YOU REALIZE IT WAS LUST NOT LOVE?! · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables when you're in the middle of
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  Speaker 1: the dirty deed. Yeah, and you know, intimate missionary, you know,
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  Speaker 1: because we're crazy like that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, because we're just you know, you get it, you
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  Speaker 2: get it. Yeah, we're crazy like that. Yeah. When did
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  Speaker 2: you realize it was lust not love? When the sex
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  Speaker 2: started to feel like a chore? Heavy? That's heavy buck.
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  Speaker 2: Sex is never felt like that for me. Relatable The
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  Speaker 2: Relatables podcast is hosted by myself What you Clark ak
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  Speaker 2: My May and my partner in crime or my podcaster
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  Speaker 2: are in crime as you like to say, mister Jake
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  Speaker 2: Craig aka Daddy Dad there. Yeah, Shirt say I got
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  Speaker 2: nine to nine problems and a sweet little treat would
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  Speaker 2: solve most of them. Yeah, what's your problems? Man? I
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  Speaker 2: don't know. I'm not gonna lie to you, though, I've
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  Speaker 2: opened up a can of where do I start? Lately.
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  Speaker 2: I was talking about it with Beth last night. Do
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  Speaker 2: you ever.
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  Speaker 1: Are you ever looking for like an outfit? Because when
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  Speaker 1: I come here, I've got a pack, you know, for
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  Speaker 1: multiple days, and I'm thinking about, Okay, well what do
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  Speaker 1: I want to wear?
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  Speaker 2: The episodes? Yeah? Yeah, do you ever look at your
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  Speaker 2: clothes and just think actually hate all of them. Actually,
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  Speaker 2: I just freaking hate all of it. I'm sick of
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  Speaker 2: wearing it. Relatable Yeah, yeah, I am sick of wearing them.
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  Speaker 2: Like I wear two pairs of jeans and I've got
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  Speaker 2: like twenty Yeah, I have at least seven eight pairs
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  Speaker 2: of pants, and I think I wear three. Yeah yeah,
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  Speaker 2: but I'm hating my clothes. I have an attachment to
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  Speaker 2: the other pairs and I can't throw them away neither. Also,
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  Speaker 2: I bought them, so I'm like they cost money. Yeah
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  Speaker 2: it is, I don't know. Just late late last night
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  Speaker 2: when I was packing, I just was like, I hate
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  Speaker 2: everything I have, But if I came in your room
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  Speaker 2: with a sweet treat, that would solve that issue. And
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  Speaker 2: where I actually was I went off topic of where
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  Speaker 2: I originally wanted to go. There, wherever I was originally
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  Speaker 2: wanting to go was? I am obsessed with sugar lately? Really,
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  Speaker 2: let's your go to currently? It's fucking easter, dude. Really,
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  Speaker 2: it's the eggs, bro man, you can only eat them
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  Speaker 2: at Easter time. That's what I'm saying. Because it's Easter time. Oh,
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  Speaker 2: You're like, eggs are out? Your mentality is like they're
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  Speaker 2: not here for long. I've got to eat them well. Wedness, Easter, Wednesday,
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  Speaker 2: after Day East. I've known the first Sunday of each April,
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  Speaker 2: so it's in a week in a bit. No, No,
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  Speaker 2: that's would have already been. Wait, that's not right. No, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: second Sunday of each April. But all I know is
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  Speaker 2: my parents are coming here for it, and they're getting
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  Speaker 2: here on the seventeenth. I've got no idea that's when
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  Speaker 2: a long weekend is? Seventeen? Do we get a long weekend?
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  Speaker 2: Do we get a couple days off? Boss man young Padawa?
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  Speaker 2: We get so the long weekend for everyone else we're working, Babe,
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  Speaker 2: from it's Friday to Monday. They get Friday and Monday.
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  Speaker 2: After you get a four. I guess I can still
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  Speaker 2: pay you that week. Appreciated the extra day, appreciated it.
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  Speaker 2: I really appreciate it. But today, Jake, we're starting with
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  Speaker 2: a relatables classic, aren't we. We haven't done this in
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  Speaker 2: a hot minute. Red flag, Green flag is back. It's back,
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  Speaker 2: guy fucking bat. I know better than ever as well,
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  Speaker 2: I must say. Maybe. Actually, I don't know. When I
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  Speaker 2: was thinking of mine, I was like, I've missed this. Hey, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I remember we did one once, and we've done a
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  Speaker 2: couple a right A videos get taken out of context
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  Speaker 2: of ours sometimes yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and we had one taken out of context once.
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  Speaker 1: I believe we've had we had one taken out of
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  Speaker 1: context that we did X for Girls.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and we've got a freaking stupid.
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  Speaker 1: And a Daily Mail News article written about us, and
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  Speaker 1: then I'm pretty sure a red flag green flag got
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  Speaker 1: taken out of context once.
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  Speaker 2: I always think in the back of my head too,
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  Speaker 2: because Jake will occasionally send me clips and be like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: what do you think? Like, I was just like, I
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  Speaker 2: know what we meant. Yeah, it might not come across
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  Speaker 2: as that, but if you listen to the episode, you'd understand. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And if you don't do the due diligence to go
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  Speaker 2: listen to the old episode, then yeah, like who cares?
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  Speaker 2: You can't you're judging too quick. Yeah, like it's a
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  Speaker 2: thirty second clip when it's an hour long episode. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it's hard to be fair. I guess it's maybe our
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  Speaker 2: responsibility a little bit to give them everything in the clip.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, give them give them all the info,
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  Speaker 2: I say, be toxic. Yeah, it's about the repercussions.
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  Speaker 1: I think, I just I think we need a slight
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  Speaker 1: bit more of controversy in our life. Yeah, tactically, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: tactical controversy goes to Kayla.
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  Speaker 2: Tesla, she knows what she's doing, mate, tactical controverse. I
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  Speaker 2: bet you she's making bank on her. So you think
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  Speaker 2: it's just so stressful. Oh yeah, I don't want that
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  Speaker 2: in my life, No way. I don't want to be
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  Speaker 2: like known for that either. I like just like I
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  Speaker 2: like a simple life, Jake, a simple life, So don't
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  Speaker 2: simple life. No argum men's no no hate or love, alright,
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  Speaker 2: just getting through the day. Can I kick this one off?
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  Speaker 2: Yes you can, you can. Red Flag Green Flag shares
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  Speaker 2: this episode with a friend green as it gets. If
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  Speaker 2: we could ask one thing, guys, could you please share
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  Speaker 2: this episode with a friend. It's free to do. Helps
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  Speaker 2: us out, tell a friend to tell a friend that's
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  Speaker 2: your today. That's all you got to do. Mate, Send
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  Speaker 2: it to a guy and be like this would help
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  Speaker 2: send it to a guy, Like, yeah, so these guys.
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  Speaker 2: Joe Rogan recommended these guys fly just to him, he's
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  Speaker 2: medlight all the time. Yeah, I don't take it now,
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  Speaker 2: he's my actual one one. That's good. Red flag, green flag.
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  Speaker 2: He owns a dog, but cause all the other dogs
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  Speaker 2: in his life, his best friend too, red flag two
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  Speaker 2: face day. I think it's a red flag because if
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  Speaker 2: you can't be loyal to a dog, how can you
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  Speaker 2: be loyal to me? I know he's the same, gone
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  Speaker 2: around to ere call and everyone his best friend. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: and this is my best friend and this is my
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  Speaker 2: other best friend. What are you talking about? You can
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  Speaker 2: only have one red flag, green flag. They have more
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  Speaker 2: than one best friend, red flag, yeah, just like in general,
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  Speaker 2: they have more than one best friend. If you can't pick, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you shouldn't have the right to choose, can you. Is
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  Speaker 2: it possible to have more than one best friend? Genuinely?
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  Speaker 2: In my opinion, no, see me, I don't think so either.
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  Speaker 2: It's like a relationship. Actually wait what because I would
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  Speaker 2: say so, I would say I would introduce Loti, like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: so I did podcasts with my best friend Dotty right, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: but at the same time, I also call best my
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  Speaker 2: best friend. But is it different because she's my girlfriend?
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  Speaker 2: Very different. I was gonna say, you shouldn't have the
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  Speaker 2: capacity to have more than one best friend. Because obviously
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  Speaker 2: you're not putting in enough effort for said best friend
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  Speaker 2: if you've got more than one. Yeah, when you say
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  Speaker 2: to people that you have this is my best friend,
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  Speaker 2: and then and then you introduce someone else as your
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  Speaker 2: best friend. Yeah, and this person's thinking the head, how
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  Speaker 2: many best friends, especially if that one friend is only
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  Speaker 2: has that one of the best. Does it take away
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  Speaker 2: the quality of friendship? I think so? Yeah. Like I'm
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  Speaker 2: not walking around here saying like jj is my best
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  Speaker 2: friend and Jake's be best friend. It's just I just
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  Speaker 2: don't think it's valid. I don't think it's valid at all,
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  Speaker 2: not at all. Okay, red flag or green flag. She's
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  Speaker 2: a cyclist, not done yet, but she rides at night
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  Speaker 2: to avoid cars. Sounds a bit dangerous to me. Lives
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  Speaker 2: life on the edge. No, I'm thinking about this a
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  Speaker 2: little bit, right, So obviously she's doing a due diligence. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: her do do. She doesn't want to annoy the cars,
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  Speaker 2: and she also she wants to stay away from it.
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  Speaker 2: But I've deeped it and in my head that means
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  Speaker 2: her lycra is fluorescent. I couldn't be seeing my girl
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  Speaker 2: in fluorescent licra. Yeah, she comes home of that course,
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  Speaker 2: Sweaty walks to the front door and she's like, whoa.
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  Speaker 2: You know the funny The worst thing about those fucking
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  Speaker 2: bikes as well as so the shoes they have to
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  Speaker 2: wear the clip in they make a sound. Yeah yeah,
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  Speaker 2: yeah yeah. They walk in the house and as tight
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  Speaker 2: as licra. And then also the shoes. You can't walk
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  Speaker 2: normally then because the front of them has this clip
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  Speaker 2: on it reverse high heels. It's like you're wearing flippers.
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  Speaker 2: It's like trying to walk in flippers. Yeah, you just
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  Speaker 2: can't do it. It's it's no a red flag, damn. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: I thought, honestly, I thought it might have had you there,
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  Speaker 2: because they would be considerate, all right, red flag, green flag.
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  Speaker 2: He holds in his farts. But as soon as you
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  Speaker 2: leave the bedroom he rips. Asked on your pillow? So
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  Speaker 2: there isn't a sound. What it's like yours? So he's respectful,
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  Speaker 2: so he doesn't fight around you. Why does it have
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  Speaker 2: to be her pillow because he doesn't about his own pillow.
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  Speaker 2: That's just you wouldn't find a pillow. So she doesn't
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  Speaker 2: know any of this is happening. Oh, she she has
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  Speaker 2: no idea. She's completely clueless, but so all she knows
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  Speaker 2: is that he really is trying to hold them in.
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  Speaker 2: She's out here telling all her friends like, I've never
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  Speaker 2: heard Jake fart, and then he's in the bedroom and
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  Speaker 2: like pushing his pillow. Okay, okay, okay. If I'm if
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  Speaker 2: I'm the what's there, If I'm the ignorance is bliss
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  Speaker 2: girl in this situation, then I would say it's green flag.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm unbeknownst to the real details of the story, Paul,
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  Speaker 2: which is where did you get that word from? Unbeknownst?
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  Speaker 2: Did that come FRODDI? I seriously, have you been reading
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  Speaker 2: about me? Have you been reading a particulate man, very
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  Speaker 2: articulate fair? Unbeknownst to the details of the truth? That's
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  Speaker 2: word of the week right there. And so I would
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  Speaker 2: say green. But if I am an outsider, let's say
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  Speaker 2: let's let's say i'm you're doing it to your girlfriend? Yes,
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  Speaker 2: say okay, and then you tell me, I would say
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  Speaker 2: red for sure. How do you think I came up
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  Speaker 2: with this? Oh, your stomach must hurt when you're with
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  Speaker 2: your girlfriend. No, not anymore, it's trained mate. Really, you
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  Speaker 2: still try and hold him in? Yeah? Yeah, I let
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  Speaker 2: one out when I go to sleep. Apparently I felt
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  Speaker 2: like when I go to sleep, because you've been holding
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  Speaker 2: him in I'm unconscious. Mate, Yeah, yeah, like that, that's
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  Speaker 2: not me because you got a loose as pause no pause, continue, okaydie?
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  Speaker 2: Red flag or green flag? They prefer coke zero to
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  Speaker 2: Pepsi Max. So I like to think I can change
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  Speaker 2: everyone's opinion on coke zero and Pepsi Max. And if
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  Speaker 2: you have experience the I'm struggling for words of how
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  Speaker 2: good pepsi max is? Yeah, yeah, yeah, like I'm thinking
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  Speaker 2: about like bliss heaven, Yeah, just clouds, that's Pepsi Max.
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  Speaker 2: And if you can't agree with me, I think I
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  Speaker 2: could possibly change your opinion somehow or one another or
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  Speaker 2: you just you haven't experienced life yet. You're not mature
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  Speaker 2: enough to experience that. But is it a red flag
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  Speaker 2: if they were to say no, no, no, coke zero
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  Speaker 2: all the way over Pepsi max, and if you stood
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  Speaker 2: up for your decision, yeah, red flag in my life.
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  Speaker 2: Who's out here buying like a twenty four pack of
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  Speaker 2: coke zeros instead of a twenty four pack of Pepsi Max.
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  Speaker 2: To me, it's a no brainer. Yeah, it's yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I wouldn't there's no comparison.
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  Speaker 1: My best last night she we have Pepsi Max at
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  Speaker 1: home right now, and she put it in a glass. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: bit of ice takes away about a glass of lime
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  Speaker 1: in it. Delicious, not fans, it's delicious.
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  Speaker 2: It's so good. Yeah, to try that on, fucking I recommend.
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  Speaker 1: I like Pepsi Max vanilla, though I don't know how
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  Speaker 1: that would go of line, but we had just a
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  Speaker 1: plain pepsi.
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  Speaker 2: I like both. Yeah, like they're doing it different.
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  Speaker 1: Look, I would admit if there's nothing else and there
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  Speaker 1: is cozy, right, I will drink it because.
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  Speaker 2: Like I also want to call out, like all the
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  Speaker 2: restaurants start stocking Pepsi Max not coke zero. I have
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  Speaker 2: a potential those little like who those little bottles of
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  Speaker 2: coke while they invent it, Like those what are they?
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  Speaker 2: You know? There's like little ones that glass that are
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  Speaker 2: smaller than a can. Like it's like and it's like
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  Speaker 2: a glass there. It's like one hundred and eighty meal.
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  Speaker 1: I think just because it's kind of cool. I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: it's a bit more what's the words, maybe fancy feels
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  Speaker 1: like it's slightly decorum.
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  Speaker 2: Where where are these words coming from today? Decorum? Stop
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  Speaker 2: acting like I don't use that. You don't use that.
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  Speaker 2: What does the korum mean? Decorum means? So let's say,
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  Speaker 2: let's say you farted. Yeah, you have some decorum. I
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  Speaker 2: don't think yes, it's like it have some fancy manners. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: something like that is on the table. Decorum. Please, Who
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  Speaker 2: have you been hanging? Hell, we've been your spare time
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  Speaker 2: in Sydney. Okay, Sydney man, I'm telling you change. He's
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  Speaker 2: an upgrade from new or it's uppers a lot. Jake's
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  Speaker 2: gonna walk in here and be like, oh latables podcast,
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  Speaker 2: hold her by aud okay mommy, And at the dog park,
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  Speaker 2: ak King, one of the dog moms is, uh, she's
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  Speaker 2: a now elderly lady. Yeah, goes by the name of Linda.
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  Speaker 2: It's just her name. But now she's rich. Yeah you
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  Speaker 2: know that. Gosh, No, I just know you've been. I
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  Speaker 2: haven't been there, but Max certainly she's lived. She's lived
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  Speaker 2: that shalonlan along. I think it's me red flag, green flag?
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  Speaker 2: He cuts his nails indoors. Whoa red flag? Bro? What
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  Speaker 2: the flag? I always go outside for it. You have
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  Speaker 2: to because I just yea, even in the sink they
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  Speaker 2: like fly everywhere. No, you can't. You can't trust the
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  Speaker 2: control of the clippers. Yeah, you lose them. The only
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  Speaker 2: other place I'll do it is in the shower.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's in the controlled setting and the water
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  Speaker 1: coming down and usually catches, and I feel like the
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  Speaker 1: warm water makes my nail softer. And honestly, you're saying,
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  Speaker 1: I actually you might be right, and they cut You're
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  Speaker 1: probably right.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you were looking at me as if I was
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  Speaker 2: gonna say, what the fuck is wrong with you? But
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  Speaker 2: I actually agree big brain the chlorum. Okay, this one
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  Speaker 2: that some one goes at all the Aussies and actually
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  Speaker 2: Aussies and maybe New Zealand.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what they have over there. Red flag,
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  Speaker 1: green flag. They prefer coals to Woolies. It's a test
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  Speaker 1: for you to see how our relationship.
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  Speaker 2: Goes as well. Those two green flag my life, red flag.
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  Speaker 2: I'm an Audi man ah, I was no, no, but
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  Speaker 2: just are you a colds or a Woolies weird same?
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  Speaker 2: I walk in there and feel like it's I don't
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  Speaker 2: feel welky, I'm out of touch. I feel like I'm
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  Speaker 2: in the wrong place. Yeah, it feels like, you know,
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  Speaker 2: when you walk into like a fancy grocery shop and
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  Speaker 2: everything's like eighteen dollars for some milk. I think on
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  Speaker 2: the wollies and the shelves are like that, but it's not,
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  Speaker 2: though it's it's the same price as cold. I don't
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  Speaker 2: like green. I think it's a color scheme, say Will McDonald's.
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  Speaker 2: Apparently so the yellow and red. It's very scientifically known.
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  Speaker 2: Red's a nicer color that it's just warm and inviting. Yeah, Joanna,
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  Speaker 2: Yeah that makes sense. I know, alright, this is my
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  Speaker 2: last one red flag, green flag. You go to the
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  Speaker 2: gym together, and he doesn't unrack his weights, red flag.
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  Speaker 2: If there's one thing I hate in this world is
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  Speaker 2: seeing some guy or girl walk away from set equipment.
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  Speaker 2: I don't have the guts to go excuse me, no,
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  Speaker 2: excuse me? Could you please? Exquizy, could you please unrack
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  Speaker 2: the machine? And you used it, bitch, But if I
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  Speaker 2: saw that, I would be like, you're not getting a
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  Speaker 2: second day day. No, you wouldn't, would you, not at all?
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  Speaker 1: I was at the gym last Thursday or Friday, Yeah, Thursday,
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  Speaker 1: and tell me how you feel about this.
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  Speaker 2: I used a leg press. I went over to the
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  Speaker 2: leg press and it had three plates per side. Ooh,
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  Speaker 2: it's a good debate here. I know what you're going
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  Speaker 2: to say.
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  Speaker 1: So I did it, and then for my working set,
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  Speaker 1: I added a one more plate per side each that's
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  Speaker 1: four places beside, right, And then when I left, I
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  Speaker 1: only took off the plates I added.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't take off all the plates. No, I think
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  Speaker 2: that's fair. Okay, cool, because to be fair in this gym,
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  Speaker 2: is really any storage for these weights? You know what
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  Speaker 2: I'm talking about? Yeah, yeah, I'm talking about it. No,
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  Speaker 2: I know the exact Okay, I know where you're at
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  Speaker 2: now too. And certain pieces of equipment at said Jim,
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  Speaker 2: become almost irrelevant with about twenty kilos to start on them. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: so like if you leave them. This is a great debate, Jake.
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  Speaker 2: I think you're fine because you did your due diligence.
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  Speaker 2: Your dududes started off with yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, So
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  Speaker 2: I think you're fine. And you weren't working out with
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  Speaker 2: a girl no, yeah, no, I was on my mane
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  Speaker 2: who gets be selfish? Red flag or green flag? He
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  Speaker 2: asks for your location and says it's for safety. Red flag,
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: red flag. I think she should offer facts. Yeah, agreed,
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: ye yeah, I couldn't agree. Simple simple. I feel like
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: that's creepy if he's like where you were? Sure you
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: send me your location? But what yeah? Yeah, leave me alone? Yea,
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: I sent fucking said. I must have sent random my
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: location a while ago. I don't think of any I
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: never sent anyone my location ever. The thing I do
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: like about it is that it's accurate.
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: So if you are somewhere and you need someone to
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: meet you somewhere, you can send them your location and
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: then they can use that on their maps.
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: So I do like it for that.
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: But I must have sent it to her ages ago.
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: And then I was somewhere and I said, I'm not
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: far away. She goes, She was like, yeah, I know.
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: I was like what? Still like what? She goes, Yeah,
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: you I've got your location. I check it all the time,
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: check it all the time whenever I know you're coming here.
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: Where the fuck did I send it to you? That's
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: so like you to forget too. I've got I have
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: Joanna's location. I'll tell you what. When I first started
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: dating my girlfriend, she was in Europe. I think she
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: shared her location with me because she's like, oh, I'm
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: gone on this sus backpackers or something like that. Yeah,
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh, it's a cute little stage in
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: now relationship. I can't do anything of this information, but
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: like if the cops need it, yeah, like I'm in
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: a different country, but it's nice to have it. Is
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: it's a nice gesture. Maybe it felt it felt like
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: you know how giving someone a key is like been
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: a relationship location is like the twenty first century version
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: of that. Yeah, what the fuck happened to the world?
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, when you I remember watching Friends because it was
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: based in the nineties. Yeah, I remember, just obviously because
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: it was a very relatable show. It was just like
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: about life. So I remember there was this day where
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: one of them was in a relationship and they offered
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: to that There was this whole thing about offering a
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: drawer at my apartment, you can have a drawer of
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: your clothes, and then also he's a key. Like I
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: don't know if we just moved something fast these days,
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: but I'm pretty sure Beth gave me a spare key, like.
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: Very quickly. Maybe she was in love. Maybe maybe with
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: the other boys she wouldn't have done that. Maybe not.
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: I remember that I'm spech. You probably are. I remember
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: it spec working out man, because I remember my relationship.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: I have said like, oh you can. I clearly remember
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: the point when I said, you can leave some stuff
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: here if you want, Yeah, like a toothbrush or like
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: from the start, I would just leave whatever you want.
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: If I wasn't that keen, I wouldn't have offered. Yeah,
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: but I was. Now that's a good point. Actually maybe,
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: and maybe it's just like a feel nice thing because
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: it would be also like a sense of security nearly
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: knowing that your boyfriend is just totally you know, he's like, yeah,
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: just leave stuff here. Your tooth brush safe with me?
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: But yeah, yeah, yeah, like just just leave stuff here whatever.
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: Because then also that means you're so confident that he's
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: not having other people ever, because if he was, he
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: wouldn't want your stuff to be here. Imagine you like
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: left you too brush there and he threw it out
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: next time you came over, and you're like, oh, there's
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: my too fresh Oh do no matter, funny? Yeah, Imagine
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: you leave a toothbrush there and and he didn't say
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: you could leave a toothbrush there, to be fair, so
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: it was thrown out. The next that would be attactic
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: by some people who were seeing other people to leave
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: something there and like see, like it's like marking your
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: territory like a dog peas on a Yeah, it was
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: his little testy game. Yeah, it's tricky out there. He's
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: tricky out there, all right, Jake, I am very very excited,
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: and I want everyone listening right now, unless you're driving,
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: to pull your phone out and do this with me,
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: because Relatable's book club is about to be in session.
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: It is I have in front of me on Amazon
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: a Court of Thorns and Roses by Sarah Jy not Jane.
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: Could be Jane. I don't know, Mats, what do you
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: think it actually is? I reckon it's Jane. It's Jane,
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: Sarah Jane. I don't know any other Jye name. I
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: was gonna say Joseph again. But what we are going
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: to do together is on Amazon. I am ordering this
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: and by the time it comes we will announce next
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: time when it comes on the episode how many chapters
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: we're reading together. Does it say any sort of next
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: day delivery or anything. It's Amazon. It should come by
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: Friday the eleventh, So this Friday shit, should you? Well
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: maybe actually you should do.
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, order one and I'll order mine because it'll come
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: to my house. Okay, and then we can start reading
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: them over the weekend.
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, but how many chapters? Let's take how many?
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: What do you think? Five? Do you think five? How
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: many pages in a chapter? I'm a bit slow. Do
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: you want to start off with three chapters? Let's start
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: off with three first three chapters? Okay, by the next
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: episode and by the next record. We're really relying on
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: Australia Post right now? Is that who? Amazon? Amazon's with
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: themsels Just Amazon's great, your I'll order my adding the card.
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: I'm ordering it today. Twelve dollars. Oh, it's a bargain, guys,
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: twelve dollars. Fuck No, that's heaps good.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: So if you guys haven't read it and you want
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: to read along, bye. So you're hearing this now listening
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: to it. But the next time you're hearing the next episode,
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: we will be talking about the first three chapters, and
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: then we will depending on how fast we read them,
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: we'll judge whether or not we go okay, five chapters
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: from now or you know.
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: I never do. No, it's going to be updates on
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: updates and if you've already read it, good and if
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: you don't want to read it fair. Yeah, I think
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: I'm thinking of a tactic. Maybe I'm pretty I'm good
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: at leaving stuff for the last second. I'm thinking I'm
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: going to read before I go to sleep each night. Yeah.
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: The only thing I want to do is I think
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: I want to read it maybe three days before we record,
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: so then it's semi fresh in my brain. Good idea.
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: But if I've got are you going to read like
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: three chapters? How many pages is three chapters?
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: I was gonna read chapter, Let's just be so so
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: fucking for real and just admit that three chapters is
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: actually probably nothing.
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: Like honestly, people will sit down and read a book
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: a day. Yeah, four book in a day and be
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: like this is the best day ever. Maybe well three
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: to start, and then maybe we'll go like five or ten? Ten?
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: Ten seems like heave, that's more than one a day.
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: I feel like, isn't there a good thing about like
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: reading ten pages a day keeps the doctor away or
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: something something about ten? What is it?
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: Maybe part of seventy five hard is like you have
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: to read ten pages a day or something. But that's
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: the vocabularies are going to widen. Yours is already max mate, exactly.
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying is it's maxed out with my
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: current frontal lobe development, frontal load development. As you know
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: on Patreon, Jake has been having a lot, a lot
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: of frontal lobe development.
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, if you haven't been on Patreon, head over there.
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: I guess how much costs per month?
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: Five dollars? How much per week? A dollar twenty five
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: seventeen cents a day in Australia, And Australia's dollar right
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: now sucks, so if you wait to me. But if
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: you're from the US, if you're from Canada, if you're
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: from the UK, you can basically rob us anywhere in
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: Europe kind of be like fucking ten cents a day less. Yeah,
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: literally ten euros. But go find out about Jake's frontal
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: frontal I don't even know what I said. Yeah, lobo
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: development was a frontal cortex, what's that? The pre cortex,
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: frontal cortex. All I know is that the frontal lobe
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: is something that's developed by the time you're twenty five.
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: So I've only got a couple months left, mate, You seriously,
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: I'll tell you it hits your heart. Yeah, do'es it.
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: You'll start fucking. I can't wait for the words to
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: come out of It hits you hard, bro, I can't wait.
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: But up next we have ig question of the week. Yeah, buddy,
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: this one's cool. Gives you an insight in people's relationships, Jake, Yeah,
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: when did you realize it was lust not love? Prefrontal lobe?
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: What has lost mean? Just for reference? Last is like, hmmm,
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: more of you know, maybe you just wanted a bit
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: of their sex at times? Yeah, you know you liked
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: the thought sort of blinding. Yeah, that honeymoon phase. Limbrens.
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: We all know what Limerens is from past episodes. We've
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: spoken about that before. If you're new here, go listen.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: It's probably called limreates yeah episode so yeah, you'll find
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: it all right. When did you realize it was lust
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: not love? When he opened his mouth and spoke away
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: from the start, No, I reckon. What happened to here
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: was like one night stand. You're drunk, you're thinking he's
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: got game, and you thought he was. You thought you
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: were in love, you have sex, Oh, this man's perfect. Yeah,
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: you wake up and he's like, hey, babe, you want
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: to go get a coffee? He's got like that, just
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: thepe vye fucking voice, Babe, you want to go get
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: a coffee? Maybe?
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: And actually, here's one thing. If you didn't really remember
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: what he sounded like the night prior, maybe it was
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: a bit loud, right, yeah, and he was so drunk,
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: had a good time and went back, and then in
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: the morning he actually had a very high pitched voice.
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: I don't think that would be worse, babe. Yeah, that's
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: way worse, way worse. I think as like, I feel
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: like a deeper voice is attractive for girls. It has
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: to be. I'm pretty sure that's a thing. Yeah, it's
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: got to be. Yeah, it's got to be like frequency
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: decibel talk like that for the rest of give it
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: a go. When did you realize I'm just deep, go deep?
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: I go deeper. When did you realize that I feel
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: like I don't think I can get deep?
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: When did you realize it was lost not love? When
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: I was with his family and thought, in quotes, this
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: is a waste of my time.
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: That realization would hurt. I've heard a lot that you
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: would feel terrible. Imagine looking around like everyone's smiling like
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: they've gotten food bringing out, Like, what am I doing here?
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: Just a waste of my time. I've preferred a bit
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: at home. God to be fair, Like, I can't think
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: of anything to be fair. That's just hard. No, I
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: don't mind a bit of family time. Yeah, I've always
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: been a bit partial. I think it's good for the soul.
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: You're very good at it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, but I
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: mean I like it. When did you realize it was
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: lust not love? When we didn't have sex and he
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: got mad? I was lost on his end? When did
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: you realize it was lost not love? When he started
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: eating food with his mouth open? Not fair at all? No,
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: not fair at all. You should look past those little things.
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: Best always gives me about that. Yeah, we're trying to
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: get my food down. My sister used to give me
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: sit about I'm trying to breathe. Yeah, as a guy,
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: like the food needs to be like consumed quickly. She doesn't.
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah too, Look, but she doesn't always give me about it.
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: I've realized she's made comments and I kind of think, honestly,
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: I guess I kind of do think.
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I better stuff eat my mouth. But I realized though,
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: like when I eat with my girlfriend, like really try
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: and like enjoy the meal. Yeah, But when I'm by myself,
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: like that meal can go in two minutes. Yeah, I
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: kind of get annoyed with myself when I'm eating on
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: my own and it's too quick. Like I start a
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: YouTube video like a boy and yeah, I see it's
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: like one minute thirty en I'm like, fuck, I've got
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: one mouthful. This is yeah, this is this. This is
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: the mental dilemma that I have quite often. I get
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: my food ready and I sit down.
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: I sit my phone or to watch some YouTube, right,
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: and I start taking a few boats while I'm watching it. Yeah,
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: And so then I finally find one and I go
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: boom and then I yeah, I get yeah, I'm one
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: minute in and I'm like, I'm done.
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: Well, now I can't see it. I'm lazy. If video
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: in the middle of the day, I can't keep watching it.
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: I feel guilty. That is relatable. What are the exact
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: same thing? Bullshit? Let him enjoy it. Oh, it's annoying.
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: Let him enjoys YouTube. Yeah, I know. While I's heating
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: up is when you need to start start looking video
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: while it was heating When did you realize it was
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: last not love. When he told me I was interrupting
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: his scroll time. Shake shake my head, scroll time, imagine
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: like go go spring summer, So what did you get
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: up to today? I'm just scrolling, like, can you come
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: back to me late twenty minutes I'm just in my
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: scroll time. Imagine that that hurt that heard me saying
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: it to you. I would actually leave and not say
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: anything scrolled. What is my I think one of my
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: friends calls a quiet time like it's that. I just
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: call it TikTok tok my me time. Yeah, do you
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: call it anything? No, I just say I'm going on TikTok. Yeah.
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: Best when I say like time for non verbal TikTok time. Yeah,
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: it's like an agreement. It really is brain rot yeah
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: oh yeah yeah yeah yeah, like we always like every
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: single person I bet has said this this is relatable,
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: like oh I saw this thing once, or like I
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: read a book and it was just a TikTok video,
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: so really funny meme. Just want to admit that it's
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: a tikok Yeah.
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: I saw it me and it goes this is me
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: if you even care or like this is me, if
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: you ever want to know, and it'll be like, quote
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: I read somewhere equals TikTok. Yeah, quote I saw somewhere
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: equals TikTok something, Yeah, everything equals fucking TikTok.
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: I always have the mental debate when I just like
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: say I heard the broadcast, Yeah yeah, when I say
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: something of the podcast, like if I sound smarter? If
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: I say, yeah, like I read somewhere, I'm not reading anything.
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: We're reading a Court of Thorns and Roses. Mate, Yes,
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: we certainly are. So we actually could be able to
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: say that I read somewhere pretty soon. Yeah, okay, for that,
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: I just I need to start. Just the vocabulary needs
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: to be Oh, I saw on TikTok. But again, remember
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: how we told we always tell our parents don't believe
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: everything's in on Facebook? Yeah? Yeah? Should we have like
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: a code word that we like always say something smarter
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: but everyone knows that we just saw it on TikTok? Yeah?
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: Well no, and then what should it be? What's something
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: we would never do? Article? We would never use that
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: word I saw on the news. That's pretty good. I
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: saw on the news. I saw on the news, I
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: heard on the news, I heard If we ever say
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: I heard on the radio. Yeah. Yeah, that's because it's
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: sort of like on the podcast I heard on the radio.
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: If we ever say that, it means we saw it
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: on tick Yeah that's yeah, that means it was a
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: TikTok video I heard on the radio. Okay, that's a
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: little inside Jake. When when did you realize it was
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: lust not love? When I saw him without his beard? Oh,
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: I can that many guys are out here looking ugly
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: for the ladies on your first date. If he's got
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: a beard and you think he's hot, you got to say,
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: I need to see a photo without it. Yeah, it's
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: not shallow to know. You need to see if he
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: has a chin. Yeah, what if it just goes. I
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: know one of our friends he used to have a
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: chin and then he got a beard, and then he
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: put on weight and now his chin's gone. It happened,
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: It happened. Happens the best of us. You got to know,
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: it happens to the best of us. Imagine if he's
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: hotter without the beard too, You like I've just wanted
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: exactly Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, shaved that shit off. I also,
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: what are you reconds like kissing a beard? I feel
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: like it'd be a bit of weird.
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: Beth said that, but you know how when you're in
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: the middle of the dirty deed. Yeah, and you know,
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: intimate bit of missionary you know, because we're crazy like that.
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, because we're just you know, you get it, Yeah,
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: you get it. Yeah, we're crazy like that. Yeah. She said,
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: when you get heavy breathing, you know, you'd be getting
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: down next to her face just She said that the
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: scruffiness like burns her face, especially yours. Yeah, because I
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: actually get it, I get it. You're probably sweet. I
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: only get on my chin, yeah, because my chin goes quickly,
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: but nothing else does. So I need to like focus
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: on it because this is like perfect length to like
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: give her Beth like a rash rash nearly you must
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: be like bad downstairs too, then me. Yeah, like any
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: guy with like just like the little bit of the stubble, Yeah,
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: down downstairs. I think just if you let it grow,
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: it gets bushy. If you've cut it, you cunt it.
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: I don't know, I've been kind of rocking my nineteen
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: eighties bush at the moment. I'm not gonna I meant no,
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: I meant when you're eating pussy that you give her well,
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: the world now the world I've been for rocking it, Like, yeah,
• 33:55
  Speaker 2: I was talking about you needed to be careful when
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: you're in pussy because you have maybe big stubble, the
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: live a rash down there, which is worse than the face.
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: You feel like it's more sensitive down there. Yeah, definitely.
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: I was like, why you're telling me about your I
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: thought I thought you mad. I thought you're like, I
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: thought you meant that because I'm hairy up here, I
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: must be hairy down here. And I was like, I
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: mean everyone is. It's just it's just when he shave
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: it or not. But no legit lately. I mean, that's
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: just the year. I kind of plucked out of my head,
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: like now you've been watching too much bad nineteen eighties
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: porn star or something that is that what it is?
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: I think like rocking a bush. I'm not opposed for
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: a bush. Yeah, thing, it's just maintained, maintained. Yeah I do. Yeah,
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: I trim it on the highest setting. Okay, moving on,
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: I think it's yours. When did you realize it was
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: last not love? When he took his shirt off and
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: I was happier than when he talked about our future
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: at least he knows he's ripped. Yeah, she's winning kinda,
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: so at least she's like it's good sex. Probably like
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: he whips the shurt, He's like, damn, and then he
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: says like, I can't wait to have kids with your
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: shut up. Let's just yeah, let's take a chill, Bill.
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: When did you realize it was lust not love?
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: The the bad is gonna have to help us with
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: this one, because I don't know when the butterflies were
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: in my vagina and not my stomach.
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: No, I know that one. Oh what does it mean?
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: She's got the pussy flutters? Oh, fanny flutters. Yeah, don't
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: do that face again, anyone who just saw that face?
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: Don't do that after what you just told me about
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: your eighties fucking downstairs. Yeah, yeah, she's got the fanny
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: flutters when she says it not those nervous ones or
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: like I love this boy more of like okay, well, yeah,
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: that's I mean, she answered the question pretty well. Then
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: when did you realize was lost not love? But fanny
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: flood is not male equivalent of fanny flood. Fucking bonus.
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: Fanny flooters is a nice way of saying lady boner yeh.
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: But I'm thinking, like on a date, do they get
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: fanny flotters, Like I'm not out of here just getting
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: hard on. I don't know whereas I feel like they do,
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: like they're like, oh, this guy's so nice, like he's
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: so hot. Maybe, well, I get butterflies my stomach if
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: you don't get a bone, Like if you're just out
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: and best look at good, you're not just like oh yeah,
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: and they're the same. I don't think they get fanny
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: floods out in public. I did. Ladies are gonna make
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: a choice for you. I'm going to pretend I know
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: what you do, and I reckon, they just get normal
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: butterflies like us, and then you know how you know,
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: let's be real. As soon as you're in a fucking room,
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: I got a bone, any touch anyway? Yeah, touches my army, Yeah, yeah,
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: I dare say, leg yes, one of those fucking old
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: fashioned doorstops. I reckon, that's when they get fanny flotters
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: as well. Have you ever had to like leave a room,
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: you ever boned and you just have to sit down
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: for a couple of minutes. Yeah, but I also don't care. No,
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: that's not what I was going to say, if you
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: if you like it's pretty red. I don't remember last
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: time I was in a public area with like a rage.
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: I remember more like my house, like because you lived
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: with your sister, Like you have to walk out, you know,
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: you have to leave? Yeah, got my room? Yeah? H
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: then like I don't know, you have to go get
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: the water, and you're like, give me like two minutes. Yeah, true,
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: a shuffle. I can't do anything. Do a couple of
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: star jumps, get rid of the blood flow, like I
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: don't care if Beth sees it, obviously from somewhere. I
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: don't want someone to see it. I'm pretty good at
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: you know, you just lifted up the pant puck. Yeah,
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: you get a living straight up. The teenage boy learns
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: the pantuck naturally too. Yeah, no one tells you to
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: do that. Yeah. Yeah, you just tuck it into the
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: top of your pants and it just kind of looks
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: like a big Bolt's time put your shirt. See then,
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: all right, I think it's your n I don't think
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: it is that. Okay, When when did you realize it
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: was lust not love? When I realized he was actually
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: just six four? All he has? Oh yeah, he's just tall. Valid, valid, valid, Yeah,
• 38:19
  Speaker 2: that's valid. I would get past the cork and stages
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: if he was like a giant. True. Have you seen
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: that video of the guy that's like the top zero
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: point zero it's like an aly fan's mode point zero
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: zero one percent, it actually is. Yeah, have you seen
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: the video of the guy that.
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: Someone might have made a comment saying, you know, six'
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: four is not that tall or. SOMETHING i don't know
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: what the actual thing, was but it's a funny. Video
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: when he goes he was, like, bitch he was like
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: six to, Two i'll let you do all these.
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: Things you.
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: Know he's like six, Two, eli you take me off,
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: coffee six to, two my, hand six, Two i'll give
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: you a, kiss blah blah. Blah you, know and he
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: goes six. Four you've got a criminal. RECORD i don't
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: want to know about.
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: IT i don't. Care he's you know WHAT i, mean next?
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: Level yeah he's Got he goes to these hole list
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: and he goes six to. Four, hey go on a.
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: Record don't EVEN i think. That like when a man
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: makes me feel, small it's a couple one of our.
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: Friends i'm, like, fuck you're, big fair and not many
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: people make me feel. Small, no well you're six two nearly? Six? Three?
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah six? Four all, Right, jake let me. Land CAN
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: i please pitch you? Something? YEAH i. Guess remember in
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: twenty twenty three when we did six weeks In bali,
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: TOGETHER i? Do did you have? FUN i? Did, well
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: that's the first TICK i. Say we go round? Two why? Not,
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: look it was, fun but going, there booking all the
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: places and finding the right one was, hard you have to,
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: admit and we are picky. People we are very picky.
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: People but you are about to be. Sold airbnb has
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: this feature called Guests. Favorites it allows you to filter
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: For airbnb's guests have loved the, most so you know
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: you'll love it. Too it literally takes all the you
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: just mentioned out of the. Equation i'm. LISTENING i booked
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: using guest favorites last year when you left me defend for,
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: myself AND i debatably had a better. Time let me
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: show you Poor, yes near the beach, obviously two, bedrooms
• 40:14
  Speaker 2: a big living room and a room to. Edit. Yep
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: and then you just clicked the Guest favorites filter and
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: bang all the most Loved airbanb's by other. GUESTS i told, you,
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: Man airbnb has us. Covered can we book right? Now? Please? Ah,
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: fine let's go To. Valley let's. Go when did you
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: realize it was lust not? Love WHEN i saw him
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: struggling to cut his? Steak who cooked? It? THOUGH i
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: need to know who cooked? It were you at a? Restaurant? Yes? Okay?
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: Fair if he cooked his own, steak or if you
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: cooked it for, him you cannot think it's if you
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: cooked a four of us your. FAULT i don't think it's. Fair,
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: imagine just like this guy is trying to like he
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: got a grisly. Bit, yeah he went, like what's it?
• 40:55
  Speaker 2: Called i'm well? Done? Yeah? Yeah and he's his hair.
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: Going he doesn't want any blood in? It what is
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: a big big? Ick WHEN i see some guys don't
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: know how to use a knife and? Fork, yeah, wit
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: and they put it in like the wrong, fingers and you're,
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: like what are you? Doing?
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: Mate WHEN i am on my own you know how
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: just before we were talking about eating like you, know
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: quick as, fuck When i'm on my own.
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: HANDS i, no, no, BRO i do, that, HONESTLY i don't.
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: Doubt i'm not, surprised and Save i'm watching, up BUT
• 41:27
  Speaker 2: I i'll.
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: Quite often it's like rice and, something AND i quite
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: often use a spoon When i'm on my own watch
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: my YouTube. VIDEO i catch myself sometimes.
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: Very just very. Barbaric, Yeah i'll be like leaned, over
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: elbows on the, table bowl just under my, mouth my
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: phone propped up on, something watching a YouTube, video And
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: i'm scooping up the fork is in, it LIKE i
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: don't have agim. Skies it's. Terrible you know how we
• 41:54
  Speaker 2: talked about your prefrontal lobe has. DEVELOPED i feel like
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: you've gone back a couple of months. There just why
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: it's like a dog eating his food and he hasn't
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: eaten for like a. Week, well we ate in public,
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: Today how did we? Go it's like we do that really?
• 42:11
  Speaker 2: Good no one was around. Us sounds. Good, YEAH i
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: feel LIKE i got a lot of stuff in my,
• 42:14
  Speaker 2: mouth a few things on the. Teeth. Yeah and at the,
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: end you know WHAT i did, DO i put it
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: on the corner AND i went like this might as
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: well get it all. Out, yeah it tastes. Great that's
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: a compliment to the. Chef, yeah compliments they fast. Boy
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: you don't know this. Yet it's gonna blow your. Mind the.
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: Gym we just signed up to ten percent of ALL gyg.
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: Orders we should have done. Today what are you talking?
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: About he has a deal WITH gyg dare or. Not
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: how the fuck does some local. Gym when you get
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: that that's hacked, you you'll get an email about, it
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: probably today or tomorrow because you signed up. TODAY i
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: saw it AND i was, like this is the best
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: thing ever he's, Got like he's got one, flight nutrition
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: and all that bad. STUFF i was, LIKE, gyg, say
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: Let's i'm going to bank my money of the. Gym
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: if a monthly personal. Trainers if a personal trainer is RECOMMENDING,
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: gyg you and you want it? Right? Yeah his? Hand all?
• 43:02
  Speaker 2: Right when did you realize it was lost not? Love
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: right after the post not? Clarity did a guy send
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: that in, yeah oh. Shit i've never had it like,
• 43:13
  Speaker 2: immediately like when we're in the same. ROOM i only
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: get post cut clarity when When i'm. Masturbate i've had
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: like AFTER i was, like oh that was the, Best
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: But i've never had been like oh, fuck that's. Chat.
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: YEAH i suppose some guys like don't listen to their
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: brain and listen to their willy then they have sex
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: or person Where i've never listened to MY willi, yeah,
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: okay that THINGS i got to. Control when does it
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: sound like it when you've got to leave rooms because
• 43:37
  Speaker 2: you have a? BONER i Know i've got, control like
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: where MAYBE i. Don't when did you realize it was
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: lust not? Love when the sex started to feel like a? Chore?
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: Heavy that's. Heavy. Fuck sex is never felt like that for.
• 43:55
  Speaker 2: Me heavy, Heavy i'm excited like it's the first time every. Time. Yeah,
• 44:05
  Speaker 2: NO I i don't Think i'm the most like sexually,
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: driven but when it comes down to, It i've never
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: been mid sex thinking oh, god this is you know
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: What i'm, saying like whenever it Happens i'm in the. Movie,
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah i've never thought of it as a. Chure it's, like,
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: oh you've done with it. Already my. GOD i mean
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: that was. Sent we haven't been married for like twenty,
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: years SO i don't. KNOW i hope that doesn't. Happen.
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: Hopefully maybe what's what's a tactic around? That do you think? Love? Yeah, yeah,
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: okay no.
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: Argument you answered my. Question when did you realize it
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: was lust not? Love WHEN i REALIZED i was just, Ovulating.
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: Oh, FACTS i don't know how to, Relate BUT i
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: think a lot of people will find that. Relatable. Heavy,
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: yeah very, heavy. Heavy couple. More when did you realize
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: it was lust not? Love WHEN i craved his presence
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: at two, am but not his personality at two? Pm
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: that's fucking. Sick that's a good one, Man and this
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: one's good, TOO i, mean poor. Guy, yeah Fucking when
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: did you realize it was last not? Love when he
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: was no longer in his? Suit oh, stop there's a
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: thing with girls loving guys in. Suits OH i THOUGHT
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: i was putting it in as if it's like after their.
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: Wedding oh it could have been that. TOO i didn't know.
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: That oh that's. Bad that's worse than WHAT i. THOUGHT i,
• 45:39
  Speaker 2: thought like he's dressed up and he looks all, dapper
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: and then they have sex and then he's in his normal.
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: Clothes he's, like, oh, yeah what's? That but your one's way.
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: Worse it's the First, yeah, shit why did he takes
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: his suit? Off honeymoon? Vibe he's, like what HAVE i? Done?
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: Well should we still more in? Suits to? Work we
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: don't go to. Work bring. It, look we don't have,
• 46:01
  Speaker 2: jobs but we can pretend we work at. Home you
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: can put a seat. On. No we got invited to
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: event where it was, cocktail suit and tie and we, said, no,
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: okay we're got invite it to an event that was
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: called what was it called Most Influential? People? Yeah someone? What,
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah we're, like we're not going to something called that's
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: what's the Word i'm looking? For, like tell me your
• 46:21
  Speaker 2: what's the? Word what do you? Call with arms on
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: the table before? Decor, yeah there's too much decorum, there. Mate,
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: no it's like if people are getting to, this it
• 46:32
  Speaker 2: would have been all, influencers right because it's called that
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: most Influential. PEOPLE i just think as soon AS i saw, it,
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: look no, hate no towards. THEM i hope they do. Well,
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: yeah they're celebrating. Something i'm not one hundred sure what it.
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: Is BUT i just was, like tell me you're fucking
• 46:47
  Speaker 2: out of touch without telling me you're out of. Touch,
• 46:49
  Speaker 2: yeah tell me you're up yourself about telling me your op.
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: STUFF i don't, know you know WHAT i. Mean, yeah
• 46:53
  Speaker 2: went in the group AND i was, like that's not
• 46:54
  Speaker 2: a very good. Name, NO i don't want to go to.
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: That it's like if you had a birthday party and it's,
• 46:59
  Speaker 2: said LIKE i don't, know come. CELEBRATE i don't mind
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: it being a. BIRTHDAY i don't know if someone's. Birthday
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: if someone's having a birthday and the day about, them
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: it'd be actually don't. Mind it'd be like it's my
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: birthday on the. Best but to be honest with, YOU
• 47:12
  Speaker 2: i actually don't hate. THAT i honestly don't hate. That
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: but to get invited to an event that's called we're
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: celebrating the most influential, people fuck. Off i'm. Sorry i'm so.
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: Sorry we're not gonna go to. That i'm so. Sorry,
• 47:24
  Speaker 2: Sorry we're too good for. It that's why next up Is.
• 47:40
  Speaker 2: Dilemmas you know what to do by. Now it's pinned
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: in the episode and also link in bio On. Instagram
• 47:46
  Speaker 2: scroll at the bottom and it says. Dilemmas submit. Them
• 47:48
  Speaker 2: they're going great and we're trying to get to them.
• 47:49
  Speaker 2: All and also On patreon there's an Exclusive dilemmas tab
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: where we get to all The patreon ones on, there
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: so you're more likely there's like a tenth lesson. There
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: it's way way. Less yeah yeah, Yeah AND i like
• 48:01
  Speaker 2: to read them all On. Beija same. Here we can't
• 48:04
  Speaker 2: literally not possible all right. Dilemma my boyfriend AND i
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: have been dating for just under three, months but we've
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: been close friends for about fifty six years before. That
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: when we decided to take our relationship to the next,
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: level he was really, affectionate constantly reassuring, me hugging, me cuddling,
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: me kissing, me doing all. That but, lately, though it
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: feels like it's become very. Rare the only time we
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: cuddle is in, bed And i've noticed that he only
• 48:32
  Speaker 2: seems to do it when he wants to be. Intimate
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: he's not a fan OF, pda WHICH i totally understand and,
• 48:38
  Speaker 2: respect But i've told HIM i need more. Reassurance he's
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: been busy refurbishing his house with his, brother so when
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: we hang out it's usually with friends or family or
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: alone or alone time is mostly limited to when we're in.
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: Bed right, Now i'm struggling to remember the last time
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: he kissed me without it being related to. Sex i've
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: already mentioned THAT i need. Reassurance i'm nervous to bring
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: it up. Again what SHOULD i? Do, Okay, oh not
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: gonna lie. RELATABLE i. Know that's why WHEN i read,
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: THAT i was, like, Damn LIKE i got to take
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: a couple things away from, that not THAT i do.
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: It beth And i've had this conversation we we are
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: nowhere near it's affectionate as we used to. Be AND
• 49:20
  Speaker 2: i was talking about, it AND i was, like, obviously
• 49:23
  Speaker 2: you know a little ways in that you have sex
• 49:24
  Speaker 2: less and, stuff but at the start you're so touchy,
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: feely the honeymoon stage and all, that and it's AND
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: i still feel all the. Love But beth AND i
• 49:32
  Speaker 2: were talking about, it AND i was even saying, LIKE
• 49:34
  Speaker 2: i need, to you, know kiss you. MORE i want
• 49:37
  Speaker 2: to come up and cuddle you more and.
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: Stuff AND i Think i'm trying to think you've said it.
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: Once i'm sure he said, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: but the only THING i can relate to is actually
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: also having kind of stopped doing, it but BUT i
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: want to do it.
• 49:54
  Speaker 2: More it's sound. INTERESTING i think this one's very hard
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: because it's the extra element of he's only doing it
• 50:01
  Speaker 2: when he wants, sex so he sort of knows that
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: that's what he. Should it sounds like he should know
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: what he's meant to, do but he only does it
• 50:10
  Speaker 2: when there's sex on the, cards which is hard to.
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: Hear as the, partner it's, interesting how could, she do, you?
• 50:17
  Speaker 2: RECKON i was even just, thinking like if you think
• 50:20
  Speaker 2: his intentions are, good which they could, be and he
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: could just be an idiot and he, only LIKE i don't,
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: know puts two and two, together that he has to
• 50:26
  Speaker 2: kiss when he has, sex but he doesn't understand the
• 50:28
  Speaker 2: reassurance you, need do, you? Reckon you could just be,
• 50:30
  Speaker 2: like come over and hug me LIKE i love a long.
• 50:32
  Speaker 2: Hug me and my girlfriend love a long.
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: Hug to be, Fair, LOOK i always Hug beth WHEN
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: i see, her give her a, kiss but it's in
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: between then and going to bed where there's no more
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: of it.
• 50:44
  Speaker 2: Anymore WHICH i don't think is.
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: Abnormal but, Yeah i'm just trying to think here BECAUSE
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: i saw a THING i heard on the, Radio, yes,
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: okay on the radio that someone smart on this. SCIENTISTS
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: i love the. Radio that there's different types of, obviously
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: there's like a bunch of different types of. Intimacy there's
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: all these different, things, Right and.
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: Have you ever it's not an abnormal? Thing have you ever?
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: FELT i think it's a lot more common in women
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: is when your partner touches. You for, me it's When
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: i'm completely caught off guard with.
• 51:28
  Speaker 2: It, Right.
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: Not THAT i don't want to be touched by my
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: partner and THAT i. Don't it's not THAT i dislike,
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: it BUT i don't like. IT i get a fight
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: or flight response When i'm not.
• 51:41
  Speaker 2: Ready for, it and it's and it's a. Thing it's
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: like showing.
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: Intimacy timing is actually a very very huge part of, it,
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: apparently SO i set on the, radio, Mate uh, NO
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: i a.
• 51:51
  Speaker 2: Huge part of. It i've talked to my girlfriend about. Timing,
• 51:53
  Speaker 2: yeah timing for me is humongous because there's times where
• 51:58
  Speaker 2: AND i think it's very.
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: Relatable i'm sure the girl that's dilemma in and people.
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: Listening have you ever had your, boyfriend you, know touch
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: you and you're, like you get off of.
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: ME i.
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: Don't it's not an abnormal, thing like you don't dislike your,
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: boyfriend you're not not attracted to.
• 52:12
  Speaker 2: Him it's a timing of. Intimacy so that's a major.
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: Thing AND i think your, BOYFRIEND i don't want to
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: give him too many what's the word benefits of the? Doubt,
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: yeah but MAYBE i know you have said. SOMETHING i
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: do believe he should act on. It but maybe if
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: you want, more it's not a bad idea to maybe
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: try and work out the, timing have another chat with.
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: Him it's totally. Fine, say, LOOK i know we spoke
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: about it. ONCE i really want to try more as.
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: WELL i heard about this timing intimacy, Thing like what's
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: the best thing for? You do you THINK i don't
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: want to catch you off, guard to make you think
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: you get off of. ME i want it to be
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: pleasant for.
• 52:54
  Speaker 2: You, Yeah, like when's the best time to be intimate
• 52:57
  Speaker 2: without the sexual side of, things because which is. Relatable
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: he might be really tired after work and the last
• 53:03
  Speaker 2: thing he wants to do is just, LIKE i don't,
• 53:05
  Speaker 2: know cuddle because he doesn't LIKE, pda which is, okay
• 53:07
  Speaker 2: which is fair if that's what he. Wants but if you, say,
• 53:10
  Speaker 2: like when's the best time and he, SAYS i don't,
• 53:11
  Speaker 2: know like BEFORE i go to, work and you just
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: start giving a little kiss before work or a little
• 53:15
  Speaker 2: hug going to kiss before work, timing we're very much
• 53:18
  Speaker 2: alluding to the benefit of the doubt that he has good.
• 53:22
  Speaker 2: Intentions oh, yeah of, Course, yeah That's i'm hoping for
• 53:25
  Speaker 2: the best, here of, course, obviously WHICH i am, Too
• 53:28
  Speaker 2: but otherwise bad side of. Things definitely have another conversation
• 53:33
  Speaker 2: and if he doesn't act on set, actions it should
• 53:35
  Speaker 2: be fine to have a conversation and be, like this
• 53:36
  Speaker 2: is WHAT i need in a relationship and he doesn't
• 53:38
  Speaker 2: realize that when you can. Reassess BUT i think the
• 53:41
  Speaker 2: timing conversation is really good because it makes him comfortable
• 53:45
  Speaker 2: and you, comfortable and also tell him when you want timing. Too,
• 53:47
  Speaker 2: yeah you gotta. Do it needs to be it's you
• 53:50
  Speaker 2: and him against the, problem it's not you against. Him.
• 53:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah i've also had conversations with my girlfriend about like
• 53:54
  Speaker 2: timing to have, Sex LIKE i could kiss her or
• 53:57
  Speaker 2: she could kiss, me and then we're, ron BUT i
• 53:59
  Speaker 2: don't don't move quick. Enough, yeah and then ten minutes
• 54:02
  Speaker 2: goes past AND i try and it's. Gone, Yeah i'm
• 54:04
  Speaker 2: A i'm a shocker with. That. Yeah, Same, okay that's
• 54:07
  Speaker 2: one of the hardest things MEN i saw with. Timing
• 54:10
  Speaker 2: but here the thing with me IS i could be
• 54:12
  Speaker 2: totally not, horny and then Once beth AND i let
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: make out a, Bit i'm, on you can't stop. Him i'm,
• 54:25
  Speaker 2: on and the eighties coming. Out, yeah you're. Kidding it's
• 54:30
  Speaker 2: like a. Cushion it's like the PHEROMONES i can. Smell
• 54:37
  Speaker 2: MAYBE i shouldn't be. Stuf that's no. Good but yeah that.
• 54:44
  Speaker 2: Babe SOMETIMES i think to, Myself, oh why AREN'T i more,
• 54:47
  Speaker 2: horny just you, know looking at her from a. Distance you,
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: KNOW i JUST i think people get super worried me
• 54:57
  Speaker 2: included in past. Relationships, YEAH i think people get supper
• 55:02
  Speaker 2: and being. Relatable opposite end of the. SPECTRUM i Think
• 55:04
  Speaker 2: i'm too. Horny, Yeah LIKE i get horned just by doing,
• 55:07
  Speaker 2: it like looking at my girlfriend and, like oh so.
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, see here's the thing, Is i'm at. Times i'm
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: the same at, times but not all the. Time, yeah
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: it's it's sound LIKE i DON'T i.
• 55:18
  Speaker 2: Don't like to look at my. GIRLFRIEND i love that.
• 55:21
  Speaker 2: Sound you know when the most annoying TIMES i get
• 55:23
  Speaker 2: horny is when we're in a fucking public. Place that's the.
• 55:27
  Speaker 2: Worst it's so annoying bad in. Public not With. Beth, No,
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: No i've done it. Once it's not as good as
• 55:37
  Speaker 2: it is as it's. Like, no it's stressful as fun. Portrayed,
• 55:41
  Speaker 2: NO i. Won't i'm going to stop.
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: Talking next, dilemma my boyfriend of two and a half
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: years now AND i started as friends with. Benefits he
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: was still sending nude photos to other girls and kissed
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: his friends girlfriend's friend a month before we started going,
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: out when we knew there was more feelings than friends of,
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: benefits but we weren't boyfriend and. Girlfriend in the first
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: three months of our, relationship he would go out drinking
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: with work colleagues and was always posting on females Private
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: instagram spam accounts and said things like in, quotes behave
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: you to?
• 56:21
  Speaker 2: Them sorry to? Them oh pause right, now wherever the
• 56:25
  Speaker 2: butter is of this? Bloke he sounds?
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: Terrible or the butt, yeah like we're about to find
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: out if there's a butt yeah to the am and
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: she said that she would like pass that by she
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: let it. GO i didn't find out about the nude
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: photos scent a month before he asked me to be
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: his girlfriend until a year into our, relationship AND i
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: eventually forgave, him even though it hurt me so. Much
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: we are two and a half years in now AND
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: i still compare myself to these people online AND i
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: just can't seem to get over, it even THOUGH i
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: told MYSELF i forgive, it and he's changed everything so. Much,
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: yeah DO i keep working on getting over? It or
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: AM i stupid to have even forgiven him in the first,
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: place even though he's changes actions now and hardly ever
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: talks to.
• 57:05
  Speaker 2: Females do you have any? Advice? Thanks love the. Pod
• 57:08
  Speaker 2: by the, Way, okay this is actually very. TRICKY i
• 57:11
  Speaker 2: had a thought to myself the other, DAY i was
• 57:13
  Speaker 2: gonna bring it up with my. Girlfriend you can be
• 57:16
  Speaker 2: the next best. Thing i'll take. It whatever Was how
• 57:21
  Speaker 2: often in relationships do you think people say one thing
• 57:26
  Speaker 2: because they think it's the right thing to, say but
• 57:29
  Speaker 2: in reality their feelings don't feel the same way as
• 57:31
  Speaker 2: what they just, said which is what happened right. Here
• 57:37
  Speaker 2: socially a lot because they don't want to face the. Confrontation,
• 57:42
  Speaker 2: yeah WHICH i think is so relatable for me for.
• 57:45
  Speaker 2: Anyone is, like you just want the problem to be,
• 57:47
  Speaker 2: resolved so you say one, thing but in, reality your
• 57:50
  Speaker 2: heart or your soul or only things like this obviously hurt,
• 57:54
  Speaker 2: you which is. Fair fucking. Know whatever he did at the,
• 57:57
  Speaker 2: start especially the newdi, thing is weird and insane makes
• 58:00
  Speaker 2: you feel, insecure especially because you're comparing yourself to her.
• 58:03
  Speaker 2: Now tips, wise, THOUGH i you know what. Indicase it's
• 58:09
  Speaker 2: hard because of the time. Frame, NOW i think it's
• 58:12
  Speaker 2: the time frame makes it, hard, right two and a
• 58:13
  Speaker 2: half years makes it. Hard but.
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: Maybe something you need to think about is it's been
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: two and a half years and you're still feeling this.
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: WAY i, AGREE i was WHAT i was going to get.
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: It it's been a year and a half since you found.
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: Out it's a four year and a half and you're
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: still feeling this. Way do you want to marry someone
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: that you're not secure being.
• 58:31
  Speaker 2: WITH i think this is a good exercise to practice
• 58:35
  Speaker 2: voicing your. Feelings, yeah. TRUE i think it's just it's
• 58:43
  Speaker 2: probably a really tricky thing for her to bring up
• 58:45
  Speaker 2: there as, well because she has said to him that
• 58:51
  Speaker 2: so he's, apologized he's changed his, actions she has accepted, apologies,
• 58:55
  Speaker 2: Right and then, again you Don't she probably doesn't feel
• 58:59
  Speaker 2: as though she wants to keep bringing stuff up in the,
• 59:01
  Speaker 2: past but she's not one hundred percent over. It Maybe
• 59:04
  Speaker 2: i'm not one hundredercent. SURE i don't even. KNOW i
• 59:07
  Speaker 2: guess is it something that you can get over if
• 59:10
  Speaker 2: it's been this long is a. Question, WELL i think
• 59:12
  Speaker 2: she's looking for some type of closure and if in the.
• 59:15
  Speaker 2: Relationship she can't come to this safe environment where she's, like, hey,
• 59:20
  Speaker 2: Babe i've just really been thinking about the. PAST i
• 59:22
  Speaker 2: KNOW i was a year and a half, ago but
• 59:24
  Speaker 2: she's been eating me up AND i want to talk
• 59:26
  Speaker 2: about it more and like resolve the, issue AND i
• 59:28
  Speaker 2: want to tell you HOW i. Feel she can't if
• 59:30
  Speaker 2: she's not in an environment to do. That, yeah is
• 59:32
  Speaker 2: that an environment you want to be? In? Yeah even
• 59:36
  Speaker 2: if we IF i had a fight with my girlfriend
• 59:37
  Speaker 2: we first start dating a year, ago and then she just, goes,
• 59:40
  Speaker 2: Well I've i've been thinking about that, fight aldi Like
• 59:43
  Speaker 2: i've changed my opinion on, that AND i just dismissed. That,
• 59:46
  Speaker 2: yeah that wouldn't be. Good but IF i was, like, okay, yeah,
• 59:49
  Speaker 2: come what's your new, Conclusion like we'll get let's work
• 59:51
  Speaker 2: through this, together that's how it should. Be, Yeah i'm
• 59:53
  Speaker 2: trying to think of how i'd feel, if, yeah you
• 59:55
  Speaker 2: had a big, fight because you're allowed to change your opinion.
• 59:57
  Speaker 2: Too even if they said they're resolved, it then she's,
• 59:59
  Speaker 2: Like i've been thinking about it more and actually really hurt.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 2: Me which is the right thing to.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: DO i guess if you're gonna do, that, right maybe
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: one thing you would want to think of is what
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: is like the best? Outcome, then, really if you're gonna
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: if you're gonna be what is the best? OUTCOME i
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: suppose unless you don't really know the, outcoming you just
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: want to work through it with.
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 2: Him the outcome is to make her feel more secure
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 2: in the, relationship tell, you, oh here we. Go actually
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 2: it is hard, though because if she said that his
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 2: actions have, changed does that mean that he is making
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 2: a feel more school than secure in the. RELATIONSHIP i
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 2: think at the start of the, relationship what he did
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 2: before they started dating made her lose trust with, him
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 2: and that trust has never been. Regained even though his
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 2: actions are good. Now the thing he didn't start is
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 2: worse than everything else he's done in the. Relationship SO
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 2: i guess the only person who's going to know is
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 2: can this guy rebuild the? Trust and is this conversation worth? Having?
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 2: True the thing that's tough as well is that you
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 2: found out a.
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: Year so at that point in time you were, Like,
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: okay well we've been together for this whole, Year LIKE
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: i need to forgive.
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 2: Him you probably felt like you had. To what would
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 2: you do if you, like that's not a nice like
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 2: you thought you were talking to this, girl, right and
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 2: then you like found out he was doing all this
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 2: commenting ON i forgot what you, said all that weird
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 2: stuff about saying like, yeah you're sexuy and then sending
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 2: news to girls left front and center one month before
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 2: we started. DATING i just want to, say, like, oh,
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 2: no here we. Go what you are feeling is completely valid,
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 2: facts and you have complete right to bring this up with,
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 2: him even though the timeframe makes it. Tricky, yeah, no,
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 2: AGREED i didn't. Think, YEAH i don't want it's hard
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 2: to put yourself on someone's shoes when you're not actually
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 2: when you can't actually feel. It, yeah, yeah, yeah trying to.
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 2: Relate but that is hard just because how long it's
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 2: been and, like but like everyone deals with grief in different,
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 2: Ways like it's taken a year and a half to,
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 2: realize Like i'm not okay with, this true, True LIKE
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 2: i THINK i should break up with. Him that is an. Option, maybe,
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah LIKE i don't, know maybe you should bring it
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 2: up with, him see what his if he's like, mad dismissive,
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 2: him be like those ARE u go. Bobes that's that's
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 2: not the right. Response that's not what you want to.
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 2: Hear but if he's WHAT i said before and he's, like,
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: okay let's deal this, together, Like i'm SORRY i made
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 2: you feel that. Way that was before we. MET i
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 2: didn't realize how much of the sickest bit you or. Wherever,
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 2: yeah if he goes like that, way he's, like let's
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 2: work through. This how CAN i rebuild your? Trust that's
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 2: what did the answer you? Want, yeah a good response
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 2: is how can we work through this together and make
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 2: a life easier for? You but he's mad dismissive of
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 2: you and your, emotions which are, valid then maybe that's
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 2: time to realize that you might never trust this man. Again,
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 2: yeah you know what, audio we fucking did? It all?
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 2: Right bring it? Up, okay, yeah bring it up in
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 2: the sense OF i know.
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: THIS i know, that BUT i need to let you
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: know How i'm feeling right now And i'm not over
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: it and it's still really really really. Hurts and it's his, response,
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: right his initial, RESPONSE i bet, you is going to
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: be defensive because he probably doesn't like the fact that
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: he hurt you because he loves. You, yes all, right
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: but his response needs to be very like what he just.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: Said it needs to be how can we work through this,
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: together because then you can, trust, yes that you can
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: bring stuff up with him. Exactly so then there's a
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: little bit of trust rebuilt slow.
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 2: Roads it is slow. Building trust is. SLOW i think
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 2: that's the way he gets a fucking Good, yeah, mate
• 1:03:19
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