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*Collab alert* Reesa Teesa's "Who TF Did I Marry?" EXPLAINED by "How To Be Less Old" · Drama, Darling: A Real Housewives Comedy Podcast

• 0:05
  Speaker 1: Drama Darling, Drama Darling, Drama Darling.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome in to the first collaboration of Drama Darling and
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  Speaker 2: How to Be less Old, the podcast with Deanna Chang
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  Speaker 2: and Emily Foster.
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  Speaker 3: Welcome in, gals. Oh that was no, here's the welcome in.
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  Speaker 4: God, it feels good to be welcome, it really does.
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  Speaker 3: Emily Foster, it's so good to see you.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, good to see you.
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  Speaker 3: Wow.
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  Speaker 5: Thanks for having us.
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  Speaker 2: Well this, thanks for having me, and this is exciting
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  Speaker 2: for me. So just a little backstory, and that is that, Gosh,
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  Speaker 2: I've known Emily and I have the same our daughters
• 1:03
  Speaker 2: are the same exact age, and so we go back.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I met you through Deanna. I've been on
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  Speaker 2: your podcast before, and we used to live kind of
• 1:14
  Speaker 2: in the same area. No longer, I've now moved to
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  Speaker 2: Santa Clarita in the middle of nowhere. But anyway, we
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  Speaker 2: are now reconnecting for this amazing podcast because you guys
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  Speaker 2: have a sub stack as your listeners know how to
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  Speaker 2: Be less Old, and my listeners know as well, and
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  Speaker 2: you have a podcast linked to that, and it's amazing
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  Speaker 2: and you guys are such a great duo. The topic
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  Speaker 2: that we are collabing on today is the Resa Tisa
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  Speaker 2: story of who the fuck did I marry? That was
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  Speaker 2: a story that was created on TikTok. This lady went
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  Speaker 2: on TikTok and did like one hundred thousand stories and
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  Speaker 2: then now it's going to be made into a TV show.
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  Speaker 2: So this is a blind spot for me. I wanted
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  Speaker 2: to go down that rabbit hole. I remember you guys
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  Speaker 2: both talking about you guys did it? I never did,
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  Speaker 2: and you're gonna walk me through it now. Question for
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  Speaker 2: you gals, how much of Resa Tisa have you uh
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  Speaker 2: spoken with your listeners about?
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  Speaker 5: We did one episode on the Resa Tisa unfolding story
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  Speaker 5: on TikTok. We might have talked about her since then,
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  Speaker 5: but it was really just one episode.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, I think it was a post and then
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  Speaker 4: we did like broad strokes of yeah, her journey and
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  Speaker 4: this is gonna be a little more welcomed in a
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  Speaker 4: little more We're gonna take you beautifully through the journey,
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  Speaker 4: like this is a more detailed dive.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so excited about this and the reason why we're
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  Speaker 2: going back to this and why you guys are taking
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  Speaker 2: your time to go back to it is because this
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  Speaker 2: woman who you'll explain, has a TV deal. Get it
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  Speaker 2: made into a television show?
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  Speaker 5: Correct, Yes, So this is a beautiful crossover because usually
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  Speaker 5: you know, ips come from books, but this one, it's
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  Speaker 5: so incredible that this woman just took to TikTok, which
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  Speaker 5: is normally you know, you think of short form videos,
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  Speaker 5: but she created a whole you know, fifty part series.
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  Speaker 5: It's eight hours long, wow, telling the story of her
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  Speaker 5: marriage gone wrong.
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  Speaker 3: Way welcome in.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So I'm buckling. That was such a great Wow.
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  Speaker 2: The drama, Emily in your voice, Yeah, drama, darling, ladies
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  Speaker 2: and gentlemen, you are gonna get some stuff. So this
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  Speaker 2: is gonna be really fun for me. I literally have
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  Speaker 2: to do nothing except for listen, and I'm gonna really
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  Speaker 2: hold back any questions because I have a feeling that
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  Speaker 2: I won't need to because you're going to fill in
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  Speaker 2: those blanks. So I'm not gonna interrupt the flow. But
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  Speaker 2: if there's anything really important, I will ask. But for
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  Speaker 2: the most part, I mean gonna you guys just have
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  Speaker 2: at it.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: So yeah, like, listen, guys, this is a little experimental
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  Speaker 4: and how we're gonna be bringing the information to you,
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  Speaker 4: So Amy, please you know, if you do have any questions,
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  Speaker 4: this is your platform that we are on here, you know,
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  Speaker 4: and please feel free to raise a hand and hop
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  Speaker 4: in or get in there and get talk.
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  Speaker 3: You know.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, and you know it is the kind of thing,
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  Speaker 4: what do you think this is fun? Because it is
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  Speaker 4: the kind of thing that is an overwhelming amount of content. Mentally,
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  Speaker 4: when you hear like fifty four TikTok's eight hours, you're like,
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  Speaker 4: don't think I can do that. But then when you
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  Speaker 4: get into it, and Emily was the one who did
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  Speaker 4: her initial dive and she was like, no, it's you
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  Speaker 4: listen to it like an audio book, so you know
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  Speaker 4: this is going to be obviously we're not we have
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  Speaker 4: you know, we don't have eight hours. So there you
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  Speaker 4: can listen to our breakdown and still go back and
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  Speaker 4: enjoy for your listeners.
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  Speaker 5: She's a phenomenal storyteller, like this is why it works.
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  Speaker 4: Yep. These are the clips notes, okay, and what we
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  Speaker 4: do need to say at the top because this is crucial, okay,
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  Speaker 4: and this will get your real stumped if you do, guys,
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  Speaker 4: If you guys decide to go listen, if you haven't yet,
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  Speaker 4: you must, and I repeat, you must go to the
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  Speaker 4: top of her page on TikTok her profile and scroll
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  Speaker 4: at the top. There's three little bars and there is
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  Speaker 4: a playlist called who the Fuck Did I marry? And
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  Speaker 4: that is essential or else you're going to be hunting
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  Speaker 4: and pecking for number. That playlist moves you beautifully through it.
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  Speaker 4: You know that's it's the only way.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, got it?
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  Speaker 4: All right? So I'm going to kick us off with
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  Speaker 4: how they met.
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  Speaker 3: Oh okay, all right.
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  Speaker 4: Here we go and we're diving in. So Lisa and Legion,
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  Speaker 4: this is her gentleman. They match on Hinge and on
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  Speaker 4: a Facebook type dating site, question Mark, and it was
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  Speaker 4: right before the shutdown. It was a during COVID, right
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  Speaker 4: right at the top of COVID. They decide to go
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  Speaker 4: out on her way to the date. Her tire blows out.
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  Speaker 4: She lets him know. He shows up, He pays for everything,
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  Speaker 4: fixes the flat tire. They still go on the date.
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  Speaker 4: It's like Prince Charming has showed up, treated her nice,
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  Speaker 4: treated her right. They hit it off wow. Very shortly after,
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  Speaker 4: she moves him into her three bedroom.
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  Speaker 5: Now again it's COVID, right, it's COVID, So if she
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  Speaker 5: wants to see him again, you gotta pot up.
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  Speaker 3: They pot it up so fast. Okay, wow, okay, wow.
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  Speaker 4: He did he did change her tire, amy, Okay, well,
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  Speaker 4: fair enough, and so yeah, yeah, he deserves to move
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  Speaker 4: in Okay. Yes. And he's an attractive man. He's a nice,
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  Speaker 4: big guy. She likes the way he looks. It was
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  Speaker 4: a prince Charming type moment that they had with this
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  Speaker 4: first date.
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  Speaker 5: So now here's a little backstory about him. You know,
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  Speaker 5: he told her that he had been married once before.
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  Speaker 5: He has no kids, but he's really close with his
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  Speaker 5: ex wife. You know, he would talk to his brother
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  Speaker 5: on the phone every day, and you know, Resa never
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  Speaker 5: like got on the phone with him, but he would say,
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  Speaker 5: my brother says hi, and she'd be like, hi brother.
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  Speaker 5: But you know, we have to remember that this is COVID,
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  Speaker 5: so it's not like they're all meeting each other. They're
• 8:05
  Speaker 5: just talking on the phone and whatever. So his you know,
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  Speaker 5: they would have these conversations daily. Legion is a VP
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  Speaker 5: at a condiment company. Oh he was also you know,
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  Speaker 5: he played football. He went to San Diego State. He
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  Speaker 5: had tons of savings, according to him, and he had
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  Speaker 5: some football money. I don't know if he probably whatever.
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  Speaker 5: He played he had four brothers, two sisters, and his
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  Speaker 5: parents were no longer with us. Okay, so that's what
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  Speaker 5: she knew.
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  Speaker 4: That's what she knew. So you know, things are popping off,
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  Speaker 4: and they've been together so much so that within a
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  Speaker 4: month of being together, she's pregnant again. It's COVID, and.
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  Speaker 3: You guys are really standing by this.
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  Speaker 2: I love that you guys are just fully on board.
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  Speaker 2: But anything goes in COVID.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't know this. I wish I would made different,
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  Speaker 3: reckless choices in my life then. But okay, this is great.
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  Speaker 3: It's COVID. What are you gonna do? God damn it.
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  Speaker 3: Just just do whatever.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, it all to be fair.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, you know, she's telling this story like like
• 9:17
  Speaker 5: we're her best friends on TIC. She's like, she's in
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  Speaker 5: her car, she's got her hair and curlers, and she's like,
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  Speaker 5: you know, I know it was a little fast.
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  Speaker 3: You know, you're.
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  Speaker 4: Her, We're on board. Were absolutely yes, welcome it. So
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  Speaker 4: they start looking for a house because she's pregnant, and
• 9:36
  Speaker 4: they're like, you know what we need to kind of expand,
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  Speaker 4: let's find a house. And they find one. Things are
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  Speaker 4: all systems.
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  Speaker 3: Go is reesa working.
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  Speaker 4: Yes she is. She isn't in law enforcement. Just that was.
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  Speaker 3: That was shocking.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, it's not like she's like a police officer, but
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  Speaker 5: she she works something with.
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  Speaker 4: Corrections, something along those lines. Wait, can we hard to
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  Speaker 4: pin in that and circle back, because yeah, we were
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  Speaker 4: having a hard time finding exactly like drilling down on
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  Speaker 4: her exact job. But she does work in law enforcement, yes,
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  Speaker 4: got it to some extent. Not whether she may even
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  Speaker 4: just be doing like the oh welcome and co way
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  Speaker 4: thank you paperwork, but she is there. But she's you
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  Speaker 4: know there cheers. So they start looking at her house.
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  Speaker 4: They find a real estate agent and she's leaving everything
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  Speaker 4: to him because he's the one who can really like
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  Speaker 4: make this happen, pay forty as the funds, and she
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  Speaker 4: is not on the emails. She's just like they're looking
• 10:46
  Speaker 4: for houses, and then things just start kind of going left,
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  Speaker 4: and the real estate agent's like, I'm sorry to her,
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  Speaker 4: I don't I'm so confused as to what's going on here,
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  Speaker 4: you know, And she's like, yeah, I'm a little confused too,
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  Speaker 4: And so she confronts legion because it's like either the
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  Speaker 4: he's not sending the paperwork whatever, it is there's just
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  Speaker 4: some i's and tees, there's hold ups, And when she
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  Speaker 4: confronts him, he's like, look, I actually haven't been using
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  Speaker 4: that agent that we found together. I have a friend
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  Speaker 4: who's a real estate agent, so I've been dealing with him.
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  Speaker 4: So every time there's a bump in the road, he
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  Speaker 4: has enough enough of an explanation that she's like, oh, okay,
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  Speaker 4: and yeah. So she doesn't love it, but she accepts it.
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  Speaker 4: And he's like, look, we are getting a house. Let's
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  Speaker 4: go to home depot, Let's get some furniture, let's get
• 11:54
  Speaker 4: some appliances, like, let's lock in, and like the house
• 11:59
  Speaker 4: will figure itself out. So they do, okay, and and
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  Speaker 4: she sees, you know, he's paying for everything. He is
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  Speaker 4: paying good money. And basically the agreement at like the
• 12:13
  Speaker 4: home depot type places is you know, you put the
• 12:16
  Speaker 4: money down, we'll hold it for you. When you get
• 12:18
  Speaker 4: the house, you can move everything in. So duh, that's
• 12:24
  Speaker 4: her daughter, Emily. We might need a drop from your
• 12:28
  Speaker 4: daughter as well. At the end of the day, we
• 12:32
  Speaker 4: might need an sty drop.
• 12:35
  Speaker 5: She's so sassy, okay, so I want to hear it.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, okay. So Reesa goes to Zillow because she's like,
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  Speaker 4: this is Oh, I'm excited to like decorate and see
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  Speaker 4: how everything's going to look in the house we're getting.
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  Speaker 4: And it's closed. The house is closed, it's got it's
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  Speaker 4: still sold. They don't have it. She doesn't have it. It's old.
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  Speaker 4: The house that they he said, we're all systems go
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  Speaker 4: is old and and not to them. She calls the
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  Speaker 4: seller's agent, finds out the couple who bought the house.
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  Speaker 4: She was kind of playing dumb. She was like, oh,
• 13:11
  Speaker 4: can you tell me a little bit older white couple.
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  Speaker 4: So there's the moment and this is a real hinge
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  Speaker 4: moment where the moment she has to make a decision,
• 13:21
  Speaker 4: like and she makes the wrong one. She decides, mean.
• 13:27
  Speaker 3: Yes, match, let's go. You know, it's COVID. This is
• 13:30
  Speaker 3: what COVID's for, to make wrong decisions.
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  Speaker 4: But you have to remember she she's pregnant, you know,
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  Speaker 4: and so and she was tired. The pregnancy was like
• 13:43
  Speaker 4: a lot on her body. And she said she was
• 13:45
  Speaker 4: feeling a lot quickly, So.
• 13:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a lot.
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  Speaker 4: She decides to ask him something about the house, but
• 13:55
  Speaker 4: also let him out of the lie. She goes in
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  Speaker 4: knowing he's gonna lie. He says something about a hold
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  Speaker 4: up with the house, and she goes, you know what,
• 14:05
  Speaker 4: let's let this house go. We'll find another one.
• 14:08
  Speaker 2: Whoa whoa, whoa wow Chelse chill wow.
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  Speaker 5: So, and she's she's saying this to us. You know,
• 14:19
  Speaker 5: in hindsight, she's like, you know, I did I let
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  Speaker 5: him out of this lie. But she's feeling something's wrong.
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  Speaker 5: Now this is where he's really smart, because he's gonna
• 14:34
  Speaker 5: just pivot, right, He's gonna pivot. He's gonna be like,
• 14:38
  Speaker 5: let's okay, so the house didn't happen. Let's go get
• 14:42
  Speaker 5: a car. Let's go get a nice company car. Oh,
• 14:51
  Speaker 5: he like, schleps this pregnant lady all around town test
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  Speaker 5: driving a whole bunch of very nice cars, and they
• 14:57
  Speaker 5: decide I'm going to get a BMW okay, Oh, but
• 15:01
  Speaker 5: I know they need to print out from the dealership
• 15:03
  Speaker 5: that shows tax, tag and title and then his company's
• 15:06
  Speaker 5: going to wire the money for the car.
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  Speaker 4: So, because he has a ninety thousand dollars budget for
• 15:11
  Speaker 4: this car, because he's a VP of a condoment company,
• 15:15
  Speaker 4: a VP of a condoment company. Amy, it's COVID.
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  Speaker 5: So it's he calling the finance person in front of her,
• 15:23
  Speaker 5: you know, and he's they're talking about the wire transfer
• 15:26
  Speaker 5: and all this stuff. So now of course she's getting
• 15:30
  Speaker 5: here thinking I want, you know, Akiya to all of
• 15:35
  Speaker 5: a sudden going I'm gonna need my dark blue bmw
• 15:38
  Speaker 5: X five with the koonyak interior.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, yak.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like you know once with the houses too.
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  Speaker 4: It's like her budget can get her here. But this
• 15:54
  Speaker 4: is where you get hooked in because now she's sitting
• 15:59
  Speaker 4: in a Kognac interrier car. She is experiencing luxury mobiles.
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  Speaker 2: Lie all you want? I want that gown? Yeah, you know,
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  Speaker 2: let's let's go.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, it does make sense.
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  Speaker 4: It's how it happened.
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  Speaker 5: Before we move on, I do want to We forgot
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  Speaker 5: one important detail, which Yeah shares, is that, you know,
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  Speaker 5: she starts to have this nagging suspicion that something's a
• 16:25
  Speaker 5: little bit cuckoo, but she describes this so beautifully. She
• 16:30
  Speaker 5: has a prayer closet and anytime she would have one
• 16:34
  Speaker 5: of these moments, she would go into her prayer closet
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  Speaker 5: and record an audio diary. So that's why she has
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  Speaker 5: all these details. Holy she has gone in there recorded
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  Speaker 5: herself being like, hmm, something's not right, something stinky today.
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  Speaker 3: Does she ever play those?
• 16:56
  Speaker 4: She essentially is her playing of those. I have a
• 17:00
  Speaker 4: feeling she would go back listen and.
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: Then yeah, record the TikTok Now that is fascinating. Okay,
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: all right, wow wow wow wow okay, Okay.
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  Speaker 4: So now we're in about July. This kid, this whole
• 17:16
  Speaker 4: thing started in March. We're in July.
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  Speaker 3: Last okay, yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, And she has a miscarriage, and she's sort of
• 17:25
  Speaker 4: explained I know, I know, but and she felt it
• 17:28
  Speaker 4: was going to happen because she was so stressed. She
• 17:31
  Speaker 4: had so much underlying stress with this relationship. She's like,
• 17:36
  Speaker 4: I didn't feel I was going to be able to
• 17:38
  Speaker 4: take this baby to term.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's heartbreaking. Okay it is.
• 17:43
  Speaker 4: And she has like, so she has the miscarriage. He's
• 17:49
  Speaker 4: not with her in the hospital. He said he has
• 17:51
  Speaker 4: some really important meetings about ketchup, about Ketchup, et cetera,
• 17:57
  Speaker 4: and that she should, you know, read out to David,
• 18:00
  Speaker 4: who's his executive assistant, and David is going to relay
• 18:04
  Speaker 4: the message. So Resa speaks with David and he never
• 18:11
  Speaker 4: shows up. So she has to call her friend to
• 18:13
  Speaker 4: like get her out of the hospital. She had some
• 18:16
  Speaker 4: options as to how to you know, flush her body,
• 18:19
  Speaker 4: and she chose the pill, which was a nightmare for
• 18:22
  Speaker 4: her and she really had a traumatizing miscarriage and she
• 18:29
  Speaker 4: had to go back to the hospital for the DNC.
• 18:32
  Speaker 4: He's not with her. It's over, it's time for her
• 18:36
  Speaker 4: to be discharged. She's calling him. I think the hospital
• 18:42
  Speaker 4: even calls him and speaks with David, of course, and
• 18:48
  Speaker 4: they're kind of looking at her sideways too, because you know,
• 18:53
  Speaker 4: they're like, there's hip, but we can't speak to David,
• 18:56
  Speaker 4: you know, and so like this David character. So they're
• 19:00
  Speaker 4: just watching her. She's sitting in the hospital. She should
• 19:03
  Speaker 4: have been discharged. She's there for four extra hours waiting
• 19:05
  Speaker 4: on him to show up. So after they lose the baby,
• 19:11
  Speaker 4: Legion's like, let's you know what, let's take another stab
• 19:15
  Speaker 4: at buying a house. And this time, Reese is like,
• 19:20
  Speaker 4: I've learned from the past. I am going to be
• 19:23
  Speaker 4: here every step of the way. I'm going to be
• 19:25
  Speaker 4: on every email. I'm going to be the one communicating
• 19:27
  Speaker 4: with the real estate agent. And he's like, look, I
• 19:32
  Speaker 4: have six hundred thousand k in cash to put.
• 19:36
  Speaker 5: He shows her a screenshot of this of his bank
• 19:38
  Speaker 5: account that he has this money sitting there ready to go.
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: Wow.
• 19:44
  Speaker 4: Receipts Okay, receipts, and they're often running.
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: Is it like, is it was it like Bank of
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: US say and stuff?
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: You know? Was it? Does she say what bank it was?
• 20:00
  Speaker 5: You know?
• 20:00
  Speaker 4: These are the details that seem to have sort of
• 20:03
  Speaker 4: glossed over her a little, right, Okay, yeah, all right,
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: she doesn't. She didn't pull out.
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: The old magnifying glass to find out what am I
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: looking at? Is this a Microsoft word document that he's created?
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: Okay?
• 20:20
  Speaker 4: Yeah, She was like, is this clip part or is
• 20:22
  Speaker 4: it a real bank?
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: It's like like a fake banker, you know, in front
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: of like an old computer with like money bags, like
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: that's their logo.
• 20:32
  Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, exactly so. But but you know what they
• 20:37
  Speaker 4: they do look at different houses, They put offers down.
• 20:40
  Speaker 4: She wants a quick turnaround. Every time the house fell apart,
• 20:45
  Speaker 4: it was for an actual reason, like they were like, hey,
• 20:48
  Speaker 4: we need you, We want you to refinish the basement
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: before the sale. The cellar didn't want to do that.
• 20:55
  Speaker 4: They moved on, so like whatever happened, it all sounds.
• 20:58
  Speaker 4: It all felt totally legit to her, So she was like,
• 21:02
  Speaker 4: I'm smart now, I just need to be on the
• 21:04
  Speaker 4: ground floor. All good, you know, kind of right.
• 21:08
  Speaker 5: So but then you know, it gets exhausting. So they
• 21:10
  Speaker 5: put a pin in the house hunting. Okay, what are
• 21:13
  Speaker 5: you gonna pivot to next? Oh? I don't know, how
• 21:16
  Speaker 5: about you get married?
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: Oh?
• 21:18
  Speaker 5: So you know, they're getting a little bit of pressure
• 21:20
  Speaker 5: from their families because you know, she's religious, he's maybe religious.
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: And maybe maybe maybe.
• 21:28
  Speaker 5: Right, we really know. But so, you know, they had
• 21:33
  Speaker 5: been house hunting, they had gotten pregnant, they're living together,
• 21:36
  Speaker 5: so he put a ring on it, and at this time,
• 21:39
  Speaker 5: she's definitely having reservations. But she admits, you know, it's
• 21:43
  Speaker 5: like this hindsight twenty twenty. She's like, I talked myself
• 21:47
  Speaker 5: out of every single one. But when they went to
• 21:50
  Speaker 5: go get their marriage license, she did one of the
• 21:53
  Speaker 5: smartest things I have ever heard, and she memorized that
• 21:56
  Speaker 5: man's social security number when he wrote it down on
• 21:59
  Speaker 5: the license. Now, Amy, do you know anyone else's social
• 22:02
  Speaker 5: Security number other.
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: Than your own? No, ma'am, no, nor do.
• 22:07
  Speaker 4: I dan, Like, that's a lengthy that's a lot of
• 22:10
  Speaker 4: number perthy.
• 22:12
  Speaker 5: So she like, bick, you know, do you have to
• 22:16
  Speaker 5: like repeat that forty seven times while you're there like
• 22:19
  Speaker 5: trying to write.
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a good memory.
• 22:22
  Speaker 5: I'm impressed, you know.
• 22:23
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you know that, like something's amiss when you are
• 22:28
  Speaker 4: having to study and retain a social for future.
• 22:34
  Speaker 5: That should have been enough. But yeah, right, So she
• 22:38
  Speaker 5: ran a background check and she found nothing.
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: Oh wow, then your brain.
• 22:43
  Speaker 5: Tells you two things, right, like one either I remembered
• 22:46
  Speaker 5: the number wrong or we're good to go. So they
• 22:49
  Speaker 5: got married in early January.
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: He passed the background check, good on her.
• 22:54
  Speaker 5: And there's you know, it's no, it's the pandemic.
• 22:57
  Speaker 4: There's no friends there, and it's the man may just
• 23:01
  Speaker 4: get married.
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: So his five siblings aren't there, his parents have passed,
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: David's not there, nobody's there.
• 23:09
  Speaker 3: Okay, oh my god.
• 23:11
  Speaker 5: Once they lock in, you know it's January. But by
• 23:15
  Speaker 5: the end of January, it's like the sex has ended
• 23:18
  Speaker 5: and she knows that she is fucked.
• 23:23
  Speaker 4: On his end too, he's like not giving it up.
• 23:28
  Speaker 4: She doesn't go into details, but it seems like it
• 23:30
  Speaker 4: was a swift cut off.
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: So they got married in what month January.
• 23:38
  Speaker 5: In January, she's like.
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: Oh by the end of January. Oh okay, yeahow oh yeah, okay.
• 23:45
  Speaker 4: Now he's always made a super big deal of you know,
• 23:49
  Speaker 4: if I'm with someone, if I'm in a relationship, I
• 23:53
  Speaker 4: require total honesty. I'm totally honest. No lies between us.
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: So much so that he gave her his pass code
• 24:00
  Speaker 4: to the phone. Okay. So he's in the shower and
• 24:06
  Speaker 4: she glances down at his phone and she sees a
• 24:09
  Speaker 4: lady has texted him, so she has the pass code
• 24:12
  Speaker 4: be boop up into the phone.
• 24:14
  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
• 24:14
  Speaker 4: She makes her way to Facebook Messages, which seems where
• 24:18
  Speaker 4: the notification came from, and she sees real dirty talk.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: Oh god, well who has their Facebook messages alerts on?
• 24:26
  Speaker 3: Sorry all right anyway, Oh sat Diana, Sorry sad, sorry, Dana.
• 24:31
  Speaker 4: No got to look into that. I don't want it.
• 24:34
  Speaker 4: They're just happening.
• 24:35
  Speaker 5: I'm going to send you a filthy Facebook please do
• 24:39
  Speaker 5: I want to?
• 24:40
  Speaker 3: I want to see it top the notification popup.
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: So she gets okay, So she goes to Facebook Messenger
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: and sees this.
• 24:49
  Speaker 4: Talk between him and a gal and you know, it's
• 24:54
  Speaker 4: stuff that she is. She's seeming kind of more vanilla
• 25:00
  Speaker 4: with her, and she's seeing things in there that she's
• 25:03
  Speaker 4: never received on her end. No, I'll say. So she
• 25:10
  Speaker 4: confronts him, and you know, he comes back with which
• 25:15
  Speaker 4: guys do this, and it does freaking get them out
• 25:18
  Speaker 4: of jail. She's like, was nothing, It's just me being stupid,
• 25:23
  Speaker 4: it's me flirting. I was just it was just an outlet.
• 25:27
  Speaker 4: I'm not cheating on you. We've never met. It's like stupid,
• 25:32
  Speaker 4: I'm sorry, it will never happen again, like that kind
• 25:36
  Speaker 4: of thing where you're like, well now I am I gonna
• 25:38
  Speaker 4: lose my mind if they haven't actually met, and you know, okay,
• 25:44
  Speaker 4: you know, and so and she goes he was offering
• 25:49
  Speaker 4: his dingling to others while I was sitting there being
• 25:52
  Speaker 4: very faithful to him. And at that point, I'm like, oh,
• 25:55
  Speaker 4: I didn't know Lisa had all these offers coming through
• 25:57
  Speaker 4: and I had to like tip the hat. I was like, okay,
• 26:00
  Speaker 4: now it's not been easy, which I like, put some
• 26:03
  Speaker 4: respect on it.
• 26:04
  Speaker 5: Yeah, like other men want to change my tire? Okay, y, yes,
• 26:11
  Speaker 5: I do, right on.
• 26:16
  Speaker 4: And also from what she had read on that Facebook messages,
• 26:19
  Speaker 4: it did seem like these two hadn't actually met. So
• 26:23
  Speaker 4: that was like, okay, right, like I.
• 26:26
  Speaker 5: Just got married. What am I gonna do?
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 26:30
  Speaker 5: Okay. So then they start with a new real estate
• 26:35
  Speaker 5: agent and this lady this for whatever reason, you know,
• 26:40
  Speaker 5: they're they're hunting the same kind of thing starts to
• 26:44
  Speaker 5: go down where it's like something seems off, something's not right.
• 26:48
  Speaker 5: When it comes to like the final push, something falls apart.
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 26:53
  Speaker 5: So this lady Amber again, this is like Reesa's come
• 26:57
  Speaker 5: to Jesus moment. She calls her on the side and says, listen,
• 27:02
  Speaker 5: I don't know what's going on, but whether you buy
• 27:04
  Speaker 5: a house with him or on your own, I'll be
• 27:07
  Speaker 5: happy to rep you. And this was Amber saying to
• 27:11
  Speaker 5: her something's not right in the most professional, beautiful way.
• 27:17
  Speaker 4: And she heard it.
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: Oh Amber, Wow, that's there.
• 27:29
  Speaker 5: She's like, or on your own own own. It's like
• 27:33
  Speaker 5: she wanted her to hear that, like buy the house.
• 27:35
  Speaker 3: On your own.
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, I can't wait to see this in
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: the TV series. And who does that role? Because that's
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: a like you said that, this is a huge pivoting point.
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: And and this pivot point sounds like Resa heard it.
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: Yes, it landed. Okay, Uh huh, I live.
• 27:54
  Speaker 5: This mix, right, Who've met him, Who've seen his wheelings
• 27:57
  Speaker 5: and dealings. This lady's like, I see you on the side. Okay.
• 28:04
  Speaker 5: So from there, you know, all of this is kind
• 28:10
  Speaker 5: of going down at the same time. Yeah, they get
• 28:13
  Speaker 5: married a few months later. You know, she's got this
• 28:17
  Speaker 5: real talk with this real litter and then you know,
• 28:20
  Speaker 5: discovering that Legion's communicating with someone else. And then she
• 28:24
  Speaker 5: learns about Peaches.
• 28:26
  Speaker 4: What Peaches prostitute. We're just gonna say it quite plainly
• 28:31
  Speaker 4: and quite quickly. Peaches is a prostitute.
• 28:34
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 28:35
  Speaker 5: So she's seeing Peaches Peaches.
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: It's not from the movie like Mario Brothers, by the way,
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: that's Princess Peach.
• 28:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Princess Peach.
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: Okay what okay, okay, sorry Sory wow wow wow.
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 28:49
  Speaker 5: So she's like seeing Pricing in his texts and she
• 28:53
  Speaker 5: confronts him and this time they go to see a
• 28:57
  Speaker 5: pastor to do some couple's therapy, and the pastor basically says,
• 29:04
  Speaker 5: to sweet Resa girl, I wish you had come to
• 29:07
  Speaker 5: me before you guys got married, because I would have said, nah,
• 29:12
  Speaker 5: don't do that.
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: Oh, which is tough.
• 29:16
  Speaker 5: That's tough.
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: Also, pastor.
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: You know I'm in the situation now, let's let's not
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: go backwards. Can we just deal with what we're dealing with.
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: Thanks for saying I would have told you so, but
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: I hope you feel better about yourself. But let's go
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: with what we're dealing with now.
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: And what we're appreciating that. Yeah, like I appreciate some
• 29:37
  Speaker 4: feedback for the pastor because honestly, pastor, like we all
• 29:42
  Speaker 4: wish we had made different choices in life at certain points. Right,
• 29:47
  Speaker 4: So come on, get what the program that is today?
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah? True, exactly, thank you.
• 29:53
  Speaker 4: And I want to Yeah, let's see, Like I feel
• 29:56
  Speaker 4: like maybe Steve Buscemi's the pastor.
• 29:59
  Speaker 3: I love that.
• 30:00
  Speaker 4: Well, we'll have him play the pastor. We need a
• 30:02
  Speaker 4: little like someone who's a little rough around the edge. Yeah,
• 30:05
  Speaker 4: not very pastorly.
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: Yes, I wouldn't have done that, just realhaming it up.
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: Okay, yeah it up.
• 30:16
  Speaker 4: So obviously things aren't going swimmingly for some reasons. And
• 30:22
  Speaker 4: I don't quite remember why. She gets a new job,
• 30:24
  Speaker 4: and that job requires a background check and it requires
• 30:29
  Speaker 4: her spouse's social She has released the social from her memory,
• 30:36
  Speaker 4: so she needs Legion to remind her of it. He's
• 30:42
  Speaker 4: giving her pushback, doesn't want to give her the social
• 30:49
  Speaker 4: He finally gives it to her.
• 30:51
  Speaker 5: And it's a different one. Yes, but she had remembered.
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: Oh she could remember kind of. And she's like, this
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: doesn't seem right. Uh huhyah, WHOA.
• 31:04
  Speaker 4: So now she's like, okay, let's run a small investigation.
• 31:12
  Speaker 4: She finds out that she calls the school he says
• 31:17
  Speaker 4: he went to. They have no record of him. She
• 31:21
  Speaker 4: has the ex wife's information that came up on the
• 31:24
  Speaker 4: background check, and it is the ex wife he told
• 31:28
  Speaker 4: her about. He said he found her in bed with
• 31:33
  Speaker 4: another man. That's why they got divorced. She's seeing that
• 31:37
  Speaker 4: the wife is the one who filed. They were only
• 31:39
  Speaker 4: together for six months and he had to file something
• 31:43
  Speaker 4: called a pauper affidavit, which I had never heard of.
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: You stop it right now, have you pert?
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: No? But I mean, what is this a Charles Dickens' novel?
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: I mean, what is happening right now? I've never heard
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: that in my life, and I've watch a lot of
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: court TV.
• 32:02
  Speaker 3: Please okay, So.
• 32:09
  Speaker 4: What I mean, to the best of our knowledge, it's
• 32:15
  Speaker 4: when your ass is too poor to pay for the
• 32:17
  Speaker 4: divorce and the X wasn't looking for any money. So
• 32:22
  Speaker 4: Reesel's like, wow, it's a little bit of a different
• 32:24
  Speaker 4: story than you told me. So she calls the X.
• 32:29
  Speaker 4: She finds the number and spicy.
• 32:33
  Speaker 3: Nice. Now we're getting down to it.
• 32:37
  Speaker 4: We're getting a little more granular as it were. The
• 32:43
  Speaker 4: X goes, if you're calling me, then I know it's bad.
• 32:47
  Speaker 4: She's kind of laughing as she hears who is on
• 32:51
  Speaker 4: the other line and that she's finding out.
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: She's like, I've been waiting for this call.
• 32:58
  Speaker 4: Yeah, pretty much, I mean, you know now pretty much.
• 33:03
  Speaker 4: So this ex similar to Angela the real estate agent
• 33:08
  Speaker 4: and maybe even Peaches. She's confirming that this guy is
• 33:13
  Speaker 4: a massive liar and she and Reesa's like, I just
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: kind of like want to know how bad is it?
• 33:19
  Speaker 4: And she's like it's it's a bad because she's been
• 33:26
  Speaker 4: through the same exact thing, and she could say to
• 33:28
  Speaker 4: her like, do not blame yourself. He's a master liar
• 33:33
  Speaker 4: and a master manipulator, which I think Lisa needed to hear.
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: That's nice.
• 33:39
  Speaker 4: She said, every everything is a lie, you know, is
• 33:44
  Speaker 4: basically what this woman is saying to her. And Lisa's like, well, okay,
• 33:47
  Speaker 4: I have a question. If everything's a lie, I do
• 33:49
  Speaker 4: have a question for you. How is your daughter? And
• 33:52
  Speaker 4: that's like she's fine. So Legion had told her that
• 33:58
  Speaker 4: his ex's daughter died of COVID.
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: So everything is a lie. Oh my god, Oh my god,
• 34:10
  Speaker 3: ChEls again.
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's he he's he wasn't saying that that
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: was his daughter.
• 34:16
  Speaker 4: No, he was saying that those were his children, her children,
• 34:20
  Speaker 4: his ex's children that he had connection to.
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: Now we're killing off kids. This is taking a diabolical turn. Okay,
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: did not expect that?
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: That is dark?
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: Okay, wow, I mean we're we're now we're out of
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: the cognac cars and the pauper Affidavid and we're now
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: getting into something that I didn't expect.
• 34:40
  Speaker 3: Okay, whoa wow.
• 34:44
  Speaker 5: Well is going full right?
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 34:48
  Speaker 4: Ps, she does spare the ax that tidmit, she doesn't
• 34:52
  Speaker 4: tell her. Just want to throw that out there just
• 34:53
  Speaker 4: because es is a good person, like she is not
• 34:56
  Speaker 4: even going to put that darkness.
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, good for her. Stop, good choice. Right.
• 35:02
  Speaker 5: So now, yeah, she's like I'm going full Fbiica dot gov.
• 35:06
  Speaker 5: Like let's fake hear this out. So he has not
• 35:10
  Speaker 5: just one ex wife, but he has two.
• 35:13
  Speaker 3: Now.
• 35:15
  Speaker 5: The other weird thing is like, while this is all
• 35:17
  Speaker 5: going on, Legion's health kind of takes a turn. He's
• 35:21
  Speaker 5: got bad knees, he's laid up, he's in the guest room.
• 35:25
  Speaker 5: He's kind of unable to do much of anything. He's
• 35:28
  Speaker 5: he's on a lot of pain meds. He's drinking cases
• 35:31
  Speaker 5: of power aid. And he went from like you know,
• 35:35
  Speaker 5: he's shrinking four eyes. He went from a three X
• 35:38
  Speaker 5: to a one X. And then you know, she kind
• 35:43
  Speaker 5: of here like sorry, She's like, I'm gonna just I've
• 35:52
  Speaker 5: found out about these ex wives. I'm gonna confront him. Yeah,
• 35:56
  Speaker 5: we've got we've got peaches, we've got power. Yeah, we've
• 36:00
  Speaker 5: got a dead daughter who isn't dead. Yeah right, it's
• 36:04
  Speaker 5: just like enough is enough?
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: Right, he can't get up and run away because of
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: his knees. How old are they? By the way, do
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: we know.
• 36:11
  Speaker 4: Not question ease?
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, that's early for somewhere he needs to go.
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: But if he played football, which he probably didn't anyway, Okay.
• 36:21
  Speaker 5: So she goes in, you know, and he's in this
• 36:24
  Speaker 5: vulnerable state and she's like, listen, you never went to
• 36:27
  Speaker 5: San Diego State. They don't have record of this. You've
• 36:30
  Speaker 5: never even been to California, so they start just like
• 36:35
  Speaker 5: talking about getting divorced.
• 36:37
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  Speaker 5: But she didn't say everything right. She didn't tell him
• 43:53
  Speaker 5: about the ex wife. She held some things back, so
• 43:55
  Speaker 5: she's got some back pocket items. But you know, he
• 44:02
  Speaker 5: then gets on the phone with his aunt and she
• 44:04
  Speaker 5: can hear this.
• 44:06
  Speaker 3: She says, I'm lying.
• 44:08
  Speaker 5: I've never lied to her.
• 44:12
  Speaker 4: What happens like that? She'd like to hear that. So
• 44:17
  Speaker 4: she's been fairly measured with this. He said those words,
• 44:23
  Speaker 4: wow fun, and she's hearing it. Oh okay, And she
• 44:31
  Speaker 4: really based on how she's moved us through this story,
• 44:35
  Speaker 4: we never really hear her flip out on him. In fact,
• 44:38
  Speaker 4: I have a feeling she never flipped out on him,
• 44:41
  Speaker 4: not once. You know, she just is managing each situation
• 44:47
  Speaker 4: as it comes, and she's getting deeper and deeper into
• 44:50
  Speaker 4: this rabbit hole. But when she heard those words, it
• 44:56
  Speaker 4: snapped her, like that's straight up. You know. It's like
• 45:02
  Speaker 4: the houses, the cars, the miscarriage, the you know, all
• 45:06
  Speaker 4: of it, the wedding, the lies. And she the way
• 45:12
  Speaker 4: she explains it is, she's like, I could have taken
• 45:15
  Speaker 4: down a football team. I could. There's no amount of people, places,
• 45:22
  Speaker 4: or things that I couldn't have.
• 45:25
  Speaker 3: Ripped.
• 45:26
  Speaker 4: Apart from that moment, yes, she didn't. She's never seen
• 45:32
  Speaker 4: herself like that. She said. It was really scary. She
• 45:35
  Speaker 4: was looking around at things to throw. She was like,
• 45:37
  Speaker 4: I will destroy you know. Those words unleashed the monster
• 45:45
  Speaker 4: of what she's been through for the last you know,
• 45:48
  Speaker 4: year and change so to a year and a half.
• 45:52
  Speaker 4: So she gets her mother on the phone. I don't
• 45:54
  Speaker 4: remember if it's her putting her mother on the phone
• 45:57
  Speaker 4: or him suggesting, but now so the ants on speaker,
• 46:00
  Speaker 4: her mom's on speaker.
• 46:01
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, okay.
• 46:03
  Speaker 4: And her mother is a Christian woman. She takes to
• 46:08
  Speaker 4: the prayer, she hits the prayer, she hits the Bible.
• 46:11
  Speaker 4: She is not out here doing you know, she had
• 46:15
  Speaker 4: met him. The mom did meet him. She had some reservations,
• 46:19
  Speaker 4: but everything overall seemed good, so she didn't take those reservations, Teresa,
• 46:24
  Speaker 4: she took them to the Bible like every good person should.
• 46:28
  Speaker 3: Absolutely.
• 46:28
  Speaker 4: So her mother is hearing her daughter and she says
• 46:34
  Speaker 4: to this man, I'm gonna say to you, legion, I
• 46:42
  Speaker 4: don't know what my daughter is going to do right now,
• 46:45
  Speaker 4: but she may kill you. I would get out of
• 46:48
  Speaker 4: that house.
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: Wow.
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: Wow, Oh I cannot wait for this show.
• 46:57
  Speaker 3: I mean that is gonna be an epic line. Oh
• 47:00
  Speaker 3: my gosh.
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: Okay like this, yes mother, yes, mother, Okay.
• 47:06
  Speaker 4: And he so he's hearing the ants, the speakers he's hearing,
• 47:10
  Speaker 4: is he's seeing recent he's seeing her look at the
• 47:13
  Speaker 4: lamps and things that she's looking to, like what can
• 47:15
  Speaker 4: I throw? But he's acting like she's not gonna do anything.
• 47:22
  Speaker 4: And she gets real close into the camera to deliver
• 47:24
  Speaker 4: it to us, so we feel what she says to him,
• 47:27
  Speaker 4: and she goes, I'll beat you like the male bitch
• 47:31
  Speaker 4: you are. Don't try me.
• 47:40
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 47:41
  Speaker 3: Epic, yeah, absolutely epic.
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: Wow.
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: Ghost He walks, he limps out with his power aids,
• 47:49
  Speaker 2: his empty bottles of power aids, and bad knees.
• 47:52
  Speaker 5: Okay, Well the rub is here that the bottles actually
• 47:55
  Speaker 5: weren't empty. Once she got into that room.
• 47:59
  Speaker 3: He pissed an.
• 48:01
  Speaker 5: He pissed in them.
• 48:02
  Speaker 2: He pissed in the cans, the jars, the bar. Yeah,
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: of course that's what paupers do. They piss in johns.
• 48:10
  Speaker 2: You know, they're too lazy to get well. Look, you
• 48:14
  Speaker 2: know that is I mean, it just all checks out.
• 48:18
  Speaker 2: It's all coming in to my mind, is it all?
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: Oh wow?
• 48:22
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, So she's you know, she just in
• 48:27
  Speaker 5: this state of like disgusting woman unraveled. The man has left.
• 48:32
  Speaker 5: She just throws all of his shitt and bags, except
• 48:34
  Speaker 5: for those piss bottles, which I'm sure she threw out.
• 48:39
  Speaker 3: She should have gotten him tested, get him.
• 48:42
  Speaker 5: Yeah, so, you know, divorce is fully on the table,
• 48:50
  Speaker 5: you know. There, she's gonna figure this out. At this point,
• 48:54
  Speaker 5: Legion's cousin he goes off and to stay with his family.
• 48:57
  Speaker 5: I forget where. Oh hi, okay, somewhere random, okay, and
• 49:02
  Speaker 5: oh where did they live in Georgia? Okay, they're in Georgia.
• 49:07
  Speaker 5: So his cousin reaches out to her and basically saying,
• 49:11
  Speaker 5: I didn't even know that Legion had gotten married, and
• 49:15
  Speaker 5: this cousin is telling Resa, like, listen, he's telling me
• 49:19
  Speaker 5: that you cheated on him with someone in law enforcement.
• 49:23
  Speaker 5: But the cousin says, you know what, we know he's
• 49:27
  Speaker 5: a liar. So then from this cousin she learns. So
• 49:31
  Speaker 5: she's like, oh, I'm not going to waste this opportunity.
• 49:33
  Speaker 5: Let me get some facts here. He has two brothers,
• 49:37
  Speaker 5: not four, and he has an older brother, but the
• 49:42
  Speaker 5: other brother is his twin Wha this man has a
• 49:48
  Speaker 5: twin brother.
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: Oh okay, wow, when things get into twins, that's one
• 49:55
  Speaker 2: nikka weird, it gets weird.
• 49:59
  Speaker 5: So the brothers that she thought she had known, John
• 50:02
  Speaker 5: and Matt are not real. He has no sisters. She
• 50:10
  Speaker 5: thought he had two. Shante and Kim are not his sisters.
• 50:14
  Speaker 5: But he does have a cousin named Kim, but he
• 50:16
  Speaker 5: hasn't spoken with her in twenty years. Grandma died in
• 50:21
  Speaker 5: two thousand and eight, not in twenty twenty, which is
• 50:23
  Speaker 5: what he had told her.
• 50:24
  Speaker 4: So Gramma died of COVID. He loves to kill people
• 50:27
  Speaker 4: off with this COVID.
• 50:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah, he is love COVID.
• 50:31
  Speaker 5: I mean it's worked to his advantage a lot, you know.
• 50:33
  Speaker 5: So he's going for it. But so he's living with
• 50:38
  Speaker 5: his family and then they kick him out.
• 50:41
  Speaker 4: Yeax. So so he's kicked out with the family and
• 50:47
  Speaker 4: we're winding down here, Amy getting we're taking you through
• 50:50
  Speaker 4: the finish line here, okay, just to I AM give
• 50:53
  Speaker 4: you a sense of things.
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: I just really I just want to pause one second
• 50:58
  Speaker 2: and say, I don't know where this is going to
• 51:02
  Speaker 2: end up, essentially, but I hope that the twins are
• 51:09
  Speaker 2: somehow being each other in different situations and that it's
• 51:15
  Speaker 2: turning out to be them bamboozling people. But okay, I will,
• 51:21
  Speaker 2: I'll rest there, Okay, carry on.
• 51:24
  Speaker 4: Interesting, Interesting, Okay. So she is like figured out how
• 51:30
  Speaker 4: to get a divorce.
• 51:32
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, he's half of his size.
• 51:36
  Speaker 3: So it's the other twin.
• 51:40
  Speaker 2: Now never mind, okay, never mind, Okay, sorry, sorry, I'm
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: gonna stop.
• 51:43
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna say, well, honestly, honestly.
• 51:46
  Speaker 3: It's I'm step Okay, go ahead.
• 51:48
  Speaker 4: No. So she is like ready to go, She's got
• 51:52
  Speaker 4: her divorce papers, he has to sign them. So he's
• 51:56
  Speaker 4: been kicked out of his house. He's going to see
• 51:58
  Speaker 4: someone other family, he says, somewhere in Georgia. She is
• 52:02
  Speaker 4: a couple hours away wherever he is. She brings I
• 52:05
  Speaker 4: think someone with her. They go, they meet him at
• 52:09
  Speaker 4: a FedEx type place and she takes one look at him,
• 52:14
  Speaker 4: and it's like startling because even in the few weeks,
• 52:20
  Speaker 4: and I honestly think she was on such a tear
• 52:23
  Speaker 4: for like a few weeks before the full meltdown, like
• 52:27
  Speaker 4: she wasn't like looking at him, do you know what
• 52:30
  Speaker 4: I mean? She was so so she's looking. He hasn't
• 52:34
  Speaker 4: bathed in days. He's completely disheveled. He's extremely thin, like
• 52:41
  Speaker 4: half of the size he was who he's just a
• 52:45
  Speaker 4: shell of what he was. He signs a document. In
• 52:50
  Speaker 4: that document which he didn't read, everything has been signed
• 52:55
  Speaker 4: to her. So anything that's in the house, they don't
• 52:59
  Speaker 4: have any they don't have any assets. But he had
• 53:02
  Speaker 4: like a bunch of fancy watches. We don't know how
• 53:04
  Speaker 4: he got them, but they're in the house. His book
• 53:08
  Speaker 4: bag with a bunch of paperwork. Everything is in the house.
• 53:12
  Speaker 4: So he signs that off and then she goes and
• 53:16
  Speaker 4: she looks, and he goes to his car and she's like,
• 53:18
  Speaker 4: oh my god, he's living in his car.
• 53:20
  Speaker 3: Oh whoa, whoa.
• 53:23
  Speaker 4: And she goes, look, I'll cash app you some money
• 53:28
  Speaker 4: for chicken strips.
• 53:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and she does.
• 53:33
  Speaker 4: When she gets you know, at the end.
• 53:35
  Speaker 5: Of the day, she's not a monster.
• 53:37
  Speaker 3: No, that's sad. That's sad.
• 53:40
  Speaker 4: It is sad. It's dark. Yeah, it's really dark.
• 53:43
  Speaker 2: He killed his twins, right, and he's using his Social
• 53:45
  Speaker 2: Security number two?
• 53:47
  Speaker 3: Okay, sorry, And.
• 53:49
  Speaker 4: So she gets back home and she starts looking through things.
• 53:57
  Speaker 5: Yeah, she gets into like his book bag and there
• 54:00
  Speaker 5: or you know, she sees that he was never a
• 54:03
  Speaker 5: VP at this condement company, but he did work at one,
• 54:06
  Speaker 5: but he was fired at some point when they were together.
• 54:09
  Speaker 5: And then you know there's lies about where his grandparents
• 54:12
  Speaker 5: were buried. Mind you, they had like gone to visit
• 54:15
  Speaker 5: the cemetery, like yeah, real strange unemployment papers, temp agency paperwork,
• 54:23
  Speaker 5: even like weekend or jail receipts.
• 54:26
  Speaker 3: Oh so it's weird in there.
• 54:30
  Speaker 2: Oh wow, he's got like a whole I mean, he's
• 54:34
  Speaker 2: exposing himself.
• 54:35
  Speaker 3: Why keep such records?
• 54:38
  Speaker 4: Right? Well, you know, it's interesting and I would love
• 54:42
  Speaker 4: to at some point do a deep dive on these
• 54:45
  Speaker 4: types of liars, these pathological liars, because it's either that
• 54:50
  Speaker 4: they're really good at picking the people who will dance
• 54:54
  Speaker 4: with the lies or it's so deep that they don't
• 55:02
  Speaker 4: even it's not he's not even hiding anything.
• 55:06
  Speaker 2: Right in that ways, You're right, and that is definitely
• 55:10
  Speaker 2: a theme with people who are like that. They it's
• 55:14
  Speaker 2: like they're not hiding in plain sight, they're just not
• 55:18
  Speaker 2: hiding at all. Really, it's all out there, pddy, you know,
• 55:23
  Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, you know, you're just forward facing,
• 55:27
  Speaker 2: even though in his situation he's just like a pathological
• 55:29
  Speaker 2: liar obviously among other things. But to have all of
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: that stuff in like within reach of her for however long,
• 55:40
  Speaker 2: give her the password to his phone.
• 55:43
  Speaker 3: Right, yeah?
• 55:44
  Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, So she calls Legion's older brother and finds
• 55:52
  Speaker 4: out like, yeah, babe, because that's who for the year
• 55:57
  Speaker 4: and change that they were together year and a half,
• 56:00
  Speaker 4: every day he is on the phone with him every
• 56:03
  Speaker 4: day every morning.
• 56:04
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 56:05
  Speaker 4: He said he hadn't talked to him in years, and
• 56:08
  Speaker 4: this is the twin.
• 56:10
  Speaker 3: This is the older brother, the older brother.
• 56:12
  Speaker 4: Okay, yes, and he's like, I basically I don't deal
• 56:16
  Speaker 4: with him anymore. Wow, I haven't spoken to him. She's like,
• 56:19
  Speaker 4: but I listened every morning to the conversations. They were detailed.
• 56:24
  Speaker 4: They were so you know this, that and the other,
• 56:27
  Speaker 4: and he's like, I can't say that he wasn't on
• 56:30
  Speaker 4: the phone with someone, but he wasn't on the phone
• 56:32
  Speaker 4: with me. So then she goes, you know, but my,
• 56:37
  Speaker 4: but Legion's twin brother does help him out financially from
• 56:41
  Speaker 4: time to time. He hasn't written him off, and now chills.
• 56:47
  Speaker 4: What we learn is the twin, the twin is a
• 56:53
  Speaker 4: VP of a company. The twin drives a luxury car.
• 56:58
  Speaker 2: Oh my god.
• 56:59
  Speaker 4: The twin has a fortified bedroom home and a family.
• 57:08
  Speaker 5: So he single white, femaled his brother, Oh my god,
• 57:16
  Speaker 5: oh my god.
• 57:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 57:19
  Speaker 4: He also confirms that he has an actual daughter, which
• 57:25
  Speaker 4: she didn't know about.
• 57:27
  Speaker 3: Oh wow, whoa.
• 57:29
  Speaker 4: And he yeah, And he tells her to run Legion's
• 57:33
  Speaker 4: criminal history, which for some reason, and I don't understand
• 57:38
  Speaker 4: how that didn't get run because she ran everything else,
• 57:43
  Speaker 4: but she runs it.
• 57:45
  Speaker 3: The daughter's criminal history.
• 57:47
  Speaker 4: I'm sorry, no, the Legions like the brothers like, go ahead,
• 57:52
  Speaker 4: because she said, I think she asked him about has
• 57:55
  Speaker 4: he done anything criminal and he didn't even know exactly
• 57:59
  Speaker 4: what he had done because as he's been out of
• 58:00
  Speaker 4: the loop with his brother. He's like, you should run
• 58:03
  Speaker 4: his criminal history, which and this is you know, I
• 58:07
  Speaker 4: think she had access to for a while. But she
• 58:11
  Speaker 4: doesn't go into why she never ran that.
• 58:14
  Speaker 3: But didn't She isn't that what a background check is.
• 58:17
  Speaker 4: It didn't come up with so for whatever reason that
• 58:21
  Speaker 4: I don't know, maybe it's a step I don't know,
• 58:24
  Speaker 4: she never seemed to run that. And it seems like
• 58:26
  Speaker 4: she could just go to work from what she said
• 58:28
  Speaker 4: and be like whoop, like once she had the right
• 58:30
  Speaker 4: social and it comes up that, so oh wait, he says,
• 58:37
  Speaker 4: to do that. She also goes into the deleted files
• 58:42
  Speaker 4: on whatever phone or it seems like she had one
• 58:46
  Speaker 4: of his phones, and she finds the screenshots of the
• 58:51
  Speaker 4: bank account with the clipbard.
• 58:53
  Speaker 5: Right, and she does a Google search.
• 58:56
  Speaker 3: Uh huh, he just ripped it off Google.
• 59:00
  Speaker 4: Yeh good old fashioned reverse.
• 59:03
  Speaker 2: Oh god, oh my god, Oh my god, oh my god.
• 59:09
  Speaker 4: The company car.
• 59:13
  Speaker 3: Oh Deanna, we lost you. We can't hear you.
• 59:17
  Speaker 4: Company car, the company car, the house in San Diego,
• 59:23
  Speaker 4: all off Google images.
• 59:25
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, jeez, wow, Google, really don't sleep on Google.
• 59:32
  Speaker 3: You can have a life.
• 59:37
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it can give you a life if you know
• 59:40
  Speaker 4: how to yield it correctly. And she met it like,
• 59:43
  Speaker 4: he wasn't a VP, he was a tempt He had
• 59:46
  Speaker 4: a temporary forklift loader job at that same company, at
• 59:50
  Speaker 4: the content company. Oh okay, but it's you know, she
• 59:54
  Speaker 4: was getting so confused. But he got fired from that,
• 59:57
  Speaker 4: which you to know. But she's like, he was making
• 59:58
  Speaker 4: decent money. But then when she really like ran the numbers,
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 4: she's like, okay, I think he was making enough to
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 4: cover because he was covering the bills at her apartment,
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 4: so he was making enough to cover things. So you know,
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 4: all of that we have to remember when you think
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 4: about how she got herself into this situation. But you know,
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 4: some other things go on. She called his the aunt
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 4: who wasn't really an aunt, gives her a call because
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 4: he's trying to stay with her. She thinks she's asking
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 4: about the baby because he lied to her and said
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 4: she had the that they had had the baby, and
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 4: she kept trying to see the baby and see pictures.
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 2: Of the baby.
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 4: Oh my god, and the aunts, who was really her
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 4: mom's best friend, was like, I don't know if I
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 4: should even have him here, and she was like you
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 4: do what you you know, like you know, ma'am, ma'am,
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 4: you do you, I'm out, you know. And in that
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 4: criminal report she finds out he trespassed, he did this,
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 4: he did that. But the big thing he did, which
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 4: is I think a federal crime, is he pretended to
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 4: be a police officer.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 3: Whoa, I got caught. Oh my gosh, so you know, Amy, Wow.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 4: The divorce, the divorce was finalized. She never heard from him.
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 4: I'm sorry, the divorce was finalized. She never heard from
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 4: him again. But there is something fun.
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 3: What the series.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 4: Getting signed to Cia?
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 5: Yep, getting her dollars, getting.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 3: Her dollars, she really is. Now, my god, that.
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's that's the you know, long and the short event.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 2: You guys did such a phenomenal I would say, musical,
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 2: just glorious narrative of this story encapsulated and trunk truncated,
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 2: encapsulated beautifully, uh, dramatized.
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 3: In all the right ways. I am so pleased.
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 2: And honestly, the time went by really fast, Like I
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 2: feel like I could talk to you for another hour
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 2: solid and and it will be like it would have
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 2: gone like that. Oh my gosh, are his parents did
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 2: his parents?
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 3: Were his parents really deceased?
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 4: Yes?
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 5: Yeah they were?
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 4: Okay, okay, but they she said, they were pastor. Like
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 4: the pastor she she brought her to their church. They
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 4: don't have a church. They weren't pastors.
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 2: Oh man, okay. And who was the person he was
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 2: talking to every day? There was his brother? Still don't know.
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 4: They she thinks he was talking to himself.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 3: But oh so it was never on speaker, no.
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 4: H yeah, I mean it doesn't feel great.
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 5: So I gotta take this. Hey, it's my brother. That's good,
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 5: I believe.
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 2: I was like, wow, So was he ever admitted to
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 2: a psychiatric ward or anything like that? Did he have
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 2: any past records of him being a like in the hospital.
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 4: It does not that came up. But again, her searches
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 4: where they she seemed to drill down hard in certain
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 4: areas and lose them in the others. So it's I
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 4: don't know if it did, would that come up? Is
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 4: that like a hip a thing? I don't know, what
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 4: does that come up?
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 5: Well, And it's funny that like maybe no one ever
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 5: said anything, but they all knew he was a sothological liar.
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 5: Like every family member was like, oh no, he lies.
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 5: We all know. So it's it's hard to say, you know,
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 5: maybe obviously there is some mental health that is not
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 5: being addressed big time.
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 2: I mean, well, the whole episode in the bedroom with
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 2: him sitting there for days and losing all that weight
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 2: seems like a very depressive.
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 3: Episode.
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's what's concerning because there's obviously something more
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 2: there happening.
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 4: And oh yeah, it almost felt like to me where
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 4: his energy of all the lies, and it's like and
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 4: this is where he peters out, you know too, like
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 4: it doesn't have legs for years. These marriages end quickly,
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 4: so he was probably tapping out as well because it's
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 4: only so much he can do. I mean, it's a
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 4: horrible Listen, it's a horrible condition. Question Mark, Wait, a
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 4: lot of you know, I don't know what it falls under.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 5: No, no, me neither. But yeah, it's like both of
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 5: them were so just undone by this lie ongoing live.
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 2: It's so interesting to me that these two people got
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 2: together because I don't remember which one of you said this,
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 2: but but it's like he whether or not he looks
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 2: for someone that can fall for his lies or whatever,
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 2: but it is you see this all the time, where
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 2: people are brought together because someone wants to believe something,
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 2: because they want to have their dreams come true. You know,
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 2: she probably she wanted to fall in love, she wanted
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 2: to get married, she wanted to have a house, in
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 2: a nice car and have a child. And sometimes when
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 2: someone is bringing all that to you, you like you
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 2: guys had touched on, you're willing to overlook it. And
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 2: that there you know, her responsibility and all this is
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 2: pretty significant as well, I mean, considering how much she
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 2: let slide by her, and that's really a matter of
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 2: like just her lying to her own self, and so
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 2: for him, and like the mental health issue, it's certainly
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 2: something like obviously it's incredibly manic to be telling these lies,
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 2: and like you said, it's only a matter of time
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 2: before it peters out, because it's a lot to keep
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 2: up with the charade, and you know you're going to
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 2: be found out eventually, and so you just kind of
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 2: like don't care anymore. Wow, what a reckless I didn't
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 2: realize it was this dark Holy shit, wow wow.
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 5: Wow, Which is why, like the series is going to
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 5: be amazing.
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 3: Right, Like noone is going to be incredible hair closet.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 5: I want to see Amber, I want to see it all,
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 5: Like I'm so excited, and I'm sure there's some details
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 5: that maybe will be sprinkled in.
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 2: Probably, Yeah, the prayer closet thing and her recording all
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 2: this is wild to me, considering that she was allowing
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 2: all this to go on and yet recording like the
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 2: proof and the timeline and the screenshots.
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 4: You know. It's something Emily and I have talked about
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 4: when we first heard this story, is that we have
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 4: all we have all been her, just on different scales,
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 4: like absolutely we relatable and it is of course, this
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 4: is just such a big version.
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 2: It's the most extreme situation. Yeah, possible, Yes.
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 4: But we've all had these momes. As you were just
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 4: saying it, I'm thinking about, you know, when I was
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 4: online dating right before I met my husband, and this
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 4: one guy, very good looking, and love bombs me so
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 4: hard in the first two days, and you're like, well,
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 4: it could be, this could be, you know, and it didn't.
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 3: You know, I.
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 4: Had enough of whatever to not go down the road.
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 4: But it certainly feels good. And then you think of
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 4: like the movies and how some thing's move really quickly
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 4: and the stories you've heard, and you're like, it could be.
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 2: And then also COVID, but the other thing is too, like, look,
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 2: there aren't a lot.
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 4: Of man Bard. Yeah, COVID, Yeah.
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 3: I will always get that. I get that.
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 2: And then the whole you came, you fix my tire,
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 2: you paid for everything. I mean, that'll get me sailing
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 2: by at least a year, you know, I mean, I
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 2: get it, especially if you've had a lot of schmucks
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 2: in your life, and and maybe she had. I don't
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 2: know that side of the story, but that could be
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 2: part of the narrative when we see it. So I
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 2: hope that he's somewhere getting the help.
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 3: That he needs for one. And I almost hope that
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 3: he gets a little bit.
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 2: Of money for this too, so that he can, you know,
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 2: because it's kind of his story too.
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 5: But whatever, his own chicken strips, and he.
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 3: Could buy his own chicken strips.
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 2: God, you guys are a beautiful storytellers, and I'm grateful
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 2: for this day. And I wouldn't have wanted to hear
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 2: it from her. It's almost it's more fun to hear
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 2: it from you guys. I hope there's another story you
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 2: guys can.
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 3: Tell me, because it's fun. You're narrators.
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 4: I enjoyed this, you know. It's it's an unexpected request,
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 4: and it is. It was delightful to get to you know,
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 4: you can just truncate a story that has had over
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 4: four hundred and fifty million impressions.
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 3: So what are you serious?
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I mean it blew up, she blew up.
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 5: It's it's it's an incredible this story to take new life.
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 5: So I couldn't be more excited for the series. I
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 5: really yeah.
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 4: Maybe we can come back when it launches and do something.
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 3: Oh that would be fun to kind of recap the show.
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 2: Do you think it's gonna be want like a full
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 2: movie or do you think it's gonna be a TV
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 2: series like, uh, this is separated like episode okay, yeah,
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 2: and we don't know what network or anything like that.
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 4: ABC, I believe has don't quote me on that, but
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 4: I believe Natasha Rothwell has An has a production company
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 4: called Big Hattie Productions, and she will be playing to
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 4: the best of my understanding, Risa Tisa, and they are
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 4: developing it, I believe for ABC, but I'm not one
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 4: hundred percent sure on that, but I believe it's being
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 4: developed with ABC.
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 3: That's huge.
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 2: I mean I never would have thought that would have
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 2: said Hulu, Netflix.
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 5: I mean, it's ripe for lifetime. Let's be honest. It's
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 5: so like, yeah, but I'm glad it's going to get
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 5: like a full different life than that.
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, yes, I mean this would be a
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 2: lifetime movie and it would be so short and you
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 2: would be like you'd miss so much. So I'm so
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 2: happy about that.
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 3: It's going to be right.
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 4: We need like so much just with you know, the
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 4: twin Brother like that's that, you know, we need. We
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 4: can't scamp you.
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 5: Know, brand deals with power aid and yeah, yeah, interiors,
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 5: a lot of things need to fall in place.
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 3: Incredible, Well, darling, yeah you heard this.
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 4: I'm peeking around to see about the ABC thing because
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 4: I'm If it's wrong, I will let you know and
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 4: we maybe throw it in a little note in something,
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 4: you know. But I believe that that's where it's being developed.
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 2: How to Be less Old the podcast How to Be
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 2: Lesseled the Substack.
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 3: It's fantastic.
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 2: I even got my my little email today from your
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 2: substack and I loved the.
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 5: Hold on.
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 3: I got to pull it up because it made me laugh.
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 3: Where is it?
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 2: Oh?
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 3: And I can't find it.
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 2: Today's substack is about the lingo?
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  Speaker 5: What is it?
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 3: The lingo behind so?
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 4: And do you have five more minutes? Or do you
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 4: not have five more minutes? Are you done?
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 3: I gotta go pick up maybe door.
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 4: Well, listen, guys to all the dar little darlins. If
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 4: you did, if you did, march yourself over to Substack
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 4: and you wanted to become a paid subscriber today, you know,
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 4: if you don't want to do that, feel free to
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 4: just download the podcast as well. These are complimentary pieces.
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 4: But in today's Substack we go over the mustaches in
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 4: September because there seems to be just an avalanche of
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 4: mustaches that we needed to look at and think about
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 4: and see where we Yeah, they're in fashion right now.
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 4: And we also touch on Mormon sex line.
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 3: Oh that's the thing that I saw. Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 2: Mormon's sex slang amazing, amazing.
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 4: For everybody who enjoyed the Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 4: There's some sex slang that wasn't necessarily in season one,
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 4: but doesn't form a lot that is in that post.
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 4: So I'm at it.
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 5: Are you docking? We don't know? Maybe you are?
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 3: Ooh nice teaser to.
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 5: Find out what it means.
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 2: Wow, okay, okay, Emily Foster, You're just a delight and
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 2: you're so You're so pretty, You're so classy, Deanna Chang.
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 2: I just love you to pieces and I'm thrilled to
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 2: be able to to be in your listener's ears.
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 3: So Hi, everybody, Hi, how to.
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 2: Be less old fans excited to meet you?
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 4: Yes, I mean let me welcome you in. That's part
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 4: of the deal. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Welcome into Drama Darling,
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  Speaker 4: where Amy Phillips, the Great Amy Phillips, the impersonator of
• 1:14:20
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• 1:14:27
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• 1:14:31
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• 1:14:40
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• 1:14:46
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• 1:14:50
  Speaker 4: she's a daily bitch.
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 3: Okay. I like to work. I like to work.
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you can find me Tuesdays and Thursdays wherever you
• 1:14:59
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• 1:15:12
  Speaker 2: and Emily, thank you very much and have a lovely weekend.
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 5: Thank you to Amy.
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 4: That was so much fun, so fun.
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