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What To Do If People Around You Are In Lack And Have A Shitty Mindset · Beyond Limits With Olivia Marie

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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to the Live Well Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm your host, Liv, a naturopathic doctor, mentor, energy healer, Akasha Breeder, intuitive, energetic business mentor, and honestly, so much more.
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  SPEAKER_00: And with that, let's get into the show.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hello everyone, and welcome back to another episode of the podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: I am excited because we have another little short, quickie episode.
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  SPEAKER_00: I hope you guys have been liking these kind of short episodes where I give you the quick information.
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  SPEAKER_00: This topic today comes, I've gotten this a couple times before, but I wanted to make its own little mini episode on it, and that is what to do when people around you are in lack and have a shitty mindset.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this question is sparked from the portal, which is our little free community, you can join down below.
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  SPEAKER_00: But the question was how about if my spouse and I have totally different feelings around money, my husband's has such a lack feeling, and I am opposite.
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  SPEAKER_00: So we're gonna go around kind of how to deal with this, how to heal this, everything we should be doing.
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  SPEAKER_00: The number one thing I want to say, because these questions or both of these can be kind of separate.
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, I want to talk about what to do if it's like the person you live with and like your husband versus friends, family, co-workers kind of thing.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because it's a slightly like different scenario, slightly different boundaries.
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  SPEAKER_00: If it's the people around you that are like friends, family, coworkers, let's just remove people who are in lack from your life.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's going to be very hard for you to keep filtering through other people's projections.
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  SPEAKER_00: If we can minimize them and set boundaries, that's going to be the best thing that you can do.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, what does this look like?
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  SPEAKER_00: To set a boundary.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're gonna use Jane.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hey Jane, I would really appreciate if you kept your thoughts about money and wealth to yourself as I'm really trying to work on my money mindset right now.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's all it has to be.
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  SPEAKER_00: Simple as that.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you feel like a friend is projecting onto you, if you feel like a colleague, if you feel like family.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because the thing is, if you do not have enough personal power where that thought can come towards you and just bounces off, it's going to influence you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Especially as you're trying to heal and work on it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right now, if my mom comes to me and says, you know, I don't know, blah blah blah is so expensive, blah, blah, blah, kind of laugh, I don't know, it bounces off to me and like I kind of laugh and like I don't care.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like it doesn't phase me at all.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because I have such strength and my personal power around money and wealth.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I've healed it on such a deep level.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you are not there yet, it's going to be a lot harder for you to hold it and not absorb it and to take that on as kind of your truth and your thoughts.
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  SPEAKER_00: So as you're healing, the most that you can block off any kind of outside projections, the best that you can do.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can like not watch the news and like blah blah blah about the recession.
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  SPEAKER_00: Beautiful.
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  SPEAKER_00: The most millionaires are made during recession.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like both can get to be true, but you can choose a different truth for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: So the most that you can like shut out kind of these fear tactics, people in scarcity, people in lack, the better it's gonna serve you simply by setting a boundary.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, if you have a spouse or you're living with a partner that has a shitty boundary about money, similar boundary, but you might just have to enforce it more strictly and or have a deeper discussion about it.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, you know, let's take this example from the portal.
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  SPEAKER_00: My husband has a lack feeling, and I'm the opposite.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're gonna call him Joe.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hey Joe.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know, I notice that your relationship with money is one from lack and scarcity.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right now, I have an opposite, you know, view about money, and I'm really trying to work on my money mindset, and I'm really trying to work on feeling better around money, creating generational wealth, or creating, you know, a better relationship with it.
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  SPEAKER_00: I need you to not project your feelings to me out of respect for us and our relationship.
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  SPEAKER_00: And with that, let's get back to the show.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, know that you can exist at a different frequency than someone who's sitting right beside you, but it does require personal power.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so the living with someone who's in lack doesn't necessarily have to stop money from coming to you or wealth from coming to you.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can have totally different feelings, and you could be receiving money and all this, and chances are when they see that, they then want to learn from you and they then just change their ways and they, you know, learn about abundance and they start to take on your language.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's kind of funny.
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  SPEAKER_00: But your job is to keep your field so clear and to keep your blinders on.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so, what I even want you to do is anytime they say something in lack or when you have to even remind them because it's gonna take them time to not necessarily say it out loud or project it onto you, they may not remember right away.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then that's when you just respectfully remind them, is you're going to say the opposite out loud to be true.
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  SPEAKER_00: And you're, I don't know, if it's like money comes in, money comes out, or there's never enough, and you're just gonna be like, No, there's always tons of money.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's always more money than I know what to do with.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, money comes and money comes and money comes.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're gonna say this out loud when they say it.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're gonna do that every single time so that you're not absorbing kind of that frequency.
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  SPEAKER_00: And again, with the boundary, they should project that less.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I don't want you to give up your personal power to think that someone else has a stronger pull on your wealth and money situation than you do.
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  SPEAKER_00: It might be a little bit more difficult after boundaries are are better because you don't want to be absorbing kind of negativity all day, then you're gonna have to transmute and alchemize and cleanse, like it's just a lot of work.
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  SPEAKER_00: However, your power is infinitely more strong.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so, what I want you to do is I actually want you to practice connecting with the personal power that's within you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And your personal power lives right underneath your bra line, kind of where your diaphragm is, where um that kind of like soft spot is right in the front of your body, you guys can't see.
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  SPEAKER_00: But that's kind of where it is, that's where your personal power lives.
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  SPEAKER_00: So really refining that by not giving it away to other people and not thinking, because my husband has a lack feeling about money, you know, it's gonna stop me from getting well, it's gonna stop me.
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  SPEAKER_00: No.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like I don't believe that to be true.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so you shouldn't believe that to be true.
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  SPEAKER_00: You need to believe that you are powerful enough and that you start to emit a frequency that is stronger than the frequency around you.
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  SPEAKER_00: But you can only do that if you're not possibly absorbing everyone's projections.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I've said this before when it comes to personal power.
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  SPEAKER_00: When you become the dominant force in the room, you no longer have to worry about absorbing other people's frequencies.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh, underline that.
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  SPEAKER_00: When you become the dominant force in the room, you no longer have to worry about absorbing other people's frequencies.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know, back when I first started, I had to worry a lot about other people's projections.
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  SPEAKER_00: I had to worry about managing my energy and this.
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  SPEAKER_00: And now it is like it is locked.
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  SPEAKER_00: People can say things, and I'm like, I don't believe that to be true.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't know, I think I mentioned this in some of the past Money Wealth um podcasts, but I think it was maybe a few months ago, maybe six months ago.
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  SPEAKER_00: My fiance will talk about, oh yeah, they're saying we're hitting recession.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, that's not true for us.
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  SPEAKER_00: That can be true for them, it's not true for us.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're not available for that.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're only available for overflow.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so just like really locking that personal power, like what you believe to be true, and getting very crystal clear on the life and the frequency you are choosing for yourself, and literally ingrain that into your head until you believe it to the degree that you believe the sky is blue, which is also, I mean, could be up in the air depending on who you are, whether the sky is blue, but you know what I mean, or that the sun's gonna rise tomorrow.
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  SPEAKER_00: I feel like we can all agree on that.
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  SPEAKER_00: Those are the main things you have to do and work on if you're surrounded by people in lack with a shitty mindset.
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  SPEAKER_00: The boundaries, personal power, and then really rewiring constantly until you get enough of a strong enough signal that you start to emit it a frequency that's stronger than the other frequencies in the room.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I hope you guys enjoyed that short episode.
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  SPEAKER_00: I wanted to get to the point, quick, digestible, easy.
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  SPEAKER_00: Save this episode for when you need a reminder.
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  SPEAKER_00: And join Wealth Recode if you guys really want to heal your relationship with wealth and bring safety into your nervous system when it comes to money and wealth of all kinds.
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  SPEAKER_00: And with that being said, I will see you guys in the next episode.