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How to Heal Your Visibility Wound & Stop Hiding · The Spirit Nomad: Spiritual Awakening + Life Purpose

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  Do you feel called to share your message with the world?
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  But every time you decide, OK, I'm going to post a video or
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  launch a business or put myself out there, you freeze.
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  Perhaps by overthinking, telling yourself I'm not ready, I'll do
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  it. When this and this things are in
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  order, you convince yourself you need one more course, one more
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  certification, more experience with filming, and then you'll be
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  ready. Well, here's a reality check.
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  No matter how many certifications you get, how much
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  healing you go through, you will, you'll never feel ready.
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  So let's heal your visibility wound right here, right now
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  because you have too much wisdom light worker to not share it
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  with the world. There's so many people you have
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  a soul contract with to help this lifetime.
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  So let's do this thing. I'm Julia, a life purpose coach
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  and I help you navigate your spiritual awakening and step
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  into your life purpose and power.
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  And today I wanted to talk about what is a visibility wound?
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  How do you know you have it? How do you overcome it so you
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  can confidently share your gifts with the world and make an
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  impact? And the reason I can talk about
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  it is because I have overcome it.
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  I went from being the most shy girl at school to being a full
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  time content creator with over 100,000 subscribers.
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  So if I can do it, you can too. So first of all, what is
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  actually a visibility wound? A visibility wound is the fear
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  of fully being seen. It's the fear of expressing who
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  you really are because somewhere inside you believe that being
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  seen is unsafe. And this can show up in so many
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  different ways. Maybe you want to start a
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  YouTube channel but you keep delaying it.
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  You write social media posts and never publish them.
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  You constantly compare yourself to others.
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  I'm super guilty of this. You worry about what your
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  family, friends, Co workers or strangers might think.
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  You hide your spiritual gifts, downplay your dreams, and it
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  might look like procrastination. But usually what is underneath
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  there is fear. And an interesting pattern is
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  that what I've noticed at least is that it's mostly spiritual
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  people that deal with this. Of course, this cannot be to
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  anybody, but I think especially spiritual people struggle with
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  this. And my theory is because we are
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  very sensitive, we can feel the energy of others.
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  We deeply care about helping other people.
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  And This is why criticism can feel especially intense.
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  Even a single negative comment can feel overwhelming.
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  I remember when I got my first hate e-mail and to me that was
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  terrifying, but now I'm used to it.
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  There's going to be hate comments, hate emails, but if
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  you have something important to say, there is going to be hate.
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  We live in a world of duality. If you don't get any hate ever
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  as a creator, you're doing something wrong.
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  You're being way too vanilla. You're not speaking your truth.
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  So literally celebrate when you get your first hate comment.
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  And because criticism feels so overwhelming for us, we think if
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  I stay hidden, I stay safe. But unfortunately, it also
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  prevents you from reaching the people who you're here to help.
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  And it goes even deeper for spiritual people.
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  You might have heard about the witch wound.
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  It's possible that many lifetimes you've been a healer
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  or classified as a witch. So you were burned at the
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  stakes. You got tortured because you
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  were against Christianity, the old Christianity at the time,
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  which was very lucrative, right? You have to pay to get your sins
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  forgiven. They didn't want anybody
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  questioning that. So if you have lifetime of the
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  lifetime of getting tortured or killed for speaking your truth,
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  standing in your life, sharing your spiritual wisdom, of course
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  this lifetime you have PTSD, you're freaking scared to speak
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  up. And some signs that this is you
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  is that you might have thoughts like what if people judge me?
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  What if they think I'm crazy? What if I get attacked online?
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  So you nervous system learns to associate visibility with
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  danger. The good news, however, is that
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  you don't have to become fearless.
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  Most content creators are not fearless.
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  They simply learn how to move forward while feeling fear.
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  Because here's what I've learned.
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  Confidence doesn't come before action, but from action.
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  Every video you publish, every post you share, every time you
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  speak your truth, you teach your nervous system.
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  I survived and eventually unsafe.
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  And at one point, you'll get to where I'm now, where I'm like,
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  huh, I actually really enjoy this.
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  So how do you heal your visibility wound?
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  So what really helped for me is remembering the real purpose of
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  content creation. That it's not about getting
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  followers, getting lots of likes.
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  It's an act of service. So imagine someone sitting at
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  home right now, feeling lost, stuck, confused, or alone.
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  Imagine that your message could be exactly what they need to
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  hear, but they never hear it because you're worried about
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  what a random stranger might think.
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  When you look at content creation through the lens of
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  service, everything changes. Focus shifts away from what will
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  people think of me and towards how can I help So if it feels
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  scary, just get into that state of I'm here to serve.
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  In my program, Nomad Freedom Academy, we teach you how to
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  find your ideal avatar. This one person who has gone
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  through things that you can help them with.
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  Usually it's your old self, something that you struggled
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  with in the past that you have now overcome.
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  And if you want to learn more about the program and get more
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  clear on what your niche would be and your purpose, then
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  definitely book a free business clarity call.
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  I've popped the link in the description.
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  Here's here's another huge reframe that I had that helped
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  heal my visibility wound. And that is that the world
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  doesn't need more perfect people.
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  And especially now with the rise of AI, people don't want
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  perfection. In fact, they want the opposite.
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  Like tell me your struggles. Tell me what you're going
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  through. Keep it authentic, right?
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  People are craving real people. When I first started out, I felt
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  like everything had to be perfect.
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  Like full face of makeup, nice clothes, nice hair, amazing
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  background, amazing script. Everything had to be perfect
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  because I thought that is what people want.
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  But then I just started taking messy action and just filmed
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  anyways, even when I wasn't feeling 100%, even if I wasn't
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  looking 100%. And I realized that people don't
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  care. They care about the message that
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  you have, not about the external.
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  My next tip to heal your visibility wound is to stop
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  trying to be a guru or like a spiritual expert.
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  Because then you will always feel like you're never there.
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  Like you need another certification that you need more
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  healing because with spirituality, like you will
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  never be at the finish line. So I want you to not ask am I
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  qualified enough to share this and more about will this help
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  somebody? If you are at B, are the people
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  at step A who could benefit from this?
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  For example, when I first started out my business, I was a
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  digital nomad coach and I felt so terrified charging for this
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  because I had just been a digital nomad for a few months.
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  I wasn't earning much money. And I thought, oh, like this
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  feels weird. Like I'm not qualified, but my
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  clients loved it because they saw me traveling around Asia
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  having this beautiful digital nomad lifestyle.
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  So they didn't care that I wasn't earning 6 figures at that
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  point. They just wanted to know how can
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  I go from my office job to where you are now?
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  And I could help with that. So know that you know enough
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  now. So only help people who are at
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  step A if you are at step B, right?
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  So don't try to go all the way to step Z before you start
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  teaching. And with time, your teachings
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  will evolve, your products will evolve, your content will
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  evolve. That is completely natural.
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  We are here on Earth to live and learn.
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  Take them with you on that journey.
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  That's what people want, not some perfect guru.
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  They need a real human being who's willing to be honest about
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  their journey. And that might be exactly what
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  makes your message powerful. What was your biggest aha
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  moment? And I dare you to post one thing
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  today to your social media to take messy action because that
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  is what will get you the results.
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  Now your next question might be, how do I actually turn this into
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  a business? Then watch Best Business Models
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  for Spiritual People And Next up, love you so much and see you
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  in the next video.