Bad Patterns in Relationships Part 2 | Episode 155

Lunchtime in Rome · May 5, 2022 · 1h 13m

How to break the cycle

Seek God’s input on the matter

How does He feel about what you’ve done?

How does He feel for the other person?

Listen!!

Understand where the hurts go and be mindful/loving with that knowledge

Avoid directing anger/fear AT the other person

Try not to have your guilt/self condemnation cloud the truth

What are their hurts, what needs were not met or taken from them?

How do you like that need to be met?

How can you meet their need while your need(s) are also met?

Realize that meeting another’s needs is loving them

Be aware of your and their emotional needs (as compared to…