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- 0:03Speaker 1: On the morning of May seventh, twenty nineteen, a meter
- 0:08Speaker 1: reader named Eric Bell walked through the back gate at
- 0:11Speaker 1: four to four one to Larkin Street in Dunstan, Ohio,
- 0:15Speaker 1: and found a single cream colored flat shoe sitting perfectly
- 0:19Speaker 1: centered on the utility meter pad, no mud on it,
- 0:22Speaker 1: no scuff dry despite a day of rain, and no
- 0:25Speaker 1: matching shoe anywhere in the yard. The back gate was
- 0:29Speaker 1: latched from the inside. The inner front door stood open
- 0:32Speaker 1: behind the screen. A cat was pacing the kitchen floor.
- 0:36Speaker 1: The woman who lived there was simply gone. What made
- 0:39Speaker 1: investigators stop cold was not the absence. It was that shoe,
- 0:44Speaker 1: clean and dry and centered, like someone had placed it
- 0:48Speaker 1: there deliberately. A detail that small should not have mattered.
- 0:53Speaker 1: It mattered enormously. There was a man on the other
- 0:56Speaker 1: end of a phone who had spent four months dismantling
- 0:59Speaker 1: Cynthia Burntness's sense of what was real, and when investigators
- 1:03Speaker 1: finally understood what he had built inside her mind, the
- 1:07Speaker 1: shoe would explain itself. Cynthia Burns was fifty four years old,
- 1:13Speaker 1: recently retired from twenty six years as a dental hygienist.
- 1:17Speaker 1: She had worked steadily, saved carefully, and by early two
- 1:21Speaker 1: thousand nineteen, her checking account held just over forty thousand,
- 1:25Speaker 1: six hundred dollars. She lived alone at four four one
- 1:28Speaker 1: two Larkin Street, a house she kept with the same
- 1:32Speaker 1: attention she brought to everything. The front beds were tidy,
- 1:36Speaker 1: the back yard had raised garden plots with hand labeled
- 1:39Speaker 1: wooden steaks. She grew kale, tomatoes, and herbs. She gave
- 1:43Speaker 1: to her neighbor, Jean Falkner when the season ran ahead
- 1:46Speaker 1: of her. Renee, her daughter lived in Columbus, about forty
- 1:51Speaker 1: miles away.
- 1:52Speaker 2: They talked regularly.
- 1:53Speaker 1: Cynthia's closest friend, Brenda Wick, described her as grounded and deliberate,
- 1:58Speaker 1: not impulsive, not naive some.
- 2:01Speaker 2: One who read the fine point.
- 2:04Speaker 1: She also had a cat ruined mila and a garden
- 2:07Speaker 1: that was her primary project in retirement. In late January
- 2:11Speaker 1: two thousand nineteen, she posted a photograph of her kale
- 2:15Speaker 1: seedlings to a regional Facebook gardening group. The photo was ordinary,
- 2:20Speaker 1: a few people liked it. One man left a comment.
- 2:24Speaker 1: That comment came from a profile presenting itself as Daniel Marsh,
- 2:28Speaker 1: a civil engineer and widower based in Pittsburgh. He noted
- 2:32Speaker 1: the variety of kale she had chosen, and asked about
- 2:35Speaker 1: her soil amendment strategy. It was a specific question, the
- 2:39Speaker 1: kind a gardener would find worth answering. What followed over
- 2:42Speaker 1: the next two to three weeks was a steady, calibrated
- 2:45Speaker 1: flood of attention messages every morning long evening calls. He
- 2:51Speaker 1: asked about Renee, about the house, about what retirement felt
- 2:55Speaker 1: like after decades of structured work. He described his own loss,
- 3:00Speaker 1: a wife who had died of cancer three years earlier,
- 3:04Speaker 1: a grown son he rarely saw. He said he had
- 3:07Speaker 1: not felt close to any one since the persona had
- 3:11Speaker 1: a name, a professional biography, a grief history, and a
- 3:14Speaker 1: way of making Cynthia feel that what she said mattered
- 3:17Speaker 1: to him. There was no face she could verify in person.
- 3:21Speaker 1: By February, she had downloaded an application called secure Link
- 3:25Speaker 1: at his request. Video calls ran through a rotating server
- 3:29Speaker 1: platform that left no stable metadata.
- 3:32Speaker 2: She saw a face on those calls. That face was
- 3:35Speaker 2: never recovered or confirmed.
- 3:38Speaker 1: By the time February became March, Cynthia Burns had allowed
- 3:41Speaker 1: some one she had never met in person to become
- 3:44Speaker 1: the organizing presence in her daily life. That was not
- 3:47Speaker 1: a failure of intelligence.
- 3:49Speaker 2: It was the result of a method one.
- 3:52Speaker 1: That, according to forensic social worker PAULA Simmons, had been
- 3:55Speaker 1: refined across in at least three years and multiple targets.
- 4:00Speaker 1: The person running it had no prior criminal record. He
- 4:04Speaker 1: was patient, technically, careful, and he had.
- 4:07Speaker 2: Done this before. What Cynthia did not know and could
- 4:11Speaker 2: not have known, was.
- 4:12Speaker 1: That somewhere in a storage unit in Huber Heights, Ohio,
- 4:16Speaker 1: there was a handwritten notebook with her name on a tab,
- 4:20Speaker 1: nine pages of notes, organized by date in a category.
- 4:24Speaker 2: She was not a person he had fallen for. She
- 4:27Speaker 2: was a five and assisted.
- 4:29Speaker 1: In March of twenty nineteen, a man appeared in Cynthia
- 4:33Speaker 1: Burns's backyard. Jean Faulkner, her neighbor, watched him from across
- 4:38Speaker 1: the fence. The man wore a utility vest and carried
- 4:41Speaker 1: a clipboard. He spent roughly forty minutes moving along the
- 4:45Speaker 1: raised garden beds, studying the labeled stakes, making notes. He
- 4:49Speaker 1: looked exactly like someone who was supposed to be there.
- 4:53Speaker 1: No gas company in Dunstan had any record of a
- 4:55Speaker 1: service call to four four one two Larkin Street, that month.
- 4:59Speaker 2: Not that day, not that week not at all.
- 5:02Speaker 1: That visit was not about the garden, but understanding what
- 5:05Speaker 1: it was about requires first understanding what had already been
- 5:09Speaker 1: built inside Cynthia's phone. Sometime in February, at the instruction
- 5:14Speaker 1: of the man she knew as Daniel Marsh, Cynthia had
- 5:16Speaker 1: downloaded a banking application. It sat on her home screen,
- 5:20Speaker 1: ordinary looking functional. By April first, her checking account held
- 5:25Speaker 1: just over forty thousand, six hundred dollars savings accumulated across
- 5:30Speaker 1: a working life set aside with the discipline of someone
- 5:33Speaker 1: who had spent decades managing her own finances. That balance
- 5:37Speaker 1: would not survive the spring. Between April first and May seventh,
- 5:42Speaker 1: seven transfers left that account. They averaged about five thousand,
- 5:46Speaker 1: seven hundred fifty seven dollars each. The stated reason relayed
- 5:51Speaker 1: to Cynthia by Daniel was to avoid triggering IRS reporting thresholds.
- 5:57Speaker 2: The transfers went to a single external account.
- 6:00Speaker 1: Seven transactions, six weeks, forty thousand, three hundred dollars gone.
- 6:06Speaker 1: There is something precise about that number that stops the eye.
- 6:09Speaker 1: Not forty thousand, not a round figure, forty thousand, three hundred,
- 6:15Speaker 1: the kind of total that comes from careful calibration not impulse.
- 6:19Speaker 1: The phone records confirmed the volume of contact hundreds of
- 6:23Speaker 1: texts calls to prepaid numbers registered to a UPS store
- 6:27Speaker 1: address in Kettering, Ohio. Zero video calls in the phone
- 6:31Speaker 1: ms Because the video calls ran through securely off network,
- 6:36Speaker 1: leaving nothing traceable. The face Cynthia had seen on those
- 6:40Speaker 1: calls was never recovered. It was never confirmed to be
- 6:43Speaker 1: any specific person. Whatever she believed she had seen, the
- 6:47Speaker 1: record could not verify. Late March brought a new pressure.
- 6:52Speaker 1: Daniel told Cynthia she was being monitored, that her ex
- 6:56Speaker 1: husband's attorney had placed her under surveillance. There was no
- 7:00Speaker 1: evidence this was true, no legal filing, no process server, nothing,
- 7:06Speaker 1: But the claim did not need to be true to
- 7:09Speaker 1: do its work. It needed only to redirect her attention,
- 7:13Speaker 1: to make her feel watched and vulnerable in her own home,
- 7:17Speaker 1: to give Daniel Marsh, a man who did not exist,
- 7:20Speaker 1: the role of the only person she could trust. Paula Simmons,
- 7:25Speaker 1: the forensic social worker who later reviewed the case, identified
- 7:29Speaker 1: this moment as a structural turn. The surveillance claim was
- 7:33Speaker 1: not a random lie. It was a specific coercive control
- 7:37Speaker 1: mechanism isolate the target from their own judgment by introducing
- 7:41Speaker 1: a threat, only the operator can protect them from. Simmons
- 7:45Speaker 1: had seen the architecture before, so had the evidence. Inside
- 7:50Speaker 1: a storage unit in Huber Heights, detectives eventually found a
- 7:54Speaker 1: handwritten notebook. The tabs were organized by name. Margaret Cole
- 7:59Speaker 1: twelve pages, is Cynthia Burns nine pages, Patricia Noel four
- 8:05Speaker 1: pages incomplete.
- 8:07Speaker 2: Each entry tracked dates.
- 8:09Speaker 1: Responses, emotional registers, financial details, not a diary, a system.
- 8:15Speaker 1: The notebook told investigator something the phone records could not,
- 8:19Speaker 1: how much preparation had gone into each relationship.
- 8:22Speaker 2: Before a single transfer was requested.
- 8:24Speaker 1: That is the image that should sit with you. Nine
- 8:28Speaker 1: pages of notes on a woman who thought she was
- 8:30Speaker 1: in a private correspondence.
- 8:32Speaker 2: May sixth began like the weeks before it.
- 8:35Speaker 1: Cynthia was in her yard in a late afternoon, working
- 8:38Speaker 1: near the raised beds she had tended since before retirement.
- 8:42Speaker 2: Her phone rang Daniel.
- 8:45Speaker 1: He told her to stop what she was doing. He
- 8:47Speaker 1: said the situation had escalated, that surveillance was active, that she.
- 8:52Speaker 2: Needed to leave the house within the hour.
- 8:54Speaker 1: She was to take only cash. She was to check
- 8:57Speaker 1: into a motel who'd go silent for seven Indy two
- 9:00Speaker 1: hours beginning immediately. She was not to contact Renee. She
- 9:04Speaker 1: was not to call Brenda.
- 9:06Speaker 2: She was to trust him and move it.
- 9:08Speaker 1: Cynthia pulled her left foot from the soft sword. The shoe,
- 9:12Speaker 1: a cream colored flat with a small bow size seven
- 9:16Speaker 1: and a half, came free from the wet ground but
- 9:19Speaker 1: stayed behind. She was holding it when Daniel told her
- 9:22Speaker 1: not to go back for anything. She walked inside on
- 9:25Speaker 1: one bare foot. She did not return for the shoe.
- 9:29Speaker 1: At eight forty in the morning on May seventh, meter
- 9:32Speaker 1: reader Eric Bell found it. The shoe was centered on
- 9:35Speaker 1: the metal pad, dry despite a day of rain that
- 9:38Speaker 1: had fallen since Cynthia left. There was no mate, no
- 9:42Speaker 1: mud on the sole, no scuff marks suggesting a fall
- 9:46Speaker 1: or a struggle. Just a single cream flat placed or
- 9:50Speaker 1: landed at the exact center of the meter pad, as
- 9:53Speaker 1: though someone had set it there deliberately, then thought better
- 9:57Speaker 1: of picking it up. Bell called it in because something
- 10:00Speaker 1: about it was wrong. He could not have explained precisely
- 10:03Speaker 1: what it read like a sentence that had been interrupted midward.
- 10:08Speaker 1: The back gate was latched from the inside. The inner
- 10:11Speaker 1: front door stood open behind the screen. Milo The cap
- 10:16Speaker 1: was pacing Renee reported her mother missing that afternoon. When
- 10:21Speaker 1: the call reached Detective Mike Hargrove at Dunstan p D.
- 10:25Speaker 1: His first frame was a medical event. A woman living alone,
- 10:29Speaker 1: mid fifties here this morning and not answering now. The
- 10:33Speaker 1: shoe was odd, but odd things happen. By May eleventh,
- 10:38Speaker 1: when Cynthia's phone was recovered from a bus station locker
- 10:41Speaker 1: placed there at Daniel's instruction so that its location could
- 10:44Speaker 1: not be traced to her, the medical frame collapsed entirely.
- 10:48Speaker 1: This was not a disappearance. It was an evacuation. Someone
- 10:52Speaker 1: had needed Cynthia Burns to vanish from her own life
- 10:55Speaker 1: on very short notice, and that someone had been building
- 10:59Speaker 1: the architecture for that evacuation since January. Hargrove contacted Paula
- 11:04Speaker 1: Simmons on May twelfth. What she saw in the file
- 11:07Speaker 1: change the direction of the investigation. Picture Cynthia's house in
- 11:11Speaker 1: early May, with forty thousand, three hundred dollars already moved,
- 11:16Speaker 1: and a woman who has no reason to doubt the
- 11:19Speaker 1: man she has spoken to every day for three months.
- 11:23Speaker 2: If you believed what she had been.
- 11:25Speaker 1: Told, that surveillance was active, that her ex husband's legal
- 11:29Speaker 1: team was watching that the one person she could trust
- 11:32Speaker 1: was asking her to move now than leaving made sense,
- 11:36Speaker 1: The whole design made sense from the inside. That is
- 11:40Speaker 1: the first thing to hold. The departure was not irrational
- 11:44Speaker 1: given the reality she had been given. The question is
- 11:47Speaker 1: how that reality was constructed and how it was maintained
- 11:50Speaker 1: long enough to survive her own judgment. There is a
- 11:53Speaker 1: version of events where the operation unravels at the utility visit.
- 11:58Speaker 1: In March, A man who does not exist in any
- 12:02Speaker 1: gas company record spends forty minutes in a woman's yard.
- 12:06Speaker 2: Jean Faulkner sees him.
- 12:08Speaker 1: The labeled stakes in the raised beds are photographed or sketched,
- 12:12Speaker 1: and Cynthia never knows it happened. That visit was reconnaissance.
- 12:17Speaker 1: Read later confirmed it he had used Cynthia's own public
- 12:21Speaker 1: social media, her garden photos, her posts in the regional
- 12:25Speaker 1: Facebook group, to build a persona that matched her interests precisely.
- 12:30Speaker 1: The Kle comment in January was not the beginning of
- 12:34Speaker 1: a conversation. It was the end of a research phase.
- 12:37Speaker 1: But the version that felt certain to investigators and to
- 12:41Speaker 1: Hargrove specifically, was the fraud angle bank transfers prepaid phones,
- 12:47Speaker 1: a fake identity, a financial crime with a method and
- 12:51Speaker 1: a target. The notebook in Huber Heights felt like confirmation.
- 12:56Speaker 1: Here was the evidence of a professional operation, money at
- 13:00Speaker 1: the center. The note book, though, was not organized by
- 13:04Speaker 1: financial data. It was organized by emotional data, dates and responses.
- 13:10Speaker 1: What Cynthia said when he mentioned his son, what made
- 13:13Speaker 1: her go quiet, what made her open up. The financial
- 13:17Speaker 1: extractions were not the architecture.
- 13:19Speaker 2: They were the outlet.
- 13:21Speaker 1: The architecture was what Paula Simmons described in her second
- 13:24Speaker 1: meeting with Hargrove as a coercive control sequence that preceded
- 13:29Speaker 1: any money movement.
- 13:30Speaker 2: By months.
- 13:31Speaker 1: Reed had not defrauded Cynthia Burns in the way the wire.
- 13:35Speaker 2: Fraud charges described it, not exactly.
- 13:38Speaker 1: He had dismantled her ability to evaluate what was happening
- 13:41Speaker 1: to her before.
- 13:42Speaker 2: He touched a doll.
- 13:43Speaker 1: The surveillance's claim in late March was not a lie
- 13:46Speaker 1: and to a financial scheme.
- 13:48Speaker 2: It was the.
- 13:48Speaker 1: Point where he needed her not to think clearly, and
- 13:52Speaker 1: he had spent two months ensuring she trusted him more
- 13:56Speaker 1: than she trusted her own read of a situation. The
- 14:00Speaker 1: charges that eventually stuck two counts wire fraud, one count
- 14:04Speaker 1: aggravated identity theft were the legal language available, They were accurate.
- 14:09Speaker 1: They were also, according to Simmons, a partial description of
- 14:13Speaker 1: what Reed had done. The identity he had stolen was
- 14:17Speaker 1: not only the alias he had registered to the up
- 14:20Speaker 1: S store address in Kettering. It was the role of
- 14:23Speaker 1: a trustworthy person in a woman's inner life. That theft
- 14:27Speaker 1: had no specific charge. It had only a consequence. A
- 14:31Speaker 1: shoe on a meter pad, a woman in a motel
- 14:34Speaker 1: room with cash and no phone, a garden no one
- 14:38Speaker 1: was watering. Patricia Noel later said she was not stupid.
- 14:43Speaker 1: She wanted that on the record. What the record shows
- 14:46Speaker 1: is that Reed had been building toward her transfer phase
- 14:50Speaker 1: when the warrant hit. She never lost a dollar, She
- 14:53Speaker 1: lost three months and something she called foundational. That word
- 14:59Speaker 1: foundational is precise in a way legal language is not.
- 15:04Speaker 1: It names what Reed had actually targeted in each of
- 15:07Speaker 1: these women, not their accounts, their baseline sense of what
- 15:11Speaker 1: was real. Reed was arrested on May twenty eighth, two
- 15:14Speaker 1: thousand nineteen, at a short term rental in Dayton, Ohio.
- 15:19Speaker 2: He was still.
- 15:20Speaker 1: Messaging Patricia Knowell on a third prepaid phone when investigators
- 15:24Speaker 1: came through the door, He was forty one years old.
- 15:28Speaker 1: He had no prior criminal record. That fact is not exculpatory.
- 15:33Speaker 1: According to PAULA. Simmons, it is typical men who run
- 15:37Speaker 1: this kind of operation rarely have priors, because the crime
- 15:40Speaker 1: leaves so little physical evidence, and because victims, exhausted, ashamed,
- 15:46Speaker 1: uncertain what exactly happened to him, often do not report it.
- 15:50Speaker 1: The absence of a record was not innocence, it was
- 15:53Speaker 1: operational cover. The storage unit in Huber Heights told the
- 15:57Speaker 1: clearest story. Inside it, detectives found a handwritten notebook organized
- 16:02Speaker 1: by target. Margaret Cold twelve pages, Cynthia Burns nine pages,
- 16:09Speaker 1: Patricia Noah four pages, still incomplete. Those page counts are
- 16:15Speaker 1: not just evidence of a fraud. They are a record
- 16:18Speaker 1: of attention of how long Reed had studied each woman,
- 16:22Speaker 1: what she cared about, what she had lost, what she
- 16:24Speaker 1: still wanted. Cynthia was nine pages of a person. Red
- 16:28Speaker 1: had read every line and written the sequel himself. In
- 16:32Speaker 1: December twenty nineteen, Reid pleaded guilty in federal court two
- 16:37Speaker 1: counts of wire fraud one count of aggravated identity theft.
- 16:42Speaker 1: His cooperation was credited, and his maximum sentence was avoided.
- 16:46Speaker 1: The legal disposition was clean and narrow. Paula Simmons had
- 16:50Speaker 1: a different accounting. The identity theft charge covered the alias
- 16:54Speaker 1: registered to the UPS store address in Kettering. It did
- 16:58Speaker 1: not cover the other identity read had stolen the role
- 17:01Speaker 1: of a trustworthy person inside a woman's inner life. There
- 17:05Speaker 1: was no charge for that. There was only the consequence
- 17:08Speaker 1: of it. Cynthia Burns returned home by the end of
- 17:12Speaker 1: May twenty nineteen. Her garden was two weeks behind. That
- 17:16Speaker 1: is the phrase in the record, two weeks behind, not unrecoverable.
- 17:21Speaker 1: She submitted a victim impact statement in writing. Its contents
- 17:25Speaker 1: are not public. What is public is that she chose
- 17:28Speaker 1: to submit one, that she put her name to the
- 17:31Speaker 1: record of what had been done to her. Margaret Cole's
- 17:35Speaker 1: adult son gave the victim impact statement at sentencing. He
- 17:40Speaker 1: stood in that courtroom for a woman who had transferred
- 17:43Speaker 1: thirty seven thousand dollars to an account structure she believed
- 17:46Speaker 1: was protecting the future of a man she loved. The
- 17:50Speaker 1: money was gone. The money was gone. His statement is sealed,
- 17:55Speaker 1: his presence is not. Patricia Knowle never lost a dollar.
- 17:59Speaker 1: She said so herself, And then she said the rest
- 18:02Speaker 1: of it. She had lost three months and something she
- 18:05Speaker 1: called foundation. That word appears in the case record exactly
- 18:09Speaker 1: as she used it. She wanted the distinction noted, not stupid,
- 18:14Speaker 1: not naive, not a cautionary tale. A person who had
- 18:18Speaker 1: trusted someone had been systematically taught to trust him more
- 18:22Speaker 1: than herself. That is what the record shows. That is
- 18:26Speaker 1: what she wanted on the record. There is something precise
- 18:29Speaker 1: about the way this case ends and does not end.
- 18:32Speaker 1: Paul Reid is in the system. The plea is on file,
- 18:36Speaker 1: the notebook is in evidence, the prepaid phones registered to
- 18:39Speaker 1: a UPS store address or catalog. The legal architecture of
- 18:44Speaker 1: what he did has been named, charged, and adjudicated by
- 18:49Speaker 1: every formal measure. The case closed in December twenty nineteen,
- 18:54Speaker 1: but Cynthia Burns walked out of her house on May sixth,
- 18:57Speaker 1: with one shoe on and did not look back. She
- 19:01Speaker 1: left milo pacing in an empty kitchen. She left a
- 19:05Speaker 1: garden she had spent the winter planning. She left because
- 19:08Speaker 1: a voice she had trusted for four months told her
- 19:11Speaker 1: the threat was real, and her own judgment, the judgment.
- 19:14Speaker 1: Reid had spent two months carefully dismantling, could no longer
- 19:17Speaker 1: tell her otherwise. The charges described a wire fraud. What
- 19:22Speaker 1: happened to Cynthia Burns was something PAULA. Simmons called a
- 19:25Speaker 1: coercive control sequence, and it does not fully fit inside
- 19:29Speaker 1: a federal statute. That gap is not Reed's acquittal. It
- 19:34Speaker 1: is a limit in the language we have for what
- 19:36Speaker 1: he did. The shoe stayed dry through a day of rain.
- 19:41Speaker 1: Eric Bell found it centered on the meter pad on
- 19:44Speaker 1: the morning of May seventh, not dropped, not kicked off
- 19:47Speaker 1: in a hurry, but placed. Reed later explained it in
- 19:52Speaker 1: his account. He had told Cynthia to leave immediately, to
- 19:55Speaker 1: leave everything to trust him. She had paused long enough
- 19:59Speaker 1: to set the shoe down rather than carry it. That pause,
- 20:02Speaker 1: the small automatic courtesy of not tracking mud, is the
- 20:06Speaker 1: most human.
- 20:06Speaker 2: Detail in this entire file.
- 20:09Speaker 1: She was leaving her life at someone else's instruction, and
- 20:12Speaker 1: she still stopped to be tidy about it. That is
- 20:15Speaker 1: who Cynthia Burns was. Not a victim profile, not a
- 20:18Speaker 1: cautionary statistic. A woman who grew kale and labeled her
- 20:22Speaker 1: garden stakes and loved her cat, and one afternoon in
- 20:26Speaker 1: May set a shoe down gently on a concrete path
- 20:30Speaker 1: and walked inside on one bare foot because someone she
- 20:33Speaker 1: trusted told her she had to. The garden came back
- 20:37Speaker 1: two weeks behind. The record says, but not unrecoverable.
- 20:42Speaker 2: That phrase is doing more work than it knows. This
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