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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha. I'm welcome to Stephan
- 0:07Speaker 1: never told your protection of I Heart Radio. Okay, before
- 0:19Speaker 1: you start, can I just go ahead and interject here,
- 0:21Speaker 1: because if you are listening on this day of it
- 0:24Speaker 1: being published is August twenty four. I want to say
- 0:28Speaker 1: the year because it doesn't matter. Which is Annie's birthday,
- 0:31Speaker 1: Happy birthday, and so it is my birthday, which means
- 0:38Speaker 1: I am going to do a very self indulgent rant
- 0:40Speaker 1: on the feminism of Star Wars, mostly original trilogy stuff,
- 0:44Speaker 1: because that's my favorite and it's my birthday. We've already
- 0:46Speaker 1: done episodes on Leah, two parts on My pretty much
- 0:51Speaker 1: all the movies, a bunch of the characters, so go
- 0:53Speaker 1: to those of you want more facts and less feelings
- 0:56Speaker 1: and fond ranting, which is what this is going to
- 0:59Speaker 1: be and all. So, I'm like surprisingly nervous about this
- 1:01Speaker 1: one because it's like, really, it's so near and dear
- 1:04Speaker 1: to me. I know it's a matter of interpretation a
- 1:07Speaker 1: lot of what I'm going to talk about, but it
- 1:09Speaker 1: is how I interpret these movies, especially as I've grown
- 1:13Speaker 1: older and become more aware of feminism. So I've been
- 1:18Speaker 1: kind of putting it off and then we have like
- 1:19Speaker 1: major technical difficulties. So if this episode sounds kind of strange, apologies,
- 1:25Speaker 1: that's just what birthday is as an adult. During Bantomic podcast,
- 1:34Speaker 1: I did want to start with a quick note about
- 1:38Speaker 1: our recent Mary Sue episode. So as I often say,
- 1:43Speaker 1: like when people call Ray and Mary Sue, which was
- 1:46Speaker 1: a big thing, um, like why don't we ask whether
- 1:49Speaker 1: or not Kyle and Maren is just bad? Because it
- 1:51Speaker 1: seems like he's just bad. But I don't wanted to
- 1:54Speaker 1: tract from how good Ray is either when I say that,
- 1:57Speaker 1: I think both are true at once, because she was
- 2:00Speaker 1: thinking about it. This is what I lie awake and
- 2:01Speaker 1: think about at night. Uh. She is a scavenger. She
- 2:06Speaker 1: grew up in harsh conditions, tough conditions. She knows how
- 2:11Speaker 1: to use her staff really well, um, which is kind
- 2:15Speaker 1: of similar to a lightsaber. She's got the fours, She's
- 2:18Speaker 1: got all these things. So I just don't want to
- 2:19Speaker 1: make it sound like I don't think she's she's really good.
- 2:24Speaker 1: I also think Kyler Wine is bad, but that's just me.
- 2:27Speaker 1: And so yeah, because it is my birthday, I have
- 2:29Speaker 1: been watching a lot of Star Wars stuff, and right
- 2:33Speaker 1: before this Samantha knows. I had to. I had to
- 2:36Speaker 1: put it off before because I was watching two Star
- 2:40Speaker 1: Wars documentaries at once. I was watching the one on
- 2:43Speaker 1: Disney plus Light and Magic, which is about how industrial
- 2:47Speaker 1: light and Magic got created, and it's not specifically Star Wars,
- 2:52Speaker 1: but like the first four episodes are mostly Star Wars
- 2:56Speaker 1: based because they sort of had to make this. The
- 2:58Speaker 1: special effects and exist, so they sorted had to make it.
- 3:01Speaker 1: And then I was also watching Empire Dreams, which is
- 3:04Speaker 1: like two hours and thirty minutes. So I feel like
- 3:08Speaker 1: my brain, I feel like I've been plugged into something
- 3:10Speaker 1: and I've just absorbed a lot of information before this.
- 3:14Speaker 1: But it was interesting because the contexts they gave around
- 3:19Speaker 1: when these movies were coming out, just like n seven
- 3:23Speaker 1: and you know, we had the Vietnam War, we had Nixon.
- 3:25Speaker 1: People really disillusioned with what was going on. Um. This
- 3:31Speaker 1: is when second wave feminism was happening, and there was
- 3:35Speaker 1: a lot of hope for change. There was a lot
- 3:37Speaker 1: of turmoil around around change, UM, and so a lot
- 3:42Speaker 1: of movies at the time, especially science fiction movies, were
- 3:45Speaker 1: kind of downers, and so Star Wars in a lot
- 3:50Speaker 1: of ways, when a new Hope came out in ninety seven.
- 3:53Speaker 1: It broke a lot of conventions at the time of
- 3:56Speaker 1: movie making. It had it was hopeful, it was kind
- 4:01Speaker 1: of lighter um it had a big symphony soundtrack, which
- 4:06Speaker 1: I guess was not hip at the time. It's it
- 4:11Speaker 1: cast a bunch of unknown actors. It was basically asking
- 4:16Speaker 1: to create things that didn't exist, Like people had no
- 4:18Speaker 1: idea how to shoot it. And so when I was
- 4:21Speaker 1: watching and I was like, how did this get made?
- 4:24Speaker 1: So many things had to go right for this to
- 4:25Speaker 1: get made, and I didn't know this, but George Lucas
- 4:30Speaker 1: and his team kind of had a hand in creating Pixar.
- 4:34Speaker 1: They sold it to Steve Jobs and Apple, but I
- 4:37Speaker 1: had no idea. And they did create a special effects
- 4:41Speaker 1: field that didn't exist before. They created sound that didn't
- 4:45Speaker 1: exist before. And then this was also when it's kind
- 4:49Speaker 1: of ironic now. But George Lucas really didn't want to
- 4:53Speaker 1: be beholden to studios. He didn't want them to be
- 4:56Speaker 1: able to come in and say, no, you have to
- 4:58Speaker 1: do this, or you have to teach this, you have
- 4:59Speaker 1: to do this. Um. So so I was kind of
- 5:02Speaker 1: independent films actually, which is yes ironic because Disney ended
- 5:06Speaker 1: up buying the rights to them, but that kind of
- 5:10Speaker 1: felt sort of feminist in nature. I don't know, like
- 5:13Speaker 1: I'm not saying he's but like that idea. And then
- 5:16Speaker 1: there was a funny scene where everything was like, this
- 5:19Speaker 1: is mostly white men working on this. And there was
- 5:22Speaker 1: a funny scene where everything was all schedule, nothing was
- 5:24Speaker 1: getting done, and they brought in a woman's secretary and
- 5:28Speaker 1: she basically like got them to to to shaping up,
- 5:33Speaker 1: to to be on the schedule and to actually get
- 5:36Speaker 1: things done. And then like, I really recommend watching them
- 5:39Speaker 1: because they was like you could see how they did
- 5:42Speaker 1: the special effects, it was so cool. And then you
- 5:44Speaker 1: could see like the Matt paintings they did for the backgrounds,
- 5:48Speaker 1: and they were so cool. It was just neat to
- 5:50Speaker 1: see it happen. Uh. And then I didn't know this either.
- 5:55Speaker 1: I knew Star Wars gets a lot of flak, a
- 5:57Speaker 1: lot for in some people's minds ruining move. It definitely
- 6:01Speaker 1: changed Hollywood and it changed the landscape of entertainment. But
- 6:05Speaker 1: one of the things that people bring up a lot
- 6:07Speaker 1: is merchandizing, and Star Wars and George Lucas were like
- 6:11Speaker 1: the forefront of this of toys movies being made around toys,
- 6:16Speaker 1: which is kind of what happens sometimes now, But back
- 6:19Speaker 1: then it wasn't about that. He just wanted to own
- 6:22Speaker 1: something outside of the studio that he could have and
- 6:25Speaker 1: make money off of, and studios like at the time,
- 6:28Speaker 1: movies didn't make money that way. That wasn't how it
- 6:32Speaker 1: was done. Um, But he had an idea that, Okay,
- 6:37Speaker 1: I think I can at least control this and get
- 6:40Speaker 1: money from this outside of the studios. And boy was
- 6:43Speaker 1: he right, because I recently went home to visit my
- 6:48Speaker 1: mom for my birthday and she had found me all
- 6:52Speaker 1: of these like old toys from a friend of hers grandfather,
- 6:59Speaker 1: like they were thing is him into a new place,
- 7:02Speaker 1: and in his garage he had all these old Star
- 7:04Speaker 1: Wars toys and one of them is from If I
- 7:07Speaker 1: had the box and if it was in better condition,
- 7:09Speaker 1: the Internet tells me he would be worth a four
- 7:12Speaker 1: team thousand. But I am keeping it. I'm keeping it.
- 7:17Speaker 1: It is mine, UM, never gonna sell it. Please don't
- 7:21Speaker 1: come after me for my toys. I'm very very excited
- 7:24Speaker 1: about it. And I also didn't know I learned from
- 7:27Speaker 1: watching this documentary that Kinner, who made the company that
- 7:32Speaker 1: made a lot of the early Star Wars toys. They
- 7:36Speaker 1: they didn't expect the popularity of it. A lot of
- 7:41Speaker 1: companies didn't want to even do it, so they turned
- 7:44Speaker 1: down the contracting down, but Kinner did and then it
- 7:46Speaker 1: was so popular that people kids on Christmas would get
- 7:49Speaker 1: like this voucher for a year from now, you'll be
- 7:53Speaker 1: able to get this toy. We don't have it right now,
- 7:55Speaker 1: but in a year you can get it. So that
- 8:01Speaker 1: is a lot of preamble before I've even gotten into
- 8:05Speaker 1: into the bulk of this, which again is going to
- 8:09Speaker 1: be shorter, very self indulgent, mostly me. So yeah, I
- 8:15Speaker 1: just when I've been watching them. I've been watching them
- 8:17Speaker 1: a lot, as you know, the original trilogy, and I
- 8:21Speaker 1: feel like the Force itself is pretty feminist in nature
- 8:26Speaker 1: because it implies that you're you're in touch with your feelings,
- 8:31Speaker 1: you're being empathetic. A lot of these sort of more
- 8:35Speaker 1: emotional end quotes being in touch with your emotions that
- 8:39Speaker 1: I think has been traditionally put on women, um, kind
- 8:44Speaker 1: of a more associated with women trait. So you've got
- 8:48Speaker 1: that throughout the movies and these messages of you know,
- 8:56Speaker 1: being in touch with your emotions, but also being able
- 8:58Speaker 1: to control and go your emotion and not let them
- 9:01Speaker 1: control you. But if you think about the dark side, Um,
- 9:05Speaker 1: the dark side, I would argue, is kind of toxic masculinity.
- 9:13Speaker 1: A lot of people when they describe the dark side,
- 9:17Speaker 1: it's kind of difficult to describe it, but a lot
- 9:19Speaker 1: of people describe it as a drug. And if we
- 9:22Speaker 1: think about, you know, toxic masculinity being this thing that's
- 9:25Speaker 1: being pumped into our society from the moment we're born,
- 9:30Speaker 1: that we're just kind of immersed with it and not
- 9:33Speaker 1: know it. Are like the patriarchy perhaps, um, then I
- 9:38Speaker 1: can see the dark side being representative of of that.
- 9:44Speaker 1: And it's this promise of power and yeah, a promise
- 9:51Speaker 1: of power and kind of a promise that you won't
- 9:55Speaker 1: It's a very possessive thing. So I know, we talked
- 9:57Speaker 1: about this briefly in one of our past happy hours
- 10:00Speaker 1: about the whole uproar around like attachment and Jedi possessive
- 10:06Speaker 1: love is a key is a testament of the dark side.
- 10:10Speaker 1: It's the love you're so afraid to lose that you
- 10:13Speaker 1: would do anything to keep it, even if it means
- 10:16Speaker 1: killing all of these young things which is what Anakin
- 10:19Speaker 1: did to try to save his family and in doing
- 10:22Speaker 1: so actually ripped his family apart and potentially led to
- 10:26Speaker 1: the death of pat Me, his wife. Like it always
- 10:30Speaker 1: makes me sigh when I have to talk, when I
- 10:33Speaker 1: have to talk, when I talk about I want to
- 10:35Speaker 1: talk about it. But the so the thing with attachment
- 10:39Speaker 1: as it was originally intended, and I think it has
- 10:41Speaker 1: shifted around as other creators have come in and done things,
- 10:45Speaker 1: uh and put their own mark on the story. Originally
- 10:48Speaker 1: it was meant to be attachment. It's not the problem.
- 10:51Speaker 1: It's like possessive attachment. You have to be able to
- 10:54Speaker 1: let go of the attachment, and the dark side is
- 10:57Speaker 1: you can't let go usually because you're too afraid to. So,
- 11:16Speaker 1: you know, I got to talk about Luke because I
- 11:18Speaker 1: love him, um. And again we've already done two episodes
- 11:21Speaker 1: on my so please check those out, and we are
- 11:23Speaker 1: going to mention her because I can't not mention her. Um.
- 11:25Speaker 1: But I do think it's interesting how Luke in particular
- 11:28Speaker 1: interacts with the Force because you've got Obi Wan and
- 11:33Speaker 1: Yoda telling him he has to confront his father, Darth
- 11:36Speaker 1: Vader to become a Jedi, to become this thing that
- 11:39Speaker 1: he wants to be, and I would say mostly wants
- 11:42Speaker 1: to be because of his father, and Luke saying that
- 11:46Speaker 1: he can't do it um because he is so strongly
- 11:49Speaker 1: in the belief that he can feel I feel that
- 11:53Speaker 1: there is still good in Darth Vader, which again I
- 11:56Speaker 1: just think is such a how many times I've women
- 11:59Speaker 1: been this smissed because of feelings or because of emotions,
- 12:04Speaker 1: were being emotional, but this was a really for me.
- 12:08Speaker 1: It was a powerful thing for him to say, like, no,
- 12:10Speaker 1: I can feel this, and I'm not going to to
- 12:14Speaker 1: betray that feeling or like go with that feeling. And
- 12:16Speaker 1: that's you know, when pad May died, that was the
- 12:18Speaker 1: last thing she said, like there's still good in him.
- 12:20Speaker 1: I can feel it. And so after Luke turns himself
- 12:24Speaker 1: over to Vader, who then turns him over to the Emperor,
- 12:27Speaker 1: which is, by the way, one of my favorite lines
- 12:29Speaker 1: is when Luke says, come with me, I love that um. Anyway,
- 12:33Speaker 1: the Emperor is urging Luke to embrace his anger given
- 12:38Speaker 1: to his aggression and kill his father and take his
- 12:43Speaker 1: father's place, and violence and anger are stereotypically masculine traits
- 12:50Speaker 1: are more masculine associated and so when Luke does that,
- 12:54Speaker 1: when he does give into that, he almost loses himself
- 12:58Speaker 1: to the dark side and continues this cycle of violence.
- 13:02Speaker 1: Cuts off his father's hand where his father had cut
- 13:05Speaker 1: off his hand before him, And in my opinion, his
- 13:08Speaker 1: act of heroism is throwing away his weapon, which is
- 13:12Speaker 1: a very phallic weapon, by the way, and refusing to fight,
- 13:16Speaker 1: to let not to let those things control him um
- 13:20Speaker 1: and embracing those more feminine coded traits. And this act
- 13:26Speaker 1: that he does brings out the empathy and love and
- 13:28Speaker 1: Darth Vader and breaks the cycle. Luke also rejects the
- 13:32Speaker 1: old Jedi order as well as the Empire, much like
- 13:36Speaker 1: feminism demands systemic change. And I don't we're not talking
- 13:39Speaker 1: about sequel because it's my birthday. They don't want to.
- 13:41Speaker 1: But in the in the original trilogy, if we kind
- 13:44Speaker 1: of have that ending, and I'd like to believe that
- 13:46Speaker 1: that's when it was. But yeah, just rejecting that offer
- 13:53Speaker 1: of power, of feeling like you can protect, that you
- 13:57Speaker 1: can control things that are ultimately out of your control
- 14:01Speaker 1: because you're so powerful. Throwing away the lightsaber, throwing away
- 14:05Speaker 1: the weapon, UM. I've just always felt was sort of
- 14:10Speaker 1: a tacit rejection of the patriarchy, toxic masculinity. Again, I
- 14:17Speaker 1: could be reading into these where it's not meant to
- 14:18Speaker 1: be written to, but I'm going to do it because
- 14:20Speaker 1: I love it. And then there is the aspect of
- 14:24Speaker 1: forgiveness and family, which uh certainly at the heart of
- 14:30Speaker 1: this original trilogy, and I think does have some aspects
- 14:35Speaker 1: that I feel anyway are are more leaning towards women,
- 14:44Speaker 1: um are being a like feminine coded trait, because as
- 14:47Speaker 1: we've discussed, forgiveness is tricky. Um it's often associated with women.
- 14:53Speaker 1: Women are more expected to forgive. And so when you
- 14:57Speaker 1: have O. B One saying like, oh he has already
- 15:00Speaker 1: one after Luke says he can't kill his own father,
- 15:04Speaker 1: it kind of reads differently when you know what we
- 15:09Speaker 1: wanted to anakin as do a lot of things. Once
- 15:11Speaker 1: the prequels come out, of the sequels come out, um,
- 15:14Speaker 1: it can change your your interpretation for sure, But it
- 15:19Speaker 1: does kind of feel manipulative. And I think a lot
- 15:21Speaker 1: of ways that some of us have felt manipulated into
- 15:25Speaker 1: these interactions of how things are supposed to be. And
- 15:29Speaker 1: I also think like the whole story of Luke wanting
- 15:35Speaker 1: always looking towards the horizon and thinking about his father
- 15:39Speaker 1: and wanting to be like his father, and then meets
- 15:43Speaker 1: finds out the truth, meets him and it's like the
- 15:46Speaker 1: ultimate disappointment, I mean the ultimate disappointment, um, which kind
- 15:51Speaker 1: of threatens like a part of who he thinks, who
- 15:53Speaker 1: Luke thinks he is, and what he could be. Uh.
- 15:57Speaker 1: And then you get Darth Vader threatening Leah, who is
- 16:04Speaker 1: Luke's last remaining family, and that's what sets him off
- 16:07Speaker 1: into almost giving into the dark side. It's that kind
- 16:10Speaker 1: of similar fear around around the people you care about.
- 16:15Speaker 1: It's also really sad, Like this is probably a different podcast,
- 16:19Speaker 1: but Vader's story is quite tragic. I know he did
- 16:23Speaker 1: a terrible things. I'm not forgetting that, but he like
- 16:26Speaker 1: it is kind of sad that the Emperor was like, yeah,
- 16:29Speaker 1: just kill that guy who's been my right hand since
- 16:32Speaker 1: forever and you will replace him. When all Vader wanted
- 16:39Speaker 1: was his family. That's what started this whole thing. He
- 16:40Speaker 1: just wanted his family, UM. And I mean there's a
- 16:44Speaker 1: bunch of other things. There's like trauma for sure, UM
- 16:48Speaker 1: and grooming, and he just really needed he needed some help. Um.
- 16:57Speaker 1: But he really wanted family. Uh, and he'll never I'll
- 17:02Speaker 1: never see his son's smile or hear him laugh or
- 17:05Speaker 1: know him saying with Leah, his daughter, Um, and their
- 17:09Speaker 1: relationship is characterized by fear and pain and sadness and loss.
- 17:14Speaker 1: But at the end it's hope. I mean, there's still hope.
- 17:18Speaker 1: And I know, like probably a lot of you saw this,
- 17:20Speaker 1: but recently this picture did the rounds where Um, it
- 17:24Speaker 1: was after the Canoe Show came out and Hayden Christensen
- 17:28Speaker 1: was with the actors. He's like hugging the actors who
- 17:31Speaker 1: play Luke and Little Luke and Leah and the show,
- 17:34Speaker 1: and everybody was like, Oh, that's the only time he's
- 17:36Speaker 1: gonna it was so oh, it was so sad um.
- 17:48Speaker 1: And then this this again might be my own interpretation,
- 17:53Speaker 1: but even as a kid, I always kind of felt
- 17:57Speaker 1: like Luke's change and demeanor from Empire strikes back to
- 18:01Speaker 1: Return of the Jedi. It always made me sad because
- 18:04Speaker 1: it feels like Luke's trying to be something he's not,
- 18:07Speaker 1: Like he's trying to force himself to be this certain
- 18:10Speaker 1: way to play this role, which is also something I
- 18:14Speaker 1: think a lot of women feel. Um. But like he
- 18:18Speaker 1: can't show emotion all of these things. He feels like
- 18:22Speaker 1: he can't do that. I thought made him special when
- 18:26Speaker 1: I was younger, because I would like watch it and
- 18:28Speaker 1: I the things I loved about him, or you know,
- 18:30Speaker 1: he was so genuine, He wore as hard on his sleeve.
- 18:33Speaker 1: He was so kind and gentle, and he's still those things.
- 18:36Speaker 1: But like it just felt um, like he was trying
- 18:41Speaker 1: so hard, Like he was so scared of Darth Vader
- 18:44Speaker 1: and becoming Darth Vader. He was grieving the loss of
- 18:49Speaker 1: his father figure that he'd wanted his whole life. Um,
- 18:53Speaker 1: And he finds out, you know, this person stands against
- 18:55Speaker 1: everything that does, has committed truly attrocious crimes um, some
- 18:58Speaker 1: against his closest friends. They're on opposite sides of the war.
- 19:02Speaker 1: Um and cut off his hand. You know that that
- 19:06Speaker 1: fear of what he could be, of what Darth Vader is,
- 19:11Speaker 1: led him into really cutting off his emotions and becoming
- 19:14Speaker 1: closed off of being this Jedi he believes he needs
- 19:17Speaker 1: to be, which I would argue he was at the
- 19:21Speaker 1: end perfect, Like he was someone who was compassionate and
- 19:26Speaker 1: caring and all of these things. Um. But there's also
- 19:32Speaker 1: a morning element too, you know, you got all the
- 19:34Speaker 1: black clothes, which are of course reminiscent of Vader. But
- 19:37Speaker 1: also yeah, so so that's suggestive of you know, Okay,
- 19:41Speaker 1: this could happen to Luke. It was definitely meant to
- 19:43Speaker 1: make you think, oh, he could become like Darth Vader
- 19:45Speaker 1: when it first came out, but also this loss of
- 19:48Speaker 1: you know, who he thought his father was, of this
- 19:50Speaker 1: innocence that he had had, and of course, you know,
- 19:53Speaker 1: it's also coming of age story and in a way
- 19:56Speaker 1: this control that he's exhibiting, and which in The Jedi,
- 20:00Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure it was meant to be interpreted as like,
- 20:04Speaker 1: oh um, he grew up. He's not so whiny anymore.
- 20:11Speaker 1: I think, you know, that's what it was meant to be.
- 20:13Speaker 1: But when I was watching it as a kid, it
- 20:14Speaker 1: always made me feel sad because he had he had
- 20:17Speaker 1: this sort of brightness to him, and then it was
- 20:20Speaker 1: like he felt he had to hide it. But yeah,
- 20:22Speaker 1: I guess in some ways there's always something sad about
- 20:24Speaker 1: letting go of childhood and becoming an adult. But yeah,
- 20:30Speaker 1: that's in the end. I've always loved the ending he
- 20:33Speaker 1: returned the Jedi because in the end, Darth Vader and
- 20:36Speaker 1: Luke choose each other. Um. And when Luke does this,
- 20:41Speaker 1: throws away his weapon his father. He chooses his father
- 20:46Speaker 1: and family over power, over this temptation of the dark side.
- 20:51Speaker 1: It's something that the Emperor cannot understand, so he is
- 20:54Speaker 1: surprised when Vader returns the selfless Act, the selfless Act
- 20:58Speaker 1: and saves Luke. Uh. And just that like having faith,
- 21:02Speaker 1: having faith in each other. So yeah, I mean, clearly
- 21:06Speaker 1: I've been talking about it already, but I do think
- 21:11Speaker 1: that lucas a nontraditional hero, and that was one of
- 21:14Speaker 1: the things I loved about him, still love about him.
- 21:16Speaker 1: I think he was a really good balance of traditionally
- 21:19Speaker 1: like typically masculine coded traits and feminine coded traits in
- 21:23Speaker 1: a way that doesn't feel I would almost say like
- 21:26Speaker 1: we're allotting the the more feminine coded traits over the
- 21:30Speaker 1: masculine ones, because he's sort of like reckless and hot
- 21:34Speaker 1: headed and all this stuff that I would say is
- 21:36Speaker 1: typically more masculine, not always though not always. Um, But
- 21:40Speaker 1: the things that I at least was always like, oh
- 21:43Speaker 1: my gosh, this is so great is that he does have.
- 21:47Speaker 1: It's kind of really empathetic kindness, about him. This is
- 21:53Speaker 1: sounding so like man can't be that. They can obviously,
- 21:57Speaker 1: but but it's just I feel like in our media,
- 22:01Speaker 1: the way those things play out is like that, Um,
- 22:04Speaker 1: he's got you know, he does wear his heart on
- 22:06Speaker 1: his sleeve. A lot of people have made connections between Physically,
- 22:14Speaker 1: he's not your traditional hero or at least in our
- 22:17Speaker 1: more modern times. Like he's pretty, He's on the smaller side.
- 22:20Speaker 1: He is kind of pretty. He's got a bit of
- 22:23Speaker 1: ire voice. Um, I'm always struck by how small he
- 22:28Speaker 1: is compared to to Darth Vader at the end. Um
- 22:32Speaker 1: and then his fashion, Oh my gosh, I found this
- 22:35Speaker 1: whole corner of the internet was like Luke Skywalker gay
- 22:38Speaker 1: fashion icon and it's the best and I highly recommenzed.
- 22:41Speaker 1: It's a lot of good memes. The channel boots, Shutel, yes,
- 22:46Speaker 1: I know you've shown me. You've shown me a few times,
- 22:50Speaker 1: as well as yelling to the screen the Chanel boots
- 22:54Speaker 1: and I'm not even putting that justice. There's no other
- 22:57Speaker 1: reference but the Chanel boots. But as much as I
- 23:01Speaker 1: love that, there is the question of you know, clearly
- 23:04Speaker 1: they intended Luke, and in my opinion, it clearly intended
- 23:08Speaker 1: Luke and Lead to end up together before they knew,
- 23:11Speaker 1: before the story changed and they became brother and sister.
- 23:13Speaker 1: So that's why we get kind of some of those
- 23:15Speaker 1: more awkward moments of between them and the earlier ones.
- 23:19Speaker 1: But for me, they always just had it. They had
- 23:21Speaker 1: a chemistry that was like run their and sister. That
- 23:23Speaker 1: could also be because I don't know a time before
- 23:26Speaker 1: I've seen it, so I just never I was always like, no,
- 23:29Speaker 1: their brother and sister. Um. And it does make sense
- 23:32Speaker 1: to me you would feel through the force a connection
- 23:36Speaker 1: to someone immediately if they were your long astwin uh,
- 23:41Speaker 1: and you might not know what that is and you
- 23:42Speaker 1: might misinterpret that as attraction. But also, you know, I
- 23:47Speaker 1: think in a New Hope, Luke was definitely trying to
- 23:50Speaker 1: play the role of hero and failing pretty good. So
- 23:56Speaker 1: he thought that was like the things the hero goes
- 23:58Speaker 1: and rescues the damsel distress, and it turns out, Leia,
- 24:02Speaker 1: it doesn't really need him, and in fact, it's going
- 24:04Speaker 1: to take control of this whole situation for you, which
- 24:07Speaker 1: I love, which I love, but um, it has brought
- 24:11Speaker 1: up that, like you know, I personally always loved that
- 24:15Speaker 1: there was not a really big romance for for Luke
- 24:19Speaker 1: in these movies, and even like Han and Leiah is there,
- 24:23Speaker 1: but it's not too much. Um. But the way people
- 24:26Speaker 1: have interpreted it can sometimes be problematic because it's like
- 24:29Speaker 1: automatically he's coded as gay or even a lot of
- 24:33Speaker 1: people a sexual, which again is fine, Like I don't
- 24:37Speaker 1: think there's necessarily anything wrong with that, but it's almost
- 24:42Speaker 1: I just wonder if there's some element of he can't
- 24:46Speaker 1: possibly be the romantic interests leading man because he does
- 24:50Speaker 1: have these qualities that are more associated perhaps with women. UM,
- 24:54Speaker 1: but that could just be me. Also, interestingly, I was
- 24:58Speaker 1: just talking about this with somebody that a day. I
- 25:01Speaker 1: do think the character of Han solo the way people
- 25:06Speaker 1: received him changed how they wrote him, if that makes sense,
- 25:11Speaker 1: because I think, um, you know, he was sort of
- 25:14Speaker 1: the bad boy, doesn't like to care, it's not cool
- 25:17Speaker 1: to care, which seemed to really resonate with um A
- 25:22Speaker 1: lot of men who want to be him, but also
- 25:24Speaker 1: a lot of women, um who want to date him.
- 25:28Speaker 1: You know, it doesn't hurt that he was handsome, but
- 25:31Speaker 1: but like that whole bad boy aspect, I would love
- 25:33Speaker 1: to come back, come back to that, but that's one
- 25:35Speaker 1: of the reasons. I think that scene you know who
- 25:37Speaker 1: shot first greeno Han who shot only has changed so much.
- 25:42Speaker 1: And also yea, as our friend Holly Fry has said
- 25:46Speaker 1: to me before, she thinks like Han solo might have
- 25:50Speaker 1: ruined the whole generation. And then I know, I said,
- 25:55Speaker 1: I wasn't going to talk about those equals because it's
- 25:57Speaker 1: my birthday, but I did want to briefly mention like
- 25:59Speaker 1: you Grumpy Luke and the sequels. I think you could
- 26:03Speaker 1: read it as like the ultimate burnout one but too
- 26:08Speaker 1: kind of being tired in the feminist movement, fighting the
- 26:11Speaker 1: fight and then seeing all this stuff happen and giving
- 26:15Speaker 1: up or hiding away, and then Ray coming in and
- 26:17Speaker 1: being like the next wave of feminism. Um, And I know,
- 26:23Speaker 1: I mean, I have to mention it. We did a
- 26:26Speaker 1: whole two party episode on Leiah, but it is worth
- 26:28Speaker 1: mentioning her again because she is amazing and I love her.
- 26:30Speaker 1: I love her. I know there was a lot of
- 26:33Speaker 1: stuff around filming with her that wasn't great, and we
- 26:37Speaker 1: talked about that in those two part episodes. I go
- 26:39Speaker 1: check those out, But I like, as a kid, I
- 26:41Speaker 1: didn't have there weren't that any characters like her, and
- 26:44Speaker 1: I just remember respecting her immediately, like she is in charge.
- 26:49Speaker 1: I loved her. I think she changed my life. I
- 26:52Speaker 1: don't know if I hadn't had her, I don't know.
- 26:56Speaker 1: I don't know, so just she fills me with morength
- 27:00Speaker 1: and gratitude. To be honest, I do love the dichotomy
- 27:04Speaker 1: of Luke and Leia. I know a lot of people
- 27:06Speaker 1: don't like that they turned out to be twins, and
- 27:08Speaker 1: I will say that probably I don't think everyone had
- 27:14Speaker 1: to follow their lead. But the whole idea of like, well,
- 27:16Speaker 1: now everybody has to be connected to somebody related to
- 27:18Speaker 1: somebody has seeped into so much of our entertainment and
- 27:21Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be that way, and in fact,
- 27:23Speaker 1: it can be very annoying, but in this case, I
- 27:25Speaker 1: did like, I do love the dichotomy of their experiences. Uh.
- 27:31Speaker 1: In fan fiction, they're known as the Chaos Twins, and
- 27:36Speaker 1: Luke is often kind of described as like he looks
- 27:38Speaker 1: like Anakin is but it's more like pad May and demeanor,
- 27:41Speaker 1: whereas Leia it looks like pad May but is more
- 27:45Speaker 1: like Anakin in demeanor. And they're both they're both like
- 27:48Speaker 1: both with their parents, and I know alas the diplomat Um,
- 27:53Speaker 1: but she's definitely in fan fiction she's called like the
- 27:55Speaker 1: Firecracker and should be so annoyed to know she's more
- 27:57Speaker 1: like Anakin than pad May. But this is all also
- 28:01Speaker 1: up for interpretation because Luke has often depicted as like,
- 28:04Speaker 1: oh look, leta look at this flower, and she's like,
- 28:06Speaker 1: IM gonna go to wire. Couldn't don't bother me? But
- 28:09Speaker 1: I didn't write that. I really enjoy and uh yeah,
- 28:13Speaker 1: I think that's my saddest. I love reading stories and
- 28:17Speaker 1: fan fiction where one their twin swapped. So Luke goes
- 28:22Speaker 1: to alter On becomes Prince of alter On, and she
- 28:25Speaker 1: Lea goes to Tattooed becomes a Jedi. But I also
- 28:27Speaker 1: just love That's the thing that is sad to me
- 28:30Speaker 1: is that we never got to see them kind of
- 28:32Speaker 1: discovering their sibling relationship and how that plays out. And
- 28:37Speaker 1: so that's one of my absolute favorite pantictions to read
- 28:41Speaker 1: is them. Okay, well, thank you so much for letting
- 28:45Speaker 1: me have this ranch on my birthday. And I'm sure
- 28:50Speaker 1: I have so much stuff that there might be a
- 28:52Speaker 1: bit of a mess or that I'll have I will
- 28:55Speaker 1: I'll want to add later I'll be lying awake tonight
- 28:57Speaker 1: thinking about it because I don't worry. I didn't write
- 28:59Speaker 1: this one out as much as I normally do. I'm
- 29:02Speaker 1: sure I will come back in the future, but I
- 29:06Speaker 1: hope it was enjoyable with my gushing fangirl gushing and
- 29:10Speaker 1: I love it. The one thing I did request after
- 29:13Speaker 1: knowing that we were doing this, I was like, Okay,
- 29:15Speaker 1: have we truly done? And like a quiz because we
- 29:18Speaker 1: love to do our little quizzes on things about what
- 29:22Speaker 1: woman character from the Star Wars world we would do
- 29:27Speaker 1: would be be So I need you to take this
- 29:29Speaker 1: quiz if you haven't already, and then tell me who
- 29:32Speaker 1: you are, and then I'll tell you who I am.
- 29:35Speaker 1: Let's take this quiz. This is gonna happen in real
- 29:37Speaker 1: time because I haven't taken it yet, so I don't know.
- 29:40Speaker 1: But if I get someone I really don't like, it's
- 29:43Speaker 1: mostly the deudes I don't like it. Here we go go.
- 30:00Speaker 1: So if listeners you want to take the quiz with us,
- 30:02Speaker 1: we did the Star Wars dot com uh International Women's
- 30:06Speaker 1: Day Quiz, so it is specifically from Star Wars. Whether
- 30:11Speaker 1: you think that's good or not. But I was trying
- 30:13Speaker 1: to be a little more legitimate in our quizzes. Who
- 30:19Speaker 1: are you? What did it say? Oh? I got um Oh,
- 30:24Speaker 1: I'm not even sure. I don't pronounce this. I got
- 30:26Speaker 1: infas nest. Who is that? So she's in Um, she's
- 30:31Speaker 1: in Solo, which is the only movie we haven't done,
- 30:33Speaker 1: and we'll have to come back and do it because
- 30:34Speaker 1: I know you like that one. She's the at the
- 30:37Speaker 1: end with the wild red hair who kind of takes control,
- 30:41Speaker 1: um of the whole situation. Yeah. So it says you
- 30:44Speaker 1: keep your true self hidden beneath a mask, but in
- 30:46Speaker 1: time of those who tries to get to know who
- 30:48Speaker 1: you really are, a person who is trying to help
- 30:50Speaker 1: those in need. Oh dang better they went real deep. Um,
- 30:55Speaker 1: well I was said that I'm ray all right. Yeah,
- 31:01Speaker 1: you don't need anyone to hold your hand with or
- 31:03Speaker 1: without the force as your ally. You are truly a
- 31:06Speaker 1: force to be reckoned with. Very interesting answers. What is
- 31:10Speaker 1: your reaction? Are you disappointed or not? Layah? This is
- 31:13Speaker 1: going to sound kind of silly, but I'm like, I
- 31:15Speaker 1: don't know if I'm cool enough to be like Okay, Well,
- 31:22Speaker 1: thank you so much again for going on this journey
- 31:24Speaker 1: with me. Well, happy birthday. I'm glad we need to
- 31:27Speaker 1: talk about it, and sorry for any technical difficulties that
- 31:31Speaker 1: have come up. Hopefully it's all good and I rest assured.
- 31:35Speaker 1: I'm sure we'll revisit some of these things later. Are
- 31:38Speaker 1: are be terrified? I'm not sure which? Uh? In the meantime,
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- 31:43Speaker 1: or email Stuff Media mom Stuff at i heeart media
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- 31:49Speaker 1: Thanks as always to our super producer Christina. Thank you, Christina,
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