Episode 6: Value Her
Ever win the argument and lose your wife?
Answering an emotional argument with a logical one, Rabbi Klapper explains, is like answering a poem with a number — they're two different worlds that will never explain each other. That's why marriage is the training ground where a man finally develops the emotional side he may never have used. The model comes from Rav Yosef: when his wife was running late to light Shabbos candles, he didn't say "hurry up" — he shared a beautiful vort about the pillar of cloud and pillar of fire, speaking to her in the language of feeling and hakaras hatov.
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