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From a Professional Matchmaker: The BIG Difference Between Men Vs Women · Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

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  Something huge that I have learned along the way is that
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  men and women fall in love for two different reasons.
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  Let's talk about it. Women become more attracted to a
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  man as they develop feelings for him.
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  Now, there's some women who think more like men, and if
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  they're not visually attracted out of the gate, that's the end
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  of the story. But I find, I truly find that
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  the majority of women are a little more evolved than that, a
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  little more evolved than men. In that way, if a guy wins their
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  heart, he could not be the cutest guy in the world.
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  But if he's doing everything right, he's treating her right.
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  He makes her feel a certain way she can actually and will become
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  more attracted to him. Because after a while, you don't
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  even notice what somebody looks like.
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  I've dated the cutest guys. And if they were jerks, I
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  couldn't even tell what they look like.
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  When people would say he's so cute, I'm like, really?
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  Because I can't tell because he's really a jerk or the other
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  way around, Right. So a guy that wasn't cute
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  because he treated me so well and I was crazy about him.
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  To me, he was like Brad Pitt when really he was, you know,
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  like the hunchback of Notre Dame.
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  OK, but let's talk about men. Hang on.
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  Men, on the other hand, oh, these guys are very superficial.
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  They usually are. Now again, there's always some
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  exceptions, but the majority of men fall in love with women they
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  are attracted to. So there's nothing you can say,
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  ladies, there's nothing you can do that's going to make a man
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  fall in love with you if he's not attracted to you and hot for
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  you out of the gate. It's just ain't gonna happen.
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  I wish I could change that, but I can't, alright?
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  I do this over and over and have these conversations with the
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  ladies that are working with me through my mentorship program.
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  It's 12 weeks, by the way. You get me for 12 weeks so that
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  I hold your hand. I pre qualify men for you.
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  I make sure your pictures are as they are.
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  And yes, we do the dating apps. Yes, we do the dating apps.
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  Why? Because all roads lead to the
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  dating apps. It's better than matchmaking.
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  I, and this is from a professional matchmaker, but I
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  always keep it real. You know that I keep it real.
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  And matchmaking is a very small pool and the people who hire
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  matchmakers are extremely particular, right?
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  And So what I've come up with is an amazing solution so that
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  ladies can work with me one-on-one for 12 weeks where I
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  level you up in every way ways that you didn't even know you
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  needed levelling up until you start working with me.
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  Go. Oh man, you're right, Gina, I
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  need to pick better men. Oh, is this how you pre qualify?
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  Oh, really? You mean I can improve on my
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  pictures even though I'm gorgeous?
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  Yes, you can. So my ladies are getting into
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  the most fabulous relationships and I'm loving it with them in
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  their meeting on the dating apps because they are there.
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  So when you limit yourself, I'm not going to do the dating apps.
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  You're shooting yourself in the foot.
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  And I just go if you're like, you know, I want to do things
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  differently because what I've been doing is not working, not
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  getting any younger. Tom is a ticking.
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  Might as well work with Gina while I can. 12 weeks with me
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  and you want the info, Just DM me with the word love on IG.
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  And my link to the IG is above, not here.
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  Don't DM me here. DM me on IG with the word love.