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- 0:02Cathi Spooner: Welcome to Next Level Play Therapy, a weekly podcast dedicated to supporting the next generation of child and adolescent therapists to provide exceptional play therapy services.
- 0:14Cathi Spooner: We'll explore all things play therapy to elevate your work with children and adolescents using the therapeutic powers of play.
- 0:23Cathi Spooner: I'll discuss practical tips and ideas so you can provide a transformative experience for your young clients and make a real difference in their lives.
- 0:34Cathi Spooner: So get ready to take your play therapy skills to the next level and make a lasting impact in the lives of children, adolescents, and families.
- 0:49Cathi Spooner: Hey there.
- 0:50Cathi Spooner: Good morning.
- 0:52Cathi Spooner: Today I want to talk about bias.
- 0:55Cathi Spooner: Bias in play therapy.
- 0:58Cathi Spooner: What exactly is bias and how does that show up in play therapy?
- 1:04Cathi Spooner: So one of the things we've learned to do in graduate school, and I think it's inherent in the mental health field, is to do self reflection.
- 1:13Cathi Spooner: Self reflection to identify counter transference and transference.
- 1:19Cathi Spooner: And I think nowadays there's probably more of an emphasis on recognizing bias than in a really long time.
- 1:31Cathi Spooner: I remember in graduate school 30 years ago, we spent a lot of time looking at transfers, but we didn't really take any time looking at bias.
- 1:40Cathi Spooner: Um, and we, we, we did that in in our cultural competency classes.
- 1:47Cathi Spooner: So we we did that.
- 1:48Cathi Spooner: But outside of the outside of graduate school and typically in the field, there wasn't a whole lot of looking at bias.
- 1:58Cathi Spooner: Not like I think we do today, which I think is awesome.
- 2:02Cathi Spooner: So what is bias?
- 2:05Cathi Spooner: And how does it show up in the playroom?
- 2:09Cathi Spooner: That's what I want to talk about today.
- 2:11Cathi Spooner: So if you're joining me, I'd love to know who's here.
- 2:14Cathi Spooner: Go ahead and post your name in the comments.
- 2:18Cathi Spooner: Post where you're from, what population you work with.
- 2:22Cathi Spooner: Um, what play therapy modality you're working with and feel free to join in the conversation.
- 2:29Cathi Spooner: What are your questions?
- 2:30Cathi Spooner: I'd love to know who's here and have a conversation today.
- 2:36Cathi Spooner: So go ahead and post that in there.
- 2:38Cathi Spooner: So I'm Cathi Spooner.
- 2:40Cathi Spooner: I'm a licensed clinical social worker and a registered play therapist supervisor here in the United States, and I've been in the mental health field working with children, adolescents and families since 1990.
- 2:53Cathi Spooner: So, uh, that's when I started graduate school.
- 2:56Cathi Spooner: I worked in the field as a residential staff in an adolescent, residential program a really long time ago.
- 3:06Cathi Spooner: And then in special ed, working with children with emotional problems as a special education teacher of emotionally disturbed students back in the 1980s, which is where I was first introduced to play therapy by our school psychologist and school social worker.
- 3:25Cathi Spooner: So I go live every week on Wednesdays at 7 a.
- 3:31Cathi Spooner: m.
- 3:31Cathi Spooner: Pacific time.
- 3:33Cathi Spooner: I live stream into my private Facebook group, Play and Expressive Arts Therapy Playground.
- 3:40Cathi Spooner: Oh my goodness, my dog is scratching at the door.
- 3:44Cathi Spooner: I don't know if you guys can hear her on the video.
- 3:47Cathi Spooner: I have the door closed and my husband's here, so I don't know why she's scratching at the door, um, other than she's aware he's probably going to work soon.
- 3:59Cathi Spooner: So anyways, if you hear some weird scratching in the background, that is my dog Lily and the likelihood our other dog Luna is standing right behind her encouraging her to scratch at the door until mom opens the door is pretty darn high.
- 4:17Cathi Spooner: Anyways.
- 4:18Cathi Spooner: Um, I'm not going to let her in because if I let her in, she's immediately going to want to right back out.
- 4:25Cathi Spooner: So those of you who have dogs absolutely know what I'm talking about.
- 4:30Cathi Spooner: So, uh, I, so I do live stream into my Facebook group.
- 4:35Cathi Spooner: If you're a mental health professional working with children and adolescents using play therapy and express barts, and you're on Facebook, feel free to hop over there and join the group.
- 4:46Cathi Spooner: You do have to answer all the questions.
- 4:49Cathi Spooner: There are several questions that are required to be answered first in order to get into the group.
- 4:56Cathi Spooner: I also live stream into Instagram.
- 5:00Cathi Spooner: I live stream into Uh, LinkedIn and also on YouTube.
- 5:05Cathi Spooner: If you're interested in any of the replays, it's probably easiest to find them on my YouTube channel.
- 5:13Cathi Spooner: Uh, if you're in my Facebook group, they're in the featured section.
- 5:17Cathi Spooner: I pin them all in there.
- 5:19Cathi Spooner: And lately in the last few weeks, I've been talking about play therapy foundations.
- 5:24Cathi Spooner: What, what are the foundations of play therapy that set play therapy apart from other treatment modalities?
- 5:32Cathi Spooner: And I've been talking a lot about clinical decision making and case conceptualization.
- 5:39Cathi Spooner: These are all really foundational to mental health and they're foundational in play therapy.
- 5:47Cathi Spooner: What I found though is we don't really talk a lot about these in play therapy and what happens that I've noticed over the last like 15 years providing play therapy supervision to the next generation of play therapists is that these are core foundational components of providing really quality play therapy services that I've I decided well, we don't really talk about them much So it's probably I at least think it would be beneficial to oh, I think my husband let my dog Lily she comes And just as I said, she's walked right back out the door.
- 6:32Cathi Spooner: Um, anyways, where was I?
- 6:34Cathi Spooner: Talking about play therapy foundations.
- 6:36Cathi Spooner: Um, so, so I thought, well, this would be a good topic to talk about.
- 6:43Cathi Spooner: Plus, I also have, uh, created a course series called Getting Grounded in Play Therapy Excellence.
- 6:52Cathi Spooner: It's a series of courses that, nope, Lily's back, that I have developed.
- 6:59Cathi Spooner: to provide that foundational grounding for the next generation of play therapists.
- 7:05Cathi Spooner: But also if you've been doing play therapy for a while, I think these would be of interest as well.
- 7:10Cathi Spooner: I've been doing play therapy for over 20 years now, and I've been in the mental health field 30.
- 7:17Cathi Spooner: I dug into a lot of the research, which is part of what I'm going to go in today.
- 7:22Cathi Spooner: I found it really interesting.
- 7:23Cathi Spooner: I learned a lot of things.
- 7:24Cathi Spooner: I, I didn't really know before.
- 7:26Cathi Spooner: So you might find it interesting as well.
- 7:29Cathi Spooner: So, um, Facebook user from Ann Arbor, Michigan is here.
- 7:35Cathi Spooner: So welcome.
- 7:36Cathi Spooner: Welcome.
- 7:37Cathi Spooner: Um, and.
- 7:39Cathi Spooner: I'm curious, uh, Facebook user from, I'm gonna have to go in my Facebook group and, and see who you are.
- 7:46Cathi Spooner: I use StreamYard to live stream into Facebook, LinkedIn, and um, YouTube.
- 7:52Cathi Spooner: So face, uh, StreamYard requires that you give permission.
- 7:57Cathi Spooner: Otherwise, I can't see your name, which is fine, but that's why it shows up as Facebook user or LinkedIn user.
- 8:05Cathi Spooner: So I created these courses.
- 8:09Cathi Spooner: I've already got one out, which is getting grounded in play therapy foundations, like what sets play therapy apart from other expressive arts modalities?
- 8:19Cathi Spooner: What are the core competencies?
- 8:21Cathi Spooner: This is really the grounding in play therapy history, the roots of play therapy.
- 8:28Cathi Spooner: And I think this is this one is kind of important because it not only helps us understand what sets play therapy apart, it also helps us understand and develop that professional identity in play therapy.
- 8:44Cathi Spooner: And so the next course that I have coming out is Getting Grounded in Play Therapy Case Conceptualization and clinical, uh, which includes clinical decision making.
- 8:55Cathi Spooner: That's the one I've been doing a lot of research on, which is where a lot of the information for today's live stream comes from.
- 9:02Cathi Spooner: And that's what I want to talk about today.
- 9:05Cathi Spooner: After that, the next course that's coming up is Getting Grounded in Play Therapy Treatment Plans.
- 9:11Cathi Spooner: That question comes up a lot after that is Getting Grounded in Play Therapy Progress Notes, and then Getting Grounded in Integrating Parents in the Play Therapy Process.
- 9:23Cathi Spooner: So that's the whole series that I'm in the process of creating and using those in my supervision program, Play Therapy Academy.
- 9:34Cathi Spooner: If you're not in Play Therapy Academy, and these are also available outside of that, but today talking about bias.
- 9:45Cathi Spooner: which is come from the research that I've done as I created Getting Grounded in Case, Play Therapy, Case Conceptualization.
- 9:55Cathi Spooner: I thought it was an important topic that we talk about because, because like I said, it's not one that's talked about often.
- 10:01Cathi Spooner: So what is bias.
- 10:04Cathi Spooner: So the definition of bias is these are the unconscious and conscious ways of perceiving and understanding that can undermine our accuracy.
- 10:18Cathi Spooner: So, so we all have biases, just like we're all kind of trained to look at and identify transference and counter transference.
- 10:28Cathi Spooner: These a lot of times are counter transference is what gets activated in us.
- 10:34Cathi Spooner: And bias is very similar.
- 10:35Cathi Spooner: Bias are all of those things, those belief systems, way, way, way back in the cobwebs of our minds based on, and I like to look at neuroscience and attachment for this.
- 10:50Cathi Spooner: It's like all those, um, belief systems and our beliefs about others, our beliefs about ourselves, our beliefs about relationships.
- 11:02Cathi Spooner: And I would include like bias about other people.
- 11:05Cathi Spooner: What exactly?
- 11:08Cathi Spooner: Um, like culturally this comes up a lot.
- 11:11Cathi Spooner: What are my biases that I don't even necessarily recognize that they're there until I take a step back and think, Oh, wait, that's kind of weird.
- 11:21Cathi Spooner: Where did that come from?
- 11:23Cathi Spooner: And then I realized, Oh, this is one of my biases that I hadn't really even thought about before.
- 11:30Cathi Spooner: And it will influence our decision making, it'll influence our case conceptualization, which is a really fancy term for how, what, what I think is going on with my clients and why do I think it's going on?
- 11:49Cathi Spooner: That's kind of a fancy way of thinking about that, because then that's going to play into what our diagnosis is, as well as our treatment planning.
- 12:00Cathi Spooner: They all kind of go together.
- 12:02Cathi Spooner: And there are different types of bias.
- 12:05Cathi Spooner: So for example, one that comes up a lot in the research is overconfidence bias.
- 12:11Cathi Spooner: So over confidence bias is typically a bias that's found in, uh, like play therapists that been, have been doing in play therapy for a while, have been in the mental health field for a while.
- 12:27Cathi Spooner: I regularly have to check myself on this one.
- 12:30Cathi Spooner: It's basically, Oh, I know what this is.
- 12:33Cathi Spooner: So I take shortcuts to, Oh, I know what it is.
- 12:37Cathi Spooner: I'm not really gonna think about it much more.
- 12:39Cathi Spooner: I'm just going to, you know, this is what it is because I've seen it over the last 30 years.
- 12:44Cathi Spooner: I know what it is.
- 12:45Cathi Spooner: Well, that may or may not, may not be true.
- 12:48Cathi Spooner: And there is a lot of confidence that comes with being in the mental health field for 30 years and being able to, like, I can get to issues so quickly because I've been in the field for 30 years.
- 13:04Cathi Spooner: The bias comes when I don't really take a step back and think, Oh, wait, is that, is that what it is?
- 13:12Cathi Spooner: I need to make sure I'm not taking shortcuts that might undermine the effectiveness of the play therapy services that I'm providing, which is one of the reasons I love supervising people.
- 13:26Cathi Spooner: Other, the next generation of mental health professionals and play therapist coming up because I learn so much from the people that I supervise.
- 13:37Cathi Spooner: Um, as much as they learn from me, I learn from them and I really enjoy that learning process.
- 13:43Cathi Spooner: So it also kind of helps me check myself against, uh, maybe thinking I've, I know everything, which is a possible, uh, outcome when you've been doing it as long as I have.
- 14:00Cathi Spooner: Another bias is, and I'm just going to go through a few to be honest, one of the, there's a article and I could probably post this.
- 14:09Cathi Spooner: I, I list this in my, training that I, I came up, uh, the one that I've just developed case conceptualization in play therapy.
- 14:18Cathi Spooner: This is one of the articles that I, I've used from the professional journals.
- 14:24Cathi Spooner: I I'll post it.
- 14:26Cathi Spooner: I'll post the article in the comments if you're interested, if you have access, but this one is called cognitive by biases, heuristics and logical fallacies in clinical practice.
- 14:39Cathi Spooner: A field guide for practicing clinicians and supervisors.
- 14:42Cathi Spooner: So I think it's good as supervisors for us to know these as well so that we can look at them and explore them with our supervises.
- 14:52Cathi Spooner: But that being said, it also had a ton of different kinds of biases that who even knew these existed.
- 15:00Cathi Spooner: Um, so one of the ones that I, I wanted to read to you.
- 15:05Cathi Spooner: So there's this term called heuristics.
- 15:08Cathi Spooner: Um, so the heuristics is a really fancy term that means insight.
- 15:14Cathi Spooner: This is from Wikipedia definition.
- 15:17Cathi Spooner: In psychology, heuristics are simple, efficient rules either learned or incalculated by evolutionary processes.
- 15:27Cathi Spooner: These psychological heuristics have been proposed to explain how people make decisions, come to judgments, and solve problems.
- 15:37Cathi Spooner: These rules typically Common to play when people face complex problems or incomplete information.
- 15:46Cathi Spooner: So basically, it's our kind of our shortcut to making decisions, which all of us do.
- 15:52Cathi Spooner: And when you've been in the field for 30 years, like I can get there.
- 15:57Cathi Spooner: pretty quickly.
- 15:58Cathi Spooner: But the problem is, if I'm not aware of overconfidence bias, then I may make mistakes that will influence the outcomes I can get for my clients.
- 16:08Cathi Spooner: So another, uh, another definition would be representative heuristics.
- 16:15Cathi Spooner: And I'm going to read a quote from the article.
- 16:19Cathi Spooner: So it's like all heuristics represented representativeness is often accurate.
- 16:25Cathi Spooner: Imagine a psychologist conducting an initial assessment on a 22 year old man at an outpatient facility.
- 16:33Cathi Spooner: The patient exhibits flat affect and endorses a loss of interest in feelings of worthlessness.
- 16:41Cathi Spooner: If the psychologist were to posit that the patient was similar to almost all depressed patients she's seen and is likely to meet criteria for major depressive disorder, she would probably be correct.
- 16:55Cathi Spooner: Nevertheless, using the same example, and this to me is the key part.
- 17:01Cathi Spooner: If the psychologist did not assess mania or hypomania symptoms because the patient's presentation was similar to the psychologist's prototype of depressed individual, she may have missed important diagnostic information owing in part to the representative heuristics.
- 17:25Cathi Spooner: So and that's to me one of the key things and I see this a lot.
- 17:29Cathi Spooner: I see it with, um, experienced as well as inexperienced.
- 17:37Cathi Spooner: I think this is a bias that we're all prone to.
- 17:40Cathi Spooner: That we we don't we take shortcuts and we don't necessarily do our due diligence all the way through the through the process.
- 17:50Cathi Spooner: So let's take ADHD and play therapy.
- 17:54Cathi Spooner: If you're working in play therapy, the likelihood you have encountered children who are impulsive, who get emotionally dysregulated, Who, um, can be argumentative, can have meltdowns on a regular basis.
- 18:14Cathi Spooner: The likelihood these children are on your caseload is pretty darn high.
- 18:20Cathi Spooner: So we could immediately go to oppositional defiant behavior, uh, disorder because they're defiant and they're don't like, they don't like the word no.
- 18:32Cathi Spooner: But, and maybe we, it's, we have a male client with this, we, maybe we go automatically to ADHD or we go automatically to oppositional defiant disorder.
- 18:46Cathi Spooner: Would we do that if it was a girl?
- 18:49Cathi Spooner: So here's where we have to look at that unconscious bias.
- 18:53Cathi Spooner: If it was our, uh, girl, would we automatically go there?
- 18:59Cathi Spooner: Or if it was, um, let's say someone, uh, let's say a seven year old who has immigrated with parents and they've come to the U.
- 19:12Cathi Spooner: S.
- 19:13Cathi Spooner: from a country in South America that is known for a lot of violence and poverty.
- 19:22Cathi Spooner: Would we automatically go to trauma because of that?
- 19:28Cathi Spooner: Now that may be the case and it's good to assess for that.
- 19:31Cathi Spooner: But maybe we've missed, well maybe this is a child who also has ADHD and it's not, no one in the family has ever been diagnosed.
- 19:42Cathi Spooner: So part of, part of looking at bias is understanding that we're all, we're all, we all have bias and that we're all have the capability of getting it wrong.
- 19:59Cathi Spooner: Another type of bias is affect bias.
- 20:02Cathi Spooner: So affect bias is using our moods to dictate our decisions.
- 20:08Cathi Spooner: Our emotional response to clients can influence our decision making and diagnostic formulation in both positive and negative ways.
- 20:16Cathi Spooner: So think about it if we, okay if you're working with children, the likelihood this has happened to you, let's say you are, you are working with the child who comes in and one of the parents is, Um, let's say argumentative or kind of rigid and you, you know, activate your countertransference, right?
- 20:42Cathi Spooner: We're like, Oh, that just gets on my last nerve.
- 20:45Cathi Spooner: And then we begin our bias kicks in where we're making decisions based on either avoidance of that client and the parent.
- 20:58Cathi Spooner: Maybe we don't want to have parent sessions because now we're avoiding that parent.
- 21:03Cathi Spooner: Even though we know that integrating the parents into the play therapy process is really going to be needed for this client.
- 21:12Cathi Spooner: Or maybe we get argumentative and we're like, we kind of get a little more rigid.
- 21:17Cathi Spooner: We're making decisions based on our emotions.
- 21:21Cathi Spooner: So that would be affect bias and the likelihood we've all experienced this is very, very high.
- 21:30Cathi Spooner: Um, and if you haven't, the likelihood at some point in your professional career that you will experience this is pretty high, which is why in the mental health field, we are adamant about doing self reflection.
- 21:48Cathi Spooner: Self reflection is an important part of therapeutic use of self in the treatment process, which means because we're fallible human beings, we really need to make sure that we are doing that self reflection process.
- 22:04Cathi Spooner: So another type of anchoring, uh, another type of bias would be anchoring bias, which means I place too much weight on one aspect or trait of a client's, and sometimes you may see this in the words that we use to describe our clients.
- 22:23Cathi Spooner: Like, for instance, if we call somebody, oh, you know, she's borderline.
- 22:30Cathi Spooner: We do that all the time, and is that an indication of potential anchoring bias, meaning because I'm now viewing my client as borderline, I haven't necessarily gone through the process, and I would say even parent.
- 22:50Cathi Spooner: Um, because with children, we're not going to diagnose them with borderline, but maybe we would diagnose their parent that way.
- 22:57Cathi Spooner: And then that influences our decision making about what's needed in the play therapy process.
- 23:04Cathi Spooner: Or we say, Oh, the client refused that, that is one of my pet peeve words.
- 23:11Cathi Spooner: I'm not going to lie, but here's why, because I do think it is full of bias in it.
- 23:19Cathi Spooner: If they refused, if I dig deeper, why did they refuse?
- 23:24Cathi Spooner: Is it, I like to, I, and when I was doing a lot of supervision, I wouldn't, and I, uh, I probably do it now too.
- 23:33Cathi Spooner: I'm sure I do.
- 23:34Cathi Spooner: When I, when I have access to people's progress notes, the people that I'm supervising, if I have the authority to say, Oh, you got to take that word out.
- 23:45Cathi Spooner: I will.
- 23:45Cathi Spooner: I won't let them use that word.
- 23:47Cathi Spooner: They declined.
- 23:49Cathi Spooner: I'll say client declined.
- 23:51Cathi Spooner: Declined is not anywhere near as anchoring in emotion or bias that refused is refused makes somebody sound oppositional or argumentative, and they might be.
- 24:07Cathi Spooner: But if we look deeper, why are they that way?
- 24:10Cathi Spooner: What's going on that activated that oppositional behavior?
- 24:15Cathi Spooner: What's going on, that they're refusing the way that they're refusing.
- 24:20Cathi Spooner: This is why we want to look at bias in the way that we think about what's going on with our clients and how we use that information to inform our diagnoses and our case conceptualization, which is then going to influence our treatment planning.
- 24:40Cathi Spooner: So that brings me to why does bias matter?
- 24:45Cathi Spooner: For all the reason I just said, it negatively influences our decision making.
- 24:51Cathi Spooner: It negatively influences the way in which we think about what is going on with our clients and why is it happening?
- 25:01Cathi Spooner: So the thing that's important to keep in mind is biases are mostly unconscious beliefs that come from somewhere in our childhood, our experiences.
- 25:16Cathi Spooner: Um, they can be based on race, culture, gender, uh, and gender.
- 25:22Cathi Spooner: And we know that even research, this is something that's been discussed over and over.
- 25:29Cathi Spooner: Even research can be fraught with these types of biases.
- 25:36Cathi Spooner: We've we've talked about over, honestly, I've been in the field 30 years.
- 25:41Cathi Spooner: This goes back to even when I was teaching in special education, talking about bias in the assessment instruments that are used in the psychotherapy mental health arena.
- 25:56Cathi Spooner: Looking at bias in the assessments that we use based on race, gender and culture.
- 26:04Cathi Spooner: So these are all important things to keep in mind and we need to be aware of them and constantly kind of assessing in ourselves if that's going on.
- 26:18Cathi Spooner: So the third thing that I wanted to talk about today is now, so we know what bias is.
- 26:25Cathi Spooner: We know why bias matters in play therapy.
- 26:29Cathi Spooner: So what do we do?
- 26:31Cathi Spooner: To, to really, uh, first and foremost, we're all human.
- 26:36Cathi Spooner: We're, we all have bias, positive, negative, whatever it is.
- 26:42Cathi Spooner: We have bias.
- 26:43Cathi Spooner: This, this, this is radical acceptance.
- 26:46Cathi Spooner: We all have bias.
- 26:48Cathi Spooner: What we don't want to do is to get into kind of blaming or shaming ourselves.
- 26:54Cathi Spooner: What we want to do is just non judgmentally reflect, hmm, where did that come from?
- 27:02Cathi Spooner: What, what, where did, and I think this is something that's important for all of us to do, to be honest.
- 27:09Cathi Spooner: And I mean, I, I was leaving work the other day and I walked out and I saw kids playing and they were, yeah.
- 27:16Cathi Spooner: And I thought, and there were some things going on.
- 27:18Cathi Spooner: And I immediately had a response and I'm thinking to myself, huh, That's interesting.
- 27:24Cathi Spooner: I wonder where that came from.
- 27:26Cathi Spooner: And then I was like, Oh, okay.
- 27:28Cathi Spooner: Wow.
- 27:29Cathi Spooner: Who there's it is so subtle the way that it shows up.
- 27:34Cathi Spooner: And in play therapy, it's important for us to be aware of these because it will influence our decision making.
- 27:45Cathi Spooner: It'll influence our diagnoses, it'll influence our treatment approach, our play therapy interventions that we're using.
- 27:53Cathi Spooner: And so we want to, we want to recognize that we're all fallible human beings and we're all prone to bias.
- 28:00Cathi Spooner: First and foremost, radical acceptance, that's the deal.
- 28:05Cathi Spooner: And, from an ethical standpoint, it is our responsibility as mental health professionals, because of the influence that we have in the lives of our clients, it is our responsibility to do this self reflection process to identify any potential bias that can negatively out, um, impact the outcome of our clients.
- 28:31Cathi Spooner: So here's the thing though, like I've been doing this 30 years.
- 28:34Cathi Spooner: There are days I think to myself, I don't want to self reflect anymore.
- 28:38Cathi Spooner: I'm tired.
- 28:39Cathi Spooner: I wish I could be in a profession where I could free, be free to be a butthead.
- 28:44Cathi Spooner: Not really, but sometimes I feel that way because I just get tired of self reflecting as often as I self reflect.
- 28:52Cathi Spooner: Um, Maybe some of you do not self reflect as much as I do, but I feel like I'm constantly self reflecting.
- 28:59Cathi Spooner: Um, and so, I mean, we have to show self compassion for ourselves and recognize, okay, we're not going to be perfect all of the time and look and see what happens.
- 29:14Cathi Spooner: I feel like as long as we build that strong therapeutic rapport with our clients, that, that will balance out any ways in which some of our imperfections show up.
- 29:28Cathi Spooner: And then we, we just do that repair work with our clients.
- 29:31Cathi Spooner: If we need to, if not, we recognize, Oh, okay, good.
- 29:34Cathi Spooner: I caught that before anything happened.
- 29:37Cathi Spooner: Awesome.
- 29:39Cathi Spooner: In order to do that, we have to non judgmentally allow ourselves to explore our belief systems.
- 29:46Cathi Spooner: I call this going into the shadow to use a little bit of Jungian analogy or metaphor there.
- 29:53Cathi Spooner: Um, going into the shadow takes courage.
- 29:57Cathi Spooner: And it takes, uh, self compassion.
- 30:00Cathi Spooner: So use some self compassion when you're doing this work.
- 30:06Cathi Spooner: I like to look at it as helping myself to achieve my inner Gandalf or my inner Yoda, where I, I become wise like Yoda, wise like Gandalf in order to benefit my clients and benefit the people that I supervise.
- 30:27Cathi Spooner: And help them to become their highest versions of themselves.
- 30:33Cathi Spooner: Honestly, that is what I, what I, I do believe.
- 30:36Cathi Spooner: I kind of make fun of it a little bit.
- 30:38Cathi Spooner: But it is my core belief, um, that does help me to stay into this work and do this work.
- 30:45Cathi Spooner: Because it is not for the faint of heart to be in the mental health field and to work with children, adolescents, and their families to help them achieve healing.
- 30:55Cathi Spooner: It's a calling.
- 30:56Cathi Spooner: I do believe this is a calling that we feel, um, because it does require a lot of deep reflection in the work that we do.
- 31:08Cathi Spooner: I think it also requires that we become lifelong learners.
- 31:12Cathi Spooner: And we use research to inform our understanding of the issues.
- 31:17Cathi Spooner: Um, and like I said, we also have to be aware that research can have bias as well.
- 31:24Cathi Spooner: Um, but it is important to look at the research to kind of help us understand and challenge our belief systems when, when they need to be challenged.
- 31:36Cathi Spooner: And in, and in, in our, in our efforts to do this, the benefit is that we can provide really high quality play therapy services to our clients, that we can help them engage in the change process in a way that is meaningful to them.
- 31:58Cathi Spooner: And that's the key distinction.
- 32:00Cathi Spooner: It's meaningful to them.
- 32:02Cathi Spooner: Because sometimes we, our belief systems and our client's belief systems will not always match up.
- 32:10Cathi Spooner: And that's where that right to self determination comes in.
- 32:14Cathi Spooner: And we have to recognize that and understand that in order to help them find meaning.
- 32:23Cathi Spooner: and healing in their lives.
- 32:26Cathi Spooner: So just a recap, uh, bias, it, the definition of bias is bias is a part of everyone.
- 32:35Cathi Spooner: We're often unaware of our biases.
- 32:38Cathi Spooner: Bias is belief systems and ways of thinking that are unconscious, and they probably got there through somewhere along in our experiences in our childhood and growing up in different relationships that we've had.
- 32:55Cathi Spooner: They've come from somewhere.
- 32:58Cathi Spooner: Um, and our job is to look at them and be willing to explore them.
- 33:06Cathi Spooner: Why does bias matter?
- 33:08Cathi Spooner: Because it can now negatively influence, um, my tongue, my mouth's not working.
- 33:14Cathi Spooner: It can negatively impact our clinical decision making and our case conceptualization.
- 33:21Cathi Spooner: including our diagnostic formation.
- 33:24Cathi Spooner: So meaning bias can influence our diagnoses and the reason that is important.
- 33:33Cathi Spooner: I know there's a lot of, um, differing opinions on diagnosing.
- 33:40Cathi Spooner: I personally believe that accurate diagnosis, the DSM can be useful if we use it effectively.
- 33:48Cathi Spooner: It is not the end all be all.
- 33:50Cathi Spooner: And diagnosis does help us figure out what the roots of the problem are so that when we do our treatment planning and figure out what we want to focus on in treatment, that it'll be more accurate.
- 34:06Cathi Spooner: Bias can influence accurate diagnosis, which will then influence effective treatment planning.
- 34:14Cathi Spooner: So that's why we want to be aware.
- 34:17Cathi Spooner: That's, that's why bias matters.
- 34:20Cathi Spooner: And then thirdly, how do we address bias?
- 34:23Cathi Spooner: First and foremost, come to terms with the fact that we are all fallible human beings.
- 34:30Cathi Spooner: We all make mistakes.
- 34:32Cathi Spooner: We all get it wrong.
- 34:33Cathi Spooner: Nobody ever does it perfectly.
- 34:35Cathi Spooner: And that come to terms, come to self acceptance with that.
- 34:41Cathi Spooner: Then that will help us non judgmentally explore where some of our belief systems come from and, and how can we use how can we use our decision making to effectively help our clients with treatment planning, the decisions that we make from session to session to session.
- 35:07Cathi Spooner: So being aware of and exploring our bias in a nonjudgmental way will allow us to recognize what our bias is and not go into shame and blame spirals.
- 35:22Cathi Spooner: Um, so and that's, that's why, um, it will be important to make sure that we all are constantly and frequently kind of doing that self reflection.
- 35:36Cathi Spooner: And understanding our, which ones we're kind of prone to so that we can be mindful of those.
- 35:44Cathi Spooner: So that is it for today.
- 35:46Cathi Spooner: Um, if you're interested, I mentioned some of these courses that I am developing, I already have one course out called Getting Grounded in Play Therapy Foundations.
- 35:59Cathi Spooner: That one is available if you're interested in this training.
- 36:04Cathi Spooner: And if you're interested in the one that I kind of have coming out, probably in the next couple of weeks, which is called Getting Grounded in Play Therapy Foundations, you can hop over to my website at rrhcounseling.
- 36:19Cathi Spooner: com forward slash courses.
- 36:22Cathi Spooner: That, um, that I'm going to put that up on my screen.
- 36:27Cathi Spooner: If you're watching me on LinkedIn, my Facebook group or YouTube, the, the, um, my website is rrhcounseling.
- 36:36Cathi Spooner: com forward slash courses.
- 36:38Cathi Spooner: You can already find the Getting Grounded and Play Therapy Foundations.
- 36:43Cathi Spooner: That one's available now.
- 36:45Cathi Spooner: It's a self paced course that you can take in your time zone when.
- 36:50Cathi Spooner: It's convenient for you.
- 36:52Cathi Spooner: This is one of the, um, foundational requirements for becoming a registered play therapist.
- 37:00Cathi Spooner: Not necessarily my course, but Play Therapy Foundations is a required course to becoming a registered play therapist.
- 37:09Cathi Spooner: So that one's available now.
- 37:11Cathi Spooner: If you're interested in becoming part of my Play Therapy Academy, Play Therapy Academy is my online supervision program in which we meet twice a month for group meetings.
- 37:25Cathi Spooner: So you get not only my my 30 years of experience in child and adolescent mental health, you get the collective wisdom of all the amazing and brilliant play therapists in the group.
- 37:39Cathi Spooner: So we share ideas, we staff cases, we recognize I call it being super nerdy, which I love to be super nerdy.
- 37:50Cathi Spooner: Will do case presentations in the group.
- 37:54Cathi Spooner: And then also these getting grounded in play therapy excellence courses.
- 37:59Cathi Spooner: They're all going to be inside of Play Therapy Academy.
- 38:04Cathi Spooner: So these are all in the Play Therapy Academy program.
- 38:08Cathi Spooner: If you're, if you're not in Play Therapy Academy and it's not what you need, they're also, the courses are also going to be available outside, kind of like a la carte, you can get whichever ones you need.
- 38:20Cathi Spooner: If you're interested in Play Therapy Academy, then, uh, you can pop over to my website, again, rrhcounseling.
- 38:29Cathi Spooner: com.
- 38:32Cathi Spooner: Go on to the supervision page.
- 38:34Cathi Spooner: You can book a free 30 minute video call with me to talk about Play Therapy Academy Make sure it's a good fit for you.
- 38:43Cathi Spooner: I will post in the links on LinkedIn and in my Facebook group, I'll post the link in there for the Getting Grounded in Play Therapy Foundations.
- 38:58Cathi Spooner: I'll also post a link in there to schedule a 30 minute video call with me for Play Therapy Academy.
- 39:06Cathi Spooner: If you're watching on Instagram, just pop over there to my bio.
- 39:10Cathi Spooner: You can click on the link in my bio.
- 39:13Cathi Spooner: It'll take you over to my website and you can see the, the, uh, course, the link for the course, and you can also schedule a, a free video call with me.
- 39:25Cathi Spooner: All righty.
- 39:25Cathi Spooner: I will see you next week.
- 39:27Cathi Spooner: Bye for now.
- 39:34Cathi Spooner: Thank you for joining me on this episode of Next Level Play Therapy.
- 39:38Cathi Spooner: I hope you found the discussion valuable and gain new insights and ideas to support your work helping children, adolescents, and families heal.
- 39:48Cathi Spooner: If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review.
- 39:53Cathi Spooner: Your feedback helps to improve and reach more people who can benefit from this information.
- 39:59Cathi Spooner: Remember, Play Therapy is a powerful tool for healing and growth.
- 40:04Cathi Spooner: Whether you're a new Play Therapist or experienced, I encourage you to continue your learning journey to unlock the potential of play and your own work and relationships.
- 40:15Cathi Spooner: If you have any questions or topics, suggestions for future episodes, I'd love to hear from you.
- 40:22Cathi Spooner: Connect with me on social media and visit my website at Renewing Hearts Play Therapy Training to stay updated on upcoming episodes, trainings, and resources.
- 40:35Cathi Spooner: Thank you once again for listening to Next Level Play Therapy.
- 40:38Cathi Spooner: Until next time, keep playing, learning, and growing.