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- 0:01Speaker 1: Welcome to stuff you should know from how Stuff Works
- 0:04Speaker 1: dot com. Hey, and welcome to the podcast. I'm Josh Clark,
- 0:14Speaker 1: and there's Charles W Chuck Bryant, there's Jerry Rowland over there,
- 0:18Speaker 1: and that's the McDonald triad. Stuff you should know, McDonald triad.
- 0:23Speaker 1: What's that? Really? I'm just wow, you are spacey today.
- 0:29Speaker 1: We literally talked about it ten minutes ago. Oh that yeah, sorry,
- 0:33Speaker 1: you know bed wedding, fire starting harmony add I was
- 0:36Speaker 1: thinking of I call fire starting McDonald I call bed wedding,
- 0:39Speaker 1: all right, Jerry's animal harmor um. Well, we know that's
- 0:43Speaker 1: not true. I was the first thing I thought it
- 0:47Speaker 1: was a McDonald's because I am totally spacey today. And
- 0:49Speaker 1: plus you could probably use the McDonald's right now, I'll
- 0:52Speaker 1: bet no. Well, I already ate, but if I hadn't
- 0:55Speaker 1: have eaten ramen, I could have totally partied on a
- 0:58Speaker 1: on a quarter pounder. Quarter pounder, definitely not a big Mac, right,
- 1:01Speaker 1: I don't do big Max. It's the sauce. It's a
- 1:03Speaker 1: weirdo sauce. Yeah, I just I don't. I don't do it.
- 1:06Speaker 1: And you know you don't need another third piece of bread. No,
- 1:10Speaker 1: it is a great standard of measure, though, isn't it.
- 1:12Speaker 1: What do you mean big max? You know this is
- 1:15Speaker 1: ex big max of calories or something. It's a unit
- 1:18Speaker 1: of measure here in America. I don't think I've ever
- 1:20Speaker 1: had a big Mac in my life. I've had like
- 1:22Speaker 1: maybe one, maybe two. Yeah, I've pretty much learned my
- 1:26Speaker 1: lesson the first time. I'm a quarter pounder guy. I
- 1:28Speaker 1: like quarter pounders. But really there's nothing better than just
- 1:31Speaker 1: their plain old double cheeseburger. Oh, just their a little smashburger,
- 1:35Speaker 1: but the double cheeseburger. And there's a difference. They have
- 1:38Speaker 1: a double cheeseburger and a Mick double. Did you know that?
- 1:42Speaker 1: From what I can discern, what I can discern, the
- 1:45Speaker 1: only difference is the double cheeseburger has two slices of cheese.
- 1:51Speaker 1: The Mick double has one. Everything else is the same.
- 1:54Speaker 1: Where's the one piece of cheese? Why would you even
- 1:57Speaker 1: sell it like that? It's weird. It doesn't make any sense.
- 1:59Speaker 1: You could say, mcdoubell with just one slice of cheese.
- 2:02Speaker 1: That makes stupid, is what they should say. Like, Yeah,
- 2:04Speaker 1: pull forward and hang your head in shame, and we'll
- 2:06Speaker 1: give you your stupid sandwich. I'm gonna go to McDonald's
- 2:10Speaker 1: in order a McDLT remember those, Oh yeah, the hot
- 2:14Speaker 1: side right, yeah, and you could like fold the little
- 2:18Speaker 1: styrofi containing, which I mean it kind of makes sense
- 2:21Speaker 1: because even though I don't do the big garden on
- 2:23Speaker 1: the burger anyway, part of the reason I don't is
- 2:26Speaker 1: because I don't like hot, soggy lettuce. So the mcdealt
- 2:30Speaker 1: would solve that. It would, But it was really just
- 2:32Speaker 1: like here's even more styro poem. Yeah, and like, yes,
- 2:36Speaker 1: it was terrible for the earth, but that was like
- 2:39Speaker 1: the look of my youth, you know what I'm Yeah, well, no,
- 2:42Speaker 1: the styrofoam contain everything came in everything, Like their cinnamon
- 2:46Speaker 1: roll used to come in a styrofoam container, for God's sake. Yeah,
- 2:49Speaker 1: you'd be like, can I have a pack of salt
- 2:50Speaker 1: and they put it in a styron container. Yeah, all right.
- 2:55Speaker 1: That was got some big McDonald's dollars coming our way. Now.
- 2:59Speaker 1: So I want to paint a picture for you, Chuck.
- 3:02Speaker 1: Let's say you owned a McDonald's franchise here in town,
- 3:06Speaker 1: and uh, you decided that you wanted your your daughter
- 3:12Speaker 1: to take over the business. Sure, if you just said, okay,
- 3:17Speaker 1: I'm ready to retire. It's your turn. Now, come on in.
- 3:20Speaker 1: We'll see you later. Good luck. You would not be
- 3:23Speaker 1: doing what's known as nepotism, right, you'd be doing it wrong.
- 3:28Speaker 1: There's a right way to do it in a wrong
- 3:30Speaker 1: way to do it. Yeah, but either way, what you're
- 3:33Speaker 1: engaged in is nepotism. Yeah, they say, wait, I've really
- 3:39Speaker 1: pulled that one out of your butt. Yeah. Um, I
- 3:44Speaker 1: didn't know if you meant pulled it off or pulled
- 3:46Speaker 1: it out of your butt. I meant pulled it off.
- 3:48Speaker 1: You did very well. Nice transition with the Nipotis that's
- 3:52Speaker 1: all I was looking for? Uh? Yeah, they do say.
- 3:55Speaker 1: I mean, some experts will say, if you do have
- 3:57Speaker 1: a family business and you want to have been actually
- 4:00Speaker 1: hand that over your kids, if if you really want
- 4:02Speaker 1: to do that the right way, have them work outside
- 4:04Speaker 1: the or in that industry, maybe for another company for
- 4:07Speaker 1: a while, gaining some experience outside your own company, because
- 4:12Speaker 1: it can be very problematic to the other employees when
- 4:16Speaker 1: that happens, because even if they're qualified, there's a bit
- 4:19Speaker 1: of a target sometimes on their back. There's Yeah, it's
- 4:22Speaker 1: unfair to them, it's unfair to the other employees. It
- 4:24Speaker 1: says a lot about you too. It sends signals, whether
- 4:27Speaker 1: you mean it or not. It sends signals that you're
- 4:29Speaker 1: insecure in your leadership and you need to surround yourself
- 4:32Speaker 1: with people who you know will generally agree with you,
- 4:35Speaker 1: and even if they don't agree with you, you are
- 4:37Speaker 1: bringing them in in a position where they really owe
- 4:40Speaker 1: you a favor. There's a lot of opportunity for people
- 4:44Speaker 1: to be like, this person is not even qualified for
- 4:46Speaker 1: this position. I'm more qualified. I'm just not their son
- 4:50Speaker 1: or daughter. This is b s. And then it also
- 4:53Speaker 1: has a real chilling effect on morale around the company too,
- 4:57Speaker 1: where it's like, no matter what I do or how
- 4:59Speaker 1: good I am, um, I'm never going to get ahead
- 5:02Speaker 1: because this this employer, this boss is into nepotism and
- 5:06Speaker 1: I'm not related to him, so I might as well
- 5:08Speaker 1: just quit or go somewhere else or milk the clock. Yeah,
- 5:12Speaker 1: I mean this. This can go take so many forms,
- 5:15Speaker 1: like it is a time honored tradition to start a
- 5:18Speaker 1: small family business to pass along to your children, Like
- 5:21Speaker 1: there's nothing inherently wrong with that. But then there's also
- 5:24Speaker 1: the scenario where you know mom and dad start a
- 5:27Speaker 1: business and the sons of gambling and and living up,
- 5:32Speaker 1: tripping the lights, fantastic, painting the town brown. Yeah, basically
- 5:35Speaker 1: acting like Oscar Wilde or something. Yeah. Uh, and then
- 5:41Speaker 1: it's just handed the keys to the kingdom and they
- 5:43Speaker 1: run it into the ground. But that that happens. Yeah,
- 5:46Speaker 1: there's a saying. The first generation starts the business, the
- 5:50Speaker 1: second generation carries on the business, the third generation ruins
- 5:54Speaker 1: the business. We grow the seed beasts nature, No, we
- 6:00Speaker 1: plant the seed. Nature grows the seed. She sowed the seed.
- 6:03Speaker 1: What did you just make that up? I think that
- 6:05Speaker 1: was It sounds like a hippie T shirt the Young
- 6:08Speaker 1: Ones with like Coco pellion it or something. If I
- 6:11Speaker 1: would have done it in my Young Ones accent, you
- 6:13Speaker 1: probably would have. Did you watch that The Young Yeah,
- 6:15Speaker 1: the British TV show that. How is that on The
- 6:18Speaker 1: Young Ones? Uh? What that's saying? Was it like a
- 6:22Speaker 1: recurring thing or no? I think it was just in
- 6:24Speaker 1: one episode. It just stands out to me, Well, I
- 6:26Speaker 1: guess I love the Young Ones. I haven't seen that
- 6:28Speaker 1: in a while. I'm sure they're like eight people that
- 6:30Speaker 1: heard that were like, oh my god, Young Ones. So
- 6:34Speaker 1: there is a there is a right way to do nepotism.
- 6:37Speaker 1: But for the most part, especially in America, especially in
- 6:43Speaker 1: modern Western society, nepotism is largely frowned upon by the
- 6:51Speaker 1: general population. But like you said, it's it's time honored,
- 6:57Speaker 1: it's age old. And there's this great article that we're
- 7:00Speaker 1: working from um by the Grabst who basically says, like
- 7:05Speaker 1: you can make the case that nepotism is what civilization
- 7:09Speaker 1: was originally built on. That that's that really what you're seeing.
- 7:14Speaker 1: This disregard or this dislike or disdain for nepotism is
- 7:19Speaker 1: actually a tension between a meritocracy and nepotism, which are
- 7:23Speaker 1: essentially to opposite socio political sides of the same coin. Okay, Yeah,
- 7:31Speaker 1: and it's interesting too. I had no idea that in
- 7:33Speaker 1: the animal uh, in in biology and the Animal Kingdom,
- 7:36Speaker 1: that they actually refer to animal behaviors as like things
- 7:40Speaker 1: like natural selection is nepotism. Yeah, like kin selection, where
- 7:44Speaker 1: you will go out of the great podcast that we did,
- 7:46Speaker 1: I could remember if we actually did it or not.
- 7:48Speaker 1: We did huh, we did it, we did it. But
- 7:51Speaker 1: they will talk about in the Animal Kingdom things like, um,
- 7:57Speaker 1: like a squirrel is more likely let's to give a
- 8:00Speaker 1: warning call like a cock or a whatever a squirrel does.
- 8:04Speaker 1: That was a squirrel, okay, Um, to give a warning
- 8:07Speaker 1: call of a of a predator approaching if they're near
- 8:11Speaker 1: family members, and if there are no family members around,
- 8:15Speaker 1: they're kind of like, what else, good luck, which proves
- 8:19Speaker 1: your point that squirrels are jerks seeing hell Todd and
- 8:22Speaker 1: they only can they only think about their own family wise.
- 8:26Speaker 1: But that is what if you're a wildlife biologist, you
- 8:30Speaker 1: would call that nepotism. Yeah, okay, so there is a this,
- 8:36Speaker 1: there's actually an equation for it. Yeah, take it away, Okay,
- 8:41Speaker 1: because I looked at that you're talking about the Hamilton's rule. Yes,
- 8:45Speaker 1: but I got you know, my eyes kind of glazed over.
- 8:48Speaker 1: It's tough. Hopefully we won't go down a false positives
- 8:50Speaker 1: rabbit hole, yeah, like we did in that episode. But
- 8:54Speaker 1: there's this guy, Mr Hamilton's. Dr Hamilton's to us, there's
- 8:58Speaker 1: a million things he hasn't done, and uh, what his
- 9:02Speaker 1: name was, William D. Hamiltons. This is from the sixties.
- 9:04Speaker 1: This struck me as it would like it would have
- 9:06Speaker 1: been old. But whatever, he's a technocratic biologist and he
- 9:10Speaker 1: basically said there there is a formula for calculating why
- 9:15Speaker 1: an animal would do something that seems altruistic, and it
- 9:19Speaker 1: has to do with nepotism or kin selection. And this
- 9:23Speaker 1: equation is our times B is greater than C done.
- 9:27Speaker 1: Okay to stop there. Did we talk about this and
- 9:31Speaker 1: kin selection? We had to it, but I don't think so, man,
- 9:33Speaker 1: it does not. I think we talked about it without
- 9:36Speaker 1: ever saying the name of it, and the formula itself
- 9:41Speaker 1: danced around it. Basically, So just real quick, are is
- 9:44Speaker 1: the genetic related nous of the the person doing the
- 9:49Speaker 1: altruistic act and the person benefiting B is the benefit
- 9:54Speaker 1: of it? And then that has to be so multiply
- 9:57Speaker 1: those two things, and that would be has to be
- 10:00Speaker 1: greater than see which is the cost. So the little
- 10:04Speaker 1: worker bees and the worker ants that know, hey, I'm
- 10:07Speaker 1: never gonna rise to the top here, but I'm gonna
- 10:09Speaker 1: bust my butt for the queen because everyone else will
- 10:13Speaker 1: benefit from it. So that so for each worker be
- 10:17Speaker 1: the cost to be one. They're one, they're going to die,
- 10:21Speaker 1: they're not going to be able to reproduce and pass
- 10:23Speaker 1: on jeans. But they're related to the queens, say by
- 10:26Speaker 1: sharing fifty of their genes, and the queen is going
- 10:29Speaker 1: to go on and make ten thousand new bees. So
- 10:33Speaker 1: you've got ten thousand times point five is the left
- 10:37Speaker 1: hand of the equation, and that is way way greater
- 10:39Speaker 1: than cost, which is one. So therefore Hamilton's rule would
- 10:43Speaker 1: apply in that circumstance. It seems dumb to me. I
- 10:48Speaker 1: think that there's way more going on in life than that.
- 10:50Speaker 1: I don't think you can boil animal behavior down to
- 10:54Speaker 1: a formula, especially such a simple formula. I mean, sigma
- 10:57Speaker 1: doesn't even appear in this formula. It's that simple. We
- 11:00Speaker 1: can read this formula. It's that simple. Yeah, I almost
- 11:03Speaker 1: got it. It's that simple. So I think it's reductive.
- 11:06Speaker 1: I think, is what I'm trying to say, which is
- 11:08Speaker 1: alert a word I just picked up recently. You've been
- 11:10Speaker 1: thrown it around a lot. I've heard it before, but
- 11:12Speaker 1: it's really kind of made sense to me lately. So
- 11:16Speaker 1: I think that it's a reductive formula, and I uh
- 11:19Speaker 1: dismay the the use of it. All right. Uh, This
- 11:23Speaker 1: I found super interesting is the origins of the word itself.
- 11:27Speaker 1: Sometimes word origins are kind of cool, like this, Well,
- 11:30Speaker 1: you're big time into it. Aren't you. Yeah, when it
- 11:32Speaker 1: you know, sometimes it'll lit'll light my fire, you know
- 11:35Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like the McDonald triad, but it has
- 11:38Speaker 1: the Latin root nepos an ep o s which means nephew.
- 11:43Speaker 1: And this came about because of Catholic priests, who, as
- 11:46Speaker 1: everyone knows, aren't supposed to make sex, so they don't
- 11:52Speaker 1: not always, okay, sometimes they do, and sometimes they have children,
- 11:56Speaker 1: and in order to promote their uns h without without
- 12:03Speaker 1: having to say yeah, like my son exactly, they would
- 12:06Speaker 1: call them their nephew. And that's where it actually, that's
- 12:10Speaker 1: where the root nepos means nephew. That's where it comes from. Yeah.
- 12:13Speaker 1: I saw somewhere, I think in Adam So you know
- 12:16Speaker 1: Saul Bellows, the writer, Yeah, yeah, his son Adam wrote
- 12:20Speaker 1: very very long article in the Atlantic in the early
- 12:23Speaker 1: two thousand's arguing in favor of nepotism, I think unsuccessfully,
- 12:28Speaker 1: but I think he said one of the remaining definitions
- 12:32Speaker 1: of nephew is an illegitimate son of a Catholic priest.
- 12:38Speaker 1: Oh really still today weird? Yeah. And then the three
- 12:42Speaker 1: types that that the grabster I like to liken it
- 12:46Speaker 1: to the core Leone family, um, self determined, coercive and opportunistic.
- 12:51Speaker 1: So self determined being when you take a family job
- 12:55Speaker 1: a family member offers because it aligns with your own
- 12:58Speaker 1: career goals, which would be funny, that's a that's pretty ideal,
- 13:02Speaker 1: sunny Corleon, Oh, I got you. I thought you met Sonny.
- 13:05Speaker 1: Like coercive nepotism is when you take a job because
- 13:10Speaker 1: you feel forced into it, which is clearly Michael, Michael. Uh.
- 13:14Speaker 1: And then opportunistic, which is I don't feel pressured and
- 13:19Speaker 1: I just take take the job because it's the easiest path,
- 13:22Speaker 1: which is Fredo through and through. That really works, it
- 13:25Speaker 1: really does nice job. Interesting, I mean it stood out
- 13:28Speaker 1: to me like uh, sore thumb. Sure it did not
- 13:33Speaker 1: stick out like a sore thumb to me. That's really something. Yeah,
- 13:37Speaker 1: okay about that. You want to take a break, Yeah,
- 13:39Speaker 1: and I might just leave drop your mind, all right,
- 13:42Speaker 1: see you? M h okay, everybody, I talk Chuck into
- 14:06Speaker 1: staying for the rest of the episode during the ad break,
- 14:09Speaker 1: I'm here. So um, you've got the definition of nepotism
- 14:16Speaker 1: in the biological sense. There's also the sociological sense we
- 14:19Speaker 1: kind of touched on in um in the workplace. But
- 14:23Speaker 1: we still have even said what nepotism is, just like
- 14:25Speaker 1: we do, okay, Well, so nepotism is basically doling out favors,
- 14:33Speaker 1: typically jobs, by a person in a position of power
- 14:36Speaker 1: to people who are their relatives. There's another very very
- 14:41Speaker 1: closely related um thing called crony ism, which is doing
- 14:45Speaker 1: the same thing but handing it out to people who
- 14:47Speaker 1: are friends or friends of friends and building a network.
- 14:51Speaker 1: And whether it's a business or a political institution or whatever,
- 14:55Speaker 1: where there are favors done, reciprocal favors owed, and you
- 14:59Speaker 1: had this very dense web that overlays that company or
- 15:03Speaker 1: that overlays that institution. It makes it very tough for
- 15:07Speaker 1: outsiders to get into, which is why a nepotism. Nepotism
- 15:12Speaker 1: is the opposite of a meritocracy. A meritocracy is you
- 15:16Speaker 1: are good at this job, this job is open, we
- 15:19Speaker 1: want you to come fill it. Instead with nepotism, you
- 15:24Speaker 1: say we've got this position open. Um, let's get my
- 15:27Speaker 1: nephew meaning my illegitimate son in here, because I want
- 15:31Speaker 1: him to prosper in life in this position will enrich him. Yeah,
- 15:35Speaker 1: it's a really tricky thing because you know, you want
- 15:39Speaker 1: to do friends and family favors. Uh, but it's a
- 15:44Speaker 1: slippery slope if they're not qualified. Even if they are,
- 15:47Speaker 1: it's you know, has it's just has an ugly connotation
- 15:50Speaker 1: to it. But myself, I would be like, Yeah, I
- 15:53Speaker 1: want to want to hook up my friends and family
- 15:56Speaker 1: right and I want to be hooked up right. So
- 15:58Speaker 1: you kind of you kind of hit it. And it
- 16:00Speaker 1: seems to me from everybody, And I don't necessarily agree
- 16:03Speaker 1: with this, but it seems like everybody says it's not
- 16:06Speaker 1: going anywhere. The best you can hope for is a
- 16:09Speaker 1: healthy mix, And I guess it seems like a healthy
- 16:12Speaker 1: mix is the best way to do it, because you
- 16:15Speaker 1: don't want a pure meritocracy, because what you end up
- 16:19Speaker 1: with is an institution that has all brains and no heart,
- 16:25Speaker 1: Whereas if you have the opposite side, the other side
- 16:28Speaker 1: of the spectrum, pure nepotism, you have lots of heart
- 16:32Speaker 1: but no brains. So you want a mixture of the two.
- 16:36Speaker 1: And in one of the places where nepotism has traditionally
- 16:39Speaker 1: been frowned upon here in the US is in government,
- 16:45Speaker 1: Like we basically say, you go do whatever you want
- 16:49Speaker 1: in your own business, run it however you like. Even
- 16:52Speaker 1: a publicly traded company that started as a family company
- 16:54Speaker 1: will sometimes still have a family member running the show.
- 16:58Speaker 1: But with government, we we say no, nobody can do
- 17:02Speaker 1: anything nepotistic in government. We've said it from the outset,
- 17:06Speaker 1: and we've also broken that rule from the outside too.
- 17:08Speaker 1: It's a long standing American tradition to include nepotism and government. Yeah,
- 17:14Speaker 1: whether or not you're John F. Kennedy and you say, well,
- 17:17Speaker 1: I'm gonna make Bobby my attorney general even though he
- 17:20Speaker 1: has no law experience, or if you're the current would
- 17:26Speaker 1: you say that was a great Ted Kennedy but not
- 17:29Speaker 1: John F. Kennedy, Or if you know the current president
- 17:33Speaker 1: giving his his daughter and son in law positions on
- 17:36Speaker 1: his White House staff, which I thought this was interesting
- 17:39Speaker 1: them the law um as far as doing that. After
- 17:45Speaker 1: John F. Kennedy appointed his brother as U S Attorney General,
- 17:49Speaker 1: there was a law passed federal law saying you cannot
- 17:52Speaker 1: appoint a family member to an important position. But in
- 17:55Speaker 1: two thousand and seventeen, the d o J said a
- 17:58Speaker 1: president can a point a family member to their own
- 18:02Speaker 1: personal White House staff. But after FOIA documents UH were
- 18:07Speaker 1: released in two thousand seventeen Freedom of Information Act, we
- 18:11Speaker 1: learned that since the Nixon administration, you could not even
- 18:16Speaker 1: a point white House staff, and it's kind of was
- 18:20Speaker 1: in it was overruled. There was a reversal of this,
- 18:23Speaker 1: and was it to allow Trump to do that? I
- 18:26Speaker 1: think it was just a reversal of the pattern, Not
- 18:28Speaker 1: like they said, Okay, we'll reverse our ruling. There was
- 18:31Speaker 1: just a history of of the d O J ruling
- 18:33Speaker 1: against nepotism in White House staff. No, it says the
- 18:37Speaker 1: January two seventeen ruling was a reversal, Right, a reversal
- 18:41Speaker 1: of the pattern since Nixon, I think is what they're saying. Oh,
- 18:45Speaker 1: it says reversal of the policy. So I thought they
- 18:47Speaker 1: literally changed the rule. So what I saw is that
- 18:52Speaker 1: the ruling against it is actually counter two the tradition
- 18:58Speaker 1: of the presidents picking his advisors without any input or
- 19:05Speaker 1: oversight from Congress. Like the government, the president's advisors are
- 19:09Speaker 1: supposed to be the president's own picks, and whether it's
- 19:12Speaker 1: family or not, t s that's the president's own picks.
- 19:16Speaker 1: That apparently is the way that it's always been. But
- 19:19Speaker 1: then since Nixon, they started shooting down that idea. Right,
- 19:23Speaker 1: And the reason we're talking about politics now is because
- 19:26Speaker 1: it's one of the clearer examples of um how it
- 19:30Speaker 1: can go wrong. Because the reason nepotism is so harmful
- 19:34Speaker 1: in politics is because the we're set up in a
- 19:36Speaker 1: way in this country, in such a way supposedly to
- 19:39Speaker 1: have a system of checks and balances to where no
- 19:43Speaker 1: one person is above the law. And obviously, if you
- 19:46Speaker 1: fill positions with family members, the rule of law and
- 19:50Speaker 1: the good of the country is has a very good
- 19:52Speaker 1: chance of coming in second place to protecting your family member. Yeah.
- 19:57Speaker 1: So one of the one of the explanations I saw
- 19:59Speaker 1: was that the reason nepotism is bad for democracy is
- 20:04Speaker 1: when you have people working in a democracy and the
- 20:07Speaker 1: actual government of the democracy, those people are supposed to
- 20:11Speaker 1: be defenders of that democracy and loyal to the democracy,
- 20:15Speaker 1: not loyal to the person in power. Nepotism inverts that
- 20:19Speaker 1: to where the people who are running the show are
- 20:22Speaker 1: loyal to the person in power, not the institution. So
- 20:25Speaker 1: what you're seeing again, right, there is a tension between
- 20:28Speaker 1: the meritocracy, where you have people who are loyal and
- 20:31Speaker 1: dedicated to the institution, and nepotism, where you have people
- 20:35Speaker 1: who are loyal and dedicated to the person empower who's
- 20:38Speaker 1: doling out the jobs. And the reason that's bad for
- 20:41Speaker 1: democracy is the people who owe their job to that
- 20:44Speaker 1: person in a very direct manner, UM may look the
- 20:49Speaker 1: other way on wrongdoing. They may also not be qualified
- 20:53Speaker 1: for the jobs, so they may not even be aware
- 20:55Speaker 1: that there's stuff that they're supposed to be loyal to
- 20:57Speaker 1: that they're not being loyal to. UM. Like in the tuition,
- 21:00Speaker 1: there's a lot of pitfalls and prat falls to nepotism
- 21:04Speaker 1: as a as a general rule of thumb in a presidency. Yeah,
- 21:08Speaker 1: and I know brought it up before, but it still
- 21:10Speaker 1: makes me laugh every time I think of Jared Kushner
- 21:14Speaker 1: taking his first tour of the White House after the election,
- 21:17Speaker 1: when he was meeting all the people and he said,
- 21:21Speaker 1: everyone's so nice. You know how many of these people
- 21:22Speaker 1: are staying on They're like nobody they worked for President Obama.
- 21:28Speaker 1: That's not how this works. And oh is he is
- 21:32Speaker 1: he like a Democrat? Or was he a Democrat? Originally?
- 21:35Speaker 1: I don't know. I saw it back in like an
- 21:37Speaker 1: article from two thousand, fifteen or sixteen, and he said, um,
- 21:41Speaker 1: he was asked if he would be voting for Hillary
- 21:44Speaker 1: or for Trump, and he said family first, and they said, well,
- 21:48Speaker 1: there's pretty good reason why why he was given this
- 21:52Speaker 1: position of power. He's very loyal to family. Apparently when
- 21:55Speaker 1: his dad was in jail for tax fraud, he went
- 21:58Speaker 1: visited him every week. And if you are, if you
- 22:02Speaker 1: are a candidate for nepotism, you uh, like loyalty to
- 22:07Speaker 1: family is basically that's your qualification. If you're running a
- 22:12Speaker 1: massive three hundred and fifty million population democracy, what you
- 22:19Speaker 1: want are people who are qualified to do the position
- 22:22Speaker 1: that they're in. Loyalty to family has nothing to do
- 22:25Speaker 1: with that kind of thing. And that's why some people
- 22:27Speaker 1: say you need nepotises. And because loyalty to family is
- 22:30Speaker 1: still important, you don't take another break. I think we
- 22:33Speaker 1: should m hm. So Chuck I said before the break
- 22:58Speaker 1: that like family, loyalty to family, that's the heart of
- 23:01Speaker 1: nepotism or the basis of nepotism, right, um, and family
- 23:07Speaker 1: is very much associated with nepotism. And the family is
- 23:10Speaker 1: if you look at the world and humanity from a
- 23:14Speaker 1: sociological perspective, that is the smallest unit of community. Yes,
- 23:18Speaker 1: there's the individual, but the individual doesn't represent a community.
- 23:23Speaker 1: A family represents a community. And so basically, throughout history,
- 23:26Speaker 1: throughout time all over the world, the family has been
- 23:30Speaker 1: the basic unit of society. And then it just kind
- 23:33Speaker 1: of builds from there, Right, Yeah, you got your family,
- 23:37Speaker 1: and then many families forms your tribe. Your tribe forms
- 23:40Speaker 1: your community, and then outward until you have you know, cities, counties, states, nations, right,
- 23:47Speaker 1: and it just gets more sophisticated from there. But you
- 23:49Speaker 1: can reduce all of it, which is very reductive, back
- 23:52Speaker 1: to the family, the basic unit. And I think that's
- 23:55Speaker 1: one reason why cults are so unpower suitable for so
- 24:00Speaker 1: many people who are in cult because one of the
- 24:03Speaker 1: main characteristics of cults is that they break apart families.
- 24:07Speaker 1: The family unit does not exist in the cult. The
- 24:10Speaker 1: cult itself is one big family, so that these natural
- 24:13Speaker 1: family units have been broken into their constituent pieces and
- 24:18Speaker 1: reformed into part of this larger hole, which I think
- 24:20Speaker 1: strikes some people is highly unnatural and like a really
- 24:24Speaker 1: visceral way. Are you watching or have you watched World
- 24:28Speaker 1: Country yet? Is it good? God? Is it good? It's bananas?
- 24:32Speaker 1: I gotta see it. I mean bananas? Is it straight
- 24:36Speaker 1: up documentary, straight up documentary. And I had never heard
- 24:40Speaker 1: of this stuff. We're talking about Wild Wild Country on Netflix,
- 24:42Speaker 1: the six part documentary series. But you know, I won't
- 24:45Speaker 1: I won't get into it. But it's um and I
- 24:49Speaker 1: had never heard of it, and it was such a
- 24:51Speaker 1: big thing. I wondered how I never heard of it
- 24:53Speaker 1: because it wasn't like you know, the Source family and
- 24:56Speaker 1: father Yad. I mean, it was half a million people
- 24:59Speaker 1: around in the world. It's bananas. That is bananas. I
- 25:02Speaker 1: gotta check it out. So I've been watching Black Mirror
- 25:05Speaker 1: lately and I haven't seen the new season yet. I've
- 25:08Speaker 1: never seen it before in my life until like two
- 25:10Speaker 1: days ago, and I'm like, where if you're been in
- 25:12Speaker 1: Black Mirror, yeah, it'll put you in a dark frame
- 25:15Speaker 1: of mind, though I'm usually You're like, it's kind of
- 25:19Speaker 1: been lighting me up. I actually it's true. I've been
- 25:21Speaker 1: working on Existential Risks, which has been like in the
- 25:25Speaker 1: gutter right now, so it kind of is that. I'm like, well,
- 25:29Speaker 1: this is kind of funny. That's funny. Actually, I saw
- 25:32Speaker 1: the episode San Junipero. Did you see that one? I
- 25:35Speaker 1: don't remember the names, but one where like it's in
- 25:37Speaker 1: the afterlife and the women like basically find each other
- 25:41Speaker 1: in the end of their life and they get to
- 25:43Speaker 1: um go spend e trinity together having fun. It was
- 25:46Speaker 1: really sweet. Yeah, that one was. That one was good.
- 25:49Speaker 1: It's like twilight Zone every now and then had a
- 25:51Speaker 1: heartwarming episode, right. But I didn't realize that Black Mirror
- 25:54Speaker 1: was our twilight Zone. No one told me, what do
- 25:58Speaker 1: you think it was? I don't know what I thought
- 26:01Speaker 1: it was, but I didn't get it in that sense.
- 26:03Speaker 1: And once I did, I'm like, give me all this
- 26:05Speaker 1: that you got. I want it all. It's pretty cool
- 26:07Speaker 1: all it wants. So Confucius says, uh, And this one
- 26:12Speaker 1: I didn't fully get. I think Ed's talking about the
- 26:15Speaker 1: tensions throughout history between family loyalty and loyalty to the
- 26:19Speaker 1: state and how that played out in China, because Confucianism
- 26:24Speaker 1: talks a lot about family loyalty. Um. But then Communist China, uh,
- 26:32Speaker 1: Like Confucianism says, nepotism can be a good thing, right,
- 26:35Speaker 1: But in communist China that was all about meritocracy. Is
- 26:38Speaker 1: that correct? But then the meritocracy got so uh powerful
- 26:46Speaker 1: that people had a tremendous amount of unchecked power and
- 26:50Speaker 1: they ended up just resorting to nepotism. Okay, that sort
- 26:54Speaker 1: of makes sense. Sound so I think what I was saying, Um,
- 26:56Speaker 1: I had trouble with that too. It took me a
- 26:58Speaker 1: few times. I think what he was saying is that
- 27:00Speaker 1: is a great encapsulation of just the you know those
- 27:04Speaker 1: desktop executive balls that could click click back and forth.
- 27:08Speaker 1: On one end, you got nepotism. On the other end,
- 27:10Speaker 1: you've got meritocracy, and they're just constantly going back and forth,
- 27:14Speaker 1: and every once in a while you get a good
- 27:16Speaker 1: mix right in the middle, and when all the balls
- 27:18Speaker 1: are settled, you get a nice mix of nepotism and meritocracy.
- 27:22Speaker 1: But then when one ball is in the air and
- 27:23Speaker 1: one side of the other, you've got too much and
- 27:25Speaker 1: the system inevitably shifts towards the other direction. That's what
- 27:29Speaker 1: I think it is. Yeah, And it seems like too
- 27:31Speaker 1: when he's talking about the Roman Empire and stuff like,
- 27:34Speaker 1: eventually it's gonna bite you in the butt if you
- 27:37Speaker 1: just keep it's almost incestual, and sometimes it literally was.
- 27:41Speaker 1: But if you keep promoting your own family, you're gonna
- 27:43Speaker 1: eventually promote the dufus, who has no idea how to
- 27:47Speaker 1: run an empire cousin ken Yeah, ken Kin's in there
- 27:53Speaker 1: destroying the Roman Empire from within because he's a moron. So, um,
- 27:58Speaker 1: if you get enough cut and Kens throughout your empire,
- 28:02Speaker 1: the empire collapses because you you need people who know
- 28:05Speaker 1: what they're doing. And I think that's one reason why
- 28:08Speaker 1: so many people are just totally up in arms about
- 28:11Speaker 1: the idea of Jared Kushner having such like a first
- 28:14Speaker 1: rate job in the White House is they're like, oh God,
- 28:18Speaker 1: the whole the whole two fifty year old experiments about
- 28:22Speaker 1: to collapse because of this guy. That's probably not gonna happen,
- 28:26Speaker 1: but the the these people recognize that the system is fragile,
- 28:32Speaker 1: it's not made to steal. And if you do that
- 28:34Speaker 1: enough times, if that becomes the system, then the system
- 28:37Speaker 1: does collapse. It's probably not going to collapse just on
- 28:40Speaker 1: that first person, but it can given enough time and
- 28:44Speaker 1: if it spreads out enough. And I think that's what
- 28:46Speaker 1: people are really upset and scared about. Yeah, and you
- 28:49Speaker 1: know who thinks the whole idea that nepotism is a
- 28:52Speaker 1: bad thing. It's hysterical the monarchy, right, Like, what are
- 28:56Speaker 1: you talking about? That's what it's all about. Yeah, we
- 28:59Speaker 1: have a whole system him very detailed system as to
- 29:03Speaker 1: who has assigned the throne in the lineage. So uh,
- 29:07Speaker 1: you know, get out of my face with that stuff. Yeah,
- 29:09Speaker 1: there was a system of primo janitor, which is the
- 29:12Speaker 1: first the first born son was the one who inherited everything. Uh,
- 29:17Speaker 1: you had entitlements like the title of the father passed
- 29:21Speaker 1: down to the son as well as part of the estate.
- 29:23Speaker 1: Estates were passed down intact, they went from the father
- 29:26Speaker 1: to the son. The state didn't have anything to say
- 29:28Speaker 1: about na give me some of that. And if you
- 29:31Speaker 1: listen to our trickle down Economics episode, you know that
- 29:34Speaker 1: josh and Omics frowns on that kind of thing um.
- 29:37Speaker 1: And one of the one of the main points of
- 29:40Speaker 1: the American the founding of America was too to get
- 29:46Speaker 1: away from that, to break up like in the colonies.
- 29:50Speaker 1: They're like some of those landed estates in Great Britain
- 29:54Speaker 1: had made their way over to America. And one of
- 29:57Speaker 1: the reasons why there's such a thing as a tax
- 30:00Speaker 1: and the idea that the that your estate could be
- 30:03Speaker 1: taxed and that there was no such thing as titles anymore,
- 30:06Speaker 1: it was to get away from nepotism that was so
- 30:09Speaker 1: rampant and that the UK had been built on. Yeah,
- 30:12Speaker 1: I mean Thomas Jefferson, he was one of the main
- 30:14Speaker 1: dudes who kind of pushed for that, right, Yeah, saying
- 30:17Speaker 1: let's break up these huge land estates that are just passed.
- 30:21Speaker 1: And that's kind of one of the problems with nepotism
- 30:23Speaker 1: as it can it just sort of feeds that um
- 30:29Speaker 1: feeds that thing that creates the one per cent, which
- 30:32Speaker 1: is uh, anyone of any minority population good luck. Like
- 30:37Speaker 1: you don't have a shot because you don't have the
- 30:39Speaker 1: relatives in those positions to help you out, you're never
- 30:43Speaker 1: gonna get ahead. I read this really really great article
- 30:46Speaker 1: from the Boston Review called the Dream Hoarders, and it
- 30:51Speaker 1: was it was saying, like everybody targets the top one
- 30:55Speaker 1: percent as the people who are like hoarding the American dream.
- 30:59Speaker 1: Actually it's the top that do it, and they do
- 31:02Speaker 1: it through things like nepotism and cronyism. Like, hey, my kid,
- 31:06Speaker 1: it needs an internship, can you can you hook him
- 31:08Speaker 1: up for the summer? And then some kid who's whose
- 31:11Speaker 1: dad isn't friends with the guy who runs the company
- 31:14Speaker 1: doesn't get that and so you perpetuate this, the top
- 31:19Speaker 1: get to kind of get to keep going and become
- 31:23Speaker 1: this elite group. And what Adam Bellows was saying, I
- 31:28Speaker 1: think in this case quite rightly, is that no matter
- 31:31Speaker 1: whether it's a nepotistic one or a meritocratic one, you
- 31:36Speaker 1: have an elite that forms, and that's like this crust
- 31:39Speaker 1: that forms on whatever institution you have, and one breaks
- 31:44Speaker 1: up the other nepotism breaks it up, which I think
- 31:46Speaker 1: is what's going on with the Trump White House right now.
- 31:49Speaker 1: It's breaking up the meritocratic elite. And then eventually the
- 31:52Speaker 1: meritocratic elite will be like, enough of this nepotism, We
- 31:55Speaker 1: need to get that back. But you have an elite
- 31:58Speaker 1: that forms, and that's when the other side pushes in
- 32:02Speaker 1: and breaks it up. Yeah, but it's so like I said,
- 32:05Speaker 1: I think we're all guilty of making that phone call,
- 32:09Speaker 1: being like, you know, my cousin, let me, let me
- 32:11Speaker 1: make a call, let me see what I can do.
- 32:13Speaker 1: Right this Boston reader things said, don't do that. If
- 32:16Speaker 1: you really believe in in merit if you really believe
- 32:19Speaker 1: in the meritocracy, don't do that, Like you are committing
- 32:24Speaker 1: essentially a moral crime against a poor kid. I know, man,
- 32:29Speaker 1: it's really tough to reckon with that as uh uh,
- 32:35Speaker 1: it's really tough to reckon with that because like my
- 32:37Speaker 1: nieces and nephews, I would do anything to try and
- 32:40Speaker 1: help them out. Uh and they are they would earn
- 32:43Speaker 1: it because they are great and smart and it's not
- 32:45Speaker 1: like he's a real screw up. But let me see
- 32:48Speaker 1: if I can make a call. But even if they
- 32:50Speaker 1: are qualified, it's disrupts the system and might keep someone
- 32:55Speaker 1: who doesn't have that opportunity down, and for sure does
- 32:58Speaker 1: and they they Nepotist has been called a form of discrimination,
- 33:03Speaker 1: you know, like if you I would assume that most
- 33:05Speaker 1: of your nieces and nephews are white, right, Okay, Well,
- 33:10Speaker 1: I mean if you have some adopted like people in
- 33:11Speaker 1: the family, it might not be. But for the most part,
- 33:14Speaker 1: when people pick up that phone and make that call,
- 33:16Speaker 1: they're actually helping out their own race, their own ethnic group.
- 33:20Speaker 1: There's certainly their own socioeconomic class, and so it is
- 33:23Speaker 1: a form of discrimination in that sense too. It can also,
- 33:26Speaker 1: and it was for a very long time, a form
- 33:29Speaker 1: of sexism as well, sexist discrimination because um, when whenever
- 33:34Speaker 1: we had anti nepotism laws. It was very frequently in
- 33:38Speaker 1: the form of a no spouse rule, so your spouse
- 33:40Speaker 1: couldn't come work at a company. Well, usually the men
- 33:43Speaker 1: were already in the company, so it kept women out
- 33:45Speaker 1: of the workplace, right. And then there's also you know,
- 33:48Speaker 1: you see examples of I guess what some people would
- 33:50Speaker 1: call positive nepotism or crony ism. Um, Like in the
- 33:55Speaker 1: film business. Let's say when uh uh, let's say that
- 33:59Speaker 1: was a TV show where an African American was running
- 34:03Speaker 1: the show, um, which is a rarity these days, but
- 34:06Speaker 1: they may or like Spike Lee famously did for many years.
- 34:09Speaker 1: You know, I'm gonna hire black crew and give them
- 34:11Speaker 1: an opportunity as much as I can. And a lot
- 34:14Speaker 1: of people would say, well, that's a form of positive
- 34:16Speaker 1: nepotism or cronyism, which is interesting, right, And that's just
- 34:20Speaker 1: a whole other kettle of fish. Sure, right, um, but
- 34:23Speaker 1: it is still a form of cronyism, and it is
- 34:26Speaker 1: still a form of nepotism. I thought this one study
- 34:28Speaker 1: was interesting. Granted it was in the eighties, but that
- 34:32Speaker 1: was a paper that found the child of a doctor
- 34:35Speaker 1: has a fourteen percent greater chance of being admitted in
- 34:38Speaker 1: the medical school than someone whose parents were not doctors.
- 34:41Speaker 1: And that's after they controlled for variables. So that's called
- 34:45Speaker 1: you know, legacy admissions to universities. Things like that, that
- 34:49Speaker 1: all just sort of reinforces that thing of again usually
- 34:54Speaker 1: like um, white people with a little more money, uh,
- 35:00Speaker 1: getting admitted into these universities and into these programs not
- 35:03Speaker 1: based on marriage. And it's so funny too, because there's
- 35:06Speaker 1: so many people who consider themselves like liberal and progressive
- 35:10Speaker 1: and all that, but they wouldn't hesitate to pick up
- 35:12Speaker 1: the phone and support this entrenchment of this this ruling
- 35:17Speaker 1: class or group that there you know, a part of.
- 35:20Speaker 1: And and I mean it's tough like that that tension
- 35:24Speaker 1: you felt over that, over the guilt of doing that
- 35:27Speaker 1: and the guilt of not doing that, That is the
- 35:30Speaker 1: tension between meritocracy and nepotism right there in your heart. Yeah, Like,
- 35:34Speaker 1: I can't imagine my niece if I had an end
- 35:37Speaker 1: to a company or whatever that she was interested in
- 35:39Speaker 1: saying like, I'm sorry, I believe in meritocracy. I'm not
- 35:43Speaker 1: gonna I'm not gonna help you out. You could though
- 35:46Speaker 1: such a hard life lesson you know you could, But yes,
- 35:50Speaker 1: she'd be like, I hate my uncle cuts you ruin
- 35:54Speaker 1: my life, Uncle Chuck. I thought this was interesting too,
- 35:57Speaker 1: is when it comes to businesses. There was a study
- 35:59Speaker 1: that on the companies who promote CEO is based on
- 36:02Speaker 1: family ties perform fourteen percent worse UH in the ensuing years,
- 36:10Speaker 1: which is really interesting. Yeah, but I think that probably
- 36:13Speaker 1: entails a lot of those worst case examples of um
- 36:17Speaker 1: nepotism where it's like you're my son, You're a total
- 36:20Speaker 1: screw up and write all you want to do is
- 36:22Speaker 1: get all oscar wild with it right, But you're going
- 36:25Speaker 1: to be CEO now. Whereas if if it were like
- 36:29Speaker 1: a business owner who said you're going to be CEO
- 36:32Speaker 1: one day, go to school, learn this, go work for
- 36:35Speaker 1: one of our competitors, learn their think, and then you
- 36:37Speaker 1: can come around and you gotta work in this department,
- 36:39Speaker 1: that department, this department, that department. Then eventually, once you've
- 36:42Speaker 1: gained the respect of everybody in the company and all
- 36:44Speaker 1: of our customers, then you'll be ready to take over.
- 36:47Speaker 1: That would probably lead to a good outcome for your company. Well,
- 36:52Speaker 1: and it also points out that a lot of times
- 36:54Speaker 1: the good outcomes come when your company is very idiosyncratic,
- 36:59Speaker 1: if it's very speci cific um knowledge that you need
- 37:03Speaker 1: to run this company. Like if you're a bank that
- 37:06Speaker 1: only does business with goats, that's idiosyncratic. Yeah, if you're
- 37:10Speaker 1: goat bank, for sure, then you might benefit as a
- 37:15Speaker 1: company by handing the reins over to your son or
- 37:17Speaker 1: daughter who uh dealt a lot with with goat got banking,
- 37:22Speaker 1: goat banking. Yeah, you try to find an idiosyncratic business,
- 37:28Speaker 1: you can't find it. Well, I don't know. I think
- 37:30Speaker 1: I was thinking like Cobbler, but sure, goat banking. Yeah,
- 37:34Speaker 1: I guess Cobbler too. You got anything else? I don't
- 37:38Speaker 1: think there is anything else. I think we kind of
- 37:40Speaker 1: covered it mostly nepotism. If you all learn more about it,
- 37:44Speaker 1: you can type that word in the search bar how
- 37:46Speaker 1: stuff works, and they'll bring up this great article by
- 37:48Speaker 1: the Grab store. Uh. And since I said grabs there,
- 37:51Speaker 1: it's time for listener. Now, I'm gonna call this one
- 37:56Speaker 1: answer about paramedics, private paramedics, and boy, a couple of
- 38:02Speaker 1: things here. We really heard from a lot of paramedics,
- 38:05Speaker 1: So I think a lot of those folks are listening
- 38:07Speaker 1: out there while they're driving around. Well, yeah, nothing, and
- 38:13Speaker 1: we really heard from you Utah. We call put a
- 38:17Speaker 1: call out to Utah. Yeah, I mean they got a show.
- 38:20Speaker 1: We heard more from people from Utah than we did
- 38:22Speaker 1: paramedics even and there were a lot of paramedics in
- 38:25Speaker 1: Utah that are listening. So Salt Lake City, we're gonna
- 38:29Speaker 1: work it out for this year sometime. We're it's on
- 38:32Speaker 1: it's on the map, it's on the list, and because
- 38:35Speaker 1: of proximity Phoenix, we're hope we're going to try and
- 38:38Speaker 1: work it out for you because it's a hop, skip
- 38:40Speaker 1: and a jump plane wise from Salt Lake City. Yes,
- 38:44Speaker 1: so you guys win by proxy, that's right. So we're
- 38:46Speaker 1: hoping to do those two cities later in the years,
- 38:48Speaker 1: So stay tuned for that and quit emailing us. All right, Hey, guys,
- 38:53Speaker 1: just want to email you with information about private amilances.
- 38:55Speaker 1: My girlfriend I have almost twenty years of experience in
- 38:58Speaker 1: e m S and she's currently attending paramedic school. There
- 39:01Speaker 1: are two different types of private ambulances uh for profit
- 39:04Speaker 1: and nonprofit. For profit amilances make a majority of their
- 39:07Speaker 1: money from hospital discharges, where they contract with area hospitals
- 39:12Speaker 1: to take patients home or to a rehab facility. Contracts
- 39:16Speaker 1: with nursing homes, transport them to and from dialysis and
- 39:19Speaker 1: medical appointments, and transport to and also from inter facility transfers.
- 39:24Speaker 1: Private ambulance company I work for had a contract with
- 39:27Speaker 1: a rural hospital to transport emergency patients to a larger
- 39:30Speaker 1: hospital with more resources. It's like the feeder hospital. Uh.
- 39:36Speaker 1: Private ambulances can also have contracts with the municipalities to
- 39:39Speaker 1: provide private nine one one services, provide paramedics if the
- 39:43Speaker 1: municipality operates on an e m T level, or to
- 39:46Speaker 1: provide backup to the primary service. What I think that
- 39:50Speaker 1: kind of You'll just listen to it on slow motion.
- 39:52Speaker 1: Later you'll get it. Nonprofit private ambulances can be hospital
- 39:56Speaker 1: based or municipality based, and usually per emergency services. Very
- 40:02Speaker 1: rarely do they do non emergency medical transport. The fire
- 40:06Speaker 1: Department I volunteer on operates a nonprofit ambulance service and
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- 40:15Speaker 1: from Jay Haley. Thanks Jay, Thanks to you and your
- 40:17Speaker 1: girlfriend for twenty years of e m T service Between
- 40:21Speaker 1: you guys, it's great. Um. Did you ever hear the
- 40:24Speaker 1: story about the guy who drove the cab who picked
- 40:26Speaker 1: a woman up and Um found out that he was
- 40:29Speaker 1: driving her to a hospice and was basically took her
- 40:34Speaker 1: on a tour of like her memory lane or something
- 40:37Speaker 1: like that, and drove her around for hours to like
- 40:40Speaker 1: she was like my old house or something like that,
- 40:44Speaker 1: and just basically drove her around for hours, and then
- 40:46Speaker 1: when they found when she was finally ready, took her
- 40:48Speaker 1: to hospice and wouldn't take a dime from her. Yeah,
- 40:52Speaker 1: I think I remember that, and I think I remember
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