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Cry Me A River · Second Date Update

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  Speaker 1: All right, Windsor is where we're going. Yeah, my hometown.
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  Speaker 2: Jake is on the line, got ghosted after a first
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  Speaker 2: date and needs answers.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, Jake.
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  Speaker 3: Good morning.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to the show. Tell us about this first date.
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  Speaker 4: You went on.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, thanks. I'm very confused. The date went great.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: There was, I would say, like an immediate attraction that
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  Speaker 3: we had. Aw. And, again, I took her to this winery,
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  Speaker 3: this weird wine, and chatted for hours. Mm-hmm. And then
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  Speaker 3: we went back to her place. We watched a movie.
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  Speaker 3: You know, it was just, like, a great time. I
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  Speaker 3: don't really... I keep looking back and thinking, like, how
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  Speaker 3: could it have gone any better? How.
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  Speaker 4: So, Jake, the date.
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  Speaker 3: It was perfect.
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  Speaker 2: So you're telling me the date was so good that
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  Speaker 2: you ended the date back at her place?
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  Speaker 3: Exactly.
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  Speaker 4: Did you guys hook up afterwards?
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  Speaker 2: Stop.
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  Speaker 1: It's actually a good question.
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  Speaker 4: Do a little dance? Do the hokey pokey?
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  Speaker 3: Jeff. Look, look, look. A gentleman doesn't kiss and tell. Yay!
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  Speaker 4: I like that. Congratulations. When you say that, everyone knows.
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  Speaker 3: Still, I mean, you can read between the lines if
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  Speaker 3: you'd like, but I don't want to get into details.
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  Speaker 3: I think it's best to just leave it at that.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, you have a great date. You end the night
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  Speaker 1: at her place. Did you send her a text or
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  Speaker 1: call her after the date?
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  Speaker 3: Right, I texted her the next morning, and... This was
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  Speaker 3: a few days ago. She didn't respond.
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  Speaker 1: Question. Did you go through her drawers? Because I had
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  Speaker 1: a friend that that happened to. Which drawers? Oh, like
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  Speaker 1: dresser drawers. Yeah, like he went through her stuff.
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  Speaker 4: What?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: No. Okay.
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  Speaker 4: Just asking.
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  Speaker 3: Go through her drawers.
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  Speaker 1: Just asking.
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  Speaker 4: Sorry, Jake. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: So you did reach out to her and you got ghosted.
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  Speaker 3: Exactly. She didn't respond and... Yeah, it was just such
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  Speaker 3: a perfect evening. I just don't understand what happened. I
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  Speaker 3: really can't even speculate. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: What we're going to do is put you on hold.
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  Speaker 2: You're going to be listening in. We're going to call
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  Speaker 2: up Hannah, and we're going to ask her how the
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  Speaker 2: date was. At any point, if you want to jump in,
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  Speaker 2: you can, okay?
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Let's do it. Keep it clean, Jeff.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, you don't have to, like, oh.
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  Speaker 1: Go into pound town, all that stuff you say. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: you just said it.
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  Speaker 4: He didn't need to.
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  Speaker 3: I know.
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  Speaker 4: What was up with that?
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  Speaker 1: Because I know it's coming out of your mouth.
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  Speaker 3: Hello.
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  Speaker 1: Hi, is Hannah there?
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  Speaker 3: This is Hannah.
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  Speaker 1: Hi, Hannah. It's Courtney.
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  Speaker 4: Hannah, it's Walmart Jeff.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, Hannah. It's Savannah. How are you?
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  Speaker 3: Hi.
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  Speaker 1: That was really cute. Thanks, I try.
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  Speaker 2: Hannah, we're calling from Kiss 95.7.
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  Speaker 1: You're on the radio this morning.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're on something called Second Date Update. I'm sure
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  Speaker 2: you're familiar with it. If somebody goes on a first date,
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  Speaker 2: they get ghosted after a great first date. We try
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  Speaker 2: to get the answers, and we just want you to
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  Speaker 2: be honest with us. As honest as you can be.
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  Speaker 2: Let me refresh your memory. Jake called us. You guys
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  Speaker 2: went out to dinner. It was a fabulous date. It
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  Speaker 2: was such a good date that he ended up back
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  Speaker 2: at your place watching movies.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, where you guys may or may not have hooked up.
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  Speaker 1: We didn't get a straight answer.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, we didn't get a straight answer as to what
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  Speaker 2: you actually did at your house, but he says he
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  Speaker 2: reached out to you the next day and stuff, and
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  Speaker 2: you're totally ghosting him.
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  Speaker 1: So how was the date for you?
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  Speaker 5: The date was great. I... The attraction was there.
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  Speaker 6: We had a great time. We had some wine. We
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  Speaker 6: chatted a lot. We were really vibing. I just feel
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  Speaker 6: like once we spent more time together, he just doesn't
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  Speaker 6: seem like my type of guy. I'm looking for someone
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  Speaker 6: that's a little more confident.
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  Speaker 1: Confident.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 5: All right.
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  Speaker 2: So the day was great wine vibing, but he wasn't confident.
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  Speaker 2: Like when he got back to your house, he wasn't confident.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Can we clarify a little bit here?
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  Speaker 5: He just isn't like a take charge kind of guy,
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  Speaker 5: like a confident he's smooth.
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  Speaker 3: He's got swagger.
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  Speaker 5: He just, he, he wasn't.
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  Speaker 6: A guy that I would normally go for.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Did you guys hook up? I mean, I hate to
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  Speaker 1: ask the question, but it needs to be asked.
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  Speaker 4: Was he not good in bed?
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  Speaker 1: Did he cry at the movie?
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  Speaker 3: Oh, my God.
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  Speaker 2: Girl, worse.
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  Speaker 5: He cried after we hooked up.
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  Speaker 1: Wait, wait. Wait a minute.
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  Speaker 3: Wait.
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  Speaker 1: So he didn't cry at the movie. Savannah, so he
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  Speaker 1: did cry. Oh, my God. So you guys were intimate,
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  Speaker 1: and then he cried?
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  Speaker 3: Yes.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, and I couldn't shake that. It's like all I
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  Speaker 5: kept thinking about. And I was like, I can't do this.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, who cries after? You know how that made
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  Speaker 5: me feel?
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  Speaker 6: Like, was it bad?
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Were they tears of joy? Yes. Why? Why did he
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  Speaker 4: cry after sex?
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  Speaker 6: I don't know.
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  Speaker 5: He was just really emotional, and it just made me uncomfortable.
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  Speaker 5: You know, like, he wasn't manly.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know.
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  Speaker 5: It was so weird.
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  Speaker 4: Hey, Jake, why are you crying after sex? What's up
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  Speaker 4: with that?
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  Speaker 3: Oh, boy.
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  Speaker 5: Don't cry, Jake.
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  Speaker 3: Well, first of all, I'm very disappointed to hear her
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  Speaker 3: going into details like this. Look, it was a magical
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  Speaker 3: evening for me. It meant a lot to me.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, okay.
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  Speaker 3: So, yeah, they were tears of joy, I would say.
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  Speaker 3: The fact that we're even talking about this is just.
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  Speaker 1: It's embarrassing.
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  Speaker 3: Honestly, like a lady shouldn't kiss and tell either. This
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  Speaker 3: is like kind of... What? This isn't someone I'm looking
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  Speaker 3: to see anyway. I'm kind of glad this all came
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  Speaker 3: out now because she's just not the type of person
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  Speaker 3: I'm looking for.
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  Speaker 5: You're more of a lady than I am. What are
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  Speaker 5: you talking about?
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  Speaker 3: Exactly.
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  Speaker 5: Who cries after doing it?
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 4: I just was he sitting like at the edge of
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  Speaker 4: the bed on the corner of the bed?
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  Speaker 5: Or like, I don't know, maybe I triggered some trauma
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  Speaker 5: or something, but it was like he just saw the notebook.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 5: Like he was just crying.
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  Speaker 3: All right.
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  Speaker 2: So we got to the bottom of it, Jake. I
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  Speaker 2: feel like you guys just you made a connection at
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  Speaker 2: some point and then it went south just because he
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  Speaker 2: shed a couple of tears.
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  Speaker 3: Well, hold on.
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  Speaker 1: Was it a couple of tears or was he bawling?
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  Speaker 5: It was waterworks. And keep in mind, it was after
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  Speaker 5: we did it. That was the worst time to cry.
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  Speaker 4: You should have asked him if he wanted some cheese
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  Speaker 4: with that wine.
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  Speaker 1: Stop. Can we stop shaming him?
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  Speaker 2: All right, well, listen, we usually offer to pay for
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  Speaker 2: another date if you guys can work through things, but
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  Speaker 2: I feel like it's just not a match.
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  Speaker 5: You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 3: No. Jake, maybe you.
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  Speaker 2: Want somebody a little more sensitive, and Hannah, you want
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  Speaker 2: somebody a little.
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  Speaker 1: Less crying during sex. Less crying.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Listen, you got your answer. Hannah, I appreciate you being honest.
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  Speaker 2: And I wish you guys both well in the dating world.
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  Speaker 3: Thanks.