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Dirty Little Secret: How far would you go to feel beautiful? Even if meant going broke! · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: Off your last promise you'll feel better. Welcome to the
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  Speaker 1: Dirty Little Secret Mix one or two point nine.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning, it's to be able to kid can of
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  Speaker 2: slow pazes here producer, who is here? Get your secrets
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  Speaker 2: out anytime you want reach out at eight three three
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  Speaker 2: seven eight seven one two nine tell us confess. It'll
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  Speaker 2: make you feel better. And you know, I don't care
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  Speaker 2: what it is, big secret, little secret, just bring it.
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes I like to know what we're going into. I'm like, poo,
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  Speaker 2: don't tell me you have one? So what's going on?
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  Speaker 3: Okay?
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  Speaker 4: So I am addicted to like plastic surgery?
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  Speaker 1: Really?
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  Speaker 4: I yes.
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  Speaker 3: I originally told myself that I was just fixing little things.
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  Speaker 4: Like I got like, oh the nose bump here, I
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  Speaker 4: got like fuller lips, then the jaw line and then eyelids.
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  Speaker 3: Uh whoa to get cheeks fillers like.
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  Speaker 4: I got lp o neers h.
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  Speaker 3: And every time I thought, okay, this this is the
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  Speaker 3: one that will make me feel right, that's all.
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  Speaker 1: Stuff that you've you've already done.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, okay, I feel like this is more common than
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  Speaker 5: we realized too.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Ali's wold, Well, I know, yeah, you're right.
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  Speaker 5: I'm getting tattoos, right, you get one and then you're like, oh,
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  Speaker 5: I want another one. Oh there's something you know, and
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  Speaker 5: then all of a sudden you have a sleeve.
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  Speaker 1: But that's that's body art. You can't compare tattoos. Well, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but think about it.
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  Speaker 2: How many like so many women get lip fillers or
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  Speaker 2: you know, make fuller lips, and then I see it happen.
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  Speaker 1: Then they get like a you.
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  Speaker 2: Know, a little botox here, a little boatox here, a
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  Speaker 2: little but that's like, I feel like that's the most
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  Speaker 2: normal for every woman.
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  Speaker 1: Now.
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  Speaker 2: But you've done, you said, I think eyelids, jawline, other
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  Speaker 2: things here and there. Have you stopped now or you
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  Speaker 2: just you're still going.
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  Speaker 4: I just can't stop. Like I'm so now I'm at
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  Speaker 4: the place where I'm like planning my surgeries how my
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  Speaker 4: friends will plan their vacation mom geez. Yeah. And I'm
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  Speaker 4: just like looking at before and after pictures like as
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  Speaker 4: if it's there be really my credit card they're max out,
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  Speaker 4: my shavings are gone. Yuh that people they just keep
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  Speaker 4: calling me.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I just am not stopping.
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  Speaker 2: So you're not only are you addicted to this, but
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  Speaker 2: it's draining your you financially. Does your family know about
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  Speaker 2: this or does like I mean, obviously they see the difference.
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  Speaker 3: But right, yeah, kind of my mom she really doesn't
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  Speaker 3: say much anymore.
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  Speaker 4: She just kind of looks at me, like, where's the daughter?
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  Speaker 4: I remember, like kind of waiting for that version to
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  Speaker 4: walk through the door.
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  Speaker 5: I've never thought about that because a mom might see
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  Speaker 5: that like differently, like can you imagine your childlike not
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  Speaker 5: looking the same at all? Yeah, or liking you made
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  Speaker 5: them like you're me.
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  Speaker 1: I made you.
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  Speaker 2: You came to me, right, Like my son looks exactly
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  Speaker 2: like me. If he walked in one day and didn't
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  Speaker 2: look like me, I'd be like, this is strange. So
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  Speaker 2: she's kind of probably not saying much about it, but
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  Speaker 2: probably concerned, I would imagine, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: And my brother at some point he was asking me
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  Speaker 3: what happened if there's nothing left to sick? And I
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  Speaker 3: laughed it off originally, but honestly, it's almost there, like
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  Speaker 3: there's not much more for me to do, and I
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  Speaker 3: kind of just like broke what I thought about it,
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  Speaker 3: like I am so broke because of this, and what
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  Speaker 3: if I can't stop?
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  Speaker 4: Like I need help?
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  Speaker 2: I think, yeah, And there's nothing wrong with that. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: I think that you should obviously that's the first step,
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  Speaker 2: and trying to figure out if you need help is
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  Speaker 2: going I need help.
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  Speaker 4: Nobody's been able to stop me.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe it would help, but it just feels like I'm
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  Speaker 3: chasing something that's like invisible under my skin, like this
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  Speaker 3: like version of me that just like does not exist.
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  Speaker 1: That's sad.
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  Speaker 2: It's really sad because I'm sure you're gorgeous and beautiful
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  Speaker 2: the way you are, and this is all a mental
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  Speaker 2: thing that makes you feel like you have to do
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  Speaker 2: certain things to appear a certain way. But I mean,
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to obviously diagnose you, and I'm absolutely
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  Speaker 2: not a professional, but body dysmorphia is real, and maybe
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  Speaker 2: this is something that you're just you see yourself in
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  Speaker 2: a completely different light than everybody else.
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  Speaker 4: It's true.
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  Speaker 3: You know. What is really strange is that sometimes I'm
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  Speaker 3: looking at my reflection and I think who is that?
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  Speaker 3: And then.
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  Speaker 4: Pretty immediately before I can even answer that, I start
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  Speaker 4: thinking about, Okay, what's the next procedure.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to see if anybody knows a specially, we
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  Speaker 2: have a lot of people who listen who I mean,
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  Speaker 2: we have a couple of surgeons who listen, cosmetic surgeons
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  Speaker 2: who listen. And I actually I know one off the
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  Speaker 2: top of our head that I remember him telling us there's.
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  Speaker 1: People that he will not operate on anymore.
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  Speaker 2: Because he knows that there's an issue, which I think
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  Speaker 2: is very noble of him, because he could just get
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  Speaker 2: their money, leave and go buy whatever. I don't care
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  Speaker 2: what you do, but he said no, I think I
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  Speaker 2: don't think you need this, and I don't feel comfortable
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  Speaker 2: doing this procedure.
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  Speaker 1: And maybe I'll talk to him.
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  Speaker 2: I bet any money he might be able to recommend
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  Speaker 2: someone who could possibly help you if if that's okay,
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  Speaker 2: I'll try to reach out and get a number from them.
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  Speaker 1: I really appreciate that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, because you deserve to be happy and in the
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  Speaker 2: skin you're in, you know, and definitely if you're in
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  Speaker 2: a financial crisis too, you can't do that. So stay
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  Speaker 2: right there. I'm going to see if I can get
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  Speaker 2: somebody's number for you. Okay, and hang in there, and
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  Speaker 2: we're sending you our best, all right.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you, thank you so much.
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  Speaker 1: You're welcome.
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  Speaker 2: Hold on, stay there, Oh man, I just I hear
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  Speaker 2: someone who I feel like is spiraling right there, and
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  Speaker 2: it's set and you know, I know we have young
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  Speaker 2: people who listen to And I think this is super
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  Speaker 2: important to note, is social media is not helping anything.
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  Speaker 3: No, it's not.
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  Speaker 2: When you see these people and these celebrities online, you're
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  Speaker 2: not seeing them for who they are. Trust me, they
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  Speaker 2: don't really look like that in real life.
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  Speaker 1: Right, not to say they're not beautiful people, right, but they.
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  Speaker 5: Don't look perfect and not twenty four to seven either.
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  Speaker 2: No. So, and we meet them, we're blessed enough to
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  Speaker 2: meet these celebs and they look like real people in person.
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  Speaker 2: So don't be fool by the filters and you know
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  Speaker 2: the effects and the photoshop, it's not real.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, they have professional teams making sure that they.
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  Speaker 1: Look like that.
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  Speaker 2: Remember that when you are on social media, because I
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  Speaker 2: think that is so important