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Honoring Coach Jim Clayton: A Life of Faith, Service, and Unshakable Encouragement · Randy Unscripted

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  This this is probably the hardest recording I've ever had to do.
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  Today, I wanna honor and celebrate the life of a truly remarkable
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  man, my dear friend, my colleague, my cohost, coach Jim Clayton.
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  Jim left us on Thursday, 09/18/2025.
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  While our hearts are heavy, we're reminded from Psalm 34 verse 18
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  that the Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart and
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  save such as be of a contrite spirit.
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  Even in our sorrow, God's presence is near, offering comfort and
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  strength to us. I first met Jim when I was 15 years old.
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  I was a student at CK High School, and he came and spoke at the
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  teen institute event that was being held.
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  I don't remember the exact details of what it was he said that
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  day, but I remember this man being the most positive person I'd
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  ever heard speak in my life. That impression stuck with me.
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  And as I continued to grow and to navigate through life, it left
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  a lasting mark on my own perspective.
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  Years later, while I was completing my student teaching at
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  Huntington High School, I had the opportunity to eat lunch with
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  Jim Clayton every day.
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  It's during that time that I began to know him as a colleague, as
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  a man, and eventually as a friend.
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  His insights and wisdom were incredibly inspiring to me as a
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  young educator, shaping the way that I approach teaching and
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  leadership.
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  Several years later, I accepted a position teaching at Caval
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  Midland High School, the same year that Jim was transferred
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  there.
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  This is the place and the time where our friendship truly began
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  to grow.
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  Watching his interactions with students and staff taught me the
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  right way to do things, not just as a teacher or as a coach, but
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  as a person.
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  The highlights of that was helping him with technology, which was
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  not his strong suit, but it was a pleasure because he was always
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  willing to learn and try new things.
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  In 2018, I had the first opportunity to sit down with Jim and
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  record a conversation for a podcast that I was producing at that
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  time.
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  By this point, he had retired from teaching and he was focused
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  solely on his business at Sports City U.
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  It was here that I gained an even deeper understanding of his
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  ideas and his philosophies.
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  His ability to break things down for his students and his
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  athletes was still present, still strong, and still deeply
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  inspiring.
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  In 2024, I learned of Jim's illness with colon cancer and I made
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  my way to Sports City U to see him.
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  I stood with him at center court in the gym, arms around him, and
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  prayed with him for healing from God.
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  Not long after that, he reached out and asked him or asked me to
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  partner with him to start a podcast, this podcast.
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  He wanted to share his insights on life, not just basketball as
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  many people might have thought he wanted to do, but the lessons
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  that had guided his own life and the lives of everyone he had the
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  chance to influence.
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  We launched this podcast on July 1, and over the course of
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  recording 11 episodes with Jim, I had some of the best
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  conversations I've ever had in the decade I've been in
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  podcasting.
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  It was in those moments that Jim became 1 of my closest friends,
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  and I'm so proud to be able to say that.
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  The last evening we recorded together remains vivid in my heart
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  and in my mind, and it's the last memory I have of Jim in person
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  before his passing.
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  After we finished and we're preparing to leave that night, he had
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  just gotten his best buddy Alfie, ever present Alfie, into the
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  car, and he turned back to me.
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  As I did every week after we recorded, I told him, I love you,
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  brother. This time was different. He always told me he loved me.
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  We always fist bumped or shook hands, But this night, he grabbed
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  me. He embraced me as he told me he loved me.
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  That was the last conversation I had with him, and it is the
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  memory that I will hold on to forever of my friend, Jim Clayton.
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  Jim was many things to many people.
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  He was a devoted classroom teacher, an inspiring coach, a mentor,
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  a podcast co host, and above all, a friend whose heart, humor,
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  and integrity touched everyone he met.
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  His life was marked by service, dedication, and an unwavering
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  commitment to helping others grow.
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  As a classroom teacher, Jim inspired countless students.
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  He didn't just teach lessons from textbooks.
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  He taught lessons for life.
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  He challenged his students to think critically, to act with
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  integrity, and to develop both character and resilience.
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  Many of his students will will carry this guidance and
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  encouragement that he gave them forward for the rest of their
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  lives.
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  As a coach, Jim brought out the best in those who were under his
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  guidance.
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  He believed deeply in teamwork, in perseverance, and in the value
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  of encouragement just as much as he did discipline.
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  On the court, in the locker room, in an everyday life, his
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  approach was always the same, help others succeed.
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  And to do that with heart and with humility.
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  Jim's life remains a reminder to us of the power of dedication,
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  kindness, and genuine human connection.
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  He leaves a legacy measured not only in accomplishments, but in
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  lives touched, lessons imparted, and hearts encouraged.
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  Second Timothy chapter 4 verses 7 and 8 says, I have fought a
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  good fight. I have finished my course. I have kept the faith.
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  Henceforth, there is laid up for me a crown of righteousness.
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  Jim fought the good fight in his own way, leaving a life that
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  inspires all of us. At the center of Jim's life was his family.
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  He and his beloved wife, Anne, shared 42 years together.
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  42 incredible years together.
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  It was a marriage built on love, on partnership, and on laughter.
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  As a devoted father to his daughter Elizabeth and his son Wes and
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  his wife Kayla, he poured his heart into guiding, teaching, and
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  supporting them.
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  Above all, he adored his 2 granddaughters, Vera and Heidi, who
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  affectionately called him pop pop.
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  And, of course, by his side through it all was his loyal
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  companion and best buddy Alfie, who shared in the love and the
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  joy of Jim's life.
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  To Anne, Elizabeth, Wes, Kayla, Vera, Heidi, I know that no words
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  can truly ease the loss you feel.
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  Matthew chapter 5 verse 4 tells us, blessed are they that mourn
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  for they shall be comforted.
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  I may not have the right words to comfort you, but I want you to
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  know that I am here and we all are here to walk with you, to
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  support you, and to carry some of the weight of this loss
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  together.
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  Jim's love, guidance, and example will continue to live on in all
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  of all of you, shaping your lives for years to come.
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  To the family, the friends, the students, and and colleagues who
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  remember him, Let us be sure to honor him by carrying forward the
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  values he lived by, integrity, compassion, and service to others.
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  Let us remember Jim not only in grief, but with gratitude.
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  Gratitude for the privilege of knowing him.
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  Coach Jim Clayton, thank you for your life, your guidance, and
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  your friendship.
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  You will be deeply missed, but your spirit, your lessons, and
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  your laughter, that will live on in all of us.
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  We all need to follow Jim's model with bam.
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  We need to work to believe bigger, achieve louder, and motivate
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  stronger just as he did every day of his life.
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  May you rest in peace, my friend. Bye outside.