Latest / True Crime and Wine Time / S4 E5 - Sibling Killers - Part One
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- 0:00Mmmm, hey there, how are you today? Oh you weren't. You
- 0:16weren't talking to the listeners. You were talking to me. He was talking
- 0:19to you. Well, you know, I'm okay, it's been a day.
- 0:25You can just run my face, you know, across the concrete.
- 0:30It'll be fine. Okay, maybe I won't ask how your day is.
- 0:36But yes, hello to our listeners. But they can't answer me back,
- 0:39so they'll just have to add me and tell me how they are. But
- 0:43I'm excited to be back recording. Yes, me too. We have a
- 0:48crazy topic today and some great bad good bad good cases, you know,
- 0:54a little bit of both. I know it's always like do I say they're
- 0:57a good case when they're really bad and dark? Or is that a bad
- 1:00case? Or it depends on who's looking at it right, they're interesting.
- 1:06I once said that something was fascinating and everybody was like, that really sounds
- 1:10like you're saying it's good. And I'm like, but no, it doesn't
- 1:11mean it's good. It could be both. It's just fascinating with how bad
- 1:17it is. But you know, if you want to rhetorically challenge me,
- 1:21feel free go for it. Well, and I am drinking a cocktail instead
- 1:26of wine. So I don't know if that means beware or what. But
- 1:33the good news is I only have one of them. Our last recording,
- 1:38I drink the entire bottle. That was a good recording. So this I
- 1:44have one cocktail. One cut. I was gonna say, I'm drinking.
- 1:49It's called Pretty Rad and it's kind of cool. It's got seasonal syrup,
- 1:55citrus hibiscus, ginger beer, dehydra, did lemon glitter, and then it
- 2:04came with a glow stick to stir glitter. It had edible glitter, so
- 2:09I'll send me a picture. I had to put it in a different glass
- 2:13because I had it in a Martini glass and I just cause visualize this being
- 2:16all over the board being a mess, so I had to pour it in
- 2:22a different glass. But yeah, it's this cool company called Team Class and
- 2:27you make the cocktail. So I love the fact that you and I didn't
- 2:32really talk about what we were bringing to drink, and yet we both brought
- 2:36something completely different than we've ever brought really before. Well then I have brought
- 2:42I never have done this, but I did give it a goog this edible
- 2:47glitter. It does have to come out of your body. It does have
- 2:53to come out of your by who I would hope, So thank you.
- 2:57So wait, wait, what are you saying? You're gonna have glitter poop?
- 3:00That's right, early digest glitter, so it's not exactly edible per se,
- 3:07it's you can edible it. But you're also gonna yep, that's fun.
- 3:13So when they say listen for like two days, you'll be a unicorn,
- 3:17it's cool. Yes, But I asked hand somebody, I'm like,
- 3:21should I take to a picture if it sparkles? He goes, please,
- 3:23don't that means do it? That means I mean I love all things that
- 3:31glitter. So you know, yeahs you got the GPS. So what are
- 3:37you drinking today? The high class combination of rum and ginger. I I
- 3:44don't know why. I didn't really have coke, didn't I didn't have bourbon
- 3:49because I usually like that with or gin. I like gin and ginger O
- 3:53why ginger I I don't know. I think it's just what was in front
- 3:57of me, and I said why not? And I just wanted to cut
- 4:00it has hibiscus ginger beer, so like ginger beer. I'm also not a
- 4:05huge fan. I'm not a huge fan of rum. But at the same
- 4:10time, I only had like Apple whiskey, and that's not a huge fan
- 4:16like favorite for me. I prefer gin at this point in my life because
- 4:20I'm old and groggy and get off my damn lawn. But yeah, so
- 4:24this is Sailor Jerry spiced rum. I don't know if it's bottom shelf or
- 4:29midshelf. It might be midchelf, although the size tells me it's what do
- 4:32you see the label though? Was it was that like a whole hot chick
- 4:39gone there? Yeah? Oh it's a hula girl. Yeah, so how
- 4:45about that a hula dance for everybody? It's good. It's a solid ninety
- 4:47two proof. Hey, they say bold and smooth as hell. Love it.
- 4:54And then Canada Dry is Canada Dry. And I've got some lovely little
- 4:58I'm not gonna meld on you ice cubes. Okay, I love those because
- 5:03in your drink doesn't get watery. I do like them. But I just
- 5:08bought the round molds to make the ice balls because I planted miniature rose bushes.
- 5:14Because when I was in Florida last year, they took miniature roses put
- 5:17them in there, and then they put flavoring and the water or they did
- 5:23a thing like with lavender or elderberry. Then it mixes with the flour and
- 5:27you drop it in your drink. I love that. I'm going to try
- 5:30to be bougie and do that. I had like the whiskey stones that are
- 5:35like the Rocks, but somewhere they got lost in the move years and Go,
- 5:41and so I just went with these lovely plastic, classy ones because That's
- 5:45where I'm at right now. But they work, right, do they do?
- 5:50They work well? I am going to just assume that this episode's going
- 5:55to contain graphic content, adult language, and I'm going to guarantee will not
- 6:00be suitable for all listeners. Little delicate ears should probably not listen. It
- 6:06is definitely not good for kids. I can guarant damt it. See you
- 6:11right off the bat, you do it. Why don't you tell us what
- 6:14our topic is today? Because it was an an interesting research project? Okay,
- 6:20cool, cool, cool, I'm not crazy. Our topic today is
- 6:25siblings that kill boy? Oh boy? Is it a doozy? Well,
- 6:30and that's why I messaged you today that you know, I wake up every
- 6:34morning and I have my coffee, read the news and I see you the
- 6:38thing not covering this case. But there was a headline twin Rhode Island,
- 6:44sisters killed their dad with garden shears during an argument about cats. You know.
- 6:49And it's really funny because a friend of mine, Bob Mada, who
- 6:54runs Defense Diaries that podcast, he said, you know, the twelve catch
- 7:00would have been a red flag and has a point. He's not wrong.
- 7:06Actually, I would love to have him on our show sometime soon. We
- 7:10should. He's great as long as he doesn't have twels. No, I
- 7:15don't think so. He has four kids, but not twelve cats. I
- 7:17mean, if I have to be honest, there was a time that we
- 7:20had thirteen cats. Oh that's a lot. And you know what, but
- 7:26we had a cat that had kittens. She had eight kittens. She had
- 7:30been found as astray. We took her in. Six weeks later she had
- 7:32kittens and we got rid of all of them kittens. And I do want
- 7:36to be clear, if you have a lot of cats, that's fine.
- 7:39In fact, you know my friend from spine Chillers and Serial Killers, Emma,
- 7:44she has a lot of cats. And the reason why she has a
- 7:46lot of cats is because she finds them and they come to her. France
- 7:50isn't exactly well known for their animal welfare, right, and so she brings
- 7:56them in and she takes care of them, and I find that awesome.
- 8:00But she wouldn't kill her dad overcats. I'm a scene. I don't think
- 8:05so. I would like to think not. But i'd also like to think
- 8:09that if she did, she'd be cool with me covering the case. So
- 8:13I'm sure she would be because we would do it very well. It's it's
- 8:16so funny. It's not funny. It's interesting when you sent me that link
- 8:20because at the same time, or around that same time, I've been researching
- 8:24for BRU Crime to do a case from nineteen forty eight where somebody killed their
- 8:30mother with pruning shears, and so it was like, wows, yeah,
- 8:35yeah, it was interesting, But that's the year I was born. By
- 8:39the way, nineteen forty eight. That's not true at all. That's so
- 8:48not true. My granddaughter says I'm older than Dirts, and I think Dirts
- 8:52like nineteen eight, just tossing that out there. I'm not quite nineteen four.
- 9:03But no. The interesting thing about that case, just like our topic,
- 9:05is that it was two siblings that apparently felt the same way about something
- 9:11at the same time and went for it. Now, are you a sibling?
- 9:16I sure am. I am too. Now are you close with your
- 9:18siblings? Yeah? Yeah, I've got one brother. He's two years younger
- 9:22than me. It's hard to and I explained it a little bit in in
- 9:26my case, but like you know, we're military kids, and we're used
- 9:31to being away from family and each other. And so my brother and I
- 9:33can go week, weeks or a month without talking and then hop right back
- 9:37into it without a problem. Yeah. And he stationed over in Monterey Bay,
- 9:43California right now, Oh, beautiful place to be. Yeah, yeah,
- 9:48it's a super nice place. I hate him. I don't hate him,
- 9:52but we're really I mean, we're close because we grew up moving around
- 9:56and I'll mention it, but you know, we were only friends, right
- 9:58the only we were the only constant, right, as I say, the
- 10:01consistent, the constant, And so I don't know what that's like to live
- 10:05in one place forever and then just have other opportunities in terms of long term
- 10:09friendships. Now I do, but right then not? But what about you.
- 10:16I have a brother and it's complicated and we are not close. There
- 10:22is a time that we were closer, but I think when you grow up
- 10:26in the household with my dad was an alcoholic, it was a very difficult
- 10:31thing. Plus I hung out with my grandmother, who lived just a couple
- 10:35of miles away, all the time because when my mom had me, she
- 10:39had complications, and so I lived with my grandmother for the first year of
- 10:43my life pretty much. And you were put that bond. We're not close.
- 10:48I always hope that he has a great life, and he is in
- 10:52law enforcement, so I do always worry about when there's police shootings and things
- 10:56like that, especially in Texas. How do I feel like he's the younger.
- 11:01He's not. He's eighteen months older. Oh man, eighteen months older
- 11:07now. He did. When I was a little girl, I believe I
- 11:09was about six months old, he tried to feed me Vienna sausage and was
- 11:13shoving them in my mouth. I was told. I was like, oh,
- 11:16you were like you were like the baby life version of that gift with
- 11:20all the hot dogs in theirs. I was like wow. And because as
- 11:24we got older, living in Houston, we had Vienna sausage in the pantry
- 11:28for hurricane season. It was called hurricane food because you just popped the top
- 11:33open and you can eat it. And I was like, I don't think
- 11:37there was a hurricane. Was he trying to feed me or kill me?
- 11:41Yes? A little both, But like I said, you know, complicate.
- 11:50I think it's fascinating. Like, for instance, and I can only
- 11:52speak to my experience, but my brother and I, obviously, you know,
- 11:56raised the same way, same family, same experiences for the most part
- 12:00in terms of moving and stuff, but we are two completely different people.
- 12:03My two sons, yeah, oh yeah, Son and Moon, I mean
- 12:07the opposite. I don't know how is that from a parental side, because
- 12:11from a sibling side, from a kid's side, it's like, you know,
- 12:16I'm the five foot eleven nerd true crime podcaster and he's the six foot
- 12:20four surfer military guy. And I'm dumpy and he's hunky. That's well.
- 12:31And the funny thing about my two boys, the older one looks like his
- 12:37dad, favors his dad more, I'm sorry, Jeff, and the younger
- 12:41Win looks just like me. But the older Win personality, our personalities are
- 12:46almost the same. Younger Win may look like me, acts just like dad.
- 12:52Yeah, So it's interesting that their personalities are more in tune to the
- 12:58person. They're like, are you and your brother? Are you more like
- 13:03your mom or your dad? Or you know what. It's really interesting because
- 13:07I feel like the older I've gotten the closer in terms of, like,
- 13:13you know what I do, the closer to dad. I'm a blend.
- 13:18We'll go that route. I'm a blend. I like studying. I like
- 13:22classes like my mom, and I love art and acting and singing and podcasting
- 13:26like like, I like all that kind of stuff like my dad. And
- 13:28so I'm a blend. I think my brother is a lot like my dad.
- 13:33Not that he's not liking right, he doesn't like classes, but but
- 13:37I think he carries a lot of my dad with him. But my son,
- 13:41my older son, has no filter like me. Sometimes he would say
- 13:46things and I'd be like, Jeff, you're going to really have to learn
- 13:48how to filter that out. And now that you know he's in those thirties,
- 13:52I'm like, Okay, you've gotten much better. I think things and
- 13:54h handsome. You'll look at me and he goes, yeah, I could
- 13:58see Jeff saying that too. I just shared with you on Facebook Messenger a
- 14:01picture of my brother. He is right in the center of that photo.
- 14:05And so when I say dumpy and hunky, you'll understand what I mean.
- 14:09In just a moment. Okay, I have to go look and this will
- 14:15not be available publicly for anybody. Oh why not, it says, thinking,
- 14:22thinking, Okay, there it is. He's a cool dude. He's
- 14:26an intel and intelligence I really, I mean, I love him to day.
- 14:30He's the one in the middle. And that's okay. Yeah, sure,
- 14:33y'all are related. Oh yeah, I'm certain I know he does spartan
- 14:41wow. Oh yeah, he does like the fifty mile runs and stuff like
- 14:45that. Once again, why do people run if no one's chasing you,
- 14:50why are you running? You're gonna have to ask him that question. You're
- 14:54gonna have to ask him that question. I don't know. I would rather
- 14:56lift a glass of bourbon. And that's why I look like I do so
- 15:01well. But think about it this way. We all have to be totally
- 15:05different, or how boring would the world beat because like my brother and I,
- 15:09the only thing we have in common, I mean, him being a
- 15:11law enforcement is you know, the love of crimes and law and things like
- 15:18that. Other than that, I think he used to like wine I'm guessing
- 15:22he still drink swine. Other than that, we didn't have a lot of
- 15:26things in common. Yeah. I was girly Carrol, he was boy boy.
- 15:31Well yeah, and it sounds like it sounds and now now I'm going
- 15:35to reduce this so you can you can digitally slap me. But it sounds
- 15:39like there's a combination of like cowboys and little House on the Prairie in terms
- 15:43of how you're Yes, you know, you had you had described it.
- 15:46I was Laura Ingles, Okay, I was, you know, speaking of
- 15:50Laura Ingles. That is so funny that you said that we just took the
- 15:52granddaughter camping. Oh god, I was trying to sweep the area we were
- 15:58going to put the tip, so I literally had brought a broom and I
- 16:02was sweeping the dirt to get rid of the rocks. It's like I was
- 16:06trying to get the rocks out from underneath, not the dirt. And it
- 16:11was just kind of funny. I absolutely love this image that's in my head
- 16:17right now, the dirt, sweeping the dirt. So the other thing,
- 16:22did you see that that Polish woman who claimed to be Madelene McCain is not
- 16:26Madeleine McCain. They did the DNA test and she is not her parents are
- 16:34her mom is her mom, but they are investigating apparently maybe the mom was
- 16:41trafficking her. Oh god, well, though she did have a very trauma
- 16:45filled life, yeah for sure. And I mean, and she does have
- 16:49the thing on her eyes. She does have a lot of reasons it would
- 16:53make her think that. But yeah, so she is not Madeleine McCann,
- 16:59but they are fine out. Her father, who she was told was her
- 17:02father, is not her father. It's one of those things where I didn't
- 17:07hear about it. But also, this is my surprised face, like audible
- 17:11gasp. I feel bad. This is not the first time this has happened
- 17:15to her, to Madeline's parents, correct, it's not this one. I
- 17:19just thought there was more believable because she did have the spot on her eye,
- 17:23which is very rare. I had that little bit of hope that just
- 17:29maybe and I know that sounds horrible, that you don't want any child to
- 17:34be, you know, taken and then to be found, But then there's
- 17:37that part of like, oh my god, finally to have the answers to
- 17:41know your child's alive to you know, but then to find out. No,
- 17:45but I don't think the girl did it okay to be malicious, she
- 17:51truly, I mean, I think she has some mental things going on in
- 17:53some trauma. But if you've got, you know, the birthmark on your
- 17:57arm, and you've got the thing on your eye that matches, and your
- 18:00family has no pictures of you, and your earliest memory is kind of being
- 18:06at a resort and those things, I mean I could kind of see.
- 18:08Yeah. No, absolutely, things play tricks on you. Yeah, So
- 18:15I know this won't come out for a little bit. So the other big
- 18:18news is I want to thank you for listening to True Crime and Wine Time,
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- 18:47wine flowing. So the other big news is the first time ever a former
- 18:59president's arrested. We're gonna lose like half of our audience. Now, I
- 19:04just have to tell y'all, I did not know this, and I found
- 19:08this out from my dear boss for my day job, who's in Finland.
- 19:15Did you know we're the only place, the only country that a person can
- 19:21be president and have a felony? Honestly, I mean, I haven't googled
- 19:25it, but I trust us. But I'm like, how do we allow
- 19:27that? So if you get out of jail for bank robbery because you went
- 19:33in at a really young age, you could still be president? Yeah?
- 19:37I don't so really, what it comes down to is all or nothing.
- 19:41Lock him up for a long time, or he could still be president.
- 19:42I mean, he's obviously proven. The fact that he is twenty twenty four
- 19:45is candidate. You know, I makes what if he wasn't our president or
- 19:51hattan been our president. What about a candidate just out of the blue running
- 19:56for president we find out they had there were a felon. They can't vote
- 20:00in certain states, But how could you be president if you can't vote?
- 20:06How can you be president? Yeah? That I don't know, but I
- 20:10know that the deep dives that people do, that would come out way quickly
- 20:14and they'd be out before anything happened. It's not against the rules. Yeah,
- 20:18well, you know, I mean there's a lot of things that aren't
- 20:21against the rules that still in a lot of states. But yeah, you
- 20:23can be president of the United States if you have a felony. Well I
- 20:29was, I was more. I mean, I wasn't surprised. I figured
- 20:33this was going to happen, but I was amazed that he arrived. He
- 20:37was fingerprinted in mugshot, he was indicted, and then he was like,
- 20:41all right, I'll see you later. Bye. If it was anybody else,
- 20:44that wouldn't have happened. But they did give him some bit. But
- 20:48it's also class E felonies. I believe, cannot believe it's going to be
- 20:55a circus. It's not a surprise to anybody. But like also on my
- 20:59Twitter, I put the same same thing. I don't care while I do
- 21:00a little bit what side of the fence you're on. There's a point in
- 21:04which I don't care, but once you pass that point, I do.
- 21:07But you don't. You don't intimidate, threaten whatever a judge or anybody by
- 21:15posting their children. I don't care how the children are and what they've done.
- 21:19They've done, you just don't do it. And I agree. So
- 21:22that's a problem, and I think that's going to come back to bite them.
- 21:26I'm gonna be honest with you. He already didn't like Trump, That's
- 21:29very obvious. I mean, now that'll give them cause to remove the judge
- 21:33from the case. And I think it's going to be a ploy to drag
- 21:37this out past election, because then it will happen. They will table it
- 21:42until he's at the office. There will be a stay. I'm what I'm
- 21:45hoping is that, you know, the United States decides to do exactly what
- 21:48Wisconsin just did and show up in droves and vote in or vote out or
- 21:56very conservatives justice. I think it was or a court point. I mean,
- 22:00that was unprecedented, right, I don't know. I have no idea
- 22:03anymore. I don't know what's going to happen. And does who does Trump
- 22:10have a sibling? Yeah? I think her name's Mary, and she hates
- 22:12his guts. She wrote a book about him and it wasn't nice, and
- 22:18by that I mean it was great. I think her name's Mary. I'm
- 22:23gonna happen right now. I'm usually talking about, Oh my god, he
- 22:29has multiple siblings, Fred Trump Junior, Mary Ann Trump, Barry Elizabeth Trump,
- 22:37Growl, and Robert Trump. So he has four siblings. We don't
- 22:41hear about the junior who usually gets much of everything. Yeah, well,
- 22:47I haven't opened. I mean, he could maybe be deceased or something and
- 22:48maybe died as a child. I don't know. Let me, I don't
- 22:52know. I think it's safe to say, being like neutral, that this
- 22:56is buck wild. I do appreciate the video that I saw. I'm doing
- 23:03this now like I'm Trump. I'm doing I do appreciate what I saw yesterday
- 23:08in which Marjorie Taylor Green arrived in New York, stepped out of her car
- 23:15and like five minutes later was ran back into her car, and now people
- 23:19were yelling hit her with the Jewish space lasers, hit her with the and
- 23:25like then of course she got in her car and made it work for her
- 23:27and saying that everything's dirty and Donald Trump is literally she compared him to Nelson,
- 23:33Mandela and Jesus. So you know we're we are mentally put together.
- 23:38We are. But no, Fred Trump Junior died in nineteen eighty one,
- 23:42is why we don't hear him. He was forty two. He died from
- 23:45a heart attack. It was Donald and then his was a federal judge on
- 23:56the Third Circuit Court of appeals. What yeah, Marianne, Yeah, she
- 24:02went legit as far as we know. Yeah. So. And then Elizabeth
- 24:06is an older sister of Donald Trump. She married a film producer, and
- 24:12she worked as an admin assistant for Chase Bank before retiring to Florida. Lives
- 24:18in Florida. I love her. She worked as an assistant or whatever,
- 24:22and then all of a sudden, she's like, you know what f this,
- 24:26I'm going to Florida. I got the money, It's fine. Yeah.
- 24:29And then Robert Trump was the younger brother. He died in twenty twenty.
- 24:34Okay, he was an executive manager. So he's got siblings. He's
- 24:38got siblings, but Mary wasn't one. Mary must be something else, and
- 24:42it is. It looks like it's an aunt, an aunt. So that
- 24:47was his dad or his mom's sister. She does not like him, and
- 24:52honestly, good for you. I don't know. I don't know Mary Trump
- 24:59about her uncle. She wrote a book too Much and how my family?
- 25:07Yep, the World's Most Dangerous Man? Does it tell all book? Oh?
- 25:11She's a psychologist, Yes, yes, I do remember that. I
- 25:15have to get that book. Just her. I love to read stories,
- 25:21you know, I mean, I love crazy shit. Like I said,
- 25:25I think it boils down to this is buck wild, and I think no
- 25:30matter where you're at, that probably checks out for you. But between between
- 25:36Donald and Letitia Storch, I don't know what to do with myself. Have
- 25:41you heard about this case in Colorado? Oh? Oh, okay, So
- 25:45Letitia Storch was a step mom to Gannon Storch and you may have seen a
- 25:52little bit about this Justice for Gannon on Twitter. And so the stepmother was
- 25:57watching Gannon and the father was at a training. I think he I think
- 26:03at some point he was actually like a like a shoot. He was in
- 26:07the military and he worked on enlisting people. What is that called. I
- 26:11don't remember, it doesn't matter anyway. So at some point he was away
- 26:15and she she ended up I think personally, I think she burned him on
- 26:22purpose with a candle or with some other flames. She said about this,
- 26:27Yeah, so she said that he was burned. She said that there were
- 26:30bubbles on his skin, which indicate blisters, which indicates second degree burns,
- 26:34which means that no kid's going to hold their arm over a candle or fire.
- 26:37No, because you're oh, yeah, you see. Yeah. So
- 26:41Okay, now I see the picture, and I yeah, I think she
- 26:45didn't know how to fix that, and so she ended up I'm not going
- 26:49to go into details, you don't need to, but she ended up killing
- 26:52Gannon. She put him in a suitcase and she ended up driving him across
- 26:56the country to Florida and dumped the suit case. Well, a week or
- 27:02two later or whatever, you know, a little longer than that. I
- 27:04think it was like a month or so he was found. Throughout that time,
- 27:08she was putting on this show telling stories, and by stories, I
- 27:11mean she literally had five different stories of what happened. Anyways, the trial
- 27:17is going on now, and the first the first day listening to opening was
- 27:22very hard. It was very emotional, but the this well not but but
- 27:30in the second and third day we were listening to primarily a lot of phone
- 27:33calls because the dad was recording their calls because at a certain point, I
- 27:38think he was working with police, and so listening to her go through the
- 27:42story and listening to her narcissism, et cetera, et cetera. She's pleading
- 27:48guilty by reason of insanity, and so there's that part taking care of the
- 27:52guilt, right, But The reality is is that she knew enough to know
- 27:57that that was bad. She did she was going to hide him, and
- 28:03then she knew that was bad, and so she came up with an alibi,
- 28:06and then she came up with another one and added and added to it.
- 28:10And listening to those voicemails Number one is heartbreaking, obviously, but it's
- 28:14fascinating because as the voicemails go on here not voicemails, but phone conversations.
- 28:18As they go on weeks and weeks, you can hear the guilt get to
- 28:22her and break her down. And I think that she thought she'd be perfectly
- 28:26fine, but you can hear her desperation to get her story across. It's
- 28:33literally like a living version of crime and punishment. It's fascinating. Okay,
- 28:38So what I'm hoping, and I think it's safe to say, I'm hoping
- 28:41the jury finds her guilty flat out. I don't think there's any piece of
- 28:47this that is by insanity. I think she had way too much understanding of
- 28:51what was going on and the law it's exacting. If she put him in
- 28:53a suit, I mean, she did things that if you're insane, you
- 28:57wouldn't normally do right right exactly, and so you know, it's obviously horrifying
- 29:03to listen to. And a lot of people have actually that I know of
- 29:06that I participate in conversations about trials about they've checked out, and I totally
- 29:11understand, and there's nothing wrong with that at all. I just have this
- 29:15urge to be like, I want to see this through in terms of seeing
- 29:22Gannon get the justice he deserves. Because he was like eleven, he didn't
- 29:26come on. You know what I remembered about him because of reason, I
- 29:29didn't remember his name. He was the kid that the dad said. The
- 29:33last thing he said to him was I'm going to go finish playing Pokemon and
- 29:37maybe in that Pokemon weirdo that still plays Pokemon. That's what I remember.
- 29:45You play Pokemon Go. You know a few weeks ago. I learned the
- 29:49card game, so see get on my level. Oh well, my granddaughter
- 29:55plays the card game. I do not. I will never buy Pokemon cards
- 30:03my children. One time my boys were sitting on top of each other beating
- 30:07each other up over Pokemon cards. I took the Pokemon cards, taught them
- 30:11if they did it again, they were gone. They did it again,
- 30:15I tore them all up, and I'm broken right now. I get it,
- 30:19like as a parent, I get it, but also I'm broken on
- 30:22the inside. But like you know, warren Son told me that he was
- 30:29into it. I was like, look at dad, and I have an
- 30:32entire binder full of them. And it just so happened that I lived in
- 30:33Japan when they came out, and so I have like like fifty percent of
- 30:38my cards are in Japanese, right, so that's not helpful to play.
- 30:41But you know, I see they didn't play the game. They just collected
- 30:47them and they wanted to get this card and that card, and I'm taking
- 30:51that for me. And I was just like, Doug, I will never
- 30:53forget my brother and I having this exact same argument. But it was between
- 30:57a Scottie Pippen and Tony Ko coach basketball card. And I will be honest
- 31:03with you, it had nothing to do with the sports. It had everything
- 31:06to do with a design and how cool it was. I am not a
- 31:10sports exactly for fun. I do not have enough testosterone in my body to
- 31:15tell you what a statu is. But like you cut it into that card
- 31:19because of the design, Yeah, for literally no reason whatsoever, But yeah,
- 31:25anyways, So that's you know, that's a lot of the current news,
- 31:29right it is. Now we get to talk about sibling killers. I'm
- 31:33gonna tell you My case was one I didn't know a lot about. I
- 31:40had hurt things, you know, little bits and pieces, so I truly
- 31:45enjoyed researching the case. I will say it got a very confusing. The
- 31:52boys decided to go by their middle names and not their first names, so
- 31:59Benjamin mat Few Williams and James Tyler Williams. Benjamin most of the time went
- 32:05by Matthew, but then sometimes went by Benjamin. James always went by Tyler.
- 32:09So when you're reading news articles, it depends on who wanted to calling
- 32:15Matthew, who wanted to do this. And I was like, okay,
- 32:17so one's JT and one is BM. And if you have a BM,
- 32:24goodness, good for you. You're good on. As we said, sibling
- 32:30relationships are always complicated. I think anyone who generalizes and says, oh,
- 32:38brothers always do this or girls always do this, I think they're wrong because
- 32:44I think a lot of it has to do with the way you're raised.
- 32:46Because, like you said, two boys or two siblings raised in the same
- 32:52house can be totally different, except four, when you're raised in a very
- 33:00strict, zealous religious family, Oh you don't have an option. I think
- 33:07it's kind of a unique bond. I think. Yeah, it's more.
- 33:10I mean we're like, as a military kid, you moved a lot,
- 33:14so you didn't have long term friends. These boys were homeschooled, not allowed
- 33:21to do sports, not allowed to participate with other children. They were literally
- 33:28homeschooled until they went to high school. Oh my god, Well that's a
- 33:32culture shock. So and when I say strict religious household, their dad,
- 33:39Benjamin also took the kids to go out on the street and to preach to
- 33:45people. So were they a Pentecostal or they were not. They were a
- 33:51strict fundamentalist Christian home. But what's interesting reading their views and things. I'm
- 34:00not sure that's what I'll call it, because it also mixes a little bit
- 34:05with some white supremacists. Okay, so what I was about to say might
- 34:08not apply so much to that part, but I feel like the whole like
- 34:13where we are strict fundamentalist Christians but their views don't check out is very part
- 34:21for the course. Yeah, I mean that part, but in general,
- 34:25yeah, well, and they grew up in a town there in California,
- 34:30Palo Cedro. It's only about seven hundred and eighty people, but it's not
- 34:36far from Reading or Sacramento. But it's still a small town, especially when
- 34:40it's on a farm area because they grew agriculture. Things that you have nobody
- 34:47but the church and your homeschooled by your mom, and you have no other
- 34:55youth that you do anything with. So I think it's important for both of
- 35:02us to say that there's nothing wrong with homeschool. No, not at all,
- 35:07not at all. It's if you're doing it because of I don't want
- 35:13your children's shot, or you think that your kids need special accommodations, they
- 35:17need a smaller class size, But when you're doing it because you want to
- 35:22control their thoughts and exposure to be able to think for their self. And
- 35:30it's also really important I think for child development. You know, and I'm
- 35:35only speaking from the one class I took in my grad school, that you
- 35:39supplement the lack of camaraderie or you know, togetherness with people your age,
- 35:45you supplement that with something else. So whether it's a theater program or sports,
- 35:50like I remember in school in high school, I used to play against
- 35:52like like a group that was homeschooled. But they'd get together and they practice
- 35:57together, and then they'd be able to play against other schools. And so
- 36:00I think that's really important to supplement that you can't just keep somebody in all
- 36:06it doesn't work. They did go out and stand on the street corners and
- 36:09preach, and apparently they yelled. They yelled. They were there people.
- 36:16They were those folks on college campuses where you were just like naph. Okay,
- 36:22I guess it's like I guess I'm going to hell, but all of
- 36:24everybody else is going to hell too, so it sounds like a good time.
- 36:29Well, but Benjamin Matthew who sometimes went bout Matthew, somebody went sometimes
- 36:34I went by Benjamin. I call him Benjamin. He even they did very
- 36:37well in high school. So their mom was a retired teacher, so they
- 36:42did get a good education. They were smart, well behaved. Benjamin briefly
- 36:47went into the military after high school. Okay even attended the University of Idaho
- 36:53for a little bit, where there he joined a charismatic church and became very
- 37:01interested in purification diets. Okay, are you eating the Bible I'm confused.
- 37:12It was a whole rabbit hole. I was like, I'm not this.
- 37:16This sounds a lot like love has won I was I talked about I'm like,
- 37:21I'm not going through it. But then he left that church and he
- 37:23became interested in a church that was more white supremacy and anti Semitism groups.
- 37:30Because that sounds like a great church. That sounds like a church to be
- 37:35part of. I would like a VIPC. It went more with the beliefs
- 37:39that you know, his parents were against homosexuals, they were against Jewish people,
- 37:45so it kind of wicks out a little bit more of that. Now
- 37:50Tyler was the younger when he attended college as well. Both boys wound up
- 37:55moving back to California and living with their parents. Had moved out for a
- 38:01while live with their parents. The interesting thing though, they stayed extremely close
- 38:08to their parents. Now extremely extremely I mean grown men who decide to live
- 38:16with their parents, not because of funny, just because they all wanted to
- 38:22live together. See, this is the whole supplemental thing when you're not realize
- 38:25there's really I mean, but that's interesting considering he went to college and such,
- 38:30well, and you're gonna learn a little bit about Benjamin later. So,
- 38:35but let me tell you about Gary Mattson and Winfeld malder So. They
- 38:39were a couple who had been together for about fourteen years, and they lived
- 38:45in Happy Valley, California. I mean, it is like the name.
- 38:51I love that name. I've lived in a Happy Valleys. There are so
- 38:59many movies that shouldn't be made in heavy family, That's all I'm saying.
- 39:02This couple. They also they founded in the early days, an online nursery
- 39:07that specialized in hot climate play its okay okay, and sold him online,
- 39:14which, hey, I've got a tree in my front yard that we bought
- 39:16online and they shipped it to us. Sounds so hot, so hot.
- 39:22On July first, nineteen ninety nine, Gary's father tried to reach him by
- 39:27phone, couldn't And what was weird? He heard a message on his son's
- 39:32answering machine. Do you remember answering machines, the little thing we put the
- 39:37little tapes in. Yep, I sure knew. Did you record the messages?
- 39:40Was like you could call into the answering machine and check your own messages.
- 39:44Yeah. But so but his dad called and he there was a male's
- 39:49voice that basically said, Hey, me and Windfield aren't feeling good. We're
- 39:54gonna go stay at a friends in Sacramento for a week. They covered it.
- 40:00Oh, they thought about everything. So the dad was like, yeah,
- 40:02okay, something's not rights. He called his other son and he said,
- 40:07hey, sums up with your brother. Good check it out. His
- 40:12brother went to His brother's name was Roger. Roger went to go check on
- 40:15his brother. Sadly, when he got there, he was like, yes,
- 40:19something's just not right. So he got into the house and he found
- 40:24his brother and his brother's partner nude. And here's where it gets weird.
- 40:31They had been tortured and they had multiple gunshot wounds, and they were in
- 40:37bed. The police said it looked like somebody put chairs and stood up on
- 40:44chairs and then just opened fire on them laying in bed, shooting down at
- 40:50them from bed. And they knew that they had been tortured. But nowhere
- 40:59did they give more details about the torture, which I found interesting because you
- 41:06know, things were a little bit different than news back then that they do
- 41:08say in the court records that there was evidence of abuse, but they never
- 41:14go into it. Do you like true crime and Wine Time? Would you
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- 41:40We'll see you there. Do you know what's interesting? I don't. I
- 41:51don't want to take this too far away from that. What's interesting about that?
- 41:53And what what? What time period was this? Nineteen ninety nine?
- 41:58Nine? Nine? Okay? What's interesting is it? You know I mentioned
- 42:01earlier the whole nineteen forty eight, You know, I read a newspaper article
- 42:09that went into total detail on everything that they really so it's almost like and
- 42:16the fascination on that was high, you know, which is interesting because we
- 42:21don't usually think about before, like the thousands right were interested in true crime.
- 42:25And it's almost like there was a wave where it went up and people
- 42:29were fascinated and then down and then back up. So and I wondered,
- 42:37that's a good thought because I wondered if it was because they were a gay
- 42:39couple and it was nineteen ninety nine, it didn't get the publicity and stuff
- 42:45that you would get in today's time. But what was really interesting about this
- 42:52case It was solved pretty dang quick, and the way it was solved still
- 42:57has me amazed. So within hours of police being there investigating at the scene,
- 43:06a call went into the police department from a company in Arizona saying,
- 43:15hey, somebody just called and placed a really big order of ammunition and some
- 43:22other supplies. It's like twenty three hundred dollars and they wanted sent to a
- 43:27private mailbox there in your town, and they wanted to go to attention this
- 43:32person, which was Gary Watson, which was one of the guys more often
- 43:40killed. Excuse me, but it was not Gary Watson's pio box. So
- 43:49within hour, so it took police, you know a little bit of time
- 43:53to get things together and they were like, h let's look into it.
- 43:59Well, when they did that, they found out Benjamin and Tyler's name were
- 44:05on that po box. So they decided they were going to set up a
- 44:10little watch you watch, Lucky Lou for them when they went to go pick
- 44:15it up. Right well, so like six days later they arrested both of
- 44:24them coming out of the shopping center. Now, what was interesting Both of
- 44:31the men had handguns on them, which isn't a surprise, but Benjamin was
- 44:37wearing a bulletproof vest, so they were going to pick that up and then
- 44:45just go and do whatever they were about to do. So they were planning
- 44:49for the next one. And we're gonna learn that they had quite a list.
- 44:54So Benjamin and Tyler actually knew Gary and winn Filled because both of them
- 45:02had booth at the farmer's market. Oh my god, they knew each other.
- 45:08Tyler and Benjamin owned a nursery, wind Filled and Gary had the online
- 45:15plant store. Even some people said they thought they were friends. Let me,
- 45:20okay, listen, farmer's markets supposed to be a safe place. I've
- 45:24never I've never I've never thought of a farmer's market to someplace dangerous. Now,
- 45:29maybe I should be on my you know, I should watch my six.
- 45:32But the farmer's market should be a safe place. I know people who
- 45:38sell stuff of the farmer's market. I mean they're like nature lovers, They're
- 45:43like, they're like good people. They listen, they eat granola, they
- 45:49do they're that's farm because I do too. I eat granola too. It's
- 45:53fine. Here's where it gets kind of scary. The police search the brothers
- 45:59home and they found literature from the Creative Movement formerly known as the World Church
- 46:07of the Creator. The more this happens, I am cradle Catholic. The
- 46:15more this happens, the more I wonder just how fine and it seems to
- 46:19get be getting finer. Find the line is between religion and extremism, and
- 46:25like it just you know what, people can come, come for me,
- 46:30please, that's fine, It's okay. But the reality is is that the
- 46:35more we hear these people speak up and the more extreme than they get,
- 46:37it just seems to be they took one step to the right, a little
- 46:44further over than they were. And I just that's where I'm at work.
- 46:47That's where I'm That's why I'm agnostic right now. So just let me tell
- 46:52you it's gonna get even crazier. And I was telling Handsome Happy about this
- 46:57case because he asked me at dinner or what we were covering tonight, and
- 47:00I told him and he raised some very good points. I was like,
- 47:02oh, I'm gonna have to use that. So yes, double h.
- 47:08So here's what's an interesting A police after they rated their home and you know,
- 47:13search it I guess they didn't rate it. They had a search warrant,
- 47:16but they wondered if the killing was connected to Benjamin Smith, who's an
- 47:22associate of the World Church, who had just days after the murders of Gary
- 47:30and Winfield, went on a shooting spree in Illinois in Indiana based on his
- 47:36police so they were like, oh, is it connected. They're part of
- 47:39the same group. I don't want to call them a church a group.
- 47:44Could. I think they more leaned towards Colt. But when the police talked
- 47:51to Tyler, Tyler goes, yeah, we've ben planning this for a couple
- 47:53of weeks. It's it's like what they heard from that person drove them to
- 48:00do what they did, and then that person was talking about what they were
- 48:02talking about to then get them ready for what they did. Wow. All
- 48:07people who go to jail should know your phone calls are recorded. So many
- 48:14people don't. Okay, So I'm gonna read you the exact quote. Benjamin
- 48:20was talking to his mother, whose name is Sally, and she asked Benjamin
- 48:27why he killed the two homos. Her exact words, he replied, and
- 48:30I quote, I had to obey God's law rather than man's law. I
- 48:37didn't want to do this, I felt I was supposed to. I have
- 48:40followed a higher law. I see a lot of parallels between this and a
- 48:45lot of other incidents in the Old Testament. They threw our Savior in jail.
- 48:52Our forefathers have been in prison, a lot prophets Christ, my brother
- 48:58and I are incarcerated our work in cleansing a sick society. I just plan
- 49:04to defend myself from the scriptures. First off, there's a lot of things
- 49:08to talk about there. But I would like to say he's angry that they
- 49:13killed Jesus, which is in the New Testament. But he's saying that he
- 49:16focused on the Old Testament, which indeed, truly, yes, there are
- 49:22some instances of a wrathful God, right, but in the New Testament there
- 49:27is a forgiving God, which indicates the fact, just if you go by
- 49:31text not belief text, that there is a transformation in God to understanding the
- 49:37human plight in a way. I'm no pastor, so I'm sure somebody's gonna
- 49:43call me up. If you are willing to only look at the Old Testament
- 49:47and the wrathful God, but then also pay attention to the fact that they
- 49:52killed quote your Savior in the New Testament, but still take care of it
- 49:57with the I know that I'm just saying what you said in your quote,
- 50:00but don't mean no. I think we need to man explaining. It drives
- 50:05me freaking up the wall when people decide cherry pick the verses and pieces out
- 50:13of context that it's like people cherry picking a verse, but then right next
- 50:17to it it talks about slavery, and they won't say that part, but
- 50:21they'll say the part right before that, And it's like, listen, just
- 50:25like the Constitution, it doesn't necessarily apply as well anymore. I can make
- 50:30it worse, say your ship, Oh God, here we go, okay,
- 50:34all right, also declared to the police. So many people claim to
- 50:39be Christians and complain about all the things their religion says or sin, but
- 50:46they're not willing to do anything about it. They don't have the guts to
- 50:52do what I did. No French's bastard. Yeah. Now, you know,
- 51:00I always like to think of you know, not as an excuse,
- 51:04but you know, your childhood, you know, it was raised to hate.
- 51:07But what I found very interesting is during the police investigation, they of
- 51:14course start talking to family friends, They're like, how is Benjamin in the
- 51:19navy? He went to college? How did he not like see the real
- 51:22world in all of these things? Right? But when they were talking to
- 51:27one of his former fellow navy men, that navy men said, well,
- 51:34we always thought Benjamin acted a little prissy, and he kind of always acted
- 51:40like to other liked other men and sat really close to them. Say it
- 51:45louder for the people in the back seats, and came to church slate say
- 51:49it louder. But another close friends of Benjamin's said that he and Benjamin had
- 51:57a romantic fringe ship and that the two would go skinny dipping and share and
- 52:05talk about their love of poetry. And the reason their friendship kind of ended
- 52:13was because Benjamin joined that white supremacist movement group. Their friend became a gay
- 52:20rights activist. So so do you think Benjamin was trying to not just denied
- 52:30that he was gay, but wins himself. I do indeed think that if
- 52:37he, if it was now, he would have a pair of truck nuts
- 52:39on his car. That's what that is. If this was not surrounded by
- 52:44murder, I would say that's adorable, And I'm here for it, and
- 52:51I would like to see that movie. However, Yeah, I think he
- 52:55saw something that he liked, and I think that his childhood said no,
- 52:59I need to reject that, and he decided, well, it's not good
- 53:02enough for me to reject it. For myself, I need to prove right
- 53:07that. Yeah, and that's why he had the guts, so to speak.
- 53:12While they were in jail, they also brought up on charges for burning
- 53:20three synagogue in Sacramento, and they pled guilty. Benjamin was sentenced to thirty
- 53:27years, Tyler was given a twenty one year sentence for and because I also
- 53:32burned down an abortion clinic. This was all like three months before the murder.
- 53:37I'm gonna ask a question, yeah, and then I'm going to hug
- 53:40my child because apparently he wants to hear my question. Did they plead guilty
- 53:45because the evidence was so overwhelming or did they plead guilty because they were proud
- 53:50of it? I think both both. I think both. I think they
- 53:53wanted to own it and they wanted the glory because they then started doing in
- 54:00reviews with anyone that would talk to them. Of all right, all right,
- 54:05Charles Manson, I do think they wanted the notoriety of it because they
- 54:09started doing interviews. However, here's a little interesting twist because you know,
- 54:15they had already been sentenced thirty years and twenty one years for the other charges.
- 54:22While they were in prison awaiting to go on trial for murdering Gary and
- 54:25Winfield, Benjamin slashed his sphemeral artery in his neck and his arm with the
- 54:31razor and died. Oh oh oh, that's after giving multiple interviews and things.
- 54:43Wow. Now his attorney went on the record. So apparently Benjamin was
- 54:47taken some medication because he was depressed and things. His attorney went on record
- 54:52to say that Benjamin died by suicide because the prison officials stopped giving him his
- 55:00antipressants all at once instead of weaning him off slowly. Oddly, sad,
- 55:07also believable. Was he on something before all of this or No, he
- 55:15couldn't have been. There's no way he was. It sounds like his family
- 55:17would have taken collodial silver for COVID. Keep going. Sorry, Now,
- 55:23there was no records of that happening, that he was under any type of
- 55:31doctor's care. So I don't know what you know. I think it's just
- 55:36lip service. So to speak. But Tyler did go ahead and get guilty
- 55:39to the murders because he wanted the death penalty taken off the table. He
- 55:43actually in two thousand and three pled guilty and he was given another twenty nine
- 55:47years, So he's got a twenty one for the previous and then twenty nine
- 55:52years. I think the fact that they caught them so soon, yeah,
- 55:58saved a lot of people because when they did their house search, they found
- 56:02a hit list with thirty two names on it that included Jewish and civic leaders
- 56:09in the Sacramento, California area. That's why I think they ordered all that
- 56:15ammunition. So Benjamin was wearing that bulletproof vesta plan. So I think thankfully
- 56:23by them arresting them as soon as they did, they prevented something. And
- 56:27I think because it was such a small town that call to the police station
- 56:31got to a detective because it's a smaller if that would have come into Dallas
- 56:35or to Austin wouldn't have meant anything. Okay, you're calling somebody. You
- 56:38think somebody's a suspicious activity on somebody's credit card called credit card company? Why
- 56:43are you calling me? I would have been covering this on active shooter instead,
- 56:46that's where that would have been. It would have been a mass shooting.
- 56:50I think they prevented other deaths. Yeah, And I also think the
- 56:53government needs to start and maybe they do and we just don't know about it.
- 56:59They need to start. I know, there's freedom of speech. They
- 57:01really need to do something about hate groups. I am. People are either
- 57:07going to love me or hate me, or be in the middle. I'm
- 57:10a big fan of the Canadian freedom regarding this, and I don't know if
- 57:15you know. We obviously have freedom of speech. Canadians have the freedom of
- 57:22expression, which now what that means is, yes, you can express yourself,
- 57:28but you need to be prepared for the consequences if what you say overall
- 57:32or in the end. What I'm saying is you just need to be responsible
- 57:36for what you say. You need to understand so you can't entice people to
- 57:38go kill somebody, right. You need to know and recognize that what you
- 57:44say can be always used against you. You will be held responsible if you
- 57:51say something that is dangerous. We don't have that here. So there is
- 57:55the freedom of speech there, but there is an accountability. There's a layer
- 58:02of accountability, and I think we don't have that, and I think that
- 58:06I'm not saying that if we had that, people would follow it, right,
- 58:08but they would be held accountable if something happened. Right. You know
- 58:12what, the Constitution was a first draft, it was a rough draft.
- 58:16You know. There is this whole thing that religion calls. Again. I
- 58:22was raised Catholic, I tried Methodist, I've tried everything. I even dated
- 58:27somebody who was kind of Pentecostal, which was weird, but it happened because
- 58:31we all go through that. I never dated a Meenecostal. Sorry, right,
- 58:37I just couldn't get into the tongues thing it was. Is that a
- 58:39real thing? I don't know. I don't know. I don't know.
- 58:44I can't talk on it because I just didn't know. I don't know enough
- 58:47to know. I just like the whole point is the golden rule, and
- 58:52the golden rule is love thy neighbor, or do unto others as you would
- 58:54have done unto you. And I'm pretty sure that the people who kill from
- 59:00God would not like to be killed themselves. Now, there might be some
- 59:05that they become martyrs. Right, It's really hard to see like Bible verses
- 59:09being held by people who are invading a capital. You know what I mean?
- 59:14Like as I said that we need to I don't know. I just
- 59:16think we need to do something that any organization that sits and says, hey,
- 59:22you need to go out and get rid of all the Jews, you
- 59:23need to go and get rid of all the gays. This is why religions
- 59:27are finding themselves less and less populated. This is why millennials gen Z et
- 59:30cetera. Are starting to be less and less involved in things like churches because
- 59:36overall they are seeing they are smart enough, and they see the hypocrisy in
- 59:40that we believe what is convenient. I am going to get ripped to shreds
- 59:45for this, but we believe what is convenient. But when it is inconvenient,
- 59:50or when it doesn't go against that small convenience that we like that we're
- 59:52comfortable in that box, well then everything outside needs to be nuked because it
- 1:00:00challenges what we believe. Right. It's not easy, Right, it's not
- 1:00:05easy to treat others as you would be treated if they're not like you.
- 1:00:07Right, I will dispose of my soapbox. Now, why can't we just
- 1:00:12be kind to everyone that you don't have to be the same as everybody and
- 1:00:17if we're all kind to each other, you're not hurting. So my golden
- 1:00:22rule to my kids into this day. When I say so, do you
- 1:00:24remember the golden rule, They're like, yes, long if it doesn't belong
- 1:00:29to you, don't touch it. You can't that. You can't hit anyone
- 1:00:37because it doesn't belong to you. You can't kill them. They don't belong
- 1:00:40to you, you can. I mean, it covers so many things that
- 1:00:45you don't own it, you can't do it. And I think I'm so
- 1:00:46passionate about this concept. Number one because of the case, but number two
- 1:00:51because like when COVID hit and I pulled away from the church that I was
- 1:00:54at, which I was very involved. I was social media manager, I
- 1:00:58was a singer, you were, I was a lot. But like when
- 1:01:01I pulled away, instead of people reaching out, which a few did,
- 1:01:06right, and it wasn't because of the pastor, because the pastor was amazing.
- 1:01:08He was actually one of the very few people that I believed lived what
- 1:01:12he preached and was very accepting of everybody, including science. Hard to believe.
- 1:01:16I know when I left, instead of people reaching out to me,
- 1:01:20they unfriended me. They never talked to me. They talked about me,
- 1:01:24right, but never to me. And so that to me proved the fact
- 1:01:29to me decision, right because although I know that doesn't speak for everybody,
- 1:01:32and that doesn't speak for everybody in that church, right, it speaks about
- 1:01:37the majority of people that I knew, and that was a lot of people
- 1:01:39because I did sing and I didn't. Yeah. And so if you were
- 1:01:44going to be part of a church and you see somebody who's struggling or somebody
- 1:01:47who pulls away, don't don't alienate, don't don't push them off of your
- 1:01:52island. You don't. I mean, I was raised. That's where you
- 1:01:55say, Hey, here's your going through a rough time right now. If
- 1:02:00you want to reach out and talk to me, I'm here. If not,
- 1:02:05just know, I'll leave my door open. You don't unfriend them,
- 1:02:08right, You don't have to pick up the phone and callum every day,
- 1:02:10but leave the door open. Hey, if you need something, I'm here.
- 1:02:15And then if somebody comes up and says, hey, why did you
- 1:02:19know, I don't know. I'm just going to be here if they need
- 1:02:21something. Right, And out of the fifty to eighty people that I knew
- 1:02:23from that church, pretty well the pastor and maybe five others have ever done
- 1:02:30that, and that speaks volumes. Your inability to speak to somebody who disagrees
- 1:02:35with you speaks volumes. It shows also emotional maturity, an immaturity. Yea,
- 1:02:42so well that's my case. We got into some deep I'm like,
- 1:02:46that is my case. And I will say I started reading an article about
- 1:02:52Tyler that just pissed me off. So I just stopped reading it. Trying
- 1:02:57to apologize to the family of the men and that he was just doing God's
- 1:03:02work, and I was like, it just pissed me off. The only
- 1:03:07reason they killed them was because they were gay. That is the only reason.
- 1:03:14He said they were nice men, they were good people, that they
- 1:03:19were homosexuals, and I just I was like, that's it. I'm done
- 1:03:22with you, Tyler. I hope and this God forgive me. I'm trying
- 1:03:28to be kind. I hope. It's not uncomfortable when you dropped the bars.
- 1:03:36I do believe in karma, good karma and bad karma, and that's
- 1:03:39the only reason they killed them. Like, yeah, so angry. I
- 1:03:45don't like Benjamin and Tyler Williams. I also think they were raised I don't
- 1:03:50think they had a chance. In hell, no, because the way they
- 1:03:52were raised, there was some chances to go out and experience. There was
- 1:03:59were you know, no bubble per se permanently. However, I think I
- 1:04:02think your formative years up until you're you know, fourteen, if you're in
- 1:04:08that sequestered and even when they were in high school, they were taken to
- 1:04:12school, picked up from school. They attended no school events, no clubs,
- 1:04:16no sports, not at I don't think they had They didn't have a
- 1:04:20lot of of chances. I mean, everybody can change their life. I
- 1:04:26always tell my kids, you know what, you can bitch about your childhood
- 1:04:29until you turn eighteen. Once you turn eighteen, your life is on you.
- 1:04:32That's true. I mean until you're eighteen, bitch, blame me.
- 1:04:40After that, you're on your own. Boy, did I make those choices
- 1:04:42after eighteen? So yeah, that's my crazy case. Thank you for listening
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