Latest / Tea Time w/Amie & Bev / Episode #241: From Thought to Manifestation
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- 0:02Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, welcome to tea time with Amy and Bev.
- 0:04Speaker 2: What's up, sister?
- 0:08Speaker 3: Not all a lot? I mean I say that, but
- 0:10Speaker 3: it's like I never know. We have these conversations and
- 0:14Speaker 3: it's like I don't today, It's like I have no idea.
- 0:18Speaker 3: I was like, okay, Spirits, like what's like up to
- 0:20Speaker 3: you God? Like whatever you guys want to throw in
- 0:22Speaker 3: the mix today.
- 0:23Speaker 2: That's what I was doing on the way home.
- 0:25Speaker 1: So I got about a fifteen probably twenty minute drive
- 0:28Speaker 1: home and I'm like, all right, same thing. All right, spirit,
- 0:33Speaker 1: what's the topic today tonight? What are we going to
- 0:36Speaker 1: talk about? And don't know, I'll just lead off with
- 0:40Speaker 1: divine timing and then we'll go from there. It can
- 0:42Speaker 1: go wherever we decide it's going to go. So I
- 0:48Speaker 1: have a new new project, I guess you will call
- 0:54Speaker 1: it because I need something else to do starting in
- 1:01Speaker 1: February twenty five. And so during just before Thanksgiving, I
- 1:11Speaker 1: reached out to somebody about facility and she said, leave me.
- 1:24Speaker 2: A message and i'll get back.
- 1:26Speaker 1: To after the holidays Thanksgiving. I said, okay, So Monday,
- 1:32Speaker 1: after Thanksgiving I left a message and today's Wednesday, right,
- 1:40Speaker 1: So Tuesday so I left the message on Monday. So Tuesday,
- 1:45Speaker 1: I knew after the holidays, she probably have to get
- 1:48Speaker 1: caught up on things, as we all do, and so
- 1:52Speaker 1: I just figured I'd give it a few days, no
- 1:54Speaker 1: big deal, and then reach out again. So I pay
- 1:59Speaker 1: for a PO box at one of those mailbox things,
- 2:02Speaker 1: you know, and so I typically stopped by there on
- 2:07Speaker 1: my way home. And guess who was there when I
- 2:12Speaker 1: pulled it.
- 2:13Speaker 3: I well, she had.
- 2:15Speaker 1: Pulled in before me and had already gone inside. I
- 2:17Speaker 1: didn't know who it was because I only saw the
- 2:19Speaker 1: back of their head. And then I pulled in and
- 2:22Speaker 1: as I was going in, she was coming out. And
- 2:25Speaker 1: you know, sometimes people just look different and you're not
- 2:28Speaker 1: sure if that's them or not. So it's like, I said,
- 2:32Speaker 1: her name kind of questionable, and she.
- 2:35Speaker 3: Looked at me and she goes, yeah.
- 2:38Speaker 1: I said, I made me Wayne, I'm the one that's
- 2:40Speaker 1: been talking to you about this route, and she goes.
- 2:43Speaker 3: Oh, yes.
- 2:46Speaker 1: So it was just like And then also yesterday Tuesday,
- 2:54Speaker 1: at work, I have this, you know, the tape dispenser,
- 2:59Speaker 1: the filliple type, you know, the desktop tape dispenser. And
- 3:06Speaker 1: I looked over at it and I thought huh, I
- 3:09Speaker 1: need some more tape. Didn't go look for any I
- 3:17Speaker 1: was taking care of something out. I wasn't even using
- 3:20Speaker 1: the tape. I didn't even need the tape in the moment.
- 3:22Speaker 1: I just looked over as that huh, thought I need
- 3:26Speaker 1: some tape, and then went about what I was doing.
- 3:29Speaker 1: I walked away from my desk to go do something.
- 3:31Speaker 1: I came back and there was a roll, not for
- 3:34Speaker 1: the tape dispenser, but a roll of Scotch tape laying
- 3:38Speaker 1: on my desk. So things like that just keep happening
- 3:44Speaker 1: more frequently, and it's just a lot of fun, and
- 3:47Speaker 1: the less the less attachment to something, the quicker it happens.
- 3:55Speaker 1: And I'm just I'm just.
- 3:57Speaker 2: Like, Okay, well this is what I need. And I've
- 4:01Speaker 2: been thinking about this is.
- 4:05Speaker 1: For a while, not on a regular basis, just periodically
- 4:08Speaker 1: I think, oh, I want to get a ring light,
- 4:10Speaker 1: so you know, the ring lights for doing podcasting and stuff.
- 4:14Speaker 1: And one of the ladies at work handed me a
- 4:19Speaker 1: bag of stuff that she said, if you can use
- 4:25Speaker 1: any of this in your office, you're welcome to use it,
- 4:28Speaker 1: blah blah blah.
- 4:28Speaker 2: So I went through it finally.
- 4:31Speaker 1: And guess what, was in that bag a little ring light.
- 4:35Speaker 1: And I went and asked her, I said, is this
- 4:39Speaker 1: something that has to stay in the office or is
- 4:41Speaker 1: this something that I could have and take home. And
- 4:44Speaker 1: she looked at it and she goes, oh, well, this
- 4:46Speaker 1: came from somebody else, and if you want to take it, nice.
- 4:52Speaker 1: So it's just been fun with things like that.
- 4:57Speaker 3: That's all. That's manifestation, right. So we can talk about
- 5:00Speaker 3: manifestation all day long and how easily it happens and
- 5:04Speaker 3: how quickly it happens. Of course, if you don't have
- 5:06Speaker 3: an attachment to the outcome, if you don't have attachment
- 5:08Speaker 3: to a situation or whatever it is, like you said, attachment,
- 5:12Speaker 3: but it is. It is pretty We put so much
- 5:14Speaker 3: pressure on ourselves when we think, oh I need that
- 5:16Speaker 3: or I want to have that or whatever. No, think
- 5:20Speaker 3: about what you would like and let the universe bring
- 5:23Speaker 3: it to you in surprise and delight to you. You
- 5:26Speaker 3: walk out of your office, there's a there's a tape
- 5:28Speaker 3: on your desk. You you're in work, and someone hands
- 5:31Speaker 3: you a bag. It just happens to have a ring
- 5:33Speaker 3: light in it, you know. That's but that's how it works.
- 5:36Speaker 3: That's how it always works as long as we don't
- 5:38Speaker 3: happen to attachment, and as long as I'm not sitting
- 5:39Speaker 3: here thinking, oh, okay, I need this, I need this,
- 5:42Speaker 3: I need this because we know need. The word itself
- 5:46Speaker 3: puts you in a place of constantly needing something, never
- 5:49Speaker 3: being fulfilled. Need doesn't have like it's having love and
- 5:53Speaker 3: hate in the same environment or the same energy. They're
- 5:56Speaker 3: not the same energy. Filling the energy of one or
- 5:58Speaker 3: the other you can't have at the same time. And
- 6:01Speaker 3: so needing something and having something are two different energy
- 6:05Speaker 3: vibrational frequencies, right, So it's just trying. It's it's tapping
- 6:08Speaker 3: into it from a different perspective and then recognizing, God,
- 6:12Speaker 3: there's because I've been doing meditations now for the last
- 6:15Speaker 3: I don't know, three months or whatever, and I'll do them.
- 6:18Speaker 3: I do them at least once a day. If I
- 6:20Speaker 3: wake up at any time in the middle of the night,
- 6:21Speaker 3: I'm doing them. I do them in the morning. If
- 6:23Speaker 3: I wake up early enough, I'll do them then if
- 6:25Speaker 3: I have time. You know, whatever I make there's it's
- 6:28Speaker 3: just always happening. I'm not I'm not scheduled about it,
- 6:31Speaker 3: but I'm not. That's just me.
- 6:33Speaker 1: Man.
- 6:35Speaker 3: It's amazing the information that's out there. It's amazing the
- 6:39Speaker 3: free meditations that you have access to. If you don't
- 6:43Speaker 3: like one person's voice, there's another person to try, and
- 6:46Speaker 3: you could meditate about anything. You know, I was listening
- 6:49Speaker 3: to last night. I couldn't sleep for whatever reason last
- 6:51Speaker 3: couple of nights. So last night I was listening to
- 6:54Speaker 3: different meditations and I'd listened to it and I'd start
- 6:56Speaker 3: feeling this agitated feelings. So it's like I got to
- 6:59Speaker 3: move on to the next, you know, new move on
- 7:01Speaker 3: to something else because I wasn't done. I woke up
- 7:03Speaker 3: this morning and having a realization that, you know that
- 7:06Speaker 3: my whole focus has been I need to go to work,
- 7:09Speaker 3: need right to make money so I can pay my bills.
- 7:13Speaker 3: I want to be able to hang out with kids
- 7:15Speaker 3: more often, and you know, we don't. I don't think
- 7:18Speaker 3: about things because it's like it's not been in my
- 7:20Speaker 3: habit of I'm used to my relationships. You know, we meet,
- 7:24Speaker 3: we come together in the evening after working whatever amount
- 7:27Speaker 3: of time or whatever or whatever, which is really no
- 7:30Speaker 3: time at all. You seem it seems that I had
- 7:33Speaker 3: more of a relationship with coworkers than I ever actually
- 7:36Speaker 3: had with my husband because we weren't together all the time.
- 7:38Speaker 3: I was together with other people. And so now I'm like,
- 7:42Speaker 3: I woke up this morning with such clarity. It's like, no,
- 7:44Speaker 3: I'm this is what I want. I want to be
- 7:47Speaker 3: able to spend more time with freemen and be able
- 7:49Speaker 3: to go travel and do things, and and it's whatever,
- 7:52Speaker 3: whatever that looks like. It doesn't I don't have to
- 7:54Speaker 3: have an ideal idea exactly what that looks like. It
- 8:00Speaker 3: doesn't hurt to have ideas or envision those type of
- 8:04Speaker 3: things how I would like it to look, because there's
- 8:06Speaker 3: so many different things. But it's being but it's playfully doing.
- 8:10Speaker 3: It's not thinking I need to do this, I have
- 8:12Speaker 3: to do this. This is something that's missing. I woke
- 8:15Speaker 3: up and this is how I felt, and I felt relieved.
- 8:17Speaker 3: I felt like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.
- 8:21Speaker 3: And that's from listening to meditations, because I don't it
- 8:25Speaker 3: doesn't matter if you fall sick during the meditation. You're
- 8:27Speaker 3: still receiving information. It's still happening, even if it's you know,
- 8:32Speaker 3: you've talked about a lot of different meditations you've listened to,
- 8:34Speaker 3: but those meditations if we're listening to them, they might
- 8:37Speaker 3: have you might you know, you might be saying powerful
- 8:40Speaker 3: statements that are being stated to you. You may not
- 8:44Speaker 3: hear any of it. I'll wake up and it's like
- 8:46Speaker 3: it's completely off, there's nothing playing at all. I'm like, oh, well,
- 8:48Speaker 3: that's great. I hope I enjoyed that meditation dinner. I
- 8:52Speaker 3: wouldn't have gone off into another space. And it's also
- 8:56Speaker 3: those little glimpses of things that happen I this morning
- 9:01Speaker 3: or last night, I don't even remember which one it was.
- 9:04Speaker 3: I had a man space come up over like almost
- 9:07Speaker 3: like overlaid, just off to my left of it, and
- 9:11Speaker 3: it's like it's just fascinating, like checking in with who
- 9:14Speaker 3: it is, what what is this about? I'm just exploring
- 9:18Speaker 3: so many things, and I think meditation really has opened
- 9:20Speaker 3: up that doorway. And it's not because it was I'm
- 9:24Speaker 3: making myself do it. It's because it's time. It's it's
- 9:27Speaker 3: time for me to do this. You know, if the
- 9:29Speaker 3: seed had been planned and I kept thinking about I
- 9:31Speaker 3: kept wanting to do it and kind of hand him
- 9:33Speaker 3: and hand about it and not doing it at all.
- 9:35Speaker 3: And it's like it's given me so much freedom peace
- 9:38Speaker 3: of mind, tranquility, like just knowing there is more to life,
- 9:44Speaker 3: and and we're all go back to the whole manifestation.
- 9:47Speaker 3: It's I can manifest. We can manifest anything we want
- 9:50Speaker 3: to manifest. You want to manifest a good day, Okay,
- 9:53Speaker 3: you want to manifest a bad day. Okay, it's just
- 9:57Speaker 3: it's just it's you. It doesn't matter. You're still manifesting.
- 10:00Speaker 3: Just like the other day, I went in to get
- 10:01Speaker 3: my oil changed. I sat there for two hours, and
- 10:05Speaker 3: I'm recognizing where my ego comes in, where my eye
- 10:10Speaker 3: comes in instead of my Wii. And because I sat
- 10:13Speaker 3: at this place for two hours, over two hours to
- 10:16Speaker 3: get an oil change, they end up rotating my tires.
- 10:18Speaker 3: That's great. And I get done and I look at
- 10:20Speaker 3: the bill and it was nice because I had a
- 10:22Speaker 3: coupon to go in and was fifty dollars off, So
- 10:25Speaker 3: that was freaking awesome. Right, Oh, you can do an
- 10:27Speaker 3: oil change perfect. I barely had to pay anything for this,
- 10:31Speaker 3: but when I scheduled it, it was for a certain
- 10:34Speaker 3: type of oil because I always use synthetic oil in
- 10:37Speaker 3: my engines always. I have done it forever. It's just
- 10:41Speaker 3: something I learned and I get in there, and it's
- 10:43Speaker 3: like it's got this other oil. I mean, I was like,
- 10:46Speaker 3: I was getting I got pissed. I mean, I got pissed.
- 10:48Speaker 3: I didn't. I was like, when I called you guys,
- 10:51Speaker 3: you told me that I used synthetic. You already knew this.
- 10:54Speaker 3: And so I was getting and then in three minutes like, well,
- 10:57Speaker 3: come on, let's just worry about the next next go
- 10:59Speaker 3: around or whatever. And I was pissed off all the
- 11:01Speaker 3: way home. And then at some point I stopped to process, Okay,
- 11:05Speaker 3: is this my ego that's being upset about this. I'm
- 11:08Speaker 3: not sure why this this exactly happened, but now I
- 11:10Speaker 3: gotta I can look at this from a different perspective.
- 11:13Speaker 3: I can slow down and take a look at this
- 11:16Speaker 3: and recognize it's not something that's happening to me. It's
- 11:19Speaker 3: happening for me for some reason, and it's out of
- 11:22Speaker 3: my realm of expertise at this time, and it's okay,
- 11:26Speaker 3: it's okay. Maybe it means that I'll maybe I'm not
- 11:29Speaker 3: going to have the truck for very much longer, or
- 11:31Speaker 3: maybe I'm gonna trade it in, or maybe I'm just
- 11:33Speaker 3: gonna get another oil change done. A lot sooner or
- 11:36Speaker 3: you know, whatever, whatever the circumstances are, but it's just
- 11:40Speaker 3: to be in that space instead of because I was
- 11:42Speaker 3: at first, I was like, oh, they're doing this, and
- 11:45Speaker 3: they left up and you know what I mean, I
- 11:47Speaker 3: was pissed. And one of the things that I had
- 11:49Speaker 3: said to Freeman was the thing that really pissed me off,
- 11:53Speaker 3: is my time is valuable. Their time is valuable, but
- 11:56Speaker 3: my time is valuable. And I think also recognizing that
- 12:00Speaker 3: our time is valuable. I don't have to defend it,
- 12:02Speaker 3: but it's just recognizing I'm finally at a place where
- 12:05Speaker 3: I actually value my time, where I feel that my
- 12:07Speaker 3: time is valuable. I didn't always feel that way. I
- 12:10Speaker 3: was so giving up my time for massages, for everything.
- 12:13Speaker 3: I would go above almost always be over fifteen to
- 12:17Speaker 3: twenty minutes on a massage, almost always because I wanted
- 12:20Speaker 3: to make sure that they left there feeling good. Otherwise
- 12:22Speaker 3: I didn't feel good because I had to do it perfect.
- 12:26Speaker 3: And now I if I choose to go over a bit,
- 12:28Speaker 3: I'll go over a bit. But it's not the same
- 12:30Speaker 3: it's not coming from the same place that it was.
- 12:33Speaker 3: So it's all that being said, it's all manifestation right,
- 12:36Speaker 3: and I know there's a reason that it happened. I
- 12:38Speaker 3: may not know exactly why it happened just yet, but
- 12:40Speaker 3: I'll find out in the future. And that's okay. I
- 12:43Speaker 3: don't have to know right now. It's not a big deal.
- 12:45Speaker 3: My oil was changed, it didn't cost me that much.
- 12:47Speaker 3: It needed to be changed. My air filters clean, you know,
- 12:50Speaker 3: change tires are rotated. We're good to go for another
- 12:55Speaker 3: three hundred thous while three hundred. But it's being patient.
- 13:01Speaker 3: It's not being so like having to have your thumb
- 13:04Speaker 3: and control and all that stuff on it, which I
- 13:07Speaker 3: had I have done most of my life.
- 13:09Speaker 2: Yeah, I would have for me.
- 13:13Speaker 1: Just listening to you, I think the process for me
- 13:18Speaker 1: because I I probably would have been in that kind
- 13:22Speaker 1: of that same boat at some point is I'm not
- 13:26Speaker 1: being heard, they're not they're not listening to me, or
- 13:34Speaker 1: I'm feeling unimportant because they're not listening like I would have.
- 13:39Speaker 2: I would have probably processed it in that way. I
- 13:42Speaker 2: don't know. Yes, time, of course.
- 13:47Speaker 1: Is valuable, and and that probably would have irritated me.
- 13:50Speaker 1: So yeah, I hear you on that. I'm finding that
- 13:56Speaker 1: I get a little bit irritated at work because there
- 14:02Speaker 1: is a lot of conversation that doesn't pertain to work,
- 14:07Speaker 1: and I have a big list of things to get
- 14:11Speaker 1: done and my time's valuable. I have these hours to
- 14:17Speaker 1: get this stuff done. Is what you're talking to me
- 14:23Speaker 1: about relevant to what I'm doing? Because if it's not relevant,
- 14:27Speaker 1: go talk like, go talk to somebody else, because I
- 14:30Speaker 1: got stuff to do.
- 14:32Speaker 2: Yeah, and I gotta get it.
- 14:34Speaker 1: So it's it's along the same lines. And then I also,
- 14:39Speaker 1: I've had to remind myself again I've shared this before,
- 14:43Speaker 1: and I just come back to it is and it's
- 14:45Speaker 1: a long The manifesting is I will tell myself I
- 14:51Speaker 1: have all the time space and energy I need to
- 14:53Speaker 1: complete the tasks that need my attention today.
- 14:56Speaker 2: And I have.
- 14:56Speaker 1: I seriously last night went to bed saying that to
- 15:00Speaker 1: myself over and over and over and over and over again,
- 15:04Speaker 1: and waking up this morning and on the way to work,
- 15:07Speaker 1: I have all the time space and energy I need
- 15:09Speaker 1: to complete the task that need my attention today. And
- 15:14Speaker 1: it was a smooth.
- 15:14Speaker 3: Day, like.
- 15:17Speaker 1: When you focus on what you want and then the
- 15:20Speaker 1: doors open.
- 15:22Speaker 3: Yeah, people leave me alone.
- 15:24Speaker 2: People don't have.
- 15:27Speaker 1: Conversations with you that that don't need to be had.
- 15:31Speaker 1: They it just worked out today and things flowed.
- 15:37Speaker 3: Yeah, that's nice. And I can even go back for
- 15:40Speaker 3: the oil change. I could have when I first came
- 15:41Speaker 3: in and said, hey, you guys are putting synthetic in, right,
- 15:44Speaker 3: you know, I could have clarified that and didn't. I
- 15:46Speaker 3: just you know, someone had mentioned it the last time
- 15:48Speaker 3: I talked on the phone, and there's too many people.
- 15:50Speaker 3: So it's like when you look at it, it's a
- 15:52Speaker 3: different So it's like I wasn't gonna at first, I
- 15:55Speaker 3: was pissed off. I wanted to be pissed off with them,
- 15:57Speaker 3: and then it's like afterwards, it's not I'm not going
- 15:59Speaker 3: to be pissed off them. Why would are you pissed
- 16:02Speaker 3: off at them? There? To me, it's there's no reason
- 16:05Speaker 3: now if I want to go get a fast oil change,
- 16:07Speaker 3: there's like there's places in town you can go get
- 16:09Speaker 3: an oil change and you're in and out there. So
- 16:11Speaker 3: and I know that. So that's up to me. That's
- 16:15Speaker 3: up to me to value my time. Right, It's not
- 16:17Speaker 3: for them to value my time. It's for me to
- 16:20Speaker 3: value my time.
- 16:22Speaker 1: And just that knowledge alone, it might come it might
- 16:26Speaker 1: be important for a next experience, not necessarily with your vehicle,
- 16:31Speaker 1: not even in that that that topic. It could be
- 16:35Speaker 1: totally something else, and you will go, oh, let me
- 16:39Speaker 1: double check that this is what they're going to do exactly.
- 16:44Speaker 1: So it is, it's going to be valuable.
- 16:46Speaker 2: And I'm always interested in.
- 16:51Speaker 1: Like hearing the stories later of yeah, because this happened.
- 16:57Speaker 1: This happened, and I was on my game and I
- 17:01Speaker 1: asked the questions and I did all the things because
- 17:04Speaker 1: I had this other experience that didn't go so well.
- 17:08Speaker 1: So yeah, I pay attention to things like that. For myself,
- 17:12Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, yeah, I can see how I needed
- 17:15Speaker 1: to experience the sucky part to be better in the
- 17:23Speaker 1: next experience.
- 17:24Speaker 3: So and it's being open, right, it's being open to
- 17:27Speaker 3: the flow of that information. You're saying that if you
- 17:29Speaker 3: there was a video that just came out just recently,
- 17:31Speaker 3: Suzanne Gaestman was talking about her boat. I don't know
- 17:34Speaker 3: if you had seen it or not, and if anybody
- 17:37Speaker 3: you have, oh you have it. It goes along with
- 17:40Speaker 3: the lines of what we just talked about, like she
- 17:43Speaker 3: you know, it's listening to spirit, it's listening and knowing
- 17:46Speaker 3: that things are supposed to happen for a certain reason
- 17:48Speaker 3: and not getting so tied into like she was gonna
- 17:52Speaker 3: be understanding she's supposed to get this boat, and everything
- 17:54Speaker 3: was like, you know, synchronicity after synchronicity, and then it's
- 17:57Speaker 3: like it got struck by lightning. They couldn't get it cleared,
- 18:00Speaker 3: like all these things were happening, and she's like, I
- 18:02Speaker 3: know that's my boat. And then finally she's like she
- 18:05Speaker 3: decided just to walk away. Well when she walked away,
- 18:08Speaker 3: she did another search for something else that has it's
- 18:10Speaker 3: fitten through a certain side of slip. And she she said,
- 18:14Speaker 3: if she had looked up this boat initially, she would
- 18:16Speaker 3: have seen that it was bigger than the dimensions that
- 18:18Speaker 3: she was told was her slip.
- 18:20Speaker 1: You know.
- 18:21Speaker 3: So it's like all these things that was divine timing.
- 18:23Speaker 3: It goes back to the same thing because if she
- 18:25Speaker 3: had it put all of her intention and attention into
- 18:29Speaker 3: this one boat, then she would have she would have
- 18:32Speaker 3: missed out on the opportunity of the new one coming,
- 18:34Speaker 3: this other boat coming into play, and then recognizing like
- 18:38Speaker 3: it had the right name for her, like she could
- 18:39Speaker 3: show she could tell you each synchronicity why it was
- 18:42Speaker 3: going on, and to me it's like when you look
- 18:44Speaker 3: at that stuff, it's more about that spirits letting you
- 18:47Speaker 3: know they're along with you every step of the way.
- 18:50Speaker 3: And don't get so caught up into the ideas of
- 18:53Speaker 3: how it's supposed to be. Write the attachment to the outcomes,
- 18:56Speaker 3: because it could be even though you think spirit presented
- 18:59Speaker 3: this to you, this is what it's supposed to be.
- 19:02Speaker 3: There's always something bigger and better. There's always something that's
- 19:06Speaker 3: gonna blow your socks off. Like it's just being open
- 19:09Speaker 3: to that stuff, and the week gets so tied into
- 19:12Speaker 3: it and so pissed off. I drove home pissed off.
- 19:15Speaker 3: You know, to be in that space, it's like you
- 19:17Speaker 3: you limit the view, you limit the information that can
- 19:21Speaker 3: flow into you at that time. You put yourself into
- 19:24Speaker 3: a place of a struggle, anger, like all these other
- 19:27Speaker 3: feelings that don't feel like that. But I didn't. The
- 19:30Speaker 3: thing is, I don't spend that much time there. Okay,
- 19:32Speaker 3: I was there for a little bit, but I didn't
- 19:34Speaker 3: spend that I wasn't in there for a whole day.
- 19:36Speaker 3: I wasn't even in there for half of a day.
- 19:38Speaker 3: So it's like it's and it's nice to be able
- 19:41Speaker 3: to look at the other side of everything.
- 19:44Speaker 1: And I'll just I'll just point out too, for anybody
- 19:46Speaker 1: who's new at listening to us, Bev and I have
- 19:50Speaker 1: had kind of parallel lives, and I can speak for
- 19:54Speaker 1: her as far as this goes. That for her to say,
- 19:57Speaker 1: I didn't hang onto it for a day, I didn't
- 19:59Speaker 1: hang onto it for half a day. How many times
- 20:01Speaker 1: have you We've never we've not been always been in
- 20:04Speaker 1: this space. To do that, we've had to train ourselves.
- 20:07Speaker 1: And you can think about how many experiences you've had
- 20:11Speaker 1: where you've just simple as simple as they didn't put
- 20:15Speaker 1: the right oil in your vehicle, that you're angry, and
- 20:19Speaker 1: then the next day you were angry, and you went
- 20:21Speaker 1: to work and you told all your coworkers and you
- 20:23Speaker 1: told everybody, and then the next day and it just
- 20:26Speaker 1: keeps going on, like days and weeks and months. You're
- 20:29Speaker 1: pissed because that happened, whatever that is you.
- 20:34Speaker 2: Fill in the blank.
- 20:35Speaker 1: And then then the next time you decide to get
- 20:39Speaker 1: your oil change, well, I'm not taking it there. And
- 20:42Speaker 1: now you've drumming up all that anger again because it's
- 20:44Speaker 1: still in there. And so you call somebody out another
- 20:49Speaker 1: come business and to do your oil change. Well, what
- 20:52Speaker 1: if at that new business you run into somebody you
- 20:57Speaker 1: haven't seen in years, you really hit it off with
- 21:03Speaker 1: the mechanics and whatever. Right, Like, there's so many scenarios
- 21:08Speaker 1: that we could come up with as to why you
- 21:10Speaker 1: needed to switch companies to do an oil change or
- 21:15Speaker 1: in anything else. And that is like divine timing. And
- 21:21Speaker 1: that's what we're talking about, that you're being guided for
- 21:23Speaker 1: some reason. But because the oil change didn't work out,
- 21:27Speaker 1: and I'm just using this as an example because that's
- 21:29Speaker 1: what we were talking about. It could be any reason
- 21:32Speaker 1: that something happens not to your expectation, which makes you
- 21:37Speaker 1: move in a different direction, and because you moved in
- 21:40Speaker 1: that different direction, something amazing happened. Yeah, we get so
- 21:45Speaker 1: caught up in the ego like you're talking about and
- 21:48Speaker 1: it should have been done this way and the anger
- 21:52Speaker 1: and the blaming and the point of the finger, like,
- 21:55Speaker 1: but then something amazing happens because things went sideways, and
- 22:00Speaker 1: you're like, oh, and that's what I was talking about.
- 22:03Speaker 1: And I know you know this bit. I'm just saying
- 22:05Speaker 1: it for the audience that the follow up stories like
- 22:09Speaker 1: because this sucky situation happened, the roses bloomed and everything
- 22:16Speaker 1: was amazing. But that sucky situation had to happen for
- 22:21Speaker 1: this other thing to come into your experience, because that
- 22:24Speaker 1: had to redirect you from the journey you were on
- 22:28Speaker 1: or the path you were taken, and to help you
- 22:31Speaker 1: see something differently so that you could crosspaths with that
- 22:35Speaker 1: person you haven't seen in years and you've been thinking about,
- 22:38Speaker 1: or get a certain phone call, or take a certain
- 22:42Speaker 1: road that you typically wouldn't be on, and you had
- 22:45Speaker 1: to take that road on that day for that oil
- 22:48Speaker 1: change appointment. Right, It's just millions of different scenarios. But
- 22:54Speaker 1: the fact is just being open to why things don't
- 22:59Speaker 1: work out to me and I get all the time.
- 23:01Speaker 1: I was like, Wow, it's happening for a reason, and
- 23:04Speaker 1: does it suck? Yeah, But you know what, we're going
- 23:06Speaker 1: to see how this works out.
- 23:10Speaker 3: Does this it just is?
- 23:12Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 23:12Speaker 3: And it showed up on my gauges. So now I
- 23:14Speaker 3: have an opportunity for the next time something happens that
- 23:16Speaker 3: maybe out of my control, that I can you know,
- 23:20Speaker 3: I can see how how is my response to that
- 23:22Speaker 3: that time, Because it's like it doesn't feel good, it
- 23:26Speaker 3: feels good to be happy. It feels good to be
- 23:28Speaker 3: in a space of joy. It feels good to be
- 23:30Speaker 3: connected and to me, all those other feelings disconnect you
- 23:34Speaker 3: from that from source, from that source of that amazing feeling.
- 23:39Speaker 1: Yeah, and it and again going back to it could
- 23:43Speaker 1: be just helping you or whoever be better at communication.
- 23:50Speaker 3: Yes, Okay, I didn't.
- 23:53Speaker 1: I didn't follow up with this is what you're going
- 23:56Speaker 1: to do and and go over it.
- 23:58Speaker 2: I just us zoomed.
- 24:00Speaker 1: Or expected, which we would. I would do the same thing.
- 24:03Speaker 1: I would expect that this is what they're going to do,
- 24:06Speaker 1: and then it didn't turn out. But it's an opportunity
- 24:09Speaker 1: to just get better at communication and maybe that's all
- 24:12Speaker 1: you needed because you're going to need that later on
- 24:16Speaker 1: who knows. Who knows?
- 24:17Speaker 3: It just well because our community Christion is so important.
- 24:20Speaker 3: It's like you think about if we're going to go
- 24:22Speaker 3: be on stages and have conversations with people, we need
- 24:25Speaker 3: to be very clear about things. And that's being becoming
- 24:29Speaker 3: clear about it.
- 24:30Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 24:30Speaker 3: Did I vocalize it once? Like once I got there?
- 24:32Speaker 1: No?
- 24:33Speaker 3: Did I question anything? No? So it's like it's so
- 24:36Speaker 3: easy to put the blame onto somebody else, but it
- 24:38Speaker 3: would be that's not true, it's not a true story.
- 24:40Speaker 3: There's no reason break for me to put blame onto
- 24:42Speaker 3: somebody else.
- 24:43Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so good.
- 24:45Speaker 3: I love stuff like this.
- 24:48Speaker 1: So my friends be open, right, be open to these
- 24:55Speaker 1: things that don't work out, and see what you're learning
- 24:59Speaker 1: from them, and see how you can implement them, and
- 25:01Speaker 1: see how actually some things when sometimes when things are
- 25:05Speaker 1: going sideways, it's because it's creating space for that manifestation
- 25:10Speaker 1: that you've been thinking about and desiring, and so being
- 25:15Speaker 1: open to the flow of how things are working out.
- 25:20Speaker 1: And of course when you're learning something new like this,
- 25:25Speaker 1: or we're reminding you of something that you already know,
- 25:29Speaker 1: then have the conversations with other people. Share this content,
- 25:34Speaker 1: whether it's through conversation or sharing the link, sharing the video.
- 25:41Speaker 1: Then whether it's with us or anybody else, any other
- 25:44Speaker 1: podcaster or influencer, that you share the content with people
- 25:49Speaker 1: because there are other people who are seeking this information
- 25:52Speaker 1: as well. So we're on YouTube, iHeartRadio, Spotify, Speaker, we
- 26:00Speaker 1: do a lot of stuff on social media, mainly Facebook,
- 26:05Speaker 1: So we're on many platforms where you can find this content.
- 26:10Speaker 1: Of course of YouTube, and so it's very easy to
- 26:14Speaker 1: share this stuff with your friends. And be courageous, have
- 26:18Speaker 1: the conversations. Do you have any final words, sister?
- 26:23Speaker 3: Take time to make your own world right. Busy you
- 26:27Speaker 3: want you, but busy isn't going to get Busy just
- 26:29Speaker 3: keeps you running around in someone else's experience. Yeah, I'll
- 26:33Speaker 3: get chicken with your head cut off. So great. Create
- 26:35Speaker 3: your own space. Let's break what you want with it.
- 26:39Speaker 1: That's right, all right, my friends, Thanks for hanging out
- 26:42Speaker 1: with us. Tea time with Amy and Bev, and we'll
- 26:44Speaker 1: see you in the next video if you choose to
- 26:47Speaker 1: hang out with us a little longer, See you soon.
- 26:50Speaker 3: Goodbye,