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- 0:35Welcome to Faith Is.
- 0:37I'm Pastor Rick Stevens, and I'm really glad you've joined us today.
- 0:40Well, I'm really glad every day, but this is a special weekend, and I'm really glad you joined us for this special weekend.
- 0:49I am the pastor of Diplomat Wesleyan Church in Cape Coral, Florida, church that does all the things churches do and tries to be all the things churches try to be.
- 1:00We stretch toward God's high calling.
- 1:03We understand the need to be faithful, and we live out as best we can our understanding of what it means to be faithful and to be a faithful follower of Jesus because we understand that faith is absolute confidence in the trustworthiness of God.
- 1:25And so welcome to the program, welcome to the adventure, and let me be the first.
- 1:32I'm pretty sure I'm going to be the first here.
- 1:36Probably no one will have even mentioned this to you in the way that I'm going to mention it until now.
- 1:42It's possible someone might have, but I want to be as much as possible the very first to wish you a happy new year.
- 1:53Yes, happy new year.
- 1:55It is a happy new year right here, right now.
- 2:00Now, unless you think I've lost my mind, and occasionally people do, then I understand that, and I'm happy with that really.
- 2:08But in case you wonder what I'm talking about, I'm talking about this is the weekend.
- 2:13Specifically, November 30th is the day that we begin a new year, a new church year.
- 2:23Now I know the calendar turns over in January, I get all of that, but we have the great privilege as the people of God to begin the new year on the first Sunday of Advent, and the new year begins with telling the story of Jesus.
- 2:39And I think that is so important, probably more important these days than ever before.
- 2:45I recently had a conversation with a university professor who I came to respect because he had some really interesting insights.
- 2:53And one of the things that he said was that his students don't know the stories of the Bible.
- 3:00And I thought that's fascinating.
- 3:03I grew up learning the stories of the Bible.
- 3:07A faithful school teacher, she wasn't my teacher in school, she was in the class across the hall from mine, but she went to my church, and every Sunday, every Sunday evening, while the teenagers were having the youth group, the children, and I remember distinctly thinking I was too old to be with the children.
- 3:27I don't remember how old I was at the time, but I was too old, you get that.
- 3:31But we learned the Bible stories all through the Bible.
- 3:36And I have often said that this faithful woman, Clara Goodman, taught me more about the Old Testament than anybody else that I can remember.
- 3:46Well, we don't know the Bible stories, and one of the great privileges we have as the church now is to begin the new year, the first Sunday of Advent, telling the story of Jesus.
- 3:58And so we begin the story with the anticipation of Jesus' birth.
- 4:03Now that's the easy part.
- 4:05We all love looking forward to Christmas.
- 4:08We all anticipate some special things about Christmas.
- 4:12I don't know if you have certain traditions that your family particularly enjoys.
- 4:18Maybe you enjoy certain aspects of the season, maybe you like the decorations, maybe there are certain things that people make to eat, that you enjoy certain treats, Christmas cookies come to mind.
- 4:32Perhaps that's something important to you.
- 4:34Our family does a few things that have kind of developed over the years.
- 4:38One of my favorites, I guess that wouldn't surprise too many people, is that I enjoy the Christmas music.
- 4:44There's no music during the year that I enjoy more in terms of the seasonal emphasis than Christmas.
- 4:51There are some other music that I enjoy.
- 4:53In fact, I sometimes think I enjoy too many kinds of music, but that's a different conversation.
- 4:58But anyway, we look forward to Christmas and we enjoy it.
- 5:01We anticipate it.
- 5:03And that's a wonderful celebration.
- 5:05And so Advent, as the anticipation of the arrival of Jesus, that's what Advent means, arrival, as we anticipate the arrival of Jesus at Christmas, we have a lot of fun doing that.
- 5:17And we look forward to lots of things related to Christmas.
- 5:21Now, Advent also includes the anticipation of Jesus' second coming or his next coming.
- 5:30Now, I've observed that people have a little bit different relationship with the anticipation of Jesus' second coming.
- 5:48But there's often been more reluctance about the second coming of Jesus than celebration.
- 5:56Now, why might that be?
- 5:58It doesn't really make sense when we put it in a certain context, and that's why I want us to think about it a little bit today.
- 6:05Why might we be reluctant?
- 6:09Why might we have a strained, could we say, relationship with the second coming of Jesus?
- 6:14And I and I know we all don't have that, but I've noticed that in my lifetime.
- 6:18Well, one of the reasons that that people have a little bit of discomfort with the second coming of Jesus is because we have been taught about the second coming of Jesus in the context of fear.
- 6:32Now, certainly there's a certain seriousness about the second coming of Jesus because the readiness that the Bible emphasizes is a real thing, and we need to be ready for his coming.
- 6:48In the same way people prepared for the arrival of Jesus way back when, and the same way we prepare for the celebration of Jesus now, we must prepare and be prepared for the second coming of Jesus.
- 7:05That's absolutely a given.
- 7:28There's no doubt about that, and that he will crush evil.
- 7:34Toss it in the lake of fire.
- 7:36That's a finality that is real, and that we should anticipate.
- 7:43Not because we're anyone's enemy, but because we realize that salvation cannot be fully realized until evil is dealt with and we are delivered from evil.
- 7:57How often do we pray when we pray the Lord's Prayer, deliver us from evil?
- 8:02One day that will happen.
- 8:06And so we need to rethink our relationship with the second coming of Jesus.
- 8:12Maybe we can think of it this way.
- 8:14We like the stories of Jesus, we like his birth.
- 8:16We're even intrigued by the stories of his life, the miracles, the baptism, all of the things we could say.
- 8:24Those are intriguing and fascinating, and we like them.
- 8:29All right, great.
- 8:55We also revel in resurrection, and we remind ourselves that he is risen.
- 9:02We remind ourselves that resurrection never ends, and we rejoice, just like the disciples rejoiced at the risen Christ.
- 9:12We share their sadness when Jesus ascends to the Father, and now we live between those comings.
- 9:29Well, if we like the disciples, learned to know Jesus and to develop that friendship that the Bible talks about, then why are we so reluctant for the return of our friend?
- 9:45Well, I think because of what I mentioned earlier, so often the second coming of Jesus was framed in fear instead of eager anticipation.
- 9:55And because we heard a lot about judgment, and we don't want to be
- 10:00Judged.
- 10:00We want to be welcomed into heaven.
- 10:02Well, that's about preparation.
- 10:05In the same way we prepare for Christmas, we need to prepare spiritually for the return of Jesus.
- 10:13So we're going to talk about preparation during Advent, and we're going to talk about anticipation, and we're going to try to frame all of that in a way that helps us stretch toward God's high calling.
- 10:26Because we have hope that He'll return.
- 10:28Now, we also at our church and many churches, we use an Advent wreath to help us celebrate and look forward to Christmas to remind ourselves of some important things and to just kind of revel in the reality that Jesus is coming and has come and all of that.
- 10:47And so each week has an emphasis in the first Sunday of Advent, we light the first candle, which reminds us about the prophecies that predicted the coming of Jesus.
- 10:59And there are many Old Testament prophecies that predict the coming of Jesus.
- 11:04Now you might say, why do I mention Old Testament specifically?
- 11:07Well, the New Testament begins with the arrival of Jesus.
- 11:11So there were approximately, and you'll find different numbers, but let's just make it easy this time and say there were 300, probably a few more than 300 prophecies predicting the coming of Jesus in some very specific ways.
- 11:27300 is a very large number.
- 11:30And people have wrestled with that and wondered about what's the likelihood of somebody fulfilling those prophecies.
- 11:37Well, a man named Peter Stoner, some years ago, decided to do more than wonder about it.
- 11:44He was a mathematician.
- 11:45He understood the science of probability.
- 11:48And so he wrote a book, and in his book, Science Speaks, he laid out his analysis of the probability that one person could fulfill the prophecies concerning Jesus.
- 12:02Now this was reviewed by the American scientific affiliation, and uh or well, I should say it was there was a foreword by someone from the American scientific affiliation that wrote that the analysis of Peter Stoner did wasund mathematically, and it followed the principles of probability.
- 12:25So it was what we might say today in shorthand.
- 12:28It was peer reviewed.
- 12:30So what did what did Peter Stoner do?
- 12:33Well, probability is an involved situation, and when you get into the use of large numbers like 300, or even smaller numbers than that, you get into enormous numbers when you talk about probability.
- 12:49So Peter Stoner selected eight specific prophecies referring to the coming of Jesus and did an analysis to answer the question what is the probability that one person in all of history could fulfill these eight prophecies.
- 13:08And so he calculated that all out, and he discovered that to fulfill all eight prophecies would be one chance in 10 to the 17th.
- 13:21Now it's been a long time since I've dealt with scientific numbers like 10 to the 17th.
- 13:26But what that means is there's one chance in a one with 17 zeros behind it.
- 13:35That's a very large number in case you aren't aware.
- 13:39He said, one chance in 10 to the 17th, or one out of one with 17 zeros behind it.
- 13:47Well, that's a uh a number that's really hard for us to comprehend.
- 13:51So Peter Stoner did us a favor.
- 13:54He illustrated it and said it's like this.
- 13:56He said, if you take 10 to the 17th silver dollars, that many silver silver dollars, and you spread them out all over Texas.
- 14:05Now, I don't know why he chose Texas, but we know Texas is a big state, and so everything's bigger in Texas, the phrase used to go, maybe still does.
- 14:14But he said you can spread those silver dollars, 10 to the 17th silver dollars all over the state of Texas, and it would cover the state of Texas.
- 14:23Are you ready for this?
- 14:24Two feet deep.
- 14:26That's a lot of silver dollars.
- 14:27If anybody ever offers to give you 10 to the 17th silver dollars, don't hesitate, say yes, thank you.
- 14:34It's a lot of silver dollars spread out over Texas, two feet deep.
- 14:38Now he said, if you will take one of those silver dollars and mark it, mark it maybe with a red X, mark it somehow, and toss it back into the pile.
- 14:50Now stir them all up, stir them thoroughly.
- 14:54Now, blindfold someone, pick someone, someone at random, blindfold them, and tell them they can go wherever they want to in the state of Texas, travel all over, however they want to, from the panhandle up and down to the Gulf Coast, all over Texas, wherever they want to go, but they only get one chance to pick that one marked silver dollar.
- 15:21How likely do you think that would be?
- 15:24Well, that's pretty obvious.
- 15:26It wouldn't be likely at all.
- 15:27That's what Peter Stoner says is the chance that even one person would fulfill eight specific prophecies of Jesus from the Bible.
- 15:39Well, I like to remind myself that, and that's one of my favorite stories.
- 15:44I like to tell that every year on the first Sunday of Advent, because it reminds me, and I hope it helps you realize that God was very deliberate about sending Jesus and very careful to make sure we had all the evidence we could ever need that he, Jesus, was the right person, that when God promised to send Messiah, he sent Jesus and the man from Galilee that we identify, he is the one, the Messiah, the one sent from God.
- 16:25Now that's important for us because we need to have confidence in the one sent from God.
- 16:31We need to have confidence that when we believe what Jesus says, we know he is the Son of God.
- 16:39When we listen to the stories about Jesus, we understand that we're hearing from the creator of the world, and we know he is the one who is the way, the truth, and the life, and we can trust him.
- 16:55That's why we can have faith.
- 16:57One of the compelling reasons we can have faith and have confidence, absolute confidence in the trustworthiness of God.
- 17:07So welcome to the new year.
- 17:10Welcome to the first weekend, the first Sunday of Advent, and let's begin our Advent journey with a reminder that Advent celebrates the birth of Jesus, and Advent celebrates the second coming of Jesus, and we can be confident that what the Bible tells us about him is true and will come to pass.
- 17:38All right, so now let's shift gears a little bit.
- 17:41Now I want to look at a parable that helps us think about the second coming of Jesus.
- 17:46And I want to help us with the context of that.
- 17:50We know some things about the way weddings were celebrated in Jesus' time.
- 17:58We don't know maybe every detail we'd like to, it depends where you read how much they seem to think we know.
- 18:04That's kind of normal in scholarly things, but in general sense, the wedding traditions in Jesus' day involved a betrothal, a period of waiting, a time when the bride was claimed by the groom, and then a celebration.
- 18:19Now we have a glimpse of the celebration idea because that was what took place in Cana of Galilee, where Jesus turned the water into wine.
- 18:27That was a wedding celebration.
- 18:30So let's let's flesh that out a little bit so we understand, and then let's get into the parable itself because it's it's really interesting, really interesting.
- 18:41So a wedding, what we might call a wedding, and that's a pretty general term right now.
- 18:47I'm using a uh joining of a man and a woman to form a new household, if you want to say that involves several steps.
- 18:56The first step was the betrothal.
- 18:59Now, in those days, marriages were pretty much arranged, and that still happens in some some cultures today, and that's fine.
- 19:08But the first step would have been a visit by the groom and his parents to the house of the potential bride to talk with her and her parents.
- 19:22Now, probably near as we can understand, this was all a foregone conclusion, but they did go through the steps that that led to the finalizing of this agreement.
- 19:36Probably the fathers in this case had already agreed that these two were going to get married, and probably they had consulted their son, their daughter, to find out about that and to begin the process.
- 19:47But anyway, they sit down and they have a conversation, and the invitation is extended for the bride to become the bride of this young man, the wife of this young man.
- 20:00And they go through the steps and they finalize it, and they conclude their conversation with the young man saying to the bride, I go to prepare a place for you.
- 20:11Now you might recognize that phrase as the one Jesus used with his disciples so that they would know when he ascended to the father he was preparing a place and he would return to to get them.
- 20:24We all understand that we've heard that in the Bible stories.
- 20:26So, okay, so the the young man, the groom, returns with his parents to their family home and begins to prepare a place, maybe a room in the family home, someplace, whatever was appropriate to their situation where he would bring his bride.
- 20:47Now, I heard one man explain this, and he said, like all young men, that guy, that young man, he would have slapped it together as quick as he could to figure out okay, now I can go get my bride.
- 21:00In his eagerness, he would have just done whatever he could do to get it ready to go.
- 21:05Except that readiness to claim the bride depended upon the father's permission.
- 21:12And only his father could tell him when everything was set so he could go claim his bride.
- 21:19So there's a period of waiting involved here.
- 21:22The bride is getting ready.
- 21:24She and her girlfriends, we might say, bridesmaids, could we say, are waiting and preparing for when the groom arrives because they don't know when he's going to come.
- 21:35Now, in reality, that may have been leaked.
- 21:39I don't know.
- 21:39But you get the idea.
- 21:40They were waiting.
- 21:41Well, at one point, then the father would say to the groom, okay, you can go claim your bride, and the groom and his friends would take off in a joyous celebration, a joyous procession to go to the bride's house and claim his bride, where they would then return for the celebration.
- 22:00All right, that's a rough idea of what happened.
- 22:04They returned for the wedding reception, we would say.
- 22:07So that's kind of an outline that we can piece together from what happened in those days.
- 22:14Now, we want to consider this parable that I want to read for us in that context.
- 22:21The context of what we know of a wedding celebration, a courtship, we could say, I guess, all the way to the wedding itself and the celebration after the wedding.
- 22:33So I want us to turn to the scriptures, and I want to read that story from Matthew chapter 25.
- 22:41And it's we get different names for it.
- 22:45Um, this particular edition of the English Bibles calls it the parable of the ten bridesmaids.
- 22:50So we'll stick with that one for now.
- 22:53But let me read that starting Matthew 25, verse 1.
- 22:58This is the new living translation.
- 23:01Then the kingdom of heaven will be like 10 bridesmaids who took their lamps and went to meet the bridegroom.
- 23:08All right, now I didn't say it, but you probably picked up on this because you're a smart audience.
- 23:12That's Jesus speaking.
- 23:14Then the kingdom of heaven will be like ten bridesmaids who took their lamps and went to meet the bridegroom.
- 23:20Five of them were foolish and five were wise.
- 23:23The five who were foolish didn't take enough olive oil for their lamps, but the other five were wise enough to take along extra oil.
- 23:33When the bridegroom was delayed, they all became drowsy and fell asleep.
- 23:39At midnight, they were roused by the shout, look, the bridegroom is coming.
- 23:44Come out and meet him.
- 23:46All the bridesmaids got up and prepared their lamps.
- 23:50Then the five foolish ones asked the others, please, give us some of your oil because our lamps are going out.
- 23:58But the others replied, We don't have enough for all of us.
- 24:02Go to a shop and buy some for yourselves.
- 24:06But while they were gone to buy oil, the bridegroom came.
- 24:11Then those who were ready went in with him to the marriage feast, and the door was locked.
- 24:16Later, when the other five bridesmaids returned, they stood outside calling, Lord, Lord, open the door for us.
- 24:24But he called back.
- 24:26Believe me, I don't know you.
- 24:30So you too must keep watch, for you do not know the day or hour of my return.
- 24:40Jesus' words, using the illustration of a wedding celebration and bridesmaids to remind us that we need to keep watch to be ready for his return.
- 24:55Now, remember, keeping watch for the arrival of the bridegroom was not considered an onerous or unpleasant situation.
- 25:06It was just part of the ritual, part of what happened.
- 25:10We should not think of keeping watch and preparing for the return of Jesus, except in the sense that it's what is and it's where we live.
- 25:20See, we live between the birth and the return.
- 25:25And we live with eager anticipation that one day Jesus will come and make all the wrong things right.
- 25:31We'll be right back.
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- 31:26Welcome back to Faith Is.
- 31:28I'm Pastor Rick Stevens, and we are celebrating the new year today on Faith Is.
- 31:33That's right.
- 31:34Remember, the beginning of Advent this weekend, November 30th specifically, is the first day of the new year as the church celebrates it, and we're remembering to anticipate the arrival of Jesus at Christmas and to anticipate the return of Jesus one day, a day we do not know, only the Father knows.
- 31:57But we have determined that it's important to be ready.
- 32:02In the same way we want to be ready for our Christmas celebrations, we want to be ready today and every day for the celebration for the anticipation of the return of Jesus.
- 32:13So we started out a few moments ago talking about a parable that's referred to in a lot of ways, and I said we'd refer to it as the parable of the ten bridesmaids.
- 32:26And we understand the context of the wedding celebration of those days, and we understand better why Jesus used that illustration, that parable to remind us of preparation, being ready.
- 32:43But I want to ask a question that that I saw asked by another preacher, and I thought it was a very good one.
- 32:50Well, what's in those lamps?
- 32:54You know, what what's in those lamps?
- 32:56Well, the parable says olive oil.
- 32:57Okay, I get that.
- 32:58But if but if he told that parable, and remember, parables are earthly stories with heavy meanings, they use earthly stories, things we understand to teach us about things we don't understand.
- 33:10That's what a parable does.
- 33:12So if we can understand that the people and the things in a parable symbolize something else, then we can ask, what's in those lamps?
- 33:25And maybe even more specifically, we can ask, what's in your lamp?
- 33:30Well, one of the things about the parable is the romance of anticipation.
- 33:34And we see that because it talks about the bridegroom and the bridesmaids being ready.
- 33:39Interestingly, the parable doesn't mention the bride at all.
- 33:43Mentions the bridesmaids and the bridesmaids are eagerly anticipating the arrival of the groom.
- 33:50Now, the bridesmaids are usually understood as representing the church, the people of God, you and me, eagerly anticipating the return of Jesus.
- 33:59And there is a romance of anticipation.
- 34:03We love to anticipate things.
- 34:05We anticipate holidays.
- 34:07Right now we're anticipating Christmas, because very quickly in our culture, we put Thanksgiving in the rear view mirror and start thinking about Christmas.
- 34:14Okay, that's just the way we do.
- 34:17So we anticipate the coming holiday, the trips that we take.
- 34:22If you have a trip planned, maybe for Christmas or something else, you anticipate, you look forward to that trip.
- 34:28And part of the enjoyment is the anticipation.
- 34:31It's the same way for birthdays.
- 34:34We anticipate celebrating a birthday, and we look forward to that, and the anticipation is part of the joy of the celebration.
- 34:42Even something as simple as weekends.
- 34:44How many times have you heard people talk about how they're looking forward to the weekend?
- 34:48Well, we we have a romance with anticipation.
- 34:51We live for the next big thing.
- 34:53As soon as Independence Day is over, we start thinking, okay, what's the next holiday?
- 34:57Oh, Labor Day.
- 34:59Well, that's just how we have learned, taught ourselves, our culture has begun to celebrate the next thing, the anticipation.
- 35:08We manage the law between big events because we just realize that you can't have a high level of anticipation all the time.
- 35:18It's just not sustainable.
- 35:20We understand that.
- 35:21And so we learn to manage that anticipation.
- 35:24And in a similar way, we are not always going to feel as eager for the return of Jesus as we do one day to the next, because we understand that we can't maintain that kind of emotional level.
- 35:38So we learn to manage our emotions.
- 35:40We learn that anticipation is part of the experience and that anticipation kind of rises and falls day by day, looking forward to it.
- 35:49But it is a significant part of the experience.
- 35:52And so it's it's good for us to have anticipation of the coming of Jesus.
- 35:59We should teach ourselves to anticipate that.
- 36:03And in the context of being ready when we have the assurance of readiness, then the anticipation is different.
- 36:10Now, we're going to talk about readiness as we go along, but if you have trouble anticipating, is it because you know you aren't ready?
- 36:20Now that's a serious realization.
- 36:23And the remedy is get ready.
- 36:26Get ready for the coming of the Lord.
- 36:29Because when he comes, there will be no time for getting ready.
- 36:32We saw that because when the bridegroom arrived, the bridesmaids that didn't have extra oil didn't get in to the celebration.
- 36:43So it reminds us of the importance of being ready.
- 36:46And we need to understand that.
- 36:49And if we have trouble anticipating, we need to reorient our understanding so that we can begin to anticipate.
- 36:56One day, he is coming to make all the wrong things right.
- 37:01And that's going to be what a day.
- 37:03As we sometimes have sung, what a day that will be.
- 37:07Absolutely it will.
- 37:08Now, so we understand the romance of anticipation, and that was involved in the story.
- 37:13The bridesmaids were ready for the groom to come.
- 37:16They were anticipating his arrival.
- 37:18But we also, and we've started talking about this a little bit, understand the reality of delay.
- 37:26That's just life, okay?
- 37:27And we live in the reality of delay.
- 37:32We live today in the unrealized certainty that Jesus is coming.
- 37:37Well, he's coming, but we haven't experienced that yet.
- 37:41It's as though, and I like to say this on Holy Saturday, the Saturday between Good Friday and Easter.
- 37:48What do we do with that?
- 37:49Well, what we realize is that that's where we live.
- 37:53We live between Jesus, death, burial, and resur and the resurrection on Sunday.
- 38:00And so we live between the coming of Jesus and the return of Jesus.
- 38:06That's just how we live.
- 38:09And we wrestle with things like in the book of Revelation in the early, I think it's in the first verse, maybe the second.
- 38:17The book of Revelation says that this is a revelation of what must soon take place.
- 38:24And so, so we think soon.
- 38:27Well, you and I, uh, it's just kind of the the way we understand the concept of soon.
- 38:33We think soon should be this afternoon, or or maybe tomorrow at the latest.
- 38:38We think soon should be, well, soon.
- 38:41Well, obviously, the concept that's portrayed or communicated to us in Revelation is different than that, but we still understand that it will happen, even though we live in a time of delay.
- 38:57We have to learn to understand that delay, manage that delay.
- 39:01It's a reality, but it doesn't change the romance of anticipation because we anticipate the coming of Jesus.
- 39:10We just understand that, well, we have to wait.
- 39:13Now, we can rest in that, even sleep.
- 39:16Uh sleep's a necessity.
- 39:18And you know the parable talks about how they went to sleep, but it doesn't condemn them for going to sleep.
- 39:26So, you know, we might have heightened anticipation of the return of Jesus at some point, but then the law that we talked about sets in, and maybe we sleep.
- 39:38Figuratively speaking.
- 39:40Well, and sleep as a reality of the physical condition.
- 39:44That's it's not criticized, it's understood.
- 39:46It's it's the way it is.
- 39:48And and when we rest during these delay periods that we experience, then we rest in the consolation of his coming.
- 39:59You know, we can.
- 40:00Rest during the delay because we still know he's coming.
- 40:04He's not here yet, but he's coming.
- 40:07He's coming.
- 40:09He will be here.
- 40:11And so we rest in the consolation of that reality.
- 40:15But we rest also in readiness.
- 40:20And that's this third point that we should make out of this parable is the recovery of readiness.
- 40:26And that's where the question comes in what's in your lamp?
- 40:29Are you ready for the coming of the Lord?
- 40:32Get ready.
- 40:34The old song, kind of a popular song that most people would not remember because it was here and there and gone.
- 40:40But get ready for the coming of the Lord.
- 40:42Well, there's a lot of songs that talk about that.
- 40:44So what do we make of the oil?
- 40:48What's in your lamp?
- 40:51Now, it's easy to equate the reference to oil with the oil of the Holy Spirit.
- 40:58And I don't think that's improper.
- 41:00Remember, when we have these kind of images in the Bible, the idea is for it to appeal to our imagination to get us to think about things.
- 41:11If it meant to be a specific, carefully described and defined entity, it would do that.
- 41:20The Bible would do that.
- 41:22But Jesus uses this to fire our imagination and to help us think about things like what's in your lamp.
- 41:29Is your lamp ready?
- 41:31Do you have an extra supply of oil for your lamp so that your readiness is assured?
- 41:38And we're trying to get our arms around this idea.
- 41:41And so I want us to think specifically about that.
- 41:45It's easy to say, okay, it's the oil of the Holy Spirit, but what does that mean?
- 41:50Well, maybe we can think of it this way.
- 41:54In 1 Corinthians chapter 13, verse 13, the last chapter or the last verse of this chapter, the chapter we often refer to as the love chapter, we read these words.
- 42:08Three things will last forever, faith, hope, and love.
- 42:14And the greatest of these is love.
- 42:17So when we sing the song, give me oil in my lamp, keep me burning.
- 42:22Maybe we should think about the oil being the oil of faith, the oil of hope, the oil of love.
- 42:31And of course, the summary, the greatest of these is love.
- 42:34Well, how do we how do we make those more concrete?
- 42:38Well, the reason I came up with this definition of faith that we use here is because I struggled with how do I make something that's abstract like faith more concrete so people can actually live into and live out their faith.
- 42:53And so I came up with the idea that faith is absolute confidence in the trustworthiness of God.
- 43:00Often people doubt or wonder or question God, but faith is absolute confidence in the trustworthiness of God.
- 43:10And we don't put our confidence that God will do what we tell him we want done.
- 43:15That's not the point.
- 43:16The point is that we trust God to manage life and living because we have absolute confidence that he's trustworthy.
- 43:26So the oil in your lamp could be faith.
- 43:30I hope it is.
- 43:31The oil in your lamp could be hope.
- 43:33Remember Corinthians said these three things will last forever, faith, hope, and love.
- 43:39Well, so you have faith.
- 43:41What about hope?
- 43:42Now, what is hope?
- 43:43Now, hope is part of the celebration of the first Sunday of Advent.
- 43:48We understand that.
- 43:49That's kind of normal because of the predictions, the prophecy that Jesus would come, so it reminds us of hope.
- 43:56But but what is hope?
- 43:58You know, sometimes people think of hope as pie in the sky by and by, and that is not what the Bible wants us to think of.
- 44:05When we think of hope, we're not thinking of, well, I hope my team wins the game next week.
- 44:11Well, you might hope they win.
- 44:13Sometimes I hope my team wins.
- 44:15But that's not the hope the Bible's talking about.
- 44:18We might hope we get a certain gift for Christmas, but that's not the hope the Bible's talking about.
- 44:26I mean, we have gotten the gift because God gave us the gift of Jesus.
- 44:30So we've gotten the gift we need.
- 44:33But but we think of hope in those terms in a hoped for outcome.
- 44:38And there are a lot of things that we hope will turn out right.
- 44:41And I understand that.
- 44:42We all understand that.
- 44:44But hope, as the Bible talks about it, is a more active acceptance of and understanding of and realize of, in a certain sense, what God is going to do.
- 44:57So perhaps we can think of hope this way.
- 45:00Perhaps hope is the unrealized certainty of God's promises.
- 45:06The unrealized certainty of God's promises.
- 45:10See, that that puts hope in a different category because, well, we know it hasn't happened, but we know it's going to, because God is God and He promised it.
- 45:18It's not the Keserah Sarah of whatever will be, will be.
- 45:22That's not hope, as the Bible talks about.
- 45:24No.
- 45:25Hope is the confident assurance that God will keep his promises.
- 45:30Now, you might say, well, I think God promised this and he didn't do this for me.
- 45:34No, no, be careful.
- 45:37This kind of hope in God's promises is not a selfish hope that we'll get our way.
- 45:42That's not it.
- 45:43Or we'll get what we want.
- 45:44There'll been plenty of things that I would have liked God to have done differently in my life.
- 45:48Plenty.
- 45:50But that's not my place to tell God what he must do.
- 45:56My place is to have assurance, confidence that I can trust God, and I live in the unrealized certainty that he will keep his promises.
- 46:05If you want support for that idea, think about it this way.
- 46:09Because a lot of people want, give me some evidence that I can have confidence in God.
- 46:12Well, consider this.
- 46:13God entered into covenant with Abraham and the people of Abraham's tribe, the Hebrew people, the Jewish people.
- 46:23And in spite of their unfaithfulness, and you can read the stories in the Old Testament.
- 46:28Terrible stories, uh brutally honest, difficult.
- 46:32In spite of their unfaithfulness, God never wavered in keeping his promises.
- 46:39Never once.
- 46:55I realize that's a kind of a peculiar way of saying it, but think about it.
- 46:58The unrealized certainty of God's promises.
- 47:03So we have faith.
- 47:04We have faith in our lamps.
- 47:06We have hope in our lamps.
- 47:08What about love?
- 47:08Do we have love in our lamps?
- 47:10Because readiness involves preparation, having oil for the coming of the bridegroom.
- 47:19So maybe we should think of love now.
- 47:21Faith, hope, and love.
- 47:22Three things that'll last forever.
- 47:24Well, now, what's love?
- 47:26That is probably the hardest concept for us to wrestle with because we use the word love in so many crazy ways.
- 47:34From I love my dog to I love pizza, and you could go on and on and on.
- 47:38I'd love to have a conversation with you.
- 47:41I love that, I love this, on and on.
- 47:43We insert the word love.
- 47:46But the Bible's view of love is different.
- 47:48And so I was thinking, how could I describe that better for us?
- 47:54And I borrowed this from another definition of another concept.
- 47:58But I think it kind of helps.
- 48:00What if we think of love as an understanding and practice of life that puts the well-being of others ahead of our own self-interest?
- 48:13What if love is, let me say that again, an understanding and practice of life that puts the well-being of others ahead of our own self-interest?
- 48:25Could that be love?
- 48:28Yeah, sure could be.
- 48:30How many times are we irritated in life because we don't get what we want?
- 48:36And yet, how many times have we known the joy of helping someone else get what they want and putting their self-interest ahead of ours?
- 48:44Years ago, the concept of joy was spelled out in a song that said, Jesus and others and you, what a wonderful way to spell joy.
- 48:52Well, that's one way to think about love, too.
- 48:55Love and understanding and practice of life that puts the well-being of others ahead of our own self-interest.
- 49:02So if that's the oil we need for our lamps, where do we go for a refill?
- 49:06In the parable, the bridesmaids that needed more oil went off to a shop to purchase more oil.
- 49:13And they were successful, they got more oil, but by the time they got back, the door had been closed and they could not enter the celebration of the return of the bridegroom.
- 49:25Where do we go for a refill?
- 49:26If we want to have oil in our lamps, how do we refill that oil?
- 49:30Because some of you are thinking, well, I don't know if I'm ready for the coming of Jesus.
- 49:35Some of us are thinking, well, I I'm a Christian, but I don't know if I have enough oil in my lamp.
- 49:42Where do we go for a refill?
- 49:44Well, it's really quite simple.
- 49:47And every time I mention these things, I get the feeling that people say, Well, that's what I've always heard.
- 49:52And as though they're looking for some special formula, some extra remedy, some
- 50:00Silver bullet idea that'll just solve the problem, but I don't really have that for us because God has given us the way to refill our oil supplies over and over and over.
- 50:13We just have a tendency to reject the idea because we don't like it.
- 50:19I can assure you that whether you like it or not, having a full supply of oil is going to matter on the day that it matters.
- 50:27So where do you go for a refill?
- 50:30Probably won't surprise you, but the first answer to that is to church.
- 50:34You go to church every weekend.
- 50:38Now I know some churches have service on different days other than Sunday these days.
- 50:42The Bible doesn't object to that.
- 50:46What I'm saying is, find a church that believes what the Bible says and practices it and show up for worship every weekend, every Sunday or whatever day that church has service that you can attend.
- 51:05Show up to church.
- 51:06Repeatedly in the book of Revelation, we saw worship pop up, and it's an important vital practice for us to keep our lives centered on God and in the context of this parable to keep our oil supply filled up.
- 51:22Secondly, Bible study.
- 51:25A conversation about the Bible goes a long, long way toward resupplying the oil in our lamps.
- 51:32Now, people get a little how should I say uncomfortable with even that idea.
- 51:38Well, where do I go for a Bible study?
- 51:40Well, you can find them.
- 51:42It might not be easy to find one that suits you, but real remember, the first time you go, it's not going to feel comfortable, but you need to go a few times, and maybe it will be comfortable, but find a Bible study, a conversation about the Bible that helps you grow.
- 51:56And the third one is this actually serve.
- 51:59Do something for your church to help the church accomplish its mission of building up the body of Christ.
- 52:06Find something you can do.
- 52:08Don't just go sit in the pew or in the chair, whatever arrangement your church has.
- 52:15Actually do something.
- 52:17What a refreshing idea.
- 52:19You go for a refill to church to Bible study and to a place of service, a ministry for yourself.
- 52:25Now, how do you measure your reserves?
- 52:28I think that's important.
- 52:29I mean, we can see in the parable that it says they ran out of oil, they didn't have enough supply.
- 52:34So how do we measure our reserves?
- 52:36Well, that's not as easy as we might think it is.
- 52:42We measure our reserves in the crucible of life because life happens, and how we respond is a measure of our oil supply.
- 52:52Do we have an adequate supply to respond to the things of life?
- 52:58So there's an illustration of that that happened some years ago.
- 53:01You may remember when a young man walked into a church in Charleston, South Carolina on a Wednesday evening for their Bible study.
- 53:10Some historically black church.
- 53:13He walked in, a white young man, terrible story, attended the Bible study, in the course of time pulled out a gun and shot and killed nine people, including the pastor in that Bible study.
- 53:26Terrible, terrible incident.
- 53:28You probably remember hearing about it.
- 53:35Well, the church responded in a way that shocked some people, amazed some people, but warmed the heart of many people.
- 53:47Because the church did not respond with anger.
- 53:51It did not respond with blame.
- 53:53It did not respond with recrimination.
- 53:56It responded with faith, hope, and love.
- 54:02It responded because they had stored up oil for a time like that.
- 54:09They had lived through the difficulties of life, and they had learned to turn to God to Bible study, to serving so that they would have oil supplied for such a time as that.
- 54:24And people were kind of amazed.
- 54:26They didn't know what to think.
- 54:28Some of them gave unneeded advice.
- 54:32But the church responded in a way that we would hope all churches would be able to.
- 55:20We see light.
- 55:40It's the people of God.
- 55:41And we need to be ready to embrace really the best news of the parable.
- 55:47You probably caught it.
- 55:50That when the bridegroom arrived, those who were ready went in with him to the marriage feast.
- 55:57When the bridegroom arrives, we who are ready, we get to go to the marriage supper of the Lamb.
- 56:05And we get to celebrate the words of Revelation.
- 56:10When Jesus said he was coming, we celebrate with the writer.
- 56:14Amen.
- 56:14Come, Lord Jesus.
- 56:16And may the grace of the Lord Jesus be with God's holy people.
- 56:21And everyone said, Amen.
- 56:24I'm Pastor Rick!