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WEARING A CONDOM IN A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP? · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables. Let me just say something. Let
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  Speaker 1: me just say something, right, guys, are like, doesn't feel
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  Speaker 1: as good without a condom. It doesn't feel good. I
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  Speaker 1: won't be able to finish if I'm wearing a condom.
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  Speaker 1: he always says yes to the fit checks.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, hopefully also take a photo tag us we want
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  Speaker 1: We want to rate this stuff like what you're about
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  Speaker 1: to listen to. Okay, guys, we've been bread crumbing a
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  Speaker 1: little bit because you'd be like, why these guys keep
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  Speaker 1: mentioning it's to do with the boyfriend Olympics. Today is
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  Speaker 1: group stage number two, where too baddies compete, well, the
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  Speaker 1: two baddies compete with their boyfriends unknowingly to see who
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  Speaker 1: has the best boyfriend. The boyfriends they're the ones that
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  Speaker 1: are doing it unknowingly. Yeah, unknowingly, And it is a
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  Speaker 1: little bit of a couple's challenge in the end because
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  Speaker 1: it really plays on how well the baddies can get
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  Speaker 1: the information out of the boys. But today's challenge was
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  Speaker 1: something very fun. Dress badly on purpose and see what
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  Speaker 1: your boyfriend says. So the challenge was to dress badly
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  Speaker 1: and send a fit check to said boyfriend and get
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  Speaker 1: the results. And yeah, let's just say it was fun,
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  Speaker 1: very fun. So we're going to call two lovely baddies
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  Speaker 1: and see how they went, and then you guys get
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  Speaker 1: to vote at the end.
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  Speaker 4: Hello Casey speaking.
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  Speaker 1: Hello Casey, it's jaking only for the Relitables podcast. How's
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  Speaker 1: it going, so, clue, how are you? We are great,
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  Speaker 1: Welcome to the Boyfriend Olympics.
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  Speaker 3: I have my eyes set on that trophy through.
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  Speaker 1: We love someone that's king doing and I've seen her
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  Speaker 1: results and they're very good. But we won't get to
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  Speaker 1: that yet. Okay, firstly, Casey, we want to say thank
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  Speaker 1: you for joining the Boyfriend Olympics, but honor a bit
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  Speaker 1: about you and a bit about your boyfriend. How long
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  Speaker 1: have you been dating? What's his name? Everything? Don't leave
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  Speaker 1: any details?
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  Speaker 3: Perfect?
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  Speaker 4: Perfect, perfect?
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  Speaker 3: Well we are actually a new couple. No, I think
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  Speaker 3: that's interesting in the game because sometimes the new ones
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  Speaker 3: can actually be better. So I'm really really going to him.
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  Speaker 3: We've been together for like three months, which is crazy.
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  Speaker 3: His name is Will. He is a super tall man,
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  Speaker 3: tall too, tool man.
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  Speaker 1: Really great six six kick four. I know he's got me.
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  Speaker 3: Watch out, watch out, hey. This is a bit of
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  Speaker 3: a scandal. Are you ready for a scandal?
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  Speaker 4: We actually work together.
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  Speaker 3: We are work lovers, I know. So I'm like in
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  Speaker 3: a school like crazy.
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  Speaker 4: It's spicy.
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  Speaker 3: It's spicy, but that's a bit of us.
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  Speaker 1: Is it a high school or is it like a
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  Speaker 1: primary or elementary?
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  Speaker 3: It's a primary school.
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  Speaker 1: He doesn't know you're taking this call right now? Is
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  Speaker 1: in another.
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  Speaker 3: No, I have to run and hard another class. I'm
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  Speaker 3: literally teaching right now. And I was like, guys, I've
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  Speaker 3: got something important to do.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, that is exciting, so super exciting.
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  Speaker 2: Will is a tall drink of water and it's a
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  Speaker 2: new relationship months in. So therefore he can he only
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  Speaker 2: can be nice.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, exactly, only nice thing.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. So to the challenge. This week's chance was dress
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  Speaker 1: badly on purpose.
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  Speaker 3: Oh and it was a good one.
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  Speaker 4: It was a great challenge.
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  Speaker 3: It was a fun one.
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  Speaker 1: How this is going to work is I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: ask you to explain your fit to all the baddies listening,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm going to put a photo on whilst you
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  Speaker 1: explain it for all the video watches, and then could
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  Speaker 1: you also explain what you said and your boyfriend's response
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  Speaker 1: in your words, I think and me and Jake will react.
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  Speaker 1: So firstly, the give us a fit rundown.
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  Speaker 3: All right now? The fit, I am a fit gallipop,
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  Speaker 3: Like I often send my boyfriend's pit checks every day,
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  Speaker 3: so like this was an abnormal for him to receive
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  Speaker 3: a cute little pit check. However, the fit horrible a ride.
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  Speaker 3: Putting it on, I was like, I can't believe this
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  Speaker 3: is actually sitting on my body right now. We went
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  Speaker 3: for some ballet tights over some like cute checked short
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  Speaker 3: so I would never put that combo together.
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  Speaker 4: Ever.
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  Speaker 3: I then paired it with the pink a pink fluffy
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  Speaker 3: like crop knit, which is absolutely disgusting. It was gifted
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  Speaker 3: to me by like my mum's friend and she's like,
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  Speaker 3: you look good in this, So it's been sitting there
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  Speaker 3: waiting for this challenge, I reckon. Then it gets even better.
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  Speaker 3: Some cute little red slippers, red little ballet flats, and
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  Speaker 3: then a red hat to kind of tie it all together.
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  Speaker 2: I like how you did go because I'm looking at
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  Speaker 2: the frontright now, like you kind of color combo.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's definitely a fit you.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: I don't actually hate it.
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  Speaker 3: See, I think it was very strategic because I couldn't
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  Speaker 3: go like just all together ugly because he would be
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  Speaker 3: like he'd know what was going on. So it was
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  Speaker 3: a strategic fit to be like, oh she could kind
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  Speaker 3: of rocket, but it doesn't look great, okay. So I
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  Speaker 3: phrased it as like I'm going to the coffee shop
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  Speaker 3: doing a read with this.
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  Speaker 4: Cool fit on.
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  Speaker 3: Men replied and said are you trying to impress? And
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  Speaker 3: I was like, oh okay, okay. I was like, all right,
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  Speaker 3: I guess these ballet PIDs are really working for so
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  Speaker 3: many evil right now. Then Hey did make a point
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  Speaker 3: that it was very cold that day, so he said
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  Speaker 3: that I should probably like maybe i'd be a bit
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  Speaker 3: cold because I am a cold galie. So she was
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  Speaker 3: really looking out for me. Thank you so much, will
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  Speaker 3: you amazing man. I then was like, okay, I needed
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  Speaker 3: a bit more, so I said, oh, should I change?
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  Speaker 3: And this is where it gets good, This is where
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  Speaker 3: it gets really good. Man said, do you wear whatever
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  Speaker 3: your heart desires. I was a proper, proper gag, proper
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  Speaker 3: throwing out. I was like, job, this is so good.
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  Speaker 3: I do However, I do think if he really loved me,
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  Speaker 3: I was expecting I, oh, like, I think you should change,
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  Speaker 3: Like I don't think this is you.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, honest, okay, exactly. I dare he let you go
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  Speaker 1: out and embarrass you?
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  Speaker 3: So you're three and that's exactly it. Like I was like,
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  Speaker 3: I'm a bit, I'm a bit.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I was expecting a bit more from him in that
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  Speaker 3: in that sense.
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  Speaker 1: But he's the thing as well as I think probably
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  Speaker 1: the way he was thinking where it's like, oh, he
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  Speaker 1: probably doesn't like the outfit. Let's be real because you
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  Speaker 1: did purposely make it better. But he's probably like if
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  Speaker 1: I really liked an outfit and my girlfriend was like,
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  Speaker 1: oh I hate it, but.
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  Speaker 2: I really like it, I would I would be hurt.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh, I was confident in this until you.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's that's so true. Like he was like, yeah, girl,
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  Speaker 3: you get it.
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  Speaker 1: You're confident in it. He just loves you for you. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: on purpose. Yeah, he doesn't know that it was on person.
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  Speaker 1: He thinks you're feeling yourself.
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  Speaker 4: And you're like, yeah, this is like he's just hyping up.
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying green flags from him. That's how I.
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  Speaker 3: Love it. He did, he did well. I'm proud. I'm proud.
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  Speaker 1: That's a good one. Yeah. I think he did really well. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: So how this is going to work from here is
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  Speaker 1: you are the first caller. We are going to call
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  Speaker 1: another baddie and get her results as well, and lot amazing.
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  Speaker 1: Last episode, we're gonna pose it to all the baddies
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  Speaker 1: listening to vote whose boyfriend had the best response.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, I love this. It's up to the baddies like baddies,
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  Speaker 3: absolutely unite and like you tell us the verdict.
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  Speaker 4: I love it.
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  Speaker 1: Audionized opinions mean nothing.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, we mean yeah, they often don't.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you very much, Casey, and best of luck. Hopefully
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  Speaker 1: we see you in the metal matches.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, oh I can't wait. Thank you so much, Lesions.
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  Speaker 3: It was so good to chat with you.
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  Speaker 1: You do have a good day, but thank you too.
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  Speaker 4: Bye, guys.
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  Speaker 1: Damn whoa good start, good start, great start, Holy crap,
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  Speaker 1: Casey and will combo for only three months? Good combo?
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  Speaker 1: Though I would have said what he said, so would
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  Speaker 1: have I because of the way I just said lucky.
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  Speaker 1: It was lucky. We don't mean anything. I would be
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  Speaker 1: voting for that. I would be voting for this too,
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  Speaker 1: But I mean I don't know the other one. Neither
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  Speaker 1: do I. She hasn't told me. Normally I get all
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  Speaker 1: the results, but slim leaving it up for it's a surprise. Shit.
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  Speaker 1: So let's call Battie too, Baddie number two.
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  Speaker 4: Hello, am I speaking?
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  Speaker 1: Hello Emma, Welcome to the boyfriend Olympics. How are you going? Hello,
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  Speaker 1: I'm good, Thank you? How are you We're going great?
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  Speaker 1: You are the second caller, so how are you feeling okay?
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  Speaker 4: Well, I hope the other person's proud than.
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  Speaker 1: Are you excited tone with you and your boyfriend? Unknowingly?
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  Speaker 1: Are you excited to compete with you and your boyfriend unknowingly?
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  Speaker 4: Yes?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, very excited.
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  Speaker 4: This call a week.
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  Speaker 2: We have a We have a few questions for you initially,
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  Speaker 2: so sure. We just want to know a couple of
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  Speaker 2: things about you and your boyfriend. Simple, what's your boyfriend's
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  Speaker 2: name and how long have you guys been together?
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  Speaker 4: His name is Brodie and we've been together just over
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  Speaker 4: a year. To celebrate our anniversary, recently.
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  Speaker 1: Bit of connection there. Coming to the challenge, we'll.
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  Speaker 2: Give a little bit, give a little bit away to you.
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  Speaker 2: You'll probably listen to it next week. But the call
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  Speaker 2: that we just had, they have a they were pretty fresh.
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  Speaker 2: They were only three months into their relationship.
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  Speaker 1: Ah okay, so you've got one up already.
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  Speaker 4: I'll take any any extra points I can get.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes being further in though, means that you guys are
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  Speaker 1: more comfortable together.
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  Speaker 4: And yeah, okay, ye.
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  Speaker 1: This Wigs challenge was to dress badly on purpose. How
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  Speaker 1: do you think when you saw the challenge? Initially?
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  Speaker 4: Oh, when I saw it, I was like, oh God,
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  Speaker 4: my boyfriend. Both my boyfriend and his dad are very
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  Speaker 4: into fashion. So I was like, oh, show something that
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  Speaker 4: would give like a proper opinion on it. And so
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  Speaker 4: I was just I was like, if I just badly,
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  Speaker 4: he's just going to be like no. He didn't say that, thankfully,
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  Speaker 4: but I was like, Oh, I was also curious to
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  Speaker 4: know what he would play. It's probably a good challenge actually,
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  Speaker 4: So okay, this is yeah, how this is going to work?
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  Speaker 1: If you could please run us through and all the
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  Speaker 1: bad he's listening your foot fill fit from head to
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  Speaker 1: toe and then explain our boyfriend's response to please yep, sure, sure.
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  Speaker 4: So I was going for something that was like not
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  Speaker 4: what I would normally wear and like bad, but not
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  Speaker 4: so like outrageously crazy that it immediately know it was
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  Speaker 4: a joke. Yeah, And so I had, like I pulled
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  Speaker 4: some stuff out of this sag I was supposed to
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  Speaker 4: take stuff to the op shop with, and I was like,
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  Speaker 4: let me find some weird things to put together. So
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  Speaker 4: I had like a pink shirt on some white like
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  Speaker 4: short overalls and then black tights underneath, which in my
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  Speaker 4: opinion was like an odd combo. Yeah, but I don't know,
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  Speaker 4: maybe some people will wear that. So I don't want
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  Speaker 4: to say that it was too bad, but.
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  Speaker 1: This is something you wouldn't wear.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it was something that I know this it's an
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  Speaker 4: odd comat Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: So I sent it to him and then I said
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  Speaker 4: like fit check because I normally do that, and he
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  Speaker 4: like he like reacted it or love reacted it or whatever.
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  Speaker 4: But then he didn't say anything, and I was like, no,
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  Speaker 4: we're gonna we're gonna need more content for this post Olympics.
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  Speaker 4: I'm gonna need a bit more than that. And so yeah,
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  Speaker 4: I called him he's on his way back from soccer,
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  Speaker 4: so we're just chatting or whatever. And then I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 4: like what do you think of the outfit? And then yeah,
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  Speaker 4: he said he love reacted it because he likes when
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  Speaker 4: I send fit checks. But then when I was like
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  Speaker 4: but then when I was like oh, I had to
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  Speaker 4: sort of be like, oh, that was a joke, by
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  Speaker 4: the way, because I was like, he already hadn't really
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  Speaker 4: said anything. I think he didn't want to. He wasn't sure,
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  Speaker 4: and I think he didn't want to offend me, so
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  Speaker 4: it was just like better off trying to say anything.
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  Speaker 4: And then so I was like I have to say
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  Speaker 4: it's a joke to see if he can say something else.
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  Speaker 4: And then he was like okay, and he was like
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  Speaker 4: I was going to say he's going to go out
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  Speaker 4: in that or.
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  Speaker 1: Being honest, he was still a bit worried about saying
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  Speaker 1: something mean.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, he was trying to be sweet. I think
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  Speaker 4: like he didn't want to offend me, and I had
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  Speaker 4: to really be like yeah. And then later I was
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  Speaker 4: just laughing about it and he was like, yeah, you
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  Speaker 4: have me questioning you your fashion.
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  Speaker 1: Style of.
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  Speaker 4: All like looks fun like I wasn't offended or anything
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  Speaker 4: fair enough.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, he didn't want to hurt your feelings, so he
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  Speaker 1: kind of went silent and just love reacted. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, he loved reacting because he said. Yeah. He did
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  Speaker 4: say like, oh, I like when you sent you Jack,
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  Speaker 4: but I think this one he was just like, not
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  Speaker 4: too sure. Man.
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  Speaker 1: He was just thinking, I'm glad I'm not with her today.
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  Speaker 4: I was like, oh, I don't want to.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. I would say the fit you wore, I would
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  Speaker 1: say is like kind of an early to mid two thousands.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it was. It was giving Toddler a little bit
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  Speaker 4: too when I looked like, I'm like, I'm pretty sure
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  Speaker 4: I saw kid wearing that at the shot.
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  Speaker 1: That was allowed to dress themselves that day.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So how this is going to work is like last week,
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna pose both boyfriends who are competing unknowingly to
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  Speaker 1: the baddies to vote, so we won't know, we don't
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  Speaker 1: have any say in this, so you have to listen
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  Speaker 1: to the episode and find out. Yes, okay, So thank
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  Speaker 1: you very much for competing, and hopefully we will be
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  Speaker 1: in touch if you do win.
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  Speaker 4: Ye yep, sounds good. Thanks, thank you, have a good day.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, unlucky that he was. This is a bad one
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  Speaker 1: for her because he's into fashion. Very unlucky, but also
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: nature of the beast. So the first Baddie initially wanted
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: some honesty, and the second Batie kind of got it.
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: He didn't reply, but then he was like, he's actually
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: gonna wear that. So I don't know, it's not at
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: least it's not to us. I'm going with my opinion
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: is the first Mine is the first too, Yeah, but interesting.
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it is interesting because to be fair, Beth does
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: always want me to be super honest. Yeah, but I
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: wouldn't like I will be honest with Beth in the
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: sea if I think she's being like serious and thinks
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: she's looking good like, and I don't think she looks
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: good like, I'm going to be like, yeah, no, that
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: looks nice. Oh no, I'm only honest with Beth when
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: she's questioned.
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 17:49
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: So if she's if she'll go what do you think
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: of this? Like? You know, if she came she goes,
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: oh what do you think about fit? Like I love this,
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: and I'd be like, yeah, it's great if I didn't
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: like it. But when Beth goes like, oh you know,
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: I just need a bit of help, Like what do
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: you think of this? I'll be like, I actually don't
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: think that that goes together. But yeah when she's I
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: feel like A is like yeah look at me. Yeah.
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: The fit check is like I thought this was good
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: enough to send you. Yeah, So so I got to
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: the baddies. So, baddies, comment below. If one Casey's boyfriend
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: one or two Emma's boyfriend one one is Will the
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: other one is Brody, all right, comment below we although
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: it doesn't matter, I think are both verting for Casey. Yeah,
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: well that's who if we if we had a vote,
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: we don't. If we had a tangent, we mean nothing.
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: We absolutely nothing. We are the dirt under your shoes
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: of those baddies through shaded us too. She's like, your
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: opinions don't mean anything. Why do you guys even listen
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: to this podcast?
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: Baddies. Also, we need to correct myself from last week.
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: So last week I said that we will announce the
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: Week one winner now, but we're going to give them
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: some grace, more time to get listens and views and comments,
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: and oddie, when are we going to actually announce the
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: It will.
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: Be week four. So there's three group stages. This is
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: group stage two. There will be another challenge next week,
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: the last group stage. So if you want to get involved,
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: the link is still on the top of the description
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: and you can get involved. And then the following week,
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: week four, we will announce the medal matches and then
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: week five will be Bronze silver and then the gold
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: medal match. Yes, two challenges in one episode. Yes, so
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: the only time when is the only time we get
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: a vote? We do get a vote, don't we We
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: get to vote with who immediately goes to the gold
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: medal match. Yes, so we mean so we do mean something.
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: We've had to give ourselves some power in that situation. Yeah. Wow,
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: well wow wow wow, So stay tuned for all that. Boddie.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: This comes out a little while after it. But we
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: I didn't like work out in my head. I didn't
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: plan ahead enough to do it on it on the day,
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: an episode would have dropped. But you had your birthday.
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: I did have my birthday.
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: You are officially twenty five, twenty five frontal lobe development
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: bro and my twenty five. On the Instagram, I said
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: thirty one and you got.
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: Me a cake. It said thirty one but my frontal
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: lobe is developed. But what I wanted to say was
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: this was so fitting guys, so haha, jokes are so funny.
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: Jake got me a cake that said thirty one on it. Yeah,
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: but what's even funnier is so we went to a
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: fancy restaurant and as the cake was coming out, Jake
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: was nowhere to be seen for his funny he he
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: haha joke. Everyone's like, where's Jake. I didn't even get
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: to see your reaction. And then Beth's just like, I
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: think he's on the toilet. Of course he's on the toilet.
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: He's always on the toilet. So Jake missed give me
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: a cake that said thirty one instead of twenty five.
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: I also we designed the cake to say, have we
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: got a photo of it? I have a photo on
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: my phone. Yeah, I guess we could put one on
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: the screen. If you remember what it says, it says
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: dream big, fart loud, and Jake was farting loud when
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: my cake came out. Hey, I was dreaming big, mate,
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: I was in there dreaming big. It was a fucking
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: good restaurant though, But all jokes aside, Yeah, it was
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: a great restaurant and double chocolate mudcake with icing. Bev
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: put the icing on, Eddie Crocker icing, Betty Crocker icing
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: and sprinkles on the side. I gotta say, don't spend
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: expensive money on cake. It was it would have been.
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: It was so good even in the fridge two days later.
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: It was good.
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: I reckon the cake all together would have cost less
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: than twenty dollars because the mudcakes are five bucks each.
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: Beth got two of them and just stacked them on
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: top of each other and make it seem like a
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: big cake. And then she bought the b Betty Crocker
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: icing and some icing to design and sprinkles for the side,
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: and it looked pretty decent.
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: The combo went good because it was like white icing
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: with a chocolate mudcake, so the white mudcake combo, it
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: was really nice and icing bro tastes amazing. Yeah, slap,
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: But also what I wanted to say sharp left turn
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: kind of was as we get older, I think this
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: is really really really relatable as you sort of get
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: to realize who your friends really are. Ah, this is
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: a sharp left turn. I don't want to put a
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: Debbie downer on my birthday because it was definitely still
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: a very fun day. Yeah, and I loved where we
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: went for lunch. It was really fun. Actually had a
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: great day. But food, bro, we'll talk about We'll talk
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: about where we went for lunch after time. I know. Yeah.
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: So with birthdays, I actually was going into this thinking,
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: whoever doesn't say happy birthday too, Yeah, I'm not considering
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: a friend anymore. Yeah, it's not that hard. It's not
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: hard at all. And a lot of friends didn't at all,
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: but one, which was quite a harsh reality was I
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: still don't mind saying it on here because fuck him,
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: it cares for my birthday. I booked a fancy restaurant
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: in Sydney about two months out. I invited everyone so
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: they could plan their lives. That's what you do when
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: people are getting older, because people have a lot of
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: things on. And then anyway, about a week out this
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: one friend asked me how I was getting there, and
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: I was coming from the Blue Mountains because I did
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: a little farm stay with Cassie, my girlfriend, And he
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: just didn't reply to me, and then he messaged me
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: at ten forty the booking was twelve thirty. He would
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: have had to leave his house house probably half an
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: hour after texting me within twenty minutes, didn't say happy
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: birthday to me on my birthday. Going to lunch was
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: the day after my birthday. No happy birthday, and goes,
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: I've got another job. Don't think I can make it.
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: Fuck don't know. And this guy's job is the most
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: flexible thing I've ever scene in my life. And I
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: just didn't reply to him. But I also considered this
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: guy really close. Mate. Pissed me off a fair bit. Yeah,
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: but it's sort of like the harsh reality of some
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: friends just don't want to make the effort. No, give
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: him fucking two months notice. Two months. I was pissed. Ay,
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: I was like, what a fucking dog? Rightfully, so, yeah,
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: pissed right eye was pissed. And he didn't even call
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: me and have the decency to say happy birthday. Mate,
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: I've been called. If you had actually been called to
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: a job, like an emergency job, if he was like
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: super apologetic, yeah, I been like this, I have to
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: go there or else something bad is going to happen.
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: Like happy happy birthday. I hope you have a good time.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: We should catch up when you get back. No, the
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: sheer little text doesn't even say hey at it. I
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: know crazy. It's fucking wild, isn't it. But I thought
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: that was relatable too, because the older you get, you
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: start to realize who your actual friends are. Yeah, and
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: when I was eighteen nine and I was thinking all
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: these mates were going to be my right old diet
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: who I was fifty, I lost fucking eighty percent of them.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: Bro I thought the exact same.
• 24:58
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: I remember thinking that, like, fuck, I'm lucky to have
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: a friend group. And it was really nice. A couple
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: of people who you don't expect come out of the
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: woodworks and say happy Birthday. Every year that happens some
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: random person I haven't spoken to you, Like, the only
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: time you speak to them that year is so you're
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: either bump into him in the street or at like
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: the shops you say hi, I have a nice or
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: chat how you going, haven't seen you for a while,
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: or they'll send you a nice happy birthday message. Yeah,
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: well do it? Richo who rich Dylan I barely talk to.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: I still consider him a close mate. We went traveling
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: up the East Coast Australia with him for a little week.
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: He was there for a week with him. He was
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: there for a week and I still consider him a mate,
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: but like not as close as these guys. Happy birth
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: I have a good one mate. And he was like
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: the third person to do it. It's not like this
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: guy's a fucking legends, not hard at all, and he
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: remembered it's and also also it's everyone remembers everything because
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: everyone has social media, and you don't have an excuse
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: because relatables I know you have seeing it. Yeah, everyone
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: remembers everything, Bro, there's no one has an excuse. Every
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: single person knew it was your birthday, either from Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram,
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: something right, and then they saw it and they probably thought, oh,
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: it's on his birthday and actively made a decision not
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: to say it. So it's a fair point. I was
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: thinking that is so relatable. Hey, and now I've sort
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: of like reassessed my friendships. I use this a little
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: bit of a case study, and I'm not going to
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: put the effort into those relationships that I was prior
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: because they don't put it the effort into my side
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: of things.
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: I haven't remember last time I put effort in, to
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: be completely honest with you, But the friend that did that,
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: you invited him fucking and he did that, I thought
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: that was I was just like, fuck, that's average, bro.
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: Soever. I was like, that is so. The only other
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: bad thing, too, is he's probably unbeknownst to doing something wrong.
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: He wouldn't like he's The thing is, I don't think
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: he's an idiot. I think that he knew, like he
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: knows it's rude. I think he knows that. And what
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: makes I think it's I think it's worse that he
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: knows that, Like he would he would have come. If
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: it was a night out and it was like a
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: big night and we're drinking, and we were drinking and
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: we were gonna have like a fucking mad time. I
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: reckon he would have come. Probably, honestly, I think he
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: would have come. He didn't think that, you know, just
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: a lunch at Toddy's in Roselle was a good enough
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: thing to come to, even though it was your birthday.
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: And that's the thing is, like he knows that he
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: actively made that decision. He had two months notice to
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: tell his dad he works for his dad. He had
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: two months notice to say this Saturday, I literally.
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: I'm not working.
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: So take calls if you want, but you're going to him.
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: That's the easiest thing. It's the easiest thing ever. And
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: he lives with his fucking dad. He could have said
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: it to him in person. He doesn't even have to
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: like text him or so. It's just a lack of effort. Yeah,
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: and it's You're right, it's a fucking harsh reality.
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: It is too, but I guess that's also depictive of
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: This is the first birthday I've never drunk, and I
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: think that's part of the frontal lobe development. But that's
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: what I wanted to do. That's my birthday, the one
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: day that I get to be selfish. Mate. Yeah, that
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: was a prime birthday for me. Yeah, exactly. It's perfect. Actually, actually,
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: it's probably one of my favorites. Yeah, the frontal lobe
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: was developing, we had heaps, good food, friends. I was happy.
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: I was really I was like, well that was really good.
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: It is. You're not walking away the next morning feeling like.
• 28:37
  Speaker 4: Ah fuck.
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: It's tough pill to swallow, but really tough. I guess
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: the quicker you get it down, the quicker you just
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: fucking go, oh, whatever it is, what it is? Oh yeah,
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: men always say this what it is?
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: It isn't what it isn't. Let's be fair. It's not sorry,
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: it's not it is what it is. But yeah, the
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: quicker you you just accept it and you fucking move
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: on and you go fuck it. I lost a friend
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: and Cassie was saying she would have either ghosted or
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: messaged and said like, hey, hey girl, Like this is
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: so disrespectful.
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: Can't even drive an hour and half your friend on
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: their birthday? Like I don't even consider you a friend
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: anymore if you can't do this for me, What did you? Did?
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: You choose ghosts? I've chosen ghast, Yeah I would. I
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: would also choose ghosts.
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd choose ghost And also, you know you no
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: longer get a reply from me because you also no
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: longer get a single ounce of my time because you
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: couldn't give me a single ounce of your time. Like
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: it's fucking crazy to fathom the it's crazy because it's like.
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't say any more. But it's almost like if
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: I did it to you genuinely, this friend is like
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: this friend would have been like second in line, would
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean? So it's it's almost like
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: if I fucking did that to you prior to the pod,
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: he was on part of you.
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like legitimately he was like literally, And so that's
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: why it's so fucking hard to like fathom, because it
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: is literally imagined. If I fucking did that to you, yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: you'd be like what heartbroken at it's fucked by Yeah,
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: but hey, I guess such his life.
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: We grow up and we learn. But okay, with a restaurant,
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: we went to Toddies called Toddies. Anyone that lives in Australia,
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: there's this restaurant called Toddies. There's one in Bondai, one
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: in Rosella and one in the Sydney CBD. They've expanded.
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: It's Italian. Their use codes stay bad at check use
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: fucking code. We wish it's delicious. Brute whatever they do
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: to the bread, So how would you explain the bread
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: that they cook in the oven? It's like puffed up.
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: It's cold wood fired bread. They chuck that shit in
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: the oven and it blows up like a balloon. They
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: bring it out or blown up like a balloon, and
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: you just start ripping it and tearing it to shreds
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: and you dip it in your fucking barrata cheese. Also,
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: brata cheese has no flavor their's had flavor. You dip
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: it in the barrata cheese, add some sh whatever you want.
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: I said to Cassie, the barrada around here tastes like
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: fucking Camembert, whereas the brada there was like crack cocaine.
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: He's okay. Brada cheese to me usually just normally don't
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: like it. It tastes like thick. No, it tastes like
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: yogurt without flavor. Because it's like a thick cheese and
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: you dips it in, it always just tastes like nothing.
• 31:22
  Speaker 4: To me.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: This braada cheese tasted like something. Yeah, I'm honestly going
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: to book myself in like a couple of months after Paralier.
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: Just go for lunch and only get that pizza thing too.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: Oh you know, Beth and I have said it minutes
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: for your hour less. Yeah, you chose the best one.
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: It's a five minute drive, bro. So I couldn't get
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: in the Bondo, I know, Yeah, the Monday one, the Toddies,
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: So the Rosette one's honestly nice still, But Beth and
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: I've said a Paul, we've been there for dinner once
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: and you could just go there on a quick little
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: walk in fingers crossed. They have a two seat table
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: or you could sit at the bar or something and
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: just get the bread.
• 31:56
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: Crazy, And the bread is the most affordable bit.
• 32:00
  Speaker 4: It was good.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: All the mains are pretty expensive, to be fair, like
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: it must be nice restaurant. Yeah they are, but they aren't. Yeah,
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: but the bread was not the cheapest thing. The thing
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: that got expensive, but they got they hit us with.
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: It was Saturday. They hit us with a service fee.
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: You're going to be open anyway. Why you hit this
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: with a service fee? It's not a public holiday. I
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: was like, fuck, it's like seventy bucks just for service.
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: Tipped him to. I know. I was just a bad idea.
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: The lady. That was our way. It was nice to
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: be fair. She was good, but no, it was fuck.
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: It was good for That was my twenty fifth birthday.
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah and frontal lobe. Ask me anything and I'll know it.
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: Go, oh shit, what is the meaning of life?
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: Twenty two? The day was born? My birthday? Maybe I'm developed, batties.
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: It is time for dilemmas? Where myself daddy? And what
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: are you over? Hear mummy?
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: We read out your current life dilemmas and we try
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: and help you out. You can also very easily submit
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: one via the link in the description. It's all anonymous.
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: You can also go to the our Instagram bio. Just
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: don't think it's relatables on Instagram.
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: I don't do that. Don't do that because there are
• 33:20
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• 33:21
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• 35:31
  Speaker 2: Jake and Oddie, She said, if you're open to talking
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: about abortions on the podcast, i'd love your opinion. Setting
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: the scene, my boyfriend and I have been dating for
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: just over two years. We are both nineteen. Last year,
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: I found out I was pregnant before i'd even processed it.
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: My boyfriend assumed i'd get in a boy get an abortion,
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: which was my choice in the end, but he never
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: even asked what I wanted. He was going away with
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: his family in a week and didn't want to tell them.
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: They're quite strict and Christian, so I didn't tell my
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: family either out of respect for him.
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: Oh wild.
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: I was stressed, overwhelmed, and unsure how I felt about
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: ending the pregnancy. I missed the cutoff for a medical
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: abortion and had to book in a surgical one before Christmas.
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: Throughout the whole thing, he wasn't really there for me
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: emotionally or physically. On the day of the procedure. Instead
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: of helping me with practical stuff and staying with me,
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: especially after because the Earth said someone would need to
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: be with me, he went to a work dinner ended
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: up paying for the abortion because his mum monitors his
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: bank account. He promised to pain me back, but it
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: took six months and multiple reminders. For me, it wasn't
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: about the money. It was about feeling like the least
• 36:42
  Speaker 2: he could do was support me financially since he wasn't
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: able to in any other way. Now months later, I've
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: realized how unsupported I felt during the whole experience. I've
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: tried to talk to him about it, but since it's
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: in the past, he just says he can't change it.
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: He has apologized for after I told him how I
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: felt about it, but it kind of felt disingenuous. I
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: don't know if I should let it go, especially because
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: he has paid me back, pay me back now, or
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: see this as a sign that he's not the partner
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: I need. I just don't know, because it's one bad
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: situation and we are both we are both you not
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: gonna lie and learning as it's our first relationship new
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: both new and learning as it's our first relationship, it says,
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: and we are both.
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: Ng I don't know.
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: This is this is very much a shortened virgin. I
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: need your opinion. What do you guys think from I
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: might leave her name out of it. Also love the podcast.
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: It's my go to hotgirl walk on audio. So when
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: I read that initially, I was like, that's heavy, But
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: I wanted to fucking talk about it because.
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: A couple things. I think.
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: Look, whatever decision you make with your body is the
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: right decision because it's your body. But I don't think
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: you should ever feel as though you can't tell anyone
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: about the pregnancy just because his family is quite strict Christian. Right,
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: once you're pregnant, it is in my opinion that the
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: person that got you pregnant doesn't have a single say personally.
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: Oh so like if you guys had unsack unprotected sex right,
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: even if it was obviously fully consensual, and you get pregnant,
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: it is in my opinion that anything that goes is
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: your say. Like, I don't think his opinion matters because
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: it is literally your body.
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: I think the opinion is always hers, no matter what.
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: But also his opinion does matter to a certain extent.
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: But everything he did in this is completely wrong and
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: it pissed me off completely. Yeah, I don't want to
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: say the man has zero say, because if you are
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: in a loving relationship, you want your boyfriend to have
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: an opinion and you appreciate that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean, oh,
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: you can certainly ask his opinion. Yeah yeah, yeaheah. Everything
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: about that fucking pissed me off, And it also highlights
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: a much larger problem, which unfortunately is relatable, where when
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: men do get their partner pregnant or the couple gets
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: pregnant at a young age, they go distant and don't
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: know what to do, and as a result, you feel
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: isolated and confused and make decisions or your hand is
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: forced because these men are immature or don't know how
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: to deal with the said situation, which pisces me off
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: because I've heard things almost word for word the exact same,
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: three or four times same. That's why I was like, fuck,
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: I've heard this before. Yeah. So firstly, like sorry you
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: had to go through all that, Yeah, like in the
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: way you did it, like with him, like he wasn't
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: a supportive per and in any means, like fucking finances
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: should be the last thing you want someone by your
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: side going through this. It is a traumatic experience, and
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: you want someone by your side who can support you
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: emotionally and just fucking be an arm to lean on. Yeah, look,
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: as simple as that, like, finances should come last. Obviously
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: he should take the run of it, but fuck you
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: give the fuck about the finances at the.
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: End of the day, there were so many red flags
• 40:23
  Speaker 2: before the finance.
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like number one.
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: If he so, it's like, how dare he assume that
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: you're going to get an abortion? It's like, if you
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: get pregnant, he can want you to get an abortion. Yeah, exactly,
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: but also he should be like, you know, you come
• 40:38
  Speaker 2: to him, you sayre pregnant, He's like, Okay, what do
• 40:40
  Speaker 2: you want to do?
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: Exactly? That's the first thing, is the first thing you
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: want to do.
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: Okay, let's deal with this however you want to deal
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: with it. If you want to keep the kid. He
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: can have his opinion of you. He would prefer you
• 40:50
  Speaker 2: to get an abortion, but also doesn't matter. Secondly, he
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: just wasn't fucking there for you, crazy badly you choose
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: to get an abortion. Again, this could just be my opinion,
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: but personally think he.
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: Pays the whole thing. Well I think so too. Yeah, yeah,
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: so what's the actual dilemma she wants to know? She's
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: just like, should I let it go? Fuck? Don't? Fuck no,
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: you should let it no, don't let it go. Yeah,
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: I can give a very mummy answer to avoid this
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: for other baddies. Not to highlight this baddie right now,
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: but I've learned this is when you start having sex
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: with someone, you should have the conversation around what how
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: do you feel about if you did fell pregnant and
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: have the conversation before it happens, and then you get
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: to see a man's reaction. Yeah, and you can avoid
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: all this because these guy's are trash dude fucking oath here. Yeah.
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: And the fact that he's just scared of his fucking
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: parents and they manage his bank account another red flag.
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: He can't get insane, he can't get money out. What's
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: an abortion? It's like a grand or something, isn't it.
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: It's probably more. I actually don't know. I know that,
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: to be fair, surgery is more than the surgery is
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: a lot more. It's a literal surgery.
• 42:13
  Speaker 5: Ye.
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, here's my like.
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: I think that it's a major red flag when someone's
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: boyfriend has their fucking bank account monitored by their parents.
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: I don't care how old you are.
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, if you're fifteen, okay, fair, Right, they open the
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: bank account for you.
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: They have access to it. Cool, like you're fifteen, if
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: you're eighteen and up and your bank account is monitored
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: by your parents. But what he should have done you
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: are not ready for a relationship one, And what he
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: should have done in this exact sceno minus all his decisions,
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: is gone to his parents and said, hey, I have
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: got so and so pregnant. I need to help her
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: to finance the abortion. If that's what she wanted. If
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: that's the conversation, I'm taking away everything he did that
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: was wrong at the start. And he goes, I need
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: to pay for this. I need my money right now
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: to help her out worst case, you know. And I
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: want to say it again, money is the last thing.
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: It's fucking insane to me. If you can't get a
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: handle on your own money and your parents are looking
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: at that ship for you, I'm sorry. You cannot be
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: in a relationship that is insane.
• 43:29
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: I want to put emphasis on the batter you sent
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: this in, like, I am so so sorry. Okay, Well
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: I'm saying break up with him. I can't look past it. No,
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: I'm this is deal breaker. Yeah, central, think about how
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: you feel. You're still feeling it and he still is
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: kind of like it's in the past. You know, we
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: can't change it. That's insane. He has zero fucking ar
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: it's zero empathy. He doesn't give a fuck. It's in
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: the past, like it is what it is. Please break
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: up with them, Yeah, yeah, at the bare minimum, Like
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: you need to tell him how this made you feel.
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: She did, she did that, she did, and it was
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: just it was just like disingenuous. Sorry, she said. I
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: told him like, yeah, yeah, you can do so mu
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: I've tried to talk to him about it. You can
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: do so much better. He just says it's in the past.
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: He doesn't want to hear about it. He doesn't have
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: time to hear about the way you feel. Did you
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: know what that fucking does to the human body?
• 44:27
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: I hate everything about it. We've set out peace. Yeah,
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: I just wanna say, he's the fucking dirt underneath my shoe,
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: that bloke. He is the type of person where that's
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: a tire slashing. Yeah, this is where I would get
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: my fix of wanting to slash a tira honestly true, Well,
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: there is there is things that I would fucking do.
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: This guy I hate too. That's rather relatable. I know, well, Okay,
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: my dilemma is wearing a condom possible in a long
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: term relationship? Can I answer that? Sure? Yeah, the LENMS
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: is done to lendless done for Hey, guys, thank you
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: so much for the pod. I love you both for
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: your open mindsets as well as the respect you show
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: to everyone. My question is quite simple as above. For context,
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: I'm a competitive athlete and compete internationally in my sport.
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: I train hard and being physically fit is a big
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: part of my lifestyle. I don't do drugs, I don't drink,
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: I eat well, So for me personally, I wouldn't want
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: to go on any sort of birth control that could
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: mess with my hormones as it plays such a big
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: part of my health. And having a period is a
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: great indicator of overtraining, I guess, and not having a
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: period is a great indicator of overtraining. Yes, yes, that's true.
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: There's also a lot of breast cancer in my family,
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: and I feel like a guy wrapping up is a
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: little easier than all the risks that come with birth control.
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: Call me crazy, not at all. Having chatted to a guy,
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: he said that using a condom just won't work in
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: a long term relationship because the second isn't the same.
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: I understand his point. I get the spontaneity of sex
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: would be impacted, but I personally haven't had a long
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: term relationship because I haven't met anyone and I'm happily
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: single and know what I want in a relationship, so
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: have no experience in a long term draw ha ha.
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: My sport is pretty male orientated and I do get
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: quite a lot of attention from guys within it, so
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: anything short term I wouldn't feel would be an issue
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: in finding. But do guys really care about this in
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: the long term? I feel if it was any of
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: my close guy friends, they wouldn't care because their girlfriends
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: would be the priority. But what do I know. Maybe
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: it's naive of me, but it just seems unfair, But
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: I understand the guy's point of view. I wanted another
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: opinion and thought maybe some girls would have value on
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: this guy's perspective. Thank you so much for all your time.
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: Lots of love from the UK.
• 46:54
  Speaker 2: Damn, I was gonna say, there's a thing in Australia.
• 46:59
  Speaker 2: There's been like a theme that I think we've both noticed,
• 47:02
  Speaker 2: and it's that men don't seem to give a fuck
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: about the risks with sex, not at all. And it's
• 47:09
  Speaker 2: it is worldwide probably, but for some reason there's a
• 47:12
  Speaker 2: lot like I think we've had dilemmas from Europeans where
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: they are like Australian dudes just don't want to wear condoms,
• 47:20
  Speaker 2: but this is an Australian but like and apparently it
• 47:25
  Speaker 2: seems to me like the theme at least that I've
• 47:27
  Speaker 2: noticed from my own experience is that over the European
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: countries it is more of a thing where it's like
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: more knowledge of the dangers, but with out aside though
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: in a relationship.
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, again, relatable, dude, say I don't wear I don't
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: want to wear a common it doesn't feel good, it
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: doesn't feel as good. Just get a feather light one bro. Yeah.
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: And also like, irrespective of all the very valid good
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: reasons you said, it should be as little as I
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: don't want to go on the pill, he should have
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: to wear a condom, simple as that. You don't have
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: to have a reason at all. No, Yeah, And like
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: the solution of wrapping your willy compared to taking this
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: drug that does mess with all your hormones and if
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: You're lucky you don't have any side effects, but majority
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: of people do. I think should be an easy of course,
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: I will wrap my willy up.
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: Look that guy that said that to you just obviously,
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: I mean, I know you don't want to date him. Yeah,
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: but yes, yeah, it's just not the right dude.
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah. But the harsh reality of this too is I
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: think majority of men would have the same mindset. Yeah. Yeah,
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, yeah, I'm just under the I I
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: just think that if Beth said, you know, no, I
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: want to wear a condom, I want you to wear
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: on them. And it's just like, of course, everyone's like,
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: let me just say something, let me just say something, right,
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: Guys are like, it doesn't feel as good without a condom.
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: It doesn't feel good without an I won't be able
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: to finish if I'm wearing a condom. Shut the fuck up, bro,
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: You literally can you literally can? All right, just chill out,
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: big guy. You can literally finish with a condom one.
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: It's not fucking difficult. And also, after like two times,
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: you'd be used to it. Fucking oath all right, You're like, wow,
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: this is kind of the same, Like it is literally.
• 49:25
  Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, that's what I'm saying. All I'm saying is
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: you canfensially commu Yeah.
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: And it's also about like finding a man with an
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: open mindset, because this man who you asked it about
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: immediately went to the negative. No, it doesn't feel lose good.
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: But if you find a guy, it can be a
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: sexy thing for you to put a condom on his
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: willie and get in the mood like that's hot. You
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: can use it as an opportunity to be more sexy,
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: like he's like, sure, let's have some fun. Why not,
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: let's try it for colors. Fucking just try to try
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: glow on the dark ones. Some just find a dude
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: with open mindset, like, oh man, this one kissed me
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: off too. It's weird that someone has the nerve and
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: audacity to say that. Yeah. And it also seemed like
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: she kind of needed to justify why she had the
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: reasoning behind wanting a dude to wear a condom. You don't, Yeah,
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: you don't have just fight. There's the thing is like
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: I would say, like I'm guilty of saying, like it
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: it feels better without a condom, right, And because when
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: you do have sex without econdom, yeah, and then sex
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: with econdom.
• 50:27
  Speaker 2: It's like when you really like deep it. Yeah, it
• 50:33
  Speaker 2: doesn't feel it's not night and day difference, Like it
• 50:36
  Speaker 2: feels different, but it's not night and day.
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: But it doesn't make it feel bad. No, it's not
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: like yeah, yeah it doesn't. This isn't a chore now. Yeah.
• 50:46
  Speaker 5: Like it's gone from like a ten out of ten
• 50:50
  Speaker 5: to a nine point two yeah yeah, and you can
• 50:53
  Speaker 5: train it up to a ten yeah yeah yeah where
• 50:54
  Speaker 5: it's fucking hell.
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: Did you see the clip that was going viral about
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: they were asking men if there was male conscerception, would
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: you take it as like a pill form? Yeah, they
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: didn't specify which, and then one of the guys was
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: just like probably not at the side effects. It went
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: fucking viral.
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: Oh I mean, I reckon I'd do it?
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I reckon, I would.
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: I fucking be because Beth can't take the pill. She
• 51:25
  Speaker 2: has like gnari pcos, so she actually can't take the pill.
• 51:28
  Speaker 2: And if this thing came out where it's like because
• 51:30
  Speaker 2: in Akatar that's immediate redrinks a tonic. Yeah, and that's
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: his contraception.
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: Fucking earth, they do that shit?
• 51:37
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: Are you serious? Yeah? Why not? What's it going to
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: do to me? It would be good if the option
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: was there that was equal. What's it gonna do to meet? Like,
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: just give me some mood swings, give them to me.
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: I don't have any. Yeah, yeah, yeah, But do you
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: know how it always falls on the lady for some reason.
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: To be protective, I guess guys should offer thee But
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: if the option when they started making pills was there
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: was an option, you and your couple go through the
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: side effects of both people and you get to make
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: a choice together if're obviously in a healthy relationship. But
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: it's always fallen on the girl since whenever the pill
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: was invented. Oh, I'm sure that there has been a
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: male contraception invented, like an actual like pill form. It's
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: like so it's like I'm also sure, So why hasn't
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: there been one yet? No, there's like this thing and
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: it's a it's a male contraception. I'm sure of it.
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: I might do some research on it, maybe talk about
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: it next week. But they like inject a gel into
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: the is it called your urethra? Yeah, and it makes
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: it infertile.
• 52:41
  Speaker 2: Well just you still like come, but it's just it's
• 52:48
  Speaker 2: a it's a contraception. And then it's a thing that
• 52:50
  Speaker 2: they've done a bunch of studies on obviously because it's
• 52:53
  Speaker 2: coming out where it after like two years it dissolves,
• 52:57
  Speaker 2: so you can have like two years of contraception.
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah. So it's like sort of similar to the robbed
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: inner sense and legit like that.
• 53:05
  Speaker 2: Still, Yeah, it's a legit thing, like you're still fucking
• 53:08
  Speaker 2: producing testosterone. You're still producing all that shit. It's just
• 53:11
  Speaker 2: like blocking it. And then I don't I don't know
• 53:14
  Speaker 2: how it actually works, but like you know what I mean,
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: it's like a forseect me. Get a refect me. You
• 53:18
  Speaker 2: can get that shit reversed. Can you can get a
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: reverse repected me? Bro, I don't know if you get
• 53:22
  Speaker 2: it like untired. Yeah, I don't know that.
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: Well, I don't know if they tie it, but they
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: you can get I know a guy that's had a
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: reverse repect me because I wanted to have another kid
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: because one of their kids passed away. And it works.
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: Very sad, but and it worked. He had another kid
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: and then got another vaseectomy, and he said it, Bro.
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: He came to work a couple of days after and
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: it was he was he was a trady and he
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: was like waddling. I remember when I was like cool,
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: sorry mate, playing soccer. One of my coaches got to
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: viseect me and he rocked up and he go, guys,
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: I'm not moving. Yeah, I'm not fucking moving. When you
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: think about it, right, it's like a visectomy is paying
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: for a week, two weeks. The pill is change in
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: hormones the whole time you have the pill. Yeah, let's
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: weigh up the option. Something doesn't compute here, it doesn't
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: compute here? Yeah, okay, bad, he's big, sorry big, apologies,
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: You've run out a bit of time today. So the
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: IG question it is there, but we're gonna have to
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: put it in Patreon. We are. Yeah, now, we're not
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: even asking you to go sign up. We're just letting
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: you know. That's where it is. Time for some comments.
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: Let's do it. I got Spotify in front of me,
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: I've got YouTube. So this is last week's episode, and
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: there is a lot of comments about who's won last
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: week's Olympics. But we both have a couple that are
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: not about that. Yeah, so I got Taylor Larsen said
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: big back equals fatty? Oh is that what it means?
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: We did ask him to tell us. Yeah, we thought
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: it meant big ass, but it just means fatty Like
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: big back could mean like, yeah, you're a juicy fucking
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: fat with the phr yeah, but no, but it also
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: means just like fat fat, big back means your fab
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: that day. It's crazy, Okay, interesting, wild, Okay, I've got
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: I've only got one because all the rest are about
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: the results from the thing over.
• 55:14
  Speaker 2: Her name is zoom Rad Chaker. She said that reference
• 55:19
  Speaker 2: to Lady in the Tramp being old and proceeds to
• 55:24
  Speaker 2: state early two thousands has me feeling old. It was
• 55:27
  Speaker 2: released in nineteen fifty five.
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: Really bushit day. There's no way did they have when
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: it was Lady and the Cartoons back then. Lady in
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: the Tramp was released in United States features in the
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: in June twenty two, nineteen fifty five. The film also
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: had a world premiere in Chicago on June sixteenth, nineteen
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: fifty five. Okay, let me just see that must be
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: a blanket? Did that? Am I dumb? When did color
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: TV come out? Oh? When did let's ask it?
• 56:04
  Speaker 2: When did color TV come out? Mid nineteen fifties?
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: Oh?
• 56:11
  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, well I want to find out when did
• 56:15
  Speaker 2: the Lady and the okay, when did lay in the tramp?
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: Let's just admit animation that we were wrong. There's but
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: I just accepted it. It's so good though. How did
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: they get animation that good? Dude, it's nineteen fifty five.
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: It must be remastered. Just accept it. I can't believe
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: how good the animation was in nineteen fifty five. They
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: might have redone it the one you saw. I dare
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: say you didn't see the one made in nineteen fifty five.
• 56:44
  Speaker 2: I've got to say Disney. Disney has fucking built animation
• 56:49
  Speaker 2: movies from the ground up.
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, what nineteen fifty I couldn't accept that. I'm sorry
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: for taking so long to accept that. My last one,
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: Julia the new merch is great. Oh thank you. All right, guys,
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: so it is now time to call one of you
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: lovely baddies to sign off the episode. Today we will
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: be calling Ella. Hello. Hello, is that Ella?
• 57:13
  Speaker 4: Yes, this is Ella speaking.
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: It's Audie and Jake from the Relatables podcast. How's it going?
• 57:17
  Speaker 4: Oh my god, No way, I'm actually at UNI right
• 57:21
  Speaker 4: now wearing one of your shirts as well.
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: No way, crazy, let's go. How are you.
• 57:30
  Speaker 4: I'm good. I'm good. I'm currently watching a lecture outside
• 57:34
  Speaker 4: enjoying the sun. Oh, because it's rating.
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: Finally, finally the yeah the sun's out. Well, we're calling
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: to ask if you could please sign off our episode
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: with some advice, a quote, a music lyric, anything you want.
• 57:49
  Speaker 4: I think, well, actually to do with like sitting outside,
• 57:52
  Speaker 4: I think, go outside and enjoy nature. Don't get stressed,
• 57:55
  Speaker 4: just go for a.
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: Walk, get grounded, you know, let's go speak about language. Yes,
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: thank you so much. That's great advice. Thanks Sella, and
• 58:05
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• 58:07
  Speaker 4: Yeah, represend, yeah, yeah, wrapping it.
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: Enjoy the rest of your day.
• 58:12
  Speaker 4: Awesome. Thanks, thanks so much.
• 58:14
  Speaker 3: You too.
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: Oh we call the right person when they pick up
• 58:19
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• 58:23
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