Latest / Faith by annm2705 / 917. Bible Study: Psalm 3 (David's trust in God through a Chaotic Life)
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- 0:00Psalm 3 from the book of Psalms. This is a Psalm of David.
- 0:04First, let's pray. Dear Lord, please be with us as
- 0:07we read through this Psalm and let our hearts and minds be open
- 0:12to what you have to say. Through the Holy Spirit.
- 0:16We ask this in Jesus name, Amen. So this is a Psalm of David when
- 0:21he fled from his son Absalom. I'll just read it first and then
- 0:25get into a discussion about it. Lord, how many are my foes?
- 0:30How many rise up against me? Many are saying of me, God will
- 0:35not deliver him. But you, Lord, are a shield
- 0:39around me, my glory, the one who lifts my head high.
- 0:44I call out to the Lord, and he answers me from his holy
- 0:48mountain. I lie down and sleep.
- 0:50I wake again because the Lord sustains me.
- 0:54I will not fear though 10s of thousands assail me on every
- 0:58side. Arise Lord, deliver me, my God,
- 1:02strike all my enemies on the jaw.
- 1:05Break the teeth of the wicked. From the Lord comes deliverance.
- 1:09May your blessing be on your people.
- 1:12And that's the end. So there's there's a lot here.
- 1:18Let's see. First of all, I'll go through
- 1:19with the study Bible questions and answers.
- 1:23David's son Absalom LED a rebellion against David, forcing
- 1:27the king to flee from Jerusalem, and that's found in Second
- 1:31Samuel chapter 15, and I'll talk a little bit more about that.
- 1:36Why did David pray for God to break his enemy's teeth?
- 1:41David's prayer probably resulted from his feelings that his
- 1:44enemies were biting and chewing on him and his Kingdom.
- 1:47Such inflammatory language shows that David was a passionate
- 1:51person shows that it says we we must also remember that David
- 1:57would was God's anointed king and God took attacks on David
- 2:05very seriously. And that's the end of the study
- 2:08Bibles, so really short, but you know, it brings about questions
- 2:12if you haven't read the whole book about why is David fleeing
- 2:16from his son? And you know, why is he praying,
- 2:21you know, for God to protect him from his own son.
- 2:25So we'll get into a little bit of that.
- 2:26But I guess the the point being of the Psalm is that David is
- 2:32relying on God. He, you know, he's recognizing
- 2:36that people are against him and he's has faith in God that God
- 2:42is a shield. He says God answers him and God
- 2:45sustains him and he's asking God to do it again.
- 2:50And he's, you know, stating that from the Lord comes deliverance.
- 2:55So his entire faith is in God. I mean, that's exactly what this
- 2:59this expresses. So that's about all about the
- 3:05Psalm. However, there's things to think
- 3:07about the that in context of what is happening here.
- 3:13And we will see that, you know, there's some questions that come
- 3:16about. So the issue with Absalom and
- 3:20David and this, you know, I've, I've read this before, but I
- 3:24actually just looked it up because it concisely summarizes
- 3:29and I'm not always concise about my explanations, but this is
- 3:33really good. The dispute between King David
- 3:35and his son Absalom. You can find that in Second
- 3:38Samuel, chapters 13 through 18 stemmed from David's failure to
- 3:43punish his eldest son, Amnon, for raping Absalon's sister
- 3:50Tamar. Absalom murdered Amnon in
- 3:56revenge, leading to a strained, dysfunctional relationship where
- 4:01David failed to act on his affection for three years,
- 4:06culminating in Absalom's armed rebellion to seize the throne.
- 4:11So you can see right here that there is all sorts of issues
- 4:17caused by sinful people that weren't dealt with that lead to
- 4:23their that led to a lot of turmoil within David's life.
- 4:27So it says the key causes of the dispute, the rape of Tamar and
- 4:33inaction when Amnon raped their half sister Tamar.
- 4:37David was furious but took no disciplinary action against
- 4:42Amnon. Enraged, Absalom waited two
- 4:46years, and then he murdered Amnon and fled.
- 4:50Then there was a failed reconciliation.
- 4:51After returning to Jerusalem from exile, David refused to see
- 4:56Absalom for another two years, fostering bitterness.
- 5:01See, we can see the root of these things like communication
- 5:05is obviously, you know, what's the right thing to do.
- 5:09How do you address it? Do you avoid it?
- 5:12I mean, there's a lot of things that we can learn here from
- 5:15this, not how it's accomplished, but just the fact that these
- 5:18things weren't done and it turned into something bigger.
- 5:21It's like that verse that says don't in your in your the
- 5:27foothold of the devil is anger. Like so when you're upset about
- 5:32something, don't give the devil a foothold because that is anger
- 5:36starts it and then it turns into something greater.
- 5:39So this is justifiable anger. There's no question about that.
- 5:43But when it's not dealt with and things are ignored, it snowballs
- 5:48into something greater. And we can learn from that too,
- 5:51that it's better when there is conflict, to direct address it
- 5:56immediately and try to resolve it so that it doesn't snowball
- 6:00into something greater. Because history shows us that
- 6:04things that are not addressed do snowball into something greater.
- 6:09So then there's this power struggle.
- 6:11So the son is actually trying to take over being king.
- 6:15That's how bad it gets. David's own son is after him.
- 6:20So power struggle with the eldest son, Amnon dead and David
- 6:25failing to name an heir. So again, here's another
- 6:28problem. Absalom, who is handsome,
- 6:31charismatic and popular, began a political campaign to steal the
- 6:35people's hearts and take the throne.
- 6:38Public humiliation Upon revolting, Absalom publicly
- 6:42slept with David's concubines on the palace roof, a calculated
- 6:47move to secure his position and permanently sever ties with his
- 6:52father. The tension was also seen as a
- 6:55manifestation of the sword prophesied to remain in David
- 6:58David's house following his own sins with Bathsheba.
- 7:03So this just you know the thing about David and Bathsheba.
- 7:08So David was on his rooftop, he was supposed to be at war, but
- 7:12for some reason he was not at war.
- 7:14And he sees Beth Sheba on a rooftop.
- 7:17She was married to someone else and he lust for her and then he
- 7:22acts on that lust and not only that, but then he she was
- 7:26married and then he arranges for, I think it's her husband
- 7:31was Uriah to be at the front of a war so that the likelihood of
- 7:36him getting killed would happen, which it did happen.
- 7:38So essentially David set up her husband to be murdered.
- 7:42And this is the man that is, you know, that is mentioned as a man
- 7:48after God's own heart. So that makes a lot of people
- 7:52question like, how is that possible with what he did?
- 7:55But this is something that we can all learn from about the
- 7:59mercy of God and God's, God's compassion for people who are
- 8:07very sinful. David was not a perfect man and
- 8:12there were things that he did, choices in his life that he
- 8:17could have had better outcomes. Like for example, all of the the
- 8:23killings, the murders that came about from David's life made it
- 8:29impossible. Not impossible, but it made it
- 8:32God's according to God's will. David was not going to build the
- 8:36temple. David wanted to build the
- 8:39temple. And I think he even drew up the
- 8:41plans for the temple and he was communicating with God about how
- 8:44he wanted to build this for God. But God said, no, you're not.
- 8:47You know, it's going to be one of your, your descendants who
- 8:49does this because you have too much murder on your hands.
- 8:53So that, you know, we can see how sin in our lives can
- 9:00prohibit certain blessings that God had maybe would have allowed
- 9:05for our lives. But because of what we do,
- 9:09things change. But at the same time, God is
- 9:13forgiving, He's merciful, He's compassionate.
- 9:17And you can see that despite David's shortcomings, he is he
- 9:26is God. God, you know, has a lot of
- 9:29respect for him or he sees that there's something about David's
- 9:33heart that is aligned with God. And so this is a another good
- 9:41summary that again, it's just more concise than I would be
- 9:45able to that I, you know, would be able to say.
- 9:48So I'm going to just read this about it about David.
- 9:52David was called a man after God's own heart in First Samuel
- 9:57chapter 13, verse 14, not because he was sinless, but
- 10:02because his heart was aligned with God's.
- 10:05He demonstrated sincere repentance, profound faith, a
- 10:11deep love for God's will, and a habit of turning back to God
- 10:17after his failures, prioritizing God's honor over his own.
- 10:24The key characteristics of David's heart was heartfelt
- 10:27repentance. Unlike many, David did not
- 10:30justify his sins like adultery with Bathsheba, but immediately
- 10:35confessed as seen as seen in Psalm 51, showing a soft, broken
- 10:42and contrite heart toward God, total dependence and faith.
- 10:47David trusted God entirely from his battle against Goliath to
- 10:52his time as a fugitive. He recognized that the battle is
- 10:56the Lord's and looked for God's guidance rather than relying on
- 11:00his own power. So even in the Psalm 3, that's
- 11:03what David is saying, you know, he's, he's depending on God for
- 11:07everything and he's trusting God and he's saying, you know, I
- 11:10know God provides for this. So he, he has strong faith in
- 11:15God, He has a desire to follow God's will.
- 11:19I think that's probably a keyword, a desire.
- 11:22And this is like a heartfelt desire that he really wants to.
- 11:27He's not just messing up and using that as an excuse, but he
- 11:35truly does become repentant. But there are so many things
- 11:40that you know that don't align with what God intended for
- 11:48people to do that David does. So, but he has this desire to
- 11:53follow God's will and it's sincere.
- 11:55So this just shows God's mercy. And I think we see God's mercy
- 11:59with other people that are very significant in the Bible, like
- 12:05Moses, his anger, in his anger, he ended up killing an Egyptian
- 12:12who was, it was kind of like justifiable anger because I
- 12:18guess an Israelite was being abused or hurt by an Egyptian
- 12:22and he kills, but the vengeance is God's.
- 12:25God didn't tell him to do it. So he had this anger that came
- 12:28up in him and it did lead to killing.
- 12:30Just like Absalom, his anger built up and then he kills his
- 12:36half brother because something wasn't taken care of.
- 12:40So, but going back to Moses, God used Moses despite his issues,
- 12:47his sinful ways. And there were lots of other
- 12:52things about Moses. He couldn't speak well, but God
- 12:55used him to speak to the Pharaoh and get his people released.
- 13:00We see another example in the New Testament with Saul, who was
- 13:05very zealous for God. It's kind of similar to David
- 13:08where his passion was for God, but he wasn't doing things the
- 13:13right way. And God finally stopped him when
- 13:17Saul was on the road to Damascus and the vision of Jesus came in
- 13:23front of him and knocked him out, you know, knocked him down
- 13:26to the ground and made him blind temporarily.
- 13:30But Saul, he's, you know, Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting
- 13:33me? That's what Jesus said to him in
- 13:35the vision. And Saul's life changed, but he
- 13:39had been murdering essentially Christians.
- 13:43It sounds very, it sounds like Saul was actually present when
- 13:47Stephen was stoned to death and he actually approved of that
- 13:50happening. So Saul also had blood on his
- 13:54hands. His name was changed to Paul
- 13:58afterwards and then he contributed to a lot of the the
- 14:03Bible, the New Testament of the Bible.
- 14:05But this just shows how God when someone surrenders to God, when
- 14:10you know when it when it's like not my will, but your will.
- 14:13Like Jesus said on the cross, when a person has that attitude
- 14:20towards God, God can change a person's life through the Holy
- 14:25Spirit. And but there is this constant
- 14:30struggle and there are some, I mean, there are some questions
- 14:36about like why did God allow David to do some of the things
- 14:40he did when they were not according to God's will?
- 14:43Well, the one thing that happened that really was that a
- 14:47consequence of David's sin with Bathsheba was that the son that
- 14:52they had, she would, she ended up pregnant and that son died.
- 14:56And that made David very distraught that that son died.
- 15:00But then later, I mean, David was repentant and then later
- 15:04God, Solomon came from Bathsheba.
- 15:08And then he was a very significant person in the Bible.
- 15:13I mean, he was, he wrote a lot of what's in the Bible in the
- 15:16Old Testament. And he was a he asked for wisdom
- 15:21and even asking for wisdom, he still fell because he didn't do
- 15:27what God said. I mean, it was in Deuteronomy, I
- 15:30believe it is, where it talks about the kings are supposed to
- 15:33meditate on the law daily. And that's why I think it's
- 15:37important for us to be in the word of God daily, because it's
- 15:41so easy for us to forget about what God says if we're not in
- 15:47the word every day. And Solomon, although he asked
- 15:51for wisdom and he was very wise and he was known as the wisest
- 15:54man and even have people from other countries visiting him
- 15:57because he was so wise, he still fell.
- 16:01He took wives who were foreign and worshipped foreign gods and,
- 16:07you know, not really gods, fake gods.
- 16:10And and so that was kind of his fall and he got entwined with
- 16:14all of that. And he had like, I don't know,
- 16:17almost 1000 wives and concubines.
- 16:20And that's just crazy. Plus, he had a, it said in
- 16:25Deuteronomy that you're not supposed to have lots of horses,
- 16:28and he had huge stables. I mean, there were a lot of
- 16:31things that if he would have read the law every day and
- 16:33thought it, meditated on it and desired to be within God's will,
- 16:39he wouldn't have done a lot of things that he did in life.
- 16:42And he suffered because of that. So the the laws of God are
- 16:48actually, I used to, you know, they aren't as much restrictive
- 16:53as they are guardrails. If we can accept them and live
- 16:59by them, they are protection against consequences actually.
- 17:06So it's a good thing, like God's law is good.
- 17:11And if we abide within it, it's, you know, that's that struggle
- 17:16that we have with sin. And, and I don't think it's too
- 17:19strong to overcome on our own. It is, but not with the Holy
- 17:23Spirit. The Spirit of God can give us
- 17:27the strength to overcome those things.
- 17:29It's just a matter of us surrendering, you know, do we
- 17:32want to be selfish and go after what we want, our sinful
- 17:35desires? Or do we say, I'm going to let
- 17:38that go and and live according to God's will and be obedient to
- 17:43God? The only thing that obedience to
- 17:46God does or shows, it shows God that we love him.
- 17:51In the New Testament, Jesus says, you know, if you love me,
- 17:54obey my commands. And so that is ultimately what
- 18:00it is. I mean, there's and there
- 18:02probably will be rewards because it says what you sow you will
- 18:08reap. So during judgment, there's
- 18:12rewards and there's, you know, for people the way they lived.
- 18:17So it does matter to some degree.
- 18:20Paul always talked about, you know, completing the race for
- 18:24the crown. So he was he was very reward
- 18:29driven and not that I mean, I guess whatever motivates you,
- 18:34but you know, ultimately it should be a relationship with
- 18:37God. That's the motivation.
- 18:38But God is just so good and so compassionate and so merciful.
- 18:43He's so much better than any of us.
- 18:45I mean, if, if we were in God's position and, and then had, you
- 18:51know, things that we created, if, if this were the case in
- 18:55these creation things that we made ourselves started rebelling
- 18:58against us and being defiant to us and being mean and harsh to
- 19:03us. I mean, how would we react?
- 19:06I don't know that we would necessarily be as merciful as
- 19:10God. So thank God that he is God and
- 19:15that we are not because it wouldn't go so well for any of
- 19:19us. If there was a person, a human
- 19:21being that was in God's position, it would just be
- 19:25probably ultimate destruction. Everything would probably
- 19:28eventually get destroyed because of the sinful nature of human
- 19:32beings. So there's a lot to be grateful
- 19:35for that God is loving and merciful and he forgives and he
- 19:40forgets. And he does, like David said,
- 19:44like David was not perfect, but David viewed God as a shield
- 19:48around me. He answers me from his holy
- 19:52mountain. He sustains me.
- 19:54I will not fear. And the Lord delivers.
- 19:57Those are all the things that David believed and he held on
- 20:02and it's true. It's true.
- 20:03God does do that. So constant Thanksgiving.
- 20:08That was another thing about David.
- 20:09Even in hardships, God praised and thank.
- 20:12God thanked God, showcasing a spirit of gratitude regardless
- 20:17of his circumstances. David made immense mistakes, but
- 20:22he never turned idols or abandoned God.
- 20:27That's somebody else. You know, you think about.
- 20:28We just read Job. Job was like that too.
- 20:31Like he didn't know why all these bad things were happening
- 20:34to him. And Job was righteous, though it
- 20:36didn't say that Job did anything like David did things, but Job
- 20:40didn't. But even Job, I mean, Job was
- 20:44the like the best example because he never turned from
- 20:47God. He questioned God, but he didn't
- 20:50say I'm not going to worship you anymore or I don't want this
- 20:53relationship with you anymore. And some people do that when
- 20:57hardship comes. But that's something else else
- 21:01that we can learn from Scripture is when hardship comes, don't
- 21:05turn away from God. Because in all these
- 21:07circumstance, I mean, there's, it seems so simple to me as I've
- 21:11read the Bible that there are two basic reasons why hardships
- 21:17come. One is a direct consequence of
- 21:22our actions. So all we can blame is ourself
- 21:26for why hardships come. And then the other reason is
- 21:31that it could be testing. We could not be doing something
- 21:35wrong. It's not a consequence of our
- 21:37sin, but it's that we are being tested and God allows the
- 21:43testing. But who does the actual?
- 21:49I don't know if the bad thing to us, it's the enemy of God.
- 21:52God allows that to happen, but typically from what we see in
- 21:57the Bible is only for a period of time until we overcome that
- 22:01testing. So perhaps it's really wise to
- 22:05praise God. The Bible tells us to do that in
- 22:07all circumstances because maybe by our praise that will shorten
- 22:12the amount of the length of the testing.
- 22:15That's just, you know, God's compassionate and merciful.
- 22:18And if we continue to praise God during all circumstances, maybe
- 22:24he will say, OK, enemy, that's it.
- 22:27You can't mess with my child anymore.
- 22:30So just something to think about because the Bible does show us
- 22:33that. So let's see the other thing
- 22:37about all of these, like it's a soap opera.
- 22:40I mean, this is like David and his life and his relationships
- 22:45with these different women. He only had, well, only, I think
- 22:48it's when I researched it, it said he had six wives, which is
- 22:52still a lot of wives, but unlike his son who had between wives
- 22:57and concubines, I think it was 900, you know, close to 1000,
- 23:01which is actually, I just like unthinkable.
- 23:05Like how you know, like that just is really.
- 23:08But it was also a political alignment.
- 23:11It was taking, you know, you know, to create peace in a
- 23:15Kingdom to have, you know, the daughter of a king as your wife.
- 23:20And that made peace because the King's not going to go after
- 23:24somebody who's married like his daughter's married to them.
- 23:27So there's a like a political maneuvering, but I still don't
- 23:31think that was God's intention. That's kind of what happened and
- 23:35that's, you know, Solomon is the one who had most of the peace
- 23:38because he was probably married to every woman who was the
- 23:41daughter of a king that was surrounding him.
- 23:43And that's probably why the peace came about, not
- 23:46necessarily God's intention. And it did leave lead to
- 23:52Solomon's rebellion against God and some consequences in his
- 23:59life. So let's see, one of the things
- 24:03was am Amnon. I was curious like who was his
- 24:08mother? And Amnon's mother in the Bible
- 24:11was a a Hinoam, the Jezreelite Jezreelite.
- 24:18She was the first wife of King David to bear him a son, making
- 24:23Amnon David's first born son and the heir apparent to the throne.
- 24:30She was from Jezreel, a town in Judah.
- 24:33She married David after Saul gave David's first wife Mikkel
- 24:38to another man. She is mentioned as being David
- 24:43as being with David in Ziklag and later in Hebron.
- 24:49According to Second Samuel 3 Two and First Chronicles 3/1, she is
- 24:53specifically named as the mother of Amnon David's first born.
- 24:59She is son sometimes called Ahinoam the Jezreelite to
- 25:03distinguish her from King Saul's wife, who was also named
- 25:08Ahinoam. Ahinoam was one of David's six
- 25:13wives who bore him sons while he ruled in Hebron.
- 25:19And so it made me curious like what was the what religion was
- 25:24prominent around? So I searched the time when was
- 25:29Amnon born approximately and what I got was about a 1050 to
- 25:351045 BC in Jezreel. So I wanted to know what what
- 25:40was the religion prominent, you know, so this first born child
- 25:43of David, it's, you know, it looks like somebody within the
- 25:47tribe of Judah. So David is kind of following
- 25:51along. You know, first he had Saul's
- 25:54daughter, I guess was it Saul's daughter Micah or Mikel?
- 26:00Yeah. So first he had her, but then
- 26:02she was taken from him. And so then this next one comes
- 26:06from the tribal, a town in Judah.
- 26:11But then I wondered, you know, were they faithful in that at
- 26:13that time or what was happening? So here's what it says.
- 26:17Around 1050 to 1045 BC, during the early Iron Age first period,
- 26:25the prominent religion in the Jezreel Valley was a mix of
- 26:30indigenous Canaanite polytheism, the worship of Baal and Ashira,
- 26:38and the emerging Yahwehism. Jezreel was in territory
- 26:43assigned to the tribe of Issachar and served as a
- 26:47strategic military location where Israelites, Canaanites and
- 26:51other groups interacted. There was a Canaanite influence.
- 26:56Continued worship of gods such as Baal and Ashira were
- 27:00widespread, particularly in regional agricultural
- 27:04communities. Israelites worshipped Yahweh,
- 27:08though this was often in a fluid, non centralized manner.
- 27:11During the light, During the time of the judges, Yeah.
- 27:14I think in the book of Judges it says everyone kind of did as
- 27:18they saw fit, so there wasn't a unification of this.
- 27:22So also during this time, there was widespread coexistence of
- 27:27Canaanite fertility cults and Yahwehism occurred with many
- 27:32people adopting elements of both religions.
- 27:36So at this specific time, the area was under the influence of
- 27:40the Philistines, who defeated the Israelites nearby at Mount
- 27:44Gebo, suggesting a turbulent mixture of religious practices
- 27:48often marked by the biblical narrative as a time of spiritual
- 27:52conflict. So this child, this first born
- 27:56of David is born into a land where there's paganism and the
- 28:04worship of God. So right away we can see that
- 28:08this child really has confusion that he comes into much like the
- 28:14world today, like children born into the world today.
- 28:17There's so many things out there and why it's so important for
- 28:21children to know the truth and because they will be affected.
- 28:26So perhaps, and I don't know if it's right or wrong to
- 28:30speculate, but think about this, the potential for influence Baal
- 28:36worship Ashira. I mean, a lot of this, that
- 28:38fertility stuff there was like this, you know, the temp Well, I
- 28:42don't there wasn't a temple at that time, but a lot of this was
- 28:46like sexually related. So here the the son of David,
- 28:50the first born son of David, then essentially rapes later on
- 28:55in life his half sister because he desires her.
- 28:59He has this lust and and that's just what's happening in the
- 29:03community that he grows up in. He's surrounded by all of this.
- 29:07And even though David was his father, he succumbed to this and
- 29:13I guess David didn't know how to deal with it.
- 29:16So then let's see then I was wondering who was Absalom's
- 29:24mother? So Absalom was the one who was
- 29:27then hunting down David, later the son of David.
- 29:29And he was, he killed his own brother because his brother
- 29:33raped his sister, his, I guess, full sister.
- 29:37And so again, look at this, this is like so messed up and not
- 29:43God's intention. And this is the life of the king
- 29:46of David, who was anointed by God to be the king of Israel.
- 29:50And it all of this mess came about through all of his
- 29:54multiple wives and their children.
- 29:57And there's all this fighting and, and it's just like it said
- 30:02in the very beginning that because of what David did with
- 30:08Bathsheba, there was going to be conflict that continued
- 30:12throughout his whole family life.
- 30:14The family line, it just like think about that one act, one
- 30:19sinful act. Even though God forgave him, it
- 30:23caused him to lose the child that they created together, that
- 30:28God created, but then the child died.
- 30:31So it caused that to happen. And then it made family strife
- 30:37throughout David's life. Like, think of how peaceful his
- 30:40life could have been if he hadn't made that one bad choice.
- 30:45Because that one bad choice caused this generationally to
- 30:50happen within David's life. And David never overcame this
- 30:55apparently, because he, you know, I guess when you're mixed
- 31:00and you've got all this like paganism around you, I, I mean,
- 31:05he didn't turn away from God, but he, you know, I mean, I know
- 31:11he, he married so many different women and that wasn't part of
- 31:15God's original plan. And the people that he married
- 31:18were foreign women that were also forbidden.
- 31:22So he was bringing in and it says like in marriage, the 2
- 31:25become one flesh. So there's some like spiritual
- 31:32issues that happen as a result. And God, you know, warns us
- 31:35through the Scripture that how important marriage is and that
- 31:40God doesn't just because people get married, God isn't behind
- 31:43every marriage. And that's something else that I
- 31:46think we need to think about in the in this world.
- 31:51And also like in if someone isn't married and think
- 31:54contemplating getting married, it you know, God is extremely
- 31:59important. God should be a priority in both
- 32:02people's lives individually. And then you, because you can
- 32:07see from David's life and from Solomon's life how disastrous it
- 32:12can be when a person marries. When I say the wrong person, the
- 32:16person who is not submitted to God, it just brings strife into
- 32:20your household. And that's pretty well
- 32:23documented. So in in the Bible, Absalom's
- 32:28mother is Makah. I don't know if she is the
- 32:33daughter of Talmay, king of Gesher and became one of David's
- 32:39of King David's wives. Makah was a foreign wife, making
- 32:45Absalom part Jeshurite royalty, which influenced his story.
- 32:51She is notably identified in Second Samuel chapter 3 verse
- 32:55three and First Chronicles 3 verse 2.
- 32:59So she was the mother of both Absalom and his sister Tamar.
- 33:04She came from Gesher, a small Kingdom adjacent to Israel,
- 33:08making her an important political wife.
- 33:12So again, the purpose here was not a godly purpose, but it was
- 33:17more to keep peace with the neighbor.
- 33:19Probably when Absalom murdered his half brother Amnon for
- 33:24violating or raping Tamar, he fled to his mother's family and
- 33:28Gesher, staying with them for three years.
- 33:32While the name Mac Macaw appears multiple times in the Old
- 33:37Testament, the Macaw who was Absalom's mother was the wife of
- 33:40David and the daughter of Talmay.
- 33:43So I was curious like what was the faith of King Gesher?
- 33:46What was his faith, belief, religion that was in the Bible?
- 33:51And so here's what I found. Talmaya, the king of Gesher in
- 33:54the Bible, the father-in-law to David and the grandfather to
- 33:57Absalom, was a Pagan ruler, likely adhering to Aramean or
- 34:03local Canaanite polytheism. Archaeological findings at
- 34:08Gesher suggest a religion centered around moon God worship
- 34:12symbolized by a bull and influenced by Egyptian
- 34:16traditions rather than Hebrew monotheism Pagan practices.
- 34:22Gesher was a small Aramean principality northeast of
- 34:26Bashan. Evidence shows that they
- 34:29worshipped at high places using Steliale and in some cases
- 34:34Egyptian style amulets. Gesherite religion included
- 34:38worshipping a moon moon God in the form of a bull.
- 34:42It's kind of like Baal, despite the religious differences.
- 34:45Talmi formed a political marriage alliance with King
- 34:49David, who married his daughter Makah.
- 34:52It was located in a rugged foreign region outside the
- 34:55immediate religious influence of Jerusalem.
- 34:59So that just shows that there's a lot.
- 35:06Let's see, as a Pagan king, he ruled a small army and king
- 35:15Kingdom east of the Sea of Galilee.
- 35:17Gesherite religion include worshipping moon gods in the
- 35:20form of a bull, consistent with the religious practices of
- 35:22neighboring nations in southern Syria.
- 35:25Also, excavations have revealed Egyptian influence in the
- 35:29Gesherite art and amulets, showing a blended religious
- 35:32culture. While David married Talma's
- 35:36daughter Mecca, creating an alliance, There is no indication
- 35:39of the Bible that Talma or his people adopted the worship of
- 35:43the God of Israel. That's usually what we we see in
- 35:47the Bible is that when someone who believes in the true God
- 35:53marries with someone who doesn't, they don't usually stay
- 36:00strong in their faith. Now, maybe maybe David stayed
- 36:04strong in his faith because this was more of not a, I don't know,
- 36:08not a romantic link maybe, but more of a political maneuver.
- 36:12And maybe they're just, I don't know, was not really a heartfelt
- 36:16connection to this woman where he avoided that.
- 36:21But still the Bible does say when you, you know, marry
- 36:23another person, the 2 become one.
- 36:25So that was maybe that's, you know, that influence that I
- 36:29think it's there's these spiritual things that happen.
- 36:34And so he's got a mixture of this spiritual impact in his
- 36:38life, which is probably causing him to sin because his he's not,
- 36:43he doesn't just have God's spirit influencing him.
- 36:46He's got these other wives, evil spirits influencing him and he's
- 36:54struggling with that. And that's, that could be
- 36:57another reason why his life was so chaotic.
- 37:00And so it's really interesting when we see these things and,
- 37:03and I think if we learn from that, everybody would probably
- 37:08take their commitments to another person more seriously
- 37:12than we do today. I mean, divorce is a simple
- 37:15thing to happen, but when you think of the spiritual aspect
- 37:19that comes along with that and what God warns about, I think
- 37:22people would take their marriage more seriously.
- 37:25And it also seems, unfortunately, that a lot of
- 37:27people are choosing not to be married, but that doesn't mean
- 37:30that they are not, you know, becoming one with a lot of other
- 37:35people because it says like when the, when a person has sex with
- 37:38a prostitute, the 2 become one just like that.
- 37:41Like, don't you know, when you unite yourself with a
- 37:43prostitute, you become one with her.
- 37:45So that's even worse. There's no commitment.
- 37:48Who knows how many different people she's been involved with.
- 37:52And then that influences a person's life.
- 37:54So these these kinds of things are things that are not really
- 37:59talked about, But when you read the Bible and you dig into it
- 38:03and you see these things and you see how this plays out, like all
- 38:06of the things that God warns about that how it actually
- 38:10effects people's lives. And then you realize that the
- 38:14Bible is true and these things do happen.
- 38:17And it's just so important to be in the Word and keep it fresh in
- 38:25your mind and, and to choose to live by it and not so much as
- 38:30that creates, you know, you're not a slave to it.
- 38:35It's a choice that you make and it is for your good to abide by
- 38:43it. It does two things.
- 38:45It kind of keeps your life a little bit less chaotic and it
- 38:50also shows God that you love him, that you respect him
- 38:53because you want to be obedient to him.
- 38:57So there's a lot of benefits to following God's words.
- 39:02And and then, you know, by getting back to Psalm 3, I know
- 39:06I kind of went off on a tangent, but we can just see from all of
- 39:09the influences in David's life, how his life that he lived was
- 39:14very chaotic in many ways. But even through that chaos, he
- 39:19kept his faith in God. And he knew that God was a
- 39:23shield. He knew God answered him.
- 39:26He knew God sustained him and God delivered him.
- 39:30And we can know all of that is true because God doesn't change
- 39:34and He will do the same for us. So God will be a shield.
- 39:38He will answer us, He will sustain us, and He will deliver
- 39:42us when we turn to him in repentance and when our focus is
- 39:47on God. So I think that is something
- 39:50that we can take away from the Psalm.
- 39:52That is a message of hope and of how God can positively impact
- 39:59our life when we turn to Him. So if you found this helpful,
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