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Romeo In The Morning 6-1-26 · Romeo & Friends

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  Speaker 1: That was going on everybody's romeo today. We got into
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  Speaker 1: some interesting things about dating, dating multiple people?
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  Speaker 2: Is that okay to do?
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  Speaker 1: We also talked about remember the first time you ever
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  Speaker 1: saw your teacher outside of school? Yeah, let's get going already, four, two, five,
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  Speaker 1: four or seven and seven? Summers here, right, moms and dads,
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  Speaker 1: What are you doing with your kids for summer?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I remember, you know when.
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  Speaker 1: I was in high school, you get a summer job,
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  Speaker 1: or you'd go, uh, I don't know. You play with
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  Speaker 1: the friends. You get kicked out of the house and
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  Speaker 1: go play with their.
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  Speaker 2: Friends all day.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of times though, these kids are going to
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  Speaker 1: summer schooling.
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  Speaker 2: How what's going on? Hello?
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  Speaker 4: What?
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  Speaker 3: What?
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  Speaker 2: Brother?
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  Speaker 5: All right?
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  Speaker 4: So for my kids, I'm making to get the heck
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  Speaker 4: out of out?
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  Speaker 2: How old are they?
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  Speaker 4: There are all elementary kids.
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  Speaker 1: You're making your elementary school kids go to summer school.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm making them go to school, man together, as
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  Speaker 4: they need to. They need to be reading, they need
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  Speaker 4: to be doing their reading.
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  Speaker 2: You're a jackass, man, you're a dear old.
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  Speaker 4: But also I also did put them in sports.
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  Speaker 1: To put them in sports, well, that's a friend of
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  Speaker 1: mine has a kid and he said that his kid
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  Speaker 1: can either play a sport during the summer go work
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  Speaker 1: out with him at the gym.
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  Speaker 2: So I guess the kid chose to work out.
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  Speaker 4: But what and my high school kids starts to trut.
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  Speaker 4: My high school kids are going to get a dance pus.
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  Speaker 4: They're doing college classes. So I guess there's opportunities like
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  Speaker 4: that nowadays. So you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 2: No, I don't.
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  Speaker 1: Summers are Summers are for fun being a kid. Summer
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  Speaker 1: was supposed to just be for that three months where
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  Speaker 1: you have fun and not have to worry about you.
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  Speaker 2: It was like it was what it was, a summer vacation.
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  Speaker 4: I wish it was like that enough. But now California
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  Speaker 4: inflation everything. People they got to get out of because
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  Speaker 4: once I high school, there's a lot of competition. Get
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  Speaker 4: a job, all right, man, to the bus drivers the
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  Speaker 4: district because we're at your husband, don't no job?
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  Speaker 2: All right? Man? Thanks, all right?
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  Speaker 5: Man?
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  Speaker 1: Oh the horrible person. Oh what happened to summer? What
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  Speaker 1: happened to summer? Just be in that three months where
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  Speaker 1: you get to do whatever you want, you know, go
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  Speaker 1: hang out with your friends, go go go down to
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  Speaker 1: the river. You know, ride your bikes, have a good time. Now,
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  Speaker 1: gotta go to summer school.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, Rome, I don't know, Rome.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe it's so teachers can't continue to get a paycheck
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  Speaker 1: go for summer school.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know either.
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  Speaker 1: All right, summer is here. Moms and dads, What do
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  Speaker 1: you gonna do with your kids? Some of you got
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  Speaker 1: little kids, What do you do? Looks like you guys
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  Speaker 1: are all going to summer school. I mean, the last
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  Speaker 1: guy that called said he's making his kids go to
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  Speaker 1: summer school. But I think that's a terrible idea. I
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  Speaker 1: think kids deserve. I think they deserve their summer vacation.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on with high school nowadays.
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  Speaker 1: Or I know some of you guys got your kids
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  Speaker 1: in summer school so that they can be the babysitter
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  Speaker 1: high school.
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  Speaker 2: I don't.
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  Speaker 1: When I was in high school, it used to just
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  Speaker 1: be bad. Kids went to summer school to make up
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  Speaker 1: classes they failed. Now I guess kids, it's packed apparently
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  Speaker 1: already four seven to seven yo. Roam, I'm taking my
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  Speaker 1: kids the Hurricane Harbor if you give me some tickets.
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  Speaker 1: How about you just go buy some tickets and take
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  Speaker 1: your kids to the Hurricane Harbor, be a good parent, ay, Rome.
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  Speaker 1: Most kids go to summer school to get ahead, and
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  Speaker 1: nowadays they even have dual enrollment to go to community
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  Speaker 1: college so they can graduate with their associate's degree from
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  Speaker 1: high school as well. That's that's I'm gonna tell you
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  Speaker 1: right now. That's stupid. I don't care what any of
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  Speaker 1: you say. That's stupid. Why would these kids, Why would
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  Speaker 1: these kids be forced to grow up so quickly? Why
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  Speaker 1: can't they just enjoy being in high school? Why can't
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  Speaker 1: they just enjoy having a summer break and not doing
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  Speaker 1: anything but hanging out with their buddies or their friends
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  Speaker 1: during summer vacation.
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  Speaker 2: Why do you have to push them like that? That's
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  Speaker 2: just stupid.
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  Speaker 1: Already four two, four, seven to seven. What are you
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  Speaker 1: guys doing with your kids for summer? A roam some
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  Speaker 1: high school? Some high schools offer college courses so kids
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  Speaker 1: don't have to take two years of general ed in college.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, but that's stupid to me.
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  Speaker 1: And I'll tell you why it's stupid, cause I did
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  Speaker 1: it all. I went to high school, I went to college.
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  Speaker 2: I know what it was like. Nobody needs to grow
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  Speaker 2: up that fast.
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  Speaker 1: Enjoy your life, Enjoy everything, about it. Don't rush at all,
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  Speaker 1: and it's just so dumb.
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  Speaker 2: Whatever.
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  Speaker 1: I'm glad I already went through it all already four
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  Speaker 1: two five, four seven to seven. So summer vacation and
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  Speaker 1: what do you guys do with your kids for summer?
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  Speaker 2: A roam A four two five four seven seven yo.
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  Speaker 5: Rome.
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  Speaker 1: My daughter's going to summer school to get ahead so
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  Speaker 1: that when she's a senior, it's a breeze.
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  Speaker 2: But knowing her, she'll.
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  Speaker 1: Be taking college classes as a senior to get ahead
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  Speaker 1: with college. And I think that's so ridiculous. I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 1: I know it's impressive, and it is. It's extremely impressive.
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  Speaker 1: I was at a college graduation on Thursday night, and
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  Speaker 1: it was extremely impressive what these some of these kids
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  Speaker 1: have accomplished. And they're you know what they've done, But
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  Speaker 1: be a damn kid. My god, you guys can't just
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  Speaker 1: be a kid. Let them enjoy the moments that they have.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm not saying that you're pushing your children to
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  Speaker 1: do it. I'm saying maybe you should discourage your children
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  Speaker 1: from doing it and let them enjoy their lives while
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  Speaker 1: they can't.
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  Speaker 2: It sucks being an adult.
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  Speaker 1: It's hard, you know, you you work hard, you try
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  Speaker 1: to make rent and bills and mortgages and payments, and
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  Speaker 1: even if you have a bunch of money, it's still
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  Speaker 1: be an.
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  Speaker 2: Adult sucks man. Being a kid was great.
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  Speaker 1: It was awesome summer vacation, just doing tubing down the river,
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  Speaker 1: hanging out with your buddies and your friends and going
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  Speaker 1: over to everybody's houses.
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  Speaker 2: And it was just it was great. It's it's terrible
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  Speaker 2: what this has turned into.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, Romeo, my kids are going to be home eating
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  Speaker 1: and drinking everything up. So when I get home, I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna make grocery trips, so my day don't stop. And
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  Speaker 1: for the parents that send them the summer school, it's
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  Speaker 1: because they have better things to do than watch their kids.
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  Speaker 2: L O L rate to Rob.
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  Speaker 1: I think that's awesome, right to Rob, Yo, roam my
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  Speaker 1: kids or what are my kids doing? My kids get
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  Speaker 1: to get to go to Las Vegas for vacation for
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  Speaker 1: a month.
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  Speaker 2: Uh and they're only ten and eight.
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  Speaker 1: Nice tell them there's a couple of great places for
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  Speaker 1: kids at ten. They take them out to that area
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  Speaker 1: fifty five or two or eighty one or whatever it is,
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  Speaker 1: and then.
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  Speaker 2: You could take them out to.
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  Speaker 1: What's the other place Player one or game one or
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  Speaker 1: something at the mall.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah all right, alrighty for two, five, four or seven
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  Speaker 2: to seven whatever?
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  Speaker 3: Hey, man, so check this out.
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  Speaker 4: Does this make me a bad parent? My son's got
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  Speaker 4: to do his chores before you go eating.
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  Speaker 6: When you stay home.
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  Speaker 2: N I saw that, uh.
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  Speaker 4: Bo like you do for the summer.
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  Speaker 2: No, there's nothing wrong with that. I don't mean if
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  Speaker 2: he likes it, unless you're forcing him to do it.
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  Speaker 3: No, I like it.
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  Speaker 4: But I mean, I just know I can't have him
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  Speaker 4: putting at home. Man, it gets all kunky. You know,
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  Speaker 4: I gotta keep my fid. Say you played football, there's wrong.
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  Speaker 2: There's nothing wrong with doing it.
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  Speaker 1: Putting him in some sort of activity, but you know,
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  Speaker 1: to make him go to school is stupid.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I never want to.
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  Speaker 6: I don't know every real man about you know, in
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  Speaker 6: the summer school a little bit, I'd be mad.
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  Speaker 2: As hell exactly, you know.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, if they're going to head again to college,
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  Speaker 6: the kids want to do it, that's you.
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  Speaker 3: Know, whatever on them. But if you're fortunate the summer still, man,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: They yeah, give him at least get money to go
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  Speaker 4: to school.
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  Speaker 3: But I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I couldn't do that.
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  Speaker 5: Man.
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  Speaker 6: I heard the guys say earlier on the radio that, uh,
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  Speaker 6: you know, he's forting them.
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  Speaker 3: Man, lets the kids the.
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  Speaker 4: Kids, bro because I remember we all needed to do it,
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  Speaker 4: wanted to be an adult.
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  Speaker 5: Look at us now we can go back exactly.
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  Speaker 2: But later I already four two five, four seven said
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  Speaker 2: they've been the wrong with making your.
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  Speaker 1: Kids do a little work around the house, some chores
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  Speaker 1: before they get to go do something, but.
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  Speaker 2: Put them in a sport. I don't disagree with putting
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  Speaker 2: them in a sport.
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  Speaker 1: Like somebody said, my kid's got summer league basketball and track.
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  Speaker 2: And field, and there's nothing wrong with that, but the
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  Speaker 2: summer I just this summer school thing is just to
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  Speaker 2: me ridiculous. Okay, be a kid, man, Let your kids
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  Speaker 2: be kids.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't know if you're forcing them or I
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  Speaker 1: don't know if they've decided they wanted to do that.
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  Speaker 1: But here's the thing that you need to learn, and
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  Speaker 1: this is where I think your parents are wrong.
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  Speaker 2: Is if your kid says, you know what, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 2: go to summer school.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get a degree, and I'm gonna be by
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  Speaker 1: the time i'm eighteen. I'm gonna have all this stuff done.
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  Speaker 1: What did you miss out on? What did your child
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  Speaker 1: miss out on? And maybe they didn't I could be
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  Speaker 1: completely wrong, But what did your child miss out on
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  Speaker 1: that they had to take summers every year in high school?
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  Speaker 1: They took all these extra classes to get this AA
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  Speaker 1: degree or this whatever degree and this other all the
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  Speaker 1: other things that they did to accomplish by eighteen or
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  Speaker 1: by whenever they graduated high school? What did they miss
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  Speaker 1: out on? And as a parent, you should be focusing
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  Speaker 1: on your kids and letting them have an experience.
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  Speaker 2: So they don't miss out on anything.
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  Speaker 1: And they don't know. Maybe they don't know. I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: Maybe I'm wrong. I have no idea. When I was
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  Speaker 1: I never missed out on anything. My mom was awesome.
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  Speaker 1: My mom was after school at summertime, you do whatever
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  Speaker 1: I played with. I play, stayed on the reds for
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  Speaker 1: a month with all my friends, and all we did
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  Speaker 1: was go tubing and swimming and ride our bikes. And
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  Speaker 1: then I spent another month with my cousins and my
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  Speaker 1: grandparents and all that, and.
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  Speaker 2: Just all I did was play. That's all I did.
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  Speaker 1: So I don't the best experiences of my life, greatest
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  Speaker 1: time of my life. You know, you're never gonna get
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  Speaker 1: them back, So you parents are to push it. If
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  Speaker 1: you're pushing your kids or your kids are pushing themselves,
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  Speaker 1: they have no idea what they're missing, and it's sad
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  Speaker 1: that you don't help them understand.
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  Speaker 2: That for time.
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  Speaker 1: So you and what are you doing with your kids
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  Speaker 1: for the summer? Eight four, two, five four or seven
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  Speaker 1: to seven?
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  Speaker 2: Yo?
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  Speaker 3: Rome?
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  Speaker 1: Some people send the kids to summer school even when
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  Speaker 1: they don't need it because it's free daycare. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I think that I know how expensive you guys pay
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  Speaker 1: for daycare, and I get it that it's tough.
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  Speaker 2: You know, it is tough for that. So I kind
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  Speaker 2: of understand to an extent because the daycare is just ridiculous.
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  Speaker 2: So I get it a little bit for that reason.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, hey, Rome, my kids just started VHS.
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  Speaker 1: The teachers set them up with health education class so
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't have to take it later in the year.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I mean, oh see, And okay, you guys don't understand. Hey, Rome, my.
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  Speaker 1: Oldest is gonna be in second grade and he's already
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  Speaker 1: making plans for the summer that he wants to go
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  Speaker 1: to water parks. The aquariums and museum. That's what I'm
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  Speaker 1: talking about right there.
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  Speaker 2: Second grade. My man knows how to live up summer.
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  Speaker 1: A Rome. My daughter's taking summer school pe so she
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  Speaker 1: don't have to take it in take it during the year.
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  Speaker 2: Why I don't understand. I guess I just don't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know how high school has changed since I
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  Speaker 1: was in high school, So I guess I just really
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  Speaker 1: don't get it.
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  Speaker 2: But hey all nah, Hey, Rome, When I was.
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  Speaker 1: A kid, When I was a kid, attending preschool was rare.
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  Speaker 1: Now everyone goes to preschool. Oh okay, ay, Rome. When
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  Speaker 1: I was in school, kids were made to go to
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  Speaker 1: summer school because they were failing. Nowadays, it seems like
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  Speaker 1: parents are signing them just so they don't have to
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  Speaker 1: deal with them.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, maybe that could be it. I don't I
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  Speaker 2: don't get it. I don't I.
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  Speaker 1: Don't understand it. Enjoy your summer, have a good time.
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  Speaker 1: Why would you as a kid, why are you not
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  Speaker 1: smart enough to understand that?
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  Speaker 2: You know what summer's for you.
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  Speaker 1: You worked your butts off all day long, all school year.
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  Speaker 2: This is your opportunity to relax for a little bit.
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  Speaker 1: And parents, why aren't you you know, why aren't you
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  Speaker 1: helping your kids understand that?
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  Speaker 2: What is wrong with you people?
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  Speaker 1: All right, we're talking about summer, right, the kids are
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  Speaker 1: out of school for summer.
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  Speaker 2: What are you gonna do with your kids for the summer?
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  Speaker 1: Just let them sit around the house all day, run
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  Speaker 1: up that electricity that ac hit and eating all your food?
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  Speaker 2: What are you gonna do?
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  Speaker 1: Hey, Rome, A buddy of mine send his kids to
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  Speaker 1: summer school so they can eat and you know what,
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  Speaker 1: all they want over there rather than home because it's expensive.
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  Speaker 2: Well, summer school.
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  Speaker 1: Only goes till noon though, right, summer school is not
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  Speaker 1: all day, is it.
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  Speaker 2: I don't really know how long summer school is. But yeah,
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  Speaker 2: all right, all right, what do you do when your
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  Speaker 2: kids for summer?
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  Speaker 1: So yesterday, this was kind of funny. I went to yesterday.
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  Speaker 1: I went to play golf with a friend of mine
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  Speaker 1: and his kid. I think his kids in middle school,
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  Speaker 1: and I think he's in middle school. I think he's
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  Speaker 1: in seventh or eighth grade. I think he's in seventh grade. Actually,
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  Speaker 1: So after we play golf, we go to this slow
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  Speaker 1: bar and grill spot by the golf course, you know,
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  Speaker 1: to have a little lunch, hang out for a little
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  Speaker 1: bit before we take off, and uh, it was probably
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, it's probably three yeah, maybe around three
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  Speaker 1: o'clock I think is when we finished and we went
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  Speaker 1: to this place to eat and we're sitting at a table.
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  Speaker 2: So it's a bar and grill right all one wall,
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  Speaker 2: one big room.
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  Speaker 1: So we're sitting at this high top table, you know,
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  Speaker 1: having lunch, talking and there's this lady who's just loud.
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  Speaker 2: You could tell she's been drinking all day.
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  Speaker 1: And it wasn't like inappropriate, like she wasn't cussing or anything.
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  Speaker 1: You know, she was just loud and you could see
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  Speaker 1: her guys trying to tell her to relax, you know,
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  Speaker 1: calm down, like he's he's getting a little embarrassed, you know,
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  Speaker 1: about which I didn't.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't think it was.
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  Speaker 1: To me, it was just some woman having fun, okay,
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  Speaker 1: day drinking, having a good time, because it wasn't really
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  Speaker 1: anything other than that except being loud, and you could
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  Speaker 1: see her guy was trying to like, you know, get
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  Speaker 1: her some water, this and that. And then my buddy's
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  Speaker 1: kid goes, hey, Dad, that's my teacher right there.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god.
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  Speaker 1: And by buddy, he's like what that's your teacher.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, dad, that's my teacher.
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  Speaker 1: And he's like, oh no, And you could see my
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  Speaker 1: buddy kind of getting a little like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: how embarrassing this woman's teaching my kid.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, dude, calm down, bro, she just
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  Speaker 2: he's a teacher on vacation. Right. It doesn't mean she's
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  Speaker 2: bad at her job. It just means, you know, she's
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  Speaker 2: drunk during summer.
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  Speaker 1: But but what I thought was funny about the whole
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  Speaker 1: situation had nothing to do with that being his teacher.
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  Speaker 1: Was Remember I remember running into my teacher at the
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  Speaker 1: grocery store and being like, oh my god, my teacher's
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  Speaker 1: at the grocery store. Like you know, when you're a kid,
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  Speaker 1: you'd never think your teacher leaves school. But I mean,
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  Speaker 1: how times have changed, right, We used to freak out
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  Speaker 1: when we'd be out at the mall and you'd run
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: into your teacher. Now you see him at the bar
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: getting drunk on a Monday. Things are different. Teachers are
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: different nowadays already four two, five, four, seven and seven.
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: But yeah, it cracked me up because he ran into
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: his teacher she was drunk. I ran into my teacher
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: at the Frozen food ale at the grocery store when I.
• 15:38
  Speaker 2: Was a kid, So yeah, it was kind of funny.
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: I was telling you yesterday, I was out with my
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: buddy and his kid who was in middle school, seventh grade.
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: We're out playing golf. We stopped by a bar and
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: grill to have lunch after golf, and his teacher was.
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: There getting drunk. I thought it was funny. I thought
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: it was funny because it was just not for any reason.
• 15:57
  Speaker 2: She's a teacher.
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: But you remember, kid, when you'd run into your teacher
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: out in public, it was like the most shocking thing ever.
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: I used to run into mine at the grocery store.
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: You know, that was shocking as all get up. But
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: now you run into him at the bar apparently already
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: four two popoor is seven to seven.
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: Hey, Romeo.
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: When I was sixteen, I had this real conservative teacher
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: that dressed like a grandma. And I remember one time
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: during the summer, my family and I we went to
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: Pismo Beach like everybody does in Bakersfield, and I ran
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: into her on the beach in a bikini. I couldn't
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: believe how different she looked. I didn't know what to do.
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: Now every time I looked at her in class. I
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: got a little excited. Well, it is funny when you
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: run into a teacher in their regular clothes. Well, now,
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: I guess teachers today dressed like you know anyway, So
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: all right, already four two popos seven to seven Rome.
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: Years ago, I went to this club with a couple
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: of buddies. My daughter's kindergarten teacher was there, smashed off her,
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: but she couldn't even stand. I thought it was funny.
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: Turns out there was a bunch of teachers there that
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: were all smashed. Yeah, yeah, I mean, I uh, they're
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: just people, right, they still go out.
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know how. I don't know how
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: did you feel about it? Did you care? Is just funny?
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: Huh, it is funny, just like yesterday I thought was funny.
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying back in my day with the craziest
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: thing that ever happened when you ran into your teacher
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: was you know, like the post office, at the grocery store.
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: You know already four two five four or as seven
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: is seven? Do you remember running to your teacher when
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: you were in school? I remember running to your teacher
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: when you were a kid.
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: Yesterday I was with a buddy of mine and his
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: son we went and played golf, and he's a seventh grader.
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: We ran to his teacher at the bar. She was
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: drunk and loud, and I thought it was just hilarious.
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: I don't think my buddy found it as hilarious as
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: I did, but I just I found it hilarious.
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: Was because you run into your teacher.
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: You usually at the grocery store, right That was a
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: big deal back in the day. The grocery store, the
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: post office, wherever your mom was running errands and took you.
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: You'd run into your teacher, and you just were shocked
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: to run into them. Right now, they're drunk at the bar.
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: Already, four two, five, four, seven to seven.
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: Hey, Romeo, you're not going to believe this, but I
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: ran into my teacher at my house. I was raised
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: by a single dad, and one night I got up
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: and my teacher was there with my dad.
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: I couldn't believe it.
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: It kind of shocked me and kind of traumatized me
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: a little bit. I didn't know my dad had dated
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: my teacher.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: Ah, that's funny. Your dad was a player.
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: Huh yeah, I mean, what do you expect if your
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: teacher single, your dad single, your teacher single?
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: What do you expect? I mean, you might have wanted
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: to let you know she was coming by the house,
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: but you know.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: It happens already, four two five, four seven to seven.
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: So, yeah, I was yesterday.
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: I was out playing golf with a friend of mine
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: and is, uh, well, how old are you in seventh grade?
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: I don't know whatever.
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: So we went out to eat afterwards, and we ran
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: into his teacher. He goes, Dah, there's my teacher. She
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: was some drunk lady at a bar, just having a
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: good time, you know, and that was his teacher.
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: I was laughing.
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: I thought it was funny already four two five, four
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. Hey, Romeo, some teachers near drink after
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: taking care of some of these badass kids at school.
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: My daughter is a school teacher, and she has no filter.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: Her response to every parent who says my kid isn't
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: is an angel, She responds.
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: So was Lucifer.
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: You know, we feel about those those people that say
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: they have no filter. We were just talking about this
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: other day, and I'm gonna say this for your daughter.
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: That's her way of justifying her being a jackass to people.
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: You can say things nicer to people without being a
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: Jackass's that's every person who says I have no filter.
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: You just have to accept me the way I'm here.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: That's just you make an excuse for you to be
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: a jackass, all right, e four two five four or
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. I'm not even talking bad about the
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: teachers say they don't need to drink. I just thought
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: it was funny because when I ran into my last time,
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: I think I ran into my teacher when I was
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: a kid. It was at the grocery store, not at
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: a bar. So I don't give a damn. Hey, rom
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: my wife is a teacher. These kids have no idea
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: how freaky she is because she acts so innocent and
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: the sweetest sweetheart at work. Yet, oh, I forgot to
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: mention she was my son's fourth grade teacher.
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: That's how we met. Now we are married, you know. Well,
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: I mean.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: To be fair, though teachers today don't remember what I
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: to me. I think when teachers was a career that
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: had a little class to it. I don't think teachers
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: hold themselves to a standard as much as they used to.
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: But then again, does any profession hold itself to a
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: standard like it used to.
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: When we were younger.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not really sure, to be honest with you.
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: It's been a long time since I was in school,
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: so it's hard for me to really I always maybe
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: maybe it's not that the teachers don't hold themselves to
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: a standard. Maybe as kids, we were just more respectful,
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: So maybe there was that's the dynamic.
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: I'm not really sure.
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: But anyway, running into your teacher alrighty four two, five, four,
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: seven to seven.
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: You guys, remember when you ran into your teacher when
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: you were a kid.
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: It was it was shocking for kids. Kids are shocked
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: when they run into their teacher. Right, yesterday, we were
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: with my buddy and I were out playing golf with
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: his son and he ran into his We ran into
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: one of his teachers.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: He's in seventh grade. Ran into one of his teachers
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: at she was at.
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: The bar drink and we were at a bar and grill,
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: you know, one of those spots where it's one room,
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: the bars on one side, tables for the for the
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: patrons to eat on the other side.
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: And she was just loud and having a good time.
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: She wouldn't do anything wrong, but he goes, Dad, that's
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: my teacher, and I think his dad.
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: I think my buddy got a little like, what the
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: hell you know is going on here?
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: But it wasn't a big deal. She was just you know,
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: she's on summer breaks. Who doesn't go out day drinking.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: You know, I was out day drinking, shoot, playing all
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: day drinking. It's no big deal. But it is different
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: nowadays because I when, you know, I remember running in
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: to my teacher with with my mom when we were
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: doing errands, you know, just doing regular stuff, not at
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: the bar. But yeah, I thought it was funny already.
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: Four two five, four, seven to seven. My boy, big boy,
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: just sent me a message. He goes, hey, remember Roman.
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: I don't want to put him out there. But remember
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: when so and so's wife was on the Romeo cruise
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: she got hammered and ran into some of her kids
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: parents didn't want to drink anymore.
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't remember that, but that's different. We're on
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: a cruise, right, especially if you're with me. Were the
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: I'm guessing that it was one of our listeners.
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: She was a teacher, She was on the cruise, enjoying herself,
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: ran into some of her kids parents, Oh, from her class. Well,
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: what were the parents doing on the cruise. Were they
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: with us, big boy, I don't remember. I don't remember
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: the situation. I remember the crews and I remember them
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: because I know them, but I don't remember that happening.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: So she quit drinking.
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: That sucks.
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: Well, what were the parents doing? I mean, some of
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: your parents out there are okay with your teachers. You know,
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: some of these parents and teachers get along real well
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: because some of these teachers are really good teachers, and
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: they take care of these people's kids, and these parents
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: are very appreciative, and when you run into them out drinking, you.
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: Buy them a drink.
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: Right anyway, already four two five, four, seven to seven.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: But big boy, the Romeo crews don't caret uh. Romeo
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: Cruz is like, uh, that's like going to Vegas. What
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: happens on the cruise stays on the cruise.
• 24:07
  Speaker 4: Morning, Romeo Man.
• 24:09
  Speaker 7: Talking about that teacher at the bar just reminded me
• 24:11
  Speaker 7: about the time I saw one of my teachers a
• 24:14
  Speaker 7: situation and probably should in the scene her. It was
• 24:17
  Speaker 7: a year after high school spring break, and unfortunately I
• 24:21
  Speaker 7: got pulled over and I ended up getting a well
• 24:24
  Speaker 7: reckless right.
• 24:27
  Speaker 6: No, you have to take the steps classes, right, Yeah,
• 24:31
  Speaker 6: the step classes right on cowboway uh huh.
• 24:35
  Speaker 5: I ended up.
• 24:35
  Speaker 7: Seeing my old tea teacher in there with me. I
• 24:39
  Speaker 7: sat behind her, so she didn't see me, but I've
• 24:41
  Speaker 7: seen her, and I was like, there's no way we're
• 24:44
  Speaker 7: both in the dust class, right, No, this was crazy?
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: Whoa that is?
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: Oh my?
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: Did you say anything to her?
• 24:53
  Speaker 4: All's embarrassed?
• 24:54
  Speaker 7: I was like, no way, Like I wasn't even twenty one.
• 24:57
  Speaker 8: Like I blew a point four, which.
• 24:59
  Speaker 4: Is not over the limit, but I wasn't twenty one
• 25:01
  Speaker 4: at the time.
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: Wait a point oh four? You blew a point oh four?
• 25:05
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but I wasn't twenty.
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: One point If you blew a point four you'd probably
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: be dead. Yeah yeah, so uh but you didn't. She
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: would have been embarrassed too. Man, what's up with that?
• 25:19
  Speaker 5: No, I don't know.
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: I mean I didn't want What are you doing?
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: That's hilarious?
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, all right man? Later, yeah, you run
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: into a teacher. Man, do you remember when you ran
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: into one of your teachers? I mean, let's be honest,
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: we thought our teachers just lived at school. We didn't
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: know they actually lived in the real world. Remember the
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: first time you ran into your teacher or running into
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: a teacher. Man, we didn't know they didn't live at school,
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: right alrighty four two pop four seven seven, rome After
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: dealing with our kids all year, they deserve to be
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: hammered all summer.
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: Oh the teachers. Yeah, I don't have a problem.
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: I mean, I really don't have a problem with a teacher,
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: you know, out in public being you know, being hammered.
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: I mean, I got it.
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: Who doesn't like to go out and do some day
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: drinking and have a good time. I mean, And to
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: be honest with you, she wasn't being unruly, She wasn't
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: doing anything. She wasn't being she wasn't being vulgar, she
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: wouldn't do She was drinking and having.
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: Fun, you know.
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: And you know some people get loud when they drink.
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: So there was nothing nothing, It was fine.
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: Uh hey, Romeo.
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: I remember after graduation in high school, I got a
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: job at Don Perico's restaurant.
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: My uncle, the bartender, hooked it up. Tell me why.
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: A year later, I see my high school teacher.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: She was so beautiful, and I was always I always
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: flirted with her. I told my uncle to give her
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: free drinks, and I told her to enjoy them.
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: Tell me why.
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: At the end of the night, she was waiting outside
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: and her excuse was she was waiting for her ride.
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: But yet she came with a friend. So I ended
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: up giving her a ride.
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: And it was totally worth it.
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: So if she's hearing this right now, I'm sorry, but
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: I didn't say any names. This was twenty ten. Well,
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: at least you graduated high school. These teachers today, man,
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: they don't even wait till you graduate.
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: At least she waited. That's something to be said for
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: that teacher.
• 27:16
  Speaker 6: Is one thing.
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: But I don't know if you know that Bakersfield is
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: home to a lot.
• 27:19
  Speaker 6: Of correction officers. Okay, you know we got washboat to
• 27:23
  Speaker 6: hatch to be We had a lot of jails around us.
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: And I remember I came home from a little vacation
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: from court.
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: Oh that's not at all what we're talking about.
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: But I ran into a ceo.
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: So I don't care that Parker teacher.
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: No, it's not why why heads into the conversation.
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: Nobody cares about you ran into a ceo. They're all
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: over the place.
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: What the hell get out of here, Oh my god,
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: get the hell out of here, you guys.
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: Let me do the show.
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: Okay, that's why it's Romeo on in the morning, because
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: I'm letting me do the show. All right, don't call
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: with your stupidity.
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: Oh, we made it another year. Heading into that summer weather.
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: Everybody graduated, the graduations are over, the parties are starting.
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: Summer's here. What do we do now?
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: Let me check it out here. The weather's about to
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: jump up into the nineties here pretty soon. We're not
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: quite in the hunters yet, but we are.
• 28:20
  Speaker 5: Uh.
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: I guess we're gonna be ninety four today, ninety four
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: if it's perfect for ninety four point one mm. Yeah,
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: mid mid to low to high nineties. Right, it looks
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: like maybe next week, next Wednesday, we'll jump to ninety nine.
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: But summer's here. Your kids are out of school.
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: They're gonna be sitting on your couch, running up at
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: ac right.
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: Are you making we get summer jobs? What are you doing?
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: But we made it.
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: We made it another year, right, seems like it went
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: by pretty quickly.
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: Huh, All right? Before two pivet four or seven seven?
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: What almost I gonna get into? I can't remember what
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: it was. I wrote something down over the weekend and
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: I left it at home. Totally forgot what it was.
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: Now I remember what I was going to tell you.
• 29:10
  Speaker 3: Now.
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: A friend of mine, he's been working in LA for
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: the last I don't know, a couple of months or
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: month or so, however long it's been, and apparently he's
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: been playing the show, listening to the show on whatever
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: it is tune in or whatever.
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: You can listen to the show on.
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: Right, And I guess a few of his co workers
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: have been listening with them. So I don't know what
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: the situation is exactly, but it's been on. They've been
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: hearing it, and they were asking him how.
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: It is possible that the things I do are are okay?
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: And I guess, you know, telling people they're dumb when
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: they say stupid things, you know, like Raider Dave, Seahawklou.
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: Those guys will say idiotic things, just like Raider Dave
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: just did this morning. And they say stupid things, and
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: I call him stupid for saying stupid things, or I
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: hang up on them, or whatever.
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: The case may be.
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: They go, oh, I can't believe how'd he get away
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: with doing that? How do you talk to your friends?
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: You know, if your friends say something stupid, don't you
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: tell him that was something stupid? What you're saying is stupid?
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: Or don't I mean? I mean, I like Greater Dave.
• 30:22
  Speaker 8: I do.
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: He's a He's a very integral part of the show, him.
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: And Seahawk Loup.
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: But they say stupid things and they sound like idiots.
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: So what do you expect me to say to them?
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: But I think it's funny.
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: Because it's not the first time this happened. There's been
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: some some friends came from out of town. Family and
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: friends of my friends came from out of town obviously
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: this this week for graduations, and they were listening to
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: the show too, And then I had to see him
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: at some parties, like gosh, you really do tell people that.
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: I'm like, what do you?
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: How do you talk to your friends and your family?
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: You know, if they say dumb stuff, don't you say
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: dum Don't you say that, Hey, what you're saying is stupid?
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: I just bro what kind of every time somebody says
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: something about the way we've done this show for twenty
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: plus years in Bakersfield, I don't know. It amazes me
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: what's going on in other cities? Man, How are you
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: people living if you can't have I mean, if you
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: can't tell your friends and family that you know, you
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: can't joke with them, you can't.
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: I mean, what's going on. Oh my god, I can't
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: believe he just hung up on that person. Well, that
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: person shouldn't have been an idiot, right. I don't get it.
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: I really don't get it.
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: But they still listen. They mean it's funny because it is.
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: To check this out, a friend of mine, his kid
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: just graduated college, just got out of Fresno State, and
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: he met a girl a year. I think they've been
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: going out for a little over a year. So he
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: met his girl last year sometime and they started dating.
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: Now they both graduated college this year. Now she does
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: live up still vin Fresno. He's back here in Bakersfield.
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: But he was telling me that they were still dating.
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: They're making it work. I think it's close enough, right,
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: So who knows they're going to end.
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: Up together or not. But this is what happened.
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: The dad was telling me about about a son that
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: the girl he's dating came to him and said she'd
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: like to see other people.
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: She said she still wants to date.
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: Him though, And he's all, obviously, you know, he's kind
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: of in his feelings a little bit.
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: He doesn't know what to think about it. But I
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: get it. They're fresh out of college. They don't know
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: where their lives are going.
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: But she said she still wants to date him. He
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: doesn't know if he should now he should, by the way,
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: because maybe she's the one. Okay, you gotta experience something
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: before you settle down to know that you're with the
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: right person. Right, So, even though they've been dating for
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: about a year exclusively, she wants to date other people.
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: I don't know how that's gonna work out.
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: She may go on a couple of different dates, find
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: out it sucks, and then be right back in his
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: arms exclusively. But he doesn't understand it. He's kind of like, well,
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: we're exclusive. Does this mean we're breaking No, it doesn't
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: mean anything. It just means that she wants to see
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: what else is out there. But she still wants to
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: date you.
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: You guys.
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: I think the problem he's having is she's honest about it,
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: which is a great thing. She's being honest with you
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: about what she wants to do.
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: You're in the game, bruh.
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: I mean you're still in the game if you really
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: like her and you really want her. I mean, you're
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: still in the game. Why not let her go out
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: there and find out there's nothing better than you? What's
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: the harm in that unless she finds something better than you.
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: But if that was the case, she was going to
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: find something better than you any ways, right already four two, five,
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven when it comes to dating.
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: Right, So, I was looking.
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: Back in the day when you would date somebody, if
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: you would date multiple people, you wouldn't tell them you
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: were out dating multiple people.
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: Well, a friend of mine and his kid just got
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: out of college and he's been dating this girl pretty
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: exclusively for the last year or so. Well, she lives
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: still lives in Fresne. He went to Fresnoe State, so
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: she still lives in Fresne. He'd moved back to Bakersfield.
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: They're still seeing each other. Well, she came out and
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: told them that, hey, I want to see other people.
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: I don't want to stop dating you, but I want to,
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: you know, go out in the dating scene and see
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: what's out there. And I don't know if she said
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: it like that, but that's the way I read it.
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: She wants to see what else is out there.
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: Good morning, what's.
• 34:42
  Speaker 6: Going on, Romie, I think you should still hit it.
• 34:45
  Speaker 8: I don't think you should get too attached, don't get
• 34:47
  Speaker 8: in this villings.
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: But it's obvious the kid liked her and she's not
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: totally committed to settling down with one person, which is
• 34:55
  Speaker 3: understandable she's young.
• 34:57
  Speaker 8: But if you know my.
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: Question, it is you say she's not totally committing to
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: settling down. Maybe she is committed to settling down and
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: she wants to make sure he's the one.
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: Maybe she wants to go out and date a couple
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: other guys and see what else.
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: Is out there to make her realize he's the one
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: she wants to really settle down with.
• 35:17
  Speaker 8: Yes, and Roman, we've had this conversation before, but you know,
• 35:20
  Speaker 8: when it's.
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: You, Reilly, you're an idiot.
• 35:23
  Speaker 6: You really and she don't really, So otherwise she wouldn't
• 35:25
  Speaker 6: have to look around and nothing.
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: You know, I completely disagree with you. Rather to day
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: we have.
• 35:30
  Speaker 8: All should he should take advantage of it. There's no
• 35:33
  Speaker 8: attached going with it.
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: Wouldn't you rather and just look at it like this?
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: Wouldn't you rather be the guy that one instead of
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: the guy that was settled for?
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: If she's outdating other men.
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: Now that she's seen what's out there and she realizes
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: she wants you, wouldn't you feel better about the fact
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: that you won, as opposed to her just saying well,
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: let me just settle with him because we met college
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: and this is what's supposed to be.
• 36:02
  Speaker 8: No, I would tell there's too late.
• 36:04
  Speaker 6: There, there's a good thing moved on. I would right
• 36:06
  Speaker 6: now if I with him might be cooking up with everybody.
• 36:09
  Speaker 8: And then now her feeling hurt as.
• 36:13
  Speaker 6: Much as his dude, because I still for that little man.
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: Oh, get out of here.
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: It's not always a negative thing, you know. Let her
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: go out and see what's out there. When she comes
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: back to you, that means you won.
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: Right If she.
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: Doesn't, then was it really gonna work out anyways? That's
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: such how you got to look at it already? Four two, five,
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven? Have you ever dated more
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: than one person at the time and they knew about it?
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: Hey, Edward, man, he.
• 36:41
  Speaker 3: Needs to just go and have some fun too. If
• 36:42
  Speaker 3: she wants to go out a little fun, go out
• 36:44
  Speaker 3: some fun too, because now you never know, he might
• 36:46
  Speaker 3: find something that he like even better. Yeah, look, can
• 36:49
  Speaker 3: go both ways, you know, what I mean, and then
• 36:51
  Speaker 3: when she come back, you're gonna have a new one.
• 36:53
  Speaker 3: And then she'd be like, man, I really messed up.
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: So I mean, I mean, you never know, you never
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: know what's gonna happen.
• 36:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you if you already put that out there, usually
• 37:02
  Speaker 3: gotta go with it and go enjoy it too. And
• 37:04
  Speaker 3: if it's meant to be, it's meant to be, it
• 37:06
  Speaker 3: not oh wow, you know what I mean. Life moves on.
• 37:09
  Speaker 3: You ain't gonna die. I don't know, There'll be a
• 37:12
  Speaker 3: whole nother love in there.
• 37:13
  Speaker 5: I mean, just you know what I mean, once they
• 37:15
  Speaker 5: put anybody puts that out there, and.
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: You you just gotta go with it because you always
• 37:19
  Speaker 3: gonna have that in your mind that she is she
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: messing around now because I didn't give her that opportunity. Yeah,
• 37:23
  Speaker 3: you know, I mean, just do the damn thing, you
• 37:25
  Speaker 3: know what I mean, you'd be.
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: Good, all right, all right.
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: All right, already for the seven That whole meant to
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: be thing is something to me.
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: I don't I question that whole if it's meant to
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: be right, if it's meant to be, don't you have
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: to you think there's.
• 37:41
  Speaker 3: Some sort of.
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: Cosmic cupid that puts you together because it was meant
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: to be, or do you really have to work it
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: getting what you want?
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: I don't know anyway, Would you send me here? All right?
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: Ay? Forteven to seven yr rom anonymou please?
• 38:02
  Speaker 5: Well?
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: I don't know, okay anonymous.
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: With you As a mother of a daughter in the
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: same situation, I advise her that it's a risk that
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: she needs to take so she won't wonder about what
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: she might have missed out on. It can solidify and
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: make her happier and more peaceful. She wonders if her
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: long term boyfriend will be able to handle it, and
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: I just I just say to her that she can't
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: control that and has to do what is right for herself.
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: So she won't have a resentment or regret later.
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good point. I think you're right. I
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: think you're right already. Four two pac four seven and seven.
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: So a friend of mine, his kid has been dating
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: this woman exclusively. They're both in college. Actually they just
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: graduated from Presno State. He came back to Bakersville. She
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: still lives in Fresno, but they've been doing and exclusively.
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: She came and told him that she doesn't want to
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: be exclusive anymore. She doesn't not want to date him,
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: but she wants to Obviously, it sounds to me like
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: she wants to go out and see what else is
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: out there, right because now she's in the world, real world,
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: probably gonna make a little money, be a little bit
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: more independent than she was, even though college is pretty independent.
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: But wanting to see what's out there. These are little
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: indus feelings about it. Doesn't know how to take it right, but.
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: There's no reason to be wouldn't don't you want?
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: This is the problem with a lot of you men
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: out there, because you're so insecure with yourselves, you don't
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: want you. You don't see the fact that you want
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: the woman who's done everything or enough to satisfy whatever
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: curiosity she has, so that when she chooses you, she
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: chooses you because she wants you, not for any other reason.
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: That relationship is going to be solid, okay, and you're
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: gonna be treated better in the relationship because she chose
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: you because she wanted you, not for any other you know, curiosity,
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: or she's not gonna have any doubts about what her
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: decision was. And that's what you really want already four two,
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: four or seven and seven, and this kid has the
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: opportunity for that. Right now, let her go out and
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: take her shot and see what happens. How what's going on?
• 40:14
  Speaker 5: Yeah, hearing is about you said, it's fine it by
• 40:18
  Speaker 5: if he lets it, you.
• 40:19
  Speaker 4: Know, move on, the thing's gonna happen. It's just always
• 40:22
  Speaker 4: gonna be telling better.
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: But here's my point about this.
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: Okay, And you may be right, there may be somebody better,
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: but how much better is a degree?
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: My only point is what if there's not? What if
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: what if she goes out.
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: There and she dates a couple of times or dates
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: and finds out six months later that this is the
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: best guy that she can get or that she wants. Okay,
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: let's just say then it's a better relationship long term.
• 40:50
  Speaker 9: Then if she quote unquote settles without knowing what else
• 40:54
  Speaker 9: was out there, And on the flip side of that,
• 40:56
  Speaker 9: if she finds somebody better, then isn't that better to know?
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: Also, it's a win win for him for him, it's
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: just a win win.
• 41:06
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I get what you're saying. But at the end
• 41:08
  Speaker 5: of the day, you know women and they always find
• 41:10
  Speaker 5: somebody better. There's always going to be that better persona guy,
• 41:13
  Speaker 5: right and yeah, and I feel like in today's society, right,
• 41:17
  Speaker 5: it's kind of like, you know, it's kind of let
• 41:21
  Speaker 5: me ask.
• 41:21
  Speaker 2: You this question. Do you think there's somebody better than
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: you out there? For what reason? Give me one reason
• 41:27
  Speaker 2: why there's somebody better.
• 41:28
  Speaker 4: Than you out there, because there's always somebody better than anything.
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: No, Well, it depends on the woman that you're dealing with.
• 41:36
  Speaker 2: That's my point.
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: If there's a woman out there that says, you know what,
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: this guy, I like this guy, and is he the
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: best I can get?
• 41:45
  Speaker 2: No, but he's the one I want.
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: So those when you look at those things, wouldn't you
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: rather know that than be with some woman who goes,
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: you know what, we met in college, we met in
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: high school, gosh, what did I miss out on?
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: Oh I saw this thing on TV? Or this guy
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: was over here doing that now and my friends are
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: doing this, and then then they start to question, you
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: know what they're missing out on? Now, whether that.
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: Changes your relationship or not, But still, wouldn't you rather
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: have the person by your side that's like, no, this
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: is the one I want, This is the this is
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: the person I want. Right, and you you've made all
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: your decisions and you've experienced your experiences.
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: And life is great now because you're with the one
• 42:27
  Speaker 2: that you want.
• 42:29
  Speaker 5: Yeah. I definitely think she's approaching the right way.
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: You know, for now, you know, and go ahead, go ahead?
• 42:34
  Speaker 6: Sorry, Yeah, you should approach it because she's doing it.
• 42:38
  Speaker 5: You know, you're doing it being on it. Yeah, Hey, look,
• 42:41
  Speaker 5: instead just keep going and cheating on him in the future.
• 42:43
  Speaker 5: I get what you're saying.
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's just being honest about it. She didn't say
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: he couldn't date anymore. She's just being on now. Whatever
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: he does is whatever he does. Maybe he goes some
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: woman snatches him up. You know, you don't know, but
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: she's willing to take that risk. You should be willing
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: to take that risk. Insecure people are the ones that
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: are calling, like Greater Dave, calling because he's an insecure
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: little girl. He's crying, he's over he's over here saying, oh,
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: you can't do this, you can't know. A secure person
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: will go, Okay, take your shot.
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: I know what kind of man I am. I know
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: what kind of woman I am. Take your shot later minute.
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying. If you're not confident in yourself,
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: how can you be confident in a relationship. Take your shot,
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: see what happens. You know, That's all I'm saying. But
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: I know you guys are young, You're dumb, you're insecure,
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: you're emotional. I get it.
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: Let's see here, Hey, Rome, it's a double edged sword.
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: Who's to say he gonna take her back? Or if
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: he develops some sex habits. Sounds like she wants to
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: have her fun and keep him on deck. I would say,
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: keep keep hitting that, but have your fun fisting around
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: as long as they both come about having sex with
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: other people.
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: If they end up together, well I.
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: Mean yeah, yeah, sure, all right, Rome, it might bite
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: her in the butt. He might find a woman better
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: than her. He might not want to be with.
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: Her at the end. Well, I mean sure, I mean
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: it's all possible.
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: Right, But if you're if you're young, and you just
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: you just got out of school, and you know you,
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: what are you gonna do?
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: You want to see what's out there, don't you? I mean, if,
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: as Rubin said, if it's meant to be, they'll end
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: up together. If not, you know, okay is what it is? Right, Hey, Roam.
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: If she comes back, you don't think that's settling because
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: there's something in her that wants more or should or
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: should would stay or she would stay. So she goes
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: out finds out if there's nothing better, to let him go?
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: Nothing better, so let me go back and settle. Is
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: it settling? I don't know if it's settling or not.
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: It's not like, uh, it's yeah, it's not settling. If
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: she they've been dating for a while. He's a good guy,
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: he's college graduate. I mean, he's gonna you know, he's
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: not some loser. So I think I think settling is
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: settling for some loser seeing what else is out there
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: when you're starting a new phase of your life, especially
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: you know, when you graduate from college and you're starting
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: a new phase of your life. Then is it settling
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: or is just seeing what your options are?
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: I don't know. And and he needs to go see
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: what his options are as well, So I just don't. Uh,
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: I don't think it's settling. You know what, what Isn't
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: that what dating is to find out? I think you
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: guys have a misconception of what dating is. You're dating
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: to find for the most part, Aren't you dating to
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: find somebody that you want to settle down with? Someone
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: that you can fall in love with someone that can
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: take care of you in the ways that you want
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: to be taken care of somebody that you know. So
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: you can't do that if you're only dating one person.
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: I don't think there's not anything wrong with going out
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: and seeing what's happened. You know, if they've been in
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: a long term relationship through college, now this is a
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: new chapter. Who knows what's going to happen. You know,
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: he may not even she may not want to leave Fresno.
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: He may not want to leave Bakersfield.
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: Then what do you do?
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: You know, then they're not they're not a good fit
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: because they don't want to live in the They both
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: want to live in a different town.
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: I think, Yeah, I don't know.
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: Good question though. Hey, Rome, it's called a whole phase.
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: Guys and girls both want that phase. But everyone remembers
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: what you do, Okay, Rome. They got to go through
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: the whole phase, man, Dude, men do too, otherwise you're
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: gonna be seeing your single friends being hoes and wanting
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: to take part. Got to kill the curiosity before settling down.
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: I mean there's some validity to that. I mean, look
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: at all of these uh, look at all of these women,
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: older women now who are running around Bakersfield in that
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: hoe phase after their marriages didn't work out or after
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: their relationships you know, well, their marriages didn't work out
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: and they got married too soon, and now.
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: They're out, you know. No, I don't know. I don't
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: know if that's what it is.
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: I mean, if you went through a whole phase in
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: your twenties, got married in your thirties, divorced, you know,
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: divorced in your forties, and now you're back in the
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: hole phase you started all over again.
• 47:43
  Speaker 2: Is that how that works?
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: A friend of mine, his kid, has been dating this
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: woman exclusively. They were both in college. Actually they just
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: graduated from Presno State. He came back to Bakersfield. She
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: still lives in Fresno, but they've been dating exclusively. She
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: came and told them that she doesn't want to be
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: exclusive anymore. She doesn't not want to date him, but
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: she wants to Obviously, it sounds to me like she
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: wants to go out and see what else is out there,
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: right because now she's in the world, real world, probably
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: gonna make a little money, be a little bit more
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: independent than she was, even though college is pretty independent.
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: But wanting to see what's out there. There's a little
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: indus feelings about it. Doesn't know how to take it right, But.
• 48:20
  Speaker 2: There's no reason to be wouldn't don't you want?
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: This is the problem with a lot of you men
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: out there, because you're so insecure with yourselves, you don't
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: want you. You don't see the fact that you want
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: the woman who's done everything or enough to satisfy whatever
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: curiosity she has, so that when she chooses you, she
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: chooses you because she wants you, not for any other reason.
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: That relationship is going to be solid, okay, and you're.
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: Gonna be treated better in the relationship because she chose
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: you because she wanted you, not for any other you know, curiosity,
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: or she's not gonna have any doubts about what her
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: decision was. And that's what you really want. Two five,
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: four or seven and seven. And this kid has the
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: opportunity for that right now. Let her go out and
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: take her shot and see what happens.
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: It's going on, you know what what I meant?
• 49:11
  Speaker 3: So the girl wants to date him and other people, right,
• 49:16
  Speaker 3: other guys right.
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: Well, the way I understand it is they've been dating
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: exclusively for a year they both graduated college, and now
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: she wants to date.
• 49:24
  Speaker 2: She doesn't want to date exclusively. She doesn't know, she
• 49:26
  Speaker 2: doesn't want to stop dating him. She just doesn't want
• 49:29
  Speaker 2: to date exclusively right now.
• 49:33
  Speaker 8: So she wants her changes.
• 49:34
  Speaker 3: She will feed it too.
• 49:36
  Speaker 8: I mean, let's hurt's let's Richard John wrong. You're pretty smart, right,
• 49:40
  Speaker 8: you know, so let's make the down now. Okay, So
• 49:44
  Speaker 8: she lives, she lives her friends though. Yeah, he lives
• 49:47
  Speaker 8: in Maker though. Okay, so that doesn't you know, that
• 49:51
  Speaker 8: doesn't scream, Hey I found somebody else.
• 49:54
  Speaker 3: But I'm not one hundred.
• 49:55
  Speaker 8: Percent sure, So let me keep you on the back,
• 49:57
  Speaker 8: crinner just the case. Come on, come on, you're smart,
• 50:03
  Speaker 8: you're smart, come on.
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: I'm just I'm just looking at it differently, differently than
• 50:07
  Speaker 2: you are. I'm looking at it as I would rather have.
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: I would rather have a woman know that she wants me,
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: versus not seeing what else is out there and kind
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: of settling with me.
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: That's that's the perspective that I look at us. Okay,
• 50:26
  Speaker 2: she you could say she wants her cake and eat
• 50:28
  Speaker 2: it too.
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: I would look at it. Go take your shot, see
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: what else is out there? Okay, go ahead, I'm so
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: confident in me that if you if you won't come back.
• 50:37
  Speaker 2: I'm not worried about me.
• 50:39
  Speaker 3: I'll be thought.
• 50:40
  Speaker 2: That's the way I'm looking at it.
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: So in that same turn, though, what you guys are
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: looking at is what if somebody What if somebody comes
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: along while she's out trying to figure it.
• 50:49
  Speaker 2: Out and then she tries to come back and I'm
• 50:51
  Speaker 2: not available? That's what you guys.
• 50:55
  Speaker 3: I hope he's not waiting and does she not know what? Baker? Maybe,
• 51:01
  Speaker 3: especially for a single man, but.
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: You, but wouldn't you rather My only point is this, though,
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: wouldn't you rather have everything out of your system and
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: then go, you know what?
• 51:13
  Speaker 2: Gosh, this is the person for me. I've done this,
• 51:16
  Speaker 2: I've done that. I've been here, I've been there. This
• 51:19
  Speaker 2: is where I want to be. That is gonna You're
• 51:21
  Speaker 2: gonna have a.
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: Much better relationship with a person that feels like that
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: than if they have questions or doubts in their mind,
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: like they miss something.
• 51:29
  Speaker 3: Dude, I totally agree.
• 51:30
  Speaker 8: I told myself in my twenties I was wild and
• 51:32
  Speaker 8: I'm traveling.
• 51:33
  Speaker 3: I'm being a whore. I'm doing everything you know I
• 51:36
  Speaker 3: said in my thirties. This is when I want to,
• 51:38
  Speaker 3: you know, get settled. I'll get married.
• 51:40
  Speaker 8: I had a kid, sure, got married at thirty one
• 51:42
  Speaker 8: and had a baby at thirty three.
• 51:44
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean?
• 51:45
  Speaker 8: So, yeah, that does make But I mean, come on,
• 51:48
  Speaker 8: date other people.
• 51:51
  Speaker 2: You're because you guys are all insecure and you're equating
• 51:53
  Speaker 2: dating other people having sex people people.
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: But you guys are equating dating other people having sex
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: with other people, and that is not necessarily.
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: They can be different. They don't have to be mutually exclusive.
• 52:06
  Speaker 8: It comes with it, though none.
• 52:09
  Speaker 2: Alright, a man, Yeah, I get out, I gotta go,
• 52:12
  Speaker 2: get out here. It's out at the four point one.
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: That's Romeo, And yeah, I just uh, hey, rome what
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: would happen if I tell my wife wife that you've
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: already you've chosen your person, settle down anyway already fourteen five,
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: four or seven?
• 52:25
  Speaker 3: Hey, what's up?
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: Roo?
• 52:27
  Speaker 3: Rome on my guy to say he was the girl
• 52:29
  Speaker 3: wants to take and eat it too and all that,
• 52:32
  Speaker 3: But the thing is here to be the dumbest and
• 52:33
  Speaker 3: not to enjoy his take on the side and need
• 52:35
  Speaker 3: it too when he goes up to Fresnom visitors. Okay,
• 52:39
  Speaker 3: you know what I mean, like, if she's ready putting
• 52:40
  Speaker 3: it out there, he said, oh, well, there might be
• 52:42
  Speaker 3: somebody else. Well, well there ain't nobody else. If there
• 52:45
  Speaker 3: isn't and she's trying to find somebody, then let her
• 52:47
  Speaker 3: go do it, because it's not she's gonna cheat on
• 52:49
  Speaker 3: you and find somebody else. So why is everybody so
• 52:53
  Speaker 3: caught up at their feelings and everything's scared that Oh
• 52:55
  Speaker 3: my god, it's like the only girl in the world.
• 52:57
  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, she might not ever come back, and
• 52:59
  Speaker 3: I'll never see one in my life again, you know
• 53:02
  Speaker 3: what I mean. Like, dude, get over yourselves already. There's
• 53:04
  Speaker 3: women out there too. I guarantee you as soon as
• 53:07
  Speaker 3: you start talking to another girl or guy, you'll forget
• 53:10
  Speaker 3: about that one too. All right, man, enjoy it like
• 53:13
  Speaker 3: you know, I mean, both of you guys. Enjoy it.
• 53:15
  Speaker 3: You guys go out of town. You got a little
• 53:17
  Speaker 3: you know what I mean, one night or two night
• 53:18
  Speaker 3: or whatever you want to call it, and at least
• 53:20
  Speaker 3: she'd be straight up with him.
• 53:21
  Speaker 8: Bro.
• 53:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah, at the end of the day, at least she's
• 53:24
  Speaker 3: being straight up. She's telling me, yeah, this is what
• 53:26
  Speaker 3: I want. I'll have to hook up with you. But
• 53:29
  Speaker 3: I want to be able to go out and meet
• 53:30
  Speaker 3: other people, you know what I mean, Like.
• 53:31
  Speaker 8: Sure, it's an open game for both of them.
• 53:34
  Speaker 3: Though, I mean, these foods are crying and calling and
• 53:36
  Speaker 3: crying and all that. Get over yourself, sucker, all right.
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: I do want to say this, though, I don't know
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: where I was over the weekend. I was having a
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: conversation with somebody, maybe it was yesterday, with some friends
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: of mine, about and they made that comment have your cake.
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: You can't have your cake and eat it too. That
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: is the stupidest thing I've ever heard, not from her,
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: just in general. Because what was the conversation about. I'm
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: trying to remember. Oh, it was about that ozembic the
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: I guess there's there was an article I read about.
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: I guess these shots, these weight loss shots, are leading
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: people to be less, you know, obviously less food, less alcohol,
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: and they're losing their sex drive.
• 54:27
  Speaker 2: So it was and I think a guy called it.
• 54:29
  Speaker 2: He said that his wife was on it and she's
• 54:32
  Speaker 2: hotter now.
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: She's gotten thinner again and hotter again, but she doesn't
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: want to have sex with him. I think that happened
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: a couple of weeks ago.
• 54:38
  Speaker 2: And my friend goes well, you can't have your cake
• 54:40
  Speaker 2: and eat it too? And I thought, why not?
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: Who came up with that statement? And I was and
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: Reuben just said it right now? Or whoever just said it?
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: You know, why can't you have your cake and eat
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: it too?
• 54:52
  Speaker 5: What?
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: What is the I don't understand the logic behind that?
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: To me, that's a ridiculous to me, you know if yeah,
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: I don't understand that one. That one I can't figure out. Wow,
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: who came up with that? Some negative nelly who you know,
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: I can't ever get what he wants? And so had
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: to make that to make himself feel better. He had
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: to come up with a statement, you can't have your
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: cake you eat it too? Why not just because you
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: don't ever get what There's a lot of people out
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: there that have their cake and they eat it.
• 55:23
  Speaker 2: Happens all the time.
• 55:26
  Speaker 3: What rub what's up?
• 55:28
  Speaker 4: Brother?
• 55:29
  Speaker 5: Hey?
• 55:29
  Speaker 3: Just your homeboy. Let him know. I'm going to preside
• 55:32
  Speaker 3: right down.
• 55:32
  Speaker 5: Give me a had just said, I'll look you make
• 55:34
  Speaker 5: sure she's not cheating.
• 55:40
  Speaker 2: She's how is it cheating? When she said I want
• 55:43
  Speaker 2: to see other people? How is that cheating?
• 55:49
  Speaker 3: Well? To him? To him, he's all in love. So yeah,
• 55:53
  Speaker 3: of course, it's gonna be cheating because he still loves
• 55:55
  Speaker 3: her and she doesn't lift it for someone else.
• 55:57
  Speaker 2: She already done, already left him. Man, one more, one more,
• 56:03
  Speaker 2: thank you.
• 56:04
  Speaker 7: There ain't nothing wrong with having your cake with your
• 56:06
  Speaker 7: eyes creamed.
• 56:07
  Speaker 3: With the pop and some of that.
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying to me when people say that,
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: it just sounds so ridiculous to say, well you can't.
• 56:16
  Speaker 2: That's just the justification because you you're not good enough
• 56:20
  Speaker 2: to have it all. That's that's on you, not on
• 56:23
  Speaker 2: That's just a ridiculous statement. I've always thought that was
• 56:25
  Speaker 2: a ridiculous statement.
• 56:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it is, bro the wonder saying it. Man, good
• 56:30
  Speaker 3: luck a little bit more, get.
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: Hey, good morning Rome, uh marine lair lou people layer,
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: what checking in.
• 56:46
  Speaker 2: It's about having fun.
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: If she wants to go out and sleep with other
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: people and he's sleeping other females, nothing wrong with that
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: as long as they let each other know. The last
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: thing you want is problems over a female line about
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: her relationship status. Yeah, I mean that's I don't I
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: think you might be right about that. You might be
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: right about that, all right.
• 57:10
  Speaker 2: You know, we were just talking about mega nutrition and
• 57:12
  Speaker 2: what they're doing on a Saturday. The deadlift? What is
• 57:15
  Speaker 2: a deadlift?
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: What did I?
• 57:16
  Speaker 5: Uh?
• 57:18
  Speaker 2: I just put it away? The deadlift?
• 57:23
  Speaker 3: Is it?
• 57:23
  Speaker 6: Was?
• 57:24
  Speaker 2: It dead It was deadlift? Right? Hold on, hold on,
• 57:27
  Speaker 2: let me see so I can. I know I just
• 57:29
  Speaker 2: told you about it, but now I gotta find it again.
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: Oh, the deadlift competition, right, and it's going on June
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: sixth over at Heavy Iron Training Facility.
• 57:38
  Speaker 2: That's in Uh. What was the address? I forgot what
• 57:42
  Speaker 2: the address was. Hold on, let me tell you the
• 57:43
  Speaker 2: address again.
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: I closed the information. Oh, four to five East nineteenth Street. Okay,
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: I somebody needs to let me know. Maybe Josh or
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: or whoever Mecca, Josh or Cody over at Mecca could
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: let me know?
• 57:58
  Speaker 2: Text me?
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: And then when did the deadlift become the standard by
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: which we judge meatheads?
• 58:06
  Speaker 2: What happened to how much can you bench press? Or
• 58:10
  Speaker 2: how much can you curl? When?
• 58:12
  Speaker 5: When?
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: When did it go to the deadlift? I don't remember
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: the dead I mean it just dead lifting, don't get
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: me wrong. Is very difficult for some people. And some
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: of these guys and girls deadlift amazing amounts away. But
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: your legs are stronger than your arms or your chest.
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: Right is that not true. It seems like of all three,
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: if we're gonna if we're gonna judge meatheads by either curls,
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: chest press or deadlift, deadlift seems like the easier of
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: all of them. And I may be wrong about that,
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: But when did Uh? Yeah, I remember when it was
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: how much can you bench? How much can you curl?
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: How many pull ups can you do? That was how
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: we judge meatheads. Now it seems like these millennials have
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: gotten so soft.
• 59:03
  Speaker 2: Now we judge them by deadlift? All right?
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: Eight fourteen five four seven to seven a real rome.
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: I used to judge meatheads by. When I used to
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: run into them at the gas station, they'd be getting
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: out of a little car that belonged to their girlfriend
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: h or mom o.
• 59:21
  Speaker 2: I not at all. What I'm talking about.
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: Did When did that become the standard? Is what I'm
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: trying to figure out. When did the standard become deadlifting?
• 59:30
  Speaker 2: Remember the back of the day, when you were you know,
• 59:33
  Speaker 2: how much you bench? That was always the how much
• 59:35
  Speaker 2: you bench?
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: How much?
• 59:37
  Speaker 2: How many pull ups can you do?
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: That was the legitimate standard at which we judged. You know,
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: meatheads or guys that work out are just men in general.
• 59:48
  Speaker 2: What do you bench? And now it's what do you deadlift?
• 59:52
  Speaker 2: Who changed that? Cause?
• 59:54
  Speaker 8: To me?
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: And you can tell me if I'm wrong. To me,
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: deadlifting is and to me, deadlifting is easier than bench pressing.
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 2: Right. So you talk about all these men.
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: Getting softer, you know, these millennials, these gen zs, they're
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: all a bunch of you know, with their skinny jeans
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: and they're so they've changed the standard. So but have
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: the meat the meat ads haven't gotten softer. I mean,
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: they still work out right. And so I'm trying to
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: figure out when the when deadlifting became the standard? You
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, because it used to be how
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: much you bench? Or before that it was how many
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: pull ups can you do?
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 2: Already new four seven to seven?
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: I just I found that interesting when I saw that.
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: And I've known before I even saw what Mecca's doing
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: on Saturday with the with the sponsoring the deadlift competition.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: I was wondering that a few years ago, about when
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: deadlifting became the standard.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 2: Make a sponsor and a hold on, let me.
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: Pull it up the flyer. Let me pull up the
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: flyer real quick. So I can tell you what it is,
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: and we love Mecha Nutrition. Josh and the guys over
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: there do a great job at getting you taken care of.
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: But whatever you're trying to do, gain weight, lose weight,
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: lean out, whatever the case may be. Right. So this Saturday,
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: June six, from eleven a three pm you can go
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: out to Heavy Iron Training Facility. They're doing a community
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: deadlift competition, which I was just curious And it's four
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: twenty five East nineteenth Street.
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 2: When the deadlift? When did that become the standard?
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 5: You know?
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: That was to me the standard or.
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: The competition was always the chest. How much do you bench?
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: How many pull ups can you do? How many push
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: ups can you do? Now it seems to be the
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: deadlift is the standard. Right when did that happen already?
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: Four two, seven to seven?
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 2: Hey, roam nah man?
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: When you would when you would run into a to
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: someone in the streets and he's like, you bench, bro,
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: how much can you bench press? But if I had
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: to do it over, but you had to do it
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: over seven reps, if not go down ten pounds?
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 2: So is that still the standard? What's this?
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: I always thought that Now in today it's the deadlift
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: is the standard by which we judge your manhood when
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: it comes to meat heads?
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 6: Right?
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 3: Is that not true?
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 2: Am I wrong about that? I?
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 3: What's the wrong seahawk? Glue?
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 4: Man?
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 2: You have no business being involved in this conversation right now.
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 6: But what do you I got about three and hundred
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 6: thirty or three hundred fifty pounds of deadlift on me?
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 2: Man, three thirty to three point fifty? You can deadlift?
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 7: Yeah?
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 2: What do you bench?
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 6: But double plate the forty five?
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 2: So you bench prince bench press one hundred and eighty pounds?
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 5: No?
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 6: Are so to.
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  Speaker 2: Twenty five?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah? I haven't done it in about a year, but
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 6: I know I got it in a couple of rents.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Well you should go down You should go down
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  Speaker 2: to Iront Works on Saturday.
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  Speaker 6: I'm thinking about it, honestly, man, because I could start
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 6: warming up as of today and by Saturday I'll be golden. Man.
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: It's called heavy iron, my bad heavy iron, not our
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: heavy iron.
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, over a training facility. Yeah, you should go down there.
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  Speaker 2: Eleven o'clock, go get you if you could do three.
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know what a good deadlift is, to
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: be honest with you, I don't even know what the
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: standard is, the minimum.
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  Speaker 2: For people to say, hey, I'm a good deadlift. I
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 2: have no idea.
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  Speaker 6: Hey, but that sounds like a lot, and it sounds
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  Speaker 6: like a lot.
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  Speaker 3: It's a lot, man, And we.
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  Speaker 6: We be judged on our manhood by the bench press.
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 2: I think, no, it's the deadlift. Now, it's not the
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 2: bench press.
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  Speaker 6: No, I'm still really good at that. You know, I
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 6: got these glimsy arms. But man, they could push.
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 2: All right, I think you could do it. I think,
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 2: what'd you say? Three thirty three fifty.
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 6: Three thirty three fifty I could do that. I don't
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 6: no problem, all right, loop, all right?
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  Speaker 2: Five month? Oh no, yeah, I don't know.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: I always was under the impression that the way everybody
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: judged their manhood in the gym was with a with
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: bench press, either bench press, maybe pull ups or maybe
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: push ups. It never occurred to me that well, it
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: occurs to me now that deadlift is the standard. Right.
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 7: Throw me the morning, every morning.
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 5: Morning,