Latest / The OneCry Podcast / #247 Gen Z on the Church: Real Faith & Honest Mentorship (From Revival Roundtable 2026)
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- 0:00I think we've heard it a few times.
- 0:05It's just, we want to return to authentic, Christ-centered, scripture-based church.
- 0:12Welcome to the OneCry Podcast, a nationwide call for spiritual awakening.
- 0:19The goal, accelerating the movement of God through sharing revival truth, stories, and
- 0:27reports.
- 0:29Well, hello and welcome to the OneCry Podcast.
- 0:32My name is Ben Dishner.
- 0:33I'm the Global Ministries Director for OneCry, and I get the privilege of producing the OneCry
- 0:39Podcast.
- 0:41For the past few weeks, we've been sharing some highlights from our recent revival roundtable,
- 0:46which we do each year in conjunction with the Collegiate Day of Prayer.
- 0:50We invite leaders from all over the country to come together and discuss ways that we
- 0:56can steward a move of God, also how we can bridge generational gaps and divisions within
- 1:03the church.
- 1:04And so this week, we're going to share with you one of the wonderful sessions we had with
- 1:10a panel of Gen Z leaders from Liberty University.
- 1:14It was led by Wes Franklin, who's the Executive Director of LU Shepherd at Liberty.
- 1:19And then we had four students named Morgan McCorby, Bella Bosco, Sam Huber, and Ethan
- 1:27Erickson.
- 1:28And from their perspective, they're able to share some great insights of how the generations
- 1:34can work together toward the aim of seeing a move of God and directing their hearts toward
- 1:41the Lord.
- 1:42So let me encourage you to like, comment, subscribe, share this podcast with others.
- 1:49There is some valuable insight in it.
- 1:51We're so glad you're with us.
- 1:53Enjoy the podcast.
- 1:57When Byron asked me to do this, I was really excited.
- 2:02I'm going to introduce the students here in just a moment.
- 2:07This is one of those moments where I asked them to be extremely transparent with you.
- 2:16A Gen Z group that is speaking to a older generation.
- 2:21And the questions I'm going to ask them are maybe hard to hear in some regards.
- 2:27But as we've been hearing how Gen Z is approaching their faith as it pertains to the local church,
- 2:36we're seeing expressions of faith in different ways than we have in the past.
- 2:41What I want to say about these group is these students sitting right here with me are near
- 2:46and dear to my heart.
- 2:47And I'll tell you why.
- 2:51I don't know, what was it, Morgan, two years ago?
- 2:54Two years ago, I started to hear students express more related to prayer.
- 3:02They said, if you ever want to do anything new, anything that you're thinking about,
- 3:07like I'd love to be on the front end of that.
- 3:09And I slowly just started to recruit a little small group of students that would meet with
- 3:14me in my office and we would just dream together and pray together and think together.
- 3:18And so a lot of our prayer expressions here on Liberty are as a result of moments of just
- 3:24being in a room together, praying, asking God for great things.
- 3:28And these are architects of much of what we see of our expression of prayer at Liberty.
- 3:35So as we get started, I would love for you guys to introduce yourself, tell your name.
- 3:41Let's see what you're studying maybe, and where you go to church here in town.
- 3:45Great.
- 3:46Well, hi everyone.
- 3:47I'm Morgan McCorvey.
- 3:48I'm a junior here at Liberty studying artist development, so just the artistry side of
- 3:54being a musician.
- 3:56And right now I'm currently helping out and attending a local church here called The Gathering,
- 4:00which is a church plant.
- 4:01And if you guys would actually pray that we're soon moving into a building to help reach
- 4:05certain parts of Lynchburg.
- 4:07Hi everyone.
- 4:09My name's Bella Bosco.
- 4:10I'm a senior here at Liberty.
- 4:12I'm studying education, apologetics, and youth ministry.
- 4:15So it's a lot.
- 4:17And I go to Breakthrough Church in Lynchburg.
- 4:19What's up, y'all?
- 4:21My name is Sam Huber.
- 4:22I'm a junior here on campus.
- 4:24I'm studying pastoral leadership, and I go to Bedrock Forest.
- 4:28Hey, y'all.
- 4:29I'm Ethan Erickson.
- 4:30I am a senior here at Liberty.
- 4:32I'm studying business administration with a minor in youth men, and I attend and serve
- 4:37at Crosspoint Church.
- 4:38Fantastic.
- 4:40Fantastic.
- 4:41Thank you guys for agreeing to be here this morning.
- 4:44I'm going to start with a question here just to help the folks that are sitting in this
- 4:49room.
- 4:50Anybody who wants to jump in and go, and if anybody just wants to build off of an answer,
- 4:53please feel free to do so.
- 4:56If you could help an older generation understand one thing about what it's like to be Gen Z
- 5:01today, what would it be and why?
- 5:04Yeah.
- 5:06I think first and foremost, I want to say thank you to y'all because I think for a lot
- 5:13of what Gen Z has heard for a while, it is like, oh, this is...
- 5:18It's about to get rough, but you all have remained faithful to keep praying for our
- 5:22generation, and that means a lot.
- 5:24As I was sitting in the back of the room, I was like, this is a group of people who
- 5:26are dedicated to seeing God move in Gen Z, and that goes a long way for me, and it has
- 5:31proven to go a long way for Gen Z.
- 5:32So first, thank y'all.
- 5:36To be a part of Gen Z, I think in agreement with what my brother was saying up on the
- 5:39screen and the Baylor panel, we're tired of the fake.
- 5:44We're tired of the production, and we're ready for what's real.
- 5:47And the problem with that, though, that's a good thing.
- 5:49That's a bad thing.
- 5:50For the negatives, that means they're going to run to things like sexual morality, like
- 5:54different, maybe woke ideology kind of things, alcohol, vape, whatever it might be.
- 6:03But for the good end, they try those things, and they go, but it's still not hitting.
- 6:07It's still not real.
- 6:09And then they're open to Jesus.
- 6:12And so to be a part of Gen Z, it is, hey, we don't want the fluff.
- 6:15We don't want the random, like, could fill us.
- 6:18We want the real deal and what's actually going to satisfy our souls.
- 6:22What about you, Bella?
- 6:28I think the biggest thing is that people think that they need to baby Gen Z.
- 6:34I think that there's a lack of honesty from the older generations to our generation of
- 6:38you guys know the truth, but sometimes instead of speaking the truth in love, you're afraid
- 6:44of pushing away Gen Z, so you kind of give antidotes.
- 6:46And I think that something that I've learned of being in ministry here at Liberty is talking
- 6:51to people my age, and I was talking to a girl the other week, and she said, you're the first
- 6:55person that I feel like has been honest with me, and because I was honestly calling out
- 6:59her sin, and she said that feels so much more loving than everyone else who has just been
- 7:03like kind of encouraging me and not really calling me out on that.
- 7:08And so I think that's a big thing is that you don't have to feel afraid of offending
- 7:12Gen Z, but actually just living out the biblical principle of calling out people in love.
- 7:18Ethan, what do you think?
- 7:23I think a big thing is we are capable, and I mean that in two ways.
- 7:28One, we're capable to handle the truth like they were saying.
- 7:31I think for a long time there's been this notion that our generation is soft, and in
- 7:37many ways it does look that way, but I think more so we're just confused.
- 7:42We're overwhelmed because our world has so much and so much that claims to be true, and
- 7:48we don't know how to discern what is truth and what's not.
- 7:53And like Bella was saying, we want to know the truth.
- 7:57We're searching for that truth.
- 7:58We just don't know how to find it, and in many ways that's where your generation comes
- 8:03to play, where you've lived.
- 8:07I look around this room, and Sam was saying, we see faithful leaders in the faith.
- 8:14We see an older generation who has lived a long life of being faithful, and you've seen
- 8:20the truth that we're searching for.
- 8:22It's just there's so much noise, and we don't know how to find it.
- 8:26So you can call us out.
- 8:27You can exhort us.
- 8:28You can rebuke us in those ways where on our own it's hard to find it and discern it.
- 8:34So, yeah.
- 8:37I grew up way out in the country, and I grew up going to—God saved me when I was about
- 8:4410, so I'm a child of the 80s, and the 80s were awesome.
- 8:49But one thing that I learned about the local church is we only talked about Jesus when
- 8:55we were at church, and we would pray around our food, and that was kind of it.
- 9:01I had a neighbor by the name of Ralph, and I'd go to the field with Mr. Ralph and ride
- 9:06on the fender of his tractor to go bush hog or to go plow, and then we would stop and
- 9:11take a break under a shade tree, and I would give it anything if Mr. Ralph would have been
- 9:15talking to me about Christ while we were sitting under the tree, right, rather than hunting
- 9:19or something like that.
- 9:21When I think about that in myself, I try to be different.
- 9:24I try to be the kind that is not Mr. Ralph.
- 9:26You know what I'm saying?
- 9:28Because I want to be talking with not only my own children, but those that God has given
- 9:32me in the spiritual faith as children, to be speaking to them about Christ.
- 9:37And so I wonder for you, like, do you feel like you have access to mentors?
- 9:40And how are we doing in the local churches for older men and women to be actually discipling
- 9:45you in the faith?
- 9:47Morgan, I'll go with you.
- 9:48Yeah, I'll say just one thing is that we do crave the mentorship and the shepherding.
- 9:55We want to be poured into by people who have lived life and lived life in the faith.
- 10:00I think it can get a little tricky within the local church.
- 10:03I think when we're looking generally at the breakdown of communication and life groups
- 10:09and small groups or whatever it's called, it's more centered around the same age group
- 10:14of people.
- 10:15So like most churches in the area, if you're wanting to join a life group as someone in
- 10:19your 20s, it's probably with other people in your 20s.
- 10:23And so trying to figure out how to branch the generations together and, you know, because
- 10:31everything that we've gone through and even the accessibility of things like social media
- 10:35that are different in our generation, scripture is the same.
- 10:38You know, our God is the same and He's been faithful through all generations.
- 10:43So figuring out how to branch the divide between the generations in something like a small
- 10:49group setting, like a mentoring, a one-on-one, because I mean, we're ready.
- 10:54Like if older people in the church were to come to us and be like, hey, can I just like
- 10:59mentor you?
- 11:00I promise it would be 100% yes, because we truly crave that.
- 11:04And I think it's just figuring out how to make that, how to palette that well and make
- 11:10that accessible within the church and become more a part of the ministry aspect.
- 11:17I think that going off of that, Paul says, for you have many teachers, but not many fathers.
- 11:22And I've heard a lot of times revival is family.
- 11:25And I think that we've gotten so far from that, especially in America with our individualized
- 11:30lives, especially even in the church.
- 11:32I grew up in Connecticut where there's not many Christians and I grew up in a really
- 11:35small church.
- 11:36But even there, it was like hard to connect with mothers and fathers.
- 11:40And so I would really encourage you guys, like if you feel timid or think that Gen Z
- 11:46doesn't want it, they do.
- 11:47Just like Mo was saying, like we really do want those spiritual mothers and fathers to
- 11:51come alongside of us.
- 11:53Yeah, I would say discipleship is huge.
- 11:57Our generation is, like I said, ready, seeking for truth, ready to go, but also a little
- 12:05scared because I think a lot of the lie that we've heard early on is like Gen Z is a wreck.
- 12:13It's going to be tough, but they are ready for older mentors to show up and be like,
- 12:20just come follow me.
- 12:22Come learn from me.
- 12:23If I had somebody in my church who just walked up to me and was like, follow me, let's meet
- 12:28every other week, I'd be like, oh my goodness, I don't know you, but I'll do it because
- 12:32you've taken the time to seek me out.
- 12:35Our generation is ready for that.
- 12:37And so yeah, I mean, to build off what Mo and Bella both said, I think a huge part would
- 12:43just be reaching out because our generation is ready for it, but they're scared.
- 12:46They have a hard time just taking initiative.
- 12:49So for an older mentor to step in and be like, okay, I actually want you to follow me, would
- 12:55be huge.
- 12:57Sam and I actually attend the same local church and we just so far have been in the same small
- 13:03group together.
- 13:06And one of the things that I hear him and a lot of others his age in our small group
- 13:12talk about is more than just how to follow Christ in reading the Bible and in prayer.
- 13:19I hear a lot of conversations about finances.
- 13:22How do I steward my finances to the glory of God?
- 13:27How do I think about, like when I'm starting a family, do I think that I need to have all
- 13:33my finances in order, in order to put a ring on it?
- 13:37Or am I going to trust the Lord with the resources that he's going to give me and I'm going to
- 13:41start a family when I'm young?
- 13:45You guys talk a little bit about that more than just like walking with you and how to
- 13:48read the Bible.
- 13:49Like, what are some other topics you would want people to open their hearts up with and
- 13:54help you understand how to steward that well?
- 13:56Yeah, I mean, just a second ago when we were talking about mentorship and shepherding,
- 14:02that's totally with the presupposition in mind that it's in every aspect of life.
- 14:06More than just maybe asking if we could go get coffee, if you're maybe a husband and
- 14:12wife that have young kids, I'd love to come watch you make dinner and sit down with dinner
- 14:17with your whole family and watch you in real life.
- 14:21Because it does affect every aspect of life and watching how real Christians are working
- 14:28in real-time, real-situation ordeals.
- 14:32And so, being invited into every aspect of life would be amazing for things like finances.
- 14:39If a woman was willing to shepherd me and looking at taxes, I'm not going to decline
- 14:44because I would love some mentoring there.
- 14:46But yeah, kind of opening it up to every aspect of life.
- 14:50Maybe we will watch you.
- 14:52It doesn't always have to be dialogue.
- 14:56Maybe just actually being a shadow in some areas of your life.
- 15:00I think also just like a lot of times we just want to know you.
- 15:05So, even like my first time meeting up with you, Wes, I remember we sat down and you were
- 15:09just telling me stories about your time on the mission field.
- 15:12And it was just those stories where I'm getting to know how you got to where you're at right
- 15:17now.
- 15:18And through that, I was encouraged to be more bold, to go out and just love people in a
- 15:25more unique way.
- 15:26And it wasn't that you were telling me that story and encouraging me for this discipline,
- 15:31this habit, this whatever.
- 15:32It's just you were showing me who you are.
- 15:35And from that, I was encouraged to be more like you.
- 15:39So, I think we just want to know you.
- 15:40Like a big thing for me, like I grew up in a church where the oldest people in our student
- 15:46ministry that were leading were like four years older than me.
- 15:51We're in a very similar stage of life still.
- 15:53But there's people like all of you in this room where you've lived and been through so
- 15:58much and telling us those stories, we're able to glean so much from that.
- 16:03Yeah, my wife is currently walking along with about three young ladies.
- 16:08And they're saying the same thing, right?
- 16:11Like they love being in our home.
- 16:13They love when she first started these relationships with these three young ladies about two years
- 16:18ago, she come home and she said they want to like hang out.
- 16:22They want to like hang out and do like what we've always done.
- 16:26But like, you think they can handle us?
- 16:27And I'm like, you just need to tell them like the good and the bad and the ugly.
- 16:32Because we spicy and we both stubborn and they might hear us yell at one another every
- 16:35once in a while, right?
- 16:37Why did you put this here?
- 16:38And why is that there?
- 16:38Like they want to see that too, because they don't know how to do conflict resolution well,
- 16:43right?
- 16:43They need to see a husband and wife who are doing their very best to follow hard after
- 16:50Christ and get it wrong sometimes, right?
- 16:52Is that right?
- 16:53Yeah, exactly.
- 16:55I'm going to ask you another question here related to the local church.
- 16:59I want to know how do you or how do you and your friends actually experience local church?
- 17:04What is what feels meaningful or maybe what feels disconnected?
- 17:11I think we've heard it a few times.
- 17:13It's just we want to return to authentic Christ centered scripture based church.
- 17:21Um, in so many ways, like there is an overproduction in the church, which I'm not necessarily against
- 17:27like the lights or the loud music, anything like that.
- 17:30I think there's beauty in that and beauty and people using their gifts in that way.
- 17:35But personally, I'm tired of singing about my emotions when I'm worshiping.
- 17:40I want to sing truth, sing scripture based music, authentic scripture based, I think
- 17:47is what we're seeing a lot.
- 17:49And even just talking to my friends, like we want truth.
- 17:52I was saying that earlier.
- 17:54That's what we want to return to.
- 17:56And that doesn't necessarily mean we have to cut out all the production and like go bare
- 18:00bones, nothing else.
- 18:02But it does mean everything we should do should be based in scripture.
- 18:09I think that students or Gen Z will stay at churches to where they can get connected and
- 18:15where they can actively serve.
- 18:17I think that's a huge part of belonging and fellowship.
- 18:20It's hard for especially non-Christian Gen Z people to go to church and kind of just feel
- 18:26like they're there and feel like an outsider.
- 18:28I invite a lot of my friends to church, but when I come back to school, back home, it's
- 18:32kind of hard because they don't feel connected enough to go by themselves.
- 18:36And so I think that's a huge thing is that when you see a new person, getting them immediately
- 18:41connected and into some kind of small group, something like that, and they will stay if
- 18:45they feel like they can belong.
- 18:52Let me ask sort of a different way.
- 18:58What do you think the front door of the church is now?
- 19:04How are Gen Z entering the church?
- 19:08In the 80s for me, it was at the front door of the actual church.
- 19:11We went through the front door, right?
- 19:15How are people connecting now to the local church?
- 19:18What's the front door?
- 19:22I mean, yeah, I think the biggest thing is connection.
- 19:26But I think to each of the points, it's not the production media kind of stuff.
- 19:33Part of my degree program is that I have to read an unreal amount of books.
- 19:37And one of them talked through what gets people in the doors of the church is what you're
- 19:41going to have to do to keep them there.
- 19:44And I think what I've noticed a lot is a lot of people don't want the mega church.
- 19:49It's all put together.
- 19:52But I mean, based on what I'm seeing, I think Bedrock Forest, which meets in a middle school
- 19:57cafeteria is what it's called, is one of the fastest growing churches in the area.
- 20:02It was planted a year and a half ago, and it's running over 1000 people.
- 20:06Because our generation doesn't want just like fog machines and lights.
- 20:09They come in because they see real authentic worship.
- 20:12And it's just a bunch of red chairs that you sat in your whole elementary school in
- 20:17this cafeteria.
- 20:19But it's real.
- 20:19And they're hard.
- 20:21And they're hard.
- 20:21Yes, they're not comfortable.
- 20:23But yeah, it's the realness that gets people in the church and that connection and community.
- 20:29I mean, just in where we're at here, especially at Liberty, and I hate to say it, but I do
- 20:35think social media plays a really big part in this.
- 20:40You know, ways that people connect and get to know each other and unfortunately is through
- 20:45social media a lot.
- 20:47And so I think when churches are promoted or you see everyone, like maybe friends from
- 20:54your classes going to a particular church on Sunday, you'll probably be like, oh, I'll
- 20:58go try that one out because you've seen other people going there.
- 21:01You've seen it portrayed on social media.
- 21:04Not really sure what the fix is for that, except for just actually communicating and
- 21:09person.
- 21:09But I would say a doorway into ministries, often how it's advertised and how it's promoted,
- 21:16especially in our age group.
- 21:17And so, yeah, so things like social media, I'd say.
- 21:22Okay, never mind.
- 21:22I'll just talk loud.
- 21:25What in the local church feels like authentic?
- 21:29You're talking a lot about like lights.
- 21:31You're talking about like great expressions.
- 21:34What actually feels authentic and what feels more performative?
- 21:39I'm kind of going off what I was saying before.
- 21:42Jesus says, blessed are those who are not offended by my words.
- 21:46And I think that it's really evident as a Gen Z or a college student walking to a church
- 21:51when the pastor is really trying more than anything else to be relatable rather than
- 21:57doctrinally sound.
- 21:58And they're just really wanting to grab your attention or to relate to you or bring it
- 22:02back to you.
- 22:02But what we want, like they were saying, is we want it to be brought back to the word.
- 22:06And I think it's healthy for us to be a little bit convicted and offended when we leave church.
- 22:10Like when I leave a sermon and I'm like, wow, I have to go pray.
- 22:13That's how I know.
- 22:14I'm like, wow, that was a good sermon.
- 22:16Not if I feel like, oh, that relates to me like in whatever area.
- 22:19So that's what I would say is what feels authentic versus performative.
- 22:26I think also just like being powered by prayer is Charles Spurgeon, who would talk about
- 22:32the boiler room of his church was a small room down in the basement.
- 22:36It was gross, sweaty, hot, but it was just hundreds of people on their knees in prayer.
- 22:43Through his sermons for people coming in the doors, that church was powered by prayer.
- 22:48And I think from my experience in several different churches throughout my life,
- 22:53I don't think prayer is prioritized.
- 22:56We walk in and there's some scripted prayer at the beginning of the message.
- 23:00And to close out, but how often are we actually just on our knees,
- 23:05fully reliant on God through prayer?
- 23:09Well, I thought I'd take the last few minutes and just get some questions from you guys.
- 23:15Any questions that you might have that you would want to ask a Gen Zer while we're here?
- 23:22You got us here.
- 23:24I got the conversation started.
- 23:27Yes, sir.
- 23:28So let me preface the question.
- 23:31First of all, I've been a missionary for 30 years and it took me a long time to learn
- 23:38that discipleship should be fundamental in my life and not supplemental.
- 23:46And I just want to hear your thoughts on what you guys think about that.
- 23:52Does anyone ever explain the difference and you know when you are working towards
- 23:59making it more fundamental in your life or when it's just accidental or supplemental?
- 24:06That's a great question.
- 24:09I walked a group of guys on our residence hall through a book called Spiritual Multiplication,
- 24:13and it's incredible.
- 24:14And it talks through living missionally and things like that.
- 24:17And I sat down, it was seven dudes.
- 24:18I sat down at a table in the library and I go,
- 24:21how do y'all think God would use your calling to advance the gospel?
- 24:24And multiple dudes in the group looked at me and go, I just don't think it's possible.
- 24:29And I was like, oh, that's like, that's not good.
- 24:32Like, we've got to set some groundwork there.
- 24:35And so I think the point, though, to get back to your question is,
- 24:39I think discipleship has been missed.
- 24:43I should not sit down with people who've grown up in the church and ask them how
- 24:47their calling should be used to advance the gospel.
- 24:50And they look at me and go, I don't know.
- 24:51That should be a very quick like, oh, I'm doing...
- 24:54One of the dudes was sports broadcasting.
- 24:56Dude, you're locked in a booth with a dude for an entire day.
- 24:59There's got to be some kind of gospel conversation there.
- 25:02And so I think the biggest point is that a lot of times,
- 25:06our generation just hasn't been discipled, but they're ready for it.
- 25:09Because when I asked those dudes if they wanted to walk through the book,
- 25:11I've asked 15 dudes and one has said no.
- 25:14They're ready for discipleship, and they just don't know it.
- 25:19Sam, can I tell a little bit about Mog Mondays?
- 25:25So Sam is a resident shepherd here on campus and on his hall,
- 25:30the men on his hall do something called Mog Mondays.
- 25:33What are Mog Mondays, Sam?
- 25:36So it's Men of God Monday, Mog.
- 25:39And we get together and we're talking about we want real stuff.
- 25:46And I'm a big shoot for the stars kind of guy.
- 25:48So I email the top leaders here on campus.
- 25:53And I'm like, hey, could you come in and just preach the paint off the wall
- 25:56to a group of guys?
- 25:58So we gather 20 dudes every week into this room that is not meant to fit 20 people.
- 26:03And we just study scripture together.
- 26:05And it's a really good time.
- 26:06But I mean, it's 20 dudes out of 65, 68 people in the hall
- 26:13who want to come in and hear the truth about scripture.
- 26:16It's a hot room.
- 26:17It's a Monday night.
- 26:18It's 10 o'clock.
- 26:18It's late.
- 26:19These guys come because they want it.
- 26:22It's amazing.
- 26:23Imagine, I don't know how many dudes are in there the night when I was in there,
- 26:26like 25 or 30 guys.
- 26:28And you're like in a spam can, dude.
- 26:30Like you're just crammed in there.
- 26:32You can't.
- 26:32It's so hot.
- 26:33And I honestly, this is what happened.
- 26:35After our night with those fellas, I left and I walked out feeling just discouraged.
- 26:41I was like, they just weren't connecting with me at all.
- 26:44Like, I don't know if it was something that I ate and my breath was bad or what was going on.
- 26:49But Sam texted me and he's like, bro, that was so good.
- 26:52And just slowly after that, I started getting texts from guys on his hall.
- 26:56I think what it was, was like some of the things that we discussed,
- 26:59they'd never really been confronted with.
- 27:01And they were a little bit more slow processing.
- 27:03But in the days after they started to process it and like,
- 27:06they start then getting connected to people that the very thing that they needed,
- 27:11they go and find.
- 27:12Yeah.
- 27:13Any other questions?
- 27:14Yes, sir.
- 27:17You guys talked about being real and authentic and what have you.
- 27:20And it's interesting on a college campus with college students,
- 27:25the subject of sex that hasn't come up.
- 27:27And I wonder in watching adults and people disciple you, have those real conversations.
- 27:35I remember one young lady watched me and my wife.
- 27:37We had her over for Christmas.
- 27:39My wife like kissed me or slapped me on the butt or something like that.
- 27:43And she got red as a beet.
- 27:45She's like, what are you doing?
- 27:47And I'm like, how do you think our children got here?
- 27:51And I knew she knew and I knew she was active.
- 27:54And so how how important has that been?
- 27:59Not just watching people cook and clean and do their taxes,
- 28:03but have very real conversations with you about sex.
- 28:08And how is that informed your discipleship as well?
- 28:16It got spicy quick.
- 28:18I mean, honestly, I think it's an area of discipleship, as you said, is severely lacking.
- 28:24I think just from personal experience, being raised in church in a Christian home,
- 28:29it's like this is absolutely no until you get married and then like you can figure it out,
- 28:34you know, and then go get counseling when you get married.
- 28:36But until then, it's like you don't talk about it.
- 28:38You know, we're not going to discuss that.
- 28:41So if there's like an avenue where it's like actual great
- 28:44counseling under the mentorship and discipleship of, you know, a married couple,
- 28:49I think that's amazing and something else that our generation craves,
- 28:53because there's just saying that it's wrong until this certain point isn't educational.
- 28:59And it causes us to be incredibly fearful in that area and carry guilt and shame,
- 29:06probably even after marriage, because we literally have no idea, you know, in that realm.
- 29:12And we just know that it's sinful.
- 29:14And then when it's not, you figure it out.
- 29:16So that would really be great.
- 29:18And I think it would be amazing if mentorship and discipleship from
- 29:22older people in the church would move into those areas.
- 29:26I think everyone would be appreciative, especially people who are chasing after
- 29:30the Lord's heart and want to do that in every area of life and know how to do it well
- 29:34and what to avoid and what to do well.
- 29:36So, yeah.
- 29:37Thank you for bringing that up.
- 29:38Yeah, everyone's discipled by something.
- 29:39And I think, well, statistically, like a ridiculous amount of people
- 29:44are discipled by the porn industry.
- 29:47And so it's not only like, oh, yeah, discipleship on that would be helpful.
- 29:50It's like, no, like most of our generation has a skewed view of what sex is.
- 29:55And we need the most discipleship because we've got to do, you know, collateral damage from porn,
- 30:02from the porn industry and also walk in the door.
- 30:05From the porn industry and also walk in what biblical sex and sexuality looks like.
- 30:16Yes, ma'am, right here.
- 30:17I'm wondering if you could tell us how what you've been talking about that Gen Z
- 30:25looks for is searching for how it do you see that as different among non-believing Gen Z?
- 30:34So I'm thinking about a woman in my life in her 20s who looks up to me and is very open to me.
- 30:42And I'm looking for more ways to draw her to Christ.
- 30:52I think the biggest thing with her would just be consistent.
- 30:54I mean, it's all throughout the Bible consistency,
- 30:56consistently showing her that you love her, that you care about her.
- 31:00I think that there's such a, like I said, was earlier with lack of
- 31:03love from mothers and fathers.
- 31:05And if they feel that they'll be drawn to the love of Christ.
- 31:13The power of a testimony like the passage in Revelation talks about,
- 31:17like conquers through the blood of the lamb and the power of the testimony.
- 31:22People in our generation want to glean the lessons that you had to learn the hard way.
- 31:27And so like Jonathan McClude was talking about yesterday.
- 31:29He's like, look, I went and I experienced it all and it wasn't worth it.
- 31:32And I think a lot of unbelievers want to hear that.
- 31:34And they want to know because otherwise they're going to go try it for themselves
- 31:37and figure out the hard way.
- 31:41Maybe just one more question.
- 31:42Yes, sir.
- 31:43I'm encouraged that y'all are saying your generation wants to be discipled.
- 31:49I think most of us in the room, we're trained that we make ourselves
- 31:53known that we're available.
- 31:55If you guys want that, we've never been told to go and pursue someone.
- 32:00And usually the model that we were trained in is Jesus didn't pick the 12 that he
- 32:04picked, but he picked the 12 that he wanted to pick.
- 32:07And so we've never been told to go and pursue someone.
- 32:11Jesus didn't pick the 12 that he discipled.
- 32:14The Lord sent them to him.
- 32:15So we're supposed to look and discern, but we've never been told to come up to you and
- 32:20say, hey, I want to disciple you.
- 32:21I want to walk with you.
- 32:23So can you help us in that?
- 32:24Because this is just our training.
- 32:26This is how we're sort of conditioned that that would be weird if we did that.
- 32:30So can you help us discern?
- 32:32Help us to learn how to discern from your perspective who's looking for discipleship
- 32:40and who's looking for mentorship?
- 32:41Because our generation is ready.
- 32:43You know, we're equipped to be spiritual parents because our kids are grown.
- 32:49And some of us did a good job.
- 32:50Some of us didn't.
- 32:52But how would you kind of counsel us in that?
- 32:55That's a really good question.
- 33:01Yeah.
- 33:04Yeah, I appreciate that question so much because it is true that it can be awkward.
- 33:09It can be uncomfortable.
- 33:11A big thing for our generation, we don't like initiating conversations.
- 33:19I think a big factor is the fact that we grew up behind a screen.
- 33:24And a lot of our relationships have been built on that.
- 33:26So the face-to-face isn't comfortable for us.
- 33:30And even personally in my own story, I went through, I was in the church my whole life,
- 33:36went through high school, was saved in high school.
- 33:39I never had someone who was individually meeting with me and just pouring into me, discipling me.
- 33:47But as soon as I came to Liberty, I had professors where they're going,
- 33:51putting their phone number up on the whiteboard.
- 33:53And they're like, please call me if it's two in the morning and you're going through something,
- 33:57call me.
- 33:58And they made it so clear that they truly just cared about me.
- 34:02And we're in a room of 250 students who there's going to be a lot of issues,
- 34:07a lot of problems, a lot of just difficult trials.
- 34:11But I knew for a fact that that professor cared deeply about me personally and wanted to know me.
- 34:17And as soon as I reached out, he was like, when are you free this week?
- 34:21And we met, sat down, talked through everything, told stories.
- 34:25And again, it's just getting to know each other.
- 34:28I think a big thing is we want to know you.
- 34:30We don't want you to just tell us what to do.
- 34:34That's great.
- 34:35We want you to encourage these habits, but we just want to know your story.
- 34:38Maybe it's just like, do you want to go out to coffee?
- 34:41I want to tell you my story and tell us your testimony.
- 34:44Like he was saying, testimonies are powerful.
- 34:49Yeah.
- 34:50Do you mind if I add to that real quick?
- 34:52Go for it.
- 34:53I don't know who has that mic.
- 34:54Oh, that's you, Sam.
- 34:58I was like, oh, he's not going to look over here.
- 34:59Yes, Lord, yes.
- 35:00He's not like Sam.
- 35:01Lord, what are you doing?
- 35:02Yeah.
- 35:03From what I've studied, rabbinic tradition is very big on...
- 35:07They would wait for the people to show up.
- 35:10And then Jesus shows up on the scene and totally flips it.
- 35:13And he walks up to each of the 12 dudes and he goes,
- 35:14No, I want you to follow me.
- 35:18And so I do think there's a level of like,
- 35:21yes, God put those people in front of Jesus,
- 35:24but Jesus walked up to him and changed the script and said,
- 35:26No, I want you.
- 35:28And I think the biggest way that you find that...
- 35:29Because that was a good question,
- 35:31as well as you were talking through,
- 35:32well, how do we know these people are interested?
- 35:34When they're your church every week, they want it.
- 35:38And they might not know that they want it,
- 35:41but they're there every week for a reason.
- 35:43And they want to go deeper and they don't know how to
- 35:46because they haven't been trained.
- 35:50Thank you guys so much.
- 35:50Can you guys give them a hand?
- 35:51Once again, it is so exciting to hear the hearts of Gen Z leaders
- 35:57and how God is using them on campuses across the country.
- 36:01And when their hearts are so on fire for the Lord
- 36:04that they just share from an overflow,
- 36:06they're leading their classmates to Christ.
- 36:08They're watching God move in just glorious ways.
- 36:12And so we love that.
- 36:14OneCry loves that.
- 36:16We love to see God moving on campuses.
- 36:18Just recently, with the Collegiate Day of Prayer,
- 36:20we saw that marvelous gathering at Liberty University.
- 36:24And then shortly after that,
- 36:26there were other gatherings all across the country,
- 36:28Unite Us Again, starting back up on campuses.
- 36:32FM 72 at Baylor University.
- 36:35There was a 72-hour event at University of Florida
- 36:39and other events which are coming together
- 36:42and students are seeking God's face
- 36:45and seeing God move in mighty ways.
- 36:47They're repenting, turning from their sin
- 36:49and coming to Christ in unprecedented numbers.
- 36:53So let's pray into that together.
- 36:56Let's continue to encourage next-gen leaders,
- 37:01young adults to take up a mantle and carry it
- 37:04and carry the gospel forth.
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