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Hypnosis to Cleanse The Poisoned Well - Reputation Damage Hypnosis · The Hypnotist

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Welcome to The Hypnotist, the show that gives you inside
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genuine. Issues.
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celebrities CE OS and even royalty Adam Cox, these
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recordings took place live from Evans Clinic in London's world
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famous Harley Street. So get yourself comfortable and
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enjoy today's episode of The Hypnotist.
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Hi, it's Adam here. Now, if you've ever been on the
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receiving end of reputation damage or malicious gossip, you
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know, you know how destructive it can be.
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It's awful. People can say something about
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you. It can damage other people's
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perceptions or relationship with you, and you don't even really
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know that it's happened. There might just be a sense that
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something was said and you notice that something's changed
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but don't really know why something has changed.
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Now, this hypnosis session is all about that because I was
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working with a client where their reputation damage happened
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with inside an organization. They had this new opportunity.
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They took that job and very soon the relationship with the person
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that hired them soured and they called this a poisoned well,
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that someone poisoned the well. And what they meant is, is that
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the reputation damage soured that relationship with the
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person that in their particular role, needed to be a certain way
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because of the politics involved.
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Their career progression was inextricably linked to the
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direct input of the person that hired them originally.
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Now this hypnosis session does 2 key things.
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One, it's about seeing if they can mend or improve the
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relationship by adding value and reconnecting with things from
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the past, but secondly, feeling that.
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If. This relationship within the
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workplace couldn't ever get to that level.
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Why Stein stay in a place where they're not going to be
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appreciated and that their career is going to be limited.
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So it has this element of freeing themselves from this
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double bind of something isn't working, but they have to stay
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there to feeling liberated that actually they are capable and
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they are value and they want to improve that workplace
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relationship and let's say unpoisoned the well.
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But if they can't, they accept it and they move on and they
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find a different career, a different job in a different
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organization because that's the bit that can make it feel that
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very, let's say, disempowering. It's called learned helplessness
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and psychology where you feel like you've got no options and
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you know what you have to do is to continue doing doing what
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you're doing even though it's not getting you the results that
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you want. So if you can relate to this
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idea of feeling that your reputation has been tarnished,
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you want to feel empowered, liberated, or at least that
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you've got other options so you're not dependent on where
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you are, you might get some value from this session.
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Now. It was created for a client that
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was in a particular type of organization.
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Therefore some of the suggestions might be relevant
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for them. This was, you know, kind of meet
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ups in conferences, drinks on the beach and things like that.
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That might not be your specific situation, so ignore any
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suggestions that don't quite fit with you.
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Hone into the ones that are. And if you do want a bespoke
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session built entirely around your circumstances and
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situations, there will be a link in the show notes where you can
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explore how to do that or to free consultation.
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Call with me. For now, though, find a quiet,
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comfortable place where you won't be distracted.
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Or disturbed. Relax.
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And enjoy the session. Take a deep breath in, and as
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you breathe in, breathe in that slow, long breath of relaxation.
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And as you exhale, give permission to release any
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feelings of stress, worry, tension.
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Just allow it to feel like it's leaving your body slowly,
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surely, incrementally in that outward breath.
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And as you breathe in, focus on your eyelids.
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Just imagine tiny tendons and muscles starting to relax,
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almost like your eyelids getting heavier and heavier, and feel
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that relaxation spread up into your eyebrows and then into your
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forehead as you start to recall facial expressions like concern
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or surprise, and just allow those tiny muscles in your
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forehead to release and to relax.
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That's it. Imagine your jaw loosening, neck
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and shoulders letting go of any echoes of tension, and notice
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how you're breathing deeper down into your diaphragm, those belly
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breaths rather than the chest breaths.
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And what's fascinating is that the deeper you breathe, the more
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relaxed you feel. And the more relaxed you feel
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the deeper you breathe. Each breath takes you deeper and
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deeper, relaxed. And as your body relaxes, your
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imagination awakens. I want you to imagine an old a
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library, and in that library is a globe on a brass axis.
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And I wonder if you could imagine spinning that globe
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around, seeing all of those countries that you've lived in
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or visited in the world, and just slow down that globe there
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over the Caribbean. I want you to look at a
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particular island. And as you focus on that island,
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almost feel like your perspective is no longer looking
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at a globe, but being in the sky above the island, floating down
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at sunset. I want you to imagine what it
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would feel like be an invisible detective.
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No one can see you, but you can see and hear everything.
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And I want you to imagine floating down onto a beach in
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Barbados on an evening on a particular date when you and
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your past were there, having an in depth conversation may be
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shared over Scotch whiskey there on the beach and feel that you
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are that invisible detective looking for clues.
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Clues to the type of relationship where words flow.
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Ideas almost telepathically linked, like you're on the same
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page, the same frequency, and embrace that role of being an
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invisible detective to look for clues.
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Clues as to what the recipe for that relationship is.
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Notice how you're breathing in a particular way.
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Notice your muscle tension. Do you look relaxed, calm, at
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peace? Notice your facial expressions,
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your body language? Just get a sense that that
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version of you feels safe, feels comfortable, feels that your
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presence is wanted. But also notice the facial
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expressions and the tonality of the person you're talking with.
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Are they holding eye contact? Are they nodding their head?
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Are they smiling? Is their posture open and maybe
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they're standing or sitting? But all of these things tell you
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a form of calibration. I want you to get a feeling of
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what that would be like to step into that version of you and now
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play detective on the inside. Maybe there's an absence of
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overthinking, an absence of words like can I say this?
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If I say this, how will it be interpreted?
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And more. It feels safe and open to
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communicate, to allow the words to flow.
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Notice how you breathe and breathe that way now.
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Notice your facial expressions, how relax they feel and just be
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that way now. I want you to feel that all of
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the normal pathways that were activated back then are
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awakening and activating now. And sometimes, sometimes people
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change unconsciously. I want you to think back to a
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memory where you might have been cold or distant, caught up in
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your own world, your own problems, and you met with
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someone and there responds to you, changed you.
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Maybe they greeted you with a hug rather than a handshake.
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Maybe they were smiling when they were talking and you found
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yourself smiling. Maybe the rhythm and tonality of
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their voice was full of passion, excitement, enthusiasm, and you
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found that you started talking that way too.
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And if that's been possible for you, it's also possible that you
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can be that person to someone else that when you talk that
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way, you used to, they respond as they used to.
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I want you to imagine floating up out of that memory, observing
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yourself at a different time where there was regular
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communication through chat, maybe WhatsApp, maybe something
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else. Notice the language used, the
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frequency, and notice how different that is the sending a
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formal document that then gets ignored.
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In one case things flow and in the other they become stagnant.
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I want you to imagine seeing yourself, perhaps in a meal,
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discussing ideas and strategies, and notice.
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Notice the dynamic, the proximity.
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Step into that version of you and again awaken all of those
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feelings, thoughts and ideas, giving you a sense that this
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this has been possible. Which means the variable is not
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with you, unless somehow you've changed subtly to create a self
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fulfilling prophecy that works against you.
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I want you to imagine it's the next day there on that island of
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Bermuda, and I want you to imagine finding perhaps an old
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plantation or an old farm, and just imagine seeing one of those
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old stone wells. And I want you to get a sense a
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well works if the water is filtered, if it's used
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regularly. There are two things that can
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happen to that well, to change something that was good and make
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it something unusable. I want you to imagine seeing
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someone poison the whale, not with chemicals, but with words.
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And I want you to think what words would have needed to have
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been said to poison that whale. And if poison is the problem,
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for every poison there is an antidote.
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And I want you to imagine, based on those words, what would be
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the antidote to make that unusable well become usable once
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more. And you don't have to know them
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now. Consider it an open loop, a
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project for your unconscious, a quest.
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And don't be surprised if the antidote is revealed to you in a
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moment of epiphany, a Eureka moment.
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The words just pop into your head.
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That could or will be the antidote to the poisoned whale.
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But the second way that the whale becomes unusable is not
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through poison, it's through stagnation.
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If the water in the well is not regularly used, if it becomes
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stagnant, what wants was clean water becomes infected, flies
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lay their eggs, bacteria starts to grow.
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An antidote won't help that well.
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What would be required is to change the water.
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And I want you to imagine, imagine a point in the future
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seeing a version of you create a catalyst to change the water.
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Maybe that is a meeting, a voice message, an e-mail, something
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that communicates that things in their current form aren't either
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matching expectations or making it worthwhile.
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And maybe that message or e-mail communicates that there is a
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reluctance to walk away from something that could be
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incredible, but a pragmatic acceptance that if it can't get
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back to a level where words can flow, ideas can be shared
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safely, influence can be influential.
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And because time is precious, the best thing to do would be to
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move to an environment, an environment of impact, of
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influence, of strategy, of making a difference.
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And I want you to imagine perhaps three different ways
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that that message could be interpreted or responded to.
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Imagine the 1st is acceptance. If you don't want to be here,
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that's fine. In which case you know, and you
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save months, if not years. And the second response could be
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indifference, complete ignoring. Of valid words, concerns,
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thoughts, hopes and dreams in that message.
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And indifference is exactly the same as acceptance.
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You treat anything other than change as a reason to change.
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I want you to imagine a more optimistic response.
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I want you to imagine that that person gets that message, that
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e-mail, that those words and feels that their life, their
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role, would be worse off without your skills, your capabilities,
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your ideas and your influence. I want you to see an outcome
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where that becomes a catalyst to wipe the slate clean, the
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equivalent of replacing the water in the well.
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I want you to imagine that in the days, weeks and months that
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follow, that words get to flow again, Ideas get shared.
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I want you to see a similar dynamic in that future that you
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know for certainty existed in the past, with an empowering
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belief that if it can't get back to something like that, then you
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don't want it. No need to chase, no need to
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hope. A simple cause and effect.
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Either things change or you change.
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The status quo is no longer desirable for you if your
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unconscious mind feels that it's activated.
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A new awareness of a standard, a desire to see things improve,
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but a quiet acceptance that they may not.
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And that's fine too, Avoiding some cost fallacy of I've
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invested this much time, therefore I need to invest even
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more. If your unconscious mind is
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willing to walk away from anything that no longer serves
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you, let me know by nodding your head.
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And that is courage. That is integrity.
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That is self esteem and self-confidence and self
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respect. I want you to feel that
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sometimes there is a paradox. When something really needs to
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happen. It can be elusive.
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But when you've reconciled, then it doesn't matter what happens.
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You will be fine either way. Sometimes the universe conspires
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in your favor to give you the very thing that you were
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chasing. The moment you're willing to
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walk away. Imagine returning to that well,
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and perhaps it's a bucket on a rope.
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And just imagine, just imagine pulling up that pail of water on
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that rope and seeing the purest, cleanest water that you've ever
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seen. No poison and no stagnation in
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this well anymore. Imagine taking a sip and feeling
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that this is your future, clean. And with clarity, allow yourself
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to go all the way back down to that beach as the invisible
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detective and imagine yourself seeing you there, laughing,
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joking, communicating. But it's now in your future, and
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it's not dependent on who the person is.
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I want you to see that this represents an influential,
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impactful version of you in your future, irrespective of what
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anyone individual does. Feel yourself floating up into
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the sky and then imagine yourself in a old library
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spinning a globe, feeling that the world is indeed your oyster.
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It's now time to return to your present with a new sense of
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strategy, clarity, and a sense of pragmatic acceptance.
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You can want something to happen without needing it to happen,
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and you will act in accordance with your values, not be
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dependent on someone else's. So take a deep breath in through
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your nose and out through your nose.
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Wiggle your fingers, wiggle your toes.
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Connect and calibrate into the here and the now as I now count
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from 1:00 to 10:00 to awaken you.
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Starting to count 123 waking up 456 more alert 7-8.
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Open your eyes. Open your eyes 910.
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Wide awake. Wide awake.
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