Latest / Two Personal with Joy Taylor / Michael Irvin Tells His Daejon Love Story, Gets Personal About Life, Faith & Football
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- 0:00Speaker 1: I would prefer to have a chance at the end
- 0:02Speaker 1: of the game than to get blown out.
- 0:04Speaker 2: Because at least we knew we were supposed to be there.
- 0:06Speaker 3: Wait a minute. Maybe God was blessing me. Let me
- 0:10Speaker 3: get in trouble back then. You can't bring no new
- 0:14Speaker 3: shit up on me now. The results are three Super Bowls.
- 0:18Speaker 2: He is probably the most influential owner ever. Argue with
- 0:25Speaker 2: your boy. Don't argue with me. I didn't say it.
- 0:28Speaker 4: Right.
- 0:29Speaker 2: Michael Irvin said it.
- 0:30Speaker 4: Let me give it to you.
- 0:37Speaker 2: Welcome to Too Personal. I'm Joy Taylor. Thanks so much
- 0:40Speaker 2: for joining us. Make sure you hit subscribe. Follow us
- 0:42Speaker 2: on social at Too Personal Show. My guy, the playmaker,
- 0:48Speaker 2: Michael Irvin. Needs no introduction. Welcome to Too Personal.
- 0:52Speaker 4: Thank you for having me, Joy. I love this Too Personal.
- 0:54Speaker 2: This is my version of the White House.
- 0:56Speaker 4: This is, and it's so great. It's nice. It's, it's comfortable.
- 1:02Speaker 2: It's, it's you.
- 1:03Speaker 4: And I love the name.
- 1:05Speaker 3: Because you get, you know, and nowadays everybody.
- 1:09Speaker 4: Wants you to get too personal.
- 1:11Speaker 2: They sure do.
- 1:11Speaker 3: They want to know more than just how did you
- 1:14Speaker 3: run that deep in or deep out. You know, well,
- 1:17Speaker 3: they want to know really how you ran a deep in. But,
- 1:21Speaker 3: you know, you know what I'm saying.
- 1:25Speaker 2: They do.
- 1:26Speaker 4: They really want to know.
- 1:28Speaker 1: Before we get to all of the things that we're
- 1:30Speaker 1: going to chat about, we've got to get into.
- 1:34Speaker 2: We've got to get into this Dajon Love story.
- 1:37Speaker 1: So he's scammed, although I feel like he worked hard
- 1:43Speaker 1: for that money, but he scammed at least 26 women
- 1:47Speaker 1: that we know of out of $ 1. 3 million, saying that
- 1:51Speaker 1: he was a San Francisco 49er.
- 1:55Speaker 2: What are your thoughts?
- 1:57Speaker 3: Yes, we run into so many dudes that are, somehow,
- 2:01Speaker 3: some way, trying to scam people and tell people who
- 2:05Speaker 3: they are, lie to people and fool people. I've watched
- 2:10Speaker 3: this story, and I haven't commented on it, you know,
- 2:13Speaker 3: because I still have PTSD from it with things like this.
- 2:18Speaker 4: My second year in the league, we had a training camp.
- 2:25Speaker 3: We're working out, and all I know is I see
- 2:30Speaker 3: some Dudes walking on the field look like, growing up
- 2:37Speaker 3: in Florida, I know what they should look like. They
- 2:39Speaker 3: look like feds, you know, like FBI. And I'm like,
- 2:44Speaker 3: what the hell is going on? Why do we have
- 2:46Speaker 3: the FBI? And they were the FBI. And all I know,
- 2:50Speaker 3: I'm running routes. And Coach Johnson, Michael.
- 2:53Speaker 4: I said, oh, shit.
- 2:55Speaker 2: They're there for you?
- 2:57Speaker 4: For me? What the hell is the FBI doing for me? Joy. Joy.
- 3:02Speaker 3: My mind went swimming. This is my second year training camp.
- 3:07Speaker 3: I'm trying to think about, nigga, you just got this money.
- 3:12Speaker 3: I know you did something illegal with it.
- 3:14Speaker 4: What did you do? What did you do?
- 3:16Speaker 3: I'm thinking about what the hell is the FBI doing
- 3:19Speaker 3: here to see me at training camp? And, you know,
- 3:22Speaker 3: I just had, I just got the money. You know,
- 3:24Speaker 3: when you first get paid, you go right in the camp.
- 3:26Speaker 1: Right.
- 3:27Speaker 4: So I really had no time to really do nothing.
- 3:29Speaker 4: But all season, I had some time, and I did something.
- 3:33Speaker 3: And I didn't know what these mugs were here for.
- 3:35Speaker 4: They come to me, man, and they say, we'd like
- 3:38Speaker 4: to sit down and talk to you. I said, about what?
- 3:41Speaker 3: Like, I'm about to spill stuff, like, just trying to
- 3:47Speaker 3: get ahead of it. Dude, you know what they said
- 3:50Speaker 3: to me? We have a guy that has.
- 3:57Speaker 4: Cheated me.
- 3:58Speaker 3: Girls out of hundreds of thousands of dollars. And this
- 4:01Speaker 3: joker was pretending to be me. Had an 880 ring in,
- 4:06Speaker 3: an 88 necklace on. And somehow he scammed girls out
- 4:12Speaker 3: of I don't know how much money.
- 4:15Speaker 4: Using my, I was like, oh my God.
- 4:17Speaker 2: In what year was this?
- 4:18Speaker 4: I didn't.
- 4:19Speaker 3: My second year in the league was 1989, 1990. And
- 4:24Speaker 3: I'm thinking, I'm doing enough of my own dirty shit.
- 4:27Speaker 3: I don't need no help. I don't need no help
- 4:29Speaker 3: from this dude.
- 4:30Speaker 4: What is he doing?
- 4:32Speaker 3: Dude, I've never been so afraid in my life when
- 4:35Speaker 3: he talked about that. But that was happening back then.
- 4:39Speaker 3: It happened then. And, of course, I was able to.
- 4:42Speaker 3: to get out of it.
- 4:43Speaker 2: Well, what did you do? I mean, how would you
- 4:46Speaker 2: not get out of it? What did you have to throw?
- 4:48Speaker 3: Me getting out of it, listen, I know in this life,
- 4:53Speaker 3: it's not about, you didn't do anything. I didn't do
- 4:57Speaker 3: anything and I still been in shit. So, you know,
- 5:00Speaker 3: I was scared as I don't know what I'm saying.
- 5:02Speaker 3: What do you mean? What are you talking about here?
- 5:04Speaker 3: I didn't, you know, so yeah, he's been using your name.
- 5:07Speaker 3: I would say, first thing I thought was like, I
- 5:11Speaker 3: ain't scam nobody. Like, what do you mean? I haven't
- 5:13Speaker 3: scammed anybody. One thing I've never done is ask a
- 5:17Speaker 3: girl for money. I don't do that. I don't ask.
- 5:23Speaker 3: My wife, when I was in college, she gave me
- 5:25Speaker 3: some money. She was the first one to give me
- 5:28Speaker 3: some money. And then I promised to take care of
- 5:31Speaker 3: her for the rest of her life. For the few
- 5:32Speaker 3: dollars she gave.
- 5:33Speaker 4: Me, you know.
- 5:34Speaker 1: And you have.
- 5:35Speaker 4: And I have. And I have. And she gave me
- 5:37Speaker 4: a few. 100. I gave her back millions. You see
- 5:40Speaker 4: what I'm saying?
- 5:41Speaker 2: It was a good investment by her.
- 5:42Speaker 3: It was a good investment. At least financially it was.
- 5:46Speaker 3: I won't tell you.
- 5:47Speaker 4: She's stuck.
- 5:48Speaker 3: She's a good girl. But yeah, that was... I was like,
- 5:52Speaker 3: oh my God. So this is not even new to
- 5:54Speaker 3: me to seeing this. And everybody acts so surprised. Dudes
- 5:58Speaker 3: do this all the time.
- 6:00Speaker 2: So this has been going on for.
- 6:02Speaker 4: I.
- 6:02Speaker 3: Know that they said, man, people say I look like you.
- 6:06Speaker 3: What girl did you trick? What did you trick?
- 6:08Speaker 2: Why are these women giving these men money?
- 6:11Speaker 3: I don't know, man, but it's amazing that, that, that
- 6:15Speaker 3: common sense. I mean, I guess hope is such a
- 6:19Speaker 3: strong thing that sometimes it makes you surpass common sense.
- 6:25Speaker 4: Like common sense.
- 6:26Speaker 3: Should tell you if this dude is borrowing this money
- 6:30Speaker 3: from you, maybe he ain't who he say he is,
- 6:33Speaker 3: you know? If he promised an NFL career, you go
- 6:37Speaker 3: get the money from your agent. But people don't know this.
- 6:41Speaker 2: But why are you giving him money? Like, what is
- 6:44Speaker 2: the value? If the hope is that.
- 6:46Speaker 1: You're getting chosen by a 49er or Michael Irvin, why
- 6:52Speaker 1: would they need your money? Isn't the point that you're
- 6:54Speaker 1: being with them for their status and money?
- 6:56Speaker 4: That's what it is.
- 6:59Speaker 3: I don't understand that part. I personally don't understand... Any
- 7:05Speaker 3: man that allows a woman to take care of him,
- 7:08Speaker 3: that's not the divine order. This is not the divine order.
- 7:13Speaker 3: As a spiritual man, I follow the divine order.
- 7:18Speaker 2: Argue with your boy, okay? Don't argue with me. I
- 7:21Speaker 2: didn't say it.
- 7:21Speaker 4: Right, I don't.
- 7:22Speaker 2: Michael Irvin said it.
- 7:23Speaker 3: Let me give it to you. Let me give you
- 7:26Speaker 3: how God had built the divine order. He has made
- 7:30Speaker 3: us and our most precious act... The act that we
- 7:35Speaker 3: will procreate in. In that act, I am giving. The
- 7:42Speaker 3: lady is receiving. I'm built anatomically, anatomically wise, as a
- 7:50Speaker 3: giver in that act. She is receiving in that act.
- 7:55Speaker 3: And so sure in life, I'm supposed to give to
- 7:57Speaker 3: her and she receives.
- 8:00Speaker 4: That's the building of it. So I have.
- 8:04Speaker 3: Never taken a dime outside of the first pair of
- 8:07Speaker 3: clothes my wife bought for me from a woman.
- 8:10Speaker 4: You know what I mean? And I stick with that.
- 8:13Speaker 3: So, yeah, I don't understand guys that do that, especially
- 8:19Speaker 3: doing it to a woman.
- 8:20Speaker 4: And so you know he's probably....
- 8:25Speaker 3: I won't even say raised by a mom. You would
- 8:27Speaker 3: never do that to a person if you've been raised
- 8:28Speaker 3: by a good mom, you know, a mom that you
- 8:31Speaker 3: care about.
- 8:32Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, scammers are a specific breed. I think
- 8:38Speaker 2: we all agree we don't like scammers.
- 8:40Speaker 1: I mean, everyone has been scammed at one point or
- 8:43Speaker 1: been scam-adjacent at one point, and.
- 8:46Speaker 2: There are big repercussions.
- 8:48Speaker 1: Well, you were scam-adjacent. You weren't doing the scamming, but
- 8:52Speaker 1: the scamming then affected you, and the feds showed up
- 8:55Speaker 1: and pushed you into panic, and you had.
- 8:57Speaker 2: A situation to handle.
- 8:58Speaker 4: I'm about to confess my stuff.
- 9:00Speaker 1: You're about to start talking about things you didn't even
- 9:03Speaker 1: need to be talking about.
- 9:03Speaker 4: That they didn't even know about.
- 9:06Speaker 1: You know, if you live like us on the edge sometimes,
- 9:09Speaker 1: you start wondering when the feds show up what.
- 9:10Speaker 2: You're there to talk about.
- 9:11Speaker 4: Right.
- 9:12Speaker 1: So, yeah, we don't like that. But, but, while I'm
- 9:16Speaker 1: not going to argue the divine order of things, because
- 9:18Speaker 1: in this particular situation, it's working for me.
- 9:24Speaker 2: These women are not victims.
- 9:25Speaker 1: Like, this is crazy behavior.
- 9:27Speaker 4: Wait, wait, wait.
- 9:28Speaker 2: This is crazy behavior.
- 9:29Speaker 4: How do you call this not victim?
- 9:31Speaker 1: Because, Michael, like if someone steals your identity, you were
- 9:34Speaker 1: actually a victim in that case.
- 9:36Speaker 2: That man stole your identity, right?
- 9:38Speaker 1: If someone steals your identity and is like making businesses
- 9:42Speaker 1: and money and stealing, I've had someone steal my social
- 9:44Speaker 1: security before. When people are, you know, calling old people
- 9:50Speaker 1: and getting, you know, their bank account information because they're
- 9:55Speaker 1: saying that their kids are in jail, horrible stuff like that.
- 9:58Speaker 2: That is criminal behavior. But we cannot.
- 10:01Speaker 1: Protect everyone from being dumb. At some point, as an adult,
- 10:06Speaker 1: you know scammers exist.
- 10:09Speaker 2: If you are.
- 10:10Speaker 1: Willing to empty your bank account for a man and
- 10:13Speaker 1: send him thousands of dollars because you believe that you
- 10:17Speaker 1: have finally been chosen.
- 10:18Speaker 2: By an NFL player, We get a lot.
- 10:25Speaker 3: People pray, and I use that word correctly. People pray
- 10:32Speaker 3: on hope.
- 10:34Speaker 4: On hope.
- 10:35Speaker 3: Look at the elderly who all of the time, they
- 10:38Speaker 3: pray on the elderly trying to scam them.
- 10:42Speaker 4: There's something they're hoping for.
- 10:44Speaker 2: These women have mirrors. They've got mirrors.
- 10:48Speaker 1: They've lived lives. It's all this Cinderella... fantasy shit like
- 10:53Speaker 1: right you're not right and listen i don't i'm not dating.
- 10:56Speaker 3: On the hope they'll find it happily ever after something
- 10:59Speaker 3: that doesn't exist that person's not.
- 11:01Speaker 2: Gonna ask you for $ 80.
- 11:03Speaker 3: 000 yeah i don't know no and and keep telling
- 11:05Speaker 3: you listen i just need to pay for this hotel
- 11:08Speaker 3: and if you get kicked out you come live in
- 11:09Speaker 3: a hotel with me like what the hell what.
- 11:12Speaker 4: Are you living in hotels for.
- 11:14Speaker 2: What do you think about his uh route.
- 11:17Speaker 3: Oh my god oh my god you told me on
- 11:20Speaker 3: the beach Like, this was bad for him, too, though, right?
- 11:25Speaker 3: He's always wanted people to see him play football, and
- 11:28Speaker 3: now when they see it, they're.
- 11:29Speaker 4: Like, oh, my God, yeah.
- 11:30Speaker 2: Do you like the helmet?
- 11:32Speaker 4: It's crazy. All of it.
- 11:35Speaker 3: And the way he's carrying the football, like, dude, you have...
- 11:38Speaker 3: Not only is he not playing the NFL, I really...
- 11:42Speaker 3: There's no way a coach has ever had him get
- 11:45Speaker 3: in line and do any drill.
- 11:48Speaker 4: You can tell.
- 11:50Speaker 3: So there's no, he just looks like he's uncoordinated. He's
- 11:54Speaker 3: never been on a football field, and he doesn't understand.
- 11:56Speaker 3: He doesn't understand. His body just doesn't understand it. You
- 12:01Speaker 3: know what I'm saying? His body doesn't do what it's
- 12:03Speaker 3: supposed to do. Because when I see it, I'm like,
- 12:06Speaker 3: that's not cool. That's not right.
- 12:09Speaker 2: He's out here giving receivers a bad name.
- 12:12Speaker 3: Right. And you know, girls may not know, but I
- 12:16Speaker 3: can see it instantly. It's like, dude, you ain't played.
- 12:22Speaker 3: Because I'm used to it. I've been reading guys forever.
- 12:26Speaker 3: Every guy you know, every guy you know, man, I
- 12:30Speaker 3: could have made it, man. My coach didn't like. I'm like,
- 12:33Speaker 3: I'm so tired of hearing this my coach didn't like
- 12:35Speaker 3: me story.
- 12:35Speaker 4: You know what I mean?
- 12:36Speaker 2: Or I got injured.
- 12:38Speaker 3: No, they always come with I got injured, but they're
- 12:40Speaker 3: both together. It's always, oh, yeah, I got hurt, and
- 12:44Speaker 3: my coach didn't like me. It's always those two. All
- 12:47Speaker 3: my life, I got hurt, and my coach didn't like me. Dude,
- 12:51Speaker 3: trust me.
- 12:52Speaker 4: Trust me.
- 12:52Speaker 3: If you could play, if you could play, even if
- 12:56Speaker 3: coach didn't like you, coach liked money.
- 12:58Speaker 4: Money. He would keep you in the field.
- 13:01Speaker 2: He likes his job.
- 13:02Speaker 4: Right, right. He likes his job. So, yeah, that's just
- 13:07Speaker 4: what guys do. Guys lie. Guys lie.
- 13:11Speaker 3: And they lie for women more than anything in the world.
- 13:16Speaker 3: More than anything in the world. So, you girls, you
- 13:20Speaker 3: got to be on your point with that.
- 13:21Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, listen, young girls.
- 13:24Speaker 1: Um, I give all the grace in the world too,
- 13:27Speaker 1: because listen, you're going to get lied to your whole
- 13:30Speaker 1: life anyway, but when you're young, you don't really have
- 13:33Speaker 1: the experience. You don't, you're still living in that delusion,
- 13:36Speaker 1: you know, but at some points you've got to understand
- 13:40Speaker 1: that there are, listen, we.
- 13:43Speaker 2: Have locks on our doors, right?
- 13:45Speaker 4: Right.
- 13:46Speaker 1: So the numbers tell us it's very unlikely, you know, that,
- 13:51Speaker 1: that our house is going to get broken into every night.
- 13:55Speaker 1: We still lock the fucking door every night. You still
- 13:58Speaker 1: have a seatbelt on in your car. Like, You still
- 14:02Speaker 1: have a password on your phone just.
- 14:05Speaker 2: Because it.
- 14:07Speaker 1: May not happen to you doesn't mean you have protections.
- 14:09Speaker 1: You know that there are people out in the world
- 14:10Speaker 1: who are looking to commit these crimes. They are looking
- 14:13Speaker 1: to take things away from you. So knowing that's the case,
- 14:16Speaker 1: don't send $ 80, 000 to someone that you met on the
- 14:18Speaker 1: fucking internet.
- 14:19Speaker 4: Right. No, listen.
- 14:22Speaker 3: I mean, don't send $ 80, 000 to somebody you meet in person.
- 14:26Speaker 4: I don't give a damn where you met her.
- 14:27Speaker 2: You better have seen a lot.
- 14:30Speaker 1: I have better had multiple meetings with multiple people I know.
- 14:34Speaker 1: Someone else is with this financial advisor.
- 14:37Speaker 3: No, no, no.
- 14:37Speaker 4: You don't ship me down.
- 14:39Speaker 3: Before I send you this $ 80, 000, we're going to do
- 14:41Speaker 3: some transactions on some papers. This shows me some collateral
- 14:45Speaker 3: that if you don't bring this cash back, I'm going
- 14:48Speaker 3: to take it out your ass to get it back.
- 14:50Speaker 3: Some kind of way, my money going to be back
- 14:52Speaker 3: on this table.
- 14:53Speaker 4: You see what I'm saying?
- 14:54Speaker 2: What are we talking about?
- 14:56Speaker 4: But that amazes me, though, man.
- 14:58Speaker 3: It amazes me that a dude would have the gall
- 15:01Speaker 3: to even attempt this, to even say it.
- 15:03Speaker 1: Oh, no, no, no. The audacity is that we are
- 15:05Speaker 1: living in audastic times.
- 15:07Speaker 2: And you know this, Michael.
- 15:09Speaker 1: People will go to outrageous lengths.
- 15:13Speaker 2: To try and come up with some money or come
- 15:16Speaker 2: up with some money. You know this.
- 15:17Speaker 3: Yeah, but nowadays, everything's on camera. So you can only
- 15:23Speaker 3: carry a lie so.
- 15:25Speaker 2: Long or so far. They don't think long term.
- 15:27Speaker 4: Right. I saw, I guess, the... with the love dude
- 15:32Speaker 4: brother on.
- 15:33Speaker 3: He said that the love dude blocked him on all
- 15:36Speaker 3: social media and blocked all of them.
- 15:38Speaker 4: He said they never even knew he was living this
- 15:41Speaker 4: extra life. So, you know.
- 15:43Speaker 2: That was my question.
- 15:45Speaker 4: Because you're scamming don't mean you're a dummy. He wasn't
- 15:48Speaker 4: a dummy, though.
- 15:48Speaker 3: He said the only people that get out with me
- 15:51Speaker 3: are my family.
- 15:52Speaker 4: I can't let them see this.
- 15:53Speaker 2: I mean, nobody went to high school with him?
- 15:55Speaker 3: That's amazing, man. It's amazing. It's amazing that you can
- 16:00Speaker 3: do that.
- 16:02Speaker 2: But you're saying this has been happening since the early 90s.
- 16:05Speaker 4: Oh, yeah. People are doing it. People are doing it.
- 16:07Speaker 2: Girls.
- 16:08Speaker 3: I thought social media would make it less prevalent. You
- 16:13Speaker 3: have less opportunity to do this because... It's all on
- 16:17Speaker 3: social media now.
- 16:18Speaker 2: Right, and people can find you and people remember you.
- 16:19Speaker 3: Right, people see you and you place this. You put
- 16:21Speaker 3: something out there. You put you out. I'm on the
- 16:24Speaker 3: 49ers with that old funny backpedaling like this right here. Somebody, boy,
- 16:28Speaker 3: you ain't never played. Boy, that's, you know, that's such
- 16:30Speaker 3: and such. You ain't never played ball. So I was
- 16:33Speaker 3: shocked that it went this.
- 16:36Speaker 4: Long in this era of social media.
- 16:38Speaker 2: What was that like?
- 16:39Speaker 4: You saw what he was doing. I don't know what
- 16:42Speaker 4: that dude did. That was supposed to be a sling.
- 16:45Speaker 4: It was.
- 16:47Speaker 3: It looked like he never played ball in his life.
- 16:50Speaker 3: I mean, it's just crazy, man. He goes, a brother.
- 16:54Speaker 3: I don't know. How do you live the rest of
- 16:57Speaker 3: your life if you need your own love?
- 17:00Speaker 2: I mean, he's just been alive in prison.
- 17:02Speaker 3: They're going to tear him up.
- 17:06Speaker 4: I mean, you know, literally and figuratively.
- 17:10Speaker 2: I don't think it's going to go well for him.
- 17:13Speaker 4: Yeah, they're going to tear him up.
- 17:13Speaker 2: He did not. He skipped leg day. He skipped leg day,
- 17:16Speaker 2: for sure.
- 17:18Speaker 1: Well, it was a story that gave us all some laughs,
- 17:22Speaker 1: and hopefully it educated a few people that it is
- 17:26Speaker 1: actually not that hard to avoid a scam like that.
- 17:29Speaker 3: Let me ask you a story. Why we don't ever
- 17:33Speaker 3: see white folks do this? Why does it got to
- 17:34Speaker 3: be the brothers?
- 17:36Speaker 1: Oh, white people scam their way to the White House.
- 17:39Speaker 1: The literal White House.
- 17:41Speaker 4: I haven't seen any white dudes fake it out.
- 17:43Speaker 3: Faking a football player? Faking that, you know, and scamming.
- 17:47Speaker 3: All dudes say they played.
- 17:49Speaker 4: Everybody. Everybody.
- 17:51Speaker 2: Michael, white people are scamming. White people are scamming.
- 17:55Speaker 3: They're just not crazy.
- 17:59Speaker 2: No, they're not doing that. They're scamming, like, boring stuff.
- 18:03Speaker 3: Yeah, they're white people, white crime. White people doing the
- 18:08Speaker 3: white crime, right? The little white.
- 18:11Speaker 2: People, the money stuff, right? They're running Ponzi schemes.
- 18:15Speaker 4: They are running the Ponzi schemes.
- 18:17Speaker 1: Yeah, they're scamming, though, but they are not popping out
- 18:19Speaker 1: with chains saying that they play for the 49ers. And
- 18:23Speaker 1: let's think about this also, because if they were.
- 18:25Speaker 2: A wide receiver.
- 18:28Speaker 2: It might be a little easy to identify them. Is
- 18:32Speaker 2: your name Cooper Cup?
- 18:33Speaker 4: No?
- 18:34Speaker 2: Okay, who are you?
- 18:35Speaker 4: What do you mean? Name three wide receivers. What do
- 18:37Speaker 4: you mean? Be like, excuse me? That's so funny.
- 18:38Speaker 3: He is scamming.
- 18:39Speaker 4: That is so funny, man.
- 18:56Speaker 2: Oh, that's funny. Hall of Fame, if he's pulling that off,
- 18:58Speaker 2: what do you mean? Give him a jacket.
- 19:00Speaker 4: It could only be a few. Yeah. Yeah.
- 19:04Speaker 2: A white cornerback. There's more of those.
- 19:07Speaker 4: It is.
- 19:07Speaker 2: Lately.
- 19:07Speaker 4: And I guess they're just too smart to do that.
- 19:11Speaker 2: I don't know if they think they're too smart. I
- 19:13Speaker 2: think they.
- 19:15Speaker 1: I guess if they're too smart, they know that that's
- 19:17Speaker 1: a tougher sell.
- 19:18Speaker 2: Right, right.
- 19:19Speaker 1: So they're going for the lawnmower company scam.
- 19:22Speaker 3: You know, if Love was looking like that and he
- 19:24Speaker 3: was white, oh, my God. Now, now, now you can
- 19:29Speaker 3: tell the girls, no, no, that was not a scam.
- 19:31Speaker 3: You just gave that money away.
- 19:33Speaker 4: That's it. That's it. You know, if he was backpedaling
- 19:36Speaker 4: like that.
- 19:36Speaker 2: He wasn't even trying.
- 19:37Speaker 3: And he was white, like, you know damn well that
- 19:40Speaker 3: boy play no ball. You stop playing. When he posted
- 19:43Speaker 3: this right here, you should have known.
- 19:46Speaker 2: Why did he have the helmet with him all the time?
- 19:48Speaker 3: He looked so bad with the back. paddling thing. I mean,
- 19:51Speaker 3: it was just, he's not athletic at all. So, and
- 19:55Speaker 3: you could tell that.
- 19:56Speaker 2: Did it offend you that he tried to say he
- 19:58Speaker 2: was a receiver?
- 19:59Speaker 4: Well, I.
- 20:01Speaker 3: Don't know that it offended me, but, you know, it
- 20:07Speaker 3: tells you really, honestly, What it really says is that
- 20:13Speaker 3: I lived a life so many men wish they had.
- 20:16Speaker 2: That part. That part.
- 20:19Speaker 3: And they all out here dreaming up the life I lived,
- 20:24Speaker 3: that I actually lived, but I didn't take any money.
- 20:27Speaker 4: I didn't take any money.
- 20:28Speaker 1: You have lived quite the life.
- 20:33Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I would say.
- 20:37Speaker 2: How do you still have all this energy?
- 20:40Speaker 3: You know what, Joy, my motto has been, and I'm
- 20:44Speaker 3: going to follow this forever, I'm going to get every
- 20:49Speaker 3: bit of my time and every damn dime out of
- 20:53Speaker 3: this body.
- 20:54Speaker 4: You understand?
- 20:55Speaker 3: Before it leaves time to go to eternity. You're going
- 20:58Speaker 3: to give me all my time and every dime. And
- 21:02Speaker 3: I work for that.
- 21:03Speaker 4: You know what I mean?
- 21:04Speaker 2: You are always working.
- 21:05Speaker 4: I'm always working.
- 21:06Speaker 2: You are always on a plane.
- 21:07Speaker 3: I'm always working out. I'm always moving. I'm going to
- 21:10Speaker 3: keep life. And I'm going to keep moving in life
- 21:13Speaker 3: and keep doing things. that raise me up, keep laughing
- 21:17Speaker 3: through life, keep showing up, being around. Pride tonight, we're
- 21:21Speaker 3: going to be out here being around them young dudes.
- 21:24Speaker 3: People be, I'm not going to sit up with y'all
- 21:27Speaker 3: old asses and do nothing. I'm going to be right
- 21:30Speaker 3: out here with these young people, staying in mood, staying
- 21:34Speaker 3: around these young people and keep finding life and keep
- 21:38Speaker 3: finding purpose in life. You know, I'm on that football
- 21:41Speaker 3: field trying to, they're helping me. but I'm trying to
- 21:45Speaker 3: help them too. You know, they're helping me so much,
- 21:48Speaker 3: keep me alive. Because how many times, you know, you
- 21:50Speaker 3: around Jason, you know, we always talk about it, man.
- 21:53Speaker 3: We'll never be able to do it again. This is
- 21:55Speaker 3: the closest we can get to it. So I love
- 21:58Speaker 3: being around these young men, man. It keeps me alive.
- 22:02Speaker 3: It keeps me going. You know, people always say, Michael, man,
- 22:05Speaker 3: why you dressed like that? Dude, look at y'all, man.
- 22:09Speaker 3: Why would I want to be with that group? Look
- 22:11Speaker 3: at y'all looking like this. So Stay young. Go get
- 22:15Speaker 3: all of your time and every dime out of that body.
- 22:18Speaker 2: You know, my grandmother always told me never get old.
- 22:23Speaker 1: And I mean, she was old my entire life. You know,
- 22:30Speaker 1: people used to age differently. So I never remember my
- 22:33Speaker 1: grandmother young.
- 22:34Speaker 4: But.
- 22:36Speaker 1: I I've thought about her saying that a lot and
- 22:40Speaker 1: just the psychology of not talking about yourself like you're old.
- 22:44Speaker 1: And I'm turning 40 in January and I can't wait
- 22:48Speaker 1: mostly so people can stop asking me questions and I
- 22:51Speaker 1: have to answer them because when I'm 40, I'm going
- 22:52Speaker 1: to be like, I'm 40.
- 22:53Speaker 2: I don't talk about, I don't answer questions anymore.
- 22:55Speaker 3: I'm just, what do you mean? What kind of questions
- 22:58Speaker 3: are you?
- 22:58Speaker 2: No one is going to ask me if I want
- 23:00Speaker 2: children and I have 40.
- 23:01Speaker 4: Right.
- 23:02Speaker 2: Oh, No one respects a 39-year-old, Michael.
- 23:04Speaker 4: But they're starting now. They're having babies at 40 now.
- 23:06Speaker 4: I know. They're messing it up.
- 23:08Speaker 2: The girls are messing it up for me.
- 23:10Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying.
- 23:10Speaker 1: They really are.
- 23:11Speaker 4: No, life.
- 23:12Speaker 2: Life keeps moving old back.
- 23:14Speaker 1: I thought I had skipped it, and now all the
- 23:16Speaker 1: 40-year-olds are having babies. Hopefully I can say, well, you
- 23:20Speaker 1: know what? At least they can't say that I will
- 23:25Speaker 1: not be sure about it.
- 23:27Speaker 2: You know? Because when you're 30, they're like, oh, well,
- 23:29Speaker 2: you never know. Like, I'm 40.
- 23:31Speaker 4: I know.
- 23:32Speaker 3: And you can be settled and raise this baby right
- 23:35Speaker 3: and take care of the baby.
- 23:36Speaker 2: Yes, for whoever wants to do that. I'm not doing that.
- 23:38Speaker 2: I got kids. I got, you know my nieces and nephews.
- 23:41Speaker 2: Those are my children.
- 23:42Speaker 4: Joy, you really don't want to have any kids?
- 23:44Speaker 2: I don't want kids, Michael.
- 23:47Speaker 3: Speaking of old, do you not worry about that when
- 23:52Speaker 3: you're really old?
- 23:54Speaker 1: Well, I have no intention on getting, like, That old
- 23:57Speaker 1: that someone has to take.
- 23:58Speaker 2: Care of me.
- 23:59Speaker 4: You have no ability to control that.
- 24:02Speaker 2: Yes, I do. I am not going to be... Listen, I.
- 24:07Speaker 1: Will take the slow train... To paradise, okay? Before I
- 24:11Speaker 1: am laid up with having a nurse and all.
- 24:14Speaker 3: People say that when we're here.
- 24:19Speaker 2: I live kind of like you, Michael Doe. I do
- 24:21Speaker 2: a lot, all right? I do a lot. I do
- 24:25Speaker 2: a lot. I have lived my life. I am not.
- 24:28Speaker 1: I will never be accused of not making choices, okay?
- 24:31Speaker 2: I have done things. I don't want to do that.
- 24:34Speaker 2: And I have a bank account.
- 24:36Speaker 1: Like, if I need somebody to come, you know... Give
- 24:39Speaker 1: me a little sponge bath or something. I'll be probably
- 24:42Speaker 1: using the same people everybody else using. Just because you
- 24:44Speaker 1: have kids does not mean that they're going to take
- 24:45Speaker 1: care of you when you're older. I help take care
- 24:47Speaker 1: of my mother.
- 24:48Speaker 2: She's fine. She's 72. She's moving around great.
- 24:51Speaker 1: But I take care of my mother. But everybody's just
- 24:54Speaker 1: because you have kids does not mean you have someone
- 24:55Speaker 1: to take care of you. And as you know, I
- 24:57Speaker 1: have a massive family. So I'll get a big house
- 25:02Speaker 1: on a beach, get some fresh air.
- 25:04Speaker 2: And then when it's time, it's time. I'm not really
- 25:06Speaker 2: worried about that.
- 25:08Speaker 3: I'm just saying, Joy. I love... Do you have pets?
- 25:14Speaker 4: No. So who do you come home to?
- 25:18Speaker 2: Peace and solitude.
- 25:20Speaker 4: Quiet. Joy. Come on, Joy.
- 25:23Speaker 2: No stress.
- 25:24Speaker 4: You don't have.
- 25:26Speaker 1: No one's son out in the streets stressing me out?
- 25:29Speaker 4: Yeah. Now, I'm going to tell you something.
- 25:31Speaker 3: Having pets is great because my pups, when I come home,
- 25:34Speaker 3: they just want to be around you. They don't They're
- 25:37Speaker 3: not waiting to dump all of their problems on you. Now,
- 25:41Speaker 3: coming home to people is different because they're waiting to
- 25:46Speaker 3: dump all of their problems on you as soon as
- 25:48Speaker 3: you walk in the door. And that part I do love,
- 25:51Speaker 3: coming home with my pups and not the peeps.
- 25:54Speaker 2: Pups over peeps?
- 25:56Speaker 1: I mean, you have been taking care of people for
- 25:59Speaker 1: a very, very long time.
- 26:00Speaker 4: That's what my mom put on me.
- 26:03Speaker 2: Yeah, when you were 17.
- 26:05Speaker 4: Just a young kid. Right.
- 26:07Speaker 3: And even, you know, and I've been messing around. I
- 26:09Speaker 3: said that the other day on somewhere, you know, I
- 26:11Speaker 3: got seven homes. I just got some of these Negroes
- 26:14Speaker 3: in them all and taking care of everybody.
- 26:17Speaker 4: I wasn't lying. Everything I said was totally true. Right.
- 26:20Speaker 3: But you know, and then one of my sisters kind
- 26:23Speaker 3: of got taken it the wrong way. So I had
- 26:24Speaker 3: to go and visit her. I said, baby, listen, you
- 26:27Speaker 3: got to understand the business change. I'm not on a
- 26:29Speaker 3: desk like this anymore. It's, You got people wanting you
- 26:33Speaker 3: to deliver stories in a little bit different way now.
- 26:36Speaker 3: You can deliver the stories. And I had to say
- 26:38Speaker 3: to her, I said, let me ask you something. Have
- 26:40Speaker 3: I ever come here and said, well, y'all got to
- 26:43Speaker 3: start paying bills around here. So, you know. When I
- 26:48Speaker 3: was saying that out there, I'm bringing me down. I'm
- 26:50Speaker 3: not trying to put you guys down. I'm letting people
- 26:52Speaker 3: know that everybody, no matter who you are, got the
- 26:56Speaker 3: same problems. Family is waiting and trying. Family is there
- 27:00Speaker 3: for everybody. That's why God made family bonded by blood.
- 27:04Speaker 3: Because he knew if you can cut him off, you would.
- 27:07Speaker 2: Oh, I'm a family cutter, Robert. I'm for sure. There
- 27:12Speaker 2: are a lot.
- 27:13Speaker 4: Of family members.
- 27:13Speaker 3: But if everything gets cut off in you and you
- 27:16Speaker 3: need help, you're going to have to come back to
- 27:18Speaker 3: this blood.
- 27:19Speaker 2: Yeah, and I take care of my family. I'm in
- 27:22Speaker 2: a similar boat.
- 27:25Speaker 3: And.
- 27:26Speaker 2: for, for different reasons.
- 27:28Speaker 1: And yeah, like it says what, that's what you're, you're
- 27:30Speaker 1: supposed to do now as a, as a woman, I
- 27:33Speaker 1: don't know, you know, the traditional, uh, as you said,
- 27:36Speaker 1: the divine order of things. But that doesn't matter to me.
- 27:41Speaker 1: It's who makes it. And then you pay it back.
- 27:44Speaker 2: Or you're paying it sideways and your brothers and sisters
- 27:47Speaker 2: or whoever it is. That's not the point.
- 27:50Speaker 1: But yeah, if you're a provider, then you're a provider.
- 27:52Speaker 2: That's what you got to do.
- 27:53Speaker 3: And to whom much is given, much will be required.
- 27:56Speaker 3: And I've been given much. So I don't mind the
- 28:01Speaker 3: responsibility I have. And I'm fortunate enough that I can
- 28:06Speaker 3: take care of my peeps and still I have a
- 28:08Speaker 3: few dollars to spend.
- 28:10Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying?
- 28:11Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 28:12Speaker 4: I'm still working out, you know?
- 28:14Speaker 3: So, so it works out and I'm happy with it. I,
- 28:17Speaker 3: I do believe like you talked, like, like there's certain things,
- 28:20Speaker 3: this is how I, I, I'm blessed enough to have
- 28:23Speaker 3: won a lot of championships, but ultimately Joe, I can't
- 28:27Speaker 3: put that shit on the table when it's time to
- 28:30Speaker 3: go before God.
- 28:31Speaker 4: I'm saying, all right, here, here, what, what did you do, Michael?
- 28:35Speaker 4: And I'm starting to throw in the.
- 28:36Speaker 3: Bodies and, Heisman and national championship trophies on the table.
- 28:42Speaker 4: What is this?
- 28:43Speaker 3: Get in the elevator and press down. You know what
- 28:45Speaker 3: I'm saying? But, but I, Hey, I'm throwing all of
- 28:49Speaker 3: them Negroes on the table. When God asked, what did
- 28:52Speaker 3: you ask? I said, I've been taking care of all
- 28:53Speaker 3: of these forever. What do you mean? I'm putting them
- 28:56Speaker 3: on the table. But Linda Fletcher, that's why I have
- 28:59Speaker 3: to do things like that. I want to put that
- 29:01Speaker 3: on the table.
- 29:02Speaker 4: Yeah, she's amazing.
- 29:03Speaker 3: When I see a Jesse Holly and an Andrew Hawkins
- 29:07Speaker 3: on ESPN, I'm putting them on the table because I
- 29:10Speaker 3: put them back in the league.
- 29:11Speaker 4: You know, stuff like that.
- 29:13Speaker 3: That's what I want to make sure I'm accumulating enough
- 29:16Speaker 3: of to put on the table in front of God
- 29:19Speaker 3: when I leave time and go to eternity.
- 29:21Speaker 2: Well, you are a very generous person, though.
- 29:24Speaker 1: You're generous of your money, but you're generous of spirit
- 29:30Speaker 1: and time as well.
- 29:31Speaker 4: Yeah. And I want to be.
- 29:33Speaker 2: I think that's naturally who you are, though.
- 29:34Speaker 1: If it wasn't naturally who you are, you wouldn't do
- 29:37Speaker 1: those things because it would feel like work.
- 29:40Speaker 4: To you.
- 29:40Speaker 1: Like, you show up for people. I mean, you've shown
- 29:43Speaker 1: up for me multiple times. You are there with, like,
- 29:48Speaker 1: even just what you're doing with the canes. Like, people
- 29:50Speaker 1: may see that as a self-serving thing, but it's absolutely not.
- 29:54Speaker 2: Like, you have.
- 29:56Speaker 1: work you do. You have people you take care of.
- 29:58Speaker 1: You have people that you love that you want to
- 30:00Speaker 1: spend time with. Every single choice you make time-wise is
- 30:03Speaker 1: taking away from something else. That's how time works. You
- 30:06Speaker 1: can't be in two places at once. So there's a
- 30:09Speaker 1: give and take for all that, and you are a giver.
- 30:12Speaker 3: Yes, and listen, and I'm telling you, even people, and
- 30:16Speaker 3: you're right, people do think, what is he doing?
- 30:19Speaker 4: Are you joking?
- 30:20Speaker 3: You see, about being on the sideline with Miami, which
- 30:23Speaker 3: we will be during the games, people don't, they're not
- 30:29Speaker 3: there when I come back every year for Paradise Camp,
- 30:34Speaker 3: when these kids are for Legends Camps. So we see
- 30:37Speaker 3: all of these kids In the 6th, 7th, 8th grade,
- 30:40Speaker 3: we go and coach them. And then we get them
- 30:42Speaker 3: again when they come up a little bit older, get 8th, 9th,
- 30:45Speaker 3: 10th grade, we're coaching them. So then they decide to
- 30:48Speaker 3: come to Miami. And I'm like, dude, we've been out
- 30:51Speaker 3: here working with these kids in the dark before they
- 30:55Speaker 3: turned this light on. So you know what I mean?
- 30:57Speaker 3: I know you guys think it's about just being self-serving.
- 31:01Speaker 3: But Coach would tell you, anytime we have those Paradise Camps,
- 31:05Speaker 3: Legends Camps, I'm showing up every time. I'm showing up
- 31:08Speaker 3: every time because the you was the cocoon that turned
- 31:13Speaker 3: me from that little worm into the butterfly. You know
- 31:18Speaker 3: what I mean? I should always pay homage to that cocoon.
- 31:22Speaker 1: Well, who or what pours back into you?
- 31:27Speaker 4: The people. And you have to join.
- 31:29Speaker 3: This is a great question because you have to have
- 31:31Speaker 3: people that you look up to and people that you
- 31:34Speaker 3: trust enough to pour into you. You know, um, Bishop
- 31:38Speaker 3: Jakes is my guider. He's my spiritual father. Even when
- 31:45Speaker 3: I'm not talking to him, because he's very busy, I
- 31:50Speaker 3: still live by everything that he and I have shared.
- 31:53Speaker 3: When I first got saved, I traveled with Bishop as
- 31:57Speaker 3: an armor bearer. Bishop wanted to make sure that I
- 32:00Speaker 3: was hooked in and locked in and make sure I
- 32:05Speaker 3: was engrafted in it. And we used to travel, which
- 32:09Speaker 3: was great. And we would play games on the road.
- 32:12Speaker 3: Like he would say a stop sign. And he wanted
- 32:19Speaker 3: me to riff a quick few minutes on the stop sign.
- 32:22Speaker 3: You know, don't let anybody put a stop sign in
- 32:26Speaker 3: front of you when it's time to go see the Lord. Oh,
- 32:29Speaker 3: we would start playing with it, just messing with it. Since,
- 32:32Speaker 3: you know, I was in broadcasting and he's in the preachers.
- 32:36Speaker 3: So he taught me so much, man.
- 32:40Speaker 4: I thank God for him.
- 32:41Speaker 3: I remember when I retired, and the greatest advice he
- 32:45Speaker 3: gave me, he.
- 32:45Speaker 4: Said, son, just work your way back into the house.
- 32:50Speaker 4: My ego jumped. What?
- 32:52Speaker 3: I'm talking about I pay all the bills. I got
- 32:54Speaker 3: to work my way back into the house, you know.
- 32:57Speaker 3: That's where you would go with it. And he said, basically.
- 33:03Speaker 3: I said, just because you don't have any quarterbacks to
- 33:05Speaker 3: fight anymore, let's not go home and start fights.
- 33:10Speaker 4: So he said, the.
- 33:11Speaker 3: House has been running fine for the last 20 years
- 33:14Speaker 3: while you've been on the road working. Don't try to
- 33:17Speaker 3: come back. And all of a sudden started making all
- 33:20Speaker 3: the decisions.
- 33:21Speaker 4: And it's brilliant.
- 33:23Speaker 3: Look at the divorce rate. Look at the problems people
- 33:25Speaker 3: go through right after they retire. He's going through stuff
- 33:29Speaker 3: because he's trying to find who he is. And then
- 33:31Speaker 3: She may be going through menopause or whatever. And sooner
- 33:35Speaker 3: or later, you end up in divorce. Things like that
- 33:38Speaker 3: really help with walking life.
- 33:41Speaker 2: What was that transition for you leaving the game?
- 33:45Speaker 1: Because it is a real, it's an identity shock to
- 33:50Speaker 1: retire from, especially if you've played a long time and
- 33:53Speaker 1: at a high level, you know, you're never going to
- 33:55Speaker 1: be the man in the arena again.
- 33:57Speaker 4: Never.
- 33:58Speaker 3: And there's nothing, there's nothing to match it. I don't
- 34:01Speaker 3: care what you say. You can try to come close
- 34:05Speaker 3: with it. There's nothing to match walking out on a
- 34:08Speaker 3: football field with 52 guys and we're coming to impose
- 34:14Speaker 3: our will. And we are locked in together. You know,
- 34:20Speaker 3: and especially like the run Miami had last year where
- 34:22Speaker 3: every stadium you walk in, nobody gives you a chance.
- 34:26Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 34:26Speaker 4: And you walk in, you leave your mark, and you
- 34:30Speaker 4: walk out.
- 34:31Speaker 3: For a man, there is no greater thing that you
- 34:36Speaker 3: can feel or accomplish to me than that.
- 34:40Speaker 4: And I know people are like, what happened, baby? That's great.
- 34:43Speaker 3: It's great seeing it come on out, you know, when
- 34:46Speaker 3: it gets here, but— It ain't as great. There's no
- 34:50Speaker 3: greater feeling than walking in here, 53 down, 10 toes down,
- 34:57Speaker 3: about to whoop your tail.
- 34:58Speaker 4: And, yeah, I would always yearn for that.
- 35:03Speaker 2: So how did you transition out of that?
- 35:06Speaker 3: Trying to find other ways to win. Honestly, victory was victory. Like, okay,
- 35:12Speaker 3: I'm a pound over what I was playing weight. Hey,
- 35:16Speaker 3: that's a victory. When I see all these other mother
- 35:18Speaker 3: brothers looking as big and old as grandmothers, I'm like, damn, dude,
- 35:24Speaker 3: you don't think people remember what you look like?
- 35:26Speaker 4: You were scoring touchdowns.
- 35:27Speaker 3: Now you look like you blocking for the people to
- 35:29Speaker 3: score touchdowns, you know? So that, you know, it always
- 35:34Speaker 3: mattered to me. I'm going to fight the good fight
- 35:36Speaker 3: all the way around to win. But I love what
- 35:40Speaker 3: God has done.
- 35:40Speaker 2: See, I see.
- 35:42Speaker 3: These platforms we have as a ministry, you know, I
- 35:45Speaker 3: can use the great game to help people.
- 35:50Speaker 4: We love football. We watch it.
- 35:52Speaker 3: And football has all the great traits that are most
- 35:55Speaker 3: important for success in life. You know, I always, like,
- 36:00Speaker 3: you can't have success by yourself in football. You can
- 36:06Speaker 3: do it in basketball. Somebody can get a rebound and
- 36:08Speaker 3: then go score by himself. In baseball, somebody can hit
- 36:11Speaker 3: a home run by himself. In golf, they can drop
- 36:14Speaker 3: a putt all by themselves. See, you can't do that
- 36:16Speaker 3: in football. You can't do anything all by yourself. And really,
- 36:19Speaker 3: all of the institutions that are important to us in life, corporations, organizations,
- 36:24Speaker 3: and most importantly, family, you got to do with other people.
- 36:28Speaker 3: So that's why the great game is so great for
- 36:32Speaker 3: the game of life.
- 36:34Speaker 1: Who was your biggest mentor? That, like, kept you out of, well,
- 36:40Speaker 1: not out of trouble.
- 36:41Speaker 4: Right. You know what? They've always been coaches. They've always been.
- 36:47Speaker 3: Like, when I got kicked out of public schools, Coach
- 36:50Speaker 3: Smith came and got me out in the streets to
- 36:52Speaker 3: bring me to St.
- 36:52Speaker 4: Thomas, you know.
- 36:54Speaker 3: And then all of a sudden I got Coach Smith,
- 36:57Speaker 3: and he took good care of me. And then he
- 36:59Speaker 3: passed me. He literally went and met with Coach Johnson
- 37:02Speaker 3: and said, listen, I just lost my father. He said,
- 37:06Speaker 3: you know. He needs some stability. He needs to know
- 37:10Speaker 3: you're going to be there. And the first day I
- 37:13Speaker 3: get into Miami, I'm getting in a fight. And Coach
- 37:15Speaker 3: Johnson has to call me in and say, son, listen,
- 37:18Speaker 3: you know, I'm going to stay with you now, but
- 37:21Speaker 3: we can't be fighting our teammates, you know. A couple
- 37:23Speaker 3: weeks later, I break another teammate's jaw. Buddy, I'm going
- 37:26Speaker 3: to stay with.
- 37:26Speaker 4: You, buddy.
- 37:27Speaker 3: Don't make it hard on me. Why don't you get
- 37:29Speaker 3: in fights? Because I was, you know, I'm trying to
- 37:33Speaker 3: make my way. I just left the ghetto. And I
- 37:37Speaker 3: was trying to let guys know I'm not here to
- 37:40Speaker 3: play these games. I got a lot of brothers and
- 37:42Speaker 3: sisters hungry back home. I got to get in here,
- 37:45Speaker 3: get some touchdowns. By the way, not judging.
- 37:48Speaker 2: I have been in a fight or two on my own.
- 37:50Speaker 2: But you're just like, you're just a happy guy.
- 37:54Speaker 3: I'm a happy guy. I'm a happy guy. But I'm this,
- 37:59Speaker 3: you know what I've learned? I'm this happy. But right
- 38:03Speaker 3: on the other side, right on the other side can
- 38:05Speaker 3: be an issue. And this is true, too. Now, you
- 38:09Speaker 3: got to study this and learn. If your mom is
- 38:12Speaker 3: pressured or stressed in her third trimester, and I'm not
- 38:15Speaker 3: 15th or 17th years. Trust me, she was pressured or stressed.
- 38:19Speaker 3: Your brain develops differently. Like the fight or flight stage,
- 38:24Speaker 3: the reptilian stage, mammalian, my brain's a little bigger. My
- 38:28Speaker 3: reasoning box is a little smaller. I'm more apt to
- 38:31Speaker 3: fight than reason. This is a true study. I'm more
- 38:34Speaker 3: apt to fight than reason. Now that works great for
- 38:37Speaker 3: me on the football field.
- 38:41Speaker 4: Ready to fight right now.
- 38:43Speaker 3: But when I'm just driving down the street and somebody
- 38:46Speaker 3: cuts in front of me.
- 38:47Speaker 2: That's not useful.
- 38:49Speaker 3: And now I'm, pull over, I'll whoop your butt. Now
- 38:54Speaker 3: it's a whole different thing. And it tells you, it
- 38:57Speaker 3: tells you, knowing you're like this, it's, 75 80 percent
- 39:02Speaker 3: of beating it you know so now if i'm driving
- 39:05Speaker 3: around and somebody cuts me off calm your black ass
- 39:09Speaker 3: down you ain't on the football field all.
- 39:12Speaker 4: Right buddy stop right there buddy and it go about
- 39:14Speaker 4: my business you know.
- 39:16Speaker 3: I had to figure this out especially when i said
- 39:19Speaker 3: i ain't got no more i retired like i don't
- 39:21Speaker 3: have any more touchdowns yeah to make it all right
- 39:25Speaker 3: again so you mess up you go score some touchdowns
- 39:28Speaker 3: you can make it all right again but once you retire,
- 39:31Speaker 3: you didn't have any more touchdowns to make it all right.
- 39:33Speaker 4: You got to go get it right.
- 39:35Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 39:36Speaker 2: Are we too hard on Jerry?
- 39:38Speaker 4: Yeah. We are? Jerry Jones?
- 39:41Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 39:41Speaker 4: Oh, hell to the yeah. Oh, hell to the yeah.
- 39:46Speaker 4: We're hard on him because.
- 39:48Speaker 3: Not just that, not because you're looking at one element
- 39:51Speaker 3: of what he does is what I mean. We look
- 39:54Speaker 3: at the one side, which is what does the Dallas
- 39:58Speaker 3: Cowboys do? We don't ever, we don't ever give him
- 40:03Speaker 3: proper respect and proper love for what he has done
- 40:07Speaker 3: for the NFL.
- 40:08Speaker 2: Oh, I mean, I think from a marketing and like
- 40:10Speaker 2: business perspective, he is.
- 40:14Speaker 1: Probably the most influential owner ever. I mean, he's part
- 40:18Speaker 1: of the reason why everyone is multi-multi-multi-millionaires and other owners
- 40:23Speaker 1: are multi-billionaires and are selling these teams for what they're
- 40:27Speaker 1: selling them for.
- 40:27Speaker 4: You know, but how often do you hear people say it?
- 40:31Speaker 2: Well, that's boring.
- 40:32Speaker 4: I know, I know.
- 40:35Speaker 2: We know how boring that is, but fans are going
- 40:38Speaker 2: to be like, but he closed it. And they don't care.
- 40:40Speaker 4: And they don't care because they're.
- 40:42Speaker 2: Not making any money off of that. You are making
- 40:45Speaker 2: money off of it.
- 40:45Speaker 1: In some kind of weird way, I'm making money off
- 40:48Speaker 1: of it because it's grown the sport, which grows the
- 40:51Speaker 1: media coverage and grows the rights.
- 40:53Speaker 3: Correct.
- 40:53Speaker 2: He's making money off of it and the other owners are.
- 40:55Speaker 1: So the business of the sport owes.
- 40:58Speaker 2: Jerry a tremendous amount.
- 41:01Speaker 1: I think, I guess I ask because I think a
- 41:04Speaker 1: lot about.
- 41:06Speaker 2: the.
- 41:06Speaker 1: Legacy of some people that have had major influence over
- 41:11Speaker 1: decades of time in our space. Like someone like a
- 41:15Speaker 1: Dolly Parton who obviously had an incredible influence.
- 41:19Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 41:20Speaker 1: Just beyond a legend, just like an incredibly influential person
- 41:25Speaker 1: and people that we, you know, think of as immortal are,
- 41:29Speaker 1: you know, not going to be with us forever. And
- 41:32Speaker 1: I think about someone like Jerry, who has had a
- 41:34Speaker 1: lot of success, but also, you know, has influenced a
- 41:38Speaker 1: lot of different people, you being one of them. And,
- 41:43Speaker 1: you know, has obviously had a relationship with Jimmy, someone
- 41:45Speaker 1: that we both love. And I do wonder, like, you know,
- 41:49Speaker 1: what will that legacy be?
- 41:51Speaker 3: And you know what, talking about Dolly, I saw the
- 41:54Speaker 3: other day where somebody vandalized her star.
- 41:58Speaker 4: Like, you know, what....
- 42:04Speaker 3: Dolly Parton was this perfect of a person, the greatest
- 42:08Speaker 3: person you would ever run into, ever encounter. I love
- 42:12Speaker 3: her mannerism, her spirit, everything. What she did, what she
- 42:17Speaker 3: talked about Whitney Houston doing her song, and then what
- 42:20Speaker 3: she did with all the money and everything. And yet, somebody, somebody,
- 42:29Speaker 3: that's the scary part. You can say, everybody loves her. Somebody,
- 42:34Speaker 3: I don't. That's where we are. You want to be like, dude, okay, dude.
- 42:40Speaker 3: And you did that proudly. Like, we should listen to
- 42:44Speaker 3: what you got to say. It blows my mind. It
- 42:46Speaker 3: blows my mind. My boy, Stephen A. I had dinner
- 42:49Speaker 3: with Stephen A a couple weeks ago. I posted a
- 42:53Speaker 3: pic dinner with my boy. You know how people tore
- 42:58Speaker 3: into me? Michael, man, listen to me. I'm done with you, Michael.
- 43:01Speaker 3: I can't believe you took a picture with me.
- 43:03Speaker 4: Dude, I've known this dude for 35 years. You heard
- 43:06Speaker 4: one little snippet of a comment about him.
- 43:08Speaker 3: Now you want me to let your opinion override my
- 43:11Speaker 3: opinion of him.
- 43:13Speaker 4: Think about that. Think about that. Think about what you're
- 43:17Speaker 4: saying and then just unfollow me.
- 43:20Speaker 1: Meanwhile, you talking about Free My Cousin, who... Has actually
- 43:25Speaker 1: committed something that deserves to be in jail.
- 43:28Speaker 3: And that's the mentality we deal in when we talk
- 43:32Speaker 3: about personal preference. So I let the results do the
- 43:36Speaker 3: thing for me. I don't take people's opinion of what
- 43:39Speaker 3: people are. Let me see what the results are.
- 43:43Speaker 1: No, and I think that's I think that's an important
- 43:46Speaker 1: way to move, especially these days where everyone you know,
- 43:50Speaker 1: I don't really think canceling is a real thing, but
- 43:53Speaker 1: everyone's going to have their day in the sun, so
- 43:55Speaker 1: to speak. Like that is just that's what people hunt for.
- 43:58Speaker 1: It's it's the way that the world is. We build
- 44:01Speaker 1: people up to tear them down. We want to make
- 44:03Speaker 1: sure we tear people down before we allow them to
- 44:06Speaker 1: rise again. Nobody can just be on an Ascension and
- 44:09Speaker 1: stay up there. Like you have the rare ones of,
- 44:12Speaker 1: you know, like a Dolly, but even her, as you mentioned,
- 44:15Speaker 1: now someone's.
- 44:17Speaker 2: Facing her star.
- 44:18Speaker 1: Like there's just, we cannot allow, it is like the
- 44:22Speaker 1: nature of humans to not allow people to be great.
- 44:25Speaker 1: And we're all going to make mistakes.
- 44:28Speaker 2: We're all going to have missteps. We're all going to
- 44:30Speaker 2: have things we do wrong.
- 44:31Speaker 1: But we don't have the grace it feels like anymore
- 44:36Speaker 1: to allow people to overcome those things.
- 44:38Speaker 2: And part of it is social media, right?
- 44:40Speaker 1: Like if you guys played and everything that happened when
- 44:43Speaker 1: you were playing happened now, it would be in a
- 44:46Speaker 1: completely different.
- 44:49Speaker 2: Conversation.
- 44:49Speaker 1: I mean, I grew up and like pre-internet, when I
- 44:56Speaker 1: was in college, social media wasn't even that big of
- 44:58Speaker 1: a thing.
- 44:59Speaker 2: I'm so grateful that I was of the.
- 45:01Speaker 1: Last generation where I could just go out and not
- 45:03Speaker 1: have to worry about somebody taking a video of me
- 45:05Speaker 1: while I was out having a good time.
- 45:06Speaker 4: Yeah, but now, but I thought about that. And you
- 45:10Speaker 4: know what? I'm glad this thing is where it is
- 45:14Speaker 4: right now.
- 45:15Speaker 3: Because when I got caught in the hotel room, everybody
- 45:18Speaker 3: was acting like I was the only one out there
- 45:20Speaker 3: doing that kind of stuff.
- 45:21Speaker 4: Now we know everybody's doing it because social media is
- 45:25Speaker 4: out here.
- 45:26Speaker 3: When I had the White House, everybody made me the
- 45:29Speaker 3: worst devil in the world.
- 45:31Speaker 4: Now they got Love Island, everybody doing it. The same thing.
- 45:35Speaker 4: The White House wasn't anything.
- 45:36Speaker 3: It was just an early Love Island. That's all we
- 45:40Speaker 3: were doing. Same thing they're doing on Love Island. So
- 45:42Speaker 3: now it's all good. That's the one thing I will
- 45:45Speaker 3: say about today's world now.
- 45:48Speaker 4: I said this.
- 45:49Speaker 3: Wait a minute. Maybe God was blessing me. Let me
- 45:53Speaker 3: get in trouble back then. You can't bring no new
- 45:57Speaker 3: shit up on me now. So whatever. You know what
- 46:00Speaker 3: I mean.
- 46:01Speaker 4: It's good. It's all locked up now.
- 46:03Speaker 3: Not everybody else is sitting here walking around on pins
- 46:06Speaker 3: and needles because of any accusations.
- 46:09Speaker 4: But I've been dealing with them for a while now.
- 46:10Speaker 2: You've weathered the storm?
- 46:13Speaker 4: I know. I'm like what they call, I'm on the
- 46:16Speaker 4: other side.
- 46:24Speaker 3: So i'm okay now we got it out now right
- 46:29Speaker 3: you know you can't write nothing you ain't already written
- 46:32Speaker 3: about me so i'm okay.
- 46:34Speaker 1: With yeah that's a good point so the white house
- 46:37Speaker 1: is just love island you guys were just ahead of
- 46:39Speaker 1: you were ahead of your time.
- 46:39Speaker 3: That's all it was you know and i didn't make
- 46:42Speaker 3: your money off it they cost me.
- 46:44Speaker 4: Money with mine but they're gonna make money with theirs you.
- 46:47Speaker 2: Know you were ahead of your time That's all.
- 46:49Speaker 4: That's all.
- 46:50Speaker 3: And I really thought it was brilliant. I don't know,
- 46:53Speaker 3: you know, people say, Mike, what were you doing? That's
- 46:55Speaker 3: why when Jerry asked, Mike, what the hell are you doing?
- 46:59Speaker 3: What were you guys thinking? I told him, I said, boss,
- 47:02Speaker 3: we were trying to do the wrong thing the right way,
- 47:04Speaker 3: you know. But because it was the wrong thing, we
- 47:08Speaker 3: understood that. But we were, you know, I thought it
- 47:11Speaker 3: was a good place to have, you know, team camaraderie. Mm-hmm.
- 47:16Speaker 3: You're spending $ 400, $ 500, $ 600 on a hotel room a night.
- 47:20Speaker 3: If you just throw that in the pot for the month,
- 47:23Speaker 3: you got 30 rooms, 30 nights. You ain't got to
- 47:27Speaker 3: put that.
- 47:28Speaker 2: You were doing the math?
- 47:29Speaker 3: Yeah, it was a brilliant plan until the police showed up.
- 47:35Speaker 3: Brilliant plan. It was a brilliant plan. We got to
- 47:38Speaker 3: talk plays and talk about playing. You know what I mean?
- 47:42Speaker 3: It was fun.
- 47:43Speaker 4: It was fun. The results are three Super Bowls.
- 47:48Speaker 3: You know what?
- 47:49Speaker 4: However you want to chalk that up.
- 47:51Speaker 2: You know what?
- 47:52Speaker 3: I guarantee you if Dallas, if the police walked in there,
- 47:55Speaker 3: they ain't won in 30 years. If they walked in
- 47:57Speaker 3: today and saw me doing that, I'd say, we're sorry.
- 48:00Speaker 3: Finish doing what you're doing. Just get back to Super
- 48:01Speaker 3: Bowl and shut that door. This is the wrong house.
- 48:04Speaker 1: This is the wrong house. What do you think about
- 48:07Speaker 1: all the NIL money now?
- 48:09Speaker 3: But I love it for families. I really do. And
- 48:13Speaker 3: that's another thing. Like, you know, think about that. I
- 48:16Speaker 3: don't think people think about it. Like, you get Linda here.
- 48:19Speaker 3: You got moms. All the moms now are with their
- 48:23Speaker 3: kids in college. You see, these moms move with their
- 48:27Speaker 3: kids in college now. We got to sit off. You know,
- 48:31Speaker 3: our moms couldn't come. They just couldn't come. They were
- 48:34Speaker 3: home working while we were working a scholarship trying to
- 48:38Speaker 3: go make some money. Now you get NIL, you got
- 48:41Speaker 3: NIL money, you can move your mom with you, which
- 48:45Speaker 3: helps you be more mature and handle things correctly. That's
- 48:48Speaker 3: what I love about this team now with Miami. Look
- 48:52Speaker 3: at Mark Fletcher. You look at Malachi Toney. Dude, listen, Joy,
- 48:57Speaker 3: you see these young men. These are literally good players.
- 49:01Speaker 3: people yeah these are great people they're great i'm like
- 49:05Speaker 3: man i think our old dirty miami stuff taints these
- 49:10Speaker 3: good people you you we we did some dirty miami
- 49:14Speaker 3: stuff these are good.
- 49:15Speaker 2: You guys were the most hated.
- 49:17Speaker 4: Yeah we were the most hated.
- 49:18Speaker 2: You guys didn't work because that still carries over to today.
- 49:21Speaker 4: You're right. Right, right. And that's what I'm saying. We
- 49:24Speaker 4: got to get this dirt off these great dudes.
- 49:27Speaker 1: No, no, no.
- 49:27Speaker 2: I think it's good. I think it's good.
- 49:29Speaker 4: I'm talking about off the field. I want them to
- 49:31Speaker 4: play the way they play on the field. But you
- 49:33Speaker 4: know what?
- 49:34Speaker 1: It's fine because it's not off the field. So let
- 49:36Speaker 1: them be villains. Let them talk their shit.
- 49:39Speaker 4: Because they're not villains off the field. It's just the
- 49:41Speaker 4: way people perceive it.
- 49:42Speaker 2: Let them keep that little chip on their shoulder about it.
- 49:43Speaker 4: Right, right. And I like that. You're right. I like that.
- 49:46Speaker 3: Somebody asked me the other day, like, how hurt were
- 49:49Speaker 3: you not winning this championship?
- 49:51Speaker 4: Yeah, I was hurt. I was hurt.
- 49:53Speaker 3: But through that process, we saw something. Like, we always
- 49:57Speaker 3: tell Miami, it's us against the world. Y'all got to understand,
- 49:59Speaker 3: it's us against the world. But like I just said,
- 50:01Speaker 3: these are good kids. They'll be like, why would the
- 50:04Speaker 3: world be against us? You see, it's just because you
- 50:08Speaker 3: put that U on the side of your helmet. They
- 50:11Speaker 3: tried to keep you out last year. They're already trying
- 50:14Speaker 3: to make sure Notre Dame get back in. We're going
- 50:16Speaker 3: to have to go through all of that.
- 50:17Speaker 2: It was going to have to be a riot if
- 50:19Speaker 2: they did that.
- 50:20Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah. And then look where– but that brought us
- 50:23Speaker 4: all together. Yeah.
- 50:24Speaker 3: That team came together and made that hell of a run.
- 50:28Speaker 3: And now this year I think we see– what, what,
- 50:31Speaker 3: what materialized from all of that.
- 50:33Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 50:34Speaker 1: And you know, listen, I always get argued down by
- 50:36Speaker 1: athletes about this, but I would prefer to have a
- 50:39Speaker 1: chance at the end of the game than to get
- 50:42Speaker 1: blown out. Cause at least we knew we were supposed
- 50:44Speaker 1: to be there. I don't want to show up to
- 50:45Speaker 1: a game and get ran off the field.
- 50:47Speaker 2: That's embarrassing.
- 50:48Speaker 4: Right.
- 50:49Speaker 1: I would rather have played, gave a great performance to
- 50:53Speaker 1: the fans, something memorable. And listen, somebody got to lose
- 50:55Speaker 1: and somebody got to win. And then this time it
- 50:57Speaker 1: wasn't our night, but we had a chance at the
- 50:58Speaker 1: end and that's all you can ask for.
- 51:00Speaker 3: It's a two or three play game. It really did
- 51:03Speaker 3: come down to a two or three play game.
- 51:05Speaker 4: I don't know how. You miss a field goal and
- 51:09Speaker 4: you get a plump ball.
- 51:10Speaker 3: You know, in that last throw, he throws that a
- 51:13Speaker 3: little sooner, a little bit farther, different results, you know.
- 51:17Speaker 3: But I was just proud of the guys, man, and
- 51:19Speaker 3: I'm looking forward to seeing what happens this year.
- 51:23Speaker 2: What do you have coming up? What are you working
- 51:25Speaker 2: on this year?
- 51:26Speaker 3: Man, I got so many great things that we're working on.
- 51:29Speaker 3: Of course, you know, I'll still be doing my White
- 51:32Speaker 3: House show.
- 51:33Speaker 1: Yes.
- 51:33Speaker 3: And then I'll do all the Netflix games, you know, pregame.
- 51:37Speaker 3: We'll do the game in Australia.
- 51:38Speaker 2: Our girl MJ is going to be with you.
- 51:39Speaker 4: MJ will be there, yeah, and Elle. Those are my girls.
- 51:42Speaker 3: And then we, last week, we were with Nick Foles
- 51:48Speaker 3: and Clay Matthews. They'll be on the set with me,
- 51:50Speaker 3: and it's their first time, you know. So that was great.
- 51:53Speaker 3: We were at NBC, and we got a chance to,
- 51:56Speaker 3: you know, do some rehearsals. And I couldn't help but
- 52:00Speaker 3: think about when I was with them, you know, I
- 52:03Speaker 3: remember being that age, going to ESPN, you know, and
- 52:09Speaker 3: I was going to be working with Chris Berman and
- 52:11Speaker 3: Tom Jackson. And it was incredible. And I remember worrying,
- 52:18Speaker 3: and the guys and Chris Berman always said, Mike, Mike, Mike, Mike.
- 52:21Speaker 4: Mike, Mike, Mike, it's football. Don't worry about it.
- 52:25Speaker 3: If you mess up, it's on its way to Pluto.
- 52:28Speaker 3: Just keep talking football, you know? And then, and now,
- 52:32Speaker 3: I got Nick, and I got Clay, and these are
- 52:34Speaker 3: my boys. I love Clay. I used to call him Bloodline.
- 52:37Speaker 3: Dion and I would call him Bloodline because his whole
- 52:39Speaker 3: family is just a bloodline of real bad dogs, great players. So,
- 52:45Speaker 3: you know, I was Tom Jackson and Chris Berman. You know,
- 52:49Speaker 3: I realized that, like, wow, this is literally the cycle,
- 52:53Speaker 3: the circle of life I have. In the same way
- 52:56Speaker 3: those guys would help me, it was great to be
- 52:58Speaker 3: around trying to throw a little help to the guys, man,
- 53:01Speaker 3: and they appreciate it.
- 53:02Speaker 4: We got a great, great team, so I'm looking forward
- 53:05Speaker 4: to it.
- 53:05Speaker 2: Yeah, that's exactly how you felt when you found out
- 53:07Speaker 2: you were working with Troy Taylor.
- 53:09Speaker 4: Yes. Yes, I did, Joy. Yes, I did, Joy. Yes,
- 53:12Speaker 4: I did, over at Fox. The same as Chris Berman. Now, listen, man.
- 53:17Speaker 3: I'm telling you, you were making your way. You were
- 53:20Speaker 3: climbing and moving, girl. You were doing your.
- 53:22Speaker 4: Thing over there.
- 53:23Speaker 2: Thank you. We had a great time.
- 53:25Speaker 1: We had a time on that last version of Speak
- 53:29Speaker 1: With Me, you, Paul, and Key. It was like a
- 53:33Speaker 1: real locker room. Like, in all the positive ways. Like,
- 53:37Speaker 1: we were playing music in the breaks.
- 53:39Speaker 4: Yeah, we were. Music before the show.
- 53:41Speaker 1: Everything was light. Paul was always eating some food on set.
- 53:45Speaker 4: Paul was a funny dude.
- 53:47Speaker 1: And it was like what television is supposed to be
- 53:50Speaker 1: when you're talking about sports.
- 53:51Speaker 2: No one, there was no egos.
- 53:53Speaker 3: We really did not have any. And you know what?
- 53:55Speaker 3: That was the fun part.
- 53:56Speaker 2: And a great crew.
- 53:57Speaker 4: And the fun part.
- 53:59Speaker 3: And Kia and I, since we had such great history
- 54:01Speaker 3: and everything, man, it was... It's been fun. But think
- 54:05Speaker 3: about that. We spent, man, I was thinking how blessed
- 54:10Speaker 3: we are. Like I've had a great TV career here.
- 54:15Speaker 3: I've had two careers. I was just looking for one,
- 54:18Speaker 3: a great NFL career. But this thing has been incredible.
- 54:22Speaker 3: And now we get to do it all over again.
- 54:24Speaker 3: And I just love the way the game is growing. Man,
- 54:27Speaker 3: we're going to Australia to do a game. I went
- 54:30Speaker 3: to Australia, I don't know.
- 54:32Speaker 2: 15, 20 years ago.
- 54:34Speaker 3: Russell Crowe brought me over. Russell Crowe owns the Rabbit O's.
- 54:41Speaker 3: It's an Australian rugby football team. The genesis of our
- 54:45Speaker 3: game is rugby. So I went over and spent some
- 54:49Speaker 3: time with him, and it was great. And they were
- 54:53Speaker 3: looking for the NFL back then. And this was a
- 54:57Speaker 3: long time ago. They were looking for the NFL. This
- 54:59Speaker 3: was the gladiator time. Russell Crowe was the baddest man
- 55:03Speaker 3: in the world.
- 55:03Speaker 4: That was the time. That's my favorite movie.
- 55:05Speaker 2: That's not one of my favorite movies. That's your favorite movie?
- 55:06Speaker 4: Oh, my God.
- 55:07Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, that's your favorite movie.
- 55:08Speaker 4: That's such a great movie, man. Of course.
- 55:10Speaker 3: That's such a great movie. And he put me at
- 55:12Speaker 3: Coffs Harbor. He has a house in Coffs Harbor. And
- 55:14Speaker 3: he said, Michael, you know, take the house. You're good.
- 55:17Speaker 3: Keys and cars, whatever you want. And, yeah, I had
- 55:21Speaker 3: a great time. And I wanted to go out and
- 55:22Speaker 3: see people. The little devil showed up on my shoulder.
- 55:25Speaker 3: You know, I got in the car and went looking
- 55:27Speaker 3: for bars, driving on the wrong side of the road.
- 55:30Speaker 3: But they were football fans then. And I'm telling you,
- 55:34Speaker 3: that was 15 years ago. So imagine how excited they
- 55:37Speaker 3: are now to finally be getting a football game in Australia.
- 55:41Speaker 4: So I'm excited about that.
- 55:42Speaker 2: Do you like the international games?
- 55:44Speaker 4: I love them. I love them.
- 55:46Speaker 1: Well, like not for you to go to.
- 55:49Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 55:50Speaker 2: We like to frolic in every country. Is it hard
- 55:54Speaker 2: for the players, though?
- 55:55Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 55:56Speaker 4: Yeah, no doubt.
- 55:57Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 55:57Speaker 4: No doubt. But here again. This reminds me of some
- 56:03Speaker 4: of the nonsense that people push to get to Jerry Jones.
- 56:12Speaker 4: Perfect example.
- 56:13Speaker 3: So I get players going, and I hear them complain,
- 56:16Speaker 3: talking about, well, you know, at practice, man, we got
- 56:19Speaker 3: people that's always having tours. You got to wave at people.
- 56:23Speaker 3: I'm like, are you joking? Yeah.
- 56:25Speaker 2: Are you shitting me?
- 56:27Speaker 1: So at the Cowboys facility, they have like these tours
- 56:31Speaker 1: that go through and you can see inside like the
- 56:33Speaker 1: weight room.
- 56:35Speaker 2: Right, the weight room? Right, right, right. And the players
- 56:37Speaker 2: don't like sometimes that people can see them lifting.
- 56:39Speaker 4: Right.
- 56:41Speaker 3: And they wave like, hi. And you got to wave back.
- 56:44Speaker 3: And they're playing about this. I'm like, dude, dude, dude, dude.
- 56:46Speaker 3: Do you understand what Jerry has done? See, these practice
- 56:50Speaker 3: facilities used to be on what they called D property.
- 56:52Speaker 3: I remember Jerry drawing all of this up in the
- 56:55Speaker 3: room long before it started to happen. On D properties
- 56:59Speaker 3: when you're grading them. And that means they were lost leaders.
- 57:02Speaker 3: You made no money with them. You made nothing. So
- 57:06Speaker 3: it was just cost. When you put them in better properties,
- 57:11Speaker 3: like maybe a B property, and you own all the property,
- 57:14Speaker 3: and now you're putting offices around it, now you created
- 57:18Speaker 3: a revenue stream with your practice facility.
- 57:22Speaker 4: That's how we got....
- 57:24Speaker 3: That's how we got the number from when I'm making $ 6, $ 7,
- 57:28Speaker 3: $ 8 million a year to these jokers making $ 50, $ 60
- 57:33Speaker 3: million a year. And you damn complaining because you got
- 57:37Speaker 3: to wave? Well, let's stop you from waving and take
- 57:40Speaker 3: you back to the $ 7 and.
- 57:41Speaker 4: $ 8 million. I'd rather wave and take home the $ 60.
- 57:44Speaker 4: Stop doing dumb stuff like that.
- 57:46Speaker 3: And see, people perpetuate that and put that on Jerry
- 57:50Speaker 3: like he doing something wrong without talking about, oh, the
- 57:53Speaker 3: number went from Michael 7, 8 million to Dak 60,
- 57:57Speaker 3: and all you had to do was wave.
- 57:59Speaker 4: Shut your ass up and wave. And be quiet.
- 58:02Speaker 3: That's what I'm talking about. That's the stuff that messes
- 58:05Speaker 3: with me. That gives Jerry and says something bad when
- 58:10Speaker 3: it really is something great. I wish Jimmy would have
- 58:14Speaker 3: let Jerry do what Jerry needed to do and Jimmy
- 58:17Speaker 3: just keep doing what you needed to do. Imagine what
- 58:21Speaker 3: it all could have been.
- 58:22Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 58:22Speaker 4: If that would have been the case.
- 58:24Speaker 2: Well, yeah, Jimmy and Jimmy and Jerry breaking up was. Yeah,
- 58:31Speaker 2: that ended well. That ended a stretch of things that
- 58:34Speaker 2: could have been a lot different.
- 58:35Speaker 3: Right. But now that you see the results of what
- 58:38Speaker 3: Jerry was doing, and I understand Jimmy, he's not the
- 58:43Speaker 3: visionary and businessman that Jerry is. He's a visionary when
- 58:46Speaker 3: it comes to football. He was doing his part. He
- 58:49Speaker 3: just couldn't see what Jerry was doing. And I wish
- 58:52Speaker 3: they could have commingled forever.
- 58:53Speaker 2: Do you think there'll be another Jimmy Johnson?
- 58:56Speaker 4: No. I don't think so either. No. And that's not
- 59:00Speaker 4: a time. for another Jimmy Johnson. This is not the time.
- 59:05Speaker 1: Well, I think that the charm of Jimmy to me,
- 59:10Speaker 1: the brilliance of Jimmy to me, is that Jimmy could
- 59:14Speaker 1: take someone who is maybe a little bit of a troublemaker.
- 59:18Speaker 1: and bring the best out of them by earning their trust,
- 59:21Speaker 1: but also by having the ability to determine, okay, this
- 59:24Speaker 1: person might get in a little bit of trouble, but
- 59:27Speaker 1: this person isn't a bad person and is also not stupid.
- 59:32Speaker 2: And there's like this line.
- 59:35Speaker 1: Venn diagram of a player that is like, look, everybody's
- 59:39Speaker 1: not going to be on the straight and narrow.
- 59:41Speaker 2: Got it.
- 59:42Speaker 1: But if you're talented enough, maybe you're a little off
- 59:45Speaker 1: the rails a little bit, but you're also smart. You're
- 59:48Speaker 1: not a dummy.
- 59:50Speaker 4: You can't be.
- 59:51Speaker 2: off the rails and dumb. Like that's too many, there's
- 59:55Speaker 2: too many things.
- 59:55Speaker 3: Right. Cause you don't have even the ability. Why am
- 59:57Speaker 3: I talking to you? If you don't have the ability
- 59:59Speaker 3: to comprehend what we're talking about, then there's no way
- 1:00:03Speaker 3: I can correct the issue.
- 1:00:06Speaker 2: You don't have the capacity to understand that. Okay.
- 1:00:09Speaker 1: There's studies that say I am 70% more likely to be,
- 1:00:14Speaker 1: you know, fight over flight. And then therefore I need
- 1:00:17Speaker 1: to regulate my nervous system and regulate my self-control and
- 1:00:21Speaker 1: my emotional discipline so that I can make it. I
- 1:00:25Speaker 1: still need to keep this here, but use this to
- 1:00:27Speaker 1: be successful. Like if you ain't even understand what I'm saying,
- 1:00:29Speaker 1: I'm using words that are.
- 1:00:30Speaker 2: Too big for you. Like this, it don't matter.
- 1:00:32Speaker 4: How talented you are. And you're right.
- 1:00:33Speaker 3: And because also Jimmy is going to push you to
- 1:00:37Speaker 3: bring the best out of you.
- 1:00:39Speaker 4: At all times.
- 1:00:40Speaker 3: And that's the part that I think when I say
- 1:00:42Speaker 3: it'll never be another, it's because I don't know.
- 1:00:45Speaker 4: If they'll let it be another.
- 1:00:47Speaker 3: If Jimmy said to someone today, asthma, get on the
- 1:00:52Speaker 3: asthma field.
- 1:00:53Speaker 4: Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, boy, hey, you're going to jail.
- 1:00:57Speaker 3: Hey, when they come in, when they rush in with,
- 1:01:01Speaker 3: you know all of these things we have to monitor.
- 1:01:06Speaker 3: You didn't respect mental health? You didn't respect me. All
- 1:01:11Speaker 3: the things that we have to deal with now would
- 1:01:14Speaker 3: be an issue. You know, they'll be like, Jimmy's trying
- 1:01:17Speaker 3: to hurt people. You got to take them out of
- 1:01:18Speaker 3: the league. You know, that kind of stuff. So that's
- 1:01:20Speaker 3: why I said it'd be tough because Jimmy was hard.
- 1:01:23Speaker 3: Jimmy coached hard. And he brought the best out of you.
- 1:01:26Speaker 3: And I don't know.
- 1:01:27Speaker 2: Yeah, his camps were notorious.
- 1:01:28Speaker 4: Yeah, they were real camps. We're going through real camps.
- 1:01:32Speaker 4: And I love that, dude. I love that. I like
- 1:01:35Speaker 4: hard camps.
- 1:01:35Speaker 1: What is the one thing like old school that you
- 1:01:40Speaker 1: wish would come back?
- 1:01:41Speaker 2: Because I don't know that I can pick one.
- 1:01:43Speaker 1: I'm sort of a, I'm an old school at heart,
- 1:01:47Speaker 1: but I think that progress needs to be implemented. Like
- 1:01:51Speaker 1: I think once you get new information, you should use
- 1:01:54Speaker 1: that to improve. However, I do think there are some
- 1:01:56Speaker 1: old school things that once they go away, like once
- 1:02:00Speaker 1: those recipes are lost- You know, everything's sort of cooked.
- 1:02:04Speaker 1: Like to me, I have an old school soul for respect.
- 1:02:14Speaker 1: I don't have to respect you. You have to earn respect.
- 1:02:18Speaker 1: That has to be earned. And earning inherently requires time, energy, effort.
- 1:02:23Speaker 1: You can be as talented as you want to be
- 1:02:25Speaker 1: and show up and that's great. But you haven't earned
- 1:02:27Speaker 1: my respect yet. You've got to earn that.
- 1:02:30Speaker 4: That's interesting.
- 1:02:31Speaker 1: And there's like this idea that just because you've shown
- 1:02:34Speaker 1: up somewhere, just because you've gotten a job or you've
- 1:02:37Speaker 1: gotten a scholarship or you've gotten this opportunity or you've
- 1:02:40Speaker 1: gotten this show, that now everyone is to respect you.
- 1:02:43Speaker 2: The crew doesn't know who you are. They don't know
- 1:02:45Speaker 2: how you treat people.
- 1:02:47Speaker 1: Your coworkers have no idea what your work ethic is
- 1:02:49Speaker 1: or what your, what your style of leadership is.
- 1:02:52Speaker 2: Earn that shit.
- 1:02:53Speaker 1: It's not that much work and it pays dividends for
- 1:02:56Speaker 1: years to come.
- 1:02:57Speaker 2: Michael and I work together.
- 1:02:59Speaker 1: We've known each other for many, many, many, many years.
- 1:03:01Speaker 1: We know many people that have worked with each other.
- 1:03:03Speaker 1: But I don't expect Michael to just respect me just because,
- 1:03:06Speaker 1: he doesn't respect me as a person, like as a colleague,
- 1:03:09Speaker 1: but like, you don't have to respect my work just
- 1:03:11Speaker 1: because you've heard of it. You've got to see how
- 1:03:13Speaker 1: I work every day. You've got to see how I
- 1:03:15Speaker 1: work with you. You've got to see how I work
- 1:03:16Speaker 1: with the crew. I'm willing to put in the time
- 1:03:19Speaker 1: to get someone to respect me. It's not that much
- 1:03:20Speaker 1: to do.
- 1:03:21Speaker 3: Right. Now, this is interesting because as you're talking, I'm
- 1:03:25Speaker 3: thinking about this from this perspective now. It's respect or disrespect.
- 1:03:32Speaker 3: It's I respect you or I don't respect you, right?
- 1:03:35Speaker 3: But is there a place in between that? Like, okay,
- 1:03:40Speaker 3: maybe it's not that I don't respect you or I
- 1:03:44Speaker 3: respect you. It's I don't even know you to give
- 1:03:47Speaker 3: you that answer or to give you a let me go.
- 1:03:51Speaker 3: First see you move. Now, when you walk in the room,
- 1:03:53Speaker 3: am I supposed to respect, respect, respect, respect? No.
- 1:03:55Speaker 4: Am I supposed to don't respect? I don't respect.
- 1:03:59Speaker 3: There has to be, and this is this, there has
- 1:04:01Speaker 3: to be a place where I need.
- 1:04:04Speaker 4: Some, I got to determine if I'm going to respect
- 1:04:07Speaker 4: you or not.
- 1:04:08Speaker 3: So it's almost like, and I try to tell my people,
- 1:04:12Speaker 3: you know, there's a place between we can be pro-black
- 1:04:18Speaker 3: without being anti-white. There's a place, there's a place. We
- 1:04:22Speaker 3: don't always, I'm pro-black, that means I hate all, I'm anti,
- 1:04:25Speaker 3: you know what I mean? I respect, I don't, I just,
- 1:04:28Speaker 3: I don't know if I respect you. I gotta see
- 1:04:32Speaker 3: what you do, how you do, how you move, what
- 1:04:35Speaker 3: you move, then I'll make a determination. But we always
- 1:04:38Speaker 3: go right from respect or don't respect. And I just
- 1:04:42Speaker 3: think there's a place of determination let me determine.
- 1:04:45Speaker 1: If i yeah there's there's a gray area as well
- 1:04:48Speaker 1: for sure and that's but what i'm speaking to more
- 1:04:51Speaker 1: is like the polarity of of social media i think
- 1:04:54Speaker 1: is what you mean and just how people think and
- 1:04:56Speaker 1: talk now everything has to be this or that you're
- 1:04:58Speaker 1: either this or you're that there's always a box you're
- 1:05:00Speaker 1: this label or you're that label there's there's no nuance
- 1:05:03Speaker 1: in the world and we know that there is plenty
- 1:05:05Speaker 1: of nuance in the world there's plenty of people in
- 1:05:07Speaker 1: everything yeah then everything that we do but i think
- 1:05:10Speaker 1: for you know for me coming up um, in the
- 1:05:13Speaker 1: business coming up just in life there, I, I, nothing is,
- 1:05:18Speaker 1: is nothing is, uh, predetermined to be yours.
- 1:05:22Speaker 2: Nobody owes you anything.
- 1:05:24Speaker 1: And I think sometimes there is this like quick, okay,
- 1:05:27Speaker 1: everything's going to be quick.
- 1:05:28Speaker 2: Now you can go viral. You can get this quick.
- 1:05:30Speaker 1: Like that hard work and like the effort of everything
- 1:05:34Speaker 1: is like not necessary.
- 1:05:36Speaker 3: Right.
- 1:05:37Speaker 2: It's absolutely crazy to me.
- 1:05:38Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 1:05:39Speaker 3: And that's that, that you don't think that social media,
- 1:05:41Speaker 3: I mean, even Instagram, they want instant fame, instant everything where,
- 1:05:47Speaker 3: you know, I went the long route, you know, I
- 1:05:50Speaker 3: had to go through the work, you go to school
- 1:05:53Speaker 3: or to college, go to get in the league. Now,
- 1:05:56Speaker 3: you know, you see guys and you see people with
- 1:05:59Speaker 3: social media, get famous, get rich right now. So everybody
- 1:06:03Speaker 3: thinks that's, That's a possibility. And I don't mind it
- 1:06:06Speaker 3: being a possibility. The issue is when everybody comes and
- 1:06:10Speaker 3: that is the target. You know, if we land on that,
- 1:06:14Speaker 3: but we were aiming to do great things in life
- 1:06:17Speaker 3: and we land on the quick lick, that's great. But
- 1:06:21Speaker 3: expecting and looking for a quick.
- 1:06:24Speaker 4: Lick, that's different.
- 1:06:25Speaker 3: And I don't think that's a successful prescription.
- 1:06:30Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, and I think that also spills over into
- 1:06:33Speaker 1: sports now, and particularly NIL, because I am so absolutely pro-NIL.
- 1:06:39Speaker 1: I don't want to hear a single word about how.
- 1:06:42Speaker 2: They shouldn't be paid.
- 1:06:44Speaker 1: But... The value of being at a place like Miami
- 1:06:49Speaker 1: for your entire career, like in LSU for your entire career,
- 1:06:54Speaker 1: the alumni base, the former players, the community, like the
- 1:06:58Speaker 1: things are going to pour back into you because you've
- 1:07:01Speaker 1: chosen not to take a little bit more and go
- 1:07:04Speaker 1: somewhere else. That pays dividends in the long run. And
- 1:07:07Speaker 1: I think those are the type of things that I
- 1:07:09Speaker 1: think we're losing the recipes of.
- 1:07:11Speaker 4: Yes.
- 1:07:11Speaker 1: And you're seeing the results of the ones that don't
- 1:07:13Speaker 1: do that. Right.
- 1:07:15Speaker 3: And, you know, I love you doing the recipes because
- 1:07:17Speaker 3: that's so important. Because when I'm saying we're losing recipes,
- 1:07:20Speaker 3: I'm not just talking about food. And that's why I
- 1:07:23Speaker 3: love that you're picking it back up because we're talking
- 1:07:25Speaker 3: about the way it used to be, the way it
- 1:07:28Speaker 3: was supposed to be, how moms worked. I think about
- 1:07:34Speaker 3: my mom. I don't know how the hell she pulled
- 1:07:38Speaker 3: off what she pulled off. And especially when I'm listening
- 1:07:42Speaker 3: to ladies now and with all of this clancy thing
- 1:07:47Speaker 3: that is going on where everybody's almost like, I never
- 1:07:51Speaker 3: thought I'd get to this day. where we hear moms saying, yeah,
- 1:07:55Speaker 3: I thought about that, my kid.
- 1:07:56Speaker 4: You know what I mean? And you think about it.
- 1:07:58Speaker 4: You're not even thinking about it. You know. Do you know?
- 1:08:01Speaker 3: And this I realized when I was doing all that
- 1:08:04Speaker 3: White House stuff is, you know, I was like, let's
- 1:08:07Speaker 3: just get this out the way so, you know, my
- 1:08:10Speaker 3: kids are young. They won't ever know about it. And
- 1:08:14Speaker 3: I thought, so wait a minute. They wouldn't know about it.
- 1:08:18Speaker 4: Because it's not like when I was growing up. Right.
- 1:08:21Speaker 3: I don't know what my dad did because they didn't
- 1:08:24Speaker 3: have computers.
- 1:08:26Speaker 4: There was no record. And they weren't writing it down
- 1:08:27Speaker 4: in the encyclopedia.
- 1:08:29Speaker 3: And so even if I did, which I did learn
- 1:08:32Speaker 3: the Dewey Decimal System, I still can't go find anything
- 1:08:35Speaker 3: on him. But now anything you do, they're just going
- 1:08:39Speaker 3: to punch your name in and everything comes up. So
- 1:08:42Speaker 3: things are way different now. Way different.
- 1:08:45Speaker 1: Well, thank you so much for coming and hanging with
- 1:08:47Speaker 1: me at Too Personal. I had a great time on
- 1:08:50Speaker 1: The White House. You can go check out me and
- 1:08:53Speaker 1: Michael's episode on The White House.
- 1:08:56Speaker 4: You know what you're doing. You know how to route it.
- 1:09:00Speaker 2: I've done it a few times.
- 1:09:02Speaker 1: Follow Michael, Michael Irvin, 88, the White House with Michael Irvin,
- 1:09:06Speaker 1: Playmaker Production Group and Fetching Fletchers. We had Linda Fletcher on.
- 1:09:11Speaker 1: She's amazing. And you can follow her story as she
- 1:09:13Speaker 1: follows Fletcher. Mark Fletcher Jr. around for the Canes this season.
- 1:09:17Speaker 1: I'm so excited.
- 1:09:17Speaker 2: Football's back.
- 1:09:18Speaker 1: I'll be seeing lots of you at the games and
- 1:09:21Speaker 1: starting with Stanford.
- 1:09:23Speaker 2: And I love you.
- 1:09:24Speaker 4: I love you too, girl.
- 1:09:25Speaker 3: Keep doing your thing and keep standing strong and leading people.
- 1:09:30Speaker 3: And now you do know it's you're out front. You're
- 1:09:35Speaker 3: out front, and that's one thing Bishop would always say
- 1:09:37Speaker 3: to me. He says, you know the one that's out
- 1:09:39Speaker 3: front is going to take the brunt of the wind
- 1:09:41Speaker 3: because you're paving a new way for those that come
- 1:09:45Speaker 3: after you.
- 1:09:46Speaker 4: Stay out front. Keep paving.
- 1:09:48Speaker 2: Can I get a windbreaker or something, though? Can I
- 1:09:50Speaker 2: get a.
- 1:09:51Speaker 4: I get an umbrella. Help you break some of that wind.
- 1:09:53Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying? Knock it down a little bit.
- 1:09:55Speaker 3: So it ain't knocking you right in the head like that.
- 1:09:59Speaker 4: But it is what it is, Joy.
- 1:10:00Speaker 3: And that's what you got to remember sometimes when you're
- 1:10:02Speaker 3: running out there all by yourself and you're not really
- 1:10:05Speaker 3: by yourself. You know, God got you out there. He's
- 1:10:08Speaker 3: watching you. But when out front, it's going to take
- 1:10:11Speaker 3: the brunt.
- 1:10:11Speaker 4: Of the wind.
- 1:10:12Speaker 2: I got it. I got a big back, as they say.
- 1:10:16Speaker 4: That's a hell of a statement right there. I'm going
- 1:10:18Speaker 4: to let that one lie. I'm going to let that
- 1:10:21Speaker 4: one drop.
- 1:10:21Speaker 2: That is too personal.
- 1:10:23Speaker 4: We'll let that go.