Latest / Miss Understood with Rachel Uchitel / Good Vibes and Better Days with Chart Topping Country Music Artist Niko Moon
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- 1:00Speaker 1: I'm your host, Rachel Yucatel. So something you may not
- 1:03Speaker 1: know about me is that I'm a huge fan of
- 1:05Speaker 1: country music. It's my music of choice. It's what I
- 1:07Speaker 1: listen to in the car. Take me line dancing. I
- 1:10Speaker 1: just love it and I will fall in love with you. Well,
- 1:12Speaker 1: that's why I was so excited to get to talk
- 1:14Speaker 1: to today's guest, Nico Moon. He's a singer, a songwriter,
- 1:18Speaker 1: and a burst of positive energy. I can't wait for
- 1:20Speaker 1: you guys to see his smile. Nico has written songs
- 1:24Speaker 1: with people like Morgan Wallen, Dierks Bentley, Rascal Flatts, and
- 1:28Speaker 1: Zac Brown Band, just to name a few. And now
- 1:30Speaker 1: he's heading out on tour to support his new album,
- 1:34Speaker 1: Better Days, which comes out January 2024. I've always been
- 1:37Speaker 1: fascinated by songwriting, and Nico gives us an insider's perspective
- 1:40Speaker 1: on the whole creative process. How do you write a song?
- 1:43Speaker 1: The difference between a good song and a great song
- 1:46Speaker 1: and what it's like to collaborate with someone you look
- 1:48Speaker 1: up to. He tells us a great story about how
- 1:50Speaker 1: the Zac Brown song, Keep Me In Mind, came to be.
- 1:53Speaker 1: You guys are going to love this story. We talk
- 1:56Speaker 1: about what inspires his music and who his dream collab
- 1:59Speaker 1: partner would be. We also delve into personal struggles with
- 2:01Speaker 1: addiction and how he's so excited to help others by
- 2:04Speaker 1: giving back with his new foundation, Happy Cowboy. Nico just
- 2:08Speaker 1: spread positive vibes and it's really infectious. You won't be
- 2:11Speaker 1: able to stop smiling. So enjoy my conversation with Nico Moon.
- 2:47Speaker 1: Nico Moon, thank you so much for joining me on Misunderstood.
- 2:50Speaker 1: I'm so happy to meet you finally.
- 2:53Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you for having me. It's great to meet
- 2:56Speaker 2: you too.
- 2:57Speaker 1: And I love the hats. Every time I see you,
- 3:00Speaker 1: it's a new hat. Amazing.
- 3:03Speaker 2: I'm a little bit of a collector, you might say.
- 3:06Speaker 1: Yeah, that's awesome. Do you always wear a hat?
- 3:10Speaker 2: You know, every once in a while I'll get a
- 3:13Speaker 2: wild hair and not wear one, but I've been in
- 3:15Speaker 2: love with hats since I was a teenager. And so
- 3:19Speaker 2: I love going around collecting hats that I like from
- 3:23Speaker 2: hat makers that I love. So it's a little bit
- 3:26Speaker 2: of a hobby for me. And who knows? Somebody may
- 3:29Speaker 2: be coming out with their own hat company next year.
- 3:31Speaker 2: We'll see. I'm just saying. Oh, cool.
- 3:33Speaker 1: All right. Well, I'm glad I asked. I will keep
- 3:36Speaker 1: my eye out for that. So, Nico, I talked about
- 3:39Speaker 1: you in the intro and I discussed how much of
- 3:43Speaker 1: a superstar you are. But before we get into all
- 3:45Speaker 1: of that, I want to hear about your childhood and
- 3:47Speaker 1: how you got into music. Can you tell me a
- 3:50Speaker 1: little bit about your upbringing?
- 3:53Speaker 2: Yeah, so I grew up in Texas to two very
- 3:57Speaker 2: musical parents. I'm really lucky that I got the parents
- 4:01Speaker 2: I got because I think music as a potential career,
- 4:04Speaker 2: it's not really on the table, I think, for most kids,
- 4:08Speaker 2: you know, as an option. And my parents always... nurtured
- 4:14Speaker 2: that curiosity and excitement that I had for music and
- 4:18Speaker 2: always made sure that it was known that it was
- 4:21Speaker 2: a possibility if I wanted to follow it. So my
- 4:24Speaker 2: dad toured around playing as a drummer. They both play
- 4:27Speaker 2: guitar and write songs. So I grew up in a
- 4:31Speaker 2: really musical household. We didn't, we didn't have a lot.
- 4:36Speaker 2: We were pretty working class musicians. But we're rich on love,
- 4:42Speaker 2: and we have some instruments in the house, so we
- 4:44Speaker 2: love making music. So very grateful to that kind of upbringing.
- 4:47Speaker 2: I think it's why I make the music that I make,
- 4:49Speaker 2: to be honest with you, as far as the style
- 4:52Speaker 2: of music being country music. I just grew up working class.
- 4:56Speaker 2: I got a heart for working class people, and that's
- 5:00Speaker 2: what I like to sing about. Yeah.
- 5:02Speaker 1: So I'm curious, was like American Idol around when you
- 5:05Speaker 1: were younger? Was that something that you thought about doing
- 5:08Speaker 1: or that is like kind of not seen as a
- 5:11Speaker 1: cool thing when you're like a real musician? Like, what
- 5:13Speaker 1: do you think about that?
- 5:17Speaker 2: It wasn't my personal, you know, journey, you know, path. Yeah,
- 5:23Speaker 2: I don't think it was my personal path. But for me,
- 5:26Speaker 2: you know, any way that someone that's really amazing and
- 5:29Speaker 2: creative can uh, can get connected to the world, that's
- 5:35Speaker 2: a great thing, you know? So it doesn't really matter
- 5:37Speaker 2: how it comes about. So I know people got their
- 5:40Speaker 2: opinions on, on, on that kind of stuff, you know,
- 5:43Speaker 2: but for me, it's like, if you feel like that's
- 5:44Speaker 2: something you want to do, go for it. And if
- 5:46Speaker 2: you don't, the beauty of it is, especially nowadays is, uh,
- 5:50Speaker 2: there's a million different ways to get connected to people
- 5:52Speaker 2: just like we're doing now, you know? So, uh, it's
- 5:54Speaker 2: all about finding the way that works for you, where
- 5:57Speaker 2: you feel most comfortable. And yeah, but growing up, not really,
- 6:01Speaker 2: you know, that was more like, I would say high
- 6:04Speaker 2: school or really like college. So, so for me, my,
- 6:11Speaker 2: my goal was to kind of emulate the artists that
- 6:14Speaker 2: I grew up loving. So I wanted to cut my
- 6:16Speaker 2: teeth and honky tonks and bars and, uh, kind of
- 6:20Speaker 2: do it like the old school way. So that's the
- 6:22Speaker 2: way I went.
- 6:24Speaker 1: Some people you're right. Get, you know, seen on a
- 6:27Speaker 1: big show like American Idol. Some people will go on
- 6:31Speaker 1: YouTube and I know a lot of people have been
- 6:33Speaker 1: discovered that way, but you went through, um, the sort
- 6:36Speaker 1: of raw organic old school way. So what was your
- 6:40Speaker 1: first gig like?
- 6:43Speaker 2: Oh, my God. Some of my first gigs were the
- 6:46Speaker 2: most brutal gigs imaginable. I remember playing the Mexican restaurant
- 6:52Speaker 2: one time and it was raining that day. So nobody
- 6:57Speaker 2: was out on the patio, which is where I was
- 6:59Speaker 2: supposed to play. So the owner asked me, hey, man,
- 7:02Speaker 2: you want to play in the entryway of the Mexican restaurant?
- 7:05Speaker 2: And I was like, come on, man, don't do this
- 7:07Speaker 2: to me. And but it was one hundred and fifty bucks.
- 7:12Speaker 2: I had to pay the bills, you know. So I
- 7:14Speaker 2: sat up in the entryway next to the newspapers and stuff.
- 7:20Speaker 2: And I remember people walking in the door and just
- 7:22Speaker 2: being like, why is somebody right in front of me
- 7:25Speaker 2: singing Sweet Home Alabama in a Mexican restaurant? And it
- 7:29Speaker 2: was weird for them, weird for me, you know. And
- 7:32Speaker 2: I remember just being kind of feeling pretty defeated because
- 7:35Speaker 2: I was probably– four or five years in to, uh,
- 7:39Speaker 2: playing consistently. And, uh, I was at, I was at
- 7:42Speaker 2: the point where, where, um, I was kind of playing
- 7:47Speaker 2: bars and honky tonks, but I was also playing gigs
- 7:48Speaker 2: like that too. And I wasn't kind of getting to
- 7:52Speaker 2: that next place and was feeling like maybe I love music,
- 7:55Speaker 2: but it didn't love me back. Right. And this kid
- 7:58Speaker 2: comes up to me, this kid comes up to me
- 8:00Speaker 2: and is like, uh, watching me and I got a
- 8:03Speaker 2: little glimmer of hope.
- 8:04Speaker 3: So I was like, Hey, They think you're done for
- 8:07Speaker 3: the day, but they don't know about the drawer. The drawer.
- 8:13Speaker 3: Just the one square before bed. Or two, you know.
- 8:19Speaker 3: Nobody's watching. You deserve a treat. With eight flavours to
- 8:26Speaker 3: choose from, you can choose the flavour you favour with
- 8:29Speaker 3: Cadbury Dairy Milk.
- 8:36Speaker 2: What do you want me to play? I'll play you
- 8:37Speaker 2: whatever you want. And he was like, oh, I'm good, man.
- 8:42Speaker 2: I just want some gum. And I was like, what?
- 8:47Speaker 2: And I realized I was playing in front of a
- 8:48Speaker 2: gumball machine. Oh, my goodness. That's a great story.
- 8:54Speaker 1: Oh, my gosh.
- 8:55Speaker 2: It was pretty brutal. I remember riding home that night
- 8:58Speaker 2: thinking to myself, all right, I got a decision to
- 9:01Speaker 2: make here. Am I going to keep going with this
- 9:02Speaker 2: thing or am I going to pack it in because
- 9:04Speaker 2: I just got beat out by gums? And I decided
- 9:06Speaker 2: to give myself another six months. I was like six months.
- 9:09Speaker 2: And let's see what happens. Three months later, I met
- 9:12Speaker 2: Zach Brown from the Zach Brown band. I was playing
- 9:15Speaker 2: at a honky tonk down in Georgia. And he was,
- 9:17Speaker 2: he was in there and saw me playing and my
- 9:19Speaker 2: whole life completely changed from that point on. And, Life
- 9:24Speaker 2: just completely changed. So I say that to just encourage
- 9:27Speaker 2: anybody out there that's listening that even if you've been
- 9:30Speaker 2: at it for a long time and you're feeling like,
- 9:34Speaker 2: you know, that dream isn't coming to fruition, don't give up.
- 9:38Speaker 2: If it's really your dream, don't give up on it.
- 9:41Speaker 2: Keep going.
- 9:42Speaker 1: Yeah, that's such a great message. Okay, wait, so let's
- 9:44Speaker 1: talk more about that. So was Zach Brown Band, like,
- 9:48Speaker 1: known like it is now? Was he somebody that you
- 9:51Speaker 1: recognize and you, you know, idolized at the time?
- 9:54Speaker 2: So at the time, Zach was a local thing. He
- 9:57Speaker 2: was uh just in georgia where he's from where i'm
- 10:00Speaker 2: from so he's really popular in the area but chicken
- 10:03Speaker 2: fried hadn't come out on the radio yet he hadn't
- 10:05Speaker 2: blown up as an artist that would happen two years
- 10:07Speaker 2: later so we just developed a friendship that night started
- 10:11Speaker 2: writing songs together and then when he did blow up
- 10:14Speaker 2: i started going on the road with him and writing
- 10:16Speaker 2: songs with him on the road and that really started
- 10:18Speaker 2: my career as a songwriter slash producer.
- 10:21Speaker 1: So the way you got discovered was more for a
- 10:25Speaker 1: songwriter and producer before being an artist yourself, correct, then?
- 10:31Speaker 2: Yeah, I was on the road with the Zac Brown
- 10:34Speaker 2: Band for 12 years.
- 10:35Speaker 3: Wow.
- 10:36Speaker 2: Writing songs with them. We've written over 40-something songs that
- 10:40Speaker 2: they released together and have five or six number ones
- 10:44Speaker 2: with them. And it was such an amazing journey. And
- 10:48Speaker 2: we still write songs together. But that was really, I
- 10:51Speaker 2: would say, like my education. That was where I learned
- 10:55Speaker 2: the difference between a good song and a great song.
- 10:57Speaker 2: And really the whole music world, Zach is my mentor.
- 11:01Speaker 2: And he really taught me kind of how it all works,
- 11:05Speaker 2: you know. And at a certain point through that journey,
- 11:08Speaker 2: you know, about eight or nine years into it, I
- 11:12Speaker 2: decided to move to Nashville and spread my wings and
- 11:14Speaker 2: see if I could start writing some songs for other artists.
- 11:17Speaker 2: And that's what led me here to Nashville from Georgia.
- 11:20Speaker 2: Got it.
- 11:20Speaker 1: So let's talk about that.
- 11:21Speaker 2: Actually.
- 11:22Speaker 1: What does make a good song? How, like what, what
- 11:25Speaker 1: are the details that go into figuring out songwriting?
- 11:30Speaker 2: You know, it's interesting. It's kind of like a building
- 11:33Speaker 2: a house. That's how I like to think about it. And, uh,
- 11:37Speaker 2: every songwriter has their own way of going about it,
- 11:40Speaker 2: their own method. And there's really not a right or
- 11:43Speaker 2: wrong way. All that matters is that at the end
- 11:45Speaker 2: of the day, you got a great song, uh, So
- 11:49Speaker 2: everybody has their own method. I have mine. This is mine.
- 11:52Speaker 2: The way I like to start is I like to
- 11:54Speaker 2: start with the idea of the song first. So, uh,
- 11:58Speaker 2: like for my song, good time, uh, I had this idea, uh,
- 12:02Speaker 2: like a bobber on a wet line. I'm just trying
- 12:05Speaker 2: to catch a good time. It was just this thought
- 12:08Speaker 2: that I had to myself of like trying to relate,
- 12:11Speaker 2: you know, uh, getting into that feel good mentality with
- 12:16Speaker 2: country lifestyle, you know, uh, And so I had the thought.
- 12:21Speaker 2: And when I had that thought that I'm like, oh, man,
- 12:23Speaker 2: a whole song could be built around that idea, I
- 12:26Speaker 2: kind of stopped with the lyrics. And then I grab
- 12:29Speaker 2: a guitar and I start just strumming different chords and
- 12:35Speaker 2: humming along until I find a chord progression that feels
- 12:39Speaker 2: like that idea. Because they got to match, you know,
- 12:42Speaker 2: or else the song will feel schizophrenic, you know? Yeah, yeah.
- 12:47Speaker 2: Or like just joining. So once the music feels good,
- 12:51Speaker 2: then I start humming along and find the melody. And
- 12:54Speaker 2: then once I find the melody of the song, then
- 12:58Speaker 2: I write the lyrics. So music, melody, lyrics is the
- 13:03Speaker 2: order I go in. But I know some people, they'll
- 13:04Speaker 2: write a whole song lyrically out first, and then they
- 13:08Speaker 2: put the music to it. So there's a million ways
- 13:11Speaker 2: to cut it.
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- 15:27Speaker 1: and when you're doing lyrics, you know, a lot of
- 15:29Speaker 1: country songs are about losing a loved one or being
- 15:32Speaker 1: left or broken up with or whatever. Do you feel
- 15:35Speaker 1: like it's really important to have to go through things
- 15:38Speaker 1: like that to write about it? Or, you know, there's
- 15:40Speaker 1: someone like Taylor Swift who can write different songs for
- 15:42Speaker 1: different people.
- 15:44Speaker 3: They think you're done for the day, but they don't
- 15:47Speaker 3: know about the drawer. The drawer. Just the one square
- 15:52Speaker 3: before bed. Or two, you know. Nobody's watching. You deserve
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- 16:14Speaker 1: People and she was like 14 or something when she
- 16:16Speaker 1: started and she was writing songs about breakups and men
- 16:20Speaker 1: leaving you and blah, blah, blah, which I don't think
- 16:22Speaker 1: she had really gone through yet. So what do you
- 16:25Speaker 1: think about that?
- 16:25Speaker 2: Yeah. It's interesting. I kind of think of it similar
- 16:30Speaker 2: to the way I think of songwriting, that there's a
- 16:32Speaker 2: lot of different ways to look at that. And I
- 16:40Speaker 2: remember hearing this quote one time that I really like
- 16:42Speaker 2: about this very question, and it was that a good
- 16:45Speaker 2: songwriter can make you believe something that they've gone through,
- 16:50Speaker 2: but a great songwriter can make you believe something that
- 16:53Speaker 2: they've never gone through. And I think that that's a
- 16:56Speaker 2: really interesting way to look at it. And I think
- 16:58Speaker 2: that's how maybe some of the artists out there that
- 17:01Speaker 2: write about things that maybe they haven't personally gone through,
- 17:03Speaker 2: they're channeling this kind of like imaginary, they're putting themselves
- 17:08Speaker 2: in that place. And for me as a songwriter for
- 17:10Speaker 2: other artists, I really relate to that. Because like, for instance,
- 17:13Speaker 2: when I write with Zac Brown or a song for
- 17:15Speaker 2: Morgan Wallen or whoever, you know, it's like I put
- 17:18Speaker 2: myself in their place. Like I try to pretend like
- 17:21Speaker 2: I'm them. I take my hat off and I put
- 17:22Speaker 2: on their hat and I'm like, all right, now I'm them.
- 17:26Speaker 2: now what do I want to write about? What do
- 17:27Speaker 2: I want to say? All of that, you know, because
- 17:30Speaker 2: it won't feel right if it's coming from me, it
- 17:32Speaker 2: needs to come from them. So, you know, I think
- 17:36Speaker 2: sometimes a songwriter can look at that with storytelling that way.
- 17:40Speaker 2: But for me personally, I like to write about personal
- 17:44Speaker 2: life experiences. And I think the thing for me that's
- 17:48Speaker 2: most important about what I like to do with music
- 17:50Speaker 2: is I like to write music that is positive. That
- 17:54Speaker 2: makes you feel optimistic about life. Even if I'm writing
- 17:57Speaker 2: about something really tough, something difficult, you know, I've written
- 18:00Speaker 2: songs about really hard heartbreaks that I've gone through and
- 18:06Speaker 2: difficult things in life, you know, difficult, different difficult things.
- 18:09Speaker 2: But I always want to make sure that there's some
- 18:12Speaker 2: redemption in there somewhere. There's some, there's a, there's a
- 18:15Speaker 2: light at the end of the tunnel. Yeah.
- 18:17Speaker 3: Hope.
- 18:17Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. Because we need that in this life, right?
- 18:21Speaker 2: I mean, life is, is a crazy roller coaster ride.
- 18:25Speaker 2: And I feel this drive to make my life's purpose
- 18:30Speaker 2: about encouraging people along that ride through music.
- 18:36Speaker 1: Well, you've talked in the past, I know, about something
- 18:39Speaker 1: you went through, a breakup in your past that helped
- 18:42Speaker 1: you write some songs, correct?
- 18:46Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, for sure. You know, I kind of think
- 18:49Speaker 2: of these experiences that kind of cement themselves in your
- 18:54Speaker 2: in your mind you know they're these like little souvenirs
- 18:56Speaker 2: that you take with you whether good ones or bad
- 18:58Speaker 2: ones to gain wisdom in life right and then the
- 19:03Speaker 2: ones that really stick out to me are the ones
- 19:05Speaker 2: i choose to write about because for me they're the
- 19:07Speaker 2: ones that seem meaningful you know they obviously struck me
- 19:10Speaker 2: struck a chord with me that i would remember it
- 19:13Speaker 2: yeah so that's that's usually the ideas i try to
- 19:16Speaker 2: linger on and and uh yeah like uh With my
- 19:20Speaker 2: first album, I really, for the most part, just kind
- 19:24Speaker 2: of set this tone of good vibes, you know, because
- 19:27Speaker 2: I didn't want to get too philosophical with it. I
- 19:29Speaker 2: just wanted to make an album that people could literally,
- 19:31Speaker 2: quite simply, have a good time to, whether they were
- 19:33Speaker 2: at the lake or grilling out with the friends, whatever
- 19:37Speaker 2: you're doing, you know, just some vibe music in the
- 19:39Speaker 2: background that just get the vibes right, you know. But
- 19:42Speaker 2: with my second album that I'm releasing in January, I'm
- 19:46Speaker 2: going a lot deeper into the why behind it. why
- 19:50Speaker 2: I make positive music. And for me, it's almost like
- 19:54Speaker 2: a different form of mental health, you know, like going
- 19:57Speaker 2: to the therapist or going to the gym or eating good,
- 19:59Speaker 2: all these things that can help your mental health. Positive music,
- 20:02Speaker 2: I'm a big believer that it can shift reality for
- 20:06Speaker 2: us a little bit and help us to view life
- 20:09Speaker 2: with a little bit more of an optimistic outlook. It's
- 20:12Speaker 2: amazing the power of music and how it influences. you know,
- 20:15Speaker 2: really seeps into our subconscious, you know? Yeah. Yeah.
- 20:19Speaker 1: I want to get back to what you were talking
- 20:21Speaker 1: about with, let's say, Zach Brown or Morgan Wallen. Can
- 20:25Speaker 1: we pick a couple of songs that you've actually written
- 20:28Speaker 1: with them and talk a little bit about them? I
- 20:30Speaker 1: think with Zach, maybe his most famous that people would
- 20:32Speaker 1: know is Keep Me In Mind or what would you
- 20:36Speaker 1: say is the more famous?
- 20:38Speaker 2: Let's see. You know, Keep Me In Mind is an
- 20:40Speaker 2: interesting one. That was the first number one I ever
- 20:42Speaker 2: wrote with Zach. And we wrote it about this girl
- 20:48Speaker 2: that Wyatt, who we wrote the song with, the song
- 20:52Speaker 2: was written by three people, me, Zach Brown, and our
- 20:55Speaker 2: buddy Wyatt Durrett. We were in Dallas one night, Dallas, Texas,
- 20:59Speaker 2: and at a bar, and Wyatt ran into this girl
- 21:02Speaker 2: at the bar. They got to talking, and he didn't
- 21:05Speaker 2: find out she had a boyfriend. And so before they
- 21:09Speaker 2: left their little interaction, he said, hey, if things change,
- 21:14Speaker 2: Keep me in mind. Oh, my God. And that was
- 21:18Speaker 2: such a, for us, like, we just thought that was
- 21:21Speaker 2: such a funny thing as we were talking about it
- 21:24Speaker 2: later on that night, you know? And that's really where
- 21:25Speaker 2: the inspiration for where that song came from. Oh, my God.
- 21:28Speaker 2: And they ended up running into each other, like, a
- 21:33Speaker 2: couple years later in Dallas.
- 21:36Speaker 1: Please tell me they got together.
- 21:39Speaker 2: They're married now. They're married now and they have, they
- 21:43Speaker 2: have a beautiful baby girl. And so that song was
- 21:45Speaker 2: literally written about this girl that Wyatt ran, ran in,
- 21:50Speaker 2: ran into and just like had this like kind of
- 21:54Speaker 2: moment with the song, write the song. We write the
- 21:57Speaker 2: song about those. Number one runs into her again, randomly.
- 22:00Speaker 2: And then now they're married.
- 22:02Speaker 1: So obviously she knows that it was written about her.
- 22:05Speaker 1: I hope that they played it at the wedding.
- 22:07Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 22:09Speaker 2: Oh, absolutely. I played the wedding. I was so excited
- 22:11Speaker 2: for him that I've never played a wedding before. That's
- 22:14Speaker 2: the only one I've played, but I played that one.
- 22:16Speaker 1: Oh my God, Nico. I love that story. That's amazing. Okay. So,
- 22:20Speaker 1: but like, tell me the process. You guys went back
- 22:23Speaker 1: that night and did you like bang it out all
- 22:26Speaker 1: in one night or did someone come up with the lyrics?
- 22:28Speaker 1: How did, how long did it take? Tell me everything.
- 22:31Speaker 2: Yeah, so songs can take, you know, all kinds of
- 22:34Speaker 2: different timings. Sometimes they can happen really quick, like just
- 22:37Speaker 2: in an hour or two. And sometimes they can take
- 22:40Speaker 2: literally years. This was one that took about a month.
- 22:44Speaker 2: It wasn't like a crazy long period. It was like
- 22:46Speaker 2: a few weeks, you know, of refining it. Because you
- 22:49Speaker 2: kind of get with like the first stage of it.
- 22:52Speaker 2: And it's like you rough blocked it out. Yeah. And
- 22:54Speaker 2: then Zach is a very, he's very perfectionistic, you know,
- 22:59Speaker 2: and I am too. So, We like to, you know,
- 23:03Speaker 2: polish it as much as possible till every little word,
- 23:07Speaker 2: every little thing is absolutely perfect. And then the way
- 23:10Speaker 2: he likes to work is once he kind of gets
- 23:12Speaker 2: the song written down on the guitar, then he gets
- 23:14Speaker 2: with the band and then they start working out like
- 23:17Speaker 2: all the instrumental parts, like the intro riff.
- 23:22Speaker 3: They think you're done for the day, but they don't
- 23:25Speaker 3: know about the drawer. The drawer. Just the one square
- 23:30Speaker 3: before bed. Or two, you know. Nobody's watching. You deserve
- 23:37Speaker 3: a treat. With eight flavours to choose from, you can
- 23:43Speaker 3: choose the flavour you favour with Cadbury Dairy Milk.
- 23:52Speaker 2: For the song that you know so he'll like go
- 23:54Speaker 2: into that mode and for me that's kind of where
- 23:57Speaker 2: my hands go off because now we've written the song
- 23:58Speaker 2: and I get to have fun and watch him kind
- 24:01Speaker 2: of orchestrate the production of it with his band and
- 24:04Speaker 2: create the music the music behind what we've written and
- 24:08Speaker 2: it's a it's a really beautiful thing to be a part.
- 24:10Speaker 1: Of was there a moment when you heard them play
- 24:13Speaker 1: it and it was like tangible in front of you
- 24:15Speaker 1: and you were like oh my god how cool.
- 24:19Speaker 2: Oh yeah every time I remember when um Homegrown was
- 24:22Speaker 2: being recorded in the studio. And I had written that
- 24:26Speaker 2: song about my hometown and just, you know, how much
- 24:32Speaker 2: I still think about. And I got so much, I guess,
- 24:36Speaker 2: good feelings for where I grew up, you know, and
- 24:39Speaker 2: I kind of had this thought, man, everybody does. It
- 24:41Speaker 2: doesn't really matter where you're from because it could be
- 24:43Speaker 2: the kind of town that is pretty bland and that
- 24:45Speaker 2: another person would drive past and just like not think anything.
- 24:47Speaker 2: I'm like, there's nothing really. much to see. But for
- 24:50Speaker 2: the person that's from there, they see it in a
- 24:53Speaker 2: completely different light because they see the people there. They
- 24:56Speaker 2: are seeing all the memories that were made at the
- 24:58Speaker 2: different locations around that place. So they kind of got
- 25:01Speaker 2: that different perspective on that place. And I wanted to
- 25:04Speaker 2: write a song that was about my hometown, but where
- 25:06Speaker 2: a person could take ownership of it and would make
- 25:10Speaker 2: them think of their hometown. And, you know, but it
- 25:14Speaker 2: was all done on the acoustic guitar. And then going
- 25:16Speaker 2: in the studio and then watching them in the studio
- 25:19Speaker 2: with the producer who was Jay Joyce on that one.
- 25:22Speaker 2: And he's done stuff with Pharrell and, I mean, just
- 25:25Speaker 2: like every, you know, big country artist you can imagine.
- 25:28Speaker 2: And so just watching him work out the music with
- 25:31Speaker 2: them and film create it is a lot of fun.
- 25:35Speaker 2: And I get to have a lot of fun doing
- 25:36Speaker 2: that with my own music now, you know, and being there.
- 25:39Speaker 2: producer and songwriter for my own music so well I'm
- 25:42Speaker 2: really grateful to that time I wanted to ask you
- 25:45Speaker 2: the education.
- 25:46Speaker 1: Of it all right I wanted to ask you about
- 25:49Speaker 1: how you know when you know you have a hit
- 25:52Speaker 1: is it hard to like release that to someone else
- 25:56Speaker 1: are you like wait I want that song for me.
- 26:00Speaker 2: No, you know, like, when I'm writing a song for
- 26:01Speaker 2: somebody else, it's kind of like we were talking about how, like,
- 26:04Speaker 2: really getting into the place of that person, I kind
- 26:06Speaker 2: of decide before I start writing if I'm writing for
- 26:08Speaker 2: me or if I'm writing for somebody else. It's like,
- 26:10Speaker 2: all right, I'm writing for Dierks Bentley today, you know,
- 26:13Speaker 2: and then that's what I'm focused on, or I'm writing
- 26:15Speaker 2: for me today, you know, because that's the intention that's
- 26:20Speaker 2: so important, you know, and I think every artist is
- 26:23Speaker 2: so unique, you know, when I listen to, I don't know,
- 26:27Speaker 2: when I'm thinking of, like, how, like, Rascal Flatts How
- 26:30Speaker 2: Gary sings and then how someone, you know, like Kenny
- 26:35Speaker 2: Chesney sings or somebody, you know, or even in the
- 26:37Speaker 2: pop world for people I've written for like Avicii or
- 26:40Speaker 2: Pitbull or somebody, it's like all these people, they just
- 26:42Speaker 2: sound so different. And the way they sing, what their
- 26:45Speaker 2: voice does and what they usually like to do, I
- 26:48Speaker 2: like to listen to like. their whole like thisography and
- 26:51Speaker 2: like really get my mind wrapped around and like how
- 26:54Speaker 2: they like the thing and the things that make them signature.
- 26:57Speaker 2: Cause those are the beautiful things. So as a songwriter,
- 26:59Speaker 2: I think the goal is to like find out what
- 27:02Speaker 2: it is about them. That's special. And then shine as
- 27:05Speaker 2: much light on that thing as possible.
- 27:07Speaker 1: Yeah, that's so cool. You know, it's so interesting to
- 27:10Speaker 1: listen to country singers who do a lot of their
- 27:13Speaker 1: own writing or listen to the words of the song.
- 27:15Speaker 2: Right.
- 27:15Speaker 1: Like I personally love Luke Combs. I think, you know,
- 27:19Speaker 1: a lot of the words that he comes out with
- 27:22Speaker 1: and the songs and the, you know, just the arc
- 27:25Speaker 1: of of the messages he has in every song. he
- 27:28Speaker 1: has so many good ones and it's, um, you know,
- 27:31Speaker 1: I love listening to him because it touches something in me,
- 27:34Speaker 1: even if I didn't realize it did, you know, um, and,
- 27:38Speaker 1: and the, the beat is so good and it could
- 27:40Speaker 1: be slow. It could be fast, but he always gets it.
- 27:43Speaker 1: You know what I mean? So he's somebody I really love.
- 27:45Speaker 1: Is there someone that you, um, have never written for that,
- 27:48Speaker 1: that you want to, or someone you're listening to that
- 27:51Speaker 1: you really love?
- 27:53Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely. And it's funny you mentioned Luke because, uh,
- 27:57Speaker 2: you know, I'm such a fan of what Luke does
- 28:01Speaker 2: and his unique style of country that he does that's him,
- 28:05Speaker 2: you know, that I really just respect the authenticity with
- 28:07Speaker 2: which he does it. And so when it came time
- 28:10Speaker 2: to find management, I ended up getting with the same
- 28:14Speaker 2: manager that Luke has. But when it comes to artists
- 28:21Speaker 2: that I would really love to write with, I think
- 28:24Speaker 2: at the very top of my list would be Chris Stapleton. Oh,
- 28:27Speaker 2: I love him. He's my favorite. He's probably my favorite.
- 28:31Speaker 2: I mean, I'm a full-on fan, you know. His voice
- 28:36Speaker 2: is incredible. His songwriting is incredible. Just, you know, like
- 28:40Speaker 2: how Luke's is. It's just, it's always at that high, high,
- 28:44Speaker 2: high bar. And the songs just always really hit home.
- 28:49Speaker 2: And for me, there's always that feeling of authenticity and
- 28:52Speaker 2: genuineness with him, with Luke. you know, um, with artists
- 28:56Speaker 2: like that, that, and it's something I strive for with
- 28:59Speaker 2: my own music. And as a fan, that's really, I
- 29:02Speaker 2: think even beyond how good the singer is, like how
- 29:06Speaker 2: kind of runs they can do, or like even the
- 29:08Speaker 2: sound of the music, what I'm more interested in even
- 29:12Speaker 2: more than that is how honest is it and, and, uh,
- 29:17Speaker 2: how moved do I feel by it? You know, cause
- 29:20Speaker 2: Sometimes a Bob Dylan song, you know, can really move
- 29:23Speaker 2: you or Neil Young or somebody like that. These are
- 29:25Speaker 2: people that may not have the greatest technical voices, but
- 29:28Speaker 2: the songs are so amazing, right? Yeah.
- 29:31Speaker 1: It's funny you say his name because a song that's
- 29:35Speaker 1: on the radio consistently right now of his, I don't
- 29:38Speaker 1: even know the name. I think it's White Horse.
- 29:40Speaker 2: Maybe.
- 29:40Speaker 1: Am I getting that right? And I just love that.
- 29:43Speaker 1: And it's so funny. My 11 year old daughter now
- 29:45Speaker 1: knows all the words to the chorus because it hits
- 29:47Speaker 1: something with everyone.
- 29:48Speaker 2: Right.
- 29:49Speaker 1: She's never been through that where she's waiting for Night
- 29:51Speaker 1: and Shining Armor to come through with the White Horse.
- 29:54Speaker 1: But like she loves it. And I love the concept
- 29:57Speaker 1: of that song. You know, I'm still waiting for my
- 30:00Speaker 1: white horse in my night to come for me. So I,
- 30:03Speaker 1: I love it. It like kind of brings me to
- 30:04Speaker 1: tears and his voice is just so good. So good. Um,
- 30:08Speaker 1: and fire away.
- 30:09Speaker 2: I always like textury voices, you know, like voices that
- 30:12Speaker 2: got a little sandpaper on them. And, uh, Chris and
- 30:15Speaker 2: Luke kind of have that little bit of that, that something,
- 30:18Speaker 2: something in it. I've always been attracted to female singers, uh,
- 30:22Speaker 2: like drawn to female singers that got a little raft
- 30:25Speaker 2: in their voice, like a, Amy Winehouse or somebody like
- 30:28Speaker 2: that in a little something, something there, you know? Right, right. Okay.
- 30:32Speaker 1: So let's get back to talking about you a little
- 30:34Speaker 1: more because I know that you're the star here. So
- 30:38Speaker 1: let's talk about your past a little bit because, you know,
- 30:41Speaker 1: everyone's had ups and downs, but something that's probably made
- 30:43Speaker 1: you more, you know, raw and transparent in your music.
- 30:47Speaker 1: You have had some, some issues in the past that
- 30:50Speaker 1: have made you kind of stop and take a look
- 30:51Speaker 1: at yourself. Can you talk about that a little bit?
- 30:55Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, yeah. So, um, I think the main thing....
- 31:00Speaker 3: They think you're done for the day, but they don't
- 31:03Speaker 3: know about the drawer. The drawer. Just the one square
- 31:08Speaker 3: before bed. Or two, you know. Nobody's watching. You deserve
- 31:15Speaker 3: a treat. With eight flavors to choose from, you can
- 31:21Speaker 3: choose the flavor you favor with Cadbury Dairy Milk.
- 31:30Speaker 2: For me, that was really probably the most difficult thing
- 31:34Speaker 2: that I had to get over was I had a
- 31:39Speaker 2: problem for a little while with drinking. And it's, you know,
- 31:43Speaker 2: the drinking problem stemmed from a completely different problem that
- 31:47Speaker 2: I had, which was an emotional problem that I had.
- 31:50Speaker 2: I was in a relationship for years. seven years and
- 31:54Speaker 2: it ended up going south, uh, due to, uh, I
- 31:58Speaker 2: got cheated on and, um, I was in my early
- 32:03Speaker 2: twenties and I didn't really know how to handle that. Yeah.
- 32:09Speaker 2: And so I just, uh, Instead, decided to kind of,
- 32:15Speaker 2: you know, push it to the side. I had big
- 32:18Speaker 2: dreams with music and I was so, you know, focused
- 32:22Speaker 2: on that. I found myself, you know, at that time
- 32:26Speaker 2: playing those honky-tonks and playing those bars. So I was
- 32:30Speaker 2: kind of like right there in this sweet spot of
- 32:33Speaker 2: chasing my dream, but also at the same time. you know,
- 32:37Speaker 2: this thing that started to become a hindrance to me
- 32:40Speaker 2: was right there because I was also processing a lot
- 32:44Speaker 2: of heartbreak at the same time. And so, um, uh,
- 32:49Speaker 2: for me, uh, I kind of got to a place
- 32:51Speaker 2: where I didn't really know how to untangle that knot, um, alone.
- 32:59Speaker 2: And so, uh, that's when I decided to reach out
- 33:02Speaker 2: and talk to somebody about it. And it ended up
- 33:06Speaker 2: being the best decision. One of the best decisions I've
- 33:10Speaker 2: ever made. I kind of think of it as like a,
- 33:14Speaker 2: you know, like a women's jewelry, like a necklace is so,
- 33:18Speaker 2: so thin and sometimes are so, you know, petite and
- 33:21Speaker 2: they can get tangled up. And when those little necklaces
- 33:24Speaker 2: get tangled up to get them undone is like, it's
- 33:28Speaker 2: a thing like you got to sit down and want it,
- 33:29Speaker 2: you know, it's going to take a while, but eventually
- 33:32Speaker 2: you can get to it. And for me, it's like, uh,
- 33:35Speaker 2: sometimes things in life can happen for all of us
- 33:38Speaker 2: on that ride. None of us are immune to it. Right.
- 33:41Speaker 2: It's part of the human experience, just like happiness is sadness, anxiety, stress,
- 33:46Speaker 2: these things that can sometimes get to that point though,
- 33:48Speaker 2: where they start to become overwhelming happen. Yeah. And then you, uh,
- 33:54Speaker 2: it can be good to talk to somebody. And for me,
- 33:56Speaker 2: what I kind of never really realized was that I
- 33:58Speaker 2: thought it was just like venting or like talking and
- 34:05Speaker 2: someone being a listening ear, but really I was given
- 34:08Speaker 2: literal tools, little exercises and mental games that I could
- 34:14Speaker 2: play with myself to strengthen my mind, my mind's resilience.
- 34:19Speaker 2: I ended up becoming aware that my physical had like
- 34:23Speaker 2: a really big impact on my mental, you know? And
- 34:26Speaker 2: so realizing that, you know, if, if I'm eating like crap,
- 34:31Speaker 2: if I'm not exercising, you know, if I'm drinking all
- 34:34Speaker 2: the time, if I'm doing all this stuff, it's going
- 34:36Speaker 2: to be pretty hard to get the feeling positive up there,
- 34:39Speaker 2: feeling better, you know?
- 34:40Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 34:41Speaker 2: So I just, I'm so grateful for that experience that
- 34:48Speaker 2: I really want to be able to kind of pay
- 34:51Speaker 2: it forward and pass it on with my life, with
- 34:54Speaker 2: my love of music. Cause once that kind of experience
- 34:56Speaker 2: happened for me before that, I was singing songs just not,
- 35:00Speaker 2: and not that there's anything wrong with this. I was
- 35:01Speaker 2: just singing songs about, you know, basically just, you know,
- 35:04Speaker 2: hooking up or like getting hammered or whatever. I don't know.
- 35:08Speaker 2: Just like, you know, just general party songs. And, uh, it,
- 35:11Speaker 2: it made me, it kind of inspired me to want
- 35:14Speaker 2: to make songs about something more than that. And, uh,
- 35:18Speaker 2: I'm having so much fun doing it. And I hope
- 35:20Speaker 2: that the music can encourage people and provide them with
- 35:26Speaker 2: hope for the future because there is, you know, there's
- 35:28Speaker 2: always better days ahead.
- 35:30Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 35:31Speaker 1: Well, I think that's such an important message for people because.
- 35:34Speaker 1: You know, what you went through is such a universal thing, obviously,
- 35:37Speaker 1: whether it's cheating, whether it's losing somebody, whether it's you've
- 35:40Speaker 1: gone down one path and it changes and you don't
- 35:43Speaker 1: know how you got there. And so many people get stuck.
- 35:46Speaker 1: And what you said is brilliant that, you know, to
- 35:49Speaker 1: be able to get happiness and get to that place,
- 35:51Speaker 1: you have to be able to experience pain and sadness
- 35:54Speaker 1: and know the difference and get yourself out of there.
- 35:57Speaker 1: And so many people, I think, get stuck or feel
- 35:59Speaker 1: like this is the end. I'm never going to find
- 36:01Speaker 1: someone else. Or why did this happen? Because this is
- 36:03Speaker 1: how my life was. supposed to turn out. And here
- 36:06Speaker 1: you are, you know, years later in a completely different
- 36:09Speaker 1: position and you're better off.
- 36:11Speaker 2: Right.
- 36:11Speaker 1: I mean, you you're married to a woman you obviously
- 36:15Speaker 1: love very much. You have a child. You know, you
- 36:17Speaker 1: you're you have a new album coming out next year.
- 36:19Speaker 1: But had you not gone through that, you may have
- 36:21Speaker 1: made different decisions. And so you needed to go through,
- 36:24Speaker 1: you know, a lower point to get to that higher point.
- 36:28Speaker 1: And I think that's a really important message for people
- 36:30Speaker 1: to hear and understand and gives them hope. that they
- 36:33Speaker 1: will see better days, like you're saying.
- 36:36Speaker 2: Absolutely. And yeah, my wife was a huge encouragement too,
- 36:40Speaker 2: because when we met, I was still kind of on
- 36:44Speaker 2: the tail end of the process and all of that,
- 36:46Speaker 2: you know, and kind of overcoming my addictive natures. So
- 36:53Speaker 2: she was a huge encouragement. So really kind of like
- 36:56Speaker 2: accepting the help, you know, and the encouragement and was huge.
- 37:03Speaker 2: um so for me it's uh it's it's just something
- 37:09Speaker 2: that means so much to me and and that's why
- 37:11Speaker 2: that's why when we were talking earlier about even in
- 37:15Speaker 2: those moments like having some sort of sense of redemption
- 37:18Speaker 2: in there you know because with the first album it
- 37:22Speaker 2: was nothing but you know just it's always good times
- 37:25Speaker 2: which Nobody loves getting out on the lake. Nobody loves
- 37:28Speaker 2: getting around the campfire more than me, you know, because
- 37:31Speaker 2: I do believe that life is meant to be celebrated.
- 37:34Speaker 2: But yeah, talking a little more with the second album
- 37:37Speaker 2: and saying, hey, you know, the reason why I'm doing
- 37:40Speaker 2: this is because of you know, the instances in life
- 37:44Speaker 2: where I did feel hopeless and it was really difficult
- 37:48Speaker 2: to find, to find the path to positivity. And it's
- 37:53Speaker 2: something that I do daily, you know, still to this day,
- 37:56Speaker 2: you know what I mean? I wake up every day
- 37:58Speaker 2: and have to proactively set my compass towards, you know,
- 38:03Speaker 2: the forward direction or else, I mean, before I know it,
- 38:07Speaker 2: you know, I'm caught up in my old ways. So
- 38:09Speaker 2: it's a daily proactive habit, you.
- 38:11Speaker 1: Know, and, It's a daily choice.
- 38:14Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a daily choice, you know. And so for me,
- 38:17Speaker 2: positive music can really help encourage that proactivity, which is
- 38:24Speaker 2: what it takes, you know, to really keep that consistent,
- 38:27Speaker 2: positive life going forward. You need help. And so just
- 38:31Speaker 2: kind of like good eating or exercising, it's like having
- 38:34Speaker 2: positive music. Um, is, is gonna have an effect, you know,
- 38:40Speaker 2: I kind of, uh, almost like a little challenge. It's like,
- 38:43Speaker 2: maybe only like think only positive thoughts for one day
- 38:47Speaker 2: and see how it affects your life the next day
- 38:49Speaker 2: when you wake up, how you'll generally feel like immediately
- 38:52Speaker 2: when you have like a go to start having a
- 38:54Speaker 2: negative thought, kind of stop it and play that little
- 38:57Speaker 2: game for an entire day, you know? Mm-hmm. it can
- 39:00Speaker 2: really make a big difference. And for me, positive music
- 39:03Speaker 2: is like a similar thing because we just don't really,
- 39:05Speaker 2: I think, realize how much it affects us if we're
- 39:07Speaker 2: listening to like music that's pretty much making us feel hopeless,
- 39:10Speaker 2: making us feel sad, even though it makes us feel
- 39:12Speaker 2: connected because the song is, this person is talking about
- 39:18Speaker 2: a deep sadness and you feel a deep sadness that
- 39:20Speaker 2: you're connecting to that. But if there's no hope in it,
- 39:23Speaker 2: then you it keep it kind of will keep you
- 39:25Speaker 2: there with with them in that moment right and i
- 39:29Speaker 2: think when you're in sadness what you're looking for is
- 39:31Speaker 2: a way out yeah so uh that sort of music
- 39:34Speaker 2: can really help Yeah.
- 39:36Speaker 1: So tell us a little bit more about what we
- 39:39Speaker 1: can expect with your new album coming out soon. Is
- 39:42Speaker 1: there like a certain tone to it? I know it's
- 39:44Speaker 1: about better days and better vibes and all that stuff,
- 39:46Speaker 1: but you really got more into the heart of the matter.
- 39:50Speaker 1: Is there a favorite song you have?
- 39:53Speaker 2: Yeah, my favorite song is called Better Days. And so
- 39:56Speaker 2: that's the name of the album. The album's called Better Days.
- 39:58Speaker 2: And then the lead single, Better Days, which I got
- 40:01Speaker 2: some really exciting news about. um, how that song is
- 40:05Speaker 2: going to be connected to my nonprofit. So, uh, at
- 40:08Speaker 2: the exact same time that better days comes out, I'm
- 40:11Speaker 2: also launching my nonprofit, which is called the happy cowboy foundation,
- 40:16Speaker 2: which is a nonprofit.
- 40:18Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 40:18Speaker 2: It's a nonprofit that helps, uh, people get therapy that, uh,
- 40:22Speaker 2: are in need and, uh, looking for help. So, um,
- 40:26Speaker 2: obviously there's, you know, so many of us out there
- 40:29Speaker 2: that need to talk to somebody, but it's so expensive. And,
- 40:32Speaker 2: Not just one talk, you know, you need to talk
- 40:34Speaker 2: a few times to get over anything that's difficult in life,
- 40:37Speaker 2: you know. But it's not always financially viable, you know.
- 40:40Speaker 2: There's a million situations, but if you were to use
- 40:42Speaker 2: the example of, like, you're just like a single mom,
- 40:44Speaker 2: you got two kids, and, you know, you're working at,
- 40:48Speaker 2: you know, a minimum wage job. How in the world,
- 40:51Speaker 2: you know, you're under a lot of stress. There may be, like,
- 40:53Speaker 2: a lot of things that you could really use to
- 40:55Speaker 2: help navigating mentally. How are you going to swing toughness?
- 40:59Speaker 2: That's an impossibility, really, financially, you know, because those kids
- 41:02Speaker 2: got to get fed. You get to school and all
- 41:04Speaker 2: the stuff that she has to do, you know. So
- 41:07Speaker 2: helping those people, you know, like I said, I got
- 41:09Speaker 2: such a heart for working class people because I grew
- 41:13Speaker 2: up in that environment, you know. And so just wanting
- 41:17Speaker 2: to just help everybody as much as I can through
- 41:21Speaker 2: the song Better Days. And so what Better Days is
- 41:25Speaker 2: all about, is that song is really the foundation of
- 41:29Speaker 2: the album because it is my philosophy on positivity. And
- 41:35Speaker 2: this is what my philosophy on positivity is. Positivity does
- 41:41Speaker 2: not mean that you're happy all the time. It does
- 41:44Speaker 2: not mean being happy all the time. What positivity is,
- 41:48Speaker 2: is even in the hard times, it's having faith that
- 41:54Speaker 2: there's better days ahead. and I really want to kind
- 41:59Speaker 2: of spread that message that, you know, if you're feeling
- 42:02Speaker 2: in a way, and people are like, man, just be positive,
- 42:06Speaker 2: you know, and you're like, how am I supposed to
- 42:07Speaker 2: flip it? It's like, that's not, just be happy. It's like,
- 42:10Speaker 2: that's not, that's not it, you know? It's like, it's
- 42:13Speaker 2: accepting where you're at. It's like saying, okay, we're here.
- 42:16Speaker 2: This is the bottom of this moment of the roller
- 42:20Speaker 2: coaster of my ride, and so while I'm here, while
- 42:23Speaker 2: I'm in this valley, I'm going to choose to keep
- 42:28Speaker 2: the faith that there's better days ahead. And so that's
- 42:33Speaker 2: what the song is all about. That's what the album
- 42:37Speaker 2: is all about. And there's going to be basically a
- 42:41Speaker 2: way that I'm going to be connecting this album that
- 42:44Speaker 2: I'll be talking about a little bit more in the future,
- 42:46Speaker 2: that I'm going to be connecting this album with my
- 42:49Speaker 2: nonprofit to help people get therapy from people listening to
- 42:54Speaker 2: the album.
- 42:56Speaker 1: Amazing. I love that, Nico. So will you be going
- 42:58Speaker 1: on tour and performing?
- 43:01Speaker 2: Yes. So I'll be on tour. The tour starts February 1st.
- 43:05Speaker 2: Tickets just went on sale. And some of the shows
- 43:07Speaker 2: are already almost sold out. So it's been amazing. It's
- 43:10Speaker 2: been beautiful. I'm so excited. We call the fan base
- 43:14Speaker 2: the Good Timers. It's just people that love having a
- 43:16Speaker 2: good time, you know. And, you know, I'm so grateful
- 43:19Speaker 2: for this musical family that we have formed in that building. Um,
- 43:23Speaker 2: so anybody that's watching, Oh Lord, anybody that's watching, come
- 43:27Speaker 2: on out y'all. It's, um, the way I like to
- 43:30Speaker 2: look at it, it's kind of like a vacation. Uh,
- 43:32Speaker 2: you ain't gotta go to Cabo to go on vacation.
- 43:34Speaker 2: You know, you can just, uh, come to the show,
- 43:37Speaker 2: hit the pause button for an hour and a half
- 43:40Speaker 2: and just celebrate life together. Uh, it'll be all across
- 43:44Speaker 2: the country and, uh, The Better Days Tour. Can't wait
- 43:48Speaker 2: to see all that.
- 43:49Speaker 1: Nico, you're the best. You have such a big heart.
- 43:51Speaker 1: I love talking to you. Okay. Your album drops in
- 43:53Speaker 1: January of 2024, right?
- 43:56Speaker 2: Yep. January 19th is when Better Days, the album comes out.
- 44:00Speaker 2: And then February 1st is the first day of the tour.
- 44:03Speaker 2: $ 1 from every single ticket sold goes to the Happy
- 44:07Speaker 2: Cowboy Foundation. So just by coming to the show, You're donating.
- 44:12Speaker 1: You're supporting.
- 44:14Speaker 2: Great.
- 44:14Speaker 1: Where can people find you and look up your stuff
- 44:17Speaker 1: and see your tour dates?
- 44:19Speaker 2: Yeah, just go to Nikomoon.com, N-I-K-O-M-O-O-N, and you'll get all
- 44:25Speaker 2: the tour dates there. And then for listening to the music, everywhere,
- 44:29Speaker 2: wherever you listen to the music, I'm there, yo. Awesome.
- 44:32Speaker 1: So I'm going to check out your schedule. Hopefully we
- 44:34Speaker 1: will meet in person at one of your concerts. I
- 44:37Speaker 1: think you're fantastic. I love your message and I hope
- 44:41Speaker 1: you will come back after your, your album comes out
- 44:44Speaker 1: and you've gone on tour and we can talk about
- 44:47Speaker 1: your nonprofit more and how that has affected people. Cause
- 44:49Speaker 1: I think that's such a great thing that you're doing.
- 44:51Speaker 1: So congratulations.
- 44:54Speaker 2: Oh, thank you. That would be amazing. Hey, Rachel, I
- 44:56Speaker 2: had a blast talking. Thanks for having me. And I
- 44:59Speaker 2: can't wait to cross paths in person and say, Hey, Absolutely.
- 45:02Speaker 1: You can count on it.
- 45:03Speaker 2: All right. Take care.
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