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DLHS Hour 2 | Rather Date a Daddy’s Girl or Momma’s Girl · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: It is the D.L. Hughley Show, your 2026 edition. If
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  Speaker 1: Who do you think is more difficult for juniors? We've
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  Speaker 1: conceded the fact that there is a difference. What do
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  Speaker 1: you think the difference is between a daddy's girl and
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  Speaker 1: a mama's girl?
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  Speaker 2: Well, mama's girls will.
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  Speaker 3: You know, they'll have all of the basics covered on nurturing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. See, like that, yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And they're more, you know, concerned and loving. They're better. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And easier. They're better.
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  Speaker 3: Easier to take advantage of. I mean, but no, a
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  Speaker 3: daddy's girl, no, there is very little that you can
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  Speaker 3: do or get away with as a datee or a
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  Speaker 3: person dating. You want to have a daddy's girl, but
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  Speaker 3: you don't want to be with one. Yeah, because the
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  Speaker 3: daddy's girl has wide open communications with their daddies.
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  Speaker 2: And so, you know.
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  Speaker 5: Right.
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  Speaker 2: This is telling all my moves. No, no, no, no, no, no. So, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: This is telling all my moves. And daddy want to
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  Speaker 2: talk to you. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: It's associated with a high portion of self-esteem.
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  Speaker 2: Yuck. Yeah. Yeah. An enforced moral. Oh, my goodness. This
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  Speaker 2: woman knew she was loved growing up. Disgusting. Yeah. I think, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I think there's a distinct difference.
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  Speaker 1: You know, you think that, you know, a mother's, somebody
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  Speaker 1: with her mama a lot, assuming her mama was like.
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  Speaker 2: Because she could have her mama's stank attitude, too.
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  Speaker 1: That could happen, too, though. It ain't like that, you know,
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  Speaker 1: that can't happen. It ain't always that positive. But I
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  Speaker 1: think on balance, daddy's girls are tougher today than mama's girls.
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  Speaker 2: Mama's girls.
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  Speaker 1: You know, in the classic description of them, if we're
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  Speaker 1: being stereotypical and I keep saying that, you know, all
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  Speaker 1: things aren't the same. But if we're talking about a
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  Speaker 1: daddy's girl, daddy's girl, she's very spoiled. Wouldn't that be
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  Speaker 1: that would that be the notion you conjure up when
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  Speaker 1: you think of her, right, Sanders?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, absolutely.
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  Speaker 5: Well, first of all, I think you mimic what you've seen.
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  Speaker 6: Right.
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  Speaker 5: So, you know, if you watched your like you watched
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  Speaker 5: your dad take care of the family no matter what.
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  Speaker 5: And so you mimic that. That's exactly what you've done.
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  Speaker 5: You take care of the way he loved the girls. Now,
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  Speaker 5: how he loved you might have been different, but how
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  Speaker 5: he loved, you know, your sister.
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  Speaker 2: You can read all about it.
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  Speaker 5: But that's exactly what you did. You created that same
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  Speaker 5: kind of situation between you and.
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  Speaker 6: Right.
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  Speaker 5: And I think the same thing goes for girls who
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  Speaker 5: were raised without a father or with one.
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  Speaker 2: If you are.
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  Speaker 5: Closer to your mother, you tend to do exactly what
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  Speaker 5: she did. If she had food ready when when daddy
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  Speaker 5: came in, that's what you tend to do.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I often, you know, tease Elena.
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  Speaker 5: A little bit my assistant because she's just like her
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  Speaker 5: mom you know she's very nurturing she's very you know
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  Speaker 5: let me do this and that for you she's very
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  Speaker 5: much like a mom because she's a mom's girl not
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  Speaker 5: a daddy's girl and a lot of times moms yeah
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  Speaker 5: i'm a dad's girl yeah yeah you are you know
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  Speaker 5: what that means she's disgusting yeah handle all these things
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  Speaker 5: yeah i think i was right in my opinion but
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  Speaker 5: i'm a mama's boy so let me call her and
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  Speaker 5: make sure i was there you go but you know
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  Speaker 5: mama's girls are really for a lot of times their
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  Speaker 5: relationships are formed because there's a lot of turbulence.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I mean? They clung to each other
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  Speaker 2: because that's kind of all they had. You know what
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  Speaker 2: I mean? Right.
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  Speaker 1: Like, I know that when Raya was going through cancer,
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  Speaker 1: she was, you know, pregnant with her youngest daughter. And
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  Speaker 1: they have a different kind of relationship because, you know,
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  Speaker 1: it was a trauma that brought them together. You know
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  Speaker 1: what I mean? They clearly have a different kind of relationship.
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  Speaker 1: You know, not better, but definitely one that is born
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  Speaker 1: of a different experience. And I think a lot of
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  Speaker 1: mama's girls, you know, that's all they had and they
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  Speaker 1: talked to– they would say they were best friends, a
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  Speaker 1: lot of them typically.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 6: Yep.
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  Speaker 2: So I think that.
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  Speaker 1: If– because these are all stereotypical and they're assumed because everything–
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  Speaker 1: we make that point constantly that everything's not the same.
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  Speaker 1: But daddy's girls typically are spoiled. I'll call my daddy,
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  Speaker 1: that kind of thing.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I mean? You know, like if he–
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  Speaker 2: if you won't do it, he will, that kind of thing.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, but I also and in very and I think
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  Speaker 5: it to be true. I think it comes from what
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  Speaker 5: daddies instill in daughters because they know what men can do,
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  Speaker 5: what their motives can be. And so they teach you.
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  Speaker 5: I told you there's really only one or two motives
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  Speaker 5: that my my daddy told me. Don't you ever take
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  Speaker 5: care of a man?
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 2: There's only new. Go ahead.
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  Speaker 1: There used to be only one motive, but that was
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  Speaker 1: that was it.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 1: I think now with this iteration of new dudes, they
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  Speaker 1: want money and. I think it used to be one thing,
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  Speaker 1: and it used to be I want to get in
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  Speaker 1: your pants. Now I'm going to get in your pants
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  Speaker 1: and your wallet.
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  Speaker 2: So I did. No, really, I'm thinking classically.
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  Speaker 1: There was generally a thing when we were growing up
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  Speaker 1: that was that one thing that you were on the
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  Speaker 1: lookout for.
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  Speaker 2: Now it's all these dudes. They want you to be
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  Speaker 2: their woman and their mama.
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  Speaker 1: How else can you hone up on those PlayStation skills
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  Speaker 1: if you've got to work instead? Yeah, and a lot
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  Speaker 1: of daddies in my day, they wouldn't have ever thought
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  Speaker 1: to prepare you for something like that.
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  Speaker 2: They would have just been a non-starter. Yeah. But now
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  Speaker 2: that is something. This whole fake 49er dude.
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  Speaker 7: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: It's just kind of a whole different thing. They've got
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  Speaker 1: more things to look out for, which means a father
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  Speaker 1: is more important, which means he's more– Somebody got a fool.
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  Speaker 2: Jesus Christ, it's getting rough out here.
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  Speaker 1: You're right because you said this off air, but a
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  Speaker 1: daddy's girl, a daddy.
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  Speaker 2: Would have knew that wasn't on the 49ers. Let me
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  Speaker 2: see that. He wouldn't even, all he had to do
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  Speaker 2: was see the tape. This, he can't play football at all.
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  Speaker 2: Wait a minute, baby. Don't get your money back. Don't you?
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  Speaker 2: And that's what happened.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: You can tell. You can tell.
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  Speaker 1: Yep. But a lot of those women, they liked the
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  Speaker 1: idea of being with an athlete.
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  Speaker 5: Well, I think women like the idea of being with
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  Speaker 5: an athlete first for the money and two for the money.
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  Speaker 2: Yep, that's what I was going to say. The money
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  Speaker 2: and the body.
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  Speaker 3: That's true. It's a reverse honeypot, really. The ones that
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  Speaker 3: are searching for that free ride, you know, they get taken.
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  Speaker 2: And the other ones that are desperate, they get taken.
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  Speaker 1: Because the only way you give somebody money like that
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  Speaker 1: if you knew he was going to give it back
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  Speaker 1: to you, if he had all these houses, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to give him this, he's going to give
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  Speaker 1: me something even better.
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  Speaker 2: That was an investment. Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: All I know is if a dude who allegedly has
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  Speaker 5: a lot of money is asking me for money, I
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  Speaker 5: know two things. One, he lying. And two, I'm never
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  Speaker 5: going to get the money back if I give it
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  Speaker 5: to him because whatever money he had.
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  Speaker 2: He lost. That's why you don't ever have to worry
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  Speaker 2: about you.
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  Speaker 8: That's right.
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  Speaker 3: Say it twice.
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  Speaker 5: Matter of fact, don't you owe me $ 10 right now?
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  Speaker 2: I would never owe you.
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  Speaker 1: I would never take any money from you under any
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  Speaker 1: circumstances whatsoever.
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  Speaker 2: Word to the wives, fellas. Save it. Then we're going
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  Speaker 2: to go to the phones.
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  Speaker 6: I think it's more harder to date a daddy's girl.
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  Speaker 6: My son, for example, he has an eight-year-old daughter and
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  Speaker 6: she is far rotten. And he already told her she
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  Speaker 6: is not allowed to date until she is 45 years old.
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  Speaker 6: So I think it's harder to date daddy's girl. So
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  Speaker 6: if he goes back to the scene where bad boys
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  Speaker 6: were Will Smith and Martin Lawrence, that's the kind of
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  Speaker 6: daddy he's going to be. He's going to give them hell.
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  Speaker 9: Most definitely mama's girl because they haven't learned how to
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  Speaker 9: treat her.
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  Speaker 1: They've never been in contact with a man where the
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  Speaker 1: man raised and taught her how to treat a man.
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  Speaker 1: That's what's missing.
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  Speaker 8: I think that a mother's girl is way worse. A
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  Speaker 8: mother's girl can't adapt her mother's attitude, and a father's daughter...
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  Speaker 8: could potentially learn how to respect men more.
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  Speaker 10: And mothers, daughters are more independent, disrespectful to their spouse
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  Speaker 10: and so forth and so on versus a father's daughter
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  Speaker 10: where she learns how to be submissive and loving and,
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  Speaker 10: you know, genuine to a man. So that's the difference.
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  Speaker 1: Who do you think is harder to date, a mama's,
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  Speaker 1: a daddy's girl, or a mama's girl?
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  Speaker 2: So we're going through the phones.
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  Speaker 7: A daddy's girl. That is the most difficult, and I know,
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  Speaker 7: my husband said to me, he'll.
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  Speaker 2: Tell you I'm difficult. It's like this.
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  Speaker 7: I come with so much knowledge and I can change
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  Speaker 7: my tire. I can do, I'm a welder. I can
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  Speaker 7: fix my own stuff. I'm just like handy. So men
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  Speaker 7: kind of like get intimidated by that. Like I don't
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  Speaker 7: need them and I'm not saying I don't, but I'm
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  Speaker 7: not a damsel in distress.
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  Speaker 6: Let's put it like that.
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  Speaker 9: The question would be.
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  Speaker 6: Does a mama's girl have a daddy?
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  Speaker 10: Because it's not.
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  Speaker 9: Hands down, I'd rather date the daddy's girl because she
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  Speaker 9: understands a man because she.
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  Speaker 2: Was raised by one, 100%.
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  Speaker 5: A mama's girl, because she's going to act like a mama,
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  Speaker 5: and then you have two instead of one.
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  Speaker 7: Mama's going to help make all her decisions.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, man.
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  Speaker 9: To be honest with you, I feel like it is
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  Speaker 9: much harder dating a mama's girl than a daddy's girl.
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  Speaker 9: Reason why I say that is because with a daddy's girl,
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  Speaker 9: you have to worry about another man, you know, letting
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  Speaker 9: you know that this is how she's supposed to be
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  Speaker 9: treated when she could have a different opinion on how
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  Speaker 9: she wants to be treated. But a mama's girl... Anything
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  Speaker 9: that happens in a relationship always can go back to
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  Speaker 9: the mom, and the mom always got to go with
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  Speaker 9: her with this, and the mom has to do this
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  Speaker 9: for her. It's basically like a conflict of interest to me, man.
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  Speaker 9: I've dated a mama's girl before, man. I'm married now,
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  Speaker 9: but speaking from past tense, I dated a mama's girl,
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  Speaker 9: and there's nothing worse than having somebody having another opinion
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  Speaker 9: inside of a relationship because then you can't you can't
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  Speaker 9: allow yourself to talk to your partner without the other
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  Speaker 9: opinions of other people you know what i mean.
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  Speaker 1: It's time to present another diploma from my school a
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  Speaker 1: real good book learner.
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  Speaker 2: School is now in session who do we have on
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  Speaker 2: the phone Oh, this is Mary.
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  Speaker 6: Hi. Hi, Mary.
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  Speaker 2: How are you?
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  Speaker 7: I'm good.
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  Speaker 2: One Mary, or did you just marry or marry Mary?
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  Speaker 2: Which one?
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  Speaker 8: No, just Mary.
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  Speaker 2: All right. Where you from, Mary?
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  Speaker 7: I'm in Carmel, Indiana.
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  Speaker 8: Oh, Indiana.
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  Speaker 2: All right. So that's Carmel, Indiana. That's nice. That's a way.
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  Speaker 2: A lot of people don't live there, boy. They got
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  Speaker 2: to get the hell out of there fast.
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  Speaker 4: I see you're driving through, huh? You must be on
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  Speaker 4: your way to clay after that. All right.
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  Speaker 2: So Skip is going to tell you what the rules are.
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  Speaker 1: I have to be impartial, even though it is my school,
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  Speaker 1: it is my academy.
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  Speaker 2: But, you know, I got to have the same impartiality. Skip,
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  Speaker 2: tell her what's going to happen. All right, Mary, I'm
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  Speaker 2: going to give you a word that you're going to
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  Speaker 2: have to use in a sentence. All right, I'm not
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  Speaker 2: going to tell you what the meaning of the word is.
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  Speaker 2: You're just going to have to know it.
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  Speaker 9: And then I'm going to let Jasmine take her turn,
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  Speaker 9: and then we'll go to the President D.L.
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  Speaker 2: And give him a shot at it, all right? Hurry up,
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  Speaker 2: she's going to get pulled over by the police.
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  Speaker 5: After everybody goes, we'll find out who was right, okay?
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  Speaker 2: All right, Mary. The word is ablution.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, wow.
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  Speaker 7: You better go to Jasmine.
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  Speaker 6: Come on, Mary.
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  Speaker 2: You can do it. Give it a shot.
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  Speaker 7: Give it a shot.
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  Speaker 9: I won't go to the.
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  Speaker 2: Store unless I have ablution in my purse. I hope
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  Speaker 2: the police pull you over now. I hope they do
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  Speaker 2: it now.
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  Speaker 1: You can do three to five by having.
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  Speaker 2: Ablution in your purse.
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  Speaker 6: At least.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Jasmine, Ablution.
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  Speaker 5: It is with absolute Ablution that I believe that if
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  Speaker 5: she gets a degree from this school, it will do
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  Speaker 5: her no good.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, okay. That's true.
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  Speaker 3: All right.
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  Speaker 2: That's true. All right, D.L., you want to give it
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  Speaker 2: a shot? Ablution. I am certain that Ablution is the answer. No.
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  Speaker 5: What's the secret?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, all right. Look at this guy here.
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  Speaker 4: Ablution, definition, bathing, especially part of a routine or ritual,
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  Speaker 4: the act of washing something.
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  Speaker 2: I was going to say wash your ass, but that's
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  Speaker 2: not polite.
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  Speaker 8: Oh, that's not right.
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  Speaker 2: That smell is awful. You need to complete the ablution
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  Speaker 2: of your feet. You see, there you go. Ablution is
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  Speaker 2: next to godliness.
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  Speaker 9: Now, you have been educated, Mary, so you will receive
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  Speaker 9: a diploma from D.L.
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  Speaker 2: School of Real Good Book Learning. So hang on. We've
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  Speaker 2: got to get you information.
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  Speaker 1: And as a special treat as you drive through Carmel,
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  Speaker 1: the name of a great bell's bottom.
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  Speaker 2: You've got to be praying. Thank you, Mary. Thank you, baby.
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  Speaker 8: Thank you.
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  Speaker 10: Thanks, Mary.