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- 0:00Now now back to the Erica Show on G one O five. What's going
- 0:03on Erica's show? I have a big problem. I'm breaking girl code.
- 0:07And I've always been a girls girl. Me too, girl, But I
- 0:10have fallen in love with my roommate and close friend's ex boyfriend. It was
- 0:16two relationships ago for her and she's happily in a relationship now, but we
- 0:20live together. How do I break this news? And how weird will this
- 0:23be? Please help? Very weird? That's gonna be super weird. Also,
- 0:27like because they live together, that makes it an extra layer of I
- 0:31don't know if that's definitely breaking girl code because also when it's time for you
- 0:35know, are they going to be as Yeah, Like that's because you're gonna
- 0:41hear noises. And I mean, I will say so. I've had a
- 0:43few I haven't had many boyfriends in my life, but all of them have
- 0:46been pretty serious. And if any of my friends date some of my serious
- 0:50exes, that would be a no go for me because that was like a
- 0:53chapter of my life where I was deeply in love with that person. We
- 0:56were doing all kind of crazy activities, and so I would not want one
- 0:59of my close girl friends like, what, Eerica, what Bible study?
- 1:02You know we were getting we were worried the Bible actually a couple, you
- 1:07know, so anywa speaking in tongues and everything. Oh my god. So
- 1:11it would be definitely breaking code. Is so what are we asking here?
- 1:15Is she breaking girl code? Do you? Does she tell her roommate,
- 1:19her close friend, Hey, I am now in love with your ex boyfriend?
- 1:23Like, how do you tell that to a friend? Because I I
- 1:25don't date ex's boyfriends. I'll find me somebody new. There's a lot of
- 1:27fish out there. Nine six one five One Erica show had a listener dilemma.
- 1:34She is living with one of her close friends and now dating that close
- 1:38friend's ex boyfriend two relationships ago. But she's like, how do I break
- 1:42the news to her? We got like a mystery caller on the phone calling
- 1:45about this. Who's this? We'll just call me Cake. Okay, Kate,
- 1:49did you do this? I'm married? My best friends sorry, y'all
- 1:55still best friends. We still talk occasionally, and she was actually in my
- 2:00wedding. But she just about cheated on him and he's a good guy,
- 2:06and I was like, look, he's a good guy. Okay. We
- 2:07went back up. So you married your best friend's ex. You are happily
- 2:13married. Now she was in your wedding, but she's the one that cheated
- 2:15on him. Yeah, okay, I think that's a little bit more fair
- 2:19game then. Yeah, alright, that's what I said. I was like,
- 2:22I just want you to know this has been going on and I'm not
- 2:23gonna stop. But we're still good, right, So that's how you told
- 2:27her a little bit? Yes, And how does she accept the bridesmaid invitation?
- 2:31She was still game, she was fine with it. Did you did
- 2:36you feel obligated to include her as a wedding party? She introduced you,
- 2:40not out of fight, but out of still like a good connection. Yeah,
- 2:45it was a good connection. Y'all know all about each other. Hey,
- 2:49oh hey, by the way, you know the thing that you love
- 2:51the you're exited? Yeah, I love it too. Oh yeah, there's
- 2:55plenty of conversations like that too. And I was like, oh, okay,
- 2:59we'll saw that now. Wow. Vibe live on the iHeartRadio AP it
- 3:04is Erica and Trevor leave us a talkback message. How does she tell her
- 3:07roommate, her close friend that yes, she has fallen in love with her
- 3:09ex boyfriend got a talkback message from Jen. This girl should absolutely not date
- 3:15her friends X. That is just so breaking girl code and she has to
- 3:19live with her It's going to be so awkward. I would never