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Dirty Little Secret:The Ring He Gave Me Is Gone” · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: It is dirty little secrets.
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  Speaker 2: Your shot one thousand dollars coming up next? You're ready
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  Speaker 2: to mix one or two point nine A Billity kid
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  Speaker 2: Candice Slopez producer. Who if you have a secret, you
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  Speaker 2: want to confess something, especially on a Monday, start your
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  Speaker 2: week off right. Let's go eight three three seven eight
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  Speaker 2: seven one o two nine. Whatever that secret is, confess.
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  Speaker 1: I've never told another person this in my life, and honestly,
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  Speaker 1: I still feel guilty about it almost every day. Oh So,
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  Speaker 1: my husband and I've been married for years now. We're happy,
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  Speaker 1: we have a great life, we have great kids. Everything
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  Speaker 1: turned out okay.
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  Speaker 3: But but there.
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  Speaker 1: Is one thing he doesn't know and probably never will.
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  Speaker 1: So right before we got married, I sold my engagement
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  Speaker 1: ring and I sold it and I told him I
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  Speaker 1: lost it.
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  Speaker 2: WHOA, So right before you got married you sold your
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  Speaker 2: engagement ring?
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  Speaker 3: You lost it? Why?
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  Speaker 1: Because at the time I had this ex boyfriend who
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  Speaker 1: was such a terrible person. He was, you know, toxic
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  Speaker 1: and manipulating, just scary, a scary guy. Okay, it's one
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  Speaker 1: of those guys you regret ever letting into your life,
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  Speaker 1: you know. And before I met my husband, I owed
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  Speaker 1: him money from when we lived together, and then after
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  Speaker 1: we broke up, he started making threats to try to
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  Speaker 1: get back from me.
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  Speaker 3: You owed him money, Okay, so you owed your ex money?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, all right, And I'm embarrassed now even talking about it,
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  Speaker 1: because looking back, I should have gone to some of
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  Speaker 1: this for help. I should have told my fiance.
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  Speaker 2: Well, you know, but.
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  Speaker 1: I was young, I was dumb, I was scared. I
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  Speaker 1: was panicking.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So you did own the money. It wasn't like
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  Speaker 2: he was just threatening you and being crazy.
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  Speaker 3: You did own the.
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  Speaker 1: Money I owed him.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, So you sold your ring. Ah, that's a big
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  Speaker 3: that's a lot, I know.
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  Speaker 1: But he kept you know, he was threatening to show
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  Speaker 1: up at my job, and he was threatened to humiliate
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  Speaker 1: me and to contact my fiance and tell him lies
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  Speaker 1: about me. And every time he left me one of
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  Speaker 1: those messages just made me sick, you know. I I
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  Speaker 1: just remember I was sitting in my car just crying
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  Speaker 1: one day, just staring at my ring, just thinking like
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  Speaker 1: what do I do? You know, I was broke, I
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  Speaker 1: didn't have anything.
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  Speaker 3: So what when you went to your So you you
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  Speaker 3: sold the ring?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, like now that you're already married, and
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  Speaker 2: it's it is what it is. First of all, what
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  Speaker 2: was your fiance's reaction when you said you lost the ring?
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  Speaker 3: Because that's you know, how do you lose a ring? Right?
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  Speaker 3: You haven't even been married yet and you lost the ring.
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  Speaker 1: He was upset, of course, he was, you know, but
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  Speaker 1: he hugged me and he told me it's okay, we'll
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  Speaker 1: figure it out, and that he is such a good guy.
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  Speaker 1: Like I ended, I got such a good guy. I'll
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  Speaker 1: tell you that made me even feel worse because he
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  Speaker 1: was so kind about it, right right.
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  Speaker 2: So he didn't react. He wasn't mad, he wasn't angry.
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  Speaker 2: He just said, okay, we'll figure it out.
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  Speaker 3: Don't worry, don't Did you get a new ring?
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  Speaker 1: Well, a few months later he bought me a much smaller,
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  Speaker 1: cheaper ring that I'm wearing it today. But you know what,
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  Speaker 1: I'll tell you, I love that ring more than anything
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  Speaker 1: because it reminds me of the kind of man he is.
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  Speaker 1: You know, he's that's.
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  Speaker 2: Kind of sweet. But I don't blame him for buying
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  Speaker 2: a cheaper and smaller ring. Well, this girl wants to
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  Speaker 2: go around and lose stuff, let me.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, that's what he could afford, you know, I
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  Speaker 1: mean maybe at some point.
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  Speaker 3: There's nothing wrong with that. I don't care, nothing wrong
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  Speaker 3: with that.
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  Speaker 2: But you've never told him the truth, even now that
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  Speaker 2: you're married and it is what it is, No.
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  Speaker 1: And he this secret is eating at me, Like that's
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  Speaker 1: what I'm telling you, guys, I have just I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I just he deserved to know the truth, you know.
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  Speaker 1: But it's been so many years now, and honestly, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know what what good would even do? You know?
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  Speaker 2: Point now what I'm notating lying to somebody, but at
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  Speaker 2: this point, what's the what would you why? Yeah? Right?
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  Speaker 1: I mean if I could go back and you know,
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  Speaker 1: out and do it over again, I would absolutely handle
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  Speaker 1: it completely differently. You know, I would tell him everything.
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  Speaker 1: But you know, when you're young and stood and dealing
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  Speaker 1: with someone.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think I've had girls do this to me.
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  Speaker 2: Oh sell wedding rings, engagement rings. I could have been
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  Speaker 2: a damn CA's jeweler with any right. Matter of fact,
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  Speaker 2: most of them I haven't gotten back. But let's not
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  Speaker 2: go there. But good for you. I'm glad you're in
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  Speaker 2: a happy relationship and it's worked out. And hey, you're young,
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  Speaker 2: you make mistakes. Life goes on it is what it is.
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  Speaker 2: But at least you got that X out of your life.
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  Speaker 2: It was a bad person, and and look your husband
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  Speaker 2: now reacted in such a loving way. It maybe it
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  Speaker 2: was like a sign that this is the one for sure.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, no question about that. I just pray and I
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  Speaker 1: just hope that someday I can just fully forgive myself
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  Speaker 1: for it, you.
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  Speaker 3: Know, forgive yourself, don't Yeah, come on, don't worry about that.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't think about this anymore.
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  Speaker 2: No, Well, thank you so much. We appreciate you calling.
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  Speaker 2: Thanks for the secret, of course.
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  Speaker 1: Of course, thank you guys. You helped me, you know,
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  Speaker 1: air it out, Like I feel a little better.
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  Speaker 3: Well, that's what we're here for.