
Accountability ≠ Assholery - How to Address the Problem Without Wrecking the Person
If your “accountability” strategy is thinly veiled public shaming, congratulations—you’re not building culture, you’re building silence. In this episode, I break down how to call people on their bullshit without being a dick about it. We dig into why shame backfires, what accountability actually is, and how to hold a line with clarity, curiosity, and respect. Fewer hot seats. More alignment. Better results.
You’ll hear about:
Why shame triggers hiding, defensiveness, and retaliation (aka: zero learning)
Accountability as a feedback loop, not a punishment ritual
Scripts and moves for…
The skinny
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