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Episode #3953 The New Phil Hendrie Show Radio Archive September 2003 · The World of Phil Hendrie

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Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to another Radio Archive Hour from the world-famous
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Speaker 1: Phil Henry Show, Hall of Fame radio show and website
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Speaker 1: philhenryshow.com for this weekend, the 10th of October and the
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Speaker 1: 11th of October. This is kind of a special Radio
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Speaker 1: Archive drop that we do for you on the weekend.
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Speaker 1: We have Bobby Dooley, and this one came out of
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Speaker 1: the blue for me, man.
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Speaker 2: I don't even remember doing this.
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Speaker 1: It's from September of 2003, and Bobby and Steve Dooley
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Speaker 1: were on saying that, yeah, you know what? Our kids
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Speaker 1: are great. My son ought to be a starting quarterback.
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Speaker 1: But there's a lot of parents that are just a
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Speaker 1: real pain in the ass and should leave the coaches alone.
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Speaker 1: And my husband, Steve, along with some of the other fathers,
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Speaker 1: keep some meddlesome parents away from the coaches. And Bobby's
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Speaker 1: related to Babe Ruth. And her father played for the
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Speaker 1: Washington Redskins. And Steve's father played for somebody else. So
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Speaker 1: in other words, they are parents who are allowed to
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Speaker 1: advise the coach because you know what?
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Speaker 2: They've got pedigree. So let's listen to this mess.
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Speaker 1: As Bobby deals with me and the callers here on
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Speaker 1: the world-famous Phil Henry Show.
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Speaker 2: Bobby Dooley is with us.
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Speaker 1: Now, you are with Sports Keep Sports Fun, which is
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Speaker 1: the youth program associated with a lot of PTOs across
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Speaker 1: the country, and its primary goal is what?
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Speaker 3: Phil, our primary goal is to ensure that sports do
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Speaker 3: remain fun for the kids and for the coaches, and
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Speaker 3: that as parents we do everything we can to support
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Speaker 3: the coaches and the athletic staff and allow them to
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Speaker 3: do what they're paid to do.
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Speaker 2: We just got done talking about a lot of parents pressuring, right?
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Speaker 3: There is an awful lot of pressure on the coaches,
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Speaker 3: I should say. And what we're trying to say to
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Speaker 3: parents is don't pressure them about your child. If they're
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Speaker 3: not playing your child, if your child is not getting
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Speaker 3: enough playing time, there's obviously a reason. Let the coaches
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Speaker 3: do their job. My husband Steve and I, as well
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Speaker 3: as other fathers, have helped a lot of the other
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Speaker 3: parents asking some of the parents to leave practices when
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Speaker 3: they want to talk with the coach. We are doing
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Speaker 3: what we can to help the coaches coach the kids
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Speaker 3: and not have to deal with the parents.
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Speaker 2: Your husband is there with other fathers keeping parents out
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Speaker 2: of the practices?
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Speaker 3: If we see another parent who is pressuring the coach
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Speaker 3: about their child, we will ask them very politely to leave.
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Speaker 3: We say let the coaches, let the athletic staff do
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Speaker 3: their job. The other point I think that needs to
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Speaker 3: be made is almost all parents, Phil, really don't know
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Speaker 3: about athletics the way some other parents do. So when
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Speaker 3: we say you shouldn't have contact with the coaches, I
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Speaker 3: think I need to be clear. My husband and I
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Speaker 3: are both related to former National Football League players.
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Speaker 2: Really? So your husband, Steve, as well as you?
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Speaker 3: That is correct.
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Speaker 2: Who is your relative?
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Speaker 3: Phil, my uncle Jim Jeffers, played in the National Football
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Speaker 3: League for the Washington Redskins as an offensive tackle, and
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Speaker 3: my husband's grandfather, Bob Malusian, played professionally in the National
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Speaker 3: Football Association with the New York Giants.
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Speaker 2: Played in the National Football League?
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Speaker 3: In the National Football League, yes. and he was a fullback,
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Speaker 3: and he also played on defense as well.
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Speaker 2: That's interesting.
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Speaker 3: So what we're saying in our case, we do speak
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Speaker 3: to the coach, but we don't think other parents should
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Speaker 3: because you really, Phil, I think you hit the nail
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Speaker 3: on the head. Just about every parent, when it comes
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Speaker 3: to their child's athletic ability, doesn't know as much as
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Speaker 3: the coach does, except, I think, for those of us
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Speaker 3: who do have this in their lineage, if you will.
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Speaker 3: We all have it in our blood.
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Speaker 2: And that's Mr.
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Speaker 4: Dooley?
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Speaker 3: Yeah, Phil. That's my husband, Steve, Phil. And he said
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Speaker 3: we basically have it in our blood.
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Speaker 2: All right.
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Speaker 1: So you're saying as part of Keep Sports Fun for Kids, adults,
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Speaker 1: parents need to stay out of the athletic lives of
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Speaker 1: their kids, let the coaches do the job.
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Speaker 3: That is correct, yeah.
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Speaker 2: But you said that you and your husband, Steve, you
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Speaker 2: do talk to the coach because... Well, we feel that.
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Speaker 3: We can because we do, as I said, you know,
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Speaker 3: we have relatives who are in the National Football League.
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Speaker 3: I don't understand your question.
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Speaker 2: Well, you're saying that other parents should not talk to
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Speaker 2: the coaches.
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Speaker 1: In fact, you keep them out of practices if they
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Speaker 1: pressure the coaches or bother the coaches.
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Speaker 2: But you and your husband do talk to the coaches.
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Speaker 3: Yes, that is correct. In our case, we do.
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Speaker 2: Okay.
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Speaker 3: We speak directly to the coach about our son because,
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Speaker 3: first of all, our son is an outstanding quarterback, and
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Speaker 3: we do expect him to play at quarterback this year
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Speaker 3: on varsity. And Coach Rivers indicated, I'll give you an example,
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Speaker 3: Coach Rivers indicated that he was going to play another
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Speaker 3: boy ahead of our son. And that's when our experience,
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Speaker 3: having relatives in the National Football League and knowing football,
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Speaker 3: I told the coach that I have NFL players in
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Speaker 3: my family. He gave me some smart response like, you know,
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Speaker 3: I understand, but it has to be my decision or
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Speaker 3: something like that. So we had to straighten that out
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Speaker 3: with the coach. But we did because I think we're qualified.
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Speaker 3: But I don't think other parents are. And I think
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Speaker 3: that it's difficult for people to understand that.
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Speaker 2: Well, it's difficult for me to understand.
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Speaker 1: In other words, you're saying other parents shouldn't talk to
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Speaker 1: the coaches because they don't know anything about sports as
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Speaker 1: well as the coaches do, but you and your husband
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Speaker 1: do because you have relatives that used to play in
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Speaker 1: the NFL.
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Speaker 3: That is correct. But the other thing, Phil, you have
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Speaker 3: to understand, my husband is a very direct man. He's
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Speaker 3: a very strong man. I can give an example of
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Speaker 3: how we finally got the coach to see our way.
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Speaker 3: If you want, it's a little harsh.
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Speaker 1: Well, all right, let me get the phone number out.
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Speaker 1: 1-800-449-8686 is the number here on the Phil Henry Show.
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Speaker 1: We're talking with Bobby Dooley of Keep Sports Fun for Kids.
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Speaker 1: talking about the adults, the parents that are constantly pressuring
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Speaker 1: coaches into having their kids play, constantly pressuring coaches about
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Speaker 1: their kids, and they have said enough is enough. They
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Speaker 1: are helping to keep these parents away from these coaches. However,
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Speaker 1: in their case, they do talk to the coach because
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Speaker 1: their son's a really good quarterback. Now, you were going
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Speaker 1: to say what about your son?
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Speaker 3: Well, I was going to say how we got the
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Speaker 3: coach to see our way about our son.
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Speaker 5: Go ahead.
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Speaker 3: First of all, my husband came home, and I said...
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Speaker 3: Coach Rivers said that he's not going to play, Seth.
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Speaker 3: And my husband said, all right, I'll handle this. And
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Speaker 3: I don't know if you're a woman, there isn't anything
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Speaker 3: quite like having your husband take the phone from your hands,
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Speaker 3: go into the den and close the door and take
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Speaker 3: care of business. It's exciting for me. But anyway, he
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Speaker 3: called the coach, and I heard him, and he was
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Speaker 3: very direct. He used profanity. But he said in no
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Speaker 3: uncertain terms, and I think he called him names.
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Speaker 2: Like what names?
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Speaker 3: Well, he used the MF, and he said, you MFing bastard,
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Speaker 3: I think, if I can say that.
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Speaker 2: All right.
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Speaker 3: You're going to play my son this Saturday, or I'm
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Speaker 3: going to take it out of your ass, is what
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Speaker 3: he said.
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Speaker 2: Your husband said this to the coach?
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Speaker 3: That is correct, Phil. That's what we do, because we
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Speaker 3: know about football. Now, the other parents, I don't recommend
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Speaker 3: that because you only wind up making yourself look stupid.
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Speaker 3: But Steve and I do it because, A, we do
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Speaker 3: have National Football League players in our family lineage. B,
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Speaker 3: our son, Seth, I know is going to play for
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Speaker 3: Notre Dame someday. And, B, my husband's very direct. And
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Speaker 3: he said, you listen to me. I've told a guy,
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Speaker 3: and I've said a lot.
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Speaker 6: Of bad words.
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Speaker 3: But he's really just laid down the law, and that's
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Speaker 3: what we do.
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Speaker 1: All right, I understand that that's what you do. If
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Speaker 1: I'm a coach, I don't think I'd appreciate being sworn at.
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Speaker 3: Well, I didn't want to. My husband didn't want to
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Speaker 3: do it, Phil, but sometimes the coach leaves us no choice.
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Speaker 1: All right, but to, I understand that that's what you do,
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Speaker 1: but to say that I don't have that right.
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Speaker 2: To do it.
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Speaker 3: Phil, I know it's very difficult to accept, and I
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Speaker 3: don't want to say that I'm better than anybody. But
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Speaker 3: we're just telling the parents out there, when it comes
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Speaker 3: to your children's sports campaigns and athletic programs, keep your
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Speaker 3: nose out of it. You don't know as much as
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Speaker 3: you think you do.
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Speaker 2: But you do. See, that's what you're saying. There's a
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Speaker 2: double standard here.
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Speaker 3: Only because, Phil, first of all, my husband played a
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Speaker 3: running back at Claremont Men's College. Secondly, we have two
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Speaker 3: members of our extended family that played in the National
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Speaker 3: Football League. Number three, we are both very close friends
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Speaker 3: of Lou Holtz. who coached at Notre Dame, University of
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Speaker 3: Minnesota in Arkansas. Number four, we have been to a
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Speaker 3: lot of games and stuff like that. So if you're
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Speaker 3: a unique family like we are, then you can approach
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Speaker 3: the coach. But we're talking about special cases, and maybe
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Speaker 3: I'm confusing people.
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Speaker 1: Well, I think it might be a confusing issue because
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Speaker 1: the name of your organization program, which I think is admirable,
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Speaker 1: by the way, Thank you. I think it's admirable to
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Speaker 1: tell parents, back away, let the coaches do what they do,
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Speaker 1: let the children learn, and you just support and don't
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Speaker 1: constantly intrude. And I think that's important. But then you
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Speaker 1: turn around and say, you people get to intrude.
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Speaker 3: Well, Phil.
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Speaker 2: No, I know you've got reasons. You have family members
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Speaker 2: that played in the NFL. You know Lou Holtz.
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Speaker 3: I don't know.
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Speaker 2: I mean, my dad played in the Canadian Football League.
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Speaker 2: Does that give me some... I don't think.
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Speaker 3: I don't think the Canadian football league is as good.
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Speaker 3: It's admirable that your father played in that league, but
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Speaker 3: that's not professional football.
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Speaker 2: Yes, it most certainly is professional football. He got paid.
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Speaker 3: What I mean, it's not good. It's not as good
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Speaker 3: as the national football organization.
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Speaker 2: All right, 1-800-449-8686.
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Speaker 1: If you're a parent and you have a child in football, baseball, basketball,
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Speaker 1: keep your nose out of it.
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Speaker 2: Let the coaches do their job. I don't mind that attitude. But, Ms. Dooley,
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Speaker 2: you and your husband have said you're a special case.
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Speaker 1: You do get to talk to the coach because your uncle,
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Speaker 1: what's his name here, Jim Jeffers, played for the Washington Redskins.
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Speaker 2: Hello, how are you?
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Speaker 5: I cannot believe what I'm hearing. You're an absolute embarrassment.
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Speaker 5: To teach your son that intimidating and bullying by using
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Speaker 5: profanity because your great-grandfather or great-uncle played in the NFL,
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Speaker 5: it's in-your-blood genealogy. You know, there's words for that, and
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Speaker 5: you should be talking to someone, but it's definitely not
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Speaker 5: the coach. You should be embarrassed of the parents.
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Speaker 3: I don't know what you're talking about. All we're saying is.
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Speaker 5: My great-grandfather was therefore a great general, therefore the Army
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Speaker 5: should all succeed to me because it's in my blood
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Speaker 5: to be a great general. That's absolutely pathetic.
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Speaker 3: All I'm saying is this. Seth does deserve the starting
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Speaker 3: job on the varsity team, and my husband had to
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Speaker 3: get up into the coach's face a little bit, that's all.
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Speaker 2: Well, that's great.
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Speaker 5: That's great.
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Speaker 3: Therefore, anyone who feels that.
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Speaker 5: They should have a right, whether it be a job promotion,
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Speaker 5: whether it be their teacher, a student in class feels
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Speaker 5: that they're being neglected. They should be able to get
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Speaker 5: right into the face of the teacher or their superior.
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Speaker 3: Can I ask you a question?
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Speaker 5: Or their boss. That is absolutely absurd.
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Speaker 3: To use profanity. Does your son play football? Does my son?
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Speaker 5: It doesn't matter what sport they play.
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Speaker 3: There you go. If you play no sport, it's absolute.
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Speaker 5: That's right. You're absolutely right. Life begins and ends with football.
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Speaker 3: No, it just proves my point. You don't really know.
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Speaker 5: No, but you do because your great-grandfather played on the
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Speaker 5: Washington Redskins. Well, that qualifies you beyond reasonable doubt. I'm
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Speaker 5: not surprised that NFL scouts aren't contacting you right now
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Speaker 5: to go out and scout for.
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Speaker 3: Them as well. I think that there's anger that you
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Speaker 3: have that perhaps you didn't play.
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Speaker 5: No, it's just absurd what you're saying. Listen to yourself.
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Speaker 5: You should be speaking to someone, and I believe it's
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Speaker 5: a counselor.
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Speaker 3: Well, we've talked to my son's counselor. We have outlined... No,
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Speaker 3: I mean counseling.
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Speaker 5: Counseling, like paid counseling.
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Speaker 3: My son has a counselor at school.
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Speaker 2: No, he's talking about.
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Speaker 5: You do, obviously. You cannot go around teaching your son
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Speaker 5: to intimidate.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that your husband's screaming.
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Speaker 3: Phil, we're not proud of that. But when Coach Rivers
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Speaker 3: said that he wasn't starting Seth at quarterback... He needed
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Speaker 3: to be spanked. He needed to be spanked.
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Speaker 5: Well, that's great. So tomorrow your son doesn't get into university.
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Speaker 5: What do we do?
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Speaker 3: Can I ask you a question? Don't you think Coach
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Speaker 3: Rivers owes it to me based upon the fact that
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Speaker 3: he and I had a relationship?
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Speaker 2: What kind of relationship are you talking about?
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Speaker 3: I'm not saying anything other than that.
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Speaker 5: Oh, so he owes you for passing discretion? That's beautiful.
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Speaker 3: No, I didn't say that.
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Speaker 5: Is this Jerry Springer? What is going on here?
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Speaker 2: Are you telling me that you... No kidding. Is this
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Speaker 2: the Jerry Springer show?
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Speaker 3: You know something? Both of you men don't... I'm a
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Speaker 3: mother involved in my son's athletic program, and if neither
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Speaker 3: one of you.
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Speaker 5: You're talking about being you own because of past favors.
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Speaker 3: This is beautiful. Are you Indian or something? Because you've
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Speaker 3: got an accent. Am I what? Are you an Indian?
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Speaker 3: I detect an accent.
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Speaker 5: What do you mean by Indian?
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Speaker 2: Indian.
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Speaker 3: I detect that you have a non-American accent.
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Speaker 5: I detect that inbreeding has suffered tremendously in your family.
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Speaker 3: I don't understand it. What are you talking about?
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Speaker 2: Hold on for a minute, okay? What do you mean
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Speaker 2: you had a relationship with Coach Rivers?
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Speaker 3: It's not anything that I want to talk about. What
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Speaker 3: I'm trying to say is this. Don't you think the
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Speaker 3: coach owes me?
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Speaker 5: No, you're just talking about a relationship. We need to
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Speaker 5: know what the relationship's all about.
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Speaker 3: It was intimate.
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Speaker 5: So you promised to provide something, and he would do
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Speaker 5: you a favor by putting your son as quarterback?
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Speaker 3: No. No, he didn't. Yes and no.
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Speaker 2: All right, Ms. Dooley, you have to say what happened.
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Speaker 3: We had an intimate relationship, and I think the things
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Speaker 3: that I did for him, he would at least do
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Speaker 3: this for me.
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Speaker 5: What kind of things did you do for him?
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Speaker 3: Well, listen to you, and you're calling me sick. You know,
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Speaker 3: you're really... Look, I'm trying to help you. Let me
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Speaker 3: ask you something, Hiawatha.
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Speaker 1: Are you.
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Speaker 2: All right, never mind. 1-800, the Hiawatha thing.
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Speaker 3: He called me in, Brad.
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Speaker 1: All right, 1-800-449-8686. 1-800-449-8686. Bobby Dooley is president of Youths
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Speaker 1: in Sports. Keep youth in sports fun. She believes that
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Speaker 1: parents need to keep their noses out of the athletic
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Speaker 1: careers of their children.
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Speaker 2: But her and her husband are a different case.
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Speaker 1: They are allowed to talk to the coaches because they
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Speaker 1: had family members who were on NFL teams.
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Speaker 2: Phil Henry Show. The Phil Hendry Show. Rather be playing
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Speaker 2: Madden 2003.
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Speaker 6: The Phil Hendry Show is back.
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Speaker 2: Bobby Dooley with us.
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Speaker 1: She is with Youth for Sports and Fun, and it's
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Speaker 1: an organization trying to keep young people's sports free of
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Speaker 1: parental interference and just have the coaches and the kids
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Speaker 1: work together.
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Speaker 2: You have said that women don't know anything about sports.
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Speaker 2: You're a woman.
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Speaker 3: I am a woman, Phil, but I come from a
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Speaker 3: long line of very strong men, very involved athletic men.
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Speaker 3: Most women do not. where women who speak to coaches
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Speaker 3: on behalf of their sons sound, frankly, embarrassing. I'm able
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Speaker 3: to speak to a lot of these men. Coach Rivers,
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Speaker 3: I have known. And as I indicated to a previous caller,
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Speaker 3: I am not proud of any indiscretion that I might
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Speaker 3: have had in the past. But nonetheless, my husband is
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Speaker 3: aware of it. I did have a relationship with Coach Rivers.
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Speaker 3: I do feel that he owes me the consideration of
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Speaker 3: making my son the starting quarterback.
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Speaker 1: But all of these things that you say, you talking
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Speaker 1: to the coach about your son, other parents don't have
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Speaker 1: the right because they don't know as much as you do.
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Speaker 2: They don't have relations in football.
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Speaker 3: Phil, I'll give it to you very simply. I was
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Speaker 3: at the Los Angeles County Fair about two years ago,
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Speaker 3: and they had one of these booths set up. And
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Speaker 3: there was a woman there who said she would tell
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Speaker 3: your fortune. She called herself the Gypsy Lady, this sort
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Speaker 3: of thing. I went in. It was a lot of fun.
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Speaker 3: My husband, Steve, said, let's go ahead and do it.
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Speaker 3: It looks like it's a lot of fun. So I
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Speaker 3: went in, and she said to me, I don't know you,
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Speaker 3: but it seems to me that you have a distant
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Speaker 3: relation to Babe Ruth.
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Speaker 2: The baseball player.
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Speaker 3: Yes, the baseball player. And I sort of laughed it off,
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Speaker 3: and I left. But the more I thought about it,
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Speaker 3: the more I realized that I think it's possible. And
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Speaker 3: because of that, I know about sports. But these other
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Speaker 3: mothers and these other fathers, they look like complete and
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Speaker 3: utter idiots. And that's what I'm trying to say.
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Speaker 1: On top of that, you had a sexual relationship with
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Speaker 1: the coach of your son's football team, and you think
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Speaker 1: he owes you.
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Speaker 3: I mean.
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Speaker 4: Well, hold on.
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Speaker 2: 1-800-449-8686.
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Speaker 3: Here is Ann. Ann, go ahead.
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Speaker 4: I just find this absolutely absurd because she makes it...
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Speaker 4: She's saying that just because she has a relation who
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Speaker 4: are in the NFL that she knows about football. That
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Speaker 4: is absolutely absurd. You know, that's like me saying my
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Speaker 4: grandfather was a surgeon, therefore... I should step into surgery
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Speaker 4: and perform major operations.
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Speaker 3: No, I didn't say I should be the coach. I
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Speaker 3: did not say I should be the coach.
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Speaker 4: But you're sounding like the coach, and you're whiny. I mean,
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Speaker 4: you're teaching your son, let me cuss at people who
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Speaker 4: are in authority, my teachers and my coaches, cuss and
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Speaker 4: scream at them so I can get my way.
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Speaker 3: That's what your husband is teaching you.
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Speaker 4: And you're sitting here saying the coach owes you something
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Speaker 4: because you slept with him. That is absolutely absurd. What
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Speaker 4: kind of morals and values are you teaching your son?
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Speaker 3: He doesn't owe you a thing.
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Speaker 4: You are the one who had out-of-marriage relations. He doesn't
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Speaker 4: owe you a thing. Nobody made you sleep with him.
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Speaker 4: Nobody made you have a relationship with him.
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Speaker 3: He owes you nothing. Well, let me remind you, Ann,
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Speaker 3: you're a woman and you understand that... And I know
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Speaker 3: sports and my.
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Speaker 4: You know, I probably know more about sports than you do.
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Speaker 3: First of all, I did not say that I slept
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Speaker 3: with him.
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Speaker 2: Okay, well, you had relations. Yeah, you said you had
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Speaker 2: sexual relations.
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Speaker 3: I didn't sleep... We had a weekly encounter.
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Speaker 4: Still, that was immoral.
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Speaker 2: Is that sex?
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Speaker 4: That was out of your marriage.
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Speaker 3: Well, first of all, you know he's a woman.
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Speaker 4: And he doesn't owe you anything for that.
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Speaker 3: Let me ask you a question. If I am performing
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Speaker 3: oral sex on him once a week for six months,
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Speaker 3: what is he giving me?
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Speaker 4: Nobody made you do anything.
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Speaker 3: No, but he owed me for that.
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Speaker 4: Did he hold a gun to your head?
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Speaker 3: No, he did not.
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Speaker 4: Did anyone hold a gun to your head and make
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Speaker 4: you do this?
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Speaker 3: No, but.
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Speaker 4: Did he say he was going to kill you.
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Speaker 3: If you did not... No, but I would think he'd
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Speaker 3: know that he'd owe me because he had a good time.
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Speaker 6: It doesn't matter.
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Speaker 4: You did it on your own.
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Speaker 5: Oh, my God.
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Speaker 2: I mean, I've got to stop here.
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Speaker 1: You were giving this man oral sex once a week
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Speaker 1: for six months, what, to get your kid to start
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Speaker 1: on the football team?
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Speaker 3: You know, so I have already said I'm not proud
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Speaker 3: of what I did.
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Speaker 4: Then he owes you nothing. He owes you nothing. You
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Speaker 4: took that upon yourself to do that, to break your
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Speaker 4: marriage vows. You took it all upon yourself.
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Speaker 6: He owes you nothing.
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Speaker 3: And I think that.
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Speaker 4: Parents have a right to speak to the coach if
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Speaker 4: they think that their child is being treated unfairly.
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Speaker 3: Well, you don't know enough as a woman. You just
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Speaker 3: don't know enough.
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Speaker 4: Excuse me.
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Speaker 6: Yes, I do.
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Speaker 4: I've been in sports my entire life.
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Speaker 3: I may be related to Babe Ruth.
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Speaker 4: Oh, so that makes you know about sports because you're related,
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Speaker 4: but you think you might be related to Babe Ruth?
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Speaker 4: Absolutely not.
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Speaker 2: When does a mother go too far in getting her
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Speaker 2: kid on the team? The Phil Henry Show, 1-800-449-8686. Extremism.
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Speaker 1: Middle of a spirited discussion with Bobby Dooley of the
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Speaker 1: Western Estates Parent Teacher Organization. The Keep Youth in Sports
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Speaker 1: Fun program is an effort to minimize or limit the
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Speaker 1: involvement of parents with coaches and players because she and
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Speaker 1: her husband feel it's a negative influence that parents, especially mothers,
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Speaker 1: don't know much about sports. But in the case of
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Speaker 1: you and your husband, you do want to be involved
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Speaker 1: because you have relations.
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Speaker 3: With Well, Phil, the point that I'm trying to make.
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Speaker 1: Well, you said you're related to NFL play, and you
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Speaker 1: may be related to Babe Ruth.
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Speaker 3: The point that I'm trying to make is there's an
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Speaker 3: awful lot of jealousy out there from other parents towards
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Speaker 3: Steve and I because my husband was scouted, and I
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Speaker 3: didn't want to bring this up, but my husband was
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Speaker 3: scouted by the Pittsburgh Pirates to play shortstop. I may
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Speaker 3: be related to Babe Ruth. And there are other things
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Speaker 3: that I don't want to go on and on about,
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Speaker 3: and what we find are a lot of adults... a
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Speaker 3: lot of the parents are jealous. They're just jealous of us.
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Speaker 2: Did you say to Janice that you felt that Babe
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Speaker 2: Ruth was entering your body? No, I don't.
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Speaker 3: What I said was I can understand the frustration Babe
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Speaker 3: Ruth must have felt with all of the idiots who
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Speaker 3: couldn't play baseball as good as him because I'm frustrated
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Speaker 3: with the idiot parents who don't realize my Seth is
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Speaker 3: probably the best starting quarterback that Western Estates High School
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Speaker 3: has ever had.
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Speaker 2: All right, 1-800-449-8686. Joe, go ahead.
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Speaker 5: Hello.
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Speaker 2: Yes, sir, go ahead. You're on the air.
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Speaker 6: Yes. If your son was that good, ma'am, he would
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Speaker 6: be recognized real quick. Apparently he's lousy just like you
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Speaker 6: because the coach doesn't remember having anything to do with you.
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Speaker 3: Well, you know, Joe, my point is this. The coach
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Speaker 3: certainly does remember having a lot to do with me.
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Speaker 6: No, because if a man remembers a good woman, believe me,
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Speaker 6: he'll do favors so he can get it again. Apparently,
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Speaker 6: you were lousy, just like your son.
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Speaker 3: You know, we're both married, okay, and you're insults.
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Speaker 6: Well, you're making yourself sound like an idiot and stupid.
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Speaker 5: I mean, you're ignorant.
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Speaker 3: Why am I stupid? I gave that man.
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Speaker 6: Because your son must be really terrible because if your
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Speaker 6: son was that good and he's being scouted, he would
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Speaker 6: be drafted and somebody would want him. Apparently, he must
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Speaker 6: be lousy. He belongs in kindergarten football.
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Speaker 3: No, no. First of all... You have to support your son. Secondly,
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Speaker 3: I gave that man the best oral sex he's ever had.
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Speaker 6: Oh, please, it must have been lousy. It must have
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Speaker 6: been lousy because he doesn't remember. He doesn't want to
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Speaker 6: do anything back for you. You must have been lousy
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Speaker 6: just like your son.
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Speaker 3: Get a life, woman. Why do you say my son's lousy?
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Speaker 3: I gave that man oral sex in the kookaroo parking
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Speaker 3: lot once a week.
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Speaker 6: Apparently he doesn't remember you. You must have been ugly
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Speaker 6: or bad.
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Speaker 3: Well, you know something? You must be jealous because my
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Speaker 3: husband was scouted by the Pittsburgh Pirates.
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Speaker 6: Your husband?
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Speaker 3: Your husband?
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Speaker 6: You're a loser. Your husband is a loser. I'm allowing
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Speaker 6: you to make a fool out of yourself. You're a
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Speaker 6: loser and your husband is a loser and so is
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Speaker 6: your son.
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Speaker 3: Have a nice day. Hey, Joe, I hope your mother
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Speaker 3: gets the chance to dance with Martina Navratilova at the
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Speaker 3: Dinah Shore Golf Classic as my mother did. Go to hell.
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Speaker 2: Oh, my God. Miss Dooley?
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Speaker 3: No, he really deserved that.
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Speaker 2: I think that.
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Speaker 1: That was unbecoming a lady to say GTH to that man.
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Speaker 3: Well, you heard the way he spoke to me.
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Speaker 1: Your mother danced with Martina Navratilova at the Dinah Shore Classic?
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Speaker 3: Yes. And it's something we're proud of.
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Speaker 2: Well, I can understand that. Kyle, go ahead.
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Speaker 5: Hi, how are you doing?
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Speaker 2: Yes, sir, how are you?
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Speaker 4: Good, thanks.
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Speaker 7: This lady is absolutely just beyond her means, because I
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Speaker 7: myself was offered a ride to Michigan for football. It
23:36
Speaker 7: was pretty good, but obviously I didn't make it. I
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Speaker 7: got into school for an NCAA scholarship, and my father
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Speaker 7: didn't whine and cry to get me studying at Michigan.
23:48
Speaker 7: He just realized my capabilities, and that was said and done.
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Speaker 7: And You know, I think Coach Rivers or whatnot needs
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Speaker 7: to set up an organization to keep this lady away
23:58
Speaker 7: from him because just.
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Speaker 3: The best oral sex that he ever had.
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Speaker 2: I don't need to hear this again and again, ma'am.
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Speaker 7: And you were saying about the other parents being jealous
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Speaker 7: and embarrassed. Don't you think your son is being embarrassed
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Speaker 7: that you're giving the coach a hummer? To get them started.
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Speaker 3: You know something, Kyle? I'm not being crude. I'm trying
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Speaker 3: to make a point. Coach Rivers sends me once a
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Speaker 3: year on my birthday. Uh-huh.
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Speaker 2: What does he send you?
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Speaker 7: What does he send you?
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Speaker 3: A care package? He sends me gift certificates to Cookaroo.
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Speaker 6: Yeah?
24:43
Speaker 7: What's that?
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Speaker 2: It's a chicken joint. It's a chicken joint.
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Speaker 7: That's fabulous.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's where she used to give him oral sex.
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Speaker 2: Are you out of your mind, Ms. Dooley?
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Speaker 7: Do you know, Ms. Dooley, do you know who Warren Moon.
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Speaker 3: Is? Who did you moon? Do you know who Warren
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Speaker 3: Moon is? Yes, he's a football player.
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Speaker 7: Yes, what league did he play for before he went
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Speaker 7: into the NFL?
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Speaker 3: Washington State.
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Speaker 7: No, he played for the CFL there, sweetheart.
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Speaker 2: The Edmonton Eskimos won five Grey Cups.
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Speaker 5: That's correct.
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Speaker 3: He won what?
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Speaker 7: He was with the CFO.
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Speaker 2: Five gray cups.
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Speaker 3: Well, then maybe you ought to wash them. That's a joke.
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Speaker 3: I'm sorry.
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Speaker 2: Oh, isn't that funny?
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Speaker 7: I think you want your son to get good so
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Speaker 7: he can get you guys out of the trailer park
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Speaker 7: that you're living in.
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Speaker 5: All right.
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Speaker 2: Very good, Kyle.
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Speaker 6: Thank you.
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Speaker 2: All right, buddy. I think the man makes a very
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Speaker 2: good point.
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Speaker 3: Well, I can tell you this much. that what I
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Speaker 3: did for Coach Rivers, the gift certificates he sent me
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Speaker 3: to Cougar wouldn't feed a bird. Okay.
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Speaker 2: Well, thank you very much, Ms. Dooley.
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Speaker 5: She's laughing her ass off, Billy.
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Speaker 3: All right.
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Speaker 1: 1-800, so just the point being that, hey, let's just
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Speaker 1: let the coaches do their job, and there is no
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Speaker 1: parent better than any other, even if you gave the
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Speaker 1: coach oral sex for every week in the Cougar parking
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Speaker 1: lot for six months.
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Speaker 2: And he still sends you gift certificates to kookaroo.
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