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Vocal De Frag Episode 202 What If You Hired Another You How Would It Work Out · Arroe Collins Like It's Live

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  Speaker 1: The coolest thing about modern day technology or storytelling is
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  Speaker 1: the fact that you can get it anywhere. But when
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  Speaker 1: And this is vocal defragging. Defragging is taking the time
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  Speaker 1: out of your personal life. Yeah, what time do you
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  Speaker 1: have right? Oh my god, I don't even have three minutes.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, We'll then take two minutes and thirty seconds to
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  Speaker 2: ask yourself the questions and then question the answers. It's
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  Speaker 2: not an easy task because once you start asking yourself
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  Speaker 2: the questions, you pretty much do what you did with
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  Speaker 2: your parents, maybe your spouse or even a friend. When
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  Speaker 2: you don't want to hear what you need to hear,
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  Speaker 2: the first thing you want to do is you want
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  Speaker 2: to push yourself away from it. I get it, man.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm going to tell you what, through several years
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  Speaker 2: of experience, that dfragging is a very important part of
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  Speaker 2: your daily digestion system, in the way of digesting this
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  Speaker 2: damn day and that night and that month and all
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  Speaker 2: of those things in your past. They're just sitting there
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  Speaker 2: in your gut and in your heart, and you're wondering,
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  Speaker 2: what the hell is wrong with me? I know I'm
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  Speaker 2: going to ask a friend. I know I'm going to
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  Speaker 2: go ask this person. Let me ask you this question.
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  Speaker 2: When was the last time they put their feet in
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  Speaker 2: your shoe? Oh? Wow? This kind of goes with what
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  Speaker 2: we're going to be talking about vocal d FRAG, and
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  Speaker 2: that is is that if you had the opportunity to
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  Speaker 2: meet another you, how would you react? Would you accept them,
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  Speaker 2: would you battle them? Would you learn from them? What
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  Speaker 2: would be that situation? Let me give you a good
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  Speaker 2: example here so that you can see exactly where I'm
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  Speaker 2: coming from. I'm a podcaster. I host twenty different podcasts.
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  Speaker 2: That's a lot of work. And so We're going to
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  Speaker 2: take three days off to go camping, and I've got
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  Speaker 2: a pre program three days that I'm going to be
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  Speaker 2: the campsite I'm not going to take the podcasting with
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  Speaker 2: me to the campsite, so therefore I have to pre
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  Speaker 2: program three days. That's a lot of work thrown onto
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  Speaker 2: the expectations of our everyday world. Same is true with
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  Speaker 2: you with things that are happening with the kids. Maybe
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  Speaker 2: they've got sports, maybe they've got something to do in
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  Speaker 2: the school, or maybe you've got to run here, run there,
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  Speaker 2: got to go everywhere. And the thing is is that
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  Speaker 2: we put ourselves in a position of I want, I need,
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  Speaker 2: I've got to have, but I'm not going to make
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  Speaker 2: time for what I have and what I don't have.
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  Speaker 2: So if you really could meet another you, what would
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  Speaker 2: you do in trying to focus in on developing a
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  Speaker 2: relationship with a stronger you. I had to pause for
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  Speaker 2: a moment. The reason why is because a drone is
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  Speaker 2: bringing somebody's food to them at their house. That really
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  Speaker 2: got my attention. Can you imagine that having a drone
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  Speaker 2: bring something to your house. Well, here's the thing, somebody
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  Speaker 2: is losing a job because of that drone, a delivery person.
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  Speaker 2: How much did it cost for that drone? If you
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  Speaker 2: could meet another you, would that other you get the
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  Speaker 2: job done? Or would you set things aside like we
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  Speaker 2: tend to do and let AI technology or the drones
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  Speaker 2: do the physical delivering. It's a question that really has
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  Speaker 2: no answer unless you're willing to dig in and put
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  Speaker 2: some elbow grease into the process of getting a better
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  Speaker 2: understanding of who the hell you are. Because my dad
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  Speaker 2: would ask me that all the time, who the hell
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  Speaker 2: do you think you are? And I would just kind
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  Speaker 2: of rugged my shoulders because I knew that whatever answer
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  Speaker 2: I was going to give him, he was going to
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  Speaker 2: beat me upside the head with his World War II
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  Speaker 2: sergeant fist. And I was saying, yeah, I'm not talking.
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  Speaker 2: So that's the way that I've pretty much dealt with
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  Speaker 2: my entire life is I'm not talking. And if you
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  Speaker 2: think I am the only one, come on now. This
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  Speaker 2: is about transparency. This is about being honest with each other.
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  Speaker 2: If there was another you, if you could work side
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  Speaker 2: by side with another you, would you get along or
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  Speaker 2: would it be like a sibling where you just kind
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  Speaker 2: of bicker at each other and challenge each other by
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  Speaker 2: way of saying very snart and really kind of odd
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  Speaker 2: ball things that either pisses them off or it encourages
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  Speaker 2: them to laugh or to just get involved. If you
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  Speaker 2: could work with another you, would you do it? And
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  Speaker 2: so when I do have that problem, because I will
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  Speaker 2: say that, and I'm very guilty of it, I'll say,
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  Speaker 2: there's not another me. I don't know another podcaster that
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  Speaker 2: does what I do. I didn't know anybody in radio
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  Speaker 2: that did what I did. Well, what do you do?
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  Speaker 2: How many hours you got? So I can explain this
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  Speaker 2: to you, because what you're doing is you're seeing the
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  Speaker 2: outside shell, but not the internal growth of a creative
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  Speaker 2: mind that's so addicted to the process of taking a
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  Speaker 2: thought and planting it in reality. You think I'm alone
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  Speaker 2: here again, No, not at all, And you're not alone either.
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  Speaker 2: And that's the greatest thing about this is that, sure
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  Speaker 2: we do run around and we have a great time
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  Speaker 2: talking with people and asking them questions and trying to
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  Speaker 2: get advice, but we're not asking ourselves that one person
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  Speaker 2: that is endlessly with you. Especially when you're in the
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  Speaker 2: bathroom and you've taken something pretty darn stinky, you usually
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  Speaker 2: don't accept it or you kind of laugh about it,
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  Speaker 2: because that's just what guys do. If you could work
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  Speaker 2: with you, if you could work with another you, what
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  Speaker 2: would that you do with you, and what would you
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  Speaker 2: do if that other you really like that you were
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  Speaker 2: the weak link and you had to go what a
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  Speaker 2: process of thinking? Because if you are the weak link
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  Speaker 2: and you're doing things that really is a quitter's way out,
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  Speaker 2: then you really are in a position where there needs
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  Speaker 2: to be changed, but nobody wants to deal with that.
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  Speaker 2: So then what happens. You're walking through a forest on
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  Speaker 2: a hot spring day and you see a drone and
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  Speaker 2: the drone is bringing food to someone's home. They took
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  Speaker 2: a job from a human being, somebody who probably has
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  Speaker 2: to pay the electric bill. How about they got to
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  Speaker 2: pay their fiber bill so they can have internet at
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  Speaker 2: the home, whether they're gaming or they're watching TV. Do
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  Speaker 2: you see where I'm coming here? If you could find
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  Speaker 2: another you, how would you treat that person? And would
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  Speaker 2: you learn from that other? You ask yourself the questions
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  Speaker 2: and question the answers. It's called vocal defragging. I also
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  Speaker 2: do it in a journal. I've been doing that, says No.
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  Speaker 2: Of twenty seventeen, so a lot of years. I don't
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  Speaker 2: know if that qualifies me as an expert, but I
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  Speaker 2: will tell you that when you start asking yourself the
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  Speaker 2: questions and quit relying on other people. You get some
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  Speaker 2: stuff done, and I mean internally, I'm arrow in that
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  Speaker 2: local deep rag