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The 5 Nervous System Habits That Create Wealth · Beyond Limits With Olivia Marie

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  SPEAKER_01: Hello, everyone, and welcome back to the Beyond Limits Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_01: Today, we are diving into the five nervous system habits that create wealth.
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  SPEAKER_01: So each five of these habits you are going to be able to apply from now going forward, and they're all going to help you build wealth.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because as you would have known from the previous episodes, your nervous system creates wealth.
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  SPEAKER_01: And if you haven't listened to the previous ones, we talked about, you know, this is going to make you a millionaire in 2026.
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  SPEAKER_01: We talked about goals, standards.
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  SPEAKER_01: So make sure you are fully caught up into this point.
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  SPEAKER_01: But you can listen to this episode first and then kind of go back and it'll just anchor in your understanding of what we are talking about today.
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  SPEAKER_01: So let's go ahead and dive in with habit number one.
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  SPEAKER_01: So habit number one is you normalize money instead of celebrating it.
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  SPEAKER_01: I want you to let this land.
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  SPEAKER_01: This is probably one of the biggest things that I held women with and I teach them is money can be it can be celebrated in a rounded way, but not celebrated with dysregulation.
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  SPEAKER_01: So what does this mean, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Wealthy nervous systems don't spike when money comes in.
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  SPEAKER_01: They don't need a high, they don't need a rush, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: They don't also need to post about it to regulate.
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  SPEAKER_01: Money arriving feels expected.
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  SPEAKER_01: And when money feels normal, it stays.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that's how you build wealth.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right.
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  SPEAKER_01: When it feels extraordinary, your system unconsciously pushes it away.
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  SPEAKER_01: We were speaking about this in the previous episode.
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  SPEAKER_01: So when I see people being like, oh my God, we did it.
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh my God, we made I think about a client, oh my God, we made a million dollars this year.
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  SPEAKER_01: Of course you did.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's your standards, who you are.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's the woman you are.
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  SPEAKER_01: But when you're like, oh my God, there's this high, there's this rush, like suddenly being paid a lot of money, it's shocking to you.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's dysregulation.
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  SPEAKER_01: And this is one thing that, you know, most one of the most common things, and that's why I said habit number one, is they celebrate, but they celebrate from dysregulation.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right.
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  SPEAKER_01: So celebration is fine as long as it's grounded, as long as it's in the body.
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  SPEAKER_01: You can see when you're celebrating it, let's like, oh my God, oh my God, I just had a six figure buttons.
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh my God, I can't believe it.
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  SPEAKER_01: Why can't you believe it?
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  SPEAKER_01: Don't even usher those words.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm gonna knock on wood.
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  SPEAKER_01: Like, don't even say, I can't believe when you say that, your nervous system hears, oh my God, live is having a heightened experience to money.
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  SPEAKER_01: Heightened experiences are bad, even if they are positive, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Remember, you're amygdala.
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  SPEAKER_01: Anything that is heightened is bad for the nervous system.
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  SPEAKER_01: The nervous system likes comfort, it likes safety, it likes familiarity, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: It likes routine.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's why kids like routine.
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  SPEAKER_01: So if you're like, oh my God, this thing is happening that is out of the ordinary, we get red flags.
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  SPEAKER_01: So the nervous system goes, oh, red flag, making a lot of money is a red flag.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's gonna seek to avoid it.
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  SPEAKER_01: So I want you to see, right, where you are experiencing a high or a rush around money, where you're like, oh my God, this is so amazing.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm like, of course I did.
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  SPEAKER_01: And you can have deep respect and grounded attitude.
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  SPEAKER_01: But notice how when I say that, you can feel in my voice and my energy, I'm dropped into my body, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm feeling when I speak, I can feel this in my solar plexus, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: I can feel this in my power center, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: In my hips, I can feel this in the base of my spine.
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  SPEAKER_01: It is rooted and grounded.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, we just made 100K.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, we just had a six-figure weekend.
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  SPEAKER_01: Of course we did.
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  SPEAKER_01: Amazing.
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  SPEAKER_01: Incredible.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm so excited for you.
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  SPEAKER_01: And it's funny because of my clients, my clients have wins and they see these things.
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  SPEAKER_01: I don't go like, oh my God, you're amazing.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm like, of course you did, because that's the woman you are.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm so excited for you.
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  SPEAKER_01: So I'm not like, I'm so excited for you.
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  SPEAKER_01: Exclamation point, explanation point.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's either I'm so excited for you, period, or I'll say, I'm so excited for you.
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  SPEAKER_01: Of course you did.
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  SPEAKER_01: There's a different energy in that.
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  SPEAKER_01: One, it's going to heighten your nervous system, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: And my job is not to dysregulate you, my job is to anchor you.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right.
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  SPEAKER_01: And this is where you can take this.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I want you to think about where you need to start normalizing instead of experiencing money as a rush or something you are excited about or celebrating it, something you go, wow, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: All right.
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  SPEAKER_01: Habit number two, you don't panic in the gaps.
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh again, this is probably the second biggest thing I work on when with within.
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  SPEAKER_01: Gaps don't mean regression, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Silence doesn't mean failure.
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  SPEAKER_01: But for most people, right, the quiet triggers urgency.
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  SPEAKER_01: When it comes to money, they panic in the gap.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right.
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  SPEAKER_01: If they posted the thing and the money hasn't flowed in at the speed that they wanted to yet, or they they launched this thing or they tried selling this thing and you know it's not going to the level they desire, they panic.
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  SPEAKER_01: And they're like, oh my God, I gotta switch this.
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  SPEAKER_01: I gotta push more, I gotta do a bonus, I gotta, I don't know.
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  SPEAKER_01: They start moving from compensation.
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  SPEAKER_01: Wealthy systems don't fill the gaps with force, they let momentum reorganize.
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  SPEAKER_01: That doesn't mean you can't, you know, shift things or do things, but it's important the state that it's coming from.
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  SPEAKER_01: Is this coming from urgency?
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  SPEAKER_01: Is this coming from panic?
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  SPEAKER_01: Is this coming from trying to fill a gap?
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  SPEAKER_01: This is where most people self-sabotage, not in action, but in reaction.
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  SPEAKER_01: And anything you do from a reactive state just locks that in.
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  SPEAKER_01: So I want you to look at habit number two, where you are still panicking in the gap.
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  SPEAKER_01: All right, habit number three for wealth when it comes to your nervous system is to move from certainty, not proof.
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  SPEAKER_01: And this is something, especially when I'm working with women and we're a lot of high-level women.
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  SPEAKER_01: Your system, and I say this from someone who's very guilty of this early on.
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  SPEAKER_01: So I had to learn to transcend this.
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  SPEAKER_01: When you are experiencing a lot of proof, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Money starts coming in.
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh my God, you know, 10k muss, 20k mouse, 40, 100, like you're getting all of this proof, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: So then your system is riding these highs.
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  SPEAKER_01: You're getting this dopamine hit, dopamine hit stripe or PayPal or whatever, how you receive money, and money is flowing in.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so you're feeling great, but you're feeling great because of all of this proof of all of this compounding, but that's not sustainable.
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  SPEAKER_01: So what happens is when that proof trickles off or that proof stops growing at that momentum, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: And your mood or how you feel or how regulated you are is dependent on all those dopamine hits, all that proof, well then your system is gonna go down.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right.
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  SPEAKER_01: So you then you start seeking more proof, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: I'll trust it once I see it.
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  SPEAKER_01: And you'll know this because if right now you are looking for proof, it's because you are calibrated to proof.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's because you've only ever felt regulated when the proof is proofing.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right.
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  SPEAKER_01: Certainty says, I see it because I know it.
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  SPEAKER_01: And wealth responds to certainty, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Your ceiling will become your floor when you become certain, not when you are contingent on external validation.
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  SPEAKER_01: So if you are still right moving from that proof, if you are still needing that proof to make yourself feel solid or feel regulated, we're gonna move, you wanna move away from that.
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  SPEAKER_01: You wanna move from certainty, not proof.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's habit number three.
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  SPEAKER_01: Habit number four is that you can hold your identity through expansion.
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  SPEAKER_01: So most people, right, can create a degree of expansion, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: It can expand a little bit, but very few can actually hold and regulate through it.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because wealthy nervous systems don't collapse when things grow and they don't shrink to feel safe.
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  SPEAKER_01: And they especially don't self-sabotage to go back to what's familiar or what's comfortable, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: They expand their capacity before they expand their life.
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  SPEAKER_01: And this is important because you always want to be ahead of it.
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  SPEAKER_01: Think about it like preventative skincare, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: I guarantee, as a woman probably watching this, you don't only put serums on or do skincare to like wash the makeup off.
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  SPEAKER_01: You're doing things preventatively.
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  SPEAKER_01: You're putting something on for moisture, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Maybe some hyaluronic acid, you're putting on something for wrinkles, you're putting on, I say collagen, something for hyperpigmentation, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: You're doing things to also prevent things in the future.
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  SPEAKER_01: Same thing goes with your nervous system.
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  SPEAKER_01: When you do the nervous system capacity work to expand it beforehand, you don't hit those ceilings, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Because your system is like, oh, we've already created room for this.
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  SPEAKER_01: We've already created space.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so that identity is able to hold steady through expansion, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: You're not expanding outside of an identity.
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  SPEAKER_01: You're not expanding something that feels bigger than what you already are.
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  SPEAKER_01: You've already expanded.
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  SPEAKER_01: So it feels very safe, very normal for that to come in.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that's what allows you to build wealth, is because that amount of money flowing in doesn't feel like it's outside of your norm.
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  SPEAKER_01: And then habit number five, and it's a big one, you stop making money personal.
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  SPEAKER_01: And this is huge because money is not personal.
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  SPEAKER_01: Money is not trying to punish you.
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  SPEAKER_01: Money doesn't care, you know, if you're Sally, if you're Susie, if you're Karen.
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  SPEAKER_01: Money does not have a preference.
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  SPEAKER_01: Money just follows the path of least resistance, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Money is data.
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  SPEAKER_01: Wealthy people don't make slow or weeks or slower months mean something about them.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: They don't make fast months define them either.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that's the thing.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's not like, oh, money is just not personal when things are slower.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's also money is not personal when things are flourishing.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right.
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  SPEAKER_01: When money is defining you, it's harder for it to flow through you because you have so much of your identity and also of your ego wrapped up into it.
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  SPEAKER_01: When you stop making money personal, right, you the highs don't mean, you know, anything and the lows don't mean anything.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: You are independent of money.
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  SPEAKER_01: So it's not only that, again, watch yes, where you have money to find you when things are slower, but also watch where then you need money or a higher month makes you feel more worthy.
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  SPEAKER_01: Or when you hit your highest month, then you feel like you've made it, or then there's some sort of permission or stamp of approval, or then you are enough.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because if you always need money to define you, it's always gonna fluctuate.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's always gonna go up and down.
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  SPEAKER_01: And Matt's not the woman who builds wealth, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: The woman who builds wealth doesn't make money personal at highs or lows.
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  SPEAKER_01: And when money stops defining you, it starts flowing through you at a lot of a rapid pace because you don't have all of these stories and these conditions and these limitations wrapped up into it.
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  SPEAKER_01: So I really want you to start implementing all five of these habits.
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  SPEAKER_01: We're also going to leave the details for Floodgate, my program down below, as well as the Singularity, which are two of my money and wealth programs that I work on women with to take all of this deeper for you.
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  SPEAKER_01: I want you to remember that wealth is not something you chase, it is something your nervous system becomes available for.
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  SPEAKER_01: And once your system is calibrated, money doesn't need to be managed, it responds, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: There is like this is the foundation.
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  SPEAKER_01: These habits are the crux of a lot of what women experience when it comes to money and wealth.
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  SPEAKER_01: We're gonna be going deeper into future episodes around this, but lock in these five habits.
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  SPEAKER_01: Notice where you are not implementing these habits, and you will see how money and wealth starts changing around you.
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  SPEAKER_01: So thank you guys so much for listening to this episode.
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  SPEAKER_01: That way we can keep making more of these powerful episodes that are not only going to help you make money, but build wealth.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'll see you in the next one.
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  SPEAKER_01: Bye.