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- 0:24Well, hello there, everyone, and welcome once again
- 0:26to Inspirations for Your Life.
- 0:28It is so great to be with you
- 0:29on the show today.
- 0:32It is Sunday.
- 0:33It is, oh, it is July 5th, 2026,
- 0:39and it is so great to be with
- 0:41you.
- 0:41If this is your very first time coming
- 0:43here, I want to take the opportunity to
- 0:44say thank you and I want to say
- 0:46the words welcome.
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- 0:53more, or maybe you've lost track of how
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- 0:58say thank you and welcome, but I also
- 1:00want to say the words welcome back, because,
- 1:04ladies and gentlemen, it really does mean something
- 1:05to me that you have decided to not
- 1:08only watch the show once, but you've come
- 1:10here many times before, and for that, I
- 1:13am eternally grateful for you for doing that.
- 1:17You know we have a great show, we
- 1:19always have a great show, of course you
- 1:20know that.
- 1:22But one thing I want to tell you
- 1:23is that this week, we started yesterday, we
- 1:26start Saturday with a brand new Master Topic,
- 1:28and then we roll forward this entire week
- 1:31and we finish up on Friday.
- 1:33So yes, guys, it is great to be
- 1:36with you.
- 1:36Before we do officially start the show, don't
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- 1:59much to share with you here.
- 2:03All right, guys, again, it is so great
- 2:05to have you here on the show, and
- 2:07Sunday is one of the days, so Thursday
- 2:09and Sunday, we do a shout out to
- 2:14a local, usually owned restaurant or coffee shop,
- 2:21and this time, we're doing the coffee shout
- 2:27out today.
- 2:29It's actually, it is in Wayne, New Jersey.
- 2:32It is actually located in the Wayne Counseling
- 2:37and Wellness Center at 1581 New Jersey 23,
- 2:42Wayne, New Jersey, 0747.
- 2:43It's called La Casa de Cabana.
- 2:47I'm not Spanish.
- 2:48Hopefully, I didn't kill that, La Casa de
- 2:51Cabana.
- 2:53And so, a little bit about La Casa
- 2:55de Cabana, again, we do this to let
- 2:58people know who they are, to share what
- 3:00they're doing.
- 3:01They started with their passion for enjoying the
- 3:03best coffee from around the world, and they're
- 3:05on a mission to find a commercial coffee
- 3:08roaster, and then they came across a 17
- 3:10-year-old Primo roaster located in New Hampshire.
- 3:14So off the person went, and within two
- 3:16weeks, they're perfecting the roasting skills.
- 3:19Their roasting, it's now in Wayne, New Jersey,
- 3:22as I said.
- 3:22It's a coffee lab, and the roasting has
- 3:24been perfected, and they're pleased to be able
- 3:27to bring coffee to Bergen County and New
- 3:30Jersey to the other areas.
- 3:31So there's other stores they own, too, but
- 3:33we're talking about the one today in Wayne.
- 3:36They offer regular coffee.
- 3:37They do things wholesale.
- 3:38They have things like Chapa's.
- 3:40They have Decaf.
- 3:41They have Cabana.
- 3:43They have Ferra Este Nicaragua.
- 3:45Hopefully, I'm not killing these names too bad.
- 3:47I'm not Spanish.
- 3:48Decaf, a Swiss water press, and it's mostly
- 3:52a coffee shop.
- 3:53They may have some other things there.
- 3:54I'm not sure.
- 3:54I have nothing there in person, but I'm
- 3:55reaching out to you guys today, this Sunday,
- 3:58from the Inspiration for Your Life show and
- 3:59Jason Academy to ask you to visit our
- 4:02website and to click on the contact us
- 4:06and invite us to come to your cafe
- 4:10or restaurant and have us host a live
- 4:13show there.
- 4:14And so we'd love to do that.
- 4:16Just visit jasomecademy.com, and all you need
- 4:19to do is go there and let us
- 4:22know that you would like to host us.
- 4:24It's completely free.
- 4:25It's 15 minutes before the show.
- 4:26The show is about 27 minutes and change.
- 4:29Then it's 15 minutes after the show for
- 4:31an author talk, 15 minutes for Q&A,
- 4:34and 15 minutes for the author signing.
- 4:36So guys, if you're in Wayne and you
- 4:39want to check them out, they are La
- 4:41Casa de Cabana.
- 4:44Again, they're located at 581 New Jersey 23
- 4:47South, Wayne, New Jersey, in the Wellness Center
- 4:51that is in New Jersey.
- 4:53And that's located, ladies and gentlemen, on Route
- 4:5523, 581 New Jersey, Route 23.
- 5:01So check that out.
- 5:02Again, a big shout out to you guys
- 5:04for loving all the stuff that you're doing.
- 5:07And we hope you'll invite us to be
- 5:08able to broadcast our show live from your
- 5:12facility.
- 5:13So ladies and gentlemen, let's kick this off.
- 5:15The week is about the power of steady
- 5:16trust.
- 5:18Building stability in uncertain times is the thing.
- 5:22This episode is how confidence is built in
- 5:24uncertainty.
- 5:25And that's series five, show 20, episode number
- 5:27two.
- 5:28Who am I?
- 5:28I'm John C.
- 5:30Morley, serial entrepreneur, and it's always such a
- 5:32privilege and such a pleasure and honor to
- 5:34be with you guys every time you're here,
- 5:37or if you come back and rewatch a
- 5:39show.
- 5:40And this is what it's about, guys.
- 5:42You know, I want you guys to feel
- 5:46welcome here, OK?
- 5:48So welcome back, everyone.
- 5:50As I said, I'm your host.
- 5:51I'm a serial entrepreneur, an engineer, marketing specialist,
- 5:53video producer, podcast host, coach, keynote speaker, graduate
- 5:57student at Montgomery State University, passionate lifelong learner.
- 5:59And now I'm so grateful to be a
- 6:00published author.
- 6:02Yes, my book, Drained Too Driven.
- 6:04So today I'm diving into something that affects
- 6:06every single one of us, especially in times
- 6:09like these.
- 6:11We're talking about confidence, not the Instagram kind,
- 6:14OK?
- 6:14Not the fake it till you make it
- 6:16kind.
- 6:17I'm talking about something else, the real kind,
- 6:20the earned, unshakable kindness that holds you steady
- 6:23when everything around you feels uncertain or it
- 6:26seems to crumble.
- 6:27This is the power of steady trust, building
- 6:30stability in uncertainty times.
- 6:32And again, this episode is all about how
- 6:34confidence is built in uncertainty.
- 6:38Let's get into this.
- 6:39So you're ready.
- 6:41So the confidence myth.
- 6:43Most people think confidence is something you're born
- 6:46with.
- 6:47It's not.
- 6:48Or that it shows up when life finally
- 6:50makes sense.
- 6:51Wrong.
- 6:52Confidence isn't found.
- 6:54It's built.
- 6:56All right.
- 6:57Which says something else was built.
- 6:59Leaders.
- 6:59Leaders are not born.
- 7:01They're made.
- 7:01So similar, right?
- 7:02Confidence isn't found.
- 7:03It's built.
- 7:04It's made.
- 7:05And it's not built in comfort.
- 7:07It's built in motion.
- 7:07It's built in discomfort.
- 7:09Think about it.
- 7:10When have you ever felt more confident after
- 7:13weeks of overthinking or after taking one small
- 7:16step forward?
- 7:17Exactly.
- 7:18Here's the truth, guys.
- 7:19Confidence is evidence based and you don't feel
- 7:22confident and then act.
- 7:24You just act and then you start to
- 7:27feel confident.
- 7:28Every action you take is a data point.
- 7:32Every small win is proof.
- 7:35And proof builds trust in yourself.
- 7:40Action to clarity.
- 7:43We live in a world obsessed with clarity.
- 7:46People say, I just need to know what
- 7:48to do.
- 7:49Seems like pretty simple, right?
- 7:51But here's the secret.
- 7:53Clarity comes from movement, not the other way
- 7:56around.
- 7:56So many people get confused because they don't
- 7:59understand like why this is happening.
- 8:02Okay.
- 8:02You don't wait until you're ready.
- 8:04You just move and readiness will follow you.
- 8:08Uncertainty isn't your enemy.
- 8:09It's your training ground.
- 8:11Think of it like weight training for your
- 8:14mind.
- 8:14Every time you act in the face of
- 8:17doubt, you get stronger.
- 8:19Every time you push through fear, you build
- 8:21emotional muscle.
- 8:23And here's the kicker, guys.
- 8:25Fear weakens when action continues.
- 8:27It doesn't disappear.
- 8:29It just gets quieter because you've proven again
- 8:33and again that you can handle it.
- 8:37And see, when you prove you can handle
- 8:38it, the universe says, okay, great.
- 8:40You can handle it.
- 8:41I'm going to go ahead and give you
- 8:42more stuff that you can do.
- 8:44All right.
- 8:45I'm going to do that for you.
- 8:47But again, it does not happen overnight, guys.
- 8:50This takes time.
- 8:52And many times people get frustrated because it's
- 8:55not where they want to be like tomorrow.
- 8:58Okay.
- 8:59I think that's an important thing.
- 9:04And hopefully that makes sense to you guys.
- 9:11And I know a lot of you guys
- 9:14are saying to me, hey, John, you know,
- 9:16I don't quite get it.
- 9:18It's because you're putting so much pressure on
- 9:20yourself.
- 9:21So there's something called the habit loop of
- 9:23confidence.
- 9:24Confidence isn't a one-time event.
- 9:25Sorry.
- 9:26It's a loop.
- 9:27Action yields results.
- 9:29Evidence basically comes from the belief.
- 9:37More action.
- 9:38See, that's a cycle.
- 9:40You miss one link and the loop breaks.
- 9:43That's why waiting destroys momentum.
- 9:45That's why avoidance kills confidence.
- 9:48But when you commit to small, consistent actions,
- 9:50you start stacking the wins in your favor.
- 9:53And those wins, guys, they become what?
- 9:56They become your identity.
- 10:00I think that's an important thing for us
- 10:02to understand.
- 10:02They become your identity.
- 10:04Not that they are your identity.
- 10:05They just become your identity.
- 10:07I think a lot of people, like, don't
- 10:09seem to understand, like, you know, what that
- 10:12means or what that's about.
- 10:14And I want to tell you that this
- 10:16is something you can embrace if you believe
- 10:19in it.
- 10:20Okay.
- 10:21But you have to believe that this is
- 10:23the way it works.
- 10:24If you don't, you're just going to get
- 10:26yourself all, let's say, bent out of shape.
- 10:30And wondering why things aren't working the way
- 10:32you want them to work.
- 10:33I mean, I think that's probably one of
- 10:35the most important things that I can tell
- 10:37you.
- 10:37Okay.
- 10:40I can tell you that a lot of
- 10:42people wish they were doing something, but then
- 10:44they're not.
- 10:47And I think this happens because a lot
- 10:50of people, well, they get scared.
- 10:52So they stop.
- 10:53You stop saying, I hope I can.
- 10:57You start saying, I've done this before.
- 10:59I got this.
- 11:01I can do this again.
- 11:02That's your own inner trust.
- 11:06That steady confidence you have.
- 11:09That's important, guys.
- 11:11Truths to live by.
- 11:13Let's go through these truths because these are
- 11:15really important.
- 11:18And I hope that they mean something for
- 11:20you.
- 11:21Confidence grows through repetition.
- 11:24The more you do something, the more natural
- 11:28it feels.
- 11:29See, repetition turns fear into familiarity.
- 11:34And when things are, let's say, not familiar,
- 11:37people sometimes pull out because they're afraid.
- 11:39Okay.
- 11:40And they don't know what's going to happen.
- 11:43So they figure they're better off to just
- 11:45pull out and maybe better off like, you
- 11:46know, that way.
- 11:47All right.
- 11:48That's an important thing to understand.
- 11:51Uncertainty builds emotional strength.
- 11:55Not knowing what's next forces you to adapt.
- 11:58That adaptation is where resilience is born.
- 12:02Stability comes from action, not clarity.
- 12:04You don't need a perfect plan, guys.
- 12:07You need consistent movement.
- 12:09You gain confidence by continuing quitting teaches doubt.
- 12:16Persisting teaches trust.
- 12:19And I think that's something a lot of
- 12:20people, they miss that whole concept.
- 12:22They miss the fact that they can do
- 12:24this themselves.
- 12:25They really can.
- 12:27But a lot of times people, they get
- 12:29pulled down one way.
- 12:31And the reason they're pulled down is because
- 12:33of the trust that they've killed in their
- 12:34head.
- 12:41That's an important thing to understand.
- 12:44It comes from that whole concept, right?
- 12:48And we have to be aware of that,
- 12:52right?
- 12:53We have to be aware of what that
- 12:55is and, you know, how that even works.
- 12:59Okay.
- 12:59That's an important thing to understand.
- 13:03Fear weakens when action continues.
- 13:06Fear thrives on pause.
- 13:09Keep moving and its voice will get smaller
- 13:14until it eventually just stops.
- 13:17Confidence is evidence-based.
- 13:19It's not a feeling.
- 13:20It's a record of what you've already done.
- 13:24Now, ladies and gentlemen, action reduces doubt, whether
- 13:27you knew that or not.
- 13:28Doubt lives in the gap between thought and
- 13:32the deed or the action you're going to
- 13:33do.
- 13:34Action will close that gap.
- 13:37A lot of people, they procrastinate.
- 13:39They think it's magically going to get done.
- 13:41But you know what?
- 13:42It doesn't get done.
- 13:43Unfortunately, it doesn't get done.
- 13:45And that's an important thing for a lot
- 13:48of people, you know, to understand, that it
- 13:50does not get done unless you take the
- 13:52action.
- 13:53You have to take the inspired thought to
- 13:55give you the inspired, let's say, action.
- 13:59Then you have to take it, right?
- 14:01Waiting destroys the momentum, guys.
- 14:03It creates procrastination.
- 14:04Every day you wait is a day your
- 14:06belief in yourself just erodes and just kind
- 14:10of, I don't know, kind of fades.
- 14:14Movement creates belief.
- 14:16You don't think your way into confidence, guys.
- 14:18You move your way there.
- 14:19And that's hard for a lot of people
- 14:22to understand that you move your way there
- 14:25all the time.
- 14:26Okay?
- 14:27You move your way there all the time.
- 14:29Uncertainty is a training ground.
- 14:31It's not a stop sign.
- 14:33It's a gym for your courage.
- 14:35You just have to get out and actually
- 14:37use it.
- 14:38Confidence is built.
- 14:39It's not found.
- 14:40Stop searching.
- 14:41Start constructing it today.
- 14:44Each action reinforces identity.
- 14:49What you do tells your brain who you
- 14:51are.
- 14:52Let's think about that for a moment.
- 14:55What you do sends a message back to
- 14:57your brain.
- 15:00I think that's something a lot of people
- 15:01miss, that they have that ability, that they
- 15:04can do that.
- 15:05But that's what allows them to go forward
- 15:07or allows them to go backward.
- 15:10That's really the key, guys.
- 15:12Going forward or going backward.
- 15:15That's how it works.
- 15:18And if you don't get that, then I
- 15:19feel that you're probably going to be missing
- 15:21something.
- 15:22Small wins build, guys, the inner trust that
- 15:25we want.
- 15:26The tiny victories stack into unshakable self-belief.
- 15:30And you know what, guys?
- 15:31Doubt fades through execution.
- 15:33You can't think doubt away.
- 15:35Do you out-execute it?
- 15:40Confidence is a habit loop.
- 15:44Do it, prove it, believe it, repeat it.
- 15:49Stability comes from consistency.
- 15:53One-off efforts.
- 15:55Don't build foundations, guys.
- 15:57Daily habits do, but you've got to keep
- 16:00doing them over and over and over and
- 16:02over again.
- 16:03And that is the real key.
- 16:06You learn confidence through exposure.
- 16:09The more you face uncertainty, the less it
- 16:11controls you.
- 16:13Action is stronger than fear.
- 16:15Fear shouts.
- 16:18Action silences.
- 16:20And when we get that silence, it's like,
- 16:21wait a minute, I get this.
- 16:22I now understand this.
- 16:23I know what I need to do.
- 16:25I think that's a very important thing to
- 16:28say.
- 16:28I know what I need to do, but
- 16:29it doesn't happen.
- 16:30It does not happen overnight, guys.
- 16:32It does not happen overnight.
- 16:34I think that's an important piece that many
- 16:37people, they just don't understand that.
- 16:40And I'm saying this to you because most
- 16:44people, they give up because of what they
- 16:47see originally.
- 16:49And that's very, very important.
- 16:53You don't give up, okay?
- 16:56You do not give up ever.
- 16:59You never, ever give up.
- 17:01Okay, that's a very important thing to understand.
- 17:07If you understand those things, then maybe you'll
- 17:10say to me, hey, now I can do
- 17:14something different.
- 17:15But you got to believe in yourself, okay?
- 17:18You got to believe in yourself.
- 17:19You can't just say, hey, and have no
- 17:22plan.
- 17:23Repetition removes hesitation, okay?
- 17:27What once felt risky now becomes routine.
- 17:31Here's another one you want to take a
- 17:33look at.
- 17:34Confidence grows in discomfort.
- 17:35We've said this before, right?
- 17:37Confidence happens when we're uncomfortable, not when we're
- 17:39comfortable.
- 17:40Comfort keeps you safe.
- 17:42It doesn't let you grow.
- 17:43Discomfort makes you strong.
- 17:45Avoidance destroys confidence.
- 17:47Every time you run, you teach yourself you
- 17:50can't handle it.
- 17:52Action strengthens identity.
- 17:54You become what you repeatedly do.
- 17:56Consistency builds certainty.
- 17:59Predictable effort creates predictable results.
- 18:05Uncertainty forces growth.
- 18:07If everything were certain, you'd never evolve in
- 18:10life.
- 18:11Confidence is earned daily.
- 18:13It's not a trophy.
- 18:14It's a deposit you make every day in
- 18:17your life.
- 18:18And each time you do something more, you
- 18:21cause more confidence to be built, okay?
- 18:24You cause more confidence to be built.
- 18:26And that makes you want to do even
- 18:29more.
- 18:30Maybe you want to do things that are
- 18:31harder, right?
- 18:32Not just the same things.
- 18:33The things you did before are easy.
- 18:35But now you want to do things that
- 18:36are even harder.
- 18:39That's an important piece, guys.
- 18:42A very, very important piece.
- 18:45And I think we have to realize what
- 18:48we said before, that discipline is that whole
- 18:50key.
- 18:51If we don't understand discipline, then we're going
- 18:54to be lost, okay?
- 18:58We're going to be lost.
- 19:01For us to understand one thing, we have
- 19:05to understand that fear decreases with repetition.
- 19:09Confidence improves with competition.
- 19:11The 10th time is always easier than the
- 19:13first.
- 19:14Why?
- 19:15Because we know how to do it.
- 19:16Because we don't have as much fear.
- 19:19Or maybe we don't have any fear, right?
- 19:22That's a very important thing for us to
- 19:26realize that whole concept, okay?
- 19:29And if we don't understand that, then how
- 19:33do we ever move forward?
- 19:35I think the way we move forward is
- 19:37by saying that I can do this.
- 19:40I'm not going to be able to do
- 19:41all this tomorrow, but I definitely can do
- 19:45this.
- 19:45And by saying that, that changes who we
- 19:49are as people.
- 19:52And that affects our trajectory of going forward.
- 19:57It affects our trajectory of going forward.
- 19:59And once we understand what our trajectory is,
- 20:02because there could be a lot of things,
- 20:04we have to know what is stopping us,
- 20:08okay?
- 20:09What is stopping us from not achieving our
- 20:13goal?
- 20:13And sometimes it's not hard to figure out.
- 20:16Other times it takes a little bit of
- 20:18effort to figure out why are we not
- 20:19doing that?
- 20:20Why is this not working, right?
- 20:23Stability comes from proof, not promises.
- 20:27The pep talks, no.
- 20:30It's proof.
- 20:31You become confident by doing, not by saying,
- 20:34not by planning, not by wishing.
- 20:36By doing, by doing, by doing, by doing.
- 20:40You see, guys, action creates emotional security.
- 20:44Knowing you can act is the ultimate safety
- 20:47net.
- 20:48So many people I know, they procrastinate.
- 20:50They don't even try.
- 20:51They have so many skills, but they don't
- 20:53try because they're fearful.
- 20:55Confidence is built in motion.
- 21:00Stillness starves.
- 21:03Stillness starves us, but movement will feed it.
- 21:09Movement feeds it.
- 21:11Stillness starves.
- 21:13Your challenge that I want you to understand
- 21:17is here.
- 21:20Pick one thing you've been avoiding.
- 21:24Maybe one action.
- 21:25It could be sending that email, making that
- 21:28call, hitting publish, or starting that workout.
- 21:33There's no need for you to be worried
- 21:36about it, guys.
- 21:36There's no need because, see, the thing is,
- 21:39it's actually your mind that's causing these things
- 21:45to trip you up.
- 21:46It's not that you can't do them.
- 21:48You absolutely can do them.
- 21:50I think that's a very important thing to
- 21:53realize.
- 21:53You can do any of this stuff.
- 21:55I mean any of it.
- 21:57But if your mind is saying one thing,
- 22:00how do you go another way?
- 22:03How?
- 22:05That becomes challenging for a lot of people.
- 22:10It becomes challenging because a lot of people
- 22:13don't understand.
- 22:17They don't understand what it's about.
- 22:25And that's important, guys.
- 22:28It's very important to know that.
- 22:32And I'll tell you that when you understand
- 22:35this, you can definitely move forward in your
- 22:39life.
- 22:50I think a lot of people in one
- 22:53regard say one thing, but then they mean
- 22:55something else in their life.
- 22:57They don't realize what they can do or
- 23:01what they can't do.
- 23:03But this comes because of their own fears.
- 23:09Do it.
- 23:10Not when you feel ready, guys.
- 23:13I want you to do it now.
- 23:18Then I want you to do it again
- 23:20tomorrow.
- 23:22So do it now, then do it again
- 23:23tomorrow.
- 23:26What do I want you to do next?
- 23:28I want you to track it.
- 23:31Do it now, do it tomorrow, and track
- 23:33it.
- 23:34So do it now, do it tomorrow, and
- 23:36track it.
- 23:36Do it now, do it tomorrow, and track
- 23:38it.
- 23:38Pretty simple.
- 23:39Pretty easy, right?
- 23:40You could do those things.
- 23:42Do it now, do it tomorrow, and track
- 23:43it.
- 23:44Do it now, do it tomorrow, and then
- 23:47track it.
- 23:51Do it now, do it tomorrow, and then
- 23:54go and track it.
- 24:00That's important, guys.
- 24:03And if we know that we can do
- 24:05those things, our life will be better.
- 24:08Do it now, do it tomorrow, and then
- 24:10track it.
- 24:13Lastly, I want you to celebrate it.
- 24:15So do it now, do it tomorrow, track
- 24:17it, and celebrate it.
- 24:18Let that become proof.
- 24:19Let's get this one more time in your
- 24:20head.
- 24:21So do it now, do it tomorrow, track
- 24:23it, celebrate it.
- 24:24Do it now, do it tomorrow, track it,
- 24:27celebrate it.
- 24:28One more time.
- 24:38And let that, ladies and gentlemen, become the
- 24:42proof.
- 24:43That proof will push you forward like you've
- 24:47never believed was possible.
- 24:51Like you've never believed it was possible.
- 24:53See, you can do these things, guys.
- 24:56But it comes down to your whole belief
- 24:59system.
- 25:00Your belief system can basically decide whether you
- 25:03want to move one way or you want
- 25:05to move another way.
- 25:06Because you see, guys, every time you act,
- 25:09you're not just moving forward.
- 25:12You're building a vision of yourself who trusts
- 25:16their own ability to handle what comes next.
- 25:20You're building on your vision to trust what
- 25:24comes next.
- 25:26And ladies and gentlemen, there's something very powerful
- 25:28about that.
- 25:30It becomes its own power of steady trust.
- 25:34Steady trust doesn't just happen overnight.
- 25:37It never happens overnight.
- 25:39It takes you time to figure it out.
- 25:44Figure it out by the time of what's
- 25:48going on.
- 25:49And then realizing, hey, I did this.
- 25:51I think that's a very positive thing.
- 25:56But a lot of people never get to
- 25:57that point.
- 25:58They never, ever get to that point, ever.
- 26:03Not because they can't.
- 26:05It's because they've given up on themselves.
- 26:09Or they've never, ever tried.
- 26:13They've never, ever tried.
- 26:17Never, ever have they tried.
- 26:21I think that's a very important thing to
- 26:25know.
- 26:27To try.
- 26:31In closing, I'm John C.
- 26:34Morley, serial entrepreneur.
- 26:35And if this episode hit home in any
- 26:38big or small way, do me a favor.
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- 27:00That's important, guys.
- 27:02Remember, confidence isn't something you wait for.
- 27:05It's something you build daily.
- 27:07One action at a time.
- 27:08Until next time, keep moving, keep building, and
- 27:12keep trusting the process.
- 27:14Peace and love, always.
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- 27:26Definitely check them out.
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- 27:33live show there.
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- 27:35I hope you guys have a great rest
- 27:37of your evening.
- 27:39And you know what, ladies and gentlemen?
- 27:40I'm actually going to see you guys real
- 27:42soon.
- 27:43I'll see you guys tomorrow.
- 27:44Don't forget to check out BelieveMeAchieve.com for
- 27:48more of my amazing, of course, inspiring creations.
- 27:52Remember, ladies and gentlemen, confidence isn't born.
- 27:56It's built.
- 27:58So get started on it now.
- 28:00Take care, everyone.
- 28:00Be well.