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Friday HAPPY HOUR! June 16th, 2023 | Miss Understood Podcast · Miss Understood with Rachel Uchitel

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  Speaker 1: I'm your host, Rachel. You could tell you are here
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  Speaker 1: for happy hour with Kelly Brink, my producer. Welcome everybody.
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  Speaker 2: Hey everybody. Welcome back. Number two, our second one.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for listening. We wanted to
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  Speaker 2: Thank you. So Rachel, You seem frazzled. Are you doing okay?
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  Speaker 2: It's Thursday. It's almost the weekend. This should be good.
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  Speaker 2: But you've got a lot going on this week.
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  Speaker 1: I've had a crazy week. First of all, we had
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  Speaker 1: two great guests that we had on this week. But
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  Speaker 1: then I'm going to start with this because it's just
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  Speaker 1: so crazy. As I was driving here, I had to
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  Speaker 1: deal with a psychotext from Kate Lohan. Because I posted
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  Speaker 1: this morning a picture of my interview that I did
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  Speaker 1: last night, which doesn't come out for a couple of
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  Speaker 1: weeks or whatever. But I had Michael Lohan, Lindsay Lohan's father,
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  Speaker 1: and Kate Lohan's estranged husband on the show. And there
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  Speaker 1: was a photo. And then we all went out to dinner.
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  Speaker 1: We went out to dinner with Tariq and his wife.
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  Speaker 1: Tariq is a man that people might remember. I'm not
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  Speaker 1: saying his last name because I can't pronounce it properly.
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  Speaker 1: Salaway or something. And I love Tariq. He's so great.
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  Speaker 1: But he became famous years ago because he crashed, apparently
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  Speaker 1: crashed the White House with his then wife, Michaela, who's
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  Speaker 1: now remarried to the, one of the singers of Journey.
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  Speaker 1: And so they made news because people were like, who
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  Speaker 1: are these two that crashed the White House? And so
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  Speaker 1: we became friends in like 2013. And, you know, now we,
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  Speaker 1: reconnected and had dinner last night with his new wife.
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  Speaker 1: She's not that new. She's been around for six years
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  Speaker 1: and she's beautiful and fun. And then we met up with,
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  Speaker 1: you know, some people that were, you know, in business
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  Speaker 1: with Michael, which is why he's in town. And so
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  Speaker 1: that's it. So I just posted the fact that I
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  Speaker 1: had him on the show and that we were at
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  Speaker 1: dinner and I get a text about 20 minutes ago
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  Speaker 1: as I'm getting in my car to drive here. You
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  Speaker 1: guys won't believe this. So this is from Kate Lohan,
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  Speaker 1: who by the way, used to be a friend of
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  Speaker 1: mine who, when she was having hard times with Michael,
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  Speaker 1: she would come and stay at my apartment in New York.
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  Speaker 1: So this morning at 10 42 AM, you're such a
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  Speaker 1: sneaky bitch, Rachel, meeting up with my husband. It's typical Rachel.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm just like, what? Yeah. By the way, she
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  Speaker 1: just got out of prison yesterday for like her third
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  Speaker 1: DUI and just her complete psycho behavior. And she went
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  Speaker 1: in for, I don't know, to go to the court
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  Speaker 1: seven days ago and was drunk. So they put her
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  Speaker 1: in jail. She wasn't even supposed to go to jail
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  Speaker 1: that day, but she's going to go away for a
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  Speaker 1: long time. This kind of toxic behavior is what we
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  Speaker 1: were talking about on Michael's show yesterday. He stays with
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  Speaker 1: her because she's the mother of his kids, but she's
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  Speaker 1: just so toxic. I am saying it now because she
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  Speaker 1: threatens about stuff like this. And then she's the type
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  Speaker 1: of person and Michael talks about in the show, but
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  Speaker 1: she will stage things and like call TMZ or call different, um,
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  Speaker 1: media companies and then tell them all this stuff, chirp
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  Speaker 1: in their ear and then stages. So she'll say like, um,
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  Speaker 1: you know, Michael's driving drunk and then she'll, you know, uh,
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  Speaker 1: she'll stage it. Do you know what I mean? Like
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  Speaker 1: if he was drinking, he's not drinking right now, but
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  Speaker 1: she would then call the cops when he got in
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  Speaker 1: the car. So, I mean, just really psycho behavior. And
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  Speaker 1: I'm quite frankly over it. So I'm not scared of her.
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  Speaker 1: I don't give a shit. And I'm not going to
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  Speaker 1: like have somebody text me a message like this when
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  Speaker 1: I'm like going through my life. And I'm just interviewing
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  Speaker 1: her estranged husband who happens to be a friend of
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  Speaker 1: mine for 14 years. So I don't want her husband.
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  Speaker 1: I don't need her husband. I'm friends with him. I'm
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  Speaker 1: allowed to be friends with him. And he made the
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  Speaker 1: choice to come on the show. So I'm not Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, first off, number one, jealousy. I mean, right. Just,
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I, And the picture that you took and
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  Speaker 2: you posted on Instagram was awesome. And you guys were
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  Speaker 2: in a group. It's not like you were cozied up
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  Speaker 2: together or anything like that. So it's ridiculous really. And
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  Speaker 2: I mean the staging, the paparazzi stuff, a lot of
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  Speaker 2: people do that, but that's kind of like to the extreme.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, to set people up for a bad, for
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  Speaker 1: a lie, that's not cool. And that's why she's, you know,
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  Speaker 1: been in and out of prisons for the, you know,
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  Speaker 1: jail for the last eight years. And that's why Michael
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  Speaker 1: has full custody of the kids. And, but I'm just
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  Speaker 1: so sick and tired of people trying to, you know,
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  Speaker 1: blame me for their bad relationships. And to add in
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  Speaker 1: the typical Rachel, I mean, that really threw me over
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  Speaker 1: the edge because doing her husband a favor, by the way,
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  Speaker 1: you know, and.
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  Speaker 2: Their kids and their kids. Yes. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Do you find that you get stuff like this a lot? Because,
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  Speaker 2: you know, past headlines, past relationships. It's not like you
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  Speaker 2: have sought out these relationships or anything like that. But
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  Speaker 2: do you find that you have women who get angry
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  Speaker 2: or jealous.
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  Speaker 1: Or just label you? Yeah. And they're so obnoxious and
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  Speaker 1: label me, of course. By the way, yes, I was
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  Speaker 1: involved with a married man 14 years ago. By the way,
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  Speaker 1: I don't date married men.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 1: So, you know, and I'm not, by the way, I've
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  Speaker 1: never cheated on anyone that I've been with ever. I'm
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  Speaker 1: completely monogamous and I believe in relationships. So I'm not
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  Speaker 1: that vixen like that. I like to be in a relationship.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not in one now, but I'm looking for, you know,
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  Speaker 1: looking to be in one. And I just find it
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  Speaker 1: to be like disgusting when jealous women or women that
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  Speaker 1: have issues put their stuff on me because it's just
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  Speaker 1: not okay anymore with me. I'm like so pissed about it. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Which is why you started- I didn't even move on,
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  Speaker 1: but like that just kind of text in the morning
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  Speaker 1: on a Friday is just like, fuck off, you know?
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Like I don't know who she thinks she is to
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  Speaker 1: be able to talk to me like that.
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  Speaker 2: You're so tough though. And this is what people love
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  Speaker 2: about you. You don't take shit. I love that. Kind
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  Speaker 2: of why you started the podcast, take back your narrative.
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  Speaker 2: Like that's not who I am. Stop labeling me that way.
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  Speaker 2: And I love that. Okay. Stuff like that like makes
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  Speaker 2: me shake inside. I get like, so we, but you're
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  Speaker 2: just like, fuck you. I'm moving on.
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  Speaker 1: I love that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: But it, no, but it gets to you. I know.
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  Speaker 1: Constantly come at you, but like I've worked for so
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  Speaker 1: long to prove myself when quite frankly, I really didn't
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  Speaker 1: need to do that to anyone else, but that of
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  Speaker 1: who I am and the type of person I am
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  Speaker 1: and what I do and how good of a mom
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  Speaker 1: I am. And like my morals are not, you know,
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  Speaker 1: just cause I'm talking to a guy doesn't mean I'm
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  Speaker 1: even remotely thinking about fucking them.
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  Speaker 3: I know.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I do know.
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  Speaker 1: It's so, I'm like the man and the woman in
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  Speaker 1: my life. Like I don't, you know, cause I'm so
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  Speaker 1: tough and resourceful. I get everything done. Like Unless somebody
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  Speaker 1: really adds something to my life, I have no interest.
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  Speaker 1: I like, you know, I'm a little bit of a shredder.
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  Speaker 1: I just, I have no patience. And the second they
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  Speaker 1: get jealous or insecure or any sort of feminine energy,
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  Speaker 1: I'm just like, bye, because I don't have time for it.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm not soothing and calm and sweet, you know?
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  Speaker 1: So like, anyway, it's harder for me to.
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  Speaker 2: So you had Michael Lohan on. He's coming up. Not
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  Speaker 2: released yet. We've had some other great guests on. We
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  Speaker 2: had two wonderful guests on this week. Let's talk about
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  Speaker 2: that a little bit. We had Nicole Mitchell on the
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  Speaker 2: show and Atuza Rubenstein.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Totally different type of guests, by the way, but
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  Speaker 1: so interesting. And we were out at dinner last night.
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  Speaker 1: I was even, they were asking me the type of
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  Speaker 1: guests I have on my show. And I was explaining
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  Speaker 1: those two and how different they are, but how interesting
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  Speaker 1: they are. So Nicole, for people that didn't listen to
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  Speaker 1: it yet, was a woman who was married with three kids.
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  Speaker 1: She was a pastor, a female pastor, and was very
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  Speaker 1: good at public speaking. She believed in Christ and all
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  Speaker 1: this religious stuff and was very good and happy in
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  Speaker 1: her life. And then after years of sort of struggling
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  Speaker 1: with stuff, realized that she was queer and That's the
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  Speaker 1: term she uses for herself. And then from there, she
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  Speaker 1: realized that she was very into her sexuality.
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  Speaker 4: They think you're done for the day, but they don't
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  Speaker 4: know about the drawer. The drawer. Just the one square
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  Speaker 4: before bed. Or two, you know. Nobody's watching. You deserve
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  Speaker 4: a treat.
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  Speaker 5: With eight flavors to choose from, you can choose the
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  Speaker 5: flavor you favor with Cadbury Dairy Milk.
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  Speaker 1: And wanted to become a stripper. So from pastor to stripper,
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  Speaker 1: I find it, you know, headline making. I find it
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  Speaker 1: so interesting. And by the way, she's so well-spoken.
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  Speaker 2: I was going to say that.
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  Speaker 1: She's really respect what she says because she's so well-spoken.
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  Speaker 1: She's not some ditzy woman. And now she teaches women
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  Speaker 1: who want to embrace their sexuality and also want to
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  Speaker 1: make money and get on OnlyFans, how to have an
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  Speaker 1: OnlyFans account, how to make money. Because she went from
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  Speaker 1: literally being on food stamps to making over seven figures.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: A year is divorce now, really takes care of herself.
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  Speaker 1: And I really respect that. I do too. Choosing your
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  Speaker 1: path that makes you happy, life is way too short.
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  Speaker 1: So what did you think of her interview?
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  Speaker 6: Sorry.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, No, I loved Nicole. She really surprised me, first
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  Speaker 2: of all. And she is just absolutely adorable. She's like
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  Speaker 2: girl next door, cute, but like very open about, like
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  Speaker 2: you said, her sexuality. She will talk about any subject, anything,
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  Speaker 2: including deep throating, things like that, everything.
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  Speaker 1: It was so interesting to me, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Her backstory is fascinating. She was so repressed. She grew
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  Speaker 2: up in actually a very repressive religious environment. And she
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  Speaker 2: left it. She's very happy now, super successful. And I
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  Speaker 2: was going to say, she says in the podcast, it's
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  Speaker 2: not just about spreading my legs and whatever. It's about
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  Speaker 2: opening my heart to people. She really gives people a
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  Speaker 2: glimpse into her life. She does add a lot of value.
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  Speaker 2: She teaches classes. She's a life coach. And she's very successful,
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  Speaker 2: which I was really interested in. And a lot of people,
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  Speaker 2: there's a lot to learn from Nicole. So don't judge
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  Speaker 2: the episode. Listen, give it a listen. It's entertaining and
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  Speaker 2: you're going to be surprised by Nicole. So, yeah, but
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  Speaker 2: totally different than our guest on Wednesday, Atuza Rubenstein. They
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  Speaker 2: took very different paths and I was so impressed by Atuza.
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  Speaker 2: she is so down to earth, just so down to earth.
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  Speaker 2: And I just loved her story. Like, what did you
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  Speaker 2: think you were there in person with her?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we were in person. We met in, uh, we
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  Speaker 1: met up in New York and, um, first of all,
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  Speaker 1: she's just so stunning and interesting in, in person, you know,
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  Speaker 1: she's a very tall woman. Um, she's just so stylish and,
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  Speaker 1: you know, she walks in and you're just like, wow,
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  Speaker 1: she's gotta be someone, you know? And I think, um,
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  Speaker 1: the way she spoke, the way she carried herself, the
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  Speaker 1: way she talked. And by the way, the reason why
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  Speaker 1: I booked her was because a couple of my friends
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  Speaker 1: who are very well-known people in the fashion business right
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  Speaker 1: now said to me, you know, this is a woman
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  Speaker 1: you should have on your podcast because she's so interesting
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  Speaker 1: and she ruled the world to the point where like
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  Speaker 1: SNL was using her in a skit because she was
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  Speaker 1: so well-known at such a young age. And then she
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  Speaker 1: just gave it all up. And you know, we want
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  Speaker 1: to know why and what happened to her, but she
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  Speaker 1: was our idol. She was an icon. She was a
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  Speaker 1: legend back then. And like, we want to know what
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  Speaker 1: happened because she just resurfaced again on social media. So
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  Speaker 1: I was honored when I saw that she was like
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  Speaker 1: following me and she was liking all of our stuff.
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  Speaker 1: And then I asked her to be on the program
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  Speaker 1: and we had some mutual friends and she just was
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  Speaker 1: like so fantastic in person and what a story. So,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I don't know, for people that didn't know
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  Speaker 1: her name as a household name, it's actually a really,
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  Speaker 1: really cool story about, you know, you can have everything
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  Speaker 1: and still be unhappy. And then what you choose to
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  Speaker 1: do with that is like how you go on a
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  Speaker 1: new path in your life. And you can stay on
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  Speaker 1: that because money might be what drives you and that
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  Speaker 1: can get you through and you can find happiness in that.
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  Speaker 1: But she had all the money. She had a husband.
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  Speaker 1: She had all these things going on, but she just
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  Speaker 1: was not okay inside. And I think it was just
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  Speaker 1: a really interesting story. Because not a lot of people
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  Speaker 1: would have the courage to quit and to give up
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  Speaker 1: all that.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 2: I agree. And she gave it up for motherhood and
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  Speaker 2: to be a wife. And that's very commendable. And we
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  Speaker 2: can all relate to Atuza because she has done it all.
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  Speaker 2: She's been a total boss babe in the career world.
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  Speaker 2: And she's been like a stay-at-home mom. She's an entrepreneur.
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  Speaker 2: So many things.
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  Speaker 5: And I.
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  Speaker 2: predict that there's a lot coming from her soon. I
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  Speaker 2: think she's going to, you know, she's battling cancer, but
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  Speaker 2: she's winning. She's gone through this messy divorce, but she
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  Speaker 2: is totally... going through this journey. And I think she's
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  Speaker 2: going to do something big here.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Me too. I hope so. I hope so. So
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  Speaker 1: I want to hear about what's happened in the seven
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  Speaker 1: days since we announced that you're getting married.
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  Speaker 3: Okay. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: For people that don't know what I'm talking about, Kelly
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  Speaker 1: is getting married on New Year's Eve of 2024. And
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  Speaker 1: the catch here is that we don't know who she's marrying.
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  Speaker 1: So we're looking for him. So in the week since
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  Speaker 1: we announced this, we created a Bumble site online. We
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  Speaker 1: created a Seeking Arrangement site online. And we've been entertaining
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  Speaker 1: different people that are reaching out to us about who
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  Speaker 1: wants to get set up with Kelly. So I will
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  Speaker 1: start by saying, because I've been managing some of these
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  Speaker 1: accounts like the response was like, are you real? Remember
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  Speaker 1: the guy who told you to like go stand next
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  Speaker 1: to a telephone? Yeah. I do hold up a daily
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  Speaker 1: newspaper so he could see that you're a real person. Yep.
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  Speaker 2: Yep.
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  Speaker 1: So tell me, tell me all about what's been going
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  Speaker 1: on this week.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. So I have a new second full-time
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  Speaker 2: job now it's vetting these potential suitors and no, it's,
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  Speaker 2: it is, This is why I was single for a
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  Speaker 2: long time and I just didn't have time to date.
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  Speaker 2: I just wrote it off because, wow, it's a lot.
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  Speaker 1: It's time consuming. It is. You have to put something
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  Speaker 1: into it to get the right person because you have
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  Speaker 1: to sift through all the junk. Yes.
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  Speaker 2: There's a lot of sifting going on. I've already received
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  Speaker 2: my first dick pic. So that's it. Yep. Yep.
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  Speaker 1: Was it good?
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  Speaker 2: It was good. Yes, it was good. Should I do
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  Speaker 2: a dick rating? Yes. Yes.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: It wasn't a close-up, actually. It was a full head-to-toe.
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  Speaker 5: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: The body was amazing. I didn't look super close at
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  Speaker 2: the dick.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I did. You didn't zoom in or anything?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, okay, I'm lying. I did do that, but
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  Speaker 2: it was good.
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  Speaker 1: So are you going out on a date with him
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: is the question?
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: No, absolutely not.
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: Because of the dick?
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: No, not because of the dick. Well, first off, he
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: used this lame excuse and was like, oh my God.
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: The next day he was like, I didn't mean to
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: send that. I thought I was just sending you a picture.
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: I'm like, mm-hmm, mm-hmm. And then he was like, I
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: tried to delete it. Okay, I think I deleted it.
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure you didn't see what I just sent.
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: Because you hadn't responded and said, oh, what an amazing dick.
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: I mean, is that what guys want you to say?
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: That's the most beautiful dick I've ever seen in my life.
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: I am giving you an award and a prize for
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: best dick. I don't know.
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I have a gentleman here I can ask. Richard,
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: what are your thoughts? What do you want to hear
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: from a woman?
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: Richard, by the way, does anyone call you dick, Richard?
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: He said yes.
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: Oh, okay.
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: Okay. Okay.
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: If you send a dick pic, do you want to hear, oh,
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: that's a nice one? Or you just wanted to send
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: it for your own, you know, Oh, he wants the validation,
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: he said.
• 17:37
  Speaker 6: Okay.
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: All right.
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: Good to know. So you got to validate next time.
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: I think they all do. He was a little unique anyway,
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: and I learned a good lesson. Don't ever send someone
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: your cell phone number or give someone your personal cell
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: phone number until you've met them in person and vetted
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: them in person. And that's the one time I did it.
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: After I did it, I was like, oh, I wish
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: I could take that back because I Also, I Googled
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: my own cell phone number out of curiosity and it
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: all comes out.
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: All your information came out? Yes.
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: That's really scary. Yeah.
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: I used to work in real estate and that's the
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: same phone number I had for my business then. And
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: I've never changed it. I should probably change it. But anyway,
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: so anyway, besides that, that was exciting. But I'm on
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: two dating apps that I've never been on before, Seeking
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: and Bumble. They're very different.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: They're very different. But before we even started the seeking,
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: I think you had already been invited on a boat
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: trip this weekend from someone.
• 18:41
  Speaker 5: They think you're done for the day, but they don't
• 18:44
  Speaker 5: know about the drawer.
• 18:46
  Speaker 4: The drawer. Just the one square before bed. Or two,
• 18:53
  Speaker 4: you know. Nobody's watching. You deserve a treat.
• 19:00
  Speaker 5: With eight flavors to choose from, you can choose the
• 19:03
  Speaker 5: flavor you favor with Cadbury Dairy Milk.
• 19:11
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: Yep.
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: I got invited.
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: Are you going to go?
• 19:14
  Speaker 6: I am.
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: Wow.
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: I think.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: Have you guys been speaking?
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: So it's someone I knew before. So I, I know
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: him like in real life and he's a super great guy.
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I guess there was no love connection
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: before and there probably isn't now either.
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: Well, did you actually go on a date with him before?
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: No, no, I didn't. It wasn't a date. So I've
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: only known him like in a personal, you know, just
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: like knowing the same people being in the same places.
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: And I also got invited to a concert that I'm
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: going to.
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: When is that?
• 19:51
  Speaker 3: Oh God.
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: It's like in a week or something. So I am super.
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: We're going to have so much to follow up on
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: and hear how the in-person offers went. So after, I'm curious,
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: after these guys asked you out, did you stop going
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: on the site and looking at other guys?
• 20:04
  Speaker 6: Yes.
• 20:06
  Speaker 5: No.
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: No, I'm looking for my husband here. I can't just
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: stop after one person invites me on a date, you know?
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: I'm just making sure that that's your mindset.
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: Oh, that is.
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: So now talk to me about what your thoughts are
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: on the difference between Seeking Arrangement and Bumble.
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: Okay. And first, and I also want to point out
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: the differences between Tinder and Bumble also, because I've been
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: on Tinder in the past, night and day difference. So
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: on Bumble, what I'm noticing is a lot more stable,
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: secure professional men, you know, who are good, like seem
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: like genuinely good people. Most of them have kids. They
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: are looking for a long-term relationship. Nobody on Bumble like
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: really wants a hookup or anything, which I'm happy about.
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: That's great.
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: A lot more- They may just have not told you
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: that yet, but yeah, I know what you mean. Tinder
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: does seem like you're swiping to just see who I
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: want to fuck, who I want to fuck.
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: Yes, yes. Tinder's totally like that. And then you've got all,
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: on Tinder, the men can make the first move. Bumble,
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: they cannot make the first move, which I hate because
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: I don't like making the first move. Part of the
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: courting process for me is seeing how a man will
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: make the first move. I like it. I like their
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: opening lines. I want to see what they use as
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: the initial pickup line or whatever and see how creative
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: they are. I like that. So I don't like that
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: about Bumble. But the quality of men on Bumble– also,
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: they're older. They're a little older on Bumble, I feel like, too.
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: I feel like Tinder is, like, more for the younger guys.
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: I think a little older is important because they've had experience.
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: They have a little stability that comes with them, you know.
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: So usually these are divorced men with some kids. You
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: have kids. It, like, makes more sense. It makes so
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: much sense. Some, like, 28-year-old who just, you know, has
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: a cougar complex or whatever.
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: Yes. Yeah. So on Bumble, my first day that I
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: signed up, I had 300 likes on it from like
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: 300 different people reaching out. And that was, it was
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: very overwhelming and I can't sift through all that. And
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: this is why I've delayed or deleted dating apps in
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: the past because I can't, I can't process it. It's
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: so much. And like, what, I don't know what to do.
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: And like, what about this? This is a great guy.
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: What if I miss out on the right one? And
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: it's so overwhelming. It's like being presented with this huge
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: buffet of gourmet food. No, I'm like, what do I
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: eat first? I want the dessert too. No, but it
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: is hard. But I've been talking to a couple of
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: great guys on there. Some of them are so great
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: and so sweet that I almost feel like he might
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: not be the one for me because he would like,
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: it seems like go get married today. Like, so kind
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: of like just really yearning for that long-term relationship. And
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: I want to take it really slow. So, but yeah.
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: So Bumble's great. Seeking is a whole different thing too.
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: I have never been on that. And it's very interesting
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: to me. There are a lot of, I mean, there
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: are some like catfishy kind of men actually on seeking
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: who are say they're so wealthy and they own a
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: company and they blah, blah, blah, whatever. And that might be,
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: but they try to inflate their presence and stuff.
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure. I mean, because part of what's on
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: there is their net worth or how much they make
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: a year, because that's somewhat of the guidelines of what
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: that site is about. And from looking at your your
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: posts or whatever, I've noticed that the guys that are responding,
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: they're all genuinely interested in you. But then when I
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: look at their stats, they just look like ding-dongs because
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: it's like, oh, I'm worth over, my net worth is
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: over a hundred million dollars. No, it's not.
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: No, it's not.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: You look like you're 30. You look like you live
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: in your parents' basement. Like, you know, you could tell
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: when people write stuff like that, that they're just full
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: of shit, you know? And It doesn't matter. Nobody needs
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: to have that much money. Like that's crazy. But like
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: the fact that they put that down just makes me
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: feel like they're a liar anyway. So you should pass.
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: I agree.
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: And what we need to say is you have been
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: in charge of my seeking account. You started it out
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: because we know I have a bad picker. So you.
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: just cut to the chase. See, I don't know if
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: you would have been like that on your own dating
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: account or whatever, but like for me, you were like, nope, nope.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: I would just delete people before you even see it
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: because I was like, he's a loser. He's a liar.
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: He's a ding dong, like, you know, whatever. And sometimes
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: I would send you a picture and you'd be like, oh,
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: he's cute. And I'm like, no, he's not. He's like 12. Boom.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: He looks a little feminine.
• 25:03
  Speaker 3: Boom.
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: You know, whatever. So Um, yeah, we've been going through
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: them very quick, but you have such a response that
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: like people are freaking out. Like they've never seen anything
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: like you on their site in your area, you know? So, um,
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: there's a lot of sugar daddies in the Midwest, I guess,
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: who are eagerly awaiting a date or a response from you.
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: Yes. We'll see how that plays out. Yeah. But it
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: has been interesting. You know, I'm not caught up in
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: how much money somebody makes or anything like that, but
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: I love being surrounded by professional, successful people who have
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: something to teach me about because I'm very, I'm entrepreneurial
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: and I've started a business and things like that. And
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: I like to be surrounded by people who can bring
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: something to the table and, you know, kind of mentor
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: me a little bit too, not just like dating. And
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: like we talked about last week, so many times have
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: I been the one who pays for everything, which is crazy.
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: And now I see I was being used a few
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: times in some relationships and I never want to experience
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: that again. I have no problem paying once in a while,
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: but like, yeah. And that's not on that particular site
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: that people are not really like that, you know? So yeah.
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: No, I agree. I think it's, I think it'll be
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: interesting to see how, if anything pans out there or
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: if you actually like anyone or have a connection. Cause
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: I know when I've been responding for you on that site,
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: I've been saying like chemistry is important, you know, let's,
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: you know, cause some people will be really aggressive and
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: be like, can you meet on Friday or whatever? It's like, no,
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: let's talk for a second. If there's chemistry, then I
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: would be interested in meeting you. But like, I have
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: to hear who you are a little bit first.
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: Absolutely. Yeah. Like we've talked about on lots of episodes,
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: like with Aliza, Jewish matchmaking guru, she talked about that too.
• 26:54
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: And I have noticed in a lot of men's profiles
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: on there that it says that they're looking for true love,
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: that they're looking, they're marriage minded, that they are looking
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: for something more than just a hookup. So I do
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: think that that site can be really helpful for the
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: right person.
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: I think so too. One thing I want to add
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: about seeking is I love the direct communication. It's a
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: site for people who know exactly what they want. They've
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: tried traditional dating in the past. They've either been screwed
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: over or just not finding quality people. So if you
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: are someone who knows exactly what you want and you're
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: good with that kind of direct communication, you can just say,
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: I'm looking for this. I'm looking for this. Oh, I
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: want something else. Okay, bye. Good luck. You know, and
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: you just part ways. And it's just, it's not like
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: any other dating.
• 27:47
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  Speaker 3: Of what's next.
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: Dating site iPhone. ever seen. And so I really like
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: that you establish right away if you would have long-term
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: goals that match.
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: Sure. And if people are still unfamiliar with what to
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: expect in that kind of dating pool, we did do
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: an episode with a woman who basically lives her life
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: as a sugar baby. And you should go back and
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: listen to that episode. I think it's episode five, maybe
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: somewhere at the beginning, but it was very informative. It
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: was one of our best interviews actually. And it was
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: a girl who was working in retail and then she
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: saw someone come into her store and realized that was
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: a completely different life than what she had and she
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: wanted it. And so she goes on to discuss like
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: how she became a sugar baby and what that's like
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: and what it's been like and her experiences. So I
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: think that's a really interesting episode. People have loved it.
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: People have loved it. It's called Confessions of a Sugar Baby.
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: You can find it anywhere. You, you know, get your podcasts,
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: look down towards, you know, one of our earlier episodes,
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: but it's great. Not saying I'm going to be a
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: sugar baby, but I do.
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: Doesn't mean it, but you can meet someone professional and
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: successful on that site.
• 29:29
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: And also, I mean, I know you, so I know
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: you're not responding to these people or even wanting from
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: these people, to be like, oh, take me out, get
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: me a Chanel purse as a gift. That's not even
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: the conversations that you're even having there because I'm having
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: half the conversations for you. So that's not even it,
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: but it's just the type of people are interesting.
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: That's all. Totally. And seeking has rebranded itself in the
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: last few years. It's not just a sugar baby situation anymore.
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: It's also for people who, like I said, know what
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: they want, haven't had luck with the traditional dating apps
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: and it's regular dating apps. So it's great. So yeah,
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: that's what's going on. We'll see what happens and I
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: will keep you guys updated. And again, if anybody does
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: think they've got a quality man for me to bring
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: to the dating pool, you can email us.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: What's the email again?
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: It is gettingmarriedatmisunderstoodpodcast.com.
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: Okay. Yeah.
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: I can't wait to see how this transpires in the
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: next week.
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I know. Me too. So let's move on to
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: some current events. Let's get off of my dating life.
• 30:39
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: Today is Donald Trump's birthday. Did you know that?
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: I did not know that.
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: Yes. The Twitter versus blowing up, um, talking about his
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: birthday today. Uh, so hopefully he has a happy birthday.
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: He's got a lot going on in his life right now.
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I wonder how he's feeling on his birthday. I
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: wonder if he's spending it with Melania.
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: Definitely playing golf. He's in Florida. He's not too far
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: from you really.
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: So yeah, we definitely do not go in the same circles, but, uh,
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: He is down here in Florida. Yeah.
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: I can tell you where he's not. He's not on
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: a cruise ship. Let's talk about the news a little bit.
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: Some of this cruise ship news that's been happening. We
• 31:20
  Speaker 2: were going to talk about this story last week. We
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: didn't get a chance. But there is a norovirus epidemic
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: happening on cruise ships lately. Have you ever been on
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: a cruise, by the way?
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: I have.
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: I went on a cruise years ago. It was the
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: worst experience of my life. First of all, I just
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: felt seasick the whole time. Second of all, the ship's
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: like really big and annoying. Like it takes you forever
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: to get all these places. When there's bad weather, it's like,
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: you know, moving around and like you just feel gross.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: the quarters, even if you get something on the nicer areas,
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: are really small. If you're there with a guy you
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: don't know well, you've got to share a bathroom. It's
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: just gross, especially if the norovirus is going on. And also,
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: there's so much food. It's like gluttonous. But I don't
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: play shuffle ball or whatever. I don't do all those things.
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: So It just wasn't fun for me at all. I
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: did not like it. I just, I'm not a cruise person,
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: but there are people that love the cruises. But what
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: we read is that there's been a lot of problems
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: on these cruises where most of the people ended up
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: having projectile vomiting situations and explosive diarrhea, explosive diarrhea. So
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: imagine being on a date with a guy and having
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: to share this, you know, cabin with with someone and
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: you're just in there with explosive diarrhea and you're banging
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: on there being like.
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: Get out.
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: I've got to go now. You know, I mean, the
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: whole thing is so horrible.
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: It's so horrible and it gets worse. But can you
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: imagine being on your honeymoon and that happening?
• 32:50
  Speaker 6: Oh, true.
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah. It'd be so terrible.
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: But it gets even worse than just the diarrhea because
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: people have died. On one of the celebrity cruise ships,
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: it was going from New Jersey to Bermuda. The norovirus
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: just came on strong and there were 200 passengers who
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: were experiencing this and one of them actually died. This
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: is a terrible story.
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: So Robert- The gentleman who was put in an ice
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: bucket or something?
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: Yes. Yeah. So Robert Jones, he died from heart complications
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: after this virus. And He was put in a cooler,
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: a beverage cooler on the ship. He was there for
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: days just laying on the floor in a body bag.
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: He decomposed so badly during that time. I'm laughing, but
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: it is not funny. It's really horrible. He decomposed so
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: badly during that time that he couldn't even have an
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: open casket for his funeral. Okay. Yeah. And the family's, yeah,
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: it's terrible. It's really sad. The family is suing for
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: $ 1 million due to that.
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: And honestly, I mean, that's crazy.
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: I think $ 1 million is like getting off pretty cheap.
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: Too little. I mean, imagine you work there and you're
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: going in to grab, you know, some diet Cokes for
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: some people out at the pool and there's a body.
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: I mean, how awful. And then this poor man who
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: was traveling with his wife and, you know, they're looking
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: forward to this holiday and they're, you know, pooling all
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: their money together to, you know, to go on this trip.
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: And then he just drops dead and they don't even
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: take care of him properly. The whole thing is really awful.
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: This is why I'm saying cruises are a bad decision.
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: Do something else besides going on a cruise.
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: Speaking of that, why it's a bad decision. Well, I've
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: never been on a cruise. I don't want to go
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: on a cruise because of so many horror stories, but
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: I would feel very claustrophobic. I feel like, I feel
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: like I'd, yeah, I feel like I'd get bored, but
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: I know there's a lot of activities, but there have
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: been so many unexplained deaths on cruise ships and the
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: big company, sometimes they kind of like cover things up or,
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: you know, people randomly fall overboard and go missing or
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: there've been murders and things like that on.
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: It's just like, do you remember that story of they
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: have it in the true crime world of It was
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: like a very good looking couple and they were on
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: their honeymoon and he fell out the window. It was
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: like blood off of the balcony and he went missing
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: and they assumed that he went in the water cause
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: he's never been found again. And I'm not sure why
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: that maybe the fiance or the wife was charged, but
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: I just remember that I've seen it on a couple
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: of date lines or whatever, but I thought that was crazy.
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: That is crazy. I remember that from True Crime World.
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: I don't remember all the details, but I totally remember
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: what you're talking about. But that's not the only time
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: that's happened either. There have been several mysterious deaths that,
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: you know, just a lot of crazy stuff. No cruises
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: for me. No diarrhea.
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: Let's keep that off our list for sure.
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: So, okay. I know you probably don't drink beer. Do you?
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: Are you a beer girl? I've never had a beer,
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: if you can believe that. I can't believe that. Yeah. Okay.
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: I stick to Chardonnay and Aperol spreads, but I have
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: a fear of throwing up. Did you know this about me?
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: You told me that early on when we met and yes,
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: I knew that.
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: It's a really crazy fear. When I was four years old,
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: I ate poison berries and my mother gave me Ipecac
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: because she called poison control and they said that that's
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: what you give a child when they eat something poisonous.
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: And I had, I mean, sorry, I want to spare
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: you the details, but I will say I had rice
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: and beans and some green grapes for breakfast. lunch that day.
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: And I projectile vomited all this. To this day, I'm 48.
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: I do not eat rice and beans. I do not
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: eat green grapes. It traumatized me in a way because
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: it was so violent the way you throw up when
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: you take Ipecac that I'm petrified of throwing up. Like
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: I'd rather be on a hijacked plane and I've never
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: thrown up again. I have medicine in my house to
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: prevent me from feeling nauseous.
• 36:52
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• 37:12
  Speaker 1: We are not a household that throws up. Anytime my
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: daughter has a stomachache, I like talk her down. I'm like,
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: you're not going to throw up. You're going to be fine.
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: It's something that scared me from childhood.
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. So even like the flu or anything,
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: you just.
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: I've never, no. I don't drink a lot is how
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: we got on this conversation, but because I don't go
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: on roller coasters, but I don't want to do anything
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: that's going to put myself in a situation where I
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: throw up. And if I hear somebody gagging- I will freeze.
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: I'm not somebody that has any nervous energy, but if
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: someone gags in the vicinity of me where I can
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: hear it, I start to panic. I'm like, oh my God,
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: what is that? Get me away from that person.
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: What if it's your dog?
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: Oh, well, my dog gags all the time because she's
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: always getting into some sort of nonsense. But it's, I
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: get upset for her. Like, you know, I, I feel
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: like empathetic about it because I know it's so scary,
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: but dogs, because they throw up all the time, it's
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: not a big deal. I mean, my dog just spends
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: her life, you know, shitting and throwing up kind of,
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: so it's a little bit tragic, but I don't get
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: as upset. I, I do get nervous for her, but
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: it's not something where I'm like, oh my God, I
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: have to like run out of the room.
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I, I throw up All the time. No,
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: I really don't. But I have thrown up a lot.
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: It is the worst. It's terrible. And yeah, speaking of alcohol,
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: I can't drink very much and can't handle my alcohol
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: at all. But sometimes I do it anyway. And when
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: I do, I will throw up. So note to self,
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: I'll do that way far away from you if I
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: have to do that. But back to beer. Have you heard? No,
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: that's a great rabbit hole. Have you heard, though, about
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: the whole Bud Light thing going on? Their new spokesperson. Oh,
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: tell me. very conservative people have had a terrible reaction.
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: People are boycotting Bud Light. It's craziness because Dylan Mulvaney
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: is a transgender woman. And that's a little controversial. People
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: have had a terrible reaction to that and they have
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: boycotted Bud Light.
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: But as of today, Because she was a transgender?
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: Because of that. And I think that's crazy and hateful
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: and horrible.
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: Well, I think like Hicks in middle America, or is
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: this like a real boycott?
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: It's a lot of hicks in middle America, but I
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: think it's across the country. People have been boycotting Bud Light.
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: It really has had an effect on their sales. They're
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: no longer the number one beer. Trending today, the new
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: number one beer is Medelo, which is bottled or brewed
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: in Mexico. It's a Mexican beer, which is interesting because
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: you've got people on the very conservative side boycotting Bud Light. Well,
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: now they have forced a Mexican beer to be the
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: number one beer. It's all owned by Anheuser-Busch though. So
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: it's all the same parent company. Probably really doesn't have
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: much of an effect on their bottom line. But I
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: just found that interesting. So it is Pride Month and
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: they released this beer can with Dylan Mulvaney's picture and
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: everything in honor of Pride Month, which I think is
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: great to support all communities, transgender, LGBT, and everything. It's
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: gotten a lot of hate. I'm not down with that.
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: So that's just- No, of course I'm not down with
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: that either. But it is a very interesting choice of
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: a spokesman for a beer company, which is primarily very manly.
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: Yes, very blue collar beer. So it was an interesting
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: marketing move for them. It did end up backfiring, but
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: who knows, you know, maybe years down the road, they'll
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: look back at this time and they'll say this was
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: a pivotal moment. I don't know, you know, who knows
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: what's going to happen, but Medelo is trending today.
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: Well, maybe if I go to a bar tonight, I'll
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: try it for my first time to see what it
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: tastes like.
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: Medelo might not be a good one to start with.
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: It's kind of like, It's like a more, it's a
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: heavier beer. So yeah.
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: Well, I figured since it was number one, a lot
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: of people like it, but.
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah. A lot of people do like it. Stick with
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: your Chardonnay though.
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: I think that's way better.
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: Oh, we have to mention that this coming Sunday is
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: Father's Day. I totally forgot. I'm such a jerk. Yeah. Well,
• 41:28
  Speaker 2: my dad passed away four years ago. Your dad's not
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: around anymore. Do you think about Father's Day? Like when
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: that day comes around, do you think about your dad?
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: Are you sad? Like, how do you feel about Father's Day?
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: I think I think about it for a second because
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: I don't like to think about it. So, and my
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: father hasn't been in my life for a very long time.
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: My father died when I was 15. And even before that,
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: you know, I didn't see him all that often. He
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: lived in Alaska. I lived in New York and then
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: I was sent to boarding school. So, It was, you know,
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: it's been a very long time. I do, if I
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: sat around and thought about him, it would, or thought
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: about the fact that I don't have him on Father's Day,
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: I probably would go down a rabbit hole feeling sad.
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: So I choose not to think about it. My daughter
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: always spends Father's Day with her dad. And so I
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: think that's important for her. You know, I definitely think
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: in divorce families, it's important for kids to, you know,
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: spend time with their fathers and appreciate them, even if
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: you don't. don't co-parent well, or even if you don't
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: get along with them, I still think it's, you know,
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: important for her to have her day with her dad. So,
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: you know, I appreciate him for being her father. And
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: that's about the extent of it.
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: So I'm divorced as well. I wanted to touch on
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: that too about celebrating Father's Day and Mother's Day in
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: a divorced family. How does that work? I always too
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: may not agree with my ex all the time. Usually
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: we do, but I think it's super important. I always
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: have helped the boys buy a gift for their dad
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: or something like that. That's nice.
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: I would want them to do that for me. So
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: Try to be nice. So happy Father's Day coming up
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: to all the dads. Celebrity chat. Let's do a little
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: celebrity chat. Yeah. We missed this last weekend too. You're
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: more like well-versed on the reality TV and all of
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: that stuff than I am. I need to get a
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: little more into it, but Is Scandival over yet? I
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: feel like it's totally died down after the part three
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: of the Vanderpump Rules reunion. And we need to talk
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: about that a little bit. It was last week. You
• 43:33
  Speaker 2: watched it. You watched all three parts.
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I had a really hard time watching it. I
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: thought the verbal abuse that went on towards Tom and
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: Raquel was so out of line. I thought it was
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: shocking that Bravo wouldn't have told Andy or Lisa Vanderpump
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: that they have to mediate that better because the way
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: that not only the girlfriend who was cheated on, but
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: the two others that were sitting next to her, or
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: there was more than that, but specifically two people that
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: were just So awful. One of the guys kept leaving
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: the set. Another girl was standing up calling names, calling
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: Raquel names like moron or whatever. And I just, it
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: was actually hard to watch because I was like, honestly,
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: if something happens to this girl, if she takes her
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: life or if. there's any negative consequences, like real tangible consequences,
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: I hope these people are held liable. Like I thought
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: that was really insane, the level of anger and projection
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: for people that she didn't even do anything to. So,
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: I mean, let's all get honest. We all know somebody
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: who's cheating. We all know somebody who has cheated. Like
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: it could have been your friend or not. And maybe
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: you feel betrayed. But it's not your issue. It's the
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: three of them that are dealing with it. And I
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: thought it was so wrong for a network to allow
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: that level of bullying. People have killed themselves for a
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: lot less.
• 45:01
  Speaker 3: Oh, totally.
• 45:01
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: And I think it's just completely disgusting that so many
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: people have jumped on that bandwagon of like herd mentality
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: because they feel wronged about something. They want to jump
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: all over these two. And, you know, it's not condoning
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: their behavior. It's not condoning the negative behavior of other
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: people that want to shame them, bully them, and, like,
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: literally make them kill themselves. It's, like, incredibly wrong. It's
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: incredibly wrong. I think it's disgusting. And I think if
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: the tides don't turn at this point, now that the
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: show's over, to, like, say, okay, we've had enough and
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: we can't accept this anymore, like, then I think Bravo's
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: actually going to have it backfire on them.
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: I think so too. And people online agree with exactly
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: what you're saying. Yeah. There was a buildup, you know,
• 45:47
  Speaker 2: part one, two, and then the finale part three, it
• 45:50
  Speaker 2: seemed like the internet was agreeing with Ariana. You know,
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: they were totally on her team on her side and
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: there were a lot of cyber bullies. People were like
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: really ganging up on Raquel, but after part three was released,
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: it was like the tipping point. It seemed like people
• 46:05
  Speaker 2: were like, wow, this is super cringy. This is really horrible.
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: And yeah, They also released information that Raquel had actually
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: checked herself into a mental health facility because of this
• 46:18
  Speaker 2: overwhelming hate and just vitriol that was coming from people.
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: She just couldn't handle it anymore. And so she checked
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: herself into a mental health facility. Yes, I think people finally,
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: finally were like, okay, this is really bad. This has
• 46:32
  Speaker 2: to stop. And now it just doesn't seem like... I'm
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: not seeing a whole lot about the whole Scandaval issue
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: anymore on social media.
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: Well, actually, Page Six posted something just as I was
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: sitting down with you. I quickly looked at it. Yeah,
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: and they were saying how somebody from The View, I
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: think I have to look now who it was, but
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: a celebrity or something was taking Raquel's side at this point.
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: And I just think it's gross. And I really hope
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: that people... don't give them a platform to be like, well,
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: now we forgive her. But what I also thought was
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: gross is like some stuff came out of the reunion
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: and then the next morning you see shirts being made,
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: you know, to represent a certain statement or, you know,
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: she was on like in Glamour magazine using all these
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: ridiculous quotes. And it's kind of like, why? She was
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: cheated on. Join the club. I mean, there's a big deal,
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: of course, but what's the big deal that she gets
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: to be in Glamour to talk about, you know, to
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: shame other people? And the quote they use was so
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: weird because she's like, when I'm in a relationship, that
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: doesn't give you free right to like take over my body.
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: I'm not your fleshlight or something. Well, if you're not
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: in a relationship, it's called a friendship. It's called a roommate. Yeah.
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: And if you're in a relationship, you're probably supposed to
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: have sex with them because that's the only thing that
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: differentiates the two. So, you know, if you wanted to,
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: was she now calling him like a rapist? I like
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: didn't understand that. I just thought it was so weird.
• 47:56
  Speaker 2: They painted him to be very creepy, very like hypersexual.
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: She should have broken up with him.
• 48:02
  Speaker 2: I mean, I agree.
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: We had some balls and stand up for yourself, you know,
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: but this girl has totally gotten, you know, every opportunity
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: because of what happened to her. And I just think
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: it's bizarre, you know, because it's like it was a
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: private matter, but they're on a show. So it was
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: a public matter, but she's like getting rewarded with movie
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: deals and TV deals and magazine things. And, you know,
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: now she's opening a business, a sandwich shop, and she's
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: selling merchandise. And it's just like, wait a minute, who's
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: making out like a bandit out of this? It doesn't
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: seem like she's that devastated. Do you know what I mean?
• 48:36
  Speaker 2: We all know the show wasn't doing as well. It
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: wasn't as successful before this whole scandal came out. And
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: now it is literally like there's merch. There's everything. They
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: are making a huge profit off of it. I feel
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: like a lot of it was orchestrated for that reason.
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: I think their actions were so over the top and gross.
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: But that's just me. I wouldn't be friends with that
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: kind of group.
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: Hopefully, we can move on from Scandival. I think everybody's
• 49:02
  Speaker 2: kind of tired of it, really.
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: To be honest. Yeah, I think so.
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: Swim suit season is here. Well, it's always here for
• 49:07
  Speaker 2: you because you live in Florida, but me in the
• 49:09
  Speaker 2: Midwest bathing suit season is here. It's got me, you know, I'm,
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: I'm working on my body, trying to get, you know,
• 49:16
  Speaker 2: beach ready and all of those things. But you know,
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: who else is beach ready? Martha Stewart.
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: Oh, yes.
• 49:22
  Speaker 2: Have you seen this? The cover of Sports Illustrated?
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: I mean, I think she looks great, you know. And
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: then Sharon Stone posted a thirst trap bathing suit photo.
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: I mean, I think we all do when it gets
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: warm out and everyone's been on Ozempic for a while.
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: You know, so I think, you know, it's the time
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: you're going to see a lot of thirst trap bathing
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: suit photos. You know, I actually like looking at those
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: because I like to know who's making the best bathing
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: suits of the season.
• 49:46
  Speaker 2: Oh, yeah.
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah. So, like, I happen to love Maya Swimwear. They
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: have this great ruching in the back that makes you
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: look like you have a good ass. Love that.
• 49:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: So, I mean … To me, that's like the reason
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: that I kind of look at these things because I'm like, oh,
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: that's great. Or, oh, Martha's 80 and she looks like that. Awesome.
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: I can go to the gym and like I can
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: fix myself really quickly. So yeah, I appreciate these women
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: that do that.
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, me too. And as you know, in my 40s, whatever,
• 50:11
  Speaker 2: I love to see women who are just still rocking
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: it when they're older and it gives me a lot
• 50:16
  Speaker 2: of hope. Speaking of Ozempic, Is that still like a
• 50:20
  Speaker 2: big thing or is it kind of dying down? What
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: do you think?
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: No, I think it's a big thing. I was just
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: at dinner last night, as I've mentioned three times, and
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: a couple of the women at the table were like
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: talking about it and wanting to get on it, wanting
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: to find a doctor. And even one of the guys
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: we were with was curious about it. So I think
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: eventually it'll become a very mainstream thing for weight loss.
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: And I think that a lot of people were getting
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: shamed for it for a while, but I think it'll
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: end up being a mainstream thing. Cause it does, it
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: does work very well. I know a ton of people
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: on it. Um, and as long as they can handle
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: the side effects, some people have really bad side effects.
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: Some people, you know, don't even feel it. So I
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: think it'll become a mainstream thing for sure.
• 50:57
  Speaker 2: I don't understand the stigma, especially if you're overweight and
• 51:01
  Speaker 2: you are struggling.
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: Why not?
• 51:03
  Speaker 2: I mean, use it for six weeks, get healthy.
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: I think the stigma was that it's created for people
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: with diabetes. So I feel like, you know, those people
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: are like, oh my God, you know, or people that
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: don't know, because listen, a doctor can prescribe it to anyone.
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: There's a surplus. I mean, it's not like people are
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: like not going to be able to get it. You know,
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: the company is enjoying all this new press about it.
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: So they're, you know, they're making more of it. So
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: it's not like people with diabetes are going to die
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: because they don't get their medicine because- people that want
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: to lose weight, these vain people just want to use
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: their medication. I think that's a bunch of bullshit.
• 51:37
  Speaker 2: I mean, there are tons of medications, prescription medications throughout
• 51:41
  Speaker 2: history that have multi-purpose uses. So I don't see the
• 51:44
  Speaker 2: big deal. I used Ozempic and I'm very thankful for it.
• 51:48
  Speaker 2: And I don't, I'm not embarrassed of it at all
• 51:50
  Speaker 2: because it helped me so much.
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: And yeah. Yeah. And you didn't have bad side effects, right?
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: I didn't have, I don't feel like I had any
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: side effects. Obviously it made me have not much of
• 52:01
  Speaker 2: an appetite, but that's the whole point of it. I
• 52:03
  Speaker 2: didn't have, I didn't throw up, didn't have like anything bad.
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: How much weight at this point have you lost?
• 52:09
  Speaker 2: I've lost 22 pounds now since.
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: The very start.
• 52:12
  Speaker 2: So yeah.
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: Getting ready to fit in the wedding dress.
• 52:15
  Speaker 5: Yes.
• 52:15
  Speaker 2: I have to fit in the wedding dress, all of that.
• 52:17
  Speaker 2: So yeah, it's, it's been great. So little bit of
• 52:20
  Speaker 2: a glow up a little bit of a midlife glow up.
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: So good.
• 52:23
  Speaker 3: Good.
• 52:23
  Speaker 2: Okay. So that's all I've got for today. Rachel, what
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: about you? Anything else?
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: That's it. I, you know, again, I'm struggling with my
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: week so far. I've had house guests. I've had my
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: dogs gotten out of the gate, gated yard a couple
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: of times. I'm heading home now to go meet with
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: an obedience trainer. And we just got the electric fence
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: put in yesterday. So, I mean, I've got a lot
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: going on, but we wanted to, you know, of course
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: stop and have a moment of happy hour so we
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: could talk to you guys. The one thing we didn't
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: do today was spit or swallow because we don't have
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: our alcohol sponsors yet, but we have people on board.
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: So next week we will have our alcohol with us
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: and we will decide what we are spitting and what
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: we are swallowing. So we can't wait to bring that
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: to you next week.
• 53:07
  Speaker 2: I can't wait. A little bit raunchy. It's going to
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: be great. It's going to be so fun. So everybody
• 53:11
  Speaker 2: have a wonderful weekend. Happy Father's Day.
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: Yes, for sure. And if you get some time, if
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: you're going to the gym, if you're walking around, please
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: catch up on all of our episodes. If you have
• 53:22
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• 53:24
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• 53:26
  Speaker 2: Yes, we have a lot of amazing guests coming up.
• 53:29
  Speaker 2: Everyone's going to want to check that out. Yep.
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: So you need this weekend to catch up so you
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: can listen as we put stuff out.
• 53:36
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 53:37
  Speaker 2: All right. Well, cheers, Rachel.
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: Happy Thursday. See you soon.
• 53:42
  Speaker 2: Oh, that's okay.
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 53:45
  Speaker 2: Have a good weekend, everybody. And we'll see you next week.
• 53:48
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 53:48
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• 53:53
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