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Season 3 - Episode 119 - Your goals evolve with you. · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Welcome to the Good Morning From the Chicken Coop Podcast with
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  Kim Johnson, your creative strategist and mastermind set
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  coach. Filled with inspiration,
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  distinctions, perspectives, and possibilities, we help you to
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  cultivate a mindset that leads you to create the best version
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  of yourself you could ever imagine.
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  Join Kim every morning from one of her favorite happy places,
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  her chicken coop along with all her chickens.
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  Hey, everybody. Good morning from the chicken
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  coop. Today I want to talk to you
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  about your goals. And I'm not talking about, oh,
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  let's set goals. I'm talking about really looking
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  at your goals and understanding there are evolutions that
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  happened to us in this process and what we thought we wanted
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  may not be what we currently are still wanting.
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  And sometimes we are so stubborn or so blind to the fact that
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  we've had something on our, you know, goal list for a long time
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  and we haven't made it happen that we just keep it there.
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  And I I think probably myself included in this and every
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  client that I've ever coached, we've had this conversation and
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  I'll say, well, how long have you wanted that goal?
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  And they might say, oh, as long as I can remember, but I never
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  seem to make it. And this is, this is really an
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  interesting thing when you hear that because what does it mean
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  when you've had a goal on your list for a really long time that
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  you've just never met? Does it mean that you don't want
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  it? No, I do believe that when we
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  put them down, we want them. Does it mean that we have
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  changed in the process? Yes, if it's still sitting there
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  and it hasn't happened. We evolve as human beings,
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  constantly in the process of evolving.
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  Things change and sometimes what we once wanted, we no longer
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  really want, but rarely do. We go back and check in and say,
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  does the person that I am right now still want this?
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  Who, who? And this came from the person
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  who I was? And it's hard, it's hard to ask
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  the questions because it's, you know, you have to confront
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  yourself. You have to say the person that
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  I currently am, is this person really up for this particular
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  goal or this particular outcome, whichever the word is that you
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  like intention, goal, whatever it is, and actually putting
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  yourself, pausing, putting yourself in the place of thought
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  about this and saying what's the difference between what my
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  head's telling me about it and my gut's telling me about it
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  takes patience with yourself and it takes honesty.
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  And you know, we've talked about honesty on here before, where
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  it's like you have got to be radically honest with yourself.
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  Nothing is more dangerous than lying to yourself and
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  understanding that those little tiny lies erode at your
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  happiness constantly. Because ultimately you become
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  incredibly happy when you're incredibly honest with yourself.
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  Because you feel free. You feel easier on yourself.
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  You just feel like you can be and you have this process of
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  being, you know, regularly honest with yourself.
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  You don't feel like you're restricted and it's incredibly
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  important to remember that. So as somebody who's on here and
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  you're listening to this and, you know, trying to better
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  yourself and your life in the process of it, recognizing that
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  some of your goals may not be the same that they as they
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  always were or you might want them at the same as you always
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  had them is important. I mean, I I can't tell you how
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  many times I have shifted and said, you know, at one point the
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  person I was really wanted this. And now the person that I am
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  does not want this. It's just I've, I've grown up,
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  it's just not the same thing that I want to do anymore or
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  I've changed my intention. I found something that means a
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  little bit more to me. I found something that has a a
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  different connection to me. It doesn't mean that I am not
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  setting new goals. It doesn't mean that I'm not
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  going to have something to work towards.
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  It just means that I am constantly aware of the
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  evolution that I go through as a human being.
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  And when you are aware of it, you can recognize that those
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  goals are just in the process of shifting as well.
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  Now, will there be goals that are just part of who you are as
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  a person? Yes, and it is in in just a
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  piece of your every fibre of your being and you will stick
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  with those goals and then there will be those goals that are
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  just, they're in and out. They're the some that changed.
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  They're the ones that you know they were important, but they
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  really weren't like critical. They were.
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  They were there. They were a want more than
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  anything else. And understanding that about
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  yourself is the height of awareness when you get into this
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  phase. And you can really start to
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  recognize it's OK to take something that's been on a piece
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  of paper and erase it or say I'm no longer interested in this,
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  wow, that's power means that you see yourself for all that you
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  are and you're not shying away from it and you're not lying to
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  yourself about it. So today I'll challenge you to
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  go and look at your goals and see are they still fitting of
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  you who you are now? Do they need to shift?
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  What's the evolution they need to go through and allow yourself
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  the the gift of changing them, shifting them, doing whatever it
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  is that you need to get them to a different place.
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  So I hope you guys have an incredibly wonderful day and I
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  will see you all tomorrow.