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Steve Harvey's Closing Remarks - 2.18.26 · Daily Inspiration: The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we are our last break of
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  Speaker 1: the day. Thank you everyone who listens to us every
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  Speaker 1: faithfully every morning. We appreciate you so much all these
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  Speaker 1: years writing with us.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you. We have to say thank you.
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  Speaker 1: All right, see anything you Junior?
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  Speaker 3: You got a question? Yeah, you know you stopped to
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  Speaker 3: show this morning.
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  Speaker 4: Tom you got a great phone call from a guy
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  Speaker 4: who said that, uh, he wanted to apologize to you,
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  Speaker 4: and you.
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  Speaker 3: Said it was just accepted. You just accepted it, you know.
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  Speaker 4: And what's the what's the great part about the forgiveness part?
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  Speaker 4: You had no bitterness about the forgiveness or nothing. You
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  Speaker 4: just said, it's all good.
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  Speaker 5: Well, Junior, I have a couple of questions for you.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I've decided to flip the script.
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  Speaker 3: You're gonna answer that question, Oh, Junior gonna do closing remarks?
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  Speaker 2: No that he ain't got to do a three minute response.
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  Speaker 5: Let me ask you a question, Judy, what has been
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  Speaker 5: one of the most valuable lessons you've learned as an adult?
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  Speaker 2: Just one?
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  Speaker 3: Oh? Not not to quit? Not to quit.
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  Speaker 4: The most important thing I've learned is not to quit.
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  Speaker 4: You know, considering everything that I've been through and I'm
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  Speaker 4: still here. I just learned not to quit.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, okay, what's the most important thing you've learned about
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  Speaker 5: women since you've been married?
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  Speaker 4: M hm oh just give her what she wants so
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  Speaker 4: she be quiet it is. Yeah, yeah, Remember I tried
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  Speaker 4: to fight it and you told me you're doing it
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  Speaker 4: the wrong way.
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  Speaker 2: You're gonna lose that.
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  Speaker 5: It's not a have you have you figured out, uh
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  Speaker 5: the percentage that you that your wife and your relationship
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  Speaker 5: is operating under.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, five to five.
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  Speaker 2: I'm assuming you got to five. Yeah, I got I
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  Speaker 2: got fight some day.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, go ahead, man, you can ask me a
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  Speaker 5: question now.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, he did ask you a question.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I forgot what it was, sir, I was saying.
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  Speaker 3: Answer. Let me just ask you again.
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  Speaker 4: You got the phone call this morning from somebody who
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  Speaker 4: says they want your forgiveness, and you just said you
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  Speaker 4: forgave them, we can start.
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  Speaker 3: Fresh, and you had no bitiness about it.
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  Speaker 4: But what was the important of forgiving him after of
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  Speaker 4: things he did to you, after everything he's done.
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  Speaker 5: Well, but you know what I discovered though, If you
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  Speaker 5: don't forgive, if you hang on to it, show me
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  Speaker 5: the benefit for you to hang on to something. Show
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  Speaker 5: me how if you continue to hold that against this person,
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  Speaker 5: if you don't forgive them, if you keep belaboring the point,
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  Speaker 5: if you keep allowing what he did to be a
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  Speaker 5: part of your day whenever his name is brought up.
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  Speaker 5: Just tell me the one benefit it is to you?
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  Speaker 5: Just show me just any benefit. Does it make you
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  Speaker 5: feel better? Do you have a sense of power? Is
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  Speaker 5: it is?
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  Speaker 1: It?
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  Speaker 5: Is it? Is it enlightening? Do you feel a sense
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  Speaker 5: of control?
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  Speaker 2: What is it?
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  Speaker 5: Because when I don't forgive a person all I feel
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  Speaker 5: every time their name comes up, every time this subject
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  Speaker 5: comes up, it just conjures a sickening feeling in me.
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  Speaker 5: It brings back all the reasons I don't like them.
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  Speaker 5: But when it does that, I had to finally ask
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  Speaker 5: myself what is the benefit?
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  Speaker 2: See?
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  Speaker 5: I stopped holding grudges a long time ago because I found, man,
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  Speaker 5: there's just no benefit in it to me.
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  Speaker 2: Can I tell you something.
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  Speaker 5: The person that you hate that you don't forgive that
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  Speaker 5: doundone you wrong?
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  Speaker 2: They don't hardly think about it.
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  Speaker 5: Man, They just in their life, living their life however
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  Speaker 5: they gonna live it. You over here with all these
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  Speaker 5: deep concerns and all this here getting mad every time
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  Speaker 5: they name, come over, rehashing it, retelling it, reliving it. Man,
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  Speaker 5: and them people sometimes have moved up, don't even remember
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  Speaker 5: what they did to you. They probably the moved on
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  Speaker 5: doing something to somebody else. And at the end of
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  Speaker 5: the day, man, it's just you as the non forgiver.
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  Speaker 5: It has no benefit to you. Now, I'll tell you what.
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  Speaker 5: When you do forgive them, guess what it does. It
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  Speaker 5: frees you. It allows you no longer when they name
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  Speaker 5: is brought up, that you have to conjure up the
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  Speaker 5: incident again, that you have to relive the moment, that
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  Speaker 5: you have to rehash the feeling.
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  Speaker 2: You actually free yourself. So for me, man, I don't
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  Speaker 2: even care.
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  Speaker 5: I'm gonna tell you somebody else recently called me and
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  Speaker 5: asked me for something. And the thing of it is
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  Speaker 5: is this guy has gotten into several situations and called
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  Speaker 5: me and I've always assisted him. But this time I
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  Speaker 5: just said, hey, man, I'm gonna play this fool right now. Man,
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  Speaker 5: I'm going through a lot of stuff. And he went
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  Speaker 5: into the Oh, so you don't remember what I did
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  Speaker 5: for you? Oh? Never no money, just a favor he
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  Speaker 5: did for me. When I was forty. This guy did
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  Speaker 5: a favor for me when I was forty. Do you
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  Speaker 5: know he still brings that favor up every time he
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  Speaker 5: wants something, He brings that favor up. He did for
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  Speaker 5: me twenty nine years ago. And I used to feel
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  Speaker 5: guilty in sending him a little something. And the other
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  Speaker 5: day I just didn't want to. I say, hey, man,
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  Speaker 5: I'm full. I'm going through some things right now. Also,
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  Speaker 5: when I was there for you, brother Ayman doman favorite,
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  Speaker 5: stop reminding me of that. You know, it's just people.
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  Speaker 5: And but but you know what, I even let him go.
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  Speaker 5: I just said, okay, he said, so I'm gonna delete
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  Speaker 5: your number. Man, do you promt?
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  Speaker 3: Bye?
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  Speaker 5: Bye?
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  Speaker 2: Hey, y'all have my very things today. I'm sorry from
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  Speaker 2: what I said. Y'all talk to God. He loved me.
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