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- 0:37Have
- 0:37you
- 0:37ever
- 0:38noticed
- 0:38that
- 0:38debt
- 0:38doesn't
- 0:39just
- 0:39live
- 0:39on
- 0:39a
- 0:39statement?
- 0:40It
- 0:41follows
- 0:41you
- 0:41everywhere.
- 0:42It
- 0:42shows
- 0:43up
- 0:43when
- 0:43you're
- 0:43trying
- 0:43to
- 0:44fall
- 0:44asleep.
- 0:44It
- 0:45shows
- 0:45up
- 0:45when
- 0:45you
- 0:45check
- 0:46the
- 0:46mail.
- 0:46It
- 0:46shows
- 0:47up
- 0:47when
- 0:47you
- 0:47check
- 0:47that
- 0:48bank
- 0:48app
- 0:48and
- 0:49your
- 0:49stomach
- 0:49tightens
- 0:49before
- 0:50the
- 0:50screen
- 0:50even
- 0:50loads.
- 0:51It's
- 0:52not
- 0:52just
- 0:52numbers.
- 0:53It's
- 0:53a
- 0:54weight.
- 0:54And
- 0:54sometimes
- 0:55you
- 0:55wonder,
- 0:56why
- 0:56does
- 0:56this
- 0:57feel
- 0:57so
- 0:57heavy?
- 0:57Why
- 0:58does
- 0:58it
- 0:58feel
- 0:58like
- 0:58I
- 0:59can't
- 0:59breathe?
- 1:00And
- 1:00let
- 1:00me
- 1:00tell
- 1:00you
- 1:01right
- 1:01now,
- 1:01friend,
- 1:01you're
- 1:02not
- 1:02weak
- 1:02for
- 1:02feeling
- 1:02that.
- 1:03Then
- 1:03today
- 1:03we're
- 1:03going
- 1:04to
- 1:04talk
- 1:04about
- 1:04why
- 1:04debt
- 1:05feels
- 1:05like
- 1:05a
- 1:05prison
- 1:06and
- 1:06why
- 1:06freedom,
- 1:06yes,
- 1:07freedom
- 1:07is
- 1:08still
- 1:08possible.
- 1:30Hey,
- 1:30friend.
- 1:30Ralph
- 1:31Estep
- 1:31Jr.
- 1:32Here.
- 1:32Welcome
- 1:32to
- 1:33Financially
- 1:33Confident
- 1:33Christian,
- 1:34where
- 1:34we
- 1:35learn
- 1:35how
- 1:35to
- 1:35walk
- 1:35through
- 1:35life
- 1:36and
- 1:36with
- 1:36money,
- 1:36with
- 1:37wisdom,
- 1:37with
- 1:38peace,
- 1:38and
- 1:38with
- 1:39a
- 1:39heart
- 1:39anchored
- 1:39in
- 1:40God's
- 1:40truth.
- 1:40My
- 1:41mission
- 1:41on
- 1:41the
- 1:41show
- 1:42is
- 1:42pretty
- 1:42simple.
- 1:42I
- 1:43want
- 1:43to
- 1:43help
- 1:43you
- 1:43break
- 1:43that
- 1:44cycle
- 1:44of
- 1:44financial
- 1:45shame
- 1:45and
- 1:46build
- 1:46those
- 1:46steady
- 1:47habits
- 1:47that
- 1:47are
- 1:47rooted
- 1:47in
- 1:48faith
- 1:48and
- 1:49become
- 1:49the
- 1:49kind
- 1:49of
- 1:49believer
- 1:50who
- 1:50handles
- 1:50money
- 1:51with
- 1:51clarity,
- 1:52with
- 1:52confidence,
- 1:53and
- 1:53with
- 1:54purpose.
- 1:55Yesterday
- 1:55we
- 1:55talked
- 1:56about
- 1:56trusting
- 1:56God
- 1:57when
- 1:57the
- 1:57numbers
- 1:57feel
- 1:58tight,
- 1:58about
- 1:58holding
- 1:59faith
- 1:59and
- 1:59wisdom
- 2:00together.
- 2:01And
- 2:01today
- 2:01we're
- 2:02going
- 2:02to
- 2:02start
- 2:02a
- 2:02brand
- 2:02new
- 2:03conversation,
- 2:03one
- 2:04a
- 2:04lot
- 2:04of
- 2:04people
- 2:04avoid
- 2:05but
- 2:05quietly
- 2:05carry
- 2:06every
- 2:06day.
- 2:07We're
- 2:07going
- 2:07to
- 2:07start
- 2:07talking
- 2:07about
- 2:08debt.
- 2:08And
- 2:09we're
- 2:09not
- 2:09talking
- 2:09about
- 2:09it
- 2:10from
- 2:10a
- 2:10place
- 2:10of
- 2:10condemnation
- 2:11and
- 2:11not
- 2:12from
- 2:12a
- 2:12place
- 2:12of
- 2:12fear,
- 2:13but
- 2:13with
- 2:13truth
- 2:14and
- 2:14with
- 2:14hope.
- 2:15A
- 2:15listener
- 2:16asked
- 2:16me
- 2:16this,
- 2:17Ralph,
- 2:18I
- 2:18am
- 2:18buried
- 2:19in
- 2:19debt.
- 2:19I
- 2:20feel
- 2:20stuck.
- 2:20And
- 2:21sometimes
- 2:21I
- 2:21wonder
- 2:21if
- 2:22I'll
- 2:22ever
- 2:22get
- 2:22free.
- 2:23Is
- 2:23there
- 2:24something
- 2:24wrong
- 2:25with
- 2:25me?
- 2:26And
- 2:26I
- 2:26just
- 2:27want
- 2:27to
- 2:27pause
- 2:27there
- 2:27for
- 2:27a
- 2:27second.
- 2:29That
- 2:29question
- 2:30takes
- 2:30so
- 2:30much
- 2:31courage
- 2:31to
- 2:31ask.
- 2:32Is
- 2:32there
- 2:33something
- 2:33wrong
- 2:33with
- 2:33me?
- 2:34No,
- 2:35there's
- 2:35nothing
- 2:35wrong
- 2:35with
- 2:35you.
- 2:36But
- 2:36I
- 2:36want
- 2:36to
- 2:36give
- 2:36you
- 2:37a
- 2:37gentle
- 2:37answer
- 2:37today
- 2:38because
- 2:38what
- 2:38you
- 2:39might
- 2:39be
- 2:39feeling
- 2:39is
- 2:40this.
- 2:40Ralph,
- 2:41I
- 2:41made
- 2:42choices
- 2:42now
- 2:42that
- 2:42I've
- 2:43come
- 2:43to
- 2:43regret.
- 2:45I
- 2:45know
- 2:45I
- 2:45should
- 2:45have
- 2:46known
- 2:46better,
- 2:47Ralph.
- 2:48I
- 2:48feel
- 2:48ashamed
- 2:49every
- 2:49time
- 2:49I
- 2:49think
- 2:49about
- 2:50it.
- 2:51And
- 2:51see,
- 2:51here's
- 2:51the
- 2:51problem,
- 2:52friend.
- 2:52Debt
- 2:52doesn't
- 2:53just
- 2:53affect
- 2:53your
- 2:54finances.
- 2:55If
- 2:55it
- 2:55did,
- 2:55that'd
- 2:56be
- 2:56easier
- 2:56to
- 2:56deal
- 2:56with.
- 2:57But
- 2:57it
- 2:57doesn't.
- 2:57It
- 2:58weighs
- 2:58on
- 2:58your
- 2:58heart.
- 2:59It
- 2:59steals
- 3:00your
- 3:00peace,
- 3:01and
- 3:01it
- 3:01whispers
- 3:02lies
- 3:02to
- 3:02you.
- 3:03But
- 3:03let
- 3:04me
- 3:04say
- 3:04this
- 3:04clearly.
- 3:05Being
- 3:05in
- 3:06debt
- 3:06does
- 3:06not
- 3:06mean
- 3:07you're
- 3:07irresponsible.
- 3:08It
- 3:08doesn't
- 3:08mean
- 3:08you're
- 3:09foolish.
- 3:09And
- 3:10it
- 3:10does
- 3:10not
- 3:10mean
- 3:10you're
- 3:11beyond
- 3:11hope.
- 3:12It
- 3:12just
- 3:12means
- 3:12you're
- 3:13human.
- 3:13And
- 3:13guess
- 3:14what?
- 3:14You're
- 3:14living
- 3:14in
- 3:14a
- 3:15world
- 3:15where
- 3:15borrowing
- 3:15is
- 3:16easy
- 3:16and
- 3:17freedom
- 3:17can
- 3:17feel
- 3:18so
- 3:18far
- 3:18away.
- 3:19I
- 3:19need
- 3:20you
- 3:20to
- 3:20Hear
- 3:20this.
- 3:21That
- 3:21conviction
- 3:22is
- 3:23pulling
- 3:23you
- 3:23towards
- 3:24God.
- 3:24That
- 3:25shame
- 3:25pushes
- 3:25you
- 3:25away
- 3:26from
- 3:26him.
- 3:26And
- 3:27today
- 3:27is
- 3:27not
- 3:27about
- 3:28shame.
- 3:29Here's
- 3:30what
- 3:30people
- 3:30don't
- 3:30talk
- 3:30about.
- 3:31Enough.
- 3:32That
- 3:32creates
- 3:32a
- 3:33constant
- 3:33sense
- 3:34of
- 3:34obligation.
- 3:35It's
- 3:35like
- 3:35your
- 3:36mind
- 3:36is
- 3:36always
- 3:36on
- 3:36the
- 3:37on
- 3:37button.
- 3:38Always
- 3:38calculating,
- 3:39always
- 3:39bracing,
- 3:40always
- 3:40trying
- 3:41to
- 3:41hold
- 3:41it
- 3:41together.
- 3:43So
- 3:43if
- 3:43you've
- 3:43been
- 3:43feeling
- 3:44anxious
- 3:44or
- 3:45maybe
- 3:45tense,
- 3:45or
- 3:45hey,
- 3:45maybe
- 3:46you're
- 3:46just
- 3:46tired.
- 3:47That
- 3:47heaviness
- 3:48you're
- 3:48feeling
- 3:48is
- 3:49not
- 3:49imaginary.
- 3:50It's
- 3:50what
- 3:50pressure
- 3:51does
- 3:51when
- 3:51it
- 3:52follows
- 3:52you
- 3:52everywhere.
- 3:54And
- 3:54over
- 3:55the
- 3:55years,
- 3:55I've
- 3:55walked
- 3:56with
- 3:56people
- 3:56across
- 3:56the
- 3:57entire
- 3:57debt
- 3:58spectrum.
- 3:58I've
- 3:59seen
- 3:59credit
- 3:59card
- 4:00debt,
- 4:00student
- 4:01loan
- 4:01debt,
- 4:01medical
- 4:02bills,
- 4:02business
- 4:03debt.
- 4:03And
- 4:03I've
- 4:03learned
- 4:03this
- 4:04one
- 4:04thing.
- 4:05Debt
- 4:05rarely
- 4:06starts
- 4:06with
- 4:06bad
- 4:07intentions.
- 4:08It
- 4:08usually
- 4:08starts
- 4:08with
- 4:09survival
- 4:09or
- 4:09maybe
- 4:10hope,
- 4:10or
- 4:10maybe
- 4:11a
- 4:11season
- 4:11that
- 4:11felt
- 4:12overwhelming.
- 4:13And
- 4:14freedom
- 4:14doesn't
- 4:14start
- 4:14with
- 4:15judgment.
- 4:16It
- 4:16actually
- 4:16starts
- 4:17with
- 4:17honesty.
- 4:18I
- 4:18think
- 4:18about
- 4:18one
- 4:19couple
- 4:19I
- 4:19work
- 4:19with.
- 4:20They
- 4:20avoided
- 4:21looking
- 4:21at
- 4:21their
- 4:21debt
- 4:21because
- 4:22it
- 4:22felt
- 4:22crushing
- 4:23to
- 4:23them.
- 4:24But
- 4:24when
- 4:24they
- 4:25finally
- 4:25wrote
- 4:25everything
- 4:26down,
- 4:26they
- 4:26expected
- 4:27to
- 4:27be
- 4:27in
- 4:27utter
- 4:28despair.
- 4:28But
- 4:28instead
- 4:29they
- 4:29felt
- 4:29relief.
- 4:30Not
- 4:31because
- 4:31their
- 4:31numbers
- 4:32were
- 4:32small.
- 4:32Listen,
- 4:32their
- 4:32numbers
- 4:33were
- 4:33not
- 4:33small.
- 4:33They
- 4:33had
- 4:33a
- 4:34ton
- 4:34of
- 4:34debt.
- 4:35But
- 4:35because
- 4:35fear
- 4:36had
- 4:36finally
- 4:36lost
- 4:37its
- 4:37power.
- 4:37See,
- 4:38that
- 4:38awareness
- 4:38didn't
- 4:39trap
- 4:39them
- 4:39any
- 4:39longer.
- 4:40It
- 4:40opened
- 4:41a
- 4:41door.
- 4:42So
- 4:42here's
- 4:42today's
- 4:43gentle
- 4:43question.
- 4:44What
- 4:44if
- 4:44debt
- 4:45feels
- 4:45like
- 4:45a
- 4:45prison?
- 4:46Not
- 4:46because
- 4:46you're
- 4:46trapped
- 4:47forever,
- 4:47but
- 4:48because
- 4:48you
- 4:48haven't
- 4:48been
- 4:48shown
- 4:49a
- 4:49path
- 4:49out
- 4:50yet.
- 4:51You
- 4:51don't
- 4:51need
- 4:51a
- 4:51miracle
- 4:52to
- 4:52start.
- 4:52You
- 4:53just
- 4:53need
- 4:53a
- 4:53map.
- 4:53Let's
- 4:54talk
- 4:54about
- 4:54what
- 4:55debt
- 4:55really
- 4:55does
- 4:56and
- 4:56where
- 4:56freedom
- 4:57actually
- 4:57begins.
- 4:58Here's
- 4:59the
- 4:59thing
- 4:59that
- 4:59debt
- 4:59does.
- 5:00Debt
- 5:00borrows
- 5:01from
- 5:01tomorrow,
- 5:02friend.
- 5:02Debt
- 5:03isn't
- 5:03just
- 5:04money.
- 5:04It's
- 5:05your
- 5:05future
- 5:05margin
- 5:06that
- 5:06you're
- 5:06using
- 5:06today.
- 5:07That
- 5:07monthly
- 5:08payment
- 5:08that
- 5:08you're
- 5:09setting
- 5:09yourself
- 5:09up
- 5:10or
- 5:10limits
- 5:10your
- 5:11choices
- 5:11you
- 5:11haven't
- 5:12even
- 5:12made
- 5:12yet.
- 5:13That's
- 5:13why
- 5:13I
- 5:13feel
- 5:14so
- 5:14heavy.
- 5:15Because
- 5:15debt
- 5:15often
- 5:16promises
- 5:16relief.
- 5:17It
- 5:17whispers
- 5:18these
- 5:18things,
- 5:18this
- 5:19will
- 5:19help.
- 5:20This
- 5:20is
- 5:20going
- 5:20to
- 5:21fix
- 5:21it.
- 5:21Well,
- 5:21this
- 5:21will
- 5:22make
- 5:22things
- 5:22so
- 5:22much
- 5:23easier.
- 5:24And
- 5:25sometimes
- 5:25it
- 5:25does,
- 5:26but
- 5:27just
- 5:27for
- 5:27a
- 5:27moment.
- 5:28But
- 5:28then
- 5:29often
- 5:29that
- 5:29credit
- 5:29card
- 5:30covers
- 5:30the
- 5:30emergency
- 5:31and
- 5:31creates
- 5:32this
- 5:32longer
- 5:32season
- 5:33of
- 5:33pressure
- 5:34that
- 5:34short
- 5:34term
- 5:34relief
- 5:35can
- 5:35turn
- 5:35into
- 5:35long
- 5:36term
- 5:36stress.
- 5:37I've
- 5:37seen
- 5:37it
- 5:37so
- 5:37many
- 5:38times.
- 5:38I've
- 5:38seen
- 5:38it
- 5:38my
- 5:39own
- 5:39life.
- 5:40But
- 5:40awareness
- 5:41is
- 5:41the
- 5:41first
- 5:41step
- 5:42towards
- 5:42freedom.
- 5:43See,
- 5:43freedom
- 5:44doesn't
- 5:44start
- 5:44with
- 5:44a
- 5:45payoff
- 5:45plan.
- 5:46It
- 5:46starts
- 5:47with
- 5:47clarity.
- 5:47It's
- 5:48that
- 5:48writing
- 5:48it
- 5:48down,
- 5:49looking
- 5:49at
- 5:49it,
- 5:50naming
- 5:50it.
- 5:51That
- 5:51light
- 5:52breaks
- 5:52those
- 5:52chains.
- 5:54Because
- 5:54God
- 5:55heart
- 5:55is
- 5:55freedom,
- 5:56not
- 5:56shame.
- 5:57God
- 5:58doesn't
- 5:58reveal
- 5:58truth
- 5:59to
- 5:59punish
- 5:59you.
- 6:00He
- 6:00reveals
- 6:00truth
- 6:01to
- 6:01lead
- 6:01you.
- 6:01Freedom
- 6:02is
- 6:02a
- 6:02process,
- 6:03not
- 6:03a
- 6:03moment.
- 6:04And
- 6:04guess
- 6:04what?
- 6:05God
- 6:05is
- 6:05patient
- 6:06with
- 6:06the
- 6:06process.
- 6:07Look
- 6:07at
- 6:07what
- 6:07Proverbs
- 6:0822:7
- 6:09says.
- 6:10The
- 6:10rich
- 6:10rule
- 6:11over
- 6:11the
- 6:11poor
- 6:11and
- 6:12the
- 6:12borrower
- 6:13is
- 6:13slave
- 6:13to
- 6:13the
- 6:14lender.
- 6:14Yeah,
- 6:14that's
- 6:15pretty
- 6:15harsh,
- 6:15isn't
- 6:15it?
- 6:16That's
- 6:16not
- 6:17condemnation.
- 6:18That's
- 6:18just
- 6:18clarity.
- 6:19God
- 6:19names
- 6:20the
- 6:20weight
- 6:20so
- 6:20he
- 6:20can
- 6:21guide
- 6:21you
- 6:21towards
- 6:21release.
- 6:23Lord,
- 6:23thank
- 6:23you
- 6:23for
- 6:24the
- 6:24truth
- 6:24that
- 6:24frees
- 6:24us.
- 6:25Give
- 6:25us
- 6:26courage
- 6:26to
- 6:26face
- 6:26reality
- 6:27without
- 6:27fear.
- 6:28Replace
- 6:29shame
- 6:29with
- 6:29hope.
- 6:29Replace
- 6:30pressure
- 6:30with
- 6:30peace.
- 6:31And
- 6:31lead
- 6:32us
- 6:32step
- 6:32by
- 6:32step
- 6:33towards
- 6:33freedom.
- 6:34And
- 6:34we
- 6:34ask
- 6:34this
- 6:35in
- 6:35Jesus
- 6:36name,
- 6:37Amen.
- 6:38Here's
- 6:38today's
- 6:38step.
- 6:39I
- 6:39want
- 6:39you
- 6:39to
- 6:39write
- 6:40down
- 6:40every
- 6:40debt
- 6:41that
- 6:41you
- 6:41have.
- 6:41And
- 6:41for
- 6:42each
- 6:42one,
- 6:42I
- 6:42want
- 6:42you
- 6:43to
- 6:43write
- 6:43this.
- 6:43Who's
- 6:44it
- 6:44with?
- 6:44What's
- 6:45the
- 6:45balance?
- 6:45What's
- 6:46the
- 6:46minimum
- 6:46payment?
- 6:47And
- 6:47what's
- 6:47the
- 6:47interest
- 6:47rate?
- 6:48Of
- 6:48course,
- 6:48if
- 6:48you
- 6:49can
- 6:49find
- 6:49it.
- 6:49And
- 6:50we're
- 6:50not
- 6:50doing
- 6:50this
- 6:50for
- 6:51hiding.
- 6:51We're
- 6:51not
- 6:51doing
- 6:52it
- 6:52for
- 6:52judgment.
- 6:52We're
- 6:52doing
- 6:53it
- 6:53just
- 6:53for
- 6:53clarity.
- 6:54Because
- 6:54this
- 6:54isn't
- 6:55failure.
- 6:55It's
- 6:56the
- 6:56first
- 6:56act
- 6:57of
- 6:57freedom,
- 6:58friend.
- 6:59If
- 6:59debt
- 6:59feels
- 7:00isolating,
- 7:00you're
- 7:01not
- 7:01alone
- 7:01in
- 7:01that.
- 7:02Inside
- 7:02the
- 7:02financially
- 7:03confident
- 7:03Christian
- 7:04community,
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- 7:12hope
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- 7:13there.
- 7:13I
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- 7:13to
- 7:13encourage
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- 7:25leave
- 7:25you
- 7:25with
- 7:25this.
- 7:26Debt
- 7:26may
- 7:26feel
- 7:27like
- 7:27a
- 7:27prison,
- 7:28but
- 7:28it
- 7:28does
- 7:28not
- 7:28get
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- 7:29final
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- 7:30Because
- 7:30God
- 7:30is
- 7:30patient.
- 7:31Freedom
- 7:31is
- 7:32possible.
- 7:32And
- 7:33this
- 7:33journey
- 7:33starts
- 7:34today.
- 7:34Now,
- 7:34tomorrow
- 7:35we're
- 7:35going
- 7:35to
- 7:35talk
- 7:36about
- 7:36the
- 7:36debt
- 7:36stories
- 7:37you've
- 7:37been
- 7:37told
- 7:37and
- 7:37whether
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- 7:38actually
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- 7:38We're
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- 7:38to
- 7:39demyst
- 7:39some
- 7:39things
- 7:39tomorrow,
- 7:40but
- 7:40today
- 7:41I
- 7:41want
- 7:41you
- 7:41to
- 7:41go
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