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Breaking Down the Breakups · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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Speaker 1: This is Teddy Teapot. Hi, guys, I am finally back,
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Speaker 1: like Teddy Teapot. I have missed you, guys. I've missed
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Speaker 1: sharing what's going on in my life and also hearing
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Speaker 1: from all of you. So much has happened here. There's
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Speaker 1: been so much craziness. Dove is four months old officially
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Speaker 1: sleeping through the night, so we're into a little bit
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Speaker 1: better of a rhythm. Um. Something happened with Slate and
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Speaker 1: she she amputated the tip of her finger. I have
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Speaker 1: never been through something like ah. I am like still
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Speaker 1: at a loss of words on how crazy it was,
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Speaker 1: because it was one of those moments like you know
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Speaker 1: when you think that it was okay and you walk
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Speaker 1: in like Slate was silent. So I walked back into
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Speaker 1: the house and she was just sitting there silent, and
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Speaker 1: I'm like, what's up? You know, like she didn't cry
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Speaker 1: or anything, so I thought like the door slammed like
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Speaker 1: she had already gotten in, and she was like mom,
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Speaker 1: And then I saw her finger on the floor and
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Speaker 1: I was holy crap. So I learned a lot of
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Speaker 1: things because I learned that you're not supposed to put
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Speaker 1: a finger on ice, like the finger that you chop
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Speaker 1: off because I called one, and so I immediately wrapped
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Speaker 1: her hand like super tight, and then I went and
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Speaker 1: put her fingertip on ice, like the piece that had
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Speaker 1: been chopped off by the door. And the first thing
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Speaker 1: one said to me when I called was like, where's
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Speaker 1: the fingertip? And I was like, I put it on ice,
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Speaker 1: and they were like, get it off ice, and I
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Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, like I've re television, I've
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Speaker 1: show I've ever watched. That's what they do. Like I
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Speaker 1: had no idea. I wasn't supposed to. So I took
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Speaker 1: it off. They had me just wrap it and not
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Speaker 1: they don't want it to be cold because then it
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Speaker 1: kills all the nerves. Uh. So then when the ambulance arrived,
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Speaker 1: you know, they took us and COVID was already happening,
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Speaker 1: so Edwin couldn't even come with us, and Slave was
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Speaker 1: just so calm and like, thank god I had a
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Speaker 1: mask on because I could disguise how what a mess
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Speaker 1: I was, because I wanted her to think that like
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Speaker 1: we're we're fine, we're figuring this out, like we're gonna
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Speaker 1: be good. Um. And then we got to the hospital
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Speaker 1: and she had surgery, and they tried to attach the
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Speaker 1: finger back to her finger so that it could be
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Speaker 1: her original fingertip. And so we had about three weeks
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Speaker 1: of that which she was in this huge cast. She
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Speaker 1: had to start learning and we weren't done with school,
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Speaker 1: so she had to start learning to write with her
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Speaker 1: left hand, and she couldn't do any of the things
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Speaker 1: she's used to doing like around the house, I jump
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Speaker 1: on the trampoline, or um play or or right or
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Speaker 1: draw or anything. So she had to start using her
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Speaker 1: left hand. And then it was kind of a waiting
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Speaker 1: game to see if it was gonna heal. We were
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Speaker 1: going to the hyper breck chamber every day, um really
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Speaker 1: just trying to like aid any healing process that we could,
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Speaker 1: and then it ended up not healing, so we had
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Speaker 1: to go in for surgery. And then when we went
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Speaker 1: into the surgery, when she went in, they were like,
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Speaker 1: we don't know what surgery we're going to end up doing. Ideally,
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Speaker 1: will just have to do a skin graph, like that's
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Speaker 1: that's the best one possible for her. It's that will
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Speaker 1: be the quickest healing time, and that's them when they
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Speaker 1: ended up doing, which I'm so grateful too because now
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Speaker 1: we're two weeks out from that and she's able to
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Speaker 1: start using her right hand again. She's out of the
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Speaker 1: cast um, and I mean, but it was it really
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Speaker 1: shows how strong our kids are and how positive they are,
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Speaker 1: and like she was still going on these daily walks
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Speaker 1: with me and talking to me and sharing her emotions,
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Speaker 1: and it's just it's so incredible how much kids pick
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Speaker 1: up from you and how much they know. Like at
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Speaker 1: one point when she looked to me and she was like, hey, Mom,
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Speaker 1: just so you know, this wasn't your fault, and I
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Speaker 1: was like, well, I I feel like it was my fault.
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Speaker 1: I should have told you before I took the trash
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Speaker 1: out like not to follow, like I should have known,
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Speaker 1: and I know the door is heavy, and you know,
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Speaker 1: like all of these things. And she was just like, Mom,
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be fine. So she you know, she is
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Speaker 1: fine now and we're good and we're we're in a rhythm.
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Speaker 1: And it has been a really brutal six weeks with
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Speaker 1: surgeries and healing, and we're finally at the tail end
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Speaker 1: of it and she's re learning how to reuse her
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Speaker 1: right hand and it's it's really been a lot, but
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Speaker 1: it's really shown me like how resilient kids are, and
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Speaker 1: like I have learned so much from my seven year
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Speaker 1: old in these past six weeks, Like she is so
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Speaker 1: strong and I I just am so proud of her.
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Speaker 1: And I'm I'm happy to be back and talking to
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Speaker 1: you guys. I really, you know, felt like I was
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Speaker 1: in a play swear. I was really focusing on family
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Speaker 1: and spending our time together and figuring out a routine
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Speaker 1: that works for us. And we're finally there. You know,
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Speaker 1: We're doing our morning walks as a family. We're having
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Speaker 1: fun with the dogs with the kids. We have a
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Speaker 1: system that works with I'm no longer a home school teacher,
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Speaker 1: which is which is good for my kids. But you know,
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Speaker 1: we are getting back on track, and I am excited
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Speaker 1: to also talk about all this craziness that's happening with
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Speaker 1: all of these divorces. What is going on like so
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Speaker 1: many every night, I can't watch TV at night because
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Speaker 1: my son is our roommate CRUs, Like I think he's
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Speaker 1: going to be living with us in our room until
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Speaker 1: he goes to college. But so I'm like on Instagram,
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Speaker 1: just kind of scrolling around before I fall asleep, and
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Speaker 1: I think there's been over twenty five breakups, and I
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Speaker 1: think it's because of so much craziness with all us
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Speaker 1: all being home to together and people not knowing what
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Speaker 1: to do with their significant other being around so much,
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Speaker 1: so so many different things have come up, and all
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Speaker 1: of my friends relationships and now all of these celebrities,
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Speaker 1: it's all like coming out and some are crazy. So
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Speaker 1: I'm excited to get into it with Justin Sylvester, a k.
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Speaker 1: The Ladies Sitter, who is on um E Daily Pop.
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Speaker 1: He also has just the Sip, which is hilarious, and
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Speaker 1: I'm so excited to dig into all of this drama
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Speaker 1: with him. All Right, you guys, I'm so excited that
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Speaker 1: Justin Sylvester is on with me now to talk all
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Speaker 1: things while celebrity breakups and whatnot. But also he is
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Speaker 1: one of my favorite people and is somebody that constantly
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Speaker 1: teases me, like from the Dinner Party from Hell Part two,
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Speaker 1: what is going on with everybody breaking up? You know?
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Speaker 1: I think it's one of It's a time where people
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Speaker 1: have to really reflect and really look at their relationships
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Speaker 1: and determine if they're worth keeping or not. And I
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Speaker 1: also think it's one of those times, like for anybody
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Speaker 1: whose husband goes to work every day for eight hours
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Speaker 1: or ten hours a day and then goes to the gym.
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Speaker 1: You that eight hours away from your man or your
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Speaker 1: woman is the time where you could actually just be
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Speaker 1: yourself and do your thing and not have to worry about,
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Speaker 1: you know, all the things that are happening in your life.
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Speaker 1: But to sit in a space with your kids and
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Speaker 1: your man for twenty four hours a day. I don't
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Speaker 1: know if the Bradies would have survived this. Carol would
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Speaker 1: have left his asked a long time ago, and they
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Speaker 1: were the perfect family, but they didn't go through COVID
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Speaker 1: and isolation with six kids because I bet you fucking
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Speaker 1: jam would have been at a goddamn boarding and Marcia
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Speaker 1: would have been out of the door. You know, Steve
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Speaker 1: would have ran away. But it would have been a
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Speaker 1: whole another show. But I also think that people are
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Speaker 1: getting confused by you're just together because you're, you know,
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Speaker 1: forced to be together all the time, versus actually spending time.
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Speaker 1: Like I had to say that Edwin, Like, just because
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Speaker 1: we're seeing one another and drinking coffee at the same
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Speaker 1: time in the same location doesn't mean we're actually spending
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Speaker 1: time together. So we have to carve out that time
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Speaker 1: to actually talk and connect and remember what we like
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Speaker 1: about each other. But not everybody is as evolved in
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Speaker 1: relationship and communications like that, you know what I mean, Like,
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Speaker 1: not everybody has everybody's type and crazy. Yes, it's so true.
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Speaker 1: And I tell a lot of my friends like you know, like, hey,
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Speaker 1: I know you and your husband have this thing where,
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Speaker 1: like you know, he goes to work for eight hours,
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Speaker 1: he comes home. You put up with this mood because
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Speaker 1: Tim and you're gonna be you know, and you dated
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Speaker 1: with him for twenty four hours a day on top
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Speaker 1: of your kids gonna be running around running you crazy.
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Speaker 1: You need to have that bottle of wine waiting in
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Speaker 1: your closet so you can pop that cork and sit
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Speaker 1: there for thirty minutes, listen to some Danielle Steel and
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Speaker 1: just get away. It's really important. And I knew the
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Speaker 1: minute when they said March eighteenth was d Day here.
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Speaker 1: They were like, we don't know how long you're gonna
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Speaker 1: be in South Isolation, but you have to go now.
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Speaker 1: The first thing I thought was, Wow, celebrities gonna break
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Speaker 1: up left and right. And the other reason why too.
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Speaker 1: I want to be honest and I want to be
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Speaker 1: clear about this, because people are crafty and you ever
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Speaker 1: noticed around a holiday, celebrities normally break up because it
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Speaker 1: gets lost in the news cycle. So when COVID happened,
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Speaker 1: everyone was more concerned about the deaths, the rising numbers,
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Speaker 1: all of these things. So celebrities were like, you know what,
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Speaker 1: We're gonna break up in December anyway, so let's just
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Speaker 1: throw it here while you know, people are dying from
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Speaker 1: COVID and no one's gonna worry about us, and Don
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Speaker 1: Lemon's going after every celebrity. We're just gonna throw it
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Speaker 1: in here because you don't have to answer for it
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Speaker 1: for the next few months. People would forget about it
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Speaker 1: the next day. Yeah, but I see. The point of
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Speaker 1: the problem is there's been so many now that like
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Speaker 1: during my Instagram searches while I'm sleeping, and I'm I'm
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Speaker 1: just deep, and I need to understand every single breakup.
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Speaker 1: O get confused because there's a it's hard for me
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Speaker 1: to understand when people are like, we're sharing what's going
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Speaker 1: on with you, but then you're not really sharing. You're
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Speaker 1: getting like a two per cent of the truth. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: but nobody ever shares. Everybody says this divorce was amicable,
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Speaker 1: and it's with our loving hearts that we have decided
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Speaker 1: to separate and nest into X, Y and Z. Bitch,
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Speaker 1: you hate that man and you can't even look at
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Speaker 1: him in the face. Well, now that's like the Jamie
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Speaker 1: King Kyle Newman one. They're like we're doing you know,
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Speaker 1: we're all fine with this, and then there's like this
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Speaker 1: is a restraining order this is going on, and you're like, ok.
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Speaker 1: Sometimes the press releases confused me because I'm like, but
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Speaker 1: hold up, but you should never look at the press
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Speaker 1: release for you is kind of sort of a guide
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Speaker 1: to like tell you where this is gonna go. Like
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Speaker 1: Kristen Cavalleyes, for for instance, when they were like, after
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Speaker 1: ten years, we're divorcing. I was like, Okay, this is
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Speaker 1: not going to be clean and nice. She came through
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Speaker 1: and was like we're divorcing, not separating, not going on
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Speaker 1: different journeys that it was like, we're done. I thought
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Speaker 1: that she I mean, I love her, by the way,
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Speaker 1: so maybe I'm biased, like love her. She was on
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Speaker 1: she was on the teapot. I loved her immediately wanted
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Speaker 1: her to become besties. I had to like try to
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Speaker 1: keep it cool. But um, I think she could tell
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Speaker 1: I was like fanning out. Um but she I mean, so,
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Speaker 1: I love the way that she handled because she didn't
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Speaker 1: like give us a bunch of fluff. She doesn't make
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Speaker 1: you feel bad about your own marriage because it's so
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Speaker 1: perfect and then all of a sudden try to give
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Speaker 1: you this perfect version of a divorce. Either. That's where
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Speaker 1: like I get a little bit. I was a little
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Speaker 1: bit repped about the Rachel Hollis and David Hollis break up.
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Speaker 1: Do you know anything about one? Okay? So, Rachel Hollis
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Speaker 1: is like in the motivational speaking space. Her and her
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Speaker 1: husband have a podcast and marriage seminars all about like
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Speaker 1: healthy relationships, setting founderies, like everything, Like they are a powerhouse,
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Speaker 1: so many New York Times bestsellers are in business together.
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Speaker 1: Like honestly, two weeks before the announcement, they did a
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Speaker 1: podcast where like they were like kissing and doing all
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Speaker 1: of these things, like everything is happy as ever, and
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Speaker 1: then all of a sudden they do the announcement that
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Speaker 1: they're breaking up. But there was one thing that he
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Speaker 1: said that I was like, she was like, you know,
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Speaker 1: we're end up getting a divorce. Blah blah, blah, please separate,
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Speaker 1: I mean please um respect to what's going on with us. Enough.
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Speaker 1: But then he wrote in his uh, we've been wrestling
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Speaker 1: with this decision for years, and then all of a sudden,
13:12
Speaker 1: once you see wrestling with this decision for for years,
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Speaker 1: then that kind of throws their business under the bus. Yes, no,
13:22
Speaker 1: but you you brought into them as a couple. You
13:26
Speaker 1: brought into the mantras, you brought into the um, you
13:31
Speaker 1: brought into the business side of them. And yeah, they
13:34
Speaker 1: might be motivational speakers and they might be relationship experts,
13:38
Speaker 1: but there's still celebrities in that field. So when you
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Speaker 1: think about a celebrity and you think about a celebrity marriage,
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Speaker 1: if my husband is opening one of the biggest movies
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Speaker 1: of his career and I know that it's going to
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Speaker 1: hurt his career to leave him that month are that year,
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna chill with him because we built this all together,
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Speaker 1: especially if my career and my reputation is based on
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Speaker 1: what he does. So what what these people did was
14:08
Speaker 1: they held off because they were making money. So they
14:11
Speaker 1: sold you this thing because they were looking out for
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Speaker 1: their pocket as opposed to looking out to telling the truth.
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Speaker 1: But here's the thing. I would have gotten a lot
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Speaker 1: more from hearing the truth from saying, listen, we are
14:25
Speaker 1: struggling right now. We are in this. We are just
14:28
Speaker 1: like you, and these are what we're trying to do.
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Speaker 1: This seems to be working. This isn't working, because then
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Speaker 1: you're not buying a lie. You're buying and then you
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Speaker 1: can relate because a lot of a lot of the time,
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Speaker 1: what happens is you're watching these perfect couples and then
14:44
Speaker 1: you're judging your own marriage and then you're derailing your
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Speaker 1: own marriage because you can't live up to this perfect
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Speaker 1: couple that you're idolizing. But we do this all the time,
14:55
Speaker 1: we idolized couples. We we really sit and we maticulate
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Speaker 1: and we you start to compare our relationships to theirs,
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Speaker 1: and a lot of times it's folk. It's just like Instagram. Though.
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Speaker 1: If you see a couple that takes a photo together,
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Speaker 1: I know, a celebrity couple. In photos, you look like
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Speaker 1: they're happy, they're enjoying each other's lives, are traveling around
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Speaker 1: the world, they're all over the place with their kids.
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Speaker 1: But when you see them in public, they barely look
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Speaker 1: at each other and they're always on their phone, right.
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Speaker 1: I know. Here, here's what I struggle. Like, you know,
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Speaker 1: I do accountability coaching for health and fitness. If all
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Speaker 1: of a sudden, every single day I was eating bond bonds,
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Speaker 1: not working out, not taking care of myself, but still
15:34
Speaker 1: telling my Instagram followers and my clients that I was,
15:39
Speaker 1: that is shady, shady. But how many busness people you
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Speaker 1: know have had light bulb or have done the Brazilian
15:48
Speaker 1: but live, or who have had plastic surgery and say, oh,
15:51
Speaker 1: it's died in exercise, or it's his face cream. It's
15:55
Speaker 1: our face cream. It's called Dr savon Paris and you
15:58
Speaker 1: can get a facelift. Like, let's talk about the truth.
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Speaker 1: I can't be surprised. The statement that got me in
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Speaker 1: hers is when she said, please respect our privacy at
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Speaker 1: this time, because let me let you know something, if
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Speaker 1: you were making money off your relationship being public, bitch,
16:15
Speaker 1: you can't get privacy now that you've broken up. Yeah,
16:19
Speaker 1: if you're gonna put it all on the table all
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Speaker 1: the time, which obviously you didn't, then you're you know
16:27
Speaker 1: you're already you should be should I mean no? But
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Speaker 1: she's gonna wait until she gives the perfect book on
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Speaker 1: how to get divorced, or how to co parent or
16:33
Speaker 1: how to do one hundred and the problem is and
16:39
Speaker 1: she should learn from this because it seems like he
16:42
Speaker 1: is willing to be more honest than she is, because he,
16:47
Speaker 1: you know, kind of sort of let the little you
16:50
Speaker 1: know bleep out. I think that was the way of
16:52
Speaker 1: sticking it to her a little bit, because she looks
16:56
Speaker 1: like she wears the underwear and that withdrawals in that family,
16:59
Speaker 1: and she probably wanted to read his statement. He probably
17:04
Speaker 1: really just like it got approved and then he put
17:07
Speaker 1: it in there right before he let it out. I
17:09
Speaker 1: think you're going to get the truth from him, and
17:12
Speaker 1: I think what she's gonna do is she's going to
17:14
Speaker 1: go on the defensive thinking that he is now going
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Speaker 1: to let everything come out. Yeah, I know it's gonna
17:21
Speaker 1: be brutal, but I've definitely spent some time looking into it,
17:25
Speaker 1: trying to read between the lines. Who have you spent
17:29
Speaker 1: your time doing a little research on You know, I've
17:33
Speaker 1: been dying over this Julian huff split. But come on,
17:38
Speaker 1: you know it was coming. No, I knew it was coming.
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Speaker 1: And the thing that I love about the Julianne. Now
17:46
Speaker 1: that I love that people are splitting. What I love
17:48
Speaker 1: about Julianne and Brooks was that they were transparent from
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Speaker 1: the beginning. They were transparent. She was honest. They weren't
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Speaker 1: trying to him like they were isolating together. They were
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Speaker 1: being very open. She was open about her sexuality. He
18:08
Speaker 1: was open about his intimacy issues and talking about those things.
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Speaker 1: So for me, for a celebrity breakup, this one seemed
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Speaker 1: to be the most honest and the most um forthcoming.
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Speaker 1: And I think that's why people aren't questioning this breakup
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Speaker 1: between the two of them. People aren't, you know, coming
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Speaker 1: out with lies like sources say the real issue was
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Speaker 1: X Y and Z or there was infidelity here, because
18:35
Speaker 1: that's what happens when celebrities break up. And it seemed
18:38
Speaker 1: they say it's amicable, all of a sudden, sources come
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Speaker 1: out of everywhere to try to give you the t
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Speaker 1: But for this one, she had already told us that
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Speaker 1: they were having issues connecting, and for her, it's like
18:51
Speaker 1: it was two years. It was a success for her.
18:54
Speaker 1: It was great to be married, but she didn't stay
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Speaker 1: in a marriage that she didn't feel comfortable and he
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Speaker 1: did either and I respect that fully. Yeah, I do
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Speaker 1: respect that, and I respect that they are both working
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Speaker 1: on themselves and they showcase that and they're not trying
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Speaker 1: to pay it in this perfect picture. I do get it.
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Speaker 1: I feel much better about that than I do when
19:16
Speaker 1: it's like all the smoke and mirrors and twenty Um.
19:23
Speaker 1: But I know we have to take a little break
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Speaker 1: for a second and then we'll figure out who we're
19:26
Speaker 1: gonna talk about next. So justin. The one that really
19:39
Speaker 1: stings for me, and it's maybe the most shocking, is
19:42
Speaker 1: the Kelly Clarkson and Brandon Blackstock. Like I'm one, I'm
19:47
Speaker 1: obsessed with Kelly Clarkson and so are my kids. Um,
19:50
Speaker 1: we love her so much. They seemed great, isn't he
19:54
Speaker 1: her manager? Um? I did hear that they were like
19:58
Speaker 1: living in like a cotton kind of all together, like
20:01
Speaker 1: very close quarters. I know that can be difficult, Um,
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Speaker 1: but I don't know. You're gonna have to give me
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Speaker 1: some juice on this. Look against seven years married, that
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Speaker 1: is a huge accomplishment, you know, if it in Hollywood years,
20:19
Speaker 1: it's a huge accomplishment. If I owned a bakery and
20:22
Speaker 1: it stayed open for seven years, I would feel like
20:26
Speaker 1: that is an accomplishment. You know, they share kids together.
20:30
Speaker 1: They have a daughter named river Rose and a son
20:33
Speaker 1: named Remington's Um. And what shocked me on this one
20:40
Speaker 1: is that it seemed amicable. But there's two things that
20:45
Speaker 1: happened that really took me off a left field. First
20:49
Speaker 1: off three actually, first off Intervius, she was saying that
20:54
Speaker 1: they were having sever times a day. What I didn't
20:57
Speaker 1: more times a day. She she said on record that
21:01
Speaker 1: they were bumping uglies four times a day. So in
21:04
Speaker 1: my mind, I thought Kelly Clarkson was sitting at home
21:07
Speaker 1: drinking wine, having sex, having a good time. They both
21:11
Speaker 1: seem like, you know, fun loving people. So if you're
21:16
Speaker 1: having sex four times a day, you're happy. So that
21:19
Speaker 1: was the first thing that caught me off. Card do
21:21
Speaker 1: you and I would have sex four times a day?
21:23
Speaker 1: I am sorry. I would not be happy having sex
21:25
Speaker 1: four times a day. I am old, I am tired,
21:29
Speaker 1: and I am happy with my two to three times
21:32
Speaker 1: a week, right, But you know, I don't have to
21:35
Speaker 1: get to my nine year wedding anniversary on July four.
21:38
Speaker 1: You know that, Oh that's amazing, and you're still there, okay,
21:42
Speaker 1: and you're still doing it twice a week, and but
21:44
Speaker 1: we have code for it. Do you schedule sex? We
21:49
Speaker 1: don't schedule it, but like you have to call it
21:54
Speaker 1: because like there's always kids around. Like the fact that
21:57
Speaker 1: they're not in this room is only because I've bribed
21:59
Speaker 1: them with tablet time. But what do you call it?
22:03
Speaker 1: Do you want to have closet time? Because we go
22:06
Speaker 1: on the closet. I'm sorry, I am sorry. You are
22:13
Speaker 1: doing it in the closet next to your shoes. Yes,
22:17
Speaker 1: and we have to put down a yoga matter. It
22:20
Speaker 1: really hurts the kneed. Yes. Look, by the way, good
22:26
Speaker 1: good for you. You should start selling a closet pool
22:29
Speaker 1: around pack with yoga mats, pillows, blow up back rest,
22:35
Speaker 1: like something to elevate you when you have four kids.
22:39
Speaker 1: Bit you better get you better get smart with that
22:43
Speaker 1: closet of time. Then you've got to pick a music
22:45
Speaker 1: genre and then we're going to go and then we
22:48
Speaker 1: make jokes by how many songs it last? Yeah, well
22:55
Speaker 1: I'm like baby, yes totally, but it's like a two
22:58
Speaker 1: song or today we got to keep that movie. I've
23:01
Speaker 1: got a podcast with dressing and by the way, I
23:05
Speaker 1: would put Bohemian rasparty on twice to make sure it
23:10
Speaker 1: lasted longer than you expect it. H No, it's crazy.
23:15
Speaker 1: But then the other thing that hit me was when
23:18
Speaker 1: people put in reconcilable differences. I don't really even understand
23:22
Speaker 1: what that means. That's Hollywood term for got real and
23:26
Speaker 1: we can't really say what it is. You know what
23:28
Speaker 1: I mean? Like, we can't say what it is? Yeah,
23:31
Speaker 1: um another that's another moment. This family is also used
23:35
Speaker 1: to being on tour, moving around. You know, her, her kids,
23:40
Speaker 1: and her husband are normally working all the time producing shows,
23:43
Speaker 1: and I think COVID made them stop and think. But
23:47
Speaker 1: Kelly Clarkson won't properly come out and say it. I
23:49
Speaker 1: do agree with you, but what we will get is
23:51
Speaker 1: a fire ass out that tells us all we know
23:54
Speaker 1: what's happened. And he's gonna be sad if he's in
23:56
Speaker 1: an outern manager anymore when that album does come out, worry,
24:00
Speaker 1: he's gonna still be connected. Oh my gosh. Justin Hartley
24:07
Speaker 1: and this one I did do a little research on
24:11
Speaker 1: only because I realized how much both of his wives
24:16
Speaker 1: looked the same way. Did you say both? Now they're
24:20
Speaker 1: both excess, but they have a very similar look and
24:24
Speaker 1: I was like, I was like, he has a type.
24:26
Speaker 1: That's for they're both beyond stunning beautiful. I meant that
24:29
Speaker 1: as a compliment, but I was like, this is definitely
24:31
Speaker 1: a type. Um. But the part that I thought was
24:34
Speaker 1: crazy is that he listed the separation date way before
24:39
Speaker 1: she is saying that they separated m and she's saying
24:42
Speaker 1: that she they were. She was blindsided by it, for sure.
24:46
Speaker 1: Sometimes lists the date. Let me not say celebrities sometimes
24:52
Speaker 1: pefoll list the date before it actually happened because maybe
24:56
Speaker 1: they have a new contract coming out that might give
24:59
Speaker 1: them big money. So if you say that you were
25:02
Speaker 1: separated July first, and you signed a contract August ten,
25:06
Speaker 1: your spouse is not entitled to that money. I see
25:10
Speaker 1: what you're saying. I see you know that I am
25:13
Speaker 1: a divorce right. I know that you're a divorce But
25:17
Speaker 1: I was so broke. We were like, I don't like this.
25:22
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, do you want to half the simwork?
25:27
Speaker 1: Not to you like get a dog on weekends if
25:31
Speaker 1: you want? How long were you married for? I was married?
25:37
Speaker 1: I mean I think eighteen months, but only because it
25:40
Speaker 1: takes a year to get divorced in California. That's where
25:44
Speaker 1: I would have emailed you have been like, hey girl,
25:46
Speaker 1: sorry about your divorce, but can I get my lockru
25:48
Speaker 1: set pop back? That was two fifty And if you're
25:50
Speaker 1: not gonna be married for longer than two years, you
25:52
Speaker 1: gotta return the gift. Well, why do you think that
25:55
Speaker 1: I had such a small wedding with ed when it
25:57
Speaker 1: was just our family because of the guilt. I was like,
25:59
Speaker 1: I still, I've got these other gifts that I never
26:02
Speaker 1: even opened or used people to pay for again, not
26:07
Speaker 1: to mention my Dad's like, you've got another thing coming.
26:09
Speaker 1: If you think I'm paying for another wedding, you know,
26:15
Speaker 1: it's so crazy when I look at these two. Whenever
26:20
Speaker 1: you're an entertainment, I always tell people date somebody who
26:24
Speaker 1: understands the game, the nature of the game, an agent,
26:29
Speaker 1: a manager, maybe a hair and makeup artist, because being
26:34
Speaker 1: an entertainment, of being an actor, it's a lot of time,
26:36
Speaker 1: it's a lot of dedication. Is so a lot of
26:40
Speaker 1: time from home. But what happens when two actors date
26:43
Speaker 1: one another is there's a little bit of competition and
26:48
Speaker 1: egos get in the way. And I don't know this
26:52
Speaker 1: for a fact. I've not talked to either of them,
26:56
Speaker 1: But I feel like after Ll became this overnight sensation
27:01
Speaker 1: on this show called Selling Sunset, I think the issue
27:04
Speaker 1: is kind of arose between the two of them. I
27:07
Speaker 1: also think sometimes when you're with a partner and they
27:10
Speaker 1: hit it big, sometimes you don't understand that person and
27:14
Speaker 1: you can't understand that rise and that change in them,
27:18
Speaker 1: So it causes a riff between the two of you.
27:21
Speaker 1: That makes sense, and reality shows it's different when it
27:24
Speaker 1: comes to like scheduling, Like when I know when we're
27:27
Speaker 1: filming Housewives, it is like NonStop six days a week,
27:31
Speaker 1: and it's not necessarily where you get your like whereas
27:34
Speaker 1: you know this is us or something where I'm sure
27:36
Speaker 1: you get your call sheet. You know you're tugh like
27:40
Speaker 1: on the reality show of drama, it's the fan. You're
27:41
Speaker 1: there for the night. Like I could think I'm gonna
27:44
Speaker 1: be home at seven one night and it's one in
27:46
Speaker 1: the morning and we're still out going at it, and
27:48
Speaker 1: that's what it is. That's what it is. And you
27:51
Speaker 1: have to have a partner who understands the nature of
27:54
Speaker 1: your gaming is okay with it okay because understanding that
27:57
Speaker 1: you know, oh, I know you've got late night shooes.
28:00
Speaker 1: But being okay with it and being on the same
28:03
Speaker 1: page as a couple is hard because one person wants
28:06
Speaker 1: to do the show, and but one person doesn't want
28:08
Speaker 1: to do the show, but I'll do it for you.
28:10
Speaker 1: What happens is the resentment comes into play, and then
28:14
Speaker 1: you're stuck in a situation with somebody who's pissed at
28:17
Speaker 1: you for being successful. Yeah, And I mean, I think
28:19
Speaker 1: you have to make a choice. You're either going to
28:21
Speaker 1: be with somebody who you want to take care of
28:24
Speaker 1: you and wants to be that person to nurture and
28:26
Speaker 1: take care of you and be there for you for
28:28
Speaker 1: every little thing you ever need, or you want to
28:30
Speaker 1: marry somebody that's more of your equal. And then you
28:33
Speaker 1: put each other and you motivate each other and you
28:35
Speaker 1: become like this team and this and this you know,
28:38
Speaker 1: power couple where you both want each other to succeed.
28:41
Speaker 1: But I think that's really hard to come by. It
28:44
Speaker 1: it's hard to come by, but it's not hard to
28:46
Speaker 1: come by if you're honest and open with the person
28:52
Speaker 1: about what you want. And I say this, and I'm
28:54
Speaker 1: gonna be say it's so nicely, and I know it's
28:56
Speaker 1: going to come off wrong. And the reason why I
28:59
Speaker 1: always go back to and in is because as the
29:01
Speaker 1: lady sitter, I have worked with a lot of women
29:04
Speaker 1: in my life. I say this because I see a
29:08
Speaker 1: lot of women who want something in life, don't know
29:13
Speaker 1: how to get it, and what they do is they
29:15
Speaker 1: just agree to go along with the man's friends. Like
29:17
Speaker 1: if your man wants to get a PhD and wants
29:20
Speaker 1: to move to San Diego, wants to be Tom a lawyer,
29:22
Speaker 1: We've all seen it with the Betty Brodrick store. You
29:25
Speaker 1: follow your man wherever he goes, and when you get
29:28
Speaker 1: that one spurt of oh my god, this opportunity is
29:31
Speaker 1: coming up, but I'm so scared to tell Jed or
29:33
Speaker 1: I'm so scared to tell you know, X, Y and Z.
29:36
Speaker 1: It becomes this little bit of resentment in the back
29:40
Speaker 1: of your mind, and then when you finally say it,
29:48
Speaker 1: your husband goes Honestly, you have to be honest, but
29:51
Speaker 1: you also can change. Like when after I had my kids, I,
29:56
Speaker 1: you know, well, my first two, I had felt like
29:58
Speaker 1: in a place where I was really lost. I didn't
30:00
Speaker 1: know what I was doing with my life. I couldn't
30:01
Speaker 1: go ride horses anymore because I didn't want to be
30:03
Speaker 1: traveling to hotels with my kids, like I had to
30:06
Speaker 1: like look at Edwin in the phace and go, I
30:08
Speaker 1: don't know what I'm doing right now, but I've got
30:10
Speaker 1: to do something because I'm going crazy and I'm going
30:13
Speaker 1: to change my life and I don't. And at first
30:16
Speaker 1: he was like, okay, Chaddy, like sure, you know whatever,
30:19
Speaker 1: Like we'll see what you're gonna do. And that's how
30:22
Speaker 1: I ended up creating all it and all these things happen,
30:24
Speaker 1: and then housewaves fell in my lap. But it took
30:27
Speaker 1: him a little while to see that I was serious
30:30
Speaker 1: because I have been ting for a long time. But
30:35
Speaker 1: you stood with it, and you stuck with it, and
30:37
Speaker 1: look what happened. You blossomed to this thing. I have
30:40
Speaker 1: a friend who she and her husband on their anniversary
30:45
Speaker 1: every single year. They got married in December, so it
30:47
Speaker 1: kind of works out perfect. On their anniversary every year,
30:51
Speaker 1: they do a two hour power session with a therapist
30:55
Speaker 1: that's smart, and they talked about things that they love
30:57
Speaker 1: about that year with their partner, of things that they
31:00
Speaker 1: need to get off their chests. But most importantly, they've
31:03
Speaker 1: talked about how they changed over the last year, whether
31:07
Speaker 1: it's the things they like to eat sexually, things that
31:10
Speaker 1: they find like annoying now that they didn't find annoying before.
31:14
Speaker 1: But they do a two hour session, and the session
31:17
Speaker 1: ends with them confirming that they've heard one another and
31:21
Speaker 1: that they're open to making those changes. And if one
31:25
Speaker 1: of them says that they're not open to making the changes,
31:28
Speaker 1: they then have therapy throughout the year. I might have
31:32
Speaker 1: to steal this. I love this idea. She doesn't every
31:36
Speaker 1: single year, And she said the reason why she did
31:40
Speaker 1: it is because after the third year of marriage, something
31:44
Speaker 1: came up and she realized that her husband had been
31:46
Speaker 1: harboring things for a while and not saying anything to her.
31:50
Speaker 1: So the smallest things that happened in t would roll
31:55
Speaker 1: over to but by the time they got to they
31:57
Speaker 1: became these huge mountains, you know, out of mole hills.
32:02
Speaker 1: And she said that she will never let that happen
32:04
Speaker 1: in her life again. She'll never let her husband or
32:06
Speaker 1: herself carry things over from year to year. I think
32:11
Speaker 1: that's pretty brilliant. I mean, because I'm not the world's
32:13
Speaker 1: best of letting things go. You may have noticed the
32:17
Speaker 1: houseworld and love to hang on to a nugget it,
32:20
Speaker 1: I know, but I think that's a brilliant idea. Um
32:23
Speaker 1: and I I also think that it's so important to
32:28
Speaker 1: know that, like you may just be in a bad
32:30
Speaker 1: mood one day, Like there are some days where like
32:33
Speaker 1: I wake up in my mood is wretched, and if
32:36
Speaker 1: I don't like alert the like the family, then they
32:40
Speaker 1: take it personally. Like but if I wake up one
32:43
Speaker 1: day and I just can tell I'm stressed, I've got
32:45
Speaker 1: a million things to do, blah blah. If I just
32:47
Speaker 1: say to add like, hey, may I'm sorry, I am
32:50
Speaker 1: super stressed today. I'm just telling you, like I'm gonna
32:53
Speaker 1: get through it. But it's just craziness. Our day is
32:55
Speaker 1: so much better than when I'm like grin and bearing
32:57
Speaker 1: it and like pretending every things fine, and they're like,
33:01
Speaker 1: what's up your ass? Like you're such a beach today?
33:03
Speaker 1: What's your problem? I mean, we don't have any issues,
33:07
Speaker 1: but you have to be open with everybody. I sometimes
33:09
Speaker 1: send it company wide email, like I am not the
33:13
Speaker 1: one today, Like if I know I'm walking into a
33:16
Speaker 1: meeting and I my meetings here at e R at
33:18
Speaker 1: six o'clock in the morning, and I when I get
33:21
Speaker 1: in my car at five thirty to go through Mari
33:24
Speaker 1: your car because I wait till the last minute to
33:26
Speaker 1: get my car, and I play more of your card
33:28
Speaker 1: at five for you. In the morning, going through traffic,
33:31
Speaker 1: I send an email I'm not the one today. If
33:33
Speaker 1: I don't say anything, it's not because of you. And
33:39
Speaker 1: it's a simple email, I'm not the one today. Well
33:42
Speaker 1: I kind of love that. Um, we gotta take a
33:44
Speaker 1: little break and then we're gonna come back and dig
33:46
Speaker 1: into our final phase. Al Right, So now that we're back,
33:57
Speaker 1: I do have to ask a little bit about the
33:59
Speaker 1: make and Fox and Brian Austin Green up at all.
34:02
Speaker 1: I have to say I got very revved up when
34:05
Speaker 1: I saw him out with Courtney Stodden. Oh oh think.
34:14
Speaker 1: And here's the thing, I because I have been obsessed
34:17
Speaker 1: with Courtney Stoddon for like, she's one of those people
34:20
Speaker 1: that I always like, look like, what's she up to?
34:22
Speaker 1: Like I don't follow her, but I go just to
34:25
Speaker 1: see what's going on. I'm just mad that, like Ryan
34:30
Speaker 1: Alson Green was that dude back in the day, you
34:32
Speaker 1: know what I mean. And I'm just mad that he
34:35
Speaker 1: had to take the low road in this situation. I mean, like,
34:40
Speaker 1: call up somebody to try to get passed, to try
34:43
Speaker 1: to walk into a restaurant to try to make her jealous.
34:46
Speaker 1: But if you're dealing with Megan Fox, I'm gonna need
34:48
Speaker 1: you to do somebody better. I'm gonna need you to
34:50
Speaker 1: call Angelina, Jolie and Needia that trade of Joe's that
34:54
Speaker 1: she likes to go to and shop at them kids.
34:56
Speaker 1: I'm gonna need you to walk out right behind her
34:58
Speaker 1: and let people talk about that. That's the one thing
35:01
Speaker 1: about breakups. I always say, you always let your partner
35:06
Speaker 1: move on first so you could calibrate who your rebound
35:10
Speaker 1: is gonna be. So if your partner moves on with
35:12
Speaker 1: a solid six, you know you gotta go for at
35:14
Speaker 1: least a seven that you know. That's good lobster. But
35:17
Speaker 1: I mean, I think even watching the Megan Fox and
35:21
Speaker 1: Machine Gun Kelly music video, I was like, this is
35:24
Speaker 1: like very sexual. This is pretty much closet time. No,
35:28
Speaker 1: it was pretty much closet time. But Brian Austin Green, Look,
35:32
Speaker 1: I don't know how true these reports are. I'm just
35:35
Speaker 1: gonna say it. There was reports out that Megan Fox
35:38
Speaker 1: had left Brian Austin Green back in TWI He had
35:42
Speaker 1: had a debilitating um mystery illness that left in bedridden
35:47
Speaker 1: for three months, and she kind of walked out on
35:49
Speaker 1: him back then and then he took her right back.
35:54
Speaker 1: I just I don't know. I've dealt with people in
35:59
Speaker 1: the past, like who have had people walk out on
36:02
Speaker 1: them when they are, you know, debilitated, and I never
36:07
Speaker 1: understand the narrative that you will take somebody bag after
36:12
Speaker 1: they left you when you were in a wheelchair or
36:16
Speaker 1: bed ridden. That to me seems crazy. Yeah, I mean
36:20
Speaker 1: maybe there's like some codependency stuff they're going on, and
36:23
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I definitely I had all of this, like,
36:27
Speaker 1: I had all these theories, and then I saw the
36:29
Speaker 1: Courtney start in and I was just, now, I'm all,
36:31
Speaker 1: I'm done him. I'm done with him. I'm done. I
36:37
Speaker 1: don't want to hear me. I don't want to hear
36:39
Speaker 1: the song you're collaborating on. I'm done. He did this beautiful,
36:43
Speaker 1: beautiful podcast about how you know, things just didn't work out,
36:48
Speaker 1: and I was like, damn, good for you for taking
36:50
Speaker 1: the high road. That bitch is gonna go back. She
36:52
Speaker 1: better go back. She had a good man. Two days later,
36:54
Speaker 1: you can walk out with Courtney stuff, no um other
37:00
Speaker 1: writings on the wall. We know that Sophia Richie and uh,
37:08
Speaker 1: come on, we knew. And it makes me sad because
37:14
Speaker 1: I was at twenty year old girl dating like almost
37:17
Speaker 1: party year old man, living my best life because he
37:20
Speaker 1: had a life and it was so fun and so cool.
37:22
Speaker 1: But you know, you get to a point where your
37:25
Speaker 1: age really comes into play and there's a big difference,
37:29
Speaker 1: you know, between a twenty year old girl who has
37:31
Speaker 1: no children and a forty year old man who has children,
37:34
Speaker 1: responsibilities and x you know, basically ex wife that has
37:39
Speaker 1: a huge history together. They've created this huge life, this empire,
37:42
Speaker 1: all of these things. It's just that is a lot
37:45
Speaker 1: to take on. It's a lot. I mean, not as
37:49
Speaker 1: much as whatever is going on with Mary kay and
37:51
Speaker 1: All and her husband. The only thing I'm gonna say
37:55
Speaker 1: about that is when Mary Kate Olsen, who was the
38:00
Speaker 1: original first billionaire of all the Hollywood actresses and socialites,
38:05
Speaker 1: said that she couldn't get her things out of the
38:07
Speaker 1: rental bitch, why are you renting? Why are you renting? Well,
38:18
Speaker 1: I think you know, with do we think that there's
38:20
Speaker 1: gonna be more breakups to come? What do you think
38:22
Speaker 1: is happening now. Do you think we're gonna flatline a
38:25
Speaker 1: little bit or what do you think? I think that
38:29
Speaker 1: there are gonna be a lot more breakups. I think
38:32
Speaker 1: with this Black Lives movement thing happening right now, I
38:37
Speaker 1: think couples are having conversations that they had never had before.
38:42
Speaker 1: And I think a lot of people are gonna be
38:46
Speaker 1: surprised at how their partner thinks about you know, racism,
38:51
Speaker 1: about um, human equality, about the state of this country.
38:56
Speaker 1: I know a lot of couples that don't even know
38:58
Speaker 1: how each other vote. You can no longer not have
39:02
Speaker 1: those conversations in your homes, especially if you're thinking about
39:06
Speaker 1: raising children. Yeah, I'm just about to say that trying
39:09
Speaker 1: to educate your children and be on the same page
39:12
Speaker 1: and both be listening and a veil like actually learning,
39:17
Speaker 1: actually learning. Yeah, I think I'm gonna give you a
39:21
Speaker 1: real good example. There's a celebrity couple that I know,
39:25
Speaker 1: they before I got to Hollywood. You know, obviously I'm
39:28
Speaker 1: only thirty three years old, but she said that after
39:33
Speaker 1: nine eleven, she you know, was having conversations with their
39:37
Speaker 1: husband about the terrorist attack and is outward, you know,
39:42
Speaker 1: hate towards people of Meddle East and Descent, and she
39:47
Speaker 1: was trying to understand it, and through those conversations, she
39:50
Speaker 1: had no idea that the person that she was with
39:53
Speaker 1: for ten years before that I felt this way and
39:57
Speaker 1: it took nine eleven to bring out his feelings. And
40:02
Speaker 1: you know, I think everybody reacts differently, but until you
40:06
Speaker 1: activate those feelings, you never know. So I think a
40:08
Speaker 1: lot of people are having these feelings activated within themselves
40:12
Speaker 1: and showing their true asses to their partners. And once
40:15
Speaker 1: you say something and once your partner hears it, it's
40:19
Speaker 1: really hard to remove those negative thoughts or feelings or judgment.
40:26
Speaker 1: Even friends, Like when the Women's movement was going on
40:29
Speaker 1: and me too was happening to hear friends say what
40:33
Speaker 1: they said. I I had to drop a few people.
40:37
Speaker 1: I had to drop a few people, and not to
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Speaker 1: even have an ovary. I think you even got abreast gland.
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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't even have a mannery gland up
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Speaker 1: in here, and I had to drop a bit. So
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Speaker 1: I'm only We're like, my only worry is that all
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Speaker 1: of these couples and it's great that they're having these
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Speaker 1: conversations now, and it's great that we're opening up this dialogue.
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Speaker 1: But I think a lot of couples probably didn't know
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Speaker 1: each other and how they stood on race relations because
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Speaker 1: we haven't really talked about it since the eighties. I know,
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Speaker 1: I agree that I when I'm gonna have dr V
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Speaker 1: on later on and I'm gonna actually ask her about that.
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Speaker 1: What's the best way to start having these conversations in
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Speaker 1: a healthy way with your significant other so you can
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Speaker 1: both grow and learn, and what are some resources and
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Speaker 1: really kind of dig into that, because I think that's
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Speaker 1: where a lot of people are going to get into
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Speaker 1: it right now. And I always say this, I know
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Speaker 1: you have a lot of female listeners. As much as
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Speaker 1: men think they run the household, women you run the household.
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Speaker 1: Said you set the tone. You set the tone. So
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Speaker 1: if you walk into your house and you tell your husband,
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna sit with Timothy in the next two days
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Speaker 1: and talk about equality and how race is not, you know,
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Speaker 1: should not be in his vocabulary, and how he is
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Speaker 1: equal to his black friend Jabari, then we're gonna do it. Okay,
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Speaker 1: you don't ask any questions. You let him know. Yeah, great,
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Speaker 1: you let him know. Lady let his as let him no.
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Speaker 1: And with old sex he is not you better, I'll
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Speaker 1: be going into that closet unless no, no, you tell
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Speaker 1: him he can have some pantry time. And all pantry
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Speaker 1: time gets you as a boo grays and blue balls. Okay,
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Speaker 1: oh Justin, I love you. Thank you so much for
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Speaker 1: coming on. Can you tell the listeners where they can
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Speaker 1: We're doing the day thing over here. Love you let
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Speaker 1: me do. Oh my gosh, you guys, that was so
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Speaker 1: much fun with Justin and we went down so many
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Speaker 1: rabbit holes that you ran out of time. So I'm
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Speaker 1: gonna have to have dr V on next episode and
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Speaker 1: we're going to talk all things about having difficult conversations
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Speaker 1: with your significant others, surviving this pandemic with your spouse.
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