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OFF THE RECORD: We get deep, for once · Flava Breakfast

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  Speaker 1: It's the Flavor podcast Network.
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  Speaker 2: You're listening to Staycissura and Charlie's Off the Record.
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  Speaker 1: What's your record?
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  Speaker 3: Welcome to Off the Record. You are weather Zi and
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  Speaker 3: Schalie this morning. This is where we don't hold back.
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  Speaker 3: We take the chains off. We are released. We can
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  Speaker 3: talk about whatever we want. We can say swear words
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  Speaker 3: like shit.
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  Speaker 2: Ooh my mama, you're bad and you are bad area
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  Speaker 2: because I blame you for this. So yesterday we had
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  Speaker 2: a meeting right straight after work and we needed to
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  Speaker 2: kill time. So I said, you know, I'm gonna go
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  Speaker 2: get a message and you get Oh, go to the
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  Speaker 2: one just down the road from work. So this one
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  Speaker 2: literally just down the road. You can walk there, right.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm like, okay, then I'll take your advice. I
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  Speaker 2: google the place, I find it, I give them a call,
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  Speaker 2: I book and for ninety minutes because I'm like, you
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  Speaker 2: know what, this will give me some time, you know,
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  Speaker 2: just to stay around town. And because our meeting was
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  Speaker 2: like quite local, I get there right. The receptionist answers
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  Speaker 2: the phone, this is when I'm booking. It's a male,
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  Speaker 2: by the way, and I'm like, okay, he must just
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  Speaker 2: be the receptionist. I get there and it's the same receptions.
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  Speaker 1: He goes follow me to the.
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  Speaker 2: Room, and I'm like, Okay, maybe this is part of
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  Speaker 2: his job where he gets to take the shows. Because
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  Speaker 2: I've seen ladies and all that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, So
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  Speaker 2: I'm thinking, oh, he's just the broces doing his job.
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  Speaker 2: And then he'll go back to that and man the desk.
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  Speaker 2: So then I'm like, okay, I mean that's really truly Charlie.
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  Speaker 3: How How busy is a massage parlor in Central City,
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  Speaker 3: especially on the block that we we work on, And
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  Speaker 3: it's what eleven thirty in the morning, Probably.
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  Speaker 1: Not that busy.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. It was pretty busy. It's pretty popular.
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  Speaker 2: It's pretty popular, maybe because it's by lots of our work.
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  Speaker 1: You go in there, it's pretty flash. It doesn't look
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  Speaker 1: really telling. Well okay, I'll put my hand up.
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  Speaker 3: I've never been I know. I've just seen this for
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  Speaker 3: seven years that i've worked here.
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  Speaker 2: It's one of those like a hidden jim to be honest.
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  Speaker 2: I get there, Zoo, and then I had to ask
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  Speaker 2: the question. I had to ask him. I'm like, excuse me,
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  Speaker 2: you messaging and he's like, yes, yes, At that moment,
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  Speaker 2: like and honestly, I have a lot of friends, so
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  Speaker 2: they judge me on this.
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  Speaker 1: I have a lot of friends who are gay. I
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  Speaker 1: have a lot of friends.
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  Speaker 3: You know, Charlie, you always do this, you carry on
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  Speaker 3: carry and I love them, I have family, I love them.
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  Speaker 1: But I mean for me personally, that was a little bit.
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  Speaker 3: I say, why is it? No? But why is it?
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  Speaker 3: Because to me, I don't I don't understand because obviously
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  Speaker 3: for me, women would do my messages.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah I know that, but dant majority of the masseuse
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  Speaker 2: woman like, if you're going to do these, so what
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  Speaker 2: is it about having a male I don't know. I
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  Speaker 2: couldn't put my finger on it. And you know what,
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  Speaker 2: I'm just like, what the heck? I don't care.
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  Speaker 3: You know, you're not going to say you're not going
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  Speaker 3: to say no, Yeah, you're gonna remember they're professional and
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  Speaker 3: it was respectful everything, but they're not going to not
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  Speaker 3: be But I'm telling you, like, you know what, Actually
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  Speaker 3: I needed that I needed.
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  Speaker 2: I needed his strength, the brute strength to like, because bro,
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  Speaker 2: I've been complaining about my lawyer back for a long time.
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  Speaker 2: But the message that I got on Tuesday, I had
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  Speaker 2: the that.
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  Speaker 1: I needed the strength of a male, you know what
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  Speaker 1: I mean?
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  Speaker 2: Like I had the I had the ladies stand on
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  Speaker 2: my back and it didn't even know effect not like
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  Speaker 2: you can even took my back. But this guy didn't
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  Speaker 2: even need to stand on my back.
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  Speaker 1: I was just straight with the thumbs.
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  Speaker 2: With the thumbs, bro, like getting into this pressure points
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  Speaker 2: and I'm like, bro, you are the man. You are
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  Speaker 2: the man, Thank you for this. But when I left
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  Speaker 2: the message place, I just couldn't really put my finger
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  Speaker 2: on it. Like as to what you know what you know?
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  Speaker 3: Way I think it might be because you know, as
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  Speaker 3: a woman, uh you know, I'm speaking for myself and
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  Speaker 3: probably quite a few other women. Men they just have
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  Speaker 3: that vibro they have that men make.
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  Speaker 1: Us feel uncomfortable for no reason.
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  Speaker 3: Like nine times out of ten, it takes the You've
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  Speaker 3: got to build trust with males in your life before
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  Speaker 3: you feel comfortable around them. How do you think we
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  Speaker 3: feel like day and day out with any male? So
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  Speaker 3: maybe you being in that position where you're vulnerable for once,
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  Speaker 3: do you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: Yes?
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  Speaker 3: Please, because to me, I'm not that feeling you're describing
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  Speaker 3: that you can't put your finger on it. That's a
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  Speaker 3: very familiar feeling for women and for me for some reason, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: and for some reason, I don't know why. I can't
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  Speaker 3: put my finger on it. Sometimes I just don't feel
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  Speaker 3: comfortable around men because I am more vulnerable than someone
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  Speaker 3: like you, and you would then put in a position
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  Speaker 3: of Wow, I'm actually this is a vulnerable place to
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  Speaker 3: be and I'm around a man, and this man is
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  Speaker 3: close to me, and I don't have the power in
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  Speaker 3: this situation.
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  Speaker 1: I feel weird vulnerability than anything else.
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  Speaker 3: And you didn't have the control in that situation or
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  Speaker 3: the power, which is something that is unfamiliar for most men.
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  Speaker 3: That's a a but that's the facts though, Whereas for me,
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, fuck, oh, I just said the iff word.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, I forget it's off the record. I
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  Speaker 3: figured it's off the record. See what I mean? I
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  Speaker 3: do swear when I get patiently this. Yeah, And that's
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  Speaker 3: the thing. Like for me, if I was to go
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  Speaker 3: get a message, but that feeling, it would be there,
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  Speaker 3: and I'm not unfamiliar to it, so it would be
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  Speaker 3: fine for me. I'd like, okay, so you're fine. I
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  Speaker 3: feel like that when I'm walking in a walking down
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  Speaker 3: a quiet street.
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  Speaker 2: My guys, I'm so you can mind me with you know,
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  Speaker 2: same sex message, right, What if it was like a
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  Speaker 2: male I wouldn't mind because, to be honest, I'd feel
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  Speaker 2: less comfortable being less uncomfortable being in that situation with
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  Speaker 2: a man because he's a paid professional, right, And it's
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  Speaker 2: actually a safe place to be somewhere that people know
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  Speaker 2: I've booked, Whereas I would.
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  Speaker 3: Rather be with a male masseuse than just walking down
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  Speaker 3: a quiet street and knowing that there's a guy walking
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  Speaker 3: across the road behind me. Imagine it being like I
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  Speaker 3: don't know, the evening, sun's going down and it's like
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  Speaker 3: across the street. They're across the street. I don't know why,
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  Speaker 3: but I always think about where I am, my surroundings,
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  Speaker 3: how close they are to me, you know, how far
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  Speaker 3: I've got to go. I look at my phone usually
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  Speaker 3: and beer in mind. This is just the two of
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  Speaker 3: us on a street and there's still sunshine.
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  Speaker 2: It's good to get a different outlook on the seat. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I understand it.
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  Speaker 1: Nice, Thanks for that. It's all good. We got deep.
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  Speaker 3: We don't usually get deep and off the record.
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  Speaker 1: No, I mean it.
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  Speaker 2: You took it to a different place, which is like Wow,
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  Speaker 2: we have an understanding.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, hey, there you go in the Beninia.
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  Speaker 1: Thanks for listening to Stace, Azora and Charlie's off the record.
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