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- 0:00I'm Holly Wehment, and this is Pediatrics Now, cases, updates,
- 0:05and discussions for the busy pediatric practitioner.
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- 0:30I'm really excited about our topic today. We're talking about what can we learn
- 0:36in medicine about customer service from the Vice President of Customer Service for PayPal and Venmo.
- 0:43And joining me here on the podcast today is Matthew Anderson.
- 0:50Hi, Holly. Thank you for having me today. Thank you so much for being here, Matthew. you.
- 0:54PayPal and Venmo are the same company? We are indeed, yes. Venmo is one of our many products.
- 1:00And if you're not a current PayPal or Venmo user, I would invite you to come on board.
- 1:04So you have a long career. You have a lot of experience in banking.
- 1:08Is that where you developed this passion for customer service?
- 1:12Yeah. In fact, my first job out of college to earn some money as I was going
- 1:18on to pursue some higher education was I took a phone service job,
- 1:23actually, for a very small startup organization.
- 1:26It was my first time on the phones.
- 1:28From there, I went and did some process re-engineering and marketing, etc.
- 1:33But I always had this kind of callback to the customer we always say is our
- 1:37most important asset and our most important kind of part of all of our businesses.
- 1:41And so I was drawn to how can I continue to help them?
- 1:45So whether it was my time with General Electric, with American Express,
- 1:48with Citibank, and then now with PayPal, have always been drawn to how do we
- 1:53just take care of customers and help them get on to do the things that they want to do?
- 1:58What's their most important part of their day? How do we get them on to do those
- 2:01things instead of having to call and worry about talking to us?
- 2:04You've been managing large-scale global service centers focused on taking care of customers?
- 2:09Yes, for the past now 20 plus years. I won't give a definitive day, but 20 plus years. Yes.
- 2:16Anywhere from teams from a couple hundred now up to 12,000 or so people around the globe.
- 2:23So in medicine, a phone call is the first touch point. You have some really
- 2:29great principles that you recommend that we could all learn from.
- 2:35The four principles that I look at and that we try to share with my team is
- 2:40we always talk about these kind of four critical components.
- 2:43So the first one is know me. And what I mean by that is our customer is a human
- 2:48being at the other end of any contact.
- 2:51No customer of mine wakes up in the morning and says to themselves,
- 2:55gee, I want to call customer service.
- 2:57I really want to talk to my banker. I want to talk to my financial representative.
- 3:01They're calling because there's a need, there's a drive, there's something that
- 3:04is broken or something that they don't understand.
- 3:07And so recognizing that there's a human being on the other end of that contact,
- 3:12that they want to go see a movie or read a book or go on a jog or take a nap,
- 3:19something other than contact you is kind of a critical component.
- 3:23In addition to understanding that their time is valuable, also that they have
- 3:29needs and desires and concerns.
- 3:31And the more that we can humanize that contact and understanding that it's a
- 3:35person and that they are valuable to us and their time is valuable just kind
- 3:39of sets the tonality for any of our service experiences.
- 3:42And how do we best do that? I was calling a dental office to reschedule because
- 3:47my daughter was sick and just the person on the other end of line just kind
- 3:53of went forward to just rescheduling.
- 3:55And I think that she was, she was very sick and had a fever.
- 3:58And then it was like, okay, how about next Wednesday?
- 4:02And it just felt a little cold.
- 4:05Yeah. So we often refer to those as transactional activities within,
- 4:10especially within the businesses that I have worked for.
- 4:13I can list off the top of my head, as I'm sure many of your listeners can,
- 4:17if they needed to contact a bank, what types of things would they contact a
- 4:20bank or their financial institution about.
- 4:23And if we were to ponder those, we could probably come up with 10 or 15,
- 4:26maybe 20 of those that would be the top contact types that anyone calls us for.
- 4:30And so our teammates, that's what we refer to as our telephone agents, my teammates.
- 4:36Are pretty expert at those types of things as soon as they know they know what
- 4:39transactional activities to undertake to get them out and get them through the
- 4:44process that becomes a problem.
- 4:48Because we look at it if you if we're not careful as a transactional activity
- 4:53versus what i tried to train with my teams which is a relationship activity
- 4:58again after that first principle know me know that I have value,
- 5:03know that my time is important.
- 5:04Then we get into the second premise, which is understand my problem.
- 5:08And as we think about that, it's really trying to understand not only what the
- 5:12customer is asking for, but why are they asking? How does this affect the things that they're doing?
- 5:17So in the example of you and your child trying to reschedule the appointment,
- 5:21to the person on the other end of the phone call, that was a transaction.
- 5:24They literally needed to, I'm sure, go into their scheduling system,
- 5:28click a button, move an appointment, unclick a button or click another button,
- 5:32confirm it, and then send the
- 5:33SMS message or text message out to you to remind you of the appointment.
- 5:37But to you, you're a concerned parent who's got an ailing child,
- 5:42who you are desperate to get them in to see the dentist or whatever they need to get in for.
- 5:48But you also have this sick person in your household that you are caring for.
- 5:52So transitioning that from a transactional activity into a relationship.
- 5:57And by the way, these don't have to take a lot of time, but that's what we try
- 6:00to infuse in our teammates and our agents globally to be able to take that time
- 6:04and understand and really help people feel connected.
- 6:07Seems like it would make the person who's leading the call, answering the call,
- 6:11it would feel better to do that.
- 6:14Oh, yeah. In fact, in my world, time is money.
- 6:17We often try to manage as quickly as we can, helping people navigate through the system.
- 6:23Obviously, if you think of my business like the grocery store line,
- 6:27by the time someone gets in line and they're ready to be serviced,
- 6:30we want to get them through our process as efficiently as possible.
- 6:32So we have all kinds of metrics that help us manage that efficiency.
- 6:36So relationship building in that space does not need to take a lot of time.
- 6:41What it does require, though, is some investment.
- 6:44That being said, what we found is the more that you can do that,
- 6:48actually, the quicker things go.
- 6:50And I've actually got a quick example in my own life in regards to a health
- 6:54care experience that I had. One of the local hospitals is...
- 6:58And you're a father of five. Yes, I am a father of five.
- 7:01So hospital visits are not our favorite because when we have to take one of
- 7:05our children down, we've got to think of all the things you have to worry about
- 7:08taking someone to the hospital.
- 7:11Making sure the other kids are where they need to be, making sure that the right
- 7:14bags are packed with the right equipment and materials that we might need.
- 7:17I've got a daughter who's special needs, so that requires some additional thought
- 7:20about who's going to be where and how do we coordinate.
- 7:23And so getting to the facility in itself is a task, even before we walk in the
- 7:29hospital doors for care. And stress is high.
- 7:32Oh, my goodness, yes. By the time we're walking in the doors.
- 7:35It's a relief to be there, number one.
- 7:38And you gear up for the second round of stress that you're about to enter into
- 7:42as you go through admitting and sharing all the information about what's going
- 7:47on and trying to help diagnose and go through all that activity.
- 7:52So one series of stress has built, kind of abated, and another series of stress
- 7:56has now been introduced.
- 7:59This experience I'll share is actually a very positive one. As we walked into
- 8:02the hospital and went through and met with the nurse for the first time.
- 8:06The first nurse we actually interacted with was very transactional.
- 8:09She came in, had a quick conversation with us about, oh, what brings you here?
- 8:13And did some, you know, supplemental conversations about the weather or,
- 8:19oh, I'm sorry that you're here, but it felt very hollow.
- 8:22The second nurse, as she came in, as the shift changed, transitioned through,
- 8:25we ended up with our second care nurse. The dialogue was very different.
- 8:29It was the same type of, oh, I'm sorry that you are here. But the question that
- 8:33was asked is, I know that you are parents of this special needs person of my daughter.
- 8:39I'm here to help care for her needs and your needs.
- 8:45Is there anything that you would like me to know that would be helpful in what
- 8:50I can do in providing care?
- 8:53It's the same question as what can I do for you? But the difference is acknowledging
- 8:57that we are experts in caring for our special needs daughter.
- 9:02We know all the tricks. We know she's nonverbal. We know what her sounds mean
- 9:06and how they would affect.
- 9:09We know how she likes to be positioned when she sleeps. We know what toys that
- 9:13she likes. We know these things. We are experts in this field.
- 9:16And having this nurse just acknowledge that we were experts and having her say,
- 9:22I'm here to support you as you help support me transition the entire conversation
- 9:28away from a transactional interaction into a relationship interaction.
- 9:33And the first words out of my
- 9:34mouth were actually, yes, we need these two things if you could help us.
- 9:39And she came in and bingo, bingo, we were set up and had all that we need.
- 9:44And we were, the care for that day was exceptional. We loved it.
- 9:47It's really just acknowledging that the parents are there.
- 9:50They know what's going on. The child is there.
- 9:53They know what's going on in many cases, if not most cases, and really just
- 9:58understanding it's a person that's there because that's what they came for is understand my problem.
- 10:03That's the second principle is know me and then understand my problem.
- 10:07And once you get to that point, now you can go on with the other principles
- 10:11and work your way through the entire mantra.
- 10:13How do you instill when it's the 50th call that the person is in that day to
- 10:19really care? Yeah, so we have a statement that we live by, that I ask my team
- 10:25to live by, which is clear is kind.
- 10:28And anyone who's ever called customer service always hears that message at the
- 10:32beginning of the contact, right?
- 10:34This call may be recorded or monitored for quality purposes.
- 10:38We do take that seriously. Actually, we do actually listen to and quality control contacts.
- 10:43You do actually listen. Oh, absolutely. We live and breathe by that type of
- 10:48feedback of customers because that's the insight that as leadership we need
- 10:52to look at to say, how can we be better at helping people navigate through our systems?
- 10:58How can we train our frontline people to be more responsive,
- 11:02be more empathetic, be more relationship-based? How can we help speed up the
- 11:06process, help our teammates navigate the process more effectively and efficiently?
- 11:11So one of the things we do with Clear is Kind is we make sure that we actually
- 11:16are providing feedback.
- 11:18Many people shy away from feedback because they don't want to offend,
- 11:21they don't want to hurt other people's feelings, they feel as though it might not be their place.
- 11:25But I happen to believe very, very strongly that.
- 11:29Feedback is a gift. And I think coaching is a very critical component of that.
- 11:34I think of Olympic athletes like Michael Phelps, arguably the best swimmer the world has ever known.
- 11:40Michael Phelps has a coach and that coach watches what he does. He gives him feedback.
- 11:46He tells him what he's doing well. He tells him where he could have opportunities to improve.
- 11:51And so whether you print these mantras, whether you exercise them and pull them
- 11:56into your daily lives, we actually within my business, we take one of these a month.
- 12:00This is the way that we do it is my team knows them all, but we take one of them a month.
- 12:04And we actually have conversations about how are we focusing on building the
- 12:08relationship? How are we focusing on understanding the customer's problem?
- 12:12And then as we go through the last two, solving that problem and then deepening
- 12:16the relationship, which are the other two principles, for us,
- 12:19we take a month and we kind of focus on that as the theme.
- 12:21And we give each other feedback and we watch for opportunities in those cycles
- 12:25to help us improve and be better.
- 12:28Okay. So the first principle, know the person. We like to refer to it as know
- 12:34me. So we take it from a customer's lens.
- 12:37So the four principles are know me. Number two, understand my problem.
- 12:43Number three, resolve my problem. Number four is deepen the relationship.
- 12:48Are we ready to move on to the solve my problem? Absolutely. Certainly.
- 12:53We hear this a lot in medicine. If someone's asking about solving the problem,
- 12:58we all hear, and of course, we all have policies, like our policy,
- 13:02or that's not our policy.
- 13:04Is that something you recommend that is said to customers?
- 13:08Actually, in my business, those words are against policy.
- 13:13If I can use that terminology. No, we try to stray away from that.
- 13:18Customers don't care about your policy. They don't care about why they don't
- 13:22care about the thing that you are telling them no for.
- 13:24What they want to understand is what can be done.
- 13:28In my business, I refer to that as a service, also known as a service yes.
- 13:32And usually that word starts with a word like unfortunately,
- 13:35if you ever hear that in any service experience.
- 13:38Unfortunately, you're pretty much guaranteed that there's a policy that sits behind that principle.
- 13:44However, in my business, we do not allow our teammates to say That's against
- 13:48policy, therefore we can't.
- 13:50What we do instead is we redirect the customer to what we can do.
- 13:55So as an example, if you were to call up and want us to transfer money,
- 13:59for example, to an unknown customer.
- 14:02Our policy is not to do that for a thousand reasons.
- 14:06So instead of me saying, unfortunately, Holly, I can't do that for you. It's against policy.
- 14:12Instead, we look at it from the customer's perspective, which is, unfortunately, Holly,
- 14:16to protect you as well as to protect others, without authentication,
- 14:21we are unable to transfer funds between customers because we want to protect
- 14:27your funds in what you're sending,
- 14:30and what you're receiving to make sure that it is going to the right person.
- 14:35Now, in order for me to do that, here's what we can do for you to help guide
- 14:40you through how to get the thing that you are potentially wanting.
- 14:44An example of this in my own life is, as you mentioned, I am a father of five,
- 14:48and there have been many, many times where we have been escorted out of the
- 14:51hospital in a wheelchair.
- 14:53Well, I should say that differently. My wife has been escorted or wheeled out on a wheelchair.
- 14:58From a policy perspective, I'm smart enough to know that that is so that we
- 15:02can make sure that if there's an accident that befalls, if someone were to trip
- 15:07and fall, the hospital would be liable.
- 15:09My wife might stumble or medically something might be happening where she passes out.
- 15:15All kinds of horrible things could occur.
- 15:18Someone walking away with the wrong baby.
- 15:21Absolutely. Right. The most horrible things could occur. And so in one of our
- 15:25hospital stays, as we were walking out, my wife actually did say that she's fine walking out.
- 15:31And the nurse at the time said, oh, no, you are a new mother and we have a chariot
- 15:36that is awaiting for you.
- 15:38And we would like to parade you through our hospital halls like the princess
- 15:42that you are for giving birth to such a wonderful little person.
- 15:46Now, my wife had wanted to walk out. She wanted to walk out.
- 15:50And now you bet wanted to ride in that chariot, princess waving as she passed people.
- 15:58Putting our child in the sky like Mufasa does or like Rafiki does in The Lion
- 16:03King with Symba's birth, announcing to the animals of this wonderful arrival.
- 16:08So same activity, but not cornered in our policy is really it's here's why we
- 16:16can't with whatever we can share, because I don't want you also to,
- 16:19you know, betray competences, et cetera.
- 16:22But just reframing that just changes the whole paradigm about how people think
- 16:25about what you're telling them.
- 16:27It no longer becomes a no. It becomes a, oh, here's why and what we can do if
- 16:31you have a different answer you'd like.
- 16:34Wow. That is a beautiful example. Yeah.
- 16:37If we think about those relationship opportunities, people buy your products
- 16:42because of what it does and how it makes their life easier.
- 16:46That's how people interact with your products and your functionality.
- 16:49We refer to these moments where
- 16:51someone does find some particular point of friction as a moment of truth.
- 16:55That's kind of the phrase that we use in the service world. And these moments
- 16:59of truth are very rare and very few in between.
- 17:03And people talk about them, both good or ill. and
- 17:07so this is not only affects your interactions with
- 17:10the person themselves but how they feel about
- 17:13your broader business marketing implications it goes on
- 17:16and on and on and on and these effects of these activities reverberate through
- 17:19multiple areas of someone's purchasing life cycle you know so many pediatricians
- 17:25are really good at this but but find that almost it's like a magical moment
- 17:30It can turn something in that is the policy to do,
- 17:34but turn it into a childlike or something that families can relate to that could be pretty magical.
- 17:41I've had a similar experience with a cast removal, and the individual that was
- 17:46removing the cast actually turned to my son and said, this is kind of loud.
- 17:51Let's see if we can sing louder than this tool will be.
- 17:57And so my son geared up to sing his lungs out as this cast was removed.
- 18:02And it didn't change what the doctor had done. It didn't change any of the activities
- 18:05as to what was happening.
- 18:07But my son thought it was exceptionally funny that he was trying to sing louder
- 18:11than this vibrating implement was going.
- 18:15And it just turned it into a very different experience.
- 18:18I love that. That's just such a wonderful example.
- 18:22When you're talking about knowing the person in front of you,
- 18:27how important is saying the name and then what if...
- 18:31Especially with staff? It's not done as often because maybe they're afraid of
- 18:36getting the name wrong, which would be bad. Or do you have any advice there?
- 18:40Yeah. So what we have found is, if you look at the research,
- 18:44people do love to hear the sound of their own name. Absolutely.
- 18:48It is one, if I say, Holly, even the sound of your own name sparks something inside of you.
- 18:54And so I would say use it if you feel comfortable using it.
- 18:58I try to, in all of our customer service experiences. We try to make sure that
- 19:01we at least say it one time so that we can acknowledge or make sure there's that connection.
- 19:06And as you can imagine, since we are a global company, we are servicing in multiple
- 19:11languages across multiple countries, dealing with every name.
- 19:17Ethnicity, race, gender you can imagine.
- 19:20And there is no harm or foul in asking someone how to pronounce their name.
- 19:26In fact, we do it quite frequently where we can ask and say just in an honest
- 19:32approach, I'm unsure how to pronounce your name.
- 19:37Would you mind saying it for me one time so that I can get the proper pronunciation?
- 19:41Or you might say, I see your name is Holly. Have I said that correctly?
- 19:46And people will correct you if needed, and they will do so very kindly if you
- 19:50approach it from that same kindness or perspective.
- 19:53People with difficult names, especially where that name is not ubiquitous across
- 20:00the culture, or maybe it's very unique to them, they know what their name is
- 20:05and they deal with this all the time globally.
- 20:07So just face it up front. In this case, we are back to clear is kind.
- 20:13And by saying to someone, I'm unsure about how to approach this, do I have this right?
- 20:18Or would you mind saying it one time so I can get it the correct way?
- 20:22People will lean into that. They will gravitate towards and be very thankful
- 20:26that you took the opportunity.
- 20:27That's a great example. And in fact, you had an experience where your youngest
- 20:32daughter who has special needs needed a catheter.
- 20:36I'm happy to share that story. So we went in, my wife and I,
- 20:40if you recall what we said before about my five children, And whenever my darling
- 20:45daughter has to be admitted to the hospital for any reason, we have to,
- 20:49as a family, divide and conquer.
- 20:51And we then work in shifts and we're navigating children to various recreational
- 20:56activities and home and in bed for dinner and all the things that you need to do.
- 21:00So we had gone through one of these changes where my wife, I was taking the
- 21:05evening shift and my wife was going home to get some self-time and take a shower
- 21:12and all the things that she needed to do.
- 21:13So I walked in the room right after the shift change and the nurse came in and
- 21:19said, oh, we need to get a urine sample.
- 21:24And are you okay if we come in and do a cath? And I said, certainly not a problem.
- 21:29And so as I'm sitting there, six nurses descended up in the room and they then
- 21:36are getting the cath that they need done. And they are literally holding my
- 21:41daughter down. Who's wailing at the top of her lungs.
- 21:44This is, it's a terrifying experience. It's horrible. And I'm sitting there
- 21:47watching it going, oh my goodness, I hope this isn't how it always works.
- 21:51And they were able to get the cath done and get everything taken care of.
- 21:54And I'm now over soothing my daughter and finally get her calmed down.
- 21:57And we were finished for that particular event.
- 22:01And after about an hour or so, my wife calls and said, how are things going?
- 22:05I said, they're going great, except for we had to do this cath.
- 22:10That was nightmarish. And Shannon said, what?
- 22:13And I said, oh, yeah, they came in and took a cath. Then she said,
- 22:16well, why didn't you just do it? And I said, well, nobody asked.
- 22:20No one had taken the time to stop and say, hey, we need to take this urine sample.
- 22:28How do you guys usually do this at home? And my response would have been,
- 22:31oh, we straight cath Dylan all the time.
- 22:33And if you need me to cath her into a bag so we can get her measurements,
- 22:36happy to do that. We've been to the hospital multiple times.
- 22:38We know exactly what needs to happen.
- 22:40And it would have been a non-event. Now, the reason how this is so important
- 22:44is the next time that same nurse came in, Dylan had a reaction of,
- 22:50oh, my goodness, this is going to happen again.
- 22:52And it took us three or four nurse changes before Dylan got back to the,
- 22:58oh, they're not going to strap me back down again,
- 23:01trying to do this because dad and mom can do it with no impact at all.
- 23:08So had somebody just taken one minute
- 23:11to say hey here's what we need do you
- 23:14guys have you done this how is this normally done with your family
- 23:17we would have been able to answer and the response would
- 23:20have been oh no brainer okay do that thing i'll be back in two minutes make
- 23:23sure you captain this bag so i can get a measurement we'd say great done this
- 23:26a hundred times that's a great example of listening and also reading the room
- 23:34and really asking some more questions so that you can be clear, which is kind.
- 23:41Yeah. Again, know me, understand my problem and solve my problem.
- 23:46Let's solve the problem.
- 23:47I'm talking to Matthew Anderson here on Pediatrics Now.
- 23:51He's the vice president for customer service for PayPal and Venmo.
- 23:55And we're talking about what can we learn about customer service in medicine
- 24:00from the principles utilized by PayPal and Venmo.
- 24:05You're listening to Pediatrics Now, sponsored by CPAN, No Call Too Small,
- 24:10the Department of Pediatrics at UT Health San Antonio and University Hospital. We'll be right back.
- 24:20We're back now. I'm talking to Matthew Anderson, vice president for customer
- 24:23service for PayPal and Venmo.
- 24:26We're talking about the third principle, which is solving the problem.
- 24:32What else do we need to know about doing that? Because it can be so tough as
- 24:37we're trying to figure out how to solve the problem when that patient is in the exam room.
- 24:41Yeah, absolutely. All of our businesses do the same type of activity.
- 24:45I think in the medical profession, it is a little bit harder because there is,
- 24:49when we think about solving the problem,
- 24:52sometimes we think of that as the end state solution of whatever treatment strategy
- 24:58we've determined to undertake, or we think of the end game activity that we're taking.
- 25:03When my business with my teammates, when we think about solving the problem,
- 25:08it is from the moment we understand the problem, we look across the entire spectrum
- 25:14of, well, what were the drivers? What caused the issue?
- 25:18What do we need to do to resolve it?
- 25:20How do we get that taken care of? And we have to guide the customer in many
- 25:24instances through steps that they need to undertake.
- 25:27As an example, within the PayPal and Venmo sphere, one of our main product premises
- 25:33is that we protect our customers.
- 25:35That's protecting their data. That is protecting their funds.
- 25:39That is protecting their relationships, that is protecting their anonymity.
- 25:42It's all the protections that our products and services offer.
- 25:46So when a customer calls and says that they want to do something.
- 25:50Oftentimes we might need them to actually send us something or share some additional information.
- 25:55And as we walk someone through, it might be very easy for us to say,
- 25:59oh, simply take a copy of your driver's license and text it to this number.
- 26:04That's the transactional activity.
- 26:07The same action, if we to say, we need to validate your identity.
- 26:12We can do that through a couple of ways. If you have your driver's license and
- 26:17cell phone handy, we can do it through that mechanism.
- 26:19If that is not convenient for you, we do have other options available.
- 26:24And we're guiding the customer through the process. And sometimes it's through
- 26:28the diagnostic process.
- 26:29Sometimes it's through the activity process.
- 26:33And in the hospital setting, I can think of this in kind of an analogous way.
- 26:38Recognize that when we as hospital patients or patrons are in the hospital,
- 26:46the solution for us is not just the, we need to give this medicine to run its
- 26:51course so that we can then take labs again tomorrow to then evaluate whether
- 26:56or not you can be discharged.
- 26:58The problem that we're solving is, and I know your nursing staff knows this
- 27:02very well, we are working on your comfort. We are working on your care.
- 27:07We're working on making sure that the parents are also feeling well,
- 27:10that the patients are feeling well.
- 27:12The problem is not just the dose of medicine that needs to run its course.
- 27:16Solving the problem is helping the customer navigate the activities that need
- 27:20to occur and helping keeping them in the loop and bringing them along that journey.
- 27:26And in many cases it's helping them do it in a way that is convenient for them
- 27:30or can be convenient for your business if there's things that they can do to help.
- 27:35One example of that that we leverage in my family is whenever we go to the hospital
- 27:40now, we actually have a laminated sheet.
- 27:42We laminated it because we were using it so frequently of all of my daughter's
- 27:47medicines, all the things that she's allergic to, the precautions that we have
- 27:51on her, the surgeries by date that are listed.
- 27:55So whenever we get in with the doctor in that conversation, we can kind of hand them the cheat sheet.
- 28:00They glance over what that's there and say, okay, got it. Now I know.
- 28:04And we can start to talk. So we can, we just have found that for us,
- 28:07that's a way to navigate the solve my problem in a way that makes it easy for
- 28:11us and easy for the doctor.
- 28:13I'm not advertising that, you
- 28:15know, everybody needs to do that with their children's medical history.
- 28:18But for us, that is a way that we made it so that it's easy to not only solve
- 28:23the actual root cause of the problem, but all the surrounding stuff that does
- 28:27also inhabit the problem itself.
- 28:30As another example of this, when in my business,
- 28:33when a customer calls in and we initially take that phone contact or chat,
- 28:40whatever that issue is, my teammates go in and they try to rapidly not only
- 28:46know and understand who Holly is, what do we know about her?
- 28:50You know, she's obviously a working mom, has children, all the wonderful things about you.
- 28:56But we also then start to look at your account and say, what things might be
- 29:00happening in your environment that might be causing or be related to this problem
- 29:05that you're about to share with me?
- 29:07That's understanding the problem. And then when you start to share the actual
- 29:11problem itself, I can look and say, oh, in addition to the problem that you
- 29:15are sharing, there might be some adjacency here or some things that might not
- 29:20look related, but are related.
- 29:21And how can we work together to help you navigate through this activity as simply as possible?
- 29:28Because your time is valuable. Our time is valuable. And we want to make sure
- 29:32that you have the best experience that you can so that you can get on and do
- 29:35the things that matter most to you.
- 29:39How important is it to be on time? I know in medicine, it's a frenetic pace,
- 29:44and our pediatric practitioner listeners, a lot of them are seeing 40 patients a day.
- 29:51Obviously, we can't always be on time. They're doing so much and taking care of patients.
- 29:57But what do you advise there? And if you are running late, what should happen?
- 30:03Great question. So in my business, one of the ways that we try to keep everything
- 30:09moving, ultimately, you are absolutely right.
- 30:12Time is money for both of our businesses from just a fiduciary responsibility
- 30:17for running and managing a business.
- 30:20For our patients and customers, their time is important. Remember the Nomi principle.
- 30:25Their time is important as well. They've arranged things on a schedule to be
- 30:29there to the best of their ability. Now, I know that patients are going to run behind.
- 30:34But also life just gets in the way. And let's acknowledge that life does get
- 30:38in the way and we know that there's going to be some variability in those interactions.
- 30:42So for us as an example, in my world, we do have kind of target times that we
- 30:48would like all phone calls to kind of be resolved in.
- 30:51Where needed, we take more time where necessary.
- 30:54And oftentimes when we have an opportunity to end something early, we try to do so.
- 30:58But we do have a kind of set time. And I think that parallels well with what
- 31:01your pediatricians and other doctors are doing in their schedules as well.
- 31:05But there's a couple of things that we try to do to help, in our case,
- 31:11our teammates and our customers navigate that efficiently.
- 31:15Number one is we do try to stay on time, which I think is a central tenet that we all could agree upon.
- 31:21Number two, we also try to be transparent in what people can expect.
- 31:26So as an example, and you've probably had this happen to you before,
- 31:29when you phone a service center, They might tell you in advance,
- 31:33thank you for calling, your call is important to us, the next available agent
- 31:38should be with you in 3 minutes,
- 31:40or 60 seconds, or your wait time is 15 minutes.
- 31:44So setting that expectation up front helps
- 31:48the person adjust to what to expect if
- 31:51you don't say that in my world after 90 seconds after 90 seconds for each additional
- 31:5810 seconds that someone waits their ire their anger their angst builds every
- 32:0410 seconds so for us setting that expectation is a critical component, number one.
- 32:10Number two, inside the conversation, if we have a customer who might want to
- 32:16tell us a lengthy story or might be droning on about something that's not related,
- 32:20with the relationship care principles in mind, we do often remind our customers.
- 32:26Unfortunately, Holly, thank you for sharing this story with me so far.
- 32:31I've only got a minute or so left,
- 32:35that I can share with you in this context, I have a couple more questions.
- 32:40Can we jump to that? And setting that expectation within the conversation also helps.
- 32:45I've had this happen with doctors before in offices where the pediatrician has
- 32:50walked in and said, I'm sorry, we were running very late behind.
- 32:54It's so good to see you and your family again. I only have six minutes that
- 32:59I can spend with you today. I would love to spend more, but I'm unable to.
- 33:03What brings you in today?
- 33:05And just that acknowledgement that we are important, but there is some concern
- 33:11and some time constraints help us jump directly to the case.
- 33:15Now, will that solve all problems in every event? No.
- 33:18But setting that expectation up front with customers when they enter your facility
- 33:22and doctors or nurses setting that expectation with patients as to what is going
- 33:27to happen or needs to happen or can happen will also go a long way.
- 33:32And that way, I think you could trim off the ones that shouldn't be taking that
- 33:36much time, but unfortunately do, as well as the ones you could speed up.
- 33:40I would happen to love if my doctor came in and said, I got six minutes with
- 33:43you. Tell me what's busted. Fix it. Walk out the door.
- 33:46I'm not a big need a lot of chatter kind of guy. I'm there for a purpose. Get me in, get me out.
- 33:52What about when it seems like it's easy to say, well, she's busy with other
- 33:57patients or sorry, I was busy with other customers. But as the patient or customer,
- 34:02it doesn't really feel great.
- 34:04Like, OK, yes, but aren't I a customer, too?
- 34:08Kind of any advice there of what to like if you say that, add on to it and say
- 34:14something about the person in front of you and acknowledge how important it is that customer, too.
- 34:21If someone came in to me from the office staff and said, oh,
- 34:25the doctor is running behind today, it might be a few minutes.
- 34:28Suddenly now you've taken and said, basically, our process is inefficient,
- 34:33therefore you have to suffer.
- 34:34I don't like the way that that's positioned. A better positioning might be to
- 34:38say something like, as you know, we try to make sure that we provide the best care possible.
- 34:44Are right now our doctor is assisting someone else and taking a few extra minutes
- 34:51to help them navigate through a difficult problem or time.
- 34:54We know your time is important to us.
- 34:57We can spend the same amount of time making sure that you are cared for in the same way.
- 35:01Or you could also say, unfortunately, we are, again, setting the expectation.
- 35:09It's taking longer than we anticipated. you are
- 35:12critical to us are there things that we
- 35:14could do with you to help accelerate while you
- 35:17are here the process of getting you through and maybe that's filling out the
- 35:23form or gathering some information where you can or helping you get prepared
- 35:28whatever that case might be to help it make it so that it is not our process
- 35:33is failing but more hey we want to invest the right time in the right spaces.
- 35:38How can we help you get the benefit of that same activity or outcome?
- 35:43There's probably a very much more eloquent way to say those things,
- 35:46but that's the way that I would look to position it.
- 35:48Not that, hey, we're suffering, but hey, your time is important to us as well.
- 35:53We want to acknowledge that you are waiting.
- 35:55And how can we help you get through this process in a more efficient and effective
- 36:00way when it does become your turn to spend some time with us?
- 36:04How bad is it even so say it's on the phone
- 36:07or something so that even the person may not see it but for a team member to
- 36:13roll his or her eyes oh actually you cannot see that on the phone but after
- 36:19many years of that i can hear it i know that i know that it does happen,
- 36:25yeah that's that's an area where as human beings as you i'm sure you know our
- 36:32non-verbal cues are often more important than our verbal cues.
- 36:36And I think that that's the type of behavior that when I catch a teammate on
- 36:41my side doing it, that is a place where Claire is very kind,
- 36:45where we go in and we make sure that we correct that behavior.
- 36:48We exist to take care of customers. That's why we are in the fields that we
- 36:52have chosen to be in. That's why we're doing the things that we are doing.
- 36:56And the moment that we are able to undertake that responsibility seriously,
- 37:02that we are there to care for the people that we service.
- 37:06This is why I don't refer to my teammates, for example, as agents.
- 37:10Because that dehumanizes the agent. They are teammates.
- 37:14They are part of my team. If I could, I would answer every phone call of my
- 37:18customer and give them the most expert care that I could.
- 37:21I cannot answer that many phone calls in a day.
- 37:24So I need to find people that will provide the
- 37:27same level of care that I would want provided by
- 37:30me or that I would want provided to me
- 37:34by these individuals that i partner with to provide that service so in the office
- 37:40if i if i were to catch someone doing that yeah we have we we do hold people
- 37:45accountable to those types of activities and i would counsel people just to
- 37:49watch each other for that and if they do it inadvertently,
- 37:53or whatever the opposite of inadvertent would be vertically i don't know what
- 37:57that opposite would be but whatever they do that they that we would give that
- 38:02feedback to say please don't do that this mom is here.
- 38:06You don't know if she had to take off work to get here. You don't know if she's
- 38:10going through a messy divorce and this is painful for her to be here.
- 38:14We don't know if this is bringing back past issues or problems that she's been with.
- 38:19Have compassion with the human being that's at the other side of this transaction
- 38:23and help them feel welcome and appreciated and cared for.
- 38:26And when you're working side by side with people and you can share a frustration,
- 38:31that's one thing, but to roll eyes and, and how terrible also even worse if
- 38:37the patient sees that it just makes you feel awful.
- 38:40Oh yes. Do, do that. And by the way, I'm a big fan of, I'm a big fan of rolling eyes.
- 38:45I'm a big fan of snarky comments. I'm a big fan of all of those types of things,
- 38:51in the privacy of my own home with the, with the appropriate audience where
- 38:55I can share my personal frustrations as a human, not ever a frustration against an individual.
- 39:03And that to me is where the difference is. It's okay to be frustrated,
- 39:06but always remember, I always love when people are so angry and they say, oh, traffic is so bad.
- 39:13Always remember, you are not impacted by traffic. You are traffic.
- 39:20You are as much of the problem as everybody else is on the road.
- 39:24Right. That's a good point.
- 39:26So you're not in traffic. You are traffic.
- 39:30Bear that in mind. That's a really great point.
- 39:35One thing that I, there's so many things I love about the pediatric world and
- 39:39pediatricians are just in general so nice.
- 39:43And then it might be really hard to, if you see or hear about an employee doing something like that.
- 39:51Have that confrontation. But what I'm hearing is it's really worth it.
- 39:55Oh, absolutely. Think of the time, effort, and energy that you've culminated
- 40:00in getting that patient there, to have them be a patient, to want to come back
- 40:05and have that care. I will say this definitively.
- 40:08We have had pediatricians that we have invited to special family events.
- 40:13Birthday parties, church activities that we have gone to.
- 40:18We love the care professionals that have cared for us.
- 40:23And we consider them part of our broader, if you will, part of the inside family
- 40:28for the work that they've done in caring for our daughter especially.
- 40:31So I would hope that your pediatricians and staff know that there are nurses
- 40:37we know by name that we send cards to.
- 40:40And every time we go to a hospital, we take them brownies.
- 40:44And at Christmas, they brought us fudge. I mean, it's those types of relationships
- 40:48go an exceptionally long way.
- 40:49And I'm not saying that has to be with every care professional that's out there,
- 40:52but that's the impact that medical professionals have on people's lives.
- 40:57We're bringing probably the most important people in our lives to your hands
- 41:02to say, help me make this better.
- 41:06Help me care for this person that is the most important person to me.
- 41:09Help me. And I'm trusting you to do so. And when you look at it with that lens,
- 41:14rolling eyes then becomes almost insulting to you as an individual,
- 41:18because then it's about you and not about them.
- 41:21That's right. I think that that is really wonderful advice.
- 41:27And I think, Matthew, you have such a unique perspective with having five kids,
- 41:31a daughter with special needs, and being the vice president for customer service
- 41:35at PayPal and Venmo and having all of this.
- 41:38About a complaint being a golden opportunity.
- 41:44And I love the quote that,
- 41:47In medicine, we're often caring for people in their darkest, most vulnerable hour.
- 41:53So nowhere in the service industry is it more important to treat someone than
- 41:57kindness, love, and respect every step of the way. Absolutely.
- 42:03So do you have any advice on handling a complaint because it's easy to get defensive
- 42:09and also handling a conflict?
- 42:14A couple of principles that I try to introduce and we live by within our team,
- 42:19which is, to your point, complaints are a golden opportunity.
- 42:22And I always look at them as, in fact, on my teammates' desktop around the globe,
- 42:28I installed or had installed a button that sits in the bottom right-hand corner
- 42:31of every screen that my teammates touch. Every single one.
- 42:35And if at any time a customer voices frustration or the teammate feels as though
- 42:41there's some friction within the process or in combination of those two there's
- 42:47something that we feel is wrong,
- 42:49our teammate can click that button and register that as a point of friction
- 42:52in addition to that we listen to all complaints that come in from customers
- 42:57whether that's through letters or through bureaus that sit outside or they leave
- 43:02us feedback in through anonymous or name sources,
- 43:05if they post something on X, if they post something on Facebook,
- 43:09we listen to all of those.
- 43:11We actually hunt and mine for those opportunities.
- 43:14We are constantly looking for those places and areas of complaint because that
- 43:20is a place where someone is saying, hey, your process in whatever way,
- 43:25shape or form has failed me.
- 43:26Now notice, Holly, that I said process.
- 43:29In a former life, I was what's referred to as a Six Sigma master black belt.
- 43:33That is a process reengineering specialist that is specifically designed and
- 43:37focused on modifying processes.
- 43:40And one of the base principles of that activity is you never blame the person. You blame the process.
- 43:47Because it's the process that we've established that allows us to then modify.
- 43:52Human behavior is very, very difficult to influence. And if you disagree with
- 43:56me, have a 14-year-old that doesn't want to take the garbage out.
- 44:01You will realize very quickly, the limits of your power.
- 44:07So trying to get someone to change behavior is really difficult,
- 44:10but helping them navigate through a process is fairly simple.
- 44:14Meaning that if you've got somebody who raises a complaint or a concern,
- 44:18number one, acknowledge that that has occurred, recognize that they do have
- 44:23a voice and that they're not, they're acknowledging something has not worked for them.
- 44:27Now, oftentimes we might say, but that thing was written down.
- 44:30The speed limit sign was clearly posted on the side of the road.
- 44:34It's clearly there. So people keep speeding through this intersection.
- 44:38Why are they not fixing this? It is posted. They should know better.
- 44:41In my opinion, that's still a failure on my part as a city planner about the
- 44:47way that I've designed the street.
- 44:48So I would start to ask myself, are there better ways that I could modify the
- 44:53process to make people slow down through this intersection or through this area?
- 44:57And we experience this all the times in our lives. We have places where they've
- 45:02painted the lines differently on the road.
- 45:03Or they might put some bollards up on one side to make traffic kind of condense and slow.
- 45:09They might put in a stop sign or a speed bump, something that modifies the behavior
- 45:15intentionally to help people navigate through the process.
- 45:19So whenever I look at a complaint for me, it rarely is against a person.
- 45:24In fact, on rare occasion, is it actually behavioral that I need to address
- 45:28unless it truly is behavioral.
- 45:30And in all other cases what we try to do is look at the process what's not working
- 45:35in the process what's not working in the documentation we put together what's not working in the.
- 45:40Feedback mechanisms that we're providing to people some of
- 45:43those as an example if you're having a hard time in the office going through
- 45:46and giving feedback to people directly because they don't feel comfortable in
- 45:50businesses i've seen them do anonymous feedback sessions where it's more about
- 45:55hey here's one thing you're doing well and one thing that you look to that you
- 45:59could improve on and then posting those up for everyone to see,
- 46:02not by name, but in general, like this is what our team is working on collectively
- 46:05to help each other navigate through.
- 46:07So there's books and books upon how to kind of give appropriate feedback and coaching,
- 46:13but I would admonish you all that complaints need to become your very,
- 46:17very best friends because that is a wonderful place that people are telling
- 46:22you, here's a place that I am not getting what I need in the best possible way from you.
- 46:29How can we make it better? And the best part about this, Holly,
- 46:32is if you fix it right, that complaint will never, ever show up again.
- 46:38And suddenly now you have a comparative advantage to anybody who's still fighting
- 46:42with that complaint activity.
- 46:45And so really say to the staff and really think about that, this complaint is a golden opportunity.
- 46:51Absolutely. Embrace them, love them, cherish them, celebrate them.
- 46:56Matthew Anderson, the Vice President of Customer Service for PayPal and Venmo.
- 47:01Coming up next week, we will talk about conflict resolution and the fourth principle.
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- 47:24And Matthew, I'm looking forward to hearing more next week. Thank you so much
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