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Oral Sex....Do you give to receive or receive to give?? · Black Girl Interrupted Podcast

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  All. What y'all y'all and a porch. You'll see. I got my
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  guests with me tonight. I'm gonna let them introduce themselves. So who I
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  got with me on Black Girl Interrupted tonight? Well be starting. You have
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  me. I'm Keish. I'm the owner and SHEEO of Colors Back Keish and
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  the host of Keisha's Corner that as on Fridas at eight thirty pm Eastern seven
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  thirty pm Century and I have my special guests here, my lovely husband.
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  Go ahead, Hey, what's up y'all. I don't know if y'all don't
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  heard of me hurt my voice before. I'm terr artist for Full I do
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  Madden in two K Gaming, and I'm also owned Atlanta Foston's Nation Channel.
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  If you're Atlanta Fastons Fade, you can go check that out. You probably
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  heard my voice do that too. All right, it's your girl, Nicking
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  Nicole, and I'm just saying, oh, let's talk about it. You
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  can find me on anchors Spotify and you need another platform and listen to your
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  podcast. Oh let's talk about it. Girl. Like you said, let's
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  talk about it. We get into something real to night. So as you
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  know, every season joining But tonight, y'all know that talk about so to
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  kick it out, we're talking about do you give to That's definitely something to
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  Eastern Time for all brand new episodes. All right, y'all know everything Oda
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  nightA know your grandma emotional for us to night. Like I said, we
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  talk about so, how do y'all feel about it? Like y'all talking about
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  it? Because I tell you that they reddy baby, So we're just gonna
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  drop right on it all sex. Why is this copy sou taboo with black
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  women? And Nikki? Since you the new kid on the black we're putting
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  you on that. I get first, Okay, I think it's not taboo
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  with me, But I think for a lot of Black women that they are
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  embarrassed to talk about, like I don't know, for whatever reason. And
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  then I think depending on the era that you were brought up in, you
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  have a lot of black women who think that that nasty. Personally, I
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  believe it's just I personally believe that's a part of sex. But I have
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  had conversations they're like, girl, do you do that? Like, oh
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  my god, I just can't see my stuff doing that. But it's like
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  it goes hand in hand. You can't do one without doing the other.
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  So to me, I think that's the perfect beason. So many women think
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  that it's taboo because it's an embarrassment Nash. You know, they feel like
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  it's something extra. All right, since you you you, you have to
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  lose you no more. I'm going to my bow. How a woman,
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  why do you think? Why do you think this? I think hold taboo
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  with black women? Hold up before you answer that, we got a couple
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  of times and pay my ship out. Oh no, Michell, hold one,
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  say hold on, we got shot And Michelle say, mm oh wait
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  wait a minute, oh hold on, shame were no, mich you have
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  to t you have to you have to This is something that we have to
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  talk about. Absolutely. Cousin say, it's fun. It is fun.
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  It's fun. It's definitely fun. Y'all favorite over here scrass the sculpous shit
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  because we weren't want to get deep into this and and you know some real
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  stuff. This is definitely the topic we need to talk about because I do
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  black women to a party breathing and thanks for you know what I'm saying.
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  I want you to be streak girl. Wait a minute, we got all
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  these come in hayting s say this is intering. I love you too.
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  That's the one tack woman we want allied to its cress our sexual department.
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  Absolutely so ever, this season, we're really gonna explore our sexuality for black
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  women. Graduate glass of wine, whether friends, because we we're gonna get
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  ridly well, let's go back to this because brother, but brother, I
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  definitely why was also almost black? I really think because uh, I don't
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  know when her name wasn't it just popped up in the comments, but she
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  hit it right on the nail. I think y'all are more judged. But
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  the stuff that y'all do, if y'all doing things out of that, it's
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  short and every to please y'all man or whoever. I believe y'all get judged
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  for that on what's on vice versa. As men, we don't get judged,
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  so that that that's that's why I think come down to an agree that
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  like that that the world love to judge y'alla. They call y'all holes and
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  tricks and those words were doing that, But a black man or any man
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  can do the same thing and it's nothing. But I just feel like,
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  you know, you can have a white woman like you said, I would
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  conversate to gdulsit in the group they talk about everything and probably none of their
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  girls won't pass judgment, and then appost to black women black women like Nick
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  you said, it's some black women believe that's not as old. I would
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  never No, that's not my expertise. So that's kind of why. That's
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  why it's always a sweet gery on what's done in the bathroom. And then
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  you know what else one thing too. This might sound crazy, but it's
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  my honest opinion over stats, just saying over things, if you don't know
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  what you do, you probably have a lot of black women that don't know
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  how to do it, so therefore they portray it to be nasty, when
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  in reality, it's because they don't know how to do it anyway, because
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  they not let that. You know, they probably don't let them because they
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  can't read cheated. So hey, they can't experience that because they don't reach
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  it, can't it can't go that far. So you know you have to
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  go judge as the women. Yeah, it's sad. It's okay. Women.
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  If your man is a little bit short, lord, have birth.
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  I just keeping it real, different simes for everybody. I told you we
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  have a love of a my echoes. You are a little bit yeah,
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  oh Jesus, So Drea said. A lot of women wait a minute,
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  because that's not better? Keep talking? Am I still no? I don't
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  he a little bit? Yeah? Alright, so Dreya said. A lot
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  of women speak of all sex of masturbation. All do it because of the
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  let's take this is, but I don't think on sex like masturbation. We
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  all do. Yeah, and that's masturbation for them. You know, instead
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  of you using your hands, you just just know muscles in your mouth.
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  Here you go. I don't I think it's just something that it all goes
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  together. Because if you want to get real max, like, you gotta
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  get that man can somehow like whether like you just said, keep your whether
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  it's your hand or whether now he ain't just gonna slide up in there.
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  So you gotta get it going. You gotta get the blood flowing, you
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  gotta get the juices going. So one way or the other. To me,
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  it's just it all goes together. Yeah the man. So why it's
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  not egging, but it sounds lower to me. Wait a minute, now,
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  you must have too open. They will wait a minute, is that
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  that? Yeah, wait a minute, y'all. This is yo. Why
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  she's trying to get her audio together. She overa taking pictures. But I'm
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  gonna get my perspective on that to keep it going. This comment. This
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  comment says that women lied about masturbation, but to be honest, especially in
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  high school middle school, man lied about it too because we because we didn't
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  want to be embarrassed at Oh you you beat your stuff or you know whatever,
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  and you told different things about it, but you would be told everybody
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  has done it or going to do it. But that's just a certain go
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  ahead. I think certain situations may even call for it, Like you hate
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  to go there, but let's just say you had a husband wife, he
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  was in an accident or you know, a certain situation where they couldn't perform
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  over a certain period of time. What you gonna do? You know,
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  like, if one thing ain't working, there's nothing wrong with trying something else.
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  See, So if that man is sitting there and he's been in an
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  accident, you know, for whatever reason, let's just say he can't get
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  him talk to you. But y'all in the mood, you know he wants
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  what he wants, like as a wife or a girlfriend. Are you not
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  gonna do? Let me. I'm gonna suck all that motherfucker who you hit
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  me because he may be here, but I'd rather than the water thick in
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  my mouth for another whole mouth. Then if somebody else's right, because y'all
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  cause coming from me, it probably don't. But but he can say I'm
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  feeling I'm just saying. You know, some people might mean, you know,
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  paralyne from the waist down, but you know, I'm gonna just leave
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  it alone. But you know what I'm saying, right like I told,
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  like I told my brother today, I'm gonna suck. Let me take you
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  something. People, I may I may have to go out and come back,
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  but y'all gonna keep you going. Yeah, but let me say this,
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  there's nothing wrong with what sucking did, just like there's nothing wrong with
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  eat for you can't suck everybody, and you can't set everybody, of course,
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  but do it, don't no, not do day. I'm gonna say,
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  do it. I feel like you definitely gotta be in a healthy relationship,
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  Like you can't just be out here dating with John on Monday, Bobby
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  on Wednesday and then saying I'm on Friday. But if you are in a
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  healthy relationship and it's a ya, you can't suk his dig, then eat
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  his balls. It did put his balls in his dig, eat your mouth.
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  So if you can't do all three with two different men, I don't,
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  right, because then you're transferring back to You're just germs back and forth.
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  Oh yeah, And I'm I'm seeing something everybody's But I'm saying, but
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  if you are like Nick, you say, if you were in the relationship
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  to me, I think it's a part of s Yeah, you know,
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  it's definitely a part of it because and the reason I see it is because
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  people when our men do to all yeah, right, that don't taking everybody
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  that's getting and I recommit, and I don't let everybody my mom look because
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  no sas to my bother. But you gotta wash these men too, like
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  y'all want to go and digging your fingernails, you got to be clean.
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  Those hands gotta be washed, like y'all can't come touching out any kind of
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  way too. So yeah, it goes both. So y'all keep because I'm
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  feeling I don't know why of all nights we want to do this, So
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  I'm going younger? Is that bett h? It's still echoing? Not really?
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  Do I sound better? Wait a minute, let me matter. So
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  I think because we were younger, a lot of people didn't understand the whole
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  point of masturbation all the six just because we gave it. They just felt
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  like, oh, you'll hope for that. It's a lot of men women.
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  How can I put this hypocrisy? Yeah, going on? So,
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  yeah, they would probably judge back then because we're younger, because hey,
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  I mean, nobody didn't know nothingbody. But as you get older, I
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  bet those stray men that used to judge you out here just sticking their tongue
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  in everything. Alicia Karen Julie Becky whatever you want call her, and he's
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  having she's having the time of their life. So it's because it wasn't understood.
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  But they don't have six education anymore. So. But you know what
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  else I think too, if you look at now versus back in the day,
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  we got me and that want it. You have women that actually want
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  to do it or their man. But back in the day something some time
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  it was as changed as a favor, and that could be why a lot
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  of women didn't perform it. You know, it was almost like a punishment,
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  like, oh, you did this, now you gotta come and do
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  this. You know. It wasn't like a pleasurable moment. So that could
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  be a good reason why women feel like this is not what we're supposed to
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  do based on whatever era. Want you know, you were brought up in.
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  So here's one said that definitely, but maybe it takes the right man
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  putting that out a big funny book. Let me tell you something. This
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  might be a tap my, but I didn't do it until this guy.
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  I'm just saying, so, brother, this is a man. So what
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  how do you feel about that comic? How do you how do you feel
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  about that comment. It makes you feel especially it makes you, you know,
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  feel like Okay, not only am I help her you know physically like
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  get there or whatever, but as a as a man, you know,
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  husband myself, she's willing to get her all to me and I helped her
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  reach new levels and she's doing the same thing to me, so we can
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  like come back with each other. So were you talking about the comments?
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  I mean all the time and dream made What are you talking about the comments?
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  She'd say, man play a big part? Oh what kind of pretty
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  much answered that. Yeah, he asked the question, says that's honestly,
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  but shoot, you know it can be times where the woman can bring it
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  out the man too. Yes, uh, we can see your comments.
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  I'm not sure why, especially if it's live. If you're on Facebook,
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  you should see the comments, especially if you swipe left or right. So
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  make sure you didn't hide the comments. Well, you know, if you're
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  on Facebook, you should slide over to their YouTube. You can see all
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  the comments there too, all the comments there too. And her said,
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  as far as it takes the right man or woman to bring it out,
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  like I definitely think there's about to be a mutual attraction. Like you don't
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  really do it for everybody, like that person has to bring it out of
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  you. And I know, I keep going back to hygiene, but that
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  lays a major part, Like women do you gotta keep it fresh, you
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  gotta keep clean, and I'm a good ahead and keep it waal, I
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  gotta keep it shames like the whole bunch of hair is a turtle. And
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  then for a maid, y'all gotta take a shower, and y'll gotta change
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  those draws. You can't just put the same underwearing about on the next day
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  and think, oh my and do what. Yeah, you know, so
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  how did you plays a major part on top of the attraction that you have
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  for the person. Oh and I'm saying my months lay off, my day,
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  baby sat look like she's get ready to be killed. But I think
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  to go back, hold on, not to interrupt it. To go back
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  to the high school thing. You know, if a girl did do that,
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  men didn't know how to keep their mouth closed. I've been in school
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  long enough to know that every time. That's why I hit you behind him,
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  Yeah, that's why you suck my or whatever. So they didn't know
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  how to keep that mouth close. So that's another reason why you like,
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  it's either that or you know, I ain't gonna lie. We're going to
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  the homeboys, and then the homeboys to somebody else, and then somebody out
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  of that group, somebody out of that group gonna want it from you too,
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  and then if it's good, and then the whole school go on.
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  So then you feel in the barish, and then you'll become a hole because
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  people wanting not necessarily then even actually getting a chance to hit that you know,
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  it's word of mouth. Man, she let me try to, and
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  that's what brings the embarrassment. And this time that one woman gets labeled.
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  Yep. But if we're in if we're in high school and we're a man,
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  and even toil this day, now the hypocrisy. Uh, we got
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  multiple women and we sex and multiple women, we get caught as a pimp.
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  No, y'all get a man. But when you when you're again,
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  when you're when you go into talking about all this, don't just jumping.
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  I want you to work the way out to the n of party. I
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  need you all to working way down to the pot. Don't just jumping,
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  and don't be nicking any pot like you are, like you nicking off a
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  bold like you got to you want to get into me, you won't be
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  oh read the thank you for watching on YouTube. So the comments you're seeing
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  are they could be coming from different pages as well, so you may not
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  see all the comments because we're streaming from multiple pages. But you're in the
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  right spot. So y'all, just y'all, just get that lady from Black
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  Girl interrupted subscribe, Yeah, yall, and miss Nikki down here so I
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  don't let's talk about it or ain't or Spotify. She's on all the streaming
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  all camera, don't get here, we'll walk off the conversation Instagram. We're
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  gonna post. Y'all know this is Joe or to y'all, what's the best
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  position for us? I'm a start with you. See I would say I
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  would say six now, but let's be but let's be honest. Let's be
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  honest. If one person is doing a damn good job, that other person
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  ain't gonna be able to concentrate. You got damn work. Let me tell
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  you something you're looking at how to pack that? I'm not so I don't
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  know. I don't know what to really say. Yes, that is black
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  Girl with a little black sparkles. Yes, that is yes, right up
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  over there, it's about to do it because my direction. But yeah,
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  I would honestly, I would honestly say not six nine, because it ain't
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  no way if y'all giving it to each other that y'all both gonna be you
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  know what, what's that word at the same time, right right right?
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  So I think just I think just the regular would do fine. You know,
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  you get your chance and she didn't get her chance to do it.
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  But six nine, I don't think that's the way to go, to be
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  honest, could be if you if you focus, Yeah, that's what I'm
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  saying. If both of y'all are focused and doing it right, somebody's gone
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  left some pasion of holding it together. Yeah, it's like a rate.
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  I don't get attention. If you eat that pop and I'm talking about it,
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  that me fucking goes out the window. That's what I'm saying. I'm
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  not I'm I'm gonna be real with you. You know that's gonna go out
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  the window. But then I want a lady, and I want you to
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  give me. I want I want you to see about, hey, how
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  people get enough, because that's the way if I didn't got the community and
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  I didn't do my mother the job. Who Yes, depends on the move
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  and he can stand or that position where I lay down with my heirs to
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  Ben ain't going what he talks. Yeah, hey Astley, check your ex
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  on again. Nick, you said take your hand set up. I'm plugging
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  from your phone, hear me. Yeah, Hello, that's what open at
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  the time. I am. I who well edit, Wait a minute,
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  y'all O yea. Drea Howard said, it depends on my mood. He
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  can stand or that position where I lay down with my head off the bed,
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  and y'all know the rest. So what y'all have to say about that?
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  I mean, hey, I think it whatever floats the boat for the
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  moment, because you know, keep it honest. You got something that's lazy.
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  Sometimes we want it, but we don't want to do all the work.
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  So I think it depends on what position you know and what mood you
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  in. If you read it and you energetic, we can go wherever.
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  But if you're like, Okay, I want it, but I ain't really
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  want it like that, I'm probably gonna lay down. Yeah, it's gonna
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  takes the enjoyment out of like don't. That's the one thing that I'm glad
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  I never got was lazy sex. It's what I mean. But it's like,
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  let's do it because you want it. I know, blow my back
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  out. But you know what, that's a good topic because some women don't
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  like to talk about that either. They like to talk like, oh,
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  I'm best at there's no we ain't. Sometimes we're just lazy and we're just
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  doing it for our other half. It doesn't mean that you're boring, and
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  it doesn't mean that it's bad. But we're gonna be honest. Sometimes we're
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  not always in the mood. What's up? Lady's awake? Go ahead and
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  introduce yourself. I miss Maggie with lust exchange and it's always here, just
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  leaving out, show my face? What's up? Reggie? S plan sex?
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  Yeah, plan sax, angry sex, makeup sex or spontaneous sex?
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  Which have you enjoyed the most? All of them? All of them?
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  All right? Am I telling you? I don't hear anything good? Ain't
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  nobody time for that? About everybody? All right? Black girl? Interrupted?
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  Do you like plant sex, angry sex, make up sex, spontaneous
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  sex, or which have you enjoyed the most blow. I like, oh,
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  okay, so that's no wrong, that's a good questment. I love
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  spontaneous sex. And I'm say your wild like sponteen years six because you give
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  me hyped up for one of your everybody likes the advertising before the mean and
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  Phil. I think it's something about that spontaneous six depending on where you add
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  or what you're doing, the anticipation of seeing, oh, with somebody gonna
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  see me or somebody's gonna hear me, let's hurry up and get it in.
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  So yeah, yeah, you know that's scary as hell because you know
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  what, I'm gonna get caught outside and you know I'm going to jail for
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  decent. It's fools you And I'm like, holding up, you gotta wait
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  after so we are almost done, like you gotta wait. So yeah,
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  I mean that's it's it's a good fantasy. Yes, it's a good fantasy.
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  I mean it can't happen, of course, I prefer not outside.
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  I mean we don't have to be outside. But if you'll be spine a
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  woman come from the ceiling somewhere, I don't know. But if we had
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  a union and he's looking with the good in the bathroom, ah, you
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  talking about it was soul food. How they snuck off and when and got
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  him some upstairs. Huh, Well, I thought we was all soul fool
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  when it was in the bathroom just doing it. I don't know. My
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  mind went somewhere own, back room anywhere, and I like make you know
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  what I'm saying, because it be make drop some and I came the heart.
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  I'm just I'm just still like, well, all that is it one?
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  Because if you angry, if you have make up sex, it's pretty
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  much not. I ain't gonna say playing sex because who planning sex? Anyway?
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  Who said I it? Oh, at five o'clock when I get home,
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  we're gonna have sex? Now? I done. I do not,
• 32:09
  But I do have some friends that have talked about playing sex because they have
• 32:15
  kids, they work their own businesses, and it got to the point where
• 32:21
  they were just saying, baby, how you don't want to how was your
• 32:22
  day? They ate dinner, and before you know it, the day the
• 32:25
  time playing as a couple were getting away from him. No, I personally
• 32:29
  don't, but I have had people to say they planned it, and they
• 32:32
  actually does work because when you get so caught up in the adult life.
• 32:37
  It's easy to get away from me. So no, I haven't tried it,
• 32:39
  but I have talked to a couple of people that say they have planned
• 32:44
  it and it works for them. It's not just boring. But at the
• 32:46
  end of the day, you know, whatever works for your relationship. Yeah,
• 32:52
  I mean, but I'm not drudging nobody. It's just like you get
• 32:57
  home, same Francis. You had a schedule, right, so, oh,
• 33:00
  five o'clock, we're gonna have sticks. You get home at five o'clock,
• 33:02
  you gotta cook dinner and all that shit and all that. So that's
• 33:07
  what I like, getting walking up on my sleep. I love it,
• 33:13
  and it can be sometimes. Plan don't always work either, because, like
• 33:16
  you said, being an adult, Oh we're gonna do this Wednesday night at
• 33:20
  six o'clock, you don't know what kind of moods you're gonna be in.
• 33:22
  You might not want it Wednesday night at six o'clock by the time Wednesday rolling
• 33:25
  around here. So I think it just goes half and half if you're on
• 33:30
  it and you can commit to that schedule and if that's what works, then
• 33:35
  yeah, But if you can just do it spontaneous and like you said,
• 33:38
  waking me up out of my sleep. Let's get it in before we go
• 33:42
  to sleep. That works fence for me. I can say it can work
• 33:45
  if you four play all day you at work pictures to my mind there like
• 33:57
  basically trying to get you ready and jumped up for the moment, saying,
• 34:00
  baby got the wine, I got the you know, the candles, I
• 34:02
  got all that set up for you, or you'll be ready, is ready?
• 34:09
  I don't want to got more taking for the night. Yeah, I
• 34:14
  don't sex A whole picture in the bathroom, you care? I essentially a
• 34:21
  picture yep. Okay, go ahead and man at the death like he'll be
• 34:31
  ready again. So when you put it like that, yeah, it's definitely
• 34:37
  different when you're sexty, like, oh, I can't wait to do it.
• 34:39
  You're gonna do that? Think I like stuff like that. So yes,
• 34:44
  it's definitely different when you're sexty. And so that that the plan sex
• 34:47
  poor debt will probably help it work out, like okay, all right,
• 34:53
  plan sex like yep, because you know what you're looking for yep. Oh
• 35:01
  yeah, So Maggie didn't answer what is your best because oh I didn't even
• 35:08
  get to that. I didn't know that was a question. I saw the
• 35:10
  Angry six playing sex. I didn't know that was a question. Oh it's
• 35:15
  on the front. There we go. I'm looking at the chat. But
• 35:19
  what is the best position for oral sex? Hm? Hmmm? Have you
• 35:29
  have you ever? Basically, have you ever tried it? At sixty nine?
• 35:39
  That's what we were discussing, and all right, I guess half half
• 35:46
  of us h you know, one third at the time was like, uh,
• 35:52
  two thirds. It probably won't work because of what you say, what
• 35:59
  she said, what you're saying. I said sixty nine, that anybody tried
• 36:04
  at sixty nine, so we won't be able to concentrate. I got a
• 36:09
  d d maget a big deficit before. I'm not saying that's my favorite position,
• 36:15
  but I already know y'all probably mentioned everything that I would probably say.
• 36:20
  So my favorite position, especially when I'm there high I So my favorite position
• 36:32
  is just any position, because I'm gonna find that dick no matter what I'm
• 36:37
  gonna do. Either you're standing up on the top, you know, in
• 36:40
  front of the bed, standing right there in the face, I'm right there
• 36:45
  on it. Shit, I'm leanked over it, you know, looking down
• 36:49
  that you're going at it. Shit, We tried it with h it was
• 36:53
  we do kind all kinds of reverse shit. It's just crazy. It is
• 36:58
  exactly crazy. So it's really me. I don't have a favorite head position.
• 37:01
  It's just a matter of what my mood is that night. I liked
• 37:06
  it. That was one of the things you didn't mention. You know what
• 37:09
  I'm saying played a part in the position of all things, like just explained
• 37:19
  it all in one, because sometimes you don't want to do all that.
• 37:23
  You ain't in the mood. You ain't you know, you just got off
• 37:27
  of work, but you're like, you know, here you go, okay,
• 37:30
  baby, you good. You know, ain't gonna you know, it
• 37:32
  is gonna be a little yeah yeah or flipping and all. I may not
• 37:38
  be in the mood all the flipping. Yeah. Sometimes I can't be super
• 37:43
  head every naw. I just got you know, make you happy. But
• 37:45
  look, I'm tired. We tired. Kids don't run around all day.
• 37:49
  So you might hurt that hurting you know, that's that's that's do people realize
• 37:55
  that is a job. Well, that's kind of what we're talking about.
• 37:59
  I don't know, you wrong, but men, no, I'm messing.
• 38:00
  That's gonna saying I'm all late on the show. That's why I said,
• 38:04
  I'm just getting the tail in because yeah, you were kind of in the
• 38:08
  grands, like sometimes you want it, but you might not be in the
• 38:10
  move to be superwoman. Swing it from the ceiling, turn and flip.
• 38:14
  She looks like, Okay, I'm gonna just lay here, baby, come
• 38:15
  on and get it tykes the night. So yeah, yeah, definitely,
• 38:21
  definitely. I mean it's just, you know, some people know if you
• 38:25
  ain't doing it a certain way, you you know, some people act a
• 38:30
  fool about that. But it's like, you gotta realize I'm the one doing
• 38:31
  it right. You think it pays good to be different. I think it
• 38:39
  pays good to be different because even if you are energetic every single night,
• 38:45
  eventually that's gonna get bored. If you're lazy every single night, that's gonna
• 38:50
  get bored. So you gotta mix it up sometimes, do a little extra,
• 38:52
  sometimes low key with it. That's what I'm saying, Like, definitely
• 38:57
  play around with different feets, you know, very is and just try to,
• 39:00
  you know, create something different, Like like you said, that routine
• 39:04
  stuff, it'll get it'll get old real fast, and then that's all they
• 39:07
  expect. It's like, y'all already know I get the same head every night.
• 39:12
  There's nothing exciting about that. Look. Get in a position before you
• 39:15
  even come home and just be laid out and said so Reggie said, the
• 39:25
  best position for all sex is unlaun expected position. Absolutely one. Somebody knows
• 39:36
  about that shop hotaling okay, regil okay is reading at my point in the
• 39:47
  right direction. Who knows about that? Southeway? That's how them churing got
• 39:55
  here, That's how them churing got here. You know, you're like you
• 40:00
  know, you're like that. You know you like the good thing. It's
• 40:07
  the reason why they here. Did y'all talk about me? I'm late?
• 40:14
  But did y'all talk about like people that are actually afraid to do so and
• 40:17
  don't Well, it was more like why uh, some women don't do it?
• 40:23
  Don't do it? Maybe some men. So it wasn't like more like
• 40:28
  a friend kind of touched on it just a little bit, but not a
• 40:30
  whole line. Okay, So y'all, I like wonderful. So here's the
• 40:44
  face. Describe your best words. They who gonna go first? Don't everybody
• 41:00
  speak at once? I'm sitting here trying to ima be here. I'm gonna
• 41:07
  go first because I'm the group. So I was a guy that you were
• 41:14
  in the process that and it was it was almost like making milk out of
• 41:25
  the bowl. And you get home, I'm hongry anyway, horrible and and
• 41:37
  see and I'm pierced down there, so you can't get poppy, and I
• 41:45
  get it hurts. That hurts. Let me let you know what the Fruit
• 41:52
  movie you have to be drinking with that awe down I'm just I'm just being,
• 41:59
  you know, don't get down there and Brad, because I'm approach you
• 42:07
  period, you know. And the best experience who just just know that they
• 42:17
  broke people from like like eat Betty baby bore. I wanted to marry.
• 42:29
  I mean, you know, I probably still could wanted to promim. But
• 42:35
  we're gonna leave that alone, all right, nigga, We're going to what's
• 42:40
  your best worst? Okay, So speaking of marrying somebody, that'll let you
• 42:45
  know who was the best experience, because I am married, so you can
• 42:50
  see who won that race. As far as the worst experious, for me,
• 42:54
  there ain't nothing worse than having somebody who got a nice package and not
• 42:59
  knowing what to do with it and there was a situation. This guy was
• 43:02
  nice looking, nice physique, but then it was like what have you doing?
• 43:07
  Like totally just didn't know what to do with it, just stroking,
• 43:10
  same position, same rhythm, just not knowing what to do first and last.
• 43:21
  And these men wanted to why they end up on the first p why
• 43:24
  get going too fast? Anxious? I don't know what it was. My
• 43:36
  worst experience was I met somebody. We was hanging out of the party and
• 43:40
  everything and alcohol and your system. You're feeling good, this dude for me
• 43:45
  telling you you could looking and I'm a I'm a big person with dreads.
• 43:50
  I don't I ain't married to somebody with dreads now, but some reason Dreds
• 43:53
  used to be my fathe back in the thing. But he had all this
• 43:58
  going on, like you said, good zique everything, and you would think
• 44:04
  that because I was already you know, ready ready to go. Alcohol is
• 44:07
  going. So we decided, okay, let's hang out. Man. That
• 44:13
  thing was like it was hitting nothing, just what and he was he was
• 44:19
  grown he was grown in and you know, grunning like something was going.
• 44:22
  I was like, dude, what are you doing? He was hitting outside
• 44:30
  of that kit that's what he was hitting, he was hitting your bass cheek.
• 44:36
  I'm just like I didn't I didn't feel a thing. It was just
• 44:38
  like you, just like you said, no angle, no, no,
• 44:42
  no rhythm less nothing, just just boo boo, like, dude, it
• 44:47
  ain't it, this is not it. I was ready to go. That
• 44:50
  turned all that down. I was just like, okay, let's just get
• 44:52
  this over with. And I was highly disappointed. I was highly disappointed,
• 44:58
  like you would now fine and whack like that. So fist. Let me
• 45:07
  ask you, maggots, you what was your worst always safe experience oral sex
• 45:15
  experience, like you said, was just just lick and just like you said,
• 45:25
  just there's an art to it, people, fellas, there's an art
• 45:30
  to it. You gotta you can tell what somebody's really enjoying something, and
• 45:36
  they know what they're doing and they know know what areas to go to.
• 45:39
  That would just be licking your tongue like that's just doing something. Yeah,
• 45:47
  dude, I had to do. I had to do. It was a
• 45:51
  guy that actually had a tongue ring, and I guess he thought that tongue
• 45:55
  ring was something and that ship we didn't know what to do with it.
• 46:00
  It was just scratching up against me. It was just uncomfortable and it just
• 46:05
  wasn't fun. Of course that was his only time that song, right she
• 46:15
  said, there, y'all's my style. Y'all. She changed her name.
• 46:24
  It was great, she changed her name. But that's my boy, that's
• 46:29
  my boy right there. I pull you hit me so I took. I
• 46:37
  love you. That's not getting so says all up, let me go to
• 46:45
  the there would go that way, brother, worst experience all things I want
• 46:57
  to know. Well, I'm gonna tell y'all work my worst since I'm married
• 47:01
  to my best period period, how didn't make you feel? I do my
• 47:15
  thing. I do my thing, I do what I supposed to do.
• 47:20
  But my worst, my worst oral sex. Uh, it would have to
• 47:28
  be. I think I was like seventeen years old and this is not like
• 47:31
  my first time trying actually trying it. So so like me and this girl,
• 47:38
  like we are in the park or whatever, and we decided like,
• 47:44
  come on, that's head to the back of the car and you know,
• 47:46
  and I'm gonna try it, right and I and I and I went down
• 47:52
  there and she did not take care of herself. Head was all over the
• 47:57
  place. The whole Oh, shan the fish grease, all of that.
• 48:05
  I tried to fight like du like okay, all right, okay, this
• 48:09
  is my first time, so I'm like all right. And then I went
• 48:15
  a little bit closer and it got worse. So so then she asked me.
• 48:24
  So then she asked me what's going on? Like, what's going on?
• 48:30
  What's going on? So then back then, I I kind of know
• 48:35
  now how to not hurt people feelings because back in high school I used to
• 48:38
  just say whatever and I and I literally said, you should you took a
• 48:45
  bath today? I asked it in the car, like you should you took
• 48:49
  a bath? To that? She like, yeah, I washed down there
• 48:51
  and everything, and I was just like I slowly raced up and said,
• 48:54
  nah, I'm good. And then she tried to she tried to invite me
• 49:00
  into her mama's apartment, and I made up some bullishit to go home.
• 49:08
  Yeah, she needed a boarder, some food and water, she needed to
• 49:12
  go see a guy in college to get something, and honestly, for a
• 49:16
  while, honestly for a while, yeah that that stopped me from going like
• 49:22
  down now, yeah, it's first go around, Like okay, all right,
• 49:30
  it's just she says She's just gonna teach me, you know, what
• 49:35
  to do, and I go down there and I don't even want to do
• 49:37
  it because of that MoMA story. Short, I never end up seeing her
• 49:42
  again after that. So, yeah, I mean, you a little boy,
• 49:49
  but I would hold no. I mean, and when had you we
• 49:53
  have a we definitely my shot laughing. You probably have been through this too,
• 50:08
  I think everything. It's sad to say, just like y'all probably all
• 50:14
  been through the same experiences with men. Do not watch the Yeah, I
• 50:22
  believe that all men have went down on a person before it was the third
• 50:30
  I was just traumatized. I was sixteen, seventeen years old, still a
• 50:36
  baby, and it is my first time doing it. She is older than
• 50:39
  me. And then, yeah, she knew better, but she knew that
• 50:45
  because it she know that, she knew who she wasn't she knew she was
• 50:52
  doing for four days day dream and if it smelt like that, it wasn't
• 51:02
  the first time. Then it smells. And then she said, I washed
• 51:07
  down, now you know, she she said, I wished, she said,
• 51:13
  I washed ain't no pet babies, no whole basses. You need to
• 51:20
  get in the whole. Two up, lady, ain't no five mapples doing
• 51:23
  get way. So yeah, my best experience, you know it is her,
• 51:29
  you know that. You know, I'm married to it, had kids,
• 51:32
  buy it and everything. My worst but my wife, my wife,
• 51:39
  my wife, but uh never definitely my worst. Yeah, definitely me and
• 51:49
  my husband. I swear we just it's a love hate because that's probably one
• 51:54
  of the best. I ain't gonna lie, but we learned it though.
• 52:00
  I ain't gonna cut keep your part off, but we learned how to know
• 52:06
  each other. Though it took me, you know, not right out the
• 52:09
  gates. Of course he was good, but it was like we took the
• 52:13
  time to one another, you know what I'm saying to where it got to
• 52:16
  the point like you know what what in the way. And that's another thing
• 52:21
  too. I don't know if y'all got this as a topic, but I
• 52:24
  feel like a man it's more willing to teach a girl. I mean,
• 52:31
  I don't know if it's gonna vice versa, but it's it's it's some women
• 52:37
  that that dog a man for not knowing how to do it. No,
• 52:43
  because something got the perception that women should already know how to do this.
• 52:49
  Yeah, some men got the perception that women should already do how to do
• 52:52
  this, it don't matter how old it is. And then the minute you
• 52:55
  pluck up, oh man, you're not you're the man do that. Don't
• 53:00
  know how to eat nothing? You can't eat nothing. Yeah, but you
• 53:06
  can't go around. It is flirting on a live baby. He's trying to
• 53:15
  shoot on you, honey. And even though I by so, even though
• 53:29
  I still don't. Oh, and it's trying to tell you, oh,
• 53:40
  this is but let me bust your bubble though, Let me bust your bubble.
• 53:52
  I am the woman who chose to give and not receive. Oh wait,
• 54:02
  hold on what you're talking about. I know I who watch it.
• 54:10
  They were like, wait a minute, what you don't know? I give,
• 54:15
  hey, but I chose not to receive. I mean even though we
• 54:19
  tried a few times. But there's some women who, like myself, be
• 54:24
  like, you know, I just give you head. I'm just that woman.
• 54:30
  Yeah, look at it. Yes, that's me, that's me.
• 54:35
  What I think. I think it depends on the situation. Like as a
• 54:39
  marvery couple, you know, you can do what you want. I can
• 54:42
  do what I want. She can do what she want because you're married.
• 54:45
  But because we are women. If you if it's that time of a month,
• 54:49
  some people would like to do it, some don't. So if I'm
• 54:52
  like, yo, I'm not doing that, Yeah, I'm gonna give you
• 54:54
  head because that's all I can do. So I think it just depends you
• 54:59
  have someone who likes to do it while the period is on. But if
• 55:01
  you don't believe in that, and that's the only thing to do to satisfy
• 55:05
  your man. But I've been telling you though, even though I don't like
• 55:12
  to receive it, but I would do he pleases me, and I pleases
• 55:16
  him like, hey I can, I can ride A mean, that's how
• 55:22
  I get me just saying I think you know this expert over here, oh
• 55:28
  you know, miss pure romance. What it really is, it's just you,
• 55:31
  guys, because maybe something happened in your life that traumatized you from it.
• 55:37
  It's something that happened to you that made you not like it. Maybe
• 55:39
  possibly I don't know your backstory, but something had to happen to where you
• 55:45
  just don't desire it anymore. So it just needs to be a time where
• 55:50
  you, guys, get with me, get some products that get you some
• 55:55
  of that spice it up. Just a little bit, take a get a
• 56:00
  little feather, and you know, just play around in the area and just
• 56:05
  you get your whole body ready for it. How about that, Just go
• 56:07
  ahead and do what you need to know four plays, you know, get
• 56:13
  in a good mood and try it. Paul out Regel, let me let
• 56:17
  me clasfive. Let me clasfive. This my husband is definitely not the issue.
• 56:24
  No, of course, I'm not letting about you said. Let's hear
• 56:28
  her her beside of the story. So that's why question that question was that
• 56:34
  statements to do him, because sometimes we'll do it, sometimes we don't,
• 56:39
  but I prefer to give. But sometimes, you know, when when when
• 56:44
  the first happened, I was kind of like shock, like, okay,
• 56:49
  she don't like this. I've never met a woman that don't. But then
• 56:52
  you know, I love her and I respect her, so I'm like,
• 56:55
  okay, all right, they're just a person. I don't love it.
• 57:00
  Let me some other way. Yeah, it's it's some women that really don't
• 57:04
  like to be so honest. And that's being honest. Kish, that's really
• 57:07
  being honest. Some some women don't like it. Some men, I've heard
• 57:12
  some men don't like that. Oh no, or I the men. I
• 57:19
  know some women that don't get head, you know, I know some that
• 57:24
  like to do it, and I know some bitches that act like the condo
• 57:30
  and my fingus. Are you say a man don't like it? Man?
• 57:40
  No, No, it was something I did a we did. It was
• 57:45
  a lunch exchange of show when we were talking about oral sex and things like
• 57:49
  that, and I was and it was somebody was like, yeah, I'm
• 57:53
  not a big head person. It's wrong. When I would just shot right.
• 58:02
  You'll be surprised that the different opinions in different views people have when it
• 58:07
  comes to sex and when I ain't gonna lie. My husband he was real
• 58:12
  shy about it, to be honest, before he met me. He was
• 58:15
  really really because he did have some bad experience with some women and they just
• 58:19
  didn't know what they were doing, and so it was just like he was
• 58:23
  a little timid about it. And then, like I said, we grew
• 58:28
  and learn each other and it was like you gonna learn how to like this
• 58:30
  today, and the end of the day he ended up loving it after the
• 58:35
  fact. But it's some men that can get you know, he don't got
• 58:39
  bit or something something happened to where they don't. They don't care for it
• 58:43
  anymore. You know, are you talking You're talking about as in give it
• 58:51
  somebody giving them head. Yes, my husband he was. He was a
• 58:54
  little he was shy about it, but we've been together for damn a decade,
• 58:58
  so I mean, I'm just sorry. You know, I ain't judging
• 59:05
  nobody, but you get so used to men, your men being like okay,
• 59:09
  I go ahead. Now he wasn't turning it down, but he was
• 59:13
  just basically he never had it like that because you know, I actually get
• 59:17
  the women, and that was basically like, that's what it was. But
• 59:23
  that was I was gonna ask, like that turn does that turn you off?
• 59:30
  Yes, that's what I'm saying. I get turned on from it definitely,
• 59:35
  so I get more into it. I'm enjoying it more. So he's
• 59:38
  basically just didn't have it like that. He was just like, you really
• 59:42
  really enjoy this so and not here so much of enjoying it for myself,
• 59:49
  but enjoying no one that I'm pleased in my husband. There you go.
• 59:52
  So he must have had a couple of teats. Huh. Yeah, yeah,
• 59:58
  he had did that experience. It was I grew with Nikki on that
• 1:00:02
  part. Look, even though I love to baby get my hair wet,
• 1:00:12
  no matter so hey hey oh that way, that way and once again and
• 1:00:20
  once again. I think it's just one of those things to where I think
• 1:00:25
  that experience probably not happened to every man too, but some men, I
• 1:00:30
  guess get traumatized from it. Some of me it would just be like,
• 1:00:32
  all right, that was a bad apple and what they say sometimes, So
• 1:00:44
  Reggie, is there anything worse than a major over and lazy and jen Nikki
• 1:00:57
  you want to ask, I think it's a lazy person in general. Like
• 1:01:01
  if you got somebody a woman, I'll say, they just want to lay
• 1:01:04
  on her back the whole time. Never want to give her, never want
• 1:01:07
  to switch positions. That gets boring to that man. Or if you got
• 1:01:09
  a man that wants the same position all the time. So not so much
• 1:01:14
  of lazy, but just the same old boring routine. To me, it's
• 1:01:17
  worse. Oh oh Magne, what everybody says, I'm There'm aggressive. You
• 1:01:24
  get fans every show. You an't go go subscribe to her unless to change
• 1:01:35
  And no, seriously, we do talk about this old LUSSI strange. We
• 1:01:37
  talk about everything, but actually this episode is gonna be a little bit more
• 1:01:43
  somber. We're talking about mental health and family descuction though, so we change
• 1:01:46
  it up this a little bit this year this week because we gotta talk about
• 1:01:50
  that depression bit. So gonna be a little tone now. But you still
• 1:01:54
  know, lussa change wild out. So I'm gonna go into something like that
• 1:02:05
  you know always do so uh yes, I don't have the best experience.
• 1:02:10
  Like I said, I chose to give, I don't receive, but I
• 1:02:17
  give him in other ways and he get be in other ways. So you
• 1:02:22
  know that's that's that five times ship. That just because we didn't have love.
• 1:02:40
  So that breaks us to what we was talking about earlier. And in
• 1:02:45
  the end, Dawn on me plans sect so me and Heppy we decided to
• 1:02:52
  get away for a weekend, so we knew that weekend. We pretty much
• 1:02:58
  planned that weekend outside of the food. Oh how we can make that connection
• 1:03:04
  because like I said, sex players apart in you know, maintaining that that
• 1:03:12
  you know, buying and stuff because sometimes you know, she might not be
• 1:03:19
  angry at me. She might be angry at the job or frustrated with the
• 1:03:23
  kids. You know, we love them, but we get frustrated with him.
• 1:03:27
  You know what I'm saying that, you know, let me love our
• 1:03:30
  kids. We we we we we love our kids. Ain't no problem with
• 1:03:38
  that, you know, just a frustrations that, you know, being an
• 1:03:40
  adult that's been like that adult life. I don't want to adult, but
• 1:03:45
  I I know all this seriousness. We've been a we. I don't think
• 1:03:52
  me and Tonio ever went out since we got the kids. Maybe once or
• 1:03:54
  twice. And my oldest son, my oldest child is three. Hey come
• 1:04:04
  come join the show. And that's another fella. Come, okay, you
• 1:04:11
  know I'm watching that. He would assist. He would assist that brother in
• 1:04:15
  law. And my daughter is one. So between that time after I had
• 1:04:23
  my son a few months later you know, I'm I'm pregnant again. Yeah,
• 1:04:27
  so we didn't have time to wind down. We only went on a
• 1:04:32
  date twice. So this was much leading and she like, hey, I
• 1:04:42
  girl, I'm made sure she had a nice little gift back before she left
• 1:04:45
  my house. Take that home for working girl. I can't, Juicia kra
• 1:05:00
  that was good, but their time together was even better. Take you or
• 1:05:03
  you said you said the crab was good, but that time together was better.
• 1:05:12
  Yes, nicky and it it actually brought us closer. I mean we
• 1:05:15
  were close, but it actually bought us closer. And yeah, so you
• 1:05:23
  sex really doesn't change your relationship like a man and a woman. You go
• 1:05:27
  to work all day, like you said, you get caught up in this
• 1:05:29
  adult world's cook take care of the kids. But then it's like, oh
• 1:05:31
  maybe we need to have snakes. And when you release that tension, it's
• 1:05:35
  like, oh, I'm such a better movie. Yeah, I'm in a
• 1:05:40
  bad movie because I get you're gonna be at you again. This is why
• 1:05:51
  a better food because I'm not getting no sex. Hold you gonna shoot you
• 1:05:57
  on this live next watch and you're gonna be like the area called in front
• 1:06:02
  of it. That's how I did him did that on purpose. So y'all
• 1:06:06
  don't want me to post to be if I pose that we like your bad
• 1:06:14
  you two too, Yes, I don't even do that. Ask me to
• 1:06:17
  you in your personal your box, you don't have that man stop. Okay,
• 1:06:31
  so here we go. So this is for us ladies. He can
• 1:06:38
  say, give me back with your section, all right, So let me
• 1:06:49
  go get an answer this question. First off, I'm gonna get you with
• 1:06:54
  my personality. That's the same. He can't say he's just want So you're
• 1:07:12
  at a guy who wasn't feeling your sexual m I would be honest, call
• 1:07:17
  it, be conceive it. But I ain't never had that problem. Oh
• 1:07:20
  well, I say, I never approached anybody because I'm I'm low key.
• 1:07:27
  I say back, if you want to approach me, cool. But I've
• 1:07:30
  been told a lot of guys that I got a relationship. They liked me,
• 1:07:35
  but they didn't want to approach me because how I look. As far
• 1:07:39
  as like my attitude. They always thought I would, uh just shoot them
• 1:07:44
  down. I'm like I said, I said back, I ain't say much.
• 1:07:50
  If you like me, you come up to me and you like,
• 1:07:55
  oh man, you know I like the way you look. If I'm feeling
• 1:07:58
  your whatever, I probably like, oh, thank you. So what else
• 1:08:00
  you want me to say after that? You know? If that's it?
• 1:08:06
  So I never had a problem to where I had to whatnot a problem.
• 1:08:13
  I never went up to a guy, if that makes sense. I just
• 1:08:16
  stayed back. If you like when you come to me, maga, you
• 1:08:25
  know what I like? She said, I really don't necessarily approach God,
• 1:08:29
  well, I approach my husband. I ain't gonna lie about that. I
• 1:08:31
  show was on that man. But anyway, this maybe I could name on
• 1:08:36
  my hand twice how the time I approached the dude. But of course I
• 1:08:41
  got children by all of them, so I on me out. I only
• 1:08:45
  got too baby. That's but a first one I approached him, it went
• 1:08:48
  well, that's why we got kids behind it now and then my husband,
• 1:08:53
  now we got a daughter. I approached him and it was nothing. So
• 1:08:58
  I've never experienced approaching the guy and was turned down. I approached the guy
• 1:09:04
  before, when me and my husband was kind of on a hiatus were separated,
• 1:09:09
  I dated somebody. I don't think I shot my shot, but I
• 1:09:15
  was. We had like a good conversation. We just he looked he was
• 1:09:20
  like one of those good looking guys. You would think he'll be entertained by
• 1:09:24
  them. You know, some reasons. A lot of echo. It's a
• 1:09:26
  lot of echo right now. I don't know why. It's a lot of
• 1:09:30
  etho is it me? Is it us? No? It's good now.
• 1:09:39
  Every time I hear if it abou talking say something, I don't know.
• 1:09:42
  But it was a guy that back when I was promoting my Hardest icy.
• 1:09:47
  It was a guy there that just he was by himself the whole time.
• 1:09:51
  He came with the lady, but she invited him just for all I'm candy,
• 1:09:57
  okay, but she was around entertaining other guys. So he was just
• 1:10:01
  kind of over that, sitting on the couch by himself, and I'm just
• 1:10:03
  like, well, how you doing? And then know we we just instantly
• 1:10:08
  had like a chemistry. We had a conversation. Oh the echo is gone
• 1:10:12
  now, I don't know, but the conversation went well, and he actually
• 1:10:17
  had me in his number and everything. I wasn't even asking for it was
• 1:10:20
  just I just he was there by himself. I'm like, this good looking
• 1:10:24
  at us man by himself, this one, you know. But he was
• 1:10:29
  like he was real shy. Surprisingly, So I don't know. I've never
• 1:10:31
  had any bad experience with somebody not wanting me sexually. Na For one,
• 1:10:41
  I'm the shining Tepe. I ain't never really approached anybody. So I can't
• 1:10:45
  say I've really had that problem because I'm like, keha, I'm sitting back.
• 1:10:48
  If you like what you see, then you come to me. If
• 1:10:50
  I like it will go from there. But as far as like me taking
• 1:10:54
  the initiative, I can't say I've had that problem. I'm like that,
• 1:11:01
  I've never been I've never approached the man, you know, I mean looking
• 1:11:05
  like you think you have somebody as far as men never kid style says he
• 1:11:15
  say, you gotta have that, after sex song, after relief, after
• 1:11:20
  sex song, was watching a movie somewhere, just killing the whole where again
• 1:11:29
  let's go eat, and then we don't get a chance to eat. Yeah,
• 1:11:33
  because you was really talking about them. Damn chet a baby biscuits.
• 1:11:42
  Please go get her some chatter baby biscuits. So high topic? How do
• 1:11:48
  you tell your partner there and not performing oral sex correctly? How do you
• 1:11:56
  be honest, be honest without being rude and aggressive, like, tell them
• 1:12:01
  in a way this is what I like and hopefully they'll pick up from there.
• 1:12:06
  So so give me an example making up. So you're with a guy
• 1:12:12
  he's he's eating up pussy, but he's not doing What would you say to
• 1:12:15
  him? I think I would try to direct it in the way, well,
• 1:12:20
  well this is what I like, or won't you slow it down?
• 1:12:23
  Or won't you speed it up? Versus being rude and saying no, just
• 1:12:26
  get up. You don't know what you're doing or you ain't doing that right,
• 1:12:29
  that's a married woman right there. Though, you know what I'm saying,
• 1:12:30
  that's that's maturity. Like that's why I said, you gotta teach them.
• 1:12:33
  You gotta just talk them through it. Don't don't make them feel bad
• 1:12:38
  about it, because they may end up traumatized. Like this guy right here,
• 1:12:49
  this guy right here, Keish, Well, let's yeah, Kesh,
• 1:12:56
  let's go to you. How would you be how would you say out your
• 1:13:00
  husband he's not a performer or a sex correct? I got it. I
• 1:13:05
  kind of agree with Nikki because but like, I don't want to, like,
• 1:13:10
  you know what, get out of me. You're not doing it.
• 1:13:13
  I don't want to do that. I don't want to give you a correct
• 1:13:15
  yourself a little bit, you know, but you know, just go a
• 1:13:23
  little bit faster, move over here, a little bit put it. Yeah,
• 1:13:27
  yeah, you know, but no, you be this guy. If
• 1:13:31
  you like the person, you don't be like you don't do it right,
• 1:13:36
  be his guy. Now after a few times, he don't get him there,
• 1:13:41
  Yeah, that's that's a problems. So yeah, I'm gonna have to
• 1:13:45
  rock him. What's it rocking? Sock? Rock him? Sock coming from?
• 1:13:53
  So, Megan, do you feel the same way as the other two
• 1:13:57
  ladies. Yeah, I absolutely agree, And like I said, that's me
• 1:14:00
  and my husband. Like, like I said, he I'm not saying he
• 1:14:02
  was turning it down, but he just never experienced a woman that was willing
• 1:14:08
  to learn what she was doing as well as himself. He of course,
• 1:14:14
  if you're not turning him on, and y'all you I mean, he just
• 1:14:17
  had bad experiences. He just did, so he didn't you know, he
• 1:14:23
  wasn't used to, like Reggie said, an aggressive woman that kind of just
• 1:14:28
  kind of takes control of it. And you know, because they we're five
• 1:14:31
  years apart from each other. That's why I said, he's a baby.
• 1:14:33
  So when I met him, you know, about a decade ago, of
• 1:14:38
  course, he was still kind of fresh out and you know, didn't have
• 1:14:42
  a lot of experiences and stuff like that. So that kind of explains the
• 1:14:45
  difference, you know, But he I met him because he was just he
• 1:14:49
  just acted mature and when you look at him as like, yeah, he
• 1:14:55
  acts like an old soul. So that's kind of how we connected it everything.
• 1:14:58
  But yeah, but he didn't have a lot of experiences, but he
• 1:15:02
  kind of met me and it was like aggressive woman and a thing like that,
• 1:15:05
  and yeah, he was shy about a lot of things. He was
• 1:15:11
  definitely shy. So I'm not saying that he was bad, but as far
• 1:15:15
  as me teaching him and talking to him, we were just being mature adults
• 1:15:21
  about it. Was like, basically, he asked, you know, what
• 1:15:29
  do you like this? You know? What can I do different? You
• 1:15:32
  know? I you know, I'm just you know. He basically tried to
• 1:15:34
  learn my body. He learned. He actually he was like, he's a
• 1:15:38
  big book nerd, so he actually got the what's the suit? The six
• 1:15:43
  Karma physic suit. There you go. He got like, he got a
• 1:15:47
  whole bunch of those type of books, and he educated himself about how to
• 1:15:51
  please a woman. He really did. He really did because he saw that
• 1:15:56
  I basically I liked it a certain way. He saw that, you know,
• 1:16:01
  so he didn't back down from the challenge. He was like, I'm
• 1:16:03
  going to figure it out. So we actually had adult conversation about it,
• 1:16:09
  like what do you like? How should I do it? And it was
• 1:16:11
  the same thing for me. I'm not saying I'm the best at head at
• 1:16:15
  first, because you're not gonna know who your partner is until you really get
• 1:16:18
  to them. It may like the other person might not like, so you
• 1:16:24
  gotta know what their ticks and things are. Some people might not like that,
• 1:16:29
  you know, real sloppy type stuff. Some people might. You know,
• 1:16:31
  you never know what people's desires are. So we just have those adult
• 1:16:38
  conversations like what do you like? What don't you like? What can I
• 1:16:41
  do the next time to make this better? And learn each other. So
• 1:16:44
  that's really being an adult about it, just instead of just you ain't doing
• 1:16:47
  it right? Teach them? What can he do? What can he do?
• 1:16:51
  Tell them? But if you're willing to work with somebody about that,
• 1:16:56
  read you calls you a cradle robbers. I did it. I did.
• 1:17:00
  That's my baby though, that's my baby, but me and there was a
• 1:17:05
  tenure difference between me and my ex and he didn't he don't act like a
• 1:17:13
  young guy. He definitely don't know he was. But I mean, but
• 1:17:17
  my ex didn't egg y'all. You know. It was like but I had
• 1:17:23
  to teach him because I was like, wait, hold up, you know,
• 1:17:27
  you went me up too much down there. You know, it's like
• 1:17:30
  you you it's like you're spitting on me. You know what I'm saying?
• 1:17:34
  If you do it right, she's gonna naturally spill out for you. That
• 1:17:40
  honey potter is eventually gonna bubble over for you. You know, it's just
• 1:17:44
  a matter. And I and I had to show him, you know,
• 1:17:46
  I had to move his head a certain way. I had to move a
• 1:17:50
  certain way. And finally he got it. And it was like, boy,
• 1:17:59
  you know, what the hell you go with it? Like, because
• 1:18:02
  he would, he would get he would hit that spot. And he knew
• 1:18:08
  when he hit the spot, hit the spot because my my, he'll say
• 1:18:12
  the rhythm and my body would change, you know what I'm saying. So
• 1:18:17
  he knew when he hit the spot, he said, because your body would
• 1:18:19
  lock up. What that's somebody paying attention. That's my husband is willing to
• 1:18:30
  learn, he said. He said, I knew when you were about to
• 1:18:34
  calm, He said, because you would, he said, because you were
• 1:18:38
  grabbing it real tight. He's saying. It was almost like he was suffocating
• 1:18:43
  me with that pussy. But boom, you know, Reggie say, is
• 1:18:47
  a taboo for black couples to discuss that bedroom issues. Reggie, you missed
• 1:18:53
  it from the beginning. Sometimes it is, though, it Sometimes it is
• 1:19:00
  man what way though? Discussing amongst each other or and then other couples.
• 1:19:04
  Yeah, if if I'm reading the correction, if I'm reading the common correctly,
• 1:19:11
  and you know, getting clarity with what he's saying, do he's asking
• 1:19:16
  him, do we discuss that amongst with our spouses? Oh? Okay?
• 1:19:21
  Is it taboos? Some? For some? And I won't say for all,
• 1:19:29
  Reggie, I'll say for some, because we as females, you know,
• 1:19:33
  we'll get with our home girls and be like, girl, this nigga
• 1:19:38
  hell was or he didn't eat that, blah blah blah, you know,
• 1:19:41
  and like the fellas are getting you know what they fellas and say, man,
• 1:19:45
  she was all teethed dog. You know she was done of that.
• 1:19:48
  You know what I'm saying. So we really we don't. I won't say
• 1:19:54
  all, but some and for that category, for that category, to those
• 1:20:00
  that are talking to their girls, are talking to their boys, if they
• 1:20:02
  talk to their mate just as much, then they probably wouldn't have that problem.
• 1:20:08
  You telling everybody else what I'm doing wrong, they sell me. Mm,
• 1:20:12
  you're right, So I think I'm doing it right, you know.
• 1:20:15
  And and I want to say, not to cut you off, Nikki,
• 1:20:18
  but I want to say, I think the reason some men and some women
• 1:20:26
  don't discuss that with their with their mate is because some of them aren't mature
• 1:20:30
  enough to have that conversation. Like you two ladies, like all three of
• 1:20:33
  you ladies stated you you had that conversation and you said, hey, this,
• 1:20:40
  you know you're not doing it right, but let me show you.
• 1:20:45
  And you have some men and some women that aren't willing to learn. They're
• 1:20:48
  just they be like, okay, but whatever, I know somebody like it.
• 1:20:51
  But right there, I'm gonna interrupt you. Though. It has to
• 1:20:56
  be the right person, though. Yeah, it really comes down to who
• 1:21:02
  you know, like just a little bust down or some little one night stand.
• 1:21:05
  No, but it's somebody you're really truly feeling and something with. There's
• 1:21:12
  a difference though, So yes, I'm not going to talk about my bad
• 1:21:15
  six you know whatever to just some random person saying yeah, like a little
• 1:21:21
  jump off. It depends on who you're having that conversation with as well.
• 1:21:27
  Definitely, you know where Reggie, nobody go play to the night Reggie say,
• 1:21:32
  ladies start riding around talking about us, case we cougaring. I'm not
• 1:21:45
  playing with reggin tonight, crazy old man now we are old man now great
• 1:21:54
  heir right? Stress. So so it's on you, brother, How do
• 1:22:02
  you tell your partner they're not performing oral sex correctly? Do aniverse? Do
• 1:22:10
  an anniversary point like I was saying, like, don't don't sit there and
• 1:22:15
  bash the person from what they don't know what to do. If you don't,
• 1:22:20
  you don't even never know if this is their first time or you know
• 1:22:24
  whatever, or they that experience teaching right versus teaching. You know, either
• 1:22:31
  way teaching, have had either had that conversation or why are you having the
• 1:22:35
  sex teach them during the moment because some people they they catch on like okay,
• 1:22:45
  why why are they doing the work. But you know, I would
• 1:22:50
  never regarding to Reggie, I would never between my marriage like tell like our
• 1:23:00
  friend she ain't doing this or she ain't doing that or whatever. It's gonna
• 1:23:05
  need to know us to work out, you know, fix your home.
• 1:23:11
  Like Maggie said, if it would just a jump off and I ain't dating,
• 1:23:15
  I ain't they know whatever I mean. I guess you said, I
• 1:23:26
  wouldn't feel bad about that versus them first to me saying, oh my wife
• 1:23:30
  can't do this, my wife can't do that. That's my wife, so
• 1:23:34
  we gonna keep that in peace. You know you feel me? So yeah,
• 1:23:41
  in a way, you could be taboo if that's your wife. But
• 1:23:45
  if it's a jump ball, I mean, if y'all just effing for one
• 1:23:48
  night, I mean, you can't help what a person gonna say me.
• 1:23:58
  I mean, you know, like we said at the beginning, if you
• 1:24:01
  just I'm not letting you put period. Oh it's a lot of one night
• 1:24:12
  out there. You gonna step quickly. You're not putting your mouth on me.
• 1:24:17
  Come on the fuck and you get the hell on. You're not gonna
• 1:24:24
  puddle because you like mage and even looking for it's gotta be with the right
• 1:24:30
  person. So here, Kate. Then everybody puts put their mouth on you
• 1:24:36
  because and that's one of the things that women they don't care. They're just
• 1:24:43
  oh yeah, girl, he you don't know what kind of diseases man is
• 1:24:46
  carrying in his mouth. Just go to the dentist. And then you wonder
• 1:24:51
  why a week or so later you're bobbing like a little down m oh yeah.
• 1:24:59
  Because women that pH badly school easy easily thrown off. You know when
• 1:25:08
  I tell her stop nothing the time tuning out yainitely because I'm just I mean,
• 1:25:20
  but I I lady, I sat down like we did a girl tip
• 1:25:25
  y'all from here to go and one of the ladies that went on a trip,
• 1:25:30
  I'm not gonna make it my name because looking friends. But she don't,
• 1:25:36
  she doesn't perform for her section. She was like, I just don't
• 1:25:40
  like so the record is not me for the record. We we do it
• 1:25:51
  the microphone and look, let me tell you. We know you're seeing I
• 1:26:00
  got it or reading? And why why what a book? This is like
• 1:26:14
  the I always want to talk? Why do we think it's not? It
• 1:26:26
  could be because of the man, because like we were talking about earlier,
• 1:26:32
  you got some man who don't take care of themselves. You cannot take the
• 1:26:35
  shower and put on the same parent role. You can't go all day and
• 1:26:40
  ain't had no bath and expect the woman to give you some head or go
• 1:26:43
  down there. You can't be down your wrong man and not shaving down there
• 1:26:46
  like do you like? Okay, so do your life for your men to
• 1:26:56
  be bald down here like they like us to be there on there or just
• 1:27:01
  trying to shave up. And you don't want some trees I don't. I
• 1:27:11
  don't, I don't look you don't want to know how your mother like,
• 1:27:15
  right, Yeah, you can't go back basketball and expect you to come stick
• 1:27:26
  the old thing in me on me put it in, mom. It's not
• 1:27:29
  gonna work like that. Nobody never has to stick on the sweaty bowls.
• 1:27:41
  I will faded. I don't want to look at I want to try to
• 1:27:48
  get football and I'm I don't have time to get to the potato. Yeah,
• 1:28:04
  you gotta be. You gotta maintain that area. You do mine.
• 1:28:10
  You'll either shave it off or leave a little bit. But I'd be like,
• 1:28:14
  mm hm, get that together because I and they could just turn you
• 1:28:20
  all away off and then that message up because you so that's it, Like
• 1:28:30
  I queeck, I queek you you you know me that type that gives a
• 1:28:45
  full here you know where you everything you do. I mean, I'm packing
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  the ball, I'm looking, I'm looking the shat. You gotta get that
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  together, sir, And all right, I'm calling you fellows. Y'all take
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  a ball, the simple, just take a ball washing Oh oh lord,
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  and got me into now, oh lord, what are y'all setting for?
• 1:29:34
  What's going on? Ladies? Y'all doing. Let's see what's the That was
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  the pst PS. That was two steps. But look Tony, Tonio gun
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  so he left you? Oh lord, oh man, God damn it,
• 1:29:59
  Tonio checking you here. I don't know what the hell was going on.
• 1:30:05
  I just got the link. If all you're doing, see, oh boy,
• 1:30:13
  what you'll about to do? So I'm gonna I'm just gonna be the
• 1:30:19
  butt of all the jokes right now. Go ahead, bring it. You're
• 1:30:26
  getting and it ain't good? How did you tell him? Anyway? I
• 1:30:34
  just tell them your work on who belt? What can I say? I
• 1:30:46
  like you said, I don't want to be told you for next week?
• 1:30:55
  I God damn again I said. I said, if you can't do it
• 1:30:58
  now, ship, give about five more minutes. You what, Hey,
• 1:31:14
  hey, this is what y'all want it right, not for a minute.
• 1:31:24
  You don't get it done in five minutes. You can still work on it
• 1:31:29
  for another five momnutes. Think about the look like when you put up let
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  me for a moment. Hey, shit, that's the second thing. Hey,
• 1:31:45
  that's the second thing. That's the same thing y'all gonna tell us,
• 1:31:47
  but we ain't doing it right? That look at me watched up I boy
• 1:32:02
  saying, can't get it right. But that's one lonely uber ride home.
• 1:32:11
  I don't know you're gonna do that? Kidding this gentleman. No, but
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  but but if it's a woman I love, Look I about saying this.
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  If it's a woman that I love, I'm not gonna do her like that.
• 1:32:31
  But if it's something girl that I probably paid like thirty five forty dollars,
• 1:32:34
  Yeah, that's the uber ride going home. I'm do I Tonio invited
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  him on. Oh my god, you tear off. I'm back ready.
• 1:33:05
  You can read this giving head for dumbess, not the cliff los nothing back
• 1:33:14
  right, Alright? That that's what what what they called it hooked on phonics
• 1:33:19
  be hooked on head puns. Yeah, I'm late with y'all. I'm about
• 1:33:28
  to uh, I don't I don't know how to hell you see, man,
• 1:33:31
  you should have told him how I go and already had about two of
• 1:33:35
  these in me already. Okay, So I need to know, in your
• 1:33:42
  opinion, what's the best position for all sakes when she's looking up in my
• 1:33:46
  eyes? I so, dude, she has to be on her knees day
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  to do that, right. Yeah, she can be on her knees.
• 1:34:00
  Ye, I mean whatever. She she's just looking at me. Make sure
• 1:34:04
  she out of eye right here, so she know I'm here and I know
• 1:34:09
  she you ain't going nowhere. I told him, see see the right eye
• 1:34:23
  of eye. Content will make the night in earl. Make it in early
• 1:34:30
  because it's gonna come out real quick. Lower hell mercy to see see back.
• 1:34:43
  You should have told man. You should have told him. You know
• 1:34:45
  how stupid I you know how ignant I get, so you bet you should
• 1:34:48
  have told that crazy to talk about that for the feel pussy. Look,
• 1:35:02
  Oh my goodness, don't get him started. That's the old master. Now,
• 1:35:09
  that's that camera role right now. Look up, I'm not from here.
• 1:35:13
  I look. I know all faulting industrious somewhere out there near somewhere I
• 1:35:17
  used to deliver All nasty is not too far from here, and I can
• 1:35:26
  definitely see it on Old Nasty. That's what he acts. And it's a
• 1:35:32
  pandemic for usported ours plus tax pad pandemic. You need to calm the hell
• 1:35:40
  down with that ship were passing nothing. That's no, that's pandemic pussy,
• 1:35:45
  that's what it is. So it costs. You can get your stimulus,
• 1:35:49
  so whatever you got it off stimulus whatever, damn that. I just have
• 1:35:56
  a lonely knight to myself. Then I ain't. You ain't taking my stims
• 1:36:05
  my brother, My brother in lawn does not pay for cuss And just just
• 1:36:08
  to let you I know, and your that's that? Whatever? What's good?
• 1:36:28
  Cleveland Avenue? Why are you up anyway? You should be getting Oh
• 1:36:34
  my god, I get I'm gonna getting tony over this, this this bullshit.
• 1:36:45
  Hey, hey, when you were a young man in your early twenty
• 1:36:49
  sometimes you have to you have to throw a couple of dollars out fucking old
• 1:36:58
  national tuck old na try. Somebody went back Stewart Avenue from eight from the
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  eight Towns, So yeah, I know what that is. I don't know.
• 1:37:16
  I hadn't heard about stood. Oh yeah that that that was the hot
• 1:37:21
  hot spot. Say anything with the avenue that has a last name only got
• 1:37:27
  gunshots and bullets half more than half? What about that? Oh? Lord?
• 1:37:41
  M no, in New Orleans a chef highway. They cooking it up.
• 1:37:58
  They're cooking it up like that. You gonna see what they cooking.
• 1:38:00
  But it ain't no food. And because who were lord, have mercy.
• 1:38:09
  It ain't. I was supposed to be a good old case styles over here.
• 1:38:14
  Y'all have brought the bad out of me. You better message Tonio,
• 1:38:23
  I ain't know he said, you think he put you up to a girl?
• 1:38:25
  All my eyelashes because Tonio invited him. He said, come on,
• 1:38:29
  broke, come on. Then he jumped off. I'm not I don't remember
• 1:38:38
  that. He used, Oh I know they had to be interesting. Show
• 1:38:50
  that one play, that one play that got to put Horsefield Jackson and now
• 1:38:58
  the airport at all. It really ain't. That's something. Look at y'all
• 1:39:08
  all y'all drinking but me, but yet my last about to come offs crying
• 1:39:12
  and you crying laughing. Ain't you ain't know what? It don't even matter.
• 1:39:20
  We have a good time. I'm about to jump off with y'all though,
• 1:39:25
  because I ain't realize how late it was to me the answer, how
• 1:39:31
  do you have the all parties? It's not in all texts and exact field.
• 1:39:39
  To me, it's like Marrick, you both gotta want it, or
• 1:39:44
  even if you don't want it, you still both gotta not want it,
• 1:39:46
  Like you can't have one that want it and then one that don't because it
• 1:39:48
  ain't gonna work out. So either we're gonna do it and learn together,
• 1:39:53
  or we ain't gonna do it at all. But it can't be one wanting
• 1:39:56
  and onenot. If I'm starting, you're gonna used to course, you gonna
• 1:40:02
  wake up with me sitting on top of your motherfucking faith. That's mouth breaking.
• 1:40:10
  You got damn right, because if I didn't rape to dick, you
• 1:40:13
  gonna rape this. I'm meg you don't look at me, Oh my god,
• 1:40:27
  So do that I know who to blame? Yep. So you ain't
• 1:40:41
  gonna throw it out like that. But but then this right here, I
• 1:40:45
  was saying, like that been somebody that you love or somebody that you want
• 1:40:48
  a commitment with, I wouldn't really say it's a deal breaker. I mean
• 1:40:53
  you have to respect your partners what they want to and what not to do.
• 1:40:58
  The worst thing you could do, of course, something that they don't
• 1:41:00
  do and drive them away. I like it. So So so okay,
• 1:41:11
  let me ask you this. So you because I know you want to relationship,
• 1:41:15
  but how was that with you? And your how was that with you?
• 1:41:24
  Are you a giver? She a giver? Or you a receiver?
• 1:41:27
  Like I like, I don't hear it. I know right the sister in
• 1:41:32
  law. I don't want to hear this part. Oh, I, like
• 1:41:36
  I said, I give it, like I said, I received, But
• 1:41:40
  I, like I said, I'm a willing giver. That's that's what I
• 1:41:44
  do. Hey, say a man, we got it. Don't get Jesus
• 1:42:00
  he gonna strike my hand down for doing it. I don't want to hear
• 1:42:03
  it. But for real, be for real, be for real. Though
• 1:42:06
  I know my sister should get it from our mama and when we get it
• 1:42:10
  from But like, but I just saying like this, like I said,
• 1:42:17
  especially for me as a man, like I said, our main thing is,
• 1:42:20
  like I said, to keep our women please. Okay, okay,
• 1:42:26
  hey, hey, that that that that's what gets you breakfast in the morning
• 1:42:30
  and ship instead of a goddamn got them iron in your ass, I'm just
• 1:42:39
  being honest. That get you you know what they get you? A good
• 1:42:44
  day at work? Yep, oh yeah, I'll be at work instead of
• 1:42:48
  custing everybody ass out, I'll be saying, hello, how are you doing?
• 1:42:51
  Hey, I've been down that road a few times, so so if
• 1:43:00
  she walking up, give her how would you feel about? And like I
• 1:43:05
  said, like I said, Like I said, if I love her,
• 1:43:09
  we both love each other, it isn't what it needs at the end of
• 1:43:14
  the day. She's like I said, We're gonna please each other no matter
• 1:43:17
  what at the end of the day, because at the end of the day,
• 1:43:24
  the sexual aspect of it has nothing. If you don't have feeling for
• 1:43:30
  that person, that's the answer, because the physical is gonna come. Yeah.
• 1:43:39
  You know, I met and emotionally with somebody the physical parts and you
• 1:43:47
  got with that person. Take that person to throw that what you know that
• 1:43:59
  don't need. Yeah, especially when y'all both getting older and then the organ
• 1:44:05
  stopped working. What y'all got there? You're right now, you're being here
• 1:44:13
  pure romance, right, it's gonna get you together. Well, they're gonna
• 1:44:18
  do plub right though, when mom, I can tell you what you need,
• 1:44:29
  you need some great head. I'm looking at my box right about now.
• 1:44:35
  But no, seriously, I agree with you, k styles. So
• 1:44:41
  it's not a deal breaker. But for me, even if you don't like
• 1:44:45
  it, let's talk about it. Why why don't you What was your experience?
• 1:44:49
  What? Why? What turns you away from it? So let's work
• 1:44:54
  on it. Let's talk about it. Let's maybe you don't feel like you
• 1:44:58
  don't know how to do it, so let's just go through, you know,
• 1:45:02
  go through the motions, figure it out. Let's just take a day
• 1:45:06
  clear your schedule. We're just gonna take this day out for me and you
• 1:45:11
  and explore each other. And you know, I'm not gonna make you feel
• 1:45:15
  bad about it. But have Netflix. We have Netflix. Yeah, what
• 1:45:25
  we're supposed to do Netflix and s you I don't need no damn Netflix,
• 1:45:31
  I don't need. You gotta pay for but yeah, basically just talking to
• 1:45:46
  let's got to do something going on for there. Not to like it or
• 1:45:49
  not know how to do it just got them eight. They're just like,
• 1:45:54
  look, this is what I enjoy. I love to be pleased by you.
• 1:46:00
  You know, have that conversation. Maybe feel she'll start like to do
• 1:46:04
  it because you know how much it turns you want to please just use I
• 1:46:10
  don't know, just being open to us, being adults about it. That's
• 1:46:15
  how I feel. But it's not a deal breaker. But it's like,
• 1:46:17
  come on, dude, you gotta get it sometimes. I mean the third
• 1:46:25
  time, especially be one of them situations where you do a tour when she
• 1:46:32
  ain't expecting it that that's that's really where you're gonna get it. Right there,
• 1:46:40
  that's enough to make you can't do what we gonna? Oh damn that
• 1:47:01
  song, dude like they thinks to the back. I don't like no,
• 1:47:09
  because see you can have the mouth, but the dick don't match. So
• 1:47:12
  no, I nah, I squeezing more. What you gonna you gonna make
• 1:47:27
  it imaginary? Is gonna? Hey, fuck around it yourself, trying the
• 1:47:32
  hole and together we got we got something down. Not every woman. Well
• 1:47:53
  that's what hey, ladies. You want to have a nice out of town
• 1:48:00
  with your man, and you got on your heels and your lingerie, but
• 1:48:06
  you just can't find a good fucking lipstick sucks on dick and then you look
• 1:48:16
  down at your man and you see it's smeared all over there. You have
• 1:48:20
  to stick that in the virginity. But then you gotta stop because he had
• 1:48:24
  to go to the bathroom and wipe it off. Don't worry about that.
• 1:48:30
  I got a problem for you. No, you know what, I got
• 1:48:32
  a resolution. Get you some follows by Keith to the lipstick does not come
• 1:48:39
  out down and see all he got on his nick. You don't have if
• 1:48:50
  you have a problem and you wanna look sexy. And by time you finish,
• 1:48:55
  give your head. You got lipstick way up here? Get yourself colors
• 1:49:00
  by Keish. If you're smiling at your man after you finish the second digg
• 1:49:06
  and your teeth the same color as your lipstick, get you some colors by
• 1:49:14
  Kesh. We can fix that for you. Okay, but wait, that's
• 1:49:20
  more. How much you getting paid for this conversion? I'm over here talking
• 1:49:28
  to my mic holder. If you put your lips on his mic, if
• 1:49:41
  it comes off, that ain't colors by keys. You don't want your lipstick
• 1:49:48
  matching your teeth. You don't want to look down and see. Oh babe,
• 1:49:54
  I'm sorry you got blue lipstick on your dad? Who gets to some
• 1:50:02
  colors by Keith? And now back to your regular schedule program of Black Girls
• 1:50:09
  and the Red and then you ain't seen y'all better go get y'all listick.
• 1:50:15
  Look I've been Oh my dad was get ready? Where did you say my
• 1:50:19
  keyboard? Just guy? Oh it's my mom, but my mouth's just stopped
• 1:50:29
  working y'all for me. I'm followed baby twenty one? Ready, all right,
• 1:50:40
  look let me let let me simplify for him. What she just saying.
• 1:50:44
  She said, if you want your dick to look like a twist on
• 1:50:48
  one of them colored twists, just buy her by her list. She said.
• 1:50:54
  Don't no, she said, if you don't want it to smear,
• 1:50:59
  so I'm saying and not getting noticed, and you know you can go home
• 1:51:04
  to the wife without the lipstick. Get you some colors, get you some
• 1:51:10
  colors. Get some colors. Hold up fellas, Fellas one more thing.
• 1:51:15
  If you know you're not doing no shit you're supposed to be doing, and
• 1:51:19
  you won't go cheat and your girl kiss you, and she she won't walk
• 1:51:25
  away with your lipstick. You won't walk away with proof if you just get
• 1:51:30
  you some colors back Keith, cheating and Pete. I do not encourage cheating,
• 1:51:34
  because that's how you're playing your feeling it. But you see what I'm
• 1:51:36
  saying, cheating and you gotta worry about nobody else doing You don't have to
• 1:51:46
  worry about you walk away with lipstick things on your shirt. You don't have
• 1:51:53
  to worry about that. But don't do it because your ass gonna be dead
• 1:51:57
  because your wife finds out that's it. Yes, cousin, you spent your
• 1:52:01
  last name wrong. I'm gonna get you. I'm getting you know who were
• 1:52:10
  close? Don't come off? You better preach your girl, tell me your
• 1:52:17
  testimony. This is how we got to close this ship up. We're gonna
• 1:52:23
  roll and say some money the final thoughts. Okay, let me finish there.
• 1:52:30
  So this plitical person that got that head September ten, two thousand and
• 1:52:35
  twenty and Room seven twenty two, tell me do the list they come on.
• 1:52:44
  Okay, are you in the audience? I mean you go ahead and
• 1:52:48
  spectify. It didn't come on forever. Hold your peace. I don't know.
• 1:53:00
  He may not be the later, but tell him that colors as not
• 1:53:11
  comics. So Commas comes on, Freggie, I owe you shit that colors
• 1:53:26
  backs do not come off, and you keep playing with one more time.
• 1:53:35
  So fellas, fellas, if you got side chicks, don't get me,
• 1:53:45
  don't get it. If you got if you don't give it to the side
• 1:53:47
  chick. Now, if you don't want to come home with lipsticks stage,
• 1:53:51
  you better give it to and playing your funeral later. Get him some get
• 1:53:58
  them. We don't do commax. We will do that shit. It burns
• 1:54:05
  your lips, and can't you wandering? And if you wear gold shoes that
• 1:54:15
  go through you. Wow, okay, you gonna you have those people?
• 1:54:25
  Whatever? Oh my god? Yeah about all about Hey, hey, hey,
• 1:54:36
  I'll be right here. See I'll better listen to my husband. It
• 1:54:46
  don't come off. I was talking to him about setting me up. Bro,
• 1:54:53
  this is crazy. You definitely taking that extra out this video. No
• 1:55:03
  where now, I sure is. If you want to go for your side
• 1:55:17
  chicken and your wife, get them the same color so you could say baby
• 1:55:21
  came from you. Hold on, wait a minute, let me oh,
• 1:55:32
  wait a minute, let me get a pain of paper for that right quick?
• 1:55:36
  Come then I'm gonna have the key. Don't give it on what mate?
• 1:55:40
  You say? If you if you got two women, get two blues.
• 1:55:51
  So when she kiss you, even though it don't come home, she
• 1:55:56
  might drop the sticky Baby came from you. You don't remember I brought you
• 1:56:02
  this last week for half fall, using the cold black fry on a damn
• 1:56:11
  Tuesday. I'm about to say this. We still gotta sell. Don't miss
• 1:56:15
  this. He said, if you had to come in yours? What else?
• 1:56:23
  What else? But just so y'all know that classic what I had on
• 1:56:28
  that night. It's so dark because it don't come home. I was a
• 1:56:33
  classic holder. You could be any color horr you wanna be. If you
• 1:56:39
  want to be a privacy horr, savage, hooy, blues, hor classy,
• 1:56:43
  whore essence, horror, ebony, horror, whatever hole you wanna be,
• 1:56:47
  name yourself. Just get colors by. Oh you wanna be a brown
• 1:56:53
  sugar horse, don't matter, it goes good with him. But I'm enough
• 1:56:58
  about me just saying I'm going to touch myself to night with my family and
• 1:57:15
  this for oh, I got both of you just seeing the booze. I
• 1:57:30
  No, I was moca. I'm so sorry I was. He was a
• 1:57:36
  mocah carmon Starbucks. You heard what she see because that's what I was.
• 1:57:49
  Whoa. I'm just thinking a room number was seven in another nasty ever short
• 1:58:08
  of Black Girl and to walk through. I just don't know this just just
• 1:58:12
  this was just crazy. I can't even give my words together. Sist me
• 1:58:24
  all the water, Chaney, what's your final? Uh? My final thought
• 1:58:32
  for tonight is something Hey, I can do that? Actually, why are
• 1:58:42
  we talking about head and everything else? I have? Let me and I'm
• 1:58:47
  looking for. Let me get up, let me get it, let me
• 1:58:54
  get it. I should have have my great head down here. No,
• 1:58:59
  that's all. Let the man. I had a lot of stuff. Yeah,
• 1:59:02
  I'm not gonna play what you're reading. It must be on the back
• 1:59:06
  this sex get you some great head. That what you need. Pure romance.
• 1:59:20
  This here, well numb the back of your throat. So you want
• 1:59:28
  to be superhead. This is what what how you gonna get there right here,
• 1:59:33
  it's gonna get all of this going to where it's numbing it, where
• 1:59:36
  you don't feel it as much. Some people that got their gag reflects all
• 1:59:41
  of that read that's what you need, perfect product for this episode, But
• 1:59:54
  no says I'm a pure romance uh consultant. People that really do have issue
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  us with you know, if you need something to spice up your relationship y'all
• 2:00:04
  going through some issues, I have the products for you. So really hit
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  me up seriously if you you know, if you just want to surprise your
• 2:00:15
  you know, your your significant other with something. I got lingerie, I
• 2:00:20
  got Crane's oars side toys, I got toys toys, So don't be sure.
• 2:00:29
  Hit me up. Let me find my lake and drop in the comments
• 2:00:31
  for people. But other than that, my final thought is have sex and
• 2:00:36
  love all up. So next to me, Oh, you need to be
• 2:00:46
  available because we're talking about versus n okay, okay, so I'll be there.
• 2:00:56
  I definitely need you, cause babe, who don't love so nick A
• 2:01:04
  niked everything naked baby here, what's your final thought? But then I say,
• 2:01:11
  when it comes to your sexual partner, y'all, just do what you
• 2:01:15
  have to do to please each other. You got that sex and dead word
• 2:01:20
  vault, talking about it, talk about it working out, Nicky got that
• 2:01:30
  nasty y'all, let's talk about it. If your brother holler my, you
• 2:01:45
  know you my, if you about to ask me for final thoughts, that's
• 2:01:48
  what I did, and be free. Talk a lot of faith, please
• 2:01:57
  your spouse, please yourself, and that they masturbation it's legal. Shack.
• 2:02:04
  I'm yes, okay, Well I'm gonna. I'm gonna. I'm gonna put
• 2:02:15
  it in need words, live life, get petty, get hey, that's
• 2:02:23
  it, chay amen, I said, I'm on tide. I'm listening,
• 2:02:36
  so my father, baby give me no. We're about to roll from the
• 2:02:45
  two thousand and two one. And if you can fucking that's one one.
• 2:02:50
  You gotta fucking prom I can see you, said, anything I can through
• 2:02:57
  what strong girl? Go sit over for Thanksgiving? You can't even said faith
• 2:03:06
  if you ain't something in this in this new millennium. I don't know what
• 2:03:13
  more to say, but don't forget follow your girl. Oh yeah, the
• 2:03:19
  people make unless where do you want to come play with me? Nicky type
• 2:03:30
  of linking comments, I believe, so yeah, just type of yeah yeah,
• 2:03:36
  it'll posted all the platforms. So don't forget. We're gonna continue towards
• 2:03:55
  on my play. That's the so you know. I okay, don't forget
• 2:04:05
  the thing, the episode I got around here and then I will who Okay,
• 2:04:24
  we're never put it. We never wanted to know. We're talking about
• 2:04:28
  we're always talking about so they came here. But anyway, thanks for open
• 2:04:35
  up my seat again. Don't forget we're talking about versus N. Do you
• 2:04:44
  play U? You don't play