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- 0:00Hello and welcome back to the episode of Bantu Lorenzi.
- 0:02How are you all doing if you're doing great For today's episode,
- 0:05let's talk about Lagos marriages.
- 0:07Yes, Lagos marriages are something else.
- 0:10Honestly, Larry Cagey and her husband, Obonacano and Ceci
- 0:16Alagbo and her husband. Now let me just start with Larry
- 0:20Cagey. Larry Cagey's husband was caught
- 0:22pants down with two underage or 220 year olds in a threesome.
- 0:29According to the story, Obon Akano contacted the two young
- 0:34girls and or contacted one of them as far he's a single man.
- 0:40He was dating her, he was spending on her, allegedly
- 0:45Lara's money. But he promised her so many
- 0:49things and these are teenagers or these are barely 20 year olds
- 0:55who were not on social media who did not know Nara, EKG or IKEA
- 1:01or Urbana. So they were just busy
- 1:06collecting money and living baby girl lifestyle.
- 1:09And then he asked her to allegedly get one of her
- 1:12friends. They had a threesome.
- 1:15He promised them some money. Now, the other lady that was
- 1:19brought into the whole mix told somebody else who told them that
- 1:23no, this guy is a married man. He's married to Laura Cage.
- 1:27That was how they now went to Ubuna Cano to say, are you
- 1:32married? You told us you're single.
- 1:35You're a married man. Now, at this point, he had
- 1:38promised them so many things. He had promised them, you know,
- 1:42heaven and earth. So they said because they
- 1:46recorded you. Don't listen, all these Gen ZS
- 1:50these days, they're always with their phone, they're always
- 1:52recording things, doing them, get ready with me and all that.
- 1:56So they had videos of this man, this married man.
- 2:03So all the monies that he had promised them, they said if he
- 2:07does not pay them, that they're going to release the videos and
- 2:11the pictures online. He was getting money to pay
- 2:15them, but, you know, maybe he was not fast enough because
- 2:18obviously he does not have the money.
- 2:20The, the, the money bag is Lara Cagey.
- 2:24That was how these two young girls leaked the videos and
- 2:29pictures of Urbana Cano, Lara Cagey's husband, online.
- 2:37Lara Cagey has been playing it cool.
- 2:40She's been promoting her business, which honestly I would
- 2:43do because this is free publicity, but internally or
- 2:49behind closed doors, I know she is, she's feeling because
- 2:52listen, when she married Ubonakano, people had or the
- 2:58first wife, he was not married to her.
- 3:02This they lived as partners. They had two children.
- 3:07They were together for I think 10 or 15 years.
- 3:10They were raising their children.
- 3:12He was a failed footballer who was not doing anything.
- 3:16So she was basically found in the family and then he met or he
- 3:22said he was friends with La Laura.
- 3:24According to Laura Ikeji fiasco Ikeji, She said they were
- 3:27friends for over 10 years before they started dating.
- 3:31But according to the story, according to Ubona's first
- 3:36partner, she was the reason why their marriage ended.
- 3:43Obona started dating Laura. People warned Laura, they said
- 3:47for this man to just up and leave his two children and wife
- 3:51is complaining. For you to go ahead and marry
- 3:53this man. You are seeing the signs now.
- 3:58If you don't listen to the signs, you're going to see
- 4:01wonders later. And ladies and gentlemen, Laura
- 4:06is seeing wonders. Some people say, oh, she is not
- 4:11aware because they were, they are dragging, obviously dragging
- 4:16Ubunakanu that he stained Hawaii.
- 4:19He did this, he did that. And Laura is busy smiling and
- 4:23marketing her product. And I think most of these women
- 4:28or most of these wives who marry her second wife or who marries
- 4:33somebody who had been in a long term marriage or relationship
- 4:37with children, I think they know what they're getting themselves
- 4:41into. They understand exactly the
- 4:44dynamics of that of that relationship and they are happy
- 4:47to move with it. Am I sorry for Laura?
- 4:51Probably not because I think from everything that we've
- 4:56heard, Lagos marriage, they, they, they bring women into
- 5:01their bedrooms. Probably that is what they've
- 5:05been doing in my opinion. And then he decided to go
- 5:09outside of their protected circle and now everything is
- 5:14casting. If you don't believe me, ask CC
- 5:19Alabu. Cecia Lago met her husband who
- 5:22was previously married or who she she She's the second wife.
- 5:26He had the first wife. She married as a second wife and
- 5:31she did not want to lose her husband or make her husband
- 5:33marry or give her husband any excuse to marry his third wife.
- 5:39So she was happy to share her bed with other women.
- 5:45Her husband would point and kill.
- 5:48She will bring them in bedroom. She will be the one to record.
- 5:52I saw the video and I'm like wow what is marriage turning into
- 5:57these days? She was happily recording with
- 6:01full glam on her face. She was recorded.
- 6:06Listen, so are these women victims?
- 6:14I would say no, they're not. Yes, there are.
- 6:17There are victims. Obviously there are people who
- 6:20marry, I think people who marry in their early 20s, even those
- 6:26who marry in their late 20s. You cannot tell me that you'll
- 6:29marry somebody who sometimes they know that those men or
- 6:33those boys or those guys have multiple girlfriends and he
- 6:38decided to choose you. You being the pick me feeling
- 6:41like, OK, you're another wife, you want something.
- 6:45There's no way you're going to tell me that if you hear that
- 6:50your husband is with another woman that you're going to feel
- 6:55shocked or you're going to feel betrayed.
- 7:00These women know what they're getting themselves into.
- 7:03And marriages these days, I don't even think it's builds on
- 7:07trust. It's just on anything goes,
- 7:13which is where men are banging on submission, respect, being
- 7:20the head of the family. And they're not saying these
- 7:23things because they are the providers.
- 7:25Because right now women are the providers.
- 7:28Laura Cage is the breadwinner in her home.
- 7:32Cecia Labo is the breadwinner of her home.
- 7:35But they have to submit to these men, they have to respect this
- 7:40men and the reason why these men are asking for submission and
- 7:44respect is for them to go out there and do whatever they want
- 7:47to do. Cecia Lago's husband came out
- 7:56and said people should have an understanding that his first
- 8:01wife talked about. His first wife talked about, you
- 8:04know, people should not judge them.
- 8:08And then the lady was coming out crying, kneeling down, begging
- 8:12Nigerians for for forgiveness. She was the one being shamed,
- 8:18but he was the one actually doing the do.
- 8:22She was just tagging along, doing the recording.
- 8:26So things happen. Things happen in marriages and I
- 8:32think anybody getting married at this point should be prepared
- 8:37for anything. Be prepared to, to, to take
- 8:41whatever you see in that marriage.
- 8:43I was talking to a friend who, who was trying to sort his
- 8:49papers out. You know, the Cos people that
- 8:51travel to the UK, he was married or he's married in Nigeria.
- 8:56He has married children and then he's in the UK.
- 8:59He's Cos is having issues. So he's trying to look for how
- 9:02to switch. So he met this other person who
- 9:08I saw them as an event the way they he was loving up to this
- 9:11lady. I had to walk up to him.
- 9:14I said, oh God, are you not married with children?
- 9:21You people are practically wearing our shaving together.
- 9:24What what's what's going on? What's happening here?
- 9:28And he said, well, that his wife is aware that before even he
- 9:33travelled, they sat down and had and had an agreement that he is
- 9:38going to do whatever it takes to get his documents.
- 9:45I was like my chest. I was like, listen, this is not
- 9:52new. But the audacity at which my In
- 9:57fact, I am even pitting single people at this point, man or
- 10:03woman. Because you can be dating a
- 10:05married woman and the husband is very much aware that you're
- 10:09dating her. You know his wife because he
- 10:13also as a married man, is busy doing whatever he likes.
- 10:18And maybe if they like you to get her, they will bring you
- 10:22into their bedroom. Most times it is the wife that
- 10:28would allow the husband to bring in another woman.
- 10:32Unless the husband is Aggie gay or he likes to watch his wife
- 10:39being pounded then they will allow a man.
- 10:43Marriages have changed. Anybody getting married now
- 10:46should be ready for threesome or should be.
- 10:50She just buy blinders and just be blinded.
- 10:56Close your mouth, shut your ears and just be there.
- 11:01I think that's the only way to be married at this point.
- 11:04But let me know what you think. Do you think that Larry KG,
- 11:09according to People, is getting what she deserved because she
- 11:13knew he was married or she knew he had a very public
- 11:16relationship or a partnership which produced two children?
- 11:21And the way he abandoned that relationship or partnership to
- 11:29marry her, she should have known or it should have been a red
- 11:33flag to her that the same thing that happened to the first one
- 11:37is going to happen to the second one?
- 11:41Or do you think that just as the Cecile Laboski's marriages are
- 11:45open these days, maybe Laura is aware that her husband is busy
- 11:50having, you know, threesomes with younger girls.
- 11:54She just does not want to be involved in the whole drama.
- 11:58So he tells her and he goes out there to do whatever he needs to
- 12:01do, and she is busy taking care of the whole.
- 12:06Do you think these women are aware that these men are roaming
- 12:13wild? Or do you think that marriage,
- 12:16for a marriage to survive, you just have to sit down and take
- 12:21whatever comes with the whole thing?
- 12:23Let me know what you think. Thank you very much for watching
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