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Episode 23 - More Than a Dick: The Bull’s Program That Women Trust (Ft. Mr. Mocha) · The Bull Brotherhood

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I want them to experience me. I want them to
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experience the way I do it. I was scoping out
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the guys who I knew that were the professionals,
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in other words. It was very, very easy to pick
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out Mocha and Dimitri. They stood out. They had
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that aura, you know. And I knew that I wasn't
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going to, like, approach them to talk to them
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or anything like that. This podcast contains
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If you're not comfortable with Frank talk about
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probably isn't the show for you. But if you're
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art of dominance in ethical non -monogamy. This
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leave a lasting impression. If you're here, you're
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not just curious. You're ready to elevate. So
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to all the bulls, hot wives, stags, and open
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-minded explorers, we see you. Let's go. Ladies
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and gentlemen, good evening and welcome to another
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exhilarating episode of the Bullet Brotherhood
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podcast. I'm Brian Morgan, a .k .a. the Sigma
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Male, the lone wolf himself, coming at you with
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my nephew, the perpetual student, Socrates. What's
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up, dawg? What's up, y 'all? All right. And ladies
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and gentlemen, tonight, we welcome back from
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the O -Faces podcast. the executive director,
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the CEO himself. I call him Doc Gable. Everybody
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else knows him as Mr. Mocha. What's up, baby
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boy? What's going on, guys? I appreciate the
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invite as always. How's it going, fellas? Wonderful
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here, baby. Wonderful. And again, thank you for
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cutting into your quality time and coming to
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help us out. I guess with a, for Socrates, a
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question tonight or how you want a question.
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All right, ladies and gentlemen, I'm going to
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turn it over to Socrates. He's going to be our
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moderator tonight with this. Mr. Mocha and I,
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we're going to be answering questions together
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as one, as well as from a alpha bull's point
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of view and a sigma male's point of view. All
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right. So here, take it over nephew. Yes, sir.
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Yes, sir. It was good, y 'all. What's going on?
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All right, all right. Nothing much, man. Yeah,
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yeah. So this is really, you know, for those
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that don't know, man, you know, these are my
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boys, you know. These are my counsel. You know,
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these are my war counsel gentlemen that I talk
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to, strategize approaches from business to how
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to interact with these beautiful ladies that
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we get to interact with in this lifestyle. And
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so. I was listening to another podcast, and they
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were presenting the things that they do and the
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thought process and the process that they go
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through to give a couple a really good experience.
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And I was vibing off it. I was like, yeah, I
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like that idea. I like this idea. But something
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hit me. Something was like a voice in my head.
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And I was like, I don't know if it's Brian's
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in the back of my head. Or Mr. Mocha's in the
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back of my head. But it was like, that's too
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much work. It was like, hey, man, you run some
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businesses. You travel, bro. Like, I don't know
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if you can do all that. And I was thinking, you
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know what? I don't know what my boys would say
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about that. Not that what the person was saying
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was wrong, because I admire that podcast and
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what they were saying. It was more of like, well,
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what fits the approach that the Boy Brotherhood
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has? And so I called my boy, Unk, up. He was
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busy at the time, so I called Mr. Mocha, and
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we started discussing the difference between
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their approach and Mr. Mocha's approach. And
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I said, what'd I say? I said, I think you do
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it a little differently, don't you? And that's
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where you broke it down. So did you want to...
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Kind of explain. Well, I think you got to first,
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you got to set that, you got to, what's the other
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approach? Exactly. Because they don't have a
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point of reference. Right, right. So what it
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was is their basic, we talked about it for a
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bit. We talked about having tools in your toolbox.
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And we always encourage everybody, have tools
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in your toolbox. Learn how to read people's body
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language. Learn how to read the room. Learn how
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to interact. Wash your ass. All those kind of
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things. But the paradigm that we were saying
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is, and what Mr. Mocha was saying is, that bull
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who's putting that effort in and a lot of the
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challenges that I was having was about, my mentality
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is, I'm trying to get on their program. I got
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a couple, they have whatever program they got
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going on, and I'm trying to get in where I feed
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in. And that's a lot of work. And Mr. Mocha said,
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well, I have a little different one. I'm trying
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to see. What do I need to do or what do I need
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to present or how do I need to present this to
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where they feel comfortable and they feel like
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I'm trustworthy enough for them to get on mine?
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So that's the subject we're going to talk about
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is the program, right? And it blew my mind. It
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blew my mind. I was like, oh, my goodness, that's
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it. Everywhere I felt like I was having consistent
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challenges or putting a whole lot of energy for.
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shaky or unreliable or not the same kind of energy
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back, I realize I'll spend my whole time trying
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to get qualified for their program as opposed
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to having an actual program that's really concise
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for me and saying, well, what do I got to get
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to do to help them understand that we're going
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to have a great time if you get on my program?
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Am I explaining that right, Mr. Mogul? So I think
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that when you call me, you're basically saying
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that because I don't think everybody understands
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the concept of programs and things like that.
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So when he called me, he was saying that he had
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listened to something or podcast, and they were
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talking about having different approaches and
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different ways to approach different types of
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couples within the lifestyle. Because, you know,
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in the hot wife community, in the cuckold community
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in particular, you know, that there are, it's
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not one set type of couple. It's not one set
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type of dynamic. But as a guy, you know, we're
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dudes. So we're not, it's rare that we're only
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looking for one particular type of couple. We
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may have one. or two dynamics that we prefer.
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But oftentimes, you know, if you walk into a
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room with 100 couples, you have 100 different
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dynamics. So when he called me, when you called
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me, you're saying that based upon the information
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you heard, they refer to different approaches
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and different tactics and techniques as tools.
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And having a lot of tools in your tool bag so
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that you can adapt to the couples that you want
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to play with. Exactly. So I'm not sure if I should
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make the analogy that I made before. We'll send
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all the email complaints to you. Go for it. Go
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for it. You are on the Bull Brotherhood podcast,
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my brother. All right. I'm expecting you to be
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you, okay? Okay. Remember, you got to expand.
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Yes, exactly. All right. So, ladies and gentlemen,
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any ass -shoers that you want to throw out, okay?
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My ass is narrow, but I can take every last one
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of them. I can take every last one of them. I
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take every last one of them. I took enough for
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24 years in the United States military. Hell,
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I can take some more, okay? So I want to know.
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This is who we are. So, Mocha, take it. All right?
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Go with it. All right. So I said my analogy was
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you have two different vehicles. I'm not trying
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to get into their vehicle. What I'm trying to
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do is lure them into my, my kidnapper. I just
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need to lure you into my van because I am not,
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I want to be adaptable in conversation and fluid
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and interaction, but I want them to experience
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me. I want them to experience the way I do it.
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We have these conversations on a regular basis.
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There's levels to this. There's levels to the
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type of, you know, couple you meet. There's levels
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to the type of woman or male or whatever you
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like to interact with. There's levels to it.
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There is that level where it's like, okay, I
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had, and then we're going to start at the, I
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had an okay time. Yeah, I met this person, this
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couple, and it was cool. And then the far extreme
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is, oh, my God, I met this couple or this woman
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or this guy who completely exceeded my expectations.
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And I want this type of experience. And there's
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everything in between. So for me personally,
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I want anyone who I'm going to interact with,
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if it's a couple or a single female. I want you
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to experience what I bring. I want to be able
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to speak to you on your level so that I can now
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pull you into my world and I can give you the
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Mr. Mocha experience. I don't want to give you
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the, you know, the other guy's experience. You
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know, and I think oftentimes as guys, as a guy
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in a lifestyle, A lot of guys, in my opinion,
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go wrong because they're talking to a couple
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and they're trying to figure out how to duplicate
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an experience that they had with some other guy.
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Oh, we met this guy and he was this and he was
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that. And so now you're doing what you think
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they want you to do. I can't be the stigma male.
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No matter how much I would want to be or no matter
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how much I admire his style, if I try to do what
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the Sigma male does, I can at best be second
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best at that. Now, I can be number one at being
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Mr. Mocha. I can be number one at providing the
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experience that is me being my genuine self.
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That was my thing. I am not trying to mold myself
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to their experience. I am trying to provide them
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my experience. You know, there's a hundred different
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flavors of soda. There's a hundred different
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desserts. So if I'm chocolate, I'm not trying
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to taste like vanilla. I can only be chocolate.
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That's all I can be. And so for me, when I started
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thinking about people saying, I'm trying to mold
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myself to them. Now you're polluting who you
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are. So that's what I mean when I say I'm not
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trying to have tools that would make me moldable
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to their situation. I just want the introduction
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and to be fluid enough to make them want to experience
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what I have to offer. Outstanding. You are molding
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the communication, the interaction at that stage
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when they're trying to figure out if this is
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something they want to do and you're trying to
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figure out if this is the couple you want to
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interact with. Those are where your tools lie.
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But once, like you said, you got them kidnapped
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in the van. No. It's not so much molding. This
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is another place, the common misconception that
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a lot of people have within the lifestyle. All
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right. It's basic human interaction. Okay. I
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am going to talk to you like I would talk to
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anyone. And if our personalities click, if we
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have that chemistry, all those things are necessary.
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And it's interaction. It's relationship. The
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shit part is something that we have. You have
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a friendship. You have a relationship. You know,
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that thing. that we create with all other people
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that we want to talk to. If you go to an amusement
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park, if you go to play a basketball game, you're
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going to have an interaction with somebody, and
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that person is going to have an opportunity to
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see if they like you or not. This is just a different
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aspect of life, and it's just a different social
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setting. So it's not so much me trying to trick
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a person. Me speaking to you and seeing how the
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energy is. And I'm just going to be me. And I
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know me being me, I'm off -putting to some people.
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So if I'm off -putting to that person, then they're
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not the person that should be trying to get into
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my van. And if that person, if I don't feel that
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chemistry or that energy that I like, it's not
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going to work out either. In the beginning, my
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main tool is just being me and seeing if you
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like me. And then once we get into the bedroom,
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we're going to, you know, do our regular talking
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and communicating. And then I'm going to have
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an opportunity to be me. And that's all I can
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be because I've said before, when I get into
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a situation and I have somebody who's trying
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to, you know, direct my movements, hey, fuck
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my wife like this, fuck her like that. Hey, hey,
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man, you want to do this? She's here for what
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I do. I'm not trying to mimic your dick. If she
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wants a mimic of your dick, if she wants a mimic
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of your style, then you should be doing this
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and I should go and deal with someone who wants
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to experience me. So everything comes back to
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we're trying to experience each other. I love
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having sex with my wife. I have sex with my wife
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as often as possible. But when I go play with
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somebody else, I'm not looking for somebody who
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fucks just like my wife. Otherwise, I might as
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well just keep fucking my wife. You're looking
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for something different. Yeah. I like that. Nephew.
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Yes, sir. Nephew, let me say this. I agree with
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everything. I love listening to Mocha talk because,
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I mean, hell, I end up almost getting mesmerized
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by this shit because it's so fucking true. But
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I look at this as like, and I say we're, when
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we're dealing with a couple, I look at it as
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like the art of seduction. You know, we're being
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ourselves. with being our our true selves but
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at the same time though i know myself i'm i'm
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i'm i'm seducing like a i'm i'm using a seduction
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technique uh you know to find out what this couple's
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all about you know i look at it like um let me
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see what can i equate it to like being a dancer
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giving a performance you know i mean that involves
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what of course with the couple first and foremost
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Respect, then what? Emotional intelligence, then
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what? Shared fantasies, right? You find out everything
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that there is about the couple. Correct? Yep.
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Okay. Always doing what? You're respecting the
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sanctity of the couple's relationship. You know
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what I mean? I'm being a great listener. I want
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to hear, I want to know everything there is.
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about you guys. So I'm listening to every damn
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thing, everything. And I'm showing what I'm showing
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a genuine interest at all times as to what that
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I'm, you know, hearing. And then from there,
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then from there, I start throwing that, that
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technique in there, that seduction technique.
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All right. First of all, going into the thing,
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what am I? I'm confident. I'm sure of myself.
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I'm sure of my desires. And I'm, I'm, I'm sure
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of my value. I think that's something that, that
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most bulls don't go into the situation doing
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and, and correct me if I'm wrong, but knowing
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your, your value, knowing your value as that,
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as that, as that, you know, as that guy that's
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going to eventually take over the situation.
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Right. Absolutely. Here again, like I said, being
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sure of yourself, your desires, and also show
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a couple. At least I do. I show a couple of a
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little sensitive side of me where I'm getting
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to know him. You know, I want to know. Hell,
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I want to know the Sigma male, but I also want
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to know Brian Morgan, the man. You know what
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I mean? So I may even share some I may share
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some some I call it human stuff with them, you
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know, on the sensitive side. And then from there,
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as they get comfortable with me, not only her,
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but him, because it's got to be a two way street.
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Then we move forward. We move forward in the
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seduction process. So that's to me is like step,
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that's step eight in that seduction technique.
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Do you understand where I'm coming from? Yep.
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One of the most important factors that people
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leave out is chemistry. When you meet someone,
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and especially when I'm in that setting, I mean,
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yes, I am. I'm definitely. I'm being myself,
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but I am flirting. I am attempting to have sex
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with you. So, no, like my behavior, you know,
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if you ask my opinion, it's going to be the same.
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But I may not I'm not going to just kick in the
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door and walk in the room and start spouting
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out my opinions when we're doing a show. It's
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my job to speak of my opinions. But in person,
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you know, I am going to be polite. I am going
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to try to be charming. I am going to to be flirty,
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but I'm still going to be me. And the concept
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of chemistry is something that is the most important
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thing in all of these talks. Whenever we're talking
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about interacting with a couple, chemistry is
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the main thing because two guys can walk up and
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do the same thing, say the same thing, wear the
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same thing. And look the same way and get completely
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different responses. Because chemistry is a big
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deal. In fact, one of my, the thing I say all
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the time is the exact same thing that one guy
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can do. When another dude does it, he's creepy.
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Okay. When one guy does it, he's sexy. When the
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other guy does it, he's creepy. And that was
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a lack of some sort of chemistry. So chemistry
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is also a big thing. And sometimes, I mean, because
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you've been in a situation where you're with
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someone who's extremely physically attractive
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to you from across the room. Wow, she is gorgeous.
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But then when we interact, there's nothing wrong
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with her. She's not mean. She's nice. But there's
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no chemistry. And so, you know, in my rookie
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season, I would try to go and play with that
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woman anyways, and my dick be like, eh, I'm good.
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And now I'm having a, oh, you know. But, you
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know, that's not, like I said, there's nothing
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to say there was nothing wrong. It's just a lack
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of chemistry. Or you see a woman who I don't
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particularly find her attractive. But then we
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start talking and interacting and my dick is
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tapping on my leg like, hey, this one, choose
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this one. And then we have a phenomenal time
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and I want to play with her over and over again.
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You know, so chemistry to me is huge. And I know
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a lot of couples get afraid of the word chemistry
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because they think, I mean, you know, I'm trying
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to fall in love with. No. Chemistry is not necessarily
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just a sexual thing. It's not just a opposite
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sex thing. Chemistry is something that works
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everywhere. Chemistry plays a huge role in this
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thing as well as learning how to interact because
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with it or without it, to me, it's one of the
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things that is the great divider. in being a
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good bull or not. Let me say this, Mocha. You
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can have physical chemistry. You can have physical
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chemistry but not have a damn thing in common
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when it comes to the communication or, you know
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what I mean, getting the emotional intelligence
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there. I've had some hellified encounters. where
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it was just they were physically attracted to
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me. I was physically attracted to them. We really
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didn't even, other than knowing each other's
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names, it was fuck city after that. And it was
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great. Physical chemistry. Yeah, that physical
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chemistry. But try to meet them again and, you
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know, go out to dinner or just come over, you
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know, to the crib and chill and get to know each
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other. I found I was like, damn, we. And I had
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one that we just literally laughed at each other.
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Like, we do not have anything in common other
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than dick and pussy. That was it. That was it,
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you know? And, yeah, the sexual chemistry can
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happen. Now, the emotional or, you know, that,
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if it's not there, it ain't going to happen.
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You know what I'm saying? You can't make that
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happen. You cannot, in my opinion. At least you
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know with me. You can't make that happen. Um,
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and I, I do agree. Um, when I meet a couple,
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I will know in a very short period of time, uh,
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if there will be some, you know, some chemistry
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there. And I'm not looking for, I know when I
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meet them, whether I'm physically attracted to
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them, you know, to, to the wife. I know that
25:44
immediately. And I know if she likes what she
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sees immediately, you know, from those little
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nonverbal cues that I'm getting from her. Um,
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or she will look at him in a certain way. And
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I know, okay, that's that look. She likes what
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she sees and, you know, we're going to start
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talking. But like I said, if there's, if there's
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nothing there, if we don't have anything, you
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know, and I'm trying and they're trying, but
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we're just like, this ain't working, you know,
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this isn't working. So that's what, um, and I
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think a lot of, a lot of, uh, young bulls and
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and even you know some seasoned guys sometimes
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how they see is the physical and you know i want
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this i want this i want this and maybe maybe
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it does get to the bedroom but i guarantee you
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damn dickhanger isn't gonna isn't gonna respond
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the way you want you want it to it's nothing
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like and i i can say it i can say it and it's
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happened to me and a whole bunch of shit has
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happened to me before my dick didn't respond
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so you know Chemistry is everything. It's everything.
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Yep. So going back to kind of why we were talking
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about this, it's about so you have your own,
27:01
you have a program or things that you want them
27:06
to get on. But talk to me, and I'll ask Mr. Mocha
27:11
too, but talk to me about what you see when people
27:14
like, even I'm just going to say I was the guy
27:16
before. I was the guy that was like, I'm trying
27:20
to figure out how to get on their program. So
27:22
talk to me from the outside looking in. What
27:25
do you see that kind of like slows people down
27:29
or makes it harder on them because they have
27:32
that paradigm of how do I qualify for them? Because
27:36
I know Mr. Mocha is talking about being something
27:38
you're not. But as far as me, I didn't go in
27:42
there saying I'm going to. try to mold myself.
27:45
You end up thinking you have to, or you end up
27:48
kind of there, but you don't plan to be there.
27:50
You don't plan to be inauthentic or be somebody
27:53
you're not. You're just thinking, I like this.
27:56
The wife's hot, right? The couple has all these
27:59
requests or things they want. Let me see if I
28:02
can do it to get there. So like, what are you
28:04
guys seeing on that end? Some of the problems,
28:07
some of the things that takes longer, some of
28:10
the things that are frustrating. I think most
28:15
Bulls here, again, they don't know their value.
28:17
You know? Do you agree with that, Mocha? They
28:21
don't know their value, their worth. I think
28:27
a lot of guys here, again, and it's actually
28:31
a compliment to you, Mocha, to guys like yourself,
28:36
you know, my other Bull brothers. I think they
28:42
look at you and you set the bar so high. And
28:47
I'm talking about guys that go to the events
28:49
and stuff, you know what I mean? And I know guys
28:51
do this shit because when I first went to Atlanta,
28:54
I was scoping out the guys who I knew that were
28:57
the professionals, in other words. It was very,
29:02
very easy to pick out Mocha and Dimitri. They
29:06
stood out. They had that aura, you know? I knew
29:11
that I wasn't going to, like, approach them to
29:14
talk to them or anything like that. But I was
29:16
just kind of seeing how they maneuvered around,
29:19
you know, the AO. And I think these guys, here
29:24
again, they don't know. They don't know. They
29:26
don't know their own value. They don't know how
29:29
to sit down and this has nothing to do to, you
29:36
know, be whether you're a Sigma bull or you're
29:38
an Alpha bull. you know, Omega or whatever. You
29:43
just don't know your worth. You don't know your
29:46
worth. You don't know that you are the king of
29:50
kings. You know, your confidence level isn't
29:53
there. It's like guys who play basketball, okay?
29:58
When I played, although I was a skinny guy, you
30:03
couldn't tell me that I wasn't the original Stephen
30:06
Curry out there shooting the basketball. You
30:08
know what I mean? I knew my worth. I knew my
30:10
worth. I knew I could shoot. I knew I was good
30:13
at it. I didn't give a damn who I guarded out
30:16
there on the court. I just knew my value, okay?
30:21
A lot of bulls, here again, they see other guys
30:27
doing certain things. Sometimes a guy, and here
30:31
again, Mocha, I'm using you because of the physique
30:35
that they see, you know what I mean, the look
30:37
that you bring to the table. They get intimidated,
30:40
you know, and they think, oh, well, I got to
30:43
go out here now and start lifting all the weights
30:45
and, you know, get my body this way. And don't
30:48
get me wrong. Yes, you should have a body game.
30:49
You should. But you should have your body game.
30:52
That's here again as a part of your value. I
30:55
know knowing what works for you. They see other
30:59
guys doing they're like, you know, hey, I'm going
31:01
to try to emulate what this guy does. Don't do
31:04
that. You set yourself up for failure every time,
31:06
because like Mr. Mocha said. What I do one way
31:12
and it works for me. The other guy comes and
31:17
tries that shit and he looks like a total butthole.
31:20
You know, he looks like a fool. So I think the
31:23
biggest thing is knowing your value. And here
31:28
again, don't be afraid to get out there and talk
31:35
to that beautiful. woman or beautiful couple
31:38
if they shoot you down the first time okay i
31:41
got shot down all right but then go back to the
31:44
drawing board and say okay well what did i do
31:46
wrong what do i think i did wrong you know how
31:49
did i approach him was my approach was i too
31:51
uh um not standoffish but was i too aggressive
31:56
you know did i ask the right questions um look
32:00
at yourself in the mirror was my look right etc
32:03
etc you know Here again, know your value, get
32:07
yourself straight first, and then go out there
32:10
and tackle those couples. That's how I was laid.
32:20
I think that one thing for guys and couples to
32:26
understand in that comment, know your value.
32:31
That is not... Arrogance. Because 15 years ago,
32:39
my value was not the same. There's years of experience.
32:51
There's years of mistakes. The mistakes that
32:53
the guys are making out there, I've made those
32:55
mistakes. Evolution. Yeah, I mean, I've learned.
33:02
There's a lot of things that I tell guys when
33:04
I'm talking to guys, don't do, don't accept.
33:09
And a lot of those things are things that I learned
33:11
because I accepted them 10 times. You know, there's
33:15
a reason why I can talk about the husbands who
33:19
are telling you, fuck her like this, fuck her
33:20
like that. Because I've been that guy, and I'm
33:23
like, well, you know something, I'm trying to
33:25
be respectful, and the husband wants me to fuck
33:27
her like this. And, you know, fuck her harder,
33:30
fuck her harder. And now I'm listening to this
33:32
guy and I'm looking at her face. And, you know,
33:36
she put the gate up trying to push my hips back.
33:38
And now I'm in this position where it's like,
33:41
OK, I don't want to pile drive this lady. You
33:45
know, and I've said it before. I got a guy with
33:47
a five inch dick telling me to break her cervix.
33:50
I'm not going to do that. But and I will wind
33:54
up going soft. In the middle of a play date because
33:57
I got the husband telling me to fuck her a certain
34:00
way while I'm paying attention to her body and
34:03
that's not what she wants. It took a long time
34:06
for me to figure out how to deal with that. Okay,
34:10
I've also been in the situation when I tell guys
34:15
don't, you know, don't let the husband be this
34:18
crazy camera guy. We have a conversation. I don't
34:23
mind you recording when I play with your wife.
34:25
And I don't mind you telling me up front, hey,
34:28
I like to get a certain type of angles, you know.
34:31
But in the beginning, I didn't know that. So
34:32
I'm having sex, and the guy's like, hey, hey,
34:35
well, okay, stop and put her doggie style. Wait,
34:37
wait. Honey. Honey, ride him. Yeah, you got the
34:41
point. And I'm sitting here like, okay, I don't
34:46
have any rights as the guy because. I have been
34:51
in that position where I had been convinced by
34:53
the couples that as a guy, you know, what I,
34:58
how I feel is irrelevant. It's all about the
35:01
wife. It's all about the wife. No, there are
35:05
three individuals here. And three individual
35:08
goes into a mutual verbal contract to come in
35:14
here and we all have a good time. Okay. But for
35:19
years, I didn't know that I had an opinion. And
35:24
so oftentimes, I'd have couples asking, oh, why
35:29
didn't you come back? Because I didn't know that
35:32
I could be like, dude, you're making it fucking
35:34
weird. All right, I'm trying to have sex with
35:37
your wife, and you got a camera light over my
35:40
fucking shoulder. I can't tell you how many husbands
35:43
have said, you know, these fucking guys show
35:45
up over here and they can't perform. motherfucker,
35:48
your dick don't work on the best day. And you're
35:50
mad that I can't perform while you're talking
35:52
and you're shining the camera light in my face.
35:55
You won't even let my dick get hard before you.
35:58
So these are things when you start saying, know
36:01
your value. I'm not saying that. We're not saying
36:03
this in arrogance because there was a time when
36:05
we didn't know our value. Well, now when I go
36:08
into an interaction, it's not with arrogance.
36:12
It's with, hey, here's the deal. tell me what
36:16
you're into because we all have to have a good
36:18
time here. I don't go and say, look, this is
36:21
how I'm doing it. No, I go into an arrangement
36:22
with a couple. I'm interested. I want to know
36:25
what the husband likes. Okay, you like video.
36:26
Cool. What positions do you like to get? Because
36:30
I may try to put her in those positions. And
36:32
I'll tell you what, I'm happy to do the cameras,
36:35
to be on camera. I'm on camera. My dick's all
36:38
over the internet. Okay, I'm cool with that.
36:39
However, I need a second sport to warn mom. I
36:44
need a second to get in the headspace, so if
36:49
you give me a minute, and then that's cool. You
36:52
know, all of these things, these were years of
36:57
experiences, and I'm not talking about five or
36:59
ten experiences. This was hundreds of experiences
37:06
with, I mean, over hundreds of couples. I don't
37:14
want to come across as me being arrogant and
37:17
saying, know your value. Because, I mean, I've
37:22
talked to a couple before. You get some dude
37:25
that's 23 years old just because he's in great
37:28
shape and he's got a huge dick and he fucks like
37:31
an animal. He doesn't have enough life experience
37:36
to do all the shit that you want him to do and
37:38
know all the stuff you want him to know. And
37:41
then you go, oh, you know something, this guy,
37:42
this bull ain't shit. This bull's only had 15
37:47
or 20 experiences with different couples. He
37:52
is in his rookie season. He is confident in what
37:59
he does. But he doesn't have enough experience
38:03
yet to give you the experience you want. And
38:08
most couples aren't willing to help somebody
38:11
by giving them advice. They just expect every
38:14
guy to show up. And they think that every dude
38:18
has had 10 years of practice with a couple exactly
38:23
like them with their exact dynamics. And they
38:26
feel like, well, he can't come in and plead my
38:28
wife. He don't know what he's doing. So we go
38:31
back to as a guy, know your value and know when
38:37
you haven't had enough experience to offer. And
38:40
then that means there's more communication. Hey,
38:43
I definitely want to do a good job and I want
38:47
to be invited back. This is the experience I've
38:50
had. So you guys can kind of tell me what you
38:52
like and I can we can kind of figure it out together.
38:56
It's going to be a lot of years of figuring it
38:58
out with couples. before you can come in and
39:01
go oh I've been with a couple similar to this
39:05
I've been with 20 couples similar to this I think
39:08
I kind of know how to work this so that's when
39:11
when we say know your value don't think this
39:13
is arrogance this is a whole lot of Mr. Mocha
39:17
falling on his fucking face walking out of situations
39:21
you know not knowing that I could walk out of
39:24
situations being you know I have, and I feel
39:30
bad to say this, I can't tell you how many couples
39:32
I had ghosted because they just made the shit
39:36
way too uncomfortable. And back when I was in
39:39
my rookie season, like, I'm not going back into
39:41
that drama. And then I don't know how to politely
39:46
say, no, I don't want to come back because your
39:49
husband's being a fucking weirdo. Or no, I don't
39:52
want to come back because your wife. is not communicating,
39:56
but she expects me to know exactly what's happening
39:59
while the husband is, I didn't know how to say
40:02
that early on. So that's what I mean about knowing
40:07
your value. Exactly. I absolutely agree. And,
40:15
and gentlemen, for the gentlemen listeners out
40:18
there, our gentlemen bulls, it's just what Mocha
40:22
was saying. No, you know, I know he are not trying
40:26
to be, you know, sound arrogant or anything like
40:28
that. And yes, you will learn through evolving.
40:34
You hear me talk about that all the time. As
40:36
you get older, as you get older, the more experiences
40:38
you have, you will learn. And as you learn, gentlemen,
40:44
don't be afraid to speak what's on your mind.
40:50
If you have like, Smokey was saying, the porn
40:55
director who is standing over you. I've had that
40:59
shit before. I cannot perform with a husband,
41:05
like, walking all around me with the camera,
41:08
taking pics, taking the close -ups, and then
41:13
going back and then going, especially if you're
41:15
getting, like, behind me. I can't perform. I
41:20
can't perform. When I first started out with
41:23
my little escort gig, I had trouble. I had trouble
41:27
with that a few times. And I went back to my
41:32
handler and I was like, what should I do about
41:35
this? And she was saying, baby, tell them. You
41:40
know, tell them. You're young. You know what
41:42
I mean? You're young. This is your first time
41:44
doing this. So I went back and I was able to
41:48
sit down and have my. my, um, checklist as to,
41:54
you know, this is what I'm comfortable with.
41:57
This is what I'm not comfortable with. Um, you
42:00
know, it takes me a minute to get going, you
42:02
know, for some things, uh, some things I respond
42:05
faster with, et cetera, et cetera. So don't,
42:08
you know, don't think, don't get embarrassed.
42:11
That's what I'm trying to say. Don't get embarrassed.
42:13
If things don't go your way, those first four,
42:16
five, six, seven, eight, nine, 10 times. All
42:18
right. It's a part of learning. It's a part of
42:21
evolving. And that is what makes you that quality
42:25
bull later on in life because you have had all
42:28
of those experiences and you know how to navigate,
42:31
like Mocha said. And I can't go any further because
42:40
Mocha hit everything. So take it over, nephew.
42:45
Yeah, yeah. That was good stuff. We're going
42:48
to be causing some time because I know Mr. Mocha
42:50
got some business. Exactly, exactly. You got
42:54
some business to take care of. I'm good. I got
42:56
15 more minutes. Yeah, so we're probably going
43:01
to do a couple more episodes of this because
43:04
I got a whole other categories of things that
43:07
I want to go over in this one. So I'll say it
43:09
this way. Well, I'll ask my question this way.
43:12
So Mr. Mocha, This is what I saw for myself.
43:16
And I just want you to kind of put a little commentary
43:20
on this. What I notice is it's the road you start
43:25
off in the road of learning about the person.
43:29
And what I'm saying is when you come with the
43:31
mentality of I'm trying to get on their program,
43:34
I'm trying to qualify for them, you end up. You
43:40
end up in a place where you are actually inauthentic
43:44
because they have all of their sets of needs
43:48
and desires and wants and everything. And if
43:52
you're a bull in the lifestyle, if you're in
43:54
a dynamic where you're expected to be the leader,
43:56
then what hit me was, well, you're expected to
44:00
have a program, right? But when you go in there
44:02
trying to see, well, what's theirs and how can
44:04
I fit into it? I ended up being like. I don't
44:08
want to do that, but like you said, I need to
44:09
be nice. I don't know if I could do that. I've
44:12
never done that. I don't know if I'm feeling
44:14
that. I've never tried it. But let me see if
44:18
I can try it and act like I'm liking it. So what
44:21
are some of the problems you see when you see
44:23
a lot of bulls going in there saying, well, let
44:26
me see what I can do to kind of fit, knowing
44:29
that they don't want to be authentic, but they
44:31
kind of end up in a place they don't really want
44:33
to be in? So now those are two different things.
44:39
So here's the thing. Like early on, if you're
44:45
still learning as a bull, you are going to wind
44:51
up in a lot of situations where you're like,
44:52
holy shit, because I've had a whole lot of holy
44:54
shit moments as a bull. Like that's going to
44:57
happen. There's going to be a lot of times where
45:00
you're introduced to some new shit. And here's
45:03
the thing. That's the beauty on the other side
45:06
of that. When you're meeting a couple, you're
45:09
not going in and saying, I'm the fucking boss.
45:11
We're going to do what I want. No, it's still
45:12
an exchange. There's still an exchange of sexual
45:16
energy. There's still an exchange of sexual experiences.
45:19
I'm not saying do that now. It's a completely
45:21
different thing. You wind up in a situation where
45:24
somebody like, hey, let's try this. And I'm like,
45:26
whoa, whoa, I'll do that. No, I'm cool. Like,
45:31
and you're going to, here's the thing. If you
45:34
have been a bull in the lifestyle long enough,
45:38
no matter how freaky you think you are or how
45:43
wild you think you are, somebody's going to introduce
45:47
some shit at you and be like, nah, I'm not cool
45:50
with that. It's just how it works. So when you
45:57
are confronted, there's a difference between
46:02
being confronted with new stuff where people
46:05
go, hey, would you mind trying this? Or would
46:09
you be interested in doing this? Because as a
46:12
bull, you, as a bull and an individual, you still
46:16
have the ability to go yes or no. That's how
46:19
you got to get your experiences. So early on,
46:23
you are going to go into a lot of situations
46:25
because you're trying to figure out who you are
46:28
as a bull. You can still be dominant and go into
46:31
a situation because it's like, I'm going to ask
46:34
everybody, what are you into? And every once
46:37
in a while, somebody's like, I like this. And
46:40
you're like, hmm. Well, I've never done that
46:44
before, but fuck it. Let's give it a shot. You
46:48
know, so a lot of things that you do, this is
46:54
why it's a time thing. you're going to go into
46:58
a whole lot of situations attempting to accommodate
47:01
people on your journey to see what you're into
47:07
because if you start at the very beginning, in
47:11
the very beginning, the concept of sticking your
47:13
dick in somebody's life is a little weird. Even
47:18
if you fantasize your whole life, the first time
47:19
you do it, it's a little weird. So that's something
47:23
that's new. And then as a bull, the first time
47:28
you're in a situation and you hear a wife completely
47:32
degrading her husband that's crazy okay then
47:36
you step up to the first time you're in a situation
47:39
where you're trying to fuck the wife and she's
47:41
telling you yeah tell him how miserable and how
47:44
weak he is and i'm like wait i gotta you want
47:46
me to do commentary and maintain an erection
47:52
Within his lifestyle, you are constantly being
47:56
introduced to new things. We're always getting
47:59
introduced to new things and new styles. You
48:02
know, hey, look, I can give you a list of things
48:07
that, hey, there's some things that I've seen
48:12
or some requests that I've gotten where I'm like,
48:15
holy shit. Are you joking? Like you, you know.
48:20
So you're going to be constantly, and then somebody
48:23
may offer some shit that you're like, huh. Well,
48:28
that's not my thing. Hell, the first time I ever
48:31
pissed on somebody's husband. Like, hey, will
48:33
you piss on my husband? I'm like, eh, that's
48:35
kind of weird. But explain this to me. You know,
48:41
because she like it really turned me on. So she
48:43
puts the poor bastard in the tub. And she's standing
48:46
there holding it for me, and my brain was like,
48:48
I'll try, but I couldn't do it. I couldn't do
48:50
it. And then over time, she would be talking
48:55
to me and telling me how she fantasizes about
48:58
me doing it and how wet she gets and how she
49:00
squirts thinking about it, and she inspired me
49:03
to go and piss on her husband and then fuck the
49:06
hell out of her. So you're going to be introduced
49:10
to some new shit. that you may or may not be
49:14
okay with. So I'm not saying go into it with
49:17
a closed mind because you do want to leave knowing
49:22
that you gave them an amazing experience. With
49:26
me, oftentimes, I will say go into it with an
49:30
open mind, but still, if you're the bull, be
49:34
able to say no. Be able to say, okay, cool. I'm
49:40
okay with doing this thing. But I am still going
49:46
to be me, and I am still my dominant self. So
49:50
with anything sexual and dealing with other human
49:56
beings in this type of situation, everything
49:59
is kind of nuanced. Because I'm a dominant person
50:03
by nature, but everything I know about sex, some
50:08
woman taught me. You know, and I take the experience
50:16
from all of those women and I learn to combine
50:19
them. And I've taken experience from all the
50:21
couples, the good and the bad experiences. And
50:24
I learned to combine them into my style, you
50:27
know. And so if you're new to this, if you're
50:30
a new bull, understand it's going to take you
50:32
time. And the more inexperienced bulls, yes,
50:35
you definitely have to be able to go in and.
50:41
experience and learn what different couples like
50:44
because I went into it and learned what so many
50:48
different couples liked. Then I have this reservoir
50:53
of experience that helps me know what I don't
50:58
want, what I don't like, and identify the type
51:02
of couple I do want to be with or don't want
51:04
to be with. Now, no matter how old you are as
51:07
a bull, if you just came to the lifestyle and
51:09
you've been in it for two or three years, yeah,
51:11
you have to have the mentality that I'm going
51:16
to go in and learn how as many couples out there
51:20
want to do it because it doesn't mean you can't
51:22
be in control of the situation. It doesn't mean
51:24
you can't be dominant. You know, a lot of it
51:28
is an experience thing. And they're going to
51:32
expect you because of your age. if you are a
51:35
little bit older, they're going to go into that
51:37
already thinking that you know, that you know
51:41
a few things, you know? Am I right or wrong,
51:44
Mocha? They're going to expect you because of
51:48
your age, because you're seasoned age -wise,
51:50
that you know some things, you know? Even though
51:54
you may have been in this, you know, a year,
51:57
two, three years, whatever. Now, don't get me
52:00
wrong. You're going to be able to adapt and learn.
52:04
a hell of a lot quicker than that younger guy.
52:08
I kind of wish that I would have gotten into
52:12
this later in life rather than age 26. Because
52:19
I thought I knew, and I think I told you before,
52:23
nephew, I thought everything about sex involved
52:26
being a porn star, what I saw on porn. And I
52:30
was so fucking wrong. I was so wrong. So here
52:33
again, I had to be like Mocha. I had to learn
52:36
through trial and error. Thank God my handler
52:40
had patience with me because she did. She taught
52:44
me. She taught me. She taught me a whole bunch
52:47
of things. I knew the physical, but I had to
52:52
learn the emotional. You know, I had to learn.
52:56
I had to learn how to read couples. I had to
52:57
learn how to talk to husbands. I had to learn
53:00
how to. read body language um and here again
53:06
for a couple of years i had to do uh there were
53:12
some times where i had to deal with some couples
53:14
that i was not necessarily attracted to you know
53:17
because i was in a certain field where you know
53:21
i had to perform you know what i mean um and
53:25
so that's um the evolution it just all boils
53:31
down it boils down to the evolution um and i
53:35
think that was one of our topics at one time
53:36
wasn't it evolution of becoming a quality bull
53:39
you know that's what that's what this boils down
53:41
to that's what it boils down to um and it is
53:45
it is all about patience it is all about like
53:50
like mocha said learning through trial and error
53:52
you know but once you have put together your
54:00
Your package, your equation that works for you,
54:03
you'll be knocking things out of the park. You'll
54:08
be knocking things out of the park. I don't care.
54:10
And I don't care what type of couple that it
54:13
is. I don't care what type of couple that it
54:15
is. I don't care what type of couple. I don't
54:17
care what the couple's looking for. You'll be
54:19
able to immediately latch on to that and blend
54:24
right in. Just blend right in and be able to
54:27
give them that. whether it be the boyfriend experience
54:29
or just, you know, providing some good dick for
54:32
a while or just a companionship type of thing,
54:36
you know, because a lot of times, a lot of times,
54:39
man, couples, they want that third party to just
54:45
hang out with. You know, the sex might come later,
54:48
but they want that third party to hang out with.
54:50
Believe me. And that's more fun, man. God damn,
54:53
that's fun as hell. When you go somewhere and
54:56
it's the three of you all. And everybody's looking
54:59
at you like, what the fuck is this? I read about
55:01
it, but I'm seeing this, you know what I mean?
55:04
So evolution, yeah, that's what it's all about.
55:08
Evolution. Mastering the art of seduction, finding
55:13
your sweet spot as to what equation works for
55:18
you, and then going from there, in my opinion.
55:25
Yeah, I definitely agree. I definitely agree.
55:28
You know, because it's, and it's interesting
55:31
when you think about, I think a lot of people
55:36
forget when you're talking about a guy, okay,
55:44
when you're looking through a man's lens, very
55:50
few men are singular in their sexual play style.
55:55
So as a guy, I may want a woman who I just want
56:03
to, I can go in and just fuck. I can go in and
56:08
have a conversation. I can be sensual. I can
56:12
be all of these different things. So it's not
56:15
like we're usually one way. And as a guy, for
56:22
me personally, I always wanted to know that I
56:26
had the ability to bring a woman pleasure. Like
56:30
that's a big deal for me. Number one, number
56:32
one thing. So before the lifestyle, you know,
56:39
I, I was, I fired off as a massage therapist.
56:42
That's what I did first. I, I'm a very touchy
56:45
feely person. I like to touch a woman's body.
56:47
Like I, I want to know all the ways she likes
56:50
pleasure. It's very easy for you to be adaptable
56:56
to a woman's sexual desires because that's what
57:02
we want. As a bull, we want to be able to go
57:05
in and offer her an experience better than as
57:10
best that we can. The thing that makes you different
57:15
as a bull is you are trying to physically satisfy
57:20
the wife. But you are emotionally giving the
57:26
husband a sensation. A sensation, yep. It's three
57:30
people here. His gratification is coming through
57:35
secondhand sex. So a bull is not just a penis.
57:45
A successful bull is not just a penis. A successful
57:50
bull understands that. You're trying to bring
57:53
the wife physical pleasure while giving this
57:56
husband this, whether it gives him some sort
58:00
of... Bottom line, it's still sexual. It's still
58:02
sexual for him. He's still getting sexual pleasure.
58:05
Let's just say it what it is. I mean... Guys
58:09
don't like the way it sounds. I've said this
58:10
to guys before. I'm not giving him sexual gratification.
58:13
Shut the fuck up. You are giving him sexual gratification.
58:15
If he in the corner with a cage on or if he's
58:18
standing there stroping his dick watching you
58:20
fuck his wife, you are giving him sexual gratification.
58:23
His is more, you know, cerebral. That turns into
58:28
physical while you are giving her physical. And
58:31
you are, as a bull, if you're taking on the bull
58:35
moniker, you're learning how to satisfy both
58:38
of them, okay? And the way you do that is by
58:46
learning and practicing and experiencing. And
58:51
if you're the kind of guy who had the ability
58:54
to talk to a woman in a vanilla world because
58:56
that wife still requires the same thing and oftentimes
59:00
the husband wants to see it or... If you go into
59:03
a situation where the husband is like, look,
59:06
I just want you to come in and fuck my wife.
59:08
You know, that's what our dynamic is. I'm comfortable
59:10
with that as well. You know, as a bull, you're
59:13
going to wear a different hat. But you get to
59:17
choose what hat you wear. There are going to
59:19
be some couples. I turn down couples online every
59:23
day. Let me phrase that. I don't mean every day
59:26
because I don't get people reach out to me every
59:28
day. Excuse me. I turn down. More couples online
59:33
than I will accept for the simple fact that they
59:38
come at me in a way that is not okay with me.
59:42
I literally had a guy send me a message on FetLife
59:46
the other day. Hey, I see you play with Hot Wives.
59:50
I'm glad. I'm going to send some pictures of
59:53
my wife later on so we can get together. Go fuck
59:57
yourself. Who the fuck are you talking to? You
1:00:02
know, now I know a lot of guys, if the wife is
1:00:05
hot enough, he's going to deal with that. Meaning,
1:00:07
I don't give a fuck how hot she is. I'm not,
1:00:12
there's certain things I'm not going to do. So
1:00:15
when I start talking about me bringing people
1:00:21
into my style of playing, I have many hats that
1:00:25
I can wear. Ideally, you want... to experience
1:00:30
me while I'm wearing one of my mini caps. But
1:00:33
if you try to make me do some shit, I'm not trying
1:00:35
to adapt to some shit that I'm not into. I'm
1:00:38
not trying to go into a tool bag and go, yeah,
1:00:43
I know this is the kind of guy that wants me
1:00:45
to do this or that, but I don't like it, but
1:00:50
man, I really want to fuck his wife. No, fuck
1:00:51
that. Ain't no pussy that good. Ain't no pussy
1:00:55
that good. I've had too much of it. You know,
1:00:57
I can say no. I can wear it down. Damn, what
1:01:02
does that come down to, nephew? Knowing your
1:01:05
what? Knowing your value, right? Knowing your
1:01:07
value. Knowing your worth. That's it. That is
1:01:10
it. Knowing your value. Knowing your worth, man.
1:01:14
Damn. I can't come back with nothing shit after
1:01:17
Mocha. Mocha's just hitting the holy grail right
1:01:21
now. I can't come back with anything. You know
1:01:24
what I mean? I tell you, I like running my mouth.
1:01:28
But, brother, when it's the gospel, there ain't
1:01:31
nothing for me to damn say. I think it's safe
1:01:34
to say, ladies and gentlemen, that Mr. Mocha
1:01:37
and I are really the exact same type of quality
1:01:44
bull. We may do things a little differently.
1:01:48
We may present things a little differently. But
1:01:51
we are the exact same. I think I can say honestly
1:01:56
that. He's like me when it comes to the pleasure
1:02:01
thing. It is all about the woman's pleasure for
1:02:05
me. I want to, I have to get her off. I need
1:02:09
to get her off. Okay. Couples please me when
1:02:12
they reach out to me. When they reach out to
1:02:15
me the right way. And here again, that was what
1:02:19
Mocha was saying a few minutes ago. We know our
1:02:22
value. We know our worth. And you're just not
1:02:24
going to come off on me. basically tell me okay
1:02:28
i'm gonna send pictures and you know you're gonna
1:02:32
do this so we're gonna get together yeah fuck
1:02:34
you and die all right pussies like a savings
1:02:37
account okay i'll make a withdrawal the interest
1:02:40
is gone so don't don't think that you're gonna
1:02:42
you know come here and and and tell me what the
1:02:45
hell i'm gonna do with your wife no approach
1:02:47
me here again approach me like the gentleman
1:02:50
husband that you should be and then we go from
1:02:54
there we talk We establish a rapport. And then
1:02:57
you can show me that lovely wife of yours. And
1:03:00
if we get together and there's some chemistry,
1:03:02
then there we go from there. Amen. Amen. Listen,
1:03:06
thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I mean, that's
1:03:16
it. That is it. You made it sound so simple.
1:03:19
I know I be making that shit sound complicated,
1:03:21
but... If you do what he just said, for those
1:03:27
couples who I pretend like I didn't see your
1:03:29
message, I'll probably respond. I will probably
1:03:34
respond. If I don't, maybe there was not a mutual
1:03:38
attraction. But when you know that your life
1:03:41
is hot and you're like, oh, I have somebody message
1:03:46
like, my wife looks like the girls on your, the
1:03:49
women in your videos. Why won't you respond to
1:03:52
me? Cause you're a dick. That's why I won't respond
1:03:57
to you. Because you're not hitting me with the
1:04:01
basic. Hi, how are you? My name is my wife. Exactly.
1:04:09
You're looking at me as only a dick. All right.
1:04:13
You're taking that term bull and you're actually
1:04:16
making that shit fucking derogatory in a way.
1:04:18
Cause you're looking at me as only a piece, just
1:04:21
a dick. You don't mean just a penis. And, you
1:04:25
know, I just need you for your damn penis. OK.
1:04:27
And here again, fuck you and die. We'd be part
1:04:32
two on just that topic. Now you preaching the
1:04:35
gospel. We can. We can. We will definitely do
1:04:39
part two on just that topic. But, yeah, there's
1:04:42
just, you know, I am more than just providing
1:04:45
penis. OK. Matter of fact, that's the last thing
1:04:48
on my fucking mind. We will get to that. We will
1:04:53
get to that, but I want you to get to know me,
1:04:56
not just the bull, but I want you to know me.
1:05:00
I want you to be able to trust me, et cetera,
1:05:03
et cetera, and then we go from there. We got
1:05:07
to have the damn communication. We have to have
1:05:09
the established rapport. We have to have the
1:05:13
trust. We have to have the whole nine yards before
1:05:16
I deal with you. That's it. That is it. I don't
1:05:19
care how damn fine your damn wife is. I don't
1:05:22
care. I give her that compliment. Beautiful lady.
1:05:25
But until we establish all of that, it's not
1:05:28
going to happen. It's not going to happen. I
1:05:31
passed the BBC Bulls stage a long time ago. I
1:05:37
passed that. I had that shit when I was escorting.
1:05:40
And to be honest with you, it kind of got old
1:05:43
quick. It kind of got old really quick. So, you
1:05:48
know, this is where we are now. And and I say
1:05:51
we because I said Mocha's Mocha's in the same
1:05:54
boat. It takes a lot. It takes a lot to to toot
1:05:59
our horn, ladies and gentlemen. It takes a lot.
1:06:01
It really does. And here again, not trying to
1:06:04
sound conceited or arrogant or anything like
1:06:07
that. But when you talk to the three of us, when
1:06:11
you talk to the three of us, we are the definition
1:06:14
of what that quality. Bull is. Period. Facts.
1:06:20
End of story. Drop the mic. Drop the mic. I'm
1:06:28
with you because it's the experience at this
1:06:32
point. I mean, I can have as much sex as I want,
1:06:36
but giving experience is what I want to do. That's
1:06:40
it. That is it. And ladies and gentlemen, we're
1:06:42
going to call it a night. As we said before,
1:06:45
Mr. Mocha has a few things to do, but please,
1:06:48
please tune in to part two. He will be back in
1:06:51
the very near future, and we will continue this
1:06:53
conversation. As for myself, the Sigma male,
1:06:57
I am calling out all my quality bulls out there.
1:07:01
You've heard us, all right? We're speaking the
1:07:04
gospel. For Nephew, Socrates, myself, and Mr.
1:07:08
Mocha, to all the bulls out there, good night.
1:07:10
To all my hot wives, ladies out there. good morning
1:07:14
until we talk again i'll be to say cheers bye
1:07:19
-bye