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Shake It Off Dan | Wednesday December 17, 2025 · The Treehouse Show Podcast

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  Speaker 1: Want more Treehouse, check out our YouTube exclusive shows at
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  Speaker 2: It is time to believe your worries outside and laugh
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  Speaker 2: with us inside the Treehouse. I'm Dan O'Malley along with
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  Speaker 2: Trey Trenholm and Raj Sharma coming up today. Good Gift
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  Speaker 2: or Bad Gift is Trey all of a sudden an optimist.
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  Speaker 2: But first we will start with an actually interesting to
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  Speaker 2: good year in review. This time of year is littered
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  Speaker 2: with year in review lists and stories and research and
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  Speaker 2: data and blah blah blah blah blah, and most of
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  Speaker 2: it's dumb and stupid and it sucks. However, when pornhub
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  Speaker 2: releases some of its year in review, I leaned a
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  Speaker 2: little bit. I'm curious because while they haven't gone so
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  Speaker 2: far as doing a wrapped the way Spotify does, they
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  Speaker 2: are releasing some year in review information. Horn Hub released
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  Speaker 2: its annual year in Review report revealing women are tuning
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  Speaker 2: into X rated videos at record rates, which is a
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  Speaker 2: really good headline because the record rate is it's not
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  Speaker 2: that astounding, it's it's a new record because it's more
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  Speaker 2: than it was last year, which was already a record
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  Speaker 2: and kind of like each subsequent year. It's just like
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  Speaker 2: you're breaking they're breaking their own record. Overall, it appears
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  Speaker 2: there is a one and a half percent proportional growth
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  Speaker 2: in the year twenty twenty five when it comes to
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  Speaker 2: women consuming adult content online, a one and a half
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  Speaker 2: percent increase year over a year. So congratulations to the ladies.
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  Speaker 2: By the way, if you're curious which countries lead the way,
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  Speaker 2: Philippines sixty four percent proportion of female visitors on porn
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  Speaker 2: hub to thirty six percent of men. I just think
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  Speaker 2: that all the other dudes got good VPN access and
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  Speaker 2: therefore Philippines is not getting the credit. Still surprising number
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  Speaker 2: sixty four percent in the Philippines fifty six percent, in Colombia,
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  Speaker 2: Argentina fifty six percent, Mexico forty eight, Chile forty six,
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  Speaker 2: Ukraine out of nowhere with forty six despite being in
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  Speaker 2: the middle of a war. Some of the ladies are
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  Speaker 2: finding time and then back to back to South America
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  Speaker 2: Peru forty four percent, Brazil thirty eight, the United States
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  Speaker 2: all the way down at twenty eight percent, which is
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  Speaker 2: a one percent increase. You're over a year, it's there.
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  Speaker 2: You have it. The porn hub Urine review. The ladies
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  Speaker 2: aren't just flicking, they're clicking.
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  Speaker 1: It seems like a heavy dose of Latin America, very heavy,
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  Speaker 1: very surprising.
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  Speaker 2: Is gonna sound crude, and I don't really mean it
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  Speaker 2: that way. I don't mean it in a mean way.
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  Speaker 2: It's just a general curiosity. Some of these countries did date.
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  Speaker 2: Some of the areas of these countries not have internet
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  Speaker 2: access over the last year or previous years. Maybe that's
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  Speaker 2: part of the reason for the surge.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, or their cellular services imprisoned enough where like they're
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  Speaker 1: four G, five G whatever that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, And that's why I say it's an honest since
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  Speaker 2: your question not meaning to be a slam for other
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  Speaker 2: countries that you know, don't have this certain infrastructure that
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  Speaker 2: we do in the States when it comes to internet
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  Speaker 2: phone service and therefore having access to the copious amounts
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  Speaker 2: of adult content. So maybe they're just going crazy because
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  Speaker 2: they got a new cell phone.
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  Speaker 3: It doesn't surprise me. Like the last few relationships I
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  Speaker 3: was in, it was just kind of brought up, like
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  Speaker 3: you want to watch you want to watch some porn.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, we can do that, uh, And it was
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  Speaker 3: it was brought up by them. It wasn't even like
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  Speaker 3: they caught me doing something. It was like, hey, this
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  Speaker 3: is kind of what I kind of like this, and
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  Speaker 3: I'm like cool, let's and I'm not here to judge.
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  Speaker 3: I'm here to help facilitate your joy in any way.
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  Speaker 2: You know. That is you, Raj a deliverer of joy,
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  Speaker 2: That's what I like to say. So in those instances that, uh,
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  Speaker 2: that content served as sort of inspir content, yeah, or
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  Speaker 2: in some cases maybe aspirational. I meant that both ways.
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  Speaker 3: Which I was impressed by. I'm like cool. I mean,
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  Speaker 3: it's out in the open, nobody's hiding anything about, you know,
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  Speaker 3: like sneaking around trying to do anything stupid like that,
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  Speaker 3: And it was cool, and I'm like, all right, so
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  Speaker 3: if we want to we can just do this together.
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  Speaker 3: That'd be great. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I mean that is probably the great way to introduce
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  Speaker 2: something to your partner is to be like, Okay, I
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  Speaker 2: just want to show you something and just want to
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  Speaker 2: know what you think, because this is something I might
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  Speaker 2: be into if you are, and as opposed to are
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  Speaker 2: you into gaping? Like, just asking the question out right
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  Speaker 2: can be a little jarring, how do you feel about
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  Speaker 2: my fist?
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  Speaker 3: Exactly?
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  Speaker 2: So that might be the gentler way to introduce certain
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  Speaker 2: things into the bedroom is sort of be a third
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  Speaker 2: party as opposed to the direct, very blunt question.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and I like it. I find it liberating. You
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  Speaker 3: know that women are cool enough now in this day
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  Speaker 3: and age to be like, hey, this is what i'm
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  Speaker 3: into and that's what I like to watch. So are
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  Speaker 3: you cool with that? Like, I mean, twenty years ago,
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  Speaker 3: I didn't see that happening.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's also interesting because I i'd be wondering is
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  Speaker 2: there a setup in this? And what I mean is
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  Speaker 2: if she was to say, oh, you know, I'm kind
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  Speaker 2: of into this, They're like, okay, well I'm not black,
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  Speaker 2: so I'm not really sure how.
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  Speaker 3: Who's that guy in the corner, but he's black, like.
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  Speaker 2: Red, real dark. I didn't know it was there. But yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it all has to do with it and how you
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  Speaker 2: introduce certain things I guess into the relationship. So that's
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  Speaker 2: look at look at this that I want to show
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  Speaker 2: you is probably safer a way to go than i'd
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  Speaker 2: like you to meet Tyrone. Yeah, Reggie.
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  Speaker 3: And his three brothers and like do I need to
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  Speaker 3: be here?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, it's all part of it. I'd need you crying
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  Speaker 2: at the corner. It pulls it all together.
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  Speaker 1: No, my dog wasn't really passing gas.
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  Speaker 2: So yeah, and this and and you're right, Roger, this
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  Speaker 2: is not a new thing. This has been a year.
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  Speaker 2: Over a year. More and more women are being more
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  Speaker 2: open about it, being like, yeah, I'm into some adult stuff.
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  Speaker 2: And there's even more and more female oriented adult content.
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  Speaker 2: It used to be back in the day that it
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  Speaker 2: was all male centered and the women were stars and
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  Speaker 2: they made lots of money. But they finally jumped into
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  Speaker 2: the production side of it, a bunch of the female
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  Speaker 2: stars did, where they then started their own production companies.
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  Speaker 2: They started directing and producing and taking over the industry,
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  Speaker 2: which is really theirs should have been theirs in the
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  Speaker 2: first place, because it's kind of all built around them.
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  Speaker 2: So now you have more like female content for females. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: Tray got excited. Now, keep in mind, just because women
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  Speaker 2: at a one and a half percent year over year
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  Speaker 2: growth when it comes to consuming adult content around the
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  Speaker 2: world doesn't mean the guys have stopped. In fact, it's
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  Speaker 2: kind of gotten worse in some regard, especially in our
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  Speaker 2: great state of Texas. The cities of Houston, Dallas, and
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  Speaker 2: Austin are among Texas cities spending major dollars on only fans. Really, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: Americans overall spent two point six billion dollars on only
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  Speaker 2: fans in twenty twenty six, something like fifty sixty seventy five.
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  Speaker 2: Uh wait, what did I say twenty twenty six, Yes,
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  Speaker 2: twenty twenty five. Sorry, I'm pulling this from Fox twenty
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  Speaker 2: six in Houston. Yeah, Americans spent over two point six
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  Speaker 2: billion dollars on only fans in twenty twenty five. And
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, fifty sixty seventy million to that is
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  Speaker 2: just from that Sophie rain girl. Anyway, that number makes
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  Speaker 2: the United States the top spending country by a significant margin. Interesting, USA,
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  Speaker 2: Now you know why the bald eagle is scowling.
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  Speaker 1: Well, a lot of that isn't subscriptions per se. It's
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  Speaker 1: basically guys hanging for time, like private time with those girls.
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  Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Yeah. Now so these Americans, Oh, it's interesting, Okay, Yeah, Americans.
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  Speaker 2: And like I said, two point six billion, But two
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  Speaker 2: major cities, Houston and Dallas, ranked among the top twenty
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  Speaker 2: cities globally in total spending on only fans. Dallas spent
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  Speaker 2: twenty six million dollars, Houston a little bit more at
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  Speaker 2: thirty two million dollars. Austin was bringing up the rear
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  Speaker 2: at seventeen and a half million, but all three made
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  Speaker 2: the top twenty spending cities across North and South America.
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  Speaker 3: That is interesting, Okay. I thought it was just like
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  Speaker 3: pictures and am I wrong? Pictures and videos and stuff
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  Speaker 3: like that that they post. I didn't know you could
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  Speaker 3: actually like message somebody and like you could get total Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't know that was the thing. Okay, good on them.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, And that's where and that's where a lot of
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  Speaker 2: the guys that are spending money on only fans need
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  Speaker 2: to maybe they don't care, need to realize that a
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  Speaker 2: lot of the times, the person that they think they're
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  Speaker 2: chatting with is not the person they're chatting with. A
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  Speaker 2: lot of times it's another dude. Really, because some of
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  Speaker 2: these only fans models, they'll be filming and doing their
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  Speaker 2: content right, they'll be doing ungodly things in front of
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  Speaker 2: a you know, three or four ring lights. So when
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  Speaker 2: you're in the middle of doing that, you don't necessarily
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  Speaker 2: have time to always pop in the chat and chat with,
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  Speaker 2: you know, Kevin. So that's where you would hire someone
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  Speaker 2: to do that for you. And a lot of times
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  Speaker 2: it's it's it's a dude, because dudes know how to
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  Speaker 2: talk to other dudes.
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  Speaker 1: Some of them basically, you know, they got guys have
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  Speaker 1: become their sugar daddies.
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  Speaker 4: And then it's.
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  Speaker 1: I'd say a bridged escorting. But that's I mean for
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  Speaker 1: some of them, that's kind of what it is.
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  Speaker 2: It's digital escorting.
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  Speaker 4: None of them turns into real life.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, no, I know, I'm just saying, but it's
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  Speaker 2: it's definitely digital escorting, and they can move over into
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  Speaker 2: the real world.
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  Speaker 3: But the top why the outer stuff?
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  Speaker 2: Oh sure?
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  Speaker 3: Oh interesting, okay, book, I mean, hey, making money? When
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  Speaker 3: are you making money?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? The top twenty cities with the highest total spend
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  Speaker 2: on only fans here we go at twenty is Helsinki, Finland.
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  Speaker 2: I just love saying that name. Nineteen is Singapore, eighteen
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  Speaker 2: is Santiago, Chile, Chiles really into built stuff, seventeen Madrid, Spain,
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  Speaker 2: sixteen Rome. They put Italy on there just just so
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  Speaker 2: you don't mistake it. For you know, Texas fifteen is Dallas, fourteen,
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  Speaker 2: Atlanta thirteen, Bangkok, twelve is Toronto, eleven is Houston, Paris
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  Speaker 2: at ten, Mexico City at nine, Brisbane Australia or is
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  Speaker 2: it Brisbane? That's at eight right in front of it
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  Speaker 2: is a sister city Melbourne seven, Chicago is six, Sydney
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  Speaker 2: is five. Man Australia's got three in the top ten.
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  Speaker 4: Dirty Aussies.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, four is Milan, three is London, two is Los
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  Speaker 2: Angeles and number one no surprise here, spending eighty seven
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  Speaker 2: million dollars on only fans last year New York City.
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  Speaker 3: All right, go big Apple.
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  Speaker 2: So there's our year in review for the adult industry. Now,
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  Speaker 2: now that we've mentioned twenty six million dollars spent by
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  Speaker 2: residents of Dallas on only fans, let's take a quick
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  Speaker 2: and be honest survey inside the Treehouse. How much money
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  Speaker 2: have you spent on adult content this year? Hold up
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  Speaker 2: your numbers, You guys aren't holding anything up there. You
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  Speaker 2: go look at that three holes.
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  Speaker 2: you told me something recently and I'm still processing it.
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  Speaker 2: So let's let's let's dig into this a little bit.
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  Speaker 2: I'm I'm I am intrigued anytime you tell me I
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  Speaker 2: really think this will this one will work. And I
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  Speaker 2: say that because you've never told me that in regards
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  Speaker 2: to your new relationship. You said, I really think this
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  Speaker 2: one might work.
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  Speaker 4: It definitely has a chance.
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  Speaker 2: Because all others know.
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  Speaker 4: This.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, this is Tray the optimist.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: When I look back on previous relationships, I can pinpoint
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  Speaker 1: things very early on in the relationship that should have
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  Speaker 1: let me know this one is not going to work.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, So.
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  Speaker 2: I can appreciate that. You'll go back and analyze the
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  Speaker 2: relationship the way you know an athlete does, like a
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  Speaker 2: football player does, go back and watch game till and be.
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  Speaker 3: Like, yeah, there it is all. I had one. I
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  Speaker 3: had one, like I knew the minute happened. I was like,
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  Speaker 3: let's just let this run through. When I knew the
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  Speaker 3: minute happened, I was living in Los Angeles and I
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  Speaker 3: flew out and I talk about this on stage. I
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  Speaker 3: flew out to LA and she got in the car
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  Speaker 3: and I was like, uh, you know, you go you're tired.
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  Speaker 3: She's like no, I'm fine. I was like, do you
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  Speaker 3: want to go in? You know you don't want to
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  Speaker 3: stay in and you want to go out? And then
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  Speaker 3: I asked her this ago was your flight full? And
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  Speaker 3: she respond did at takeoff? And I was like, yep,
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  Speaker 3: this is over, this is this is finished.
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  Speaker 2: Have you been on many flights where it filled up midway?
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  Speaker 3: Was the guy sitting next to you like, do you
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  Speaker 3: think we're over Denver?
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  Speaker 2: You get a mid air connection and a bunch of
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  Speaker 2: new people hopped on.
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  Speaker 4: A direct flight.
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  Speaker 3: No, they just it's so pretty all.
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  Speaker 2: Right, Trey, I you've you've absolutely got my attention. What
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  Speaker 2: is it about this relationship? What happened recently that has
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  Speaker 2: you thinking that this one has a chance of making it?
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  Speaker 1: Well, we talked about this, I think it was last
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  Speaker 1: week of you it's it better to love the same
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  Speaker 1: things or hate the same things. And she and I
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  Speaker 1: have have a good We kind of disliked the same things.
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  Speaker 1: But the other day she she had been to like
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  Speaker 1: family function and came back and and was I could
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  Speaker 1: tell something was bothering her. And she said, you know,
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  Speaker 1: she started with my mother and I go say.
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  Speaker 3: Less.
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  Speaker 2: Springing girl a little bit.
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  Speaker 4: I no one can relate more to just those two words.
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  Speaker 4: My mother got it.
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  Speaker 3: I'm surprising. Response was I know mine too, No explanation needed.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Trey is experiencing his own METWO movement, shared trauma
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  Speaker 2: with mom. Uh so that was it?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Just I mean, and I don't mean that's it, Like
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  Speaker 2: it's not a big one that is a big one
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  Speaker 2: because that that that shared.
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  Speaker 4: Well trauma.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, it goes a long way.
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  Speaker 2: I mean there's a level of relatability there that you
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  Speaker 2: can have with somebody else. That is, you can't fully
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  Speaker 2: explain it. You just got to be there to know it.
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  Speaker 4: Well.
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  Speaker 1: It's hard, especially if someone has a functional and positive
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  Speaker 1: and good relationship with their parents and they don't understand why, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: how it could be otherwise.
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  Speaker 4: Then it makes things difficult.
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  Speaker 1: And they have to see things firsthand that a lot
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  Speaker 1: of times you don't really want them to see.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, it would be very difficult if you were to.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm sure you've been because you've been in relationships.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, you're fifty one year old man. I am
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  Speaker 2: sure that you've had relationships with women who had good
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  Speaker 2: relationships with their moms and there is a disconnect there
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  Speaker 2: because she can't relate to you on that level and
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  Speaker 2: you can't relate to her on that level because it
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  Speaker 2: is just polar opposites and there's no way without I
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: don't I don't know how you find middle ground on
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: that scenario because I don't think for someone that has
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: a truly positive, loving everything positive relationship with their mama
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: is going to understand where you're coming from with yours, Drey, No, No.
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: I mean there are things that Thank God my stepmother
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: is still around because she's the only person who can
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: really validate some of the things I say, because otherwise
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: you would think I'm crazy. No one could act like
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: no mother could act like that until I go but
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: here you go.
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: There it is right there there.
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: I don't know if I'm at an advantage in this,
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: Like my girlfriend gets along famously with her family, like
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: they like each other, very strange. And both my parents
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: have passed, so I don't have like there's no reference point,
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: Like I get to witness that, and I'm like, oh,
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: that's kind of cool. So I get to see that,
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: but I don't have a reference point anymore because it's
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: been so long since my parents both passed away.
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and then with you, because you had you had
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: a troubled relationship with your mom, but you guys, uh,
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: Salvage did and you guys ended up with a great relationship.
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: And yeah, and I'm glad for you for that. Uh,
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: that is not Trey's journey. And we were watching Tara
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: and I were watching the first couple episodes of the
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: Taylor Swift documentary that just came out, And in one
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: of them, what really really, Trey, I was just singing
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: your praise is about being Cray the Optimist and I
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: you're gonna dog on me for watching the Taylor Swift
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: The End of Virus.
• 23:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm glad he did it before I could.
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: Anyway. So one of her dancers is.
• 23:15
  Speaker 4: Wisdom.
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: One of the segments of the documentary, one of her
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: dancers is having this conversation with his mom and he's
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: talking about how great she was and he and his
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: brother growing up. Uh, his brother went on to play
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: defensive line for the Kansas City Chiefs and he's a
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: dancer on Taylor Swift's tour. And it's just the relationship
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: between him and his mom and it was so sweet
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: and loving and he's like, you sacrifice so much and
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: I love you and she's like, I love you too, baby,
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: and all this it was just great. And and you're
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: I'm watching and going like, man, that looks nice.
• 23:49
  Speaker 4: Yeah, which which part dan.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: The part about being a dancer on Taylor Swift's tour.
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  Speaker 2: Taylor Swift end of an Era's tour documentary.
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  Speaker 1: I don't hold anything against you, Dan, I'm I'll always
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: support your journey.
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I was gonna say the same. I'll embrace it.
• 25:43
  Speaker 3: I'm glad that you're comfortable in your own skin and
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: you know you can talk about it and uh see.
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: You guys are saying the right things. But it still
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: makes me want to say you to both of you
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: because because I hear the tone and I see your faces.
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: Oh don't we don't judge here. We love and and
• 26:03
  Speaker 3: will always be here to love you.
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: No, you love to judge. That's what it is.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: I mean, what a what a wonderful way to spend
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: your time is I mean, now, does it get into
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: their she and Travis's relationship?
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: I mean not in the first two episodes, Oh okay,
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: but later on I'm sure it will.
• 26:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay.
• 26:29
  Speaker 4: Now when you're watching that, does Tara have your ball
• 26:34
  Speaker 4: her hands?
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: Like?
• 26:34
  Speaker 4: Does she? Is she rotating him around? Yeah?
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: I would like No, I would like to break a
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: couple of barriers here.
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: David Bowie Labyrinth.
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: It is okay to be a man, a straight man,
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: and be a fan of Taylor Swift. It is one okay.
• 27:00
  Speaker 4: You're to be a fan.
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: Absolutely, yeah. I think she says so as well.
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: So you have that, So why why why would me
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: watching the documentary make me less of a man?
• 27:11
  Speaker 3: Tree?
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: Because you're watching the documentary, you're actually spending time. It's
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: not being a fan of the music. It's one thing. Yeah,
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: you want to you want to shake it off, go ahead,
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: But when you're actually going to devote hours of your
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: time to a documentary, then you know, I think I
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: think eyebrow these questions.
• 27:28
  Speaker 4: You know form.
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: Okay, you, sir, should not be casting stones from your
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: translucent mansion, because aren't you the one that's watched documentaries
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: are about OCTOPI?
• 27:42
  Speaker 4: Okay, yet nature documentaries, Dan, Yeah.
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: Why is that so? Why is that better than a
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: documentary about people?
• 27:52
  Speaker 4: Huh, Well, it's not just people, Dana.
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: You know, I watched documentaries about serial kill serial killers,
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: not tayte I.
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  Speaker 3: Mean yeah, I didn't even know there was a documentary
• 28:04
  Speaker 3: out about Taylors. You said something, I had no clue.
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: All right, Look, I am a little bit of a
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: closeted SWIFTYE. It's been it's been my journey this year,
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: and I'm kind of on that path and I'm okay
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: with it. I really like her music. I've always liked
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: her music. The documentary side of stuff though, to me
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: is fascinating because it's the highest grossing tour of all time,
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: and I don't remember seeing a documentary about whatever the
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: tour was before it as far as grossing that amount
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: of money. It was a damn good concert. Watched the
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: concert last year that came out, and no, it was
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: on like Disney Plus, so you just watch it home,
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: and we didn't go to the actual concert. But there
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: was a genuine curiosity. It's like, okay, by news reports
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: and everything, the greatest tour of all time. I'm curious
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: watch it and it's phenomenal curious As someone who grew yeah,
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: well yeah, curiosity is not a bad thing trick, and
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: as someone who grew up in a theater family, I'm
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: also fascinated by the stage production. You two were just
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: I can't talk you guys. You know what this is
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: all I have to say to you, guys.
• 29:27
  Speaker 3: What's your favorite song by the Swift.
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: One of my favorites is long Live Okay?
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's awesome, man.
• 29:39
  Speaker 4: Your favorite song.
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: The main one? I don't know the name of the song,
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: but I actually can hear it in my head.
• 29:53
  Speaker 4: Sure you can?
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah? How moved? Were you like cats? Yeah?
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: Here's the other thing you guys need. I don't need
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: to justify myself, but I'm going to because I feel
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: the need to justify myself. In addition to the other stuff,
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: I'm also fascinated at how she runs her business. Like
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: from a standpoint, you're talking about so much. She gave
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: over one hundred and ninety seven million dollars in bonuses
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: to everyone on her tour. From a million dollar piece,
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: there was one hundred thousand dollars bonuses at one point
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: to pretty much everybody, and then others may have gotten
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: more along the way, like even like one of the
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: one of the big stories that came out during the
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: tour was she gave one hundred thousand dollars bonuses to
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: pretty much everybody, and that includes the truck drivers who
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: were just hauling stuff around. And I'm fascinated by her
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: as a business leader. As a.
• 30:51
  Speaker 4: He freezes up again.
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: Yep, I wonder what we're getting for our bonuses this year.
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: I don't think it's one hundred grand.
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think so either, But you know it's
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: it's fascinating because he could have because I believe she shared,
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: like all the sales from the merchandise with everyone that
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: worked on the tour.
• 31:19
  Speaker 4: But so does Kenny Chesney. You know, he could have
• 31:21
  Speaker 4: followed that silence.
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: He does the same thing. Yeah, oh that's very cool.
• 31:28
  Speaker 3: I know kenu Reeves did like all the royalties from
• 31:32
  Speaker 3: the matrix. I think he gave to the crew, right,
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: something like that.
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, but yeah, Kenny Chesney has been because
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: he tours almost non stop.
• 31:42
  Speaker 4: So yeah, he takes care of everyone.
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: So interesting. Okay, well, good dude.
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: I like that.
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: I like hearing stuff like that. But you know, that's
• 31:51
  Speaker 3: that's always nice because I mean, they make just such
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: a grip just off ticket sales and such, so to
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: see that they'll give that back to the people that
• 31:59
  Speaker 3: are actually running the show behind the show, that's pretty cool.
• 32:05
  Speaker 4: I wonder if I wonder if Tera makes Dan dress
• 32:07
  Speaker 4: up to watch the show. I was thinking.
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: Eyes shadowed, lipstick.
• 32:37
  Speaker 4: Do you have like a sequent outfit you wear when
• 32:40
  Speaker 4: you're when you're watching.
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: He wig, feather bolo, anything, high heel boots tu say
• 32:57
  Speaker 3: o Mally.
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