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Why You Have No Friends: It's Your Vibration · The Spirit Nomad: Spiritual Awakening + Life Purpose

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  Have you always felt like you've had a hard time fitting in and
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  making friends? Today we're talking about
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  loneliness and how this can actually be a sign of spiritual
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  awakening. Ever since I became an adult, I
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  have been a bit of a loner. In high school, I remember
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  groups were forming really quickly and people were becoming
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  best friends. They would meet after school, go
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  to parties and it's not like I was anti social.
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  I was talking to people, I wasn't eating alone, but nobody
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  ever invited me to do something after school.
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  My low point was when I wasn't invited to a birthday party by
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  my classmate and she invited every single person except me
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  and another girl who was bullied for her mental disability.
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  The other low points that stand out was when I completed a
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  triathlon and I had nobody there when I came to the finish line
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  to greet me to congratulate me. When I graduated school I became
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  a nomad, which means that in my 20s I didn't really make many
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  friends because I was traveling the world.
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  So I would just meet friends short term in different
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  countries and then I would move to different country.
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  Eventually I ran out of money and I got a job in Stockholm and
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  even then I was struggling. I would go on these friends apps
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  where you go on a date with a friend and I never really
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  clicked with anybody. And I thought that I would be
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  making friends at work like the Office, one of my favorite TV
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  shows, but the oldest state colleagues and many have formed
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  best friends within the office. But nobody was with me, and it
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  was really tough being so lonely.
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  One of my favorite TV shows is Friends, and I've always wanted
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  to have a tight friend group where we all hang around with
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  each other, support each other, but it never really happened as
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  an adult for me. Eventually I decided to go to a
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  psychic to get some answers of why I've always felt like I
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  don't fit in. What is going on?
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  And she said that I am a light worker and I've incarnated on
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  Earth many times to help humanity.
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  We're in this time of spiritual ascension.
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  As you can see, the old 3D World is collapsing, so there's lots
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  of us light workers here now. And if you're watching this
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  video, then chances are that you were also an old soul here to
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  help planet Earth through this critical time.
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  Since you've had this many lifetimes, it means that you
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  have learned a lot and you've grown in vibrations, you've
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  raised in vibrations. This means that you're in a
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  higher vibration than most humans, and the thing with
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  vibration is that you are drawn to what is your current
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  probation. If you imagine most people being
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  on roughly the same vibration, they would more easily make
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  friends and somebody who is on a very much higher or low much
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  lower vibration. So to put it simply, you are
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  most likely not a vibrational match to the people around you
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  and that's why you are not making friends and fitting in.
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  If this sounds confusing, let's make an example.
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  If you've ever been depressed, you might have noticed that you
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  didn't attract the best relationships.
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  If you compare it to a period when you weren't depressed, you
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  were also probably listening to different music, more sad, low
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  vibe music, and you were probably eating more low vibe
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  food when you were depressed, such as junk food.
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  And yes, this means that the more you raise in vibration, the
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  less friends will be available to you to find.
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  Now, does that mean that if you have any friends, it means
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  you're low vibrational? No, that's not what I'm saying.
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  It means that you are on your core frequencies, You're being
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  yourself, you're being true to you and therefore attracting
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  people who are on your frequency.
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  I would say I am on my core frequency.
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  I've done a lot of spiritual work, but what I still have left
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  to do to attract my my soulmate tribe is my inner child work.
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  I am scared to be vulnerable with people in case they reject
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  me, and I think this wound is very common for people who are
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  struggling to make friends. We have a detached attachment
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  style to friends. We're scared to get close to
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  them as it means we could get rejected.
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  So we need to tell our inner child that it's OK.
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  It's OK to be vulnerable with people.
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  It's OK for people not like you and reject you because we don't
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  know what they're going through and what we trigger in them.
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  That's the thing with being hyperbational.
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  Often it becomes like a mirror where they discover
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  uncomfortable truths about themselves and they take it out
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  on you instead of looking within.
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  For example, my friend who is also a light worker, she
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  recently had an argument with a former friend and she said that
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  she couldn't have hours and hours of conversations every
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  single day. And she said also how it seemed
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  like she was not giving as much to the friendship as she was, as
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  she was mostly talking about herself and this friend.
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  Instead of taking in this feedback and respecting her
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  boundaries, she lashed out on my friend and they cut the
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  friendship so she got triggered. Instead of looking at herself,
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  she took it out on my friend. So not every friend will grow
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  with you, but your soulmate friends are out there.
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  They are waiting for you to find them and they will grow with
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  you. They will respect you for your
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  authentic self. So be patient and be you.
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  Stay in your corporation. Don't be scared of being who you
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  are because that is how you attract your soulmate friends.
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  Did this resonate? Let me know in the comments.
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  Love you so much and have a beautiful day.