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#243 - I Wasn’t Planning on Posting This (But Here We Are) · Brandon Fogal Evolution

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  I know the difference between how I feel about just talking about something
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  as opposed to when I know I'm actually going to go live because like I do,
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  you do feel like, like your heart rate started going up and you,
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  you don't think as clearly you don't because you,
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  you know, you're in, you feel like, you know what I mean? Being watched, you know what I mean?
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  Yeah. But you've done enough now. Like.
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  I know that's why I want to, I feel comfortable. I'm not like,
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  like nervous or anything, but like, i i just want to improve and get better
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  just being able to speak through and what people,
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  are interested i don't want to say like what people want to hear but i want to give my opinion.
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  In a way that people like hearing it you
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  know like that it's interesting and
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  fun and entertaining to watch it's like and i
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  just see how a lot of guys when they talk i'm like
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  not great at pacing because i just and i
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  do rapid fire i'm just saying whatever because i feel like i always
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  got to keep the motor going and feel like otherwise i'll
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  lose a point and just having structure about going
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  through stuff i've never had that you know i don't have where i i
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  don't have bulleted points that i'm going with i just have like you know
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  what i mean i'm and even anytime that i've tried
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  to do that like i've it's hard for me to to look
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  down or try to go through you know
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  one thing to the next or i'm just
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  kind of just word vomiting always you know well
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  it seems to me people like
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  to be asked their their opinion though what what would you do in this situation
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  or then i'm not getting an answer back i'm not i know it's rhetorical but it
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  still makes them think and it keeps them engaged like ask a engaging question
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  about whatever you're talking about
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  so imagine this was you and you and are you doing this for that i don't know
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  let's talk about it and no they're not talking back but but then they might
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  well let's do it on a real life example so like if i'm oh i didn't see in this
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  i don't think i can what if i can't do it while i'm recording.
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  And I do want to get it where I'm, a lot of the times when I'm reading something,
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  because I just, and I always go to like putting something on the screen because
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  people like to see different things. They don't like the same thing.
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  It's like you only have eight seconds of somebody's attention span between where
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  they need something else to their eyes or whatever.
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  But the way that I have this set up, it doesn't do good for clipping.
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  Clipping videos of mine, if I'm down here, as opposed to taking up the whole screen,
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  what you should have is you should have a camera on you the whole time that's actually just,
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  recording it and whether it's on this or that it's like always recording the
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  full screen of you and then you can clip whatever but just if I and when I'm talking I feel like I,
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  I'm lazy and I'm I slur my words does it sound like I slur my words to you no,
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  it doesn't it sounds like it to me you know so say so Trump Iran doesn't Trump,
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  Iran doesn't want consequences of not making nuclear deal with U.S.
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  So if I just start talking about, give my opinion, just say,
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  it's almost like a little child and I have to learn how to like,
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  because I'm trying to figure out like, what do people want to hear?
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  What do people, what's, you know what I mean? Like, why is it like that?
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  Oh, okay. They also want to know how it affects their daily life.
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  Fault you know how does this apply to them
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  so there's i there's that like where
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  i know like i know to kind of focus in on i think i'm not looking for like primarily
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  speaking about style as opposed to not not just necessarily the content of that
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  i'm delivering but the style right now like just working on that aspect of it
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  you know or do you think people care about that,
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  they just a lot of people they want to listen to somebody they they that's they feel as competent,
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  that it's worth listening to.
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  Honey, you know what I'm talking about. I know, and you are confident,
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  and you are fun to listen to, and you're nice to look at. All right.
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  You know what I mean? So if I was just going to start.
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  Hello? So I was just thinking, because right now I was going to try to talk
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  about something, talk through something, and I was just thinking,
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  like, I could tell you right now about my day or something like that.
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  But, like, just, like, immediately, you know what I mean?
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  And, like, I immediately feel weird, like, saying about, like,
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  I would feel, like, more comfortable just talking out loud and to,
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  you know, people I don't see as opposed to actually sharing with somebody in person, you know?
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  Well, that's just great. I want to know about your day.
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  Oh, honey, tell me about your day. Okay. I woke up late, got the kids off to school.
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  You got them off to school. And then I went and I, dad and I packed up the mower
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  and we took it in. And both of us, I'm not supposed to tell anyone, both of us took a right.
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  We're supposed to go left to go to this place, dropped off. We both took a right.
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  And he called me. I said, I'm coming. He goes, no, I'm coming.
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  So anyway, we drop it off.
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  Guy's really nice. And then he went his way. I went to a warehouse for three hours.
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  It was really hard because I was looking at stuff for me and for the business.
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  And so just like brain overload.
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  And I was getting really, I forgot to eat at all so i
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  had my first meal like when i got back home at like two and then i did a whatnot
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  show for an hour or so and i sold seven things to four people and it was really
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  fun and then jesse you and the kids got home and we had dinner oh you're good at that.
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  But see, I feel like I have to get it out. I got to get it out.
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  Even though, like, no one cares about my day. I feel like I got to get it out because I need.
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  I just, I want to get, like, where I can describe it and go through something
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  that's not going to put someone to sleep, not make them tired.
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  You know what I mean? I mean, were you bored hearing that?
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  Huh? A little bit. What do you mean? I mean, I try to keep it, like, the main points.
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  Sometimes I get in the weeds. What do you mean, like, the weeds?
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  So-and-so said this, and I said this, and then she said that.
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  I mean, that's interesting. Okay, but... Well, what makes it interesting?
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  If it's juicy, if it's... Hmm, I don't...
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  Okay, don't say anything. What? Don't say anything.
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  Hello? Hello? So we're both on that one thing jumping right there.
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  It's just the microphone going in there. Okay. The other one's the...
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  I'm playing something on here. Okay.
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  Jessie? Jessie? Brandon, Brandon, see. I'm going to hit live streaming right now.