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Worst Days EVER · Podcast - Big 98.7

• 0:02
  Speaker 1: If you didn't see this, I don't know this story
• 0:05
  Speaker 1: at all. I have no idea what Angie's about to
• 0:07
  Speaker 1: tell me. But I saw on Facebook that Angie posted
• 0:10
  Speaker 1: was it Saturday the eighteenth, Yeah, two days ago was
• 0:13
  Speaker 1: the worst day of Angie's life because.
• 0:16
  Speaker 2: You had a bad day, I did, perhaps a bad day.
• 0:20
  Speaker 1: I can only imagine the horror you went through.
• 0:24
  Speaker 3: All right.
• 0:24
  Speaker 2: Well, when I posted this to Facebook, to the big
• 0:27
  Speaker 2: ninety eight points up in Facebook page, I did note
• 0:31
  Speaker 2: that I am dramatic.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, yes, shocking.
• 0:34
  Speaker 2: So the worst day of my life maybe is not
• 0:37
  Speaker 2: going to sound like the worst day of anybody else's life.
• 0:40
  Speaker 3: And that moment it felt like moment, it felt like it.
• 0:43
  Speaker 2: And in fact, if you hear this and you think,
• 0:45
  Speaker 2: what a first world problem loser, idiot?
• 0:49
  Speaker 3: Fair? True, that's fine.
• 0:51
  Speaker 2: You can text me and tell me I'm a shallow
• 0:53
  Speaker 2: bratt and that also true.
• 0:55
  Speaker 1: Here's the thing, but that doesn't disregard your feelings, Angie, Right.
• 1:00
  Speaker 2: My feelings are valid. So my sister's in town with
• 1:05
  Speaker 2: my nephew. It's his birthday weekend, and one of the
• 1:08
  Speaker 2: things that we went to do is eat at Rambis
• 1:11
  Speaker 2: Guy's Pizza. I love it there. They have a great
• 1:14
  Speaker 2: vegan option. My sister also vegan, and so it works
• 1:18
  Speaker 2: out that she always wants to eat where I eat
• 1:20
  Speaker 2: because we have to eat the same things, right and
• 1:23
  Speaker 2: let everybody else.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: In fact, every single time we go, Mikey is like,
• 1:27
  Speaker 2: I can need the t Rex pizza because it has
• 1:30
  Speaker 2: just a ton of meat on it.
• 1:32
  Speaker 3: And I deprive him so much.
• 1:34
  Speaker 2: During the week that he is like, let me get
• 1:36
  Speaker 2: a t Rex pizza.
• 1:37
  Speaker 3: I digress. Here's what happened.
• 1:40
  Speaker 2: Our server his name was Eli, very good looking fellow,
• 1:45
  Speaker 2: and he comes to the table.
• 1:47
  Speaker 3: I obviously not single, and they're with my man, and
• 1:50
  Speaker 3: he's not my type, you know. I like, I'm older.
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  Speaker 2: My sister, however, single beautiful lady, and so you know,
• 1:57
  Speaker 2: we're kind of chit chatting with our server whatever. And
• 2:00
  Speaker 2: I know, like I noticed my sister noticing that he's
• 2:03
  Speaker 2: a good looking to you. Yeah, and so we're just
• 2:07
  Speaker 2: kind of like, you know, being when we're you know.
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  Speaker 3: How girls do. And there's a cute guy.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh do I know, Angie, I've been that guy.
• 2:17
  Speaker 1: Well never, but I've seen guys be that guy.
• 2:20
  Speaker 3: But you're so silly. So I'm thinking we have the meal.
• 2:25
  Speaker 2: Whatever. He's very kind to us, and my sister and
• 2:28
  Speaker 2: I run to use the restroom before we head out,
• 2:30
  Speaker 2: and in my head, I thought, oh, Eli must have
• 2:36
  Speaker 2: had such a great time serving us, because it was
• 2:39
  Speaker 2: like two cute girls being really you know whatever with
• 2:42
  Speaker 2: him whatever ah, my sister. Afterwards, we get in the
• 2:47
  Speaker 2: car and we take a lot of pictures, my sister
• 2:49
  Speaker 2: and I, hoping to find some cute ones that we
• 2:52
  Speaker 2: can post. And there's a picture that my sister took
• 2:56
  Speaker 2: a selfie of herself and me in it where she
• 3:00
  Speaker 2: looks incredible and I look like her great aunt.
• 3:05
  Speaker 3: I look so chopped, tore up from the floor up.
• 3:09
  Speaker 2: I look so bad in this picture, Gabe, and it
• 3:13
  Speaker 2: had me rethinking everything. This elite server was like, oh,
• 3:17
  Speaker 2: look at this cute girl who visited her auntie in
• 3:21
  Speaker 2: the business. Like I just had this perception of myself.
• 3:25
  Speaker 2: I thought I looked cute.
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  Speaker 3: I really I put effort into what I looked like.
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  Speaker 2: I even showed my sister my four step hair whatever routine,
• 3:34
  Speaker 2: thinking I'm really dolling myself up. I look so bad, Gabe,
• 3:39
  Speaker 2: so bad that I have to make drastic changes. And
• 3:42
  Speaker 2: then the cherry on top is that in the bathroom
• 3:45
  Speaker 2: she took a mirror selfie that she accidentally caught me
• 3:50
  Speaker 2: in the background getting a paper towel. What I look
• 3:54
  Speaker 2: like from behind is none of my business, but I
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  Speaker 2: thought in the reflection, okay, sir, I look like.
• 4:02
  Speaker 3: A miniature linebacker from the back.
• 4:06
  Speaker 1: Angie's going round too. The NFL Draft coming up.
• 4:10
  Speaker 2: Think I mistakes, mistakes have been made. I need to
• 4:14
  Speaker 2: start a retinol routine. I need to get in the gym.
• 4:17
  Speaker 2: I need I face some harsh truths.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, well, sometimes you know what they say, Angie?
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  Speaker 3: What do they say? Gibe?
• 4:24
  Speaker 4: It's good to go through some adversity.
• 4:26
  Speaker 3: I hate you.
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  Speaker 1: Angie had the worst day of her life this past Saturday.
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  Speaker 1: It did when there was a photo she saw herself
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  Speaker 1: in that she was not thrilled about.
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  Speaker 3: No, there were two photos, one from the front.
• 4:41
  Speaker 2: Your girl needs retinoll asap, and then one from the back.
• 4:45
  Speaker 2: I need to get in the gym and live there. So, yes,
• 4:49
  Speaker 2: worst day of my life. But Gabe, you're saying that
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  Speaker 2: you had you almost died.
• 4:55
  Speaker 3: Is this what you're telling you?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, yesterday was one for the ages because you had.
• 4:59
  Speaker 1: A yesterday before I was going to go be a
• 5:06
  Speaker 1: part of this judging competition for tacos. At Saloon ninety five,
• 5:12
  Speaker 1: it was like twelve thirty. I just got done going
• 5:15
  Speaker 1: out to a brunch with my uncle, my aunt, my
• 5:19
  Speaker 1: cousin who attends MSUM, and we enjoyed.
• 5:22
  Speaker 4: A nice brunch.
• 5:23
  Speaker 1: Okay that high, and got home and I'm just kind
• 5:26
  Speaker 1: of passing the time by until I need to go
• 5:28
  Speaker 1: do this. At Saloon ninety five, I'm laying on the
• 5:30
  Speaker 1: couch watching a chess tournament, which sounds about us exciting
• 5:35
  Speaker 1: as land. And I was laying sideways, you know, I was.
• 5:39
  Speaker 1: I was horizontal on the couch and as I went
• 5:43
  Speaker 1: to get up, you know, you just stretch sometimes, do
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  Speaker 1: the old yeah, stretch out. I am not kidding you
• 5:49
  Speaker 1: when I say I had a sharp, hot, searing pain
• 5:55
  Speaker 1: travel from my neck shoulder area down to like my
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  Speaker 1: right hip. I went to get up off the couch
• 6:02
  Speaker 1: and I'm knocking. I almost fell over, and I decided
• 6:04
  Speaker 1: right then and there, Oh I just died. That's the
• 6:08
  Speaker 1: end of it.
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  Speaker 4: My wife's sleeping away in the room taking a nap,
• 6:11
  Speaker 4: you know.
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  Speaker 3: And beef. Yeah that's fair.
• 6:13
  Speaker 4: Yeah, she's.
• 6:15
  Speaker 1: Enjoy a nap. I thought that was the end of it,
• 6:18
  Speaker 1: I really did. I went, well, this is how it goes.
• 6:21
  Speaker 1: I guess I died. Stretching was the most heartbreaking realization
• 6:28
  Speaker 1: I have, like, oh, I'm getting old af So I
• 6:32
  Speaker 1: looked up what this possibly could be, and I thought
• 6:35
  Speaker 1: I had an idea that maybe I had pinched a nerve.
• 6:37
  Speaker 1: And according to my googling, which is also incredible, I
• 6:44
  Speaker 1: probably pinched a nerve somewhere in my next shoulder area.
• 6:47
  Speaker 3: How are you feeling right now?
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  Speaker 4: I can still feel it. It doesn't you know.
• 6:51
  Speaker 1: It's not that big of a deal now that I'm
• 6:52
  Speaker 1: kind of up moving around or whatever. But at one
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  Speaker 1: point I couldn't really turn my head. I couldn't rotate
• 6:58
  Speaker 1: my shoulder at all. I thought, man, this is over.
• 7:01
  Speaker 3: This what is your most I'm an old person injury?
• 7:04
  Speaker 2: Bro.
• 7:05
  Speaker 1: It was I realized, Wow, I'm thirty five, and this
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  Speaker 1: is how it all comes crashing down in that moment
• 7:13
  Speaker 1: seven oh one two eight zero one nine eighty seven.
• 7:15
  Speaker 1: Have you ever you know, bent over to pick something
• 7:17
  Speaker 1: up and you went, oh, my back's gone.
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  Speaker 3: This is how it ends.
• 7:21
  Speaker 4: It's over? Or have you ever been playing catch with
• 7:24
  Speaker 4: the kid in your shoulder? Pops? Out of socket.
• 7:26
  Speaker 1: Just something where you went, wow, that's not supposed to
• 7:29
  Speaker 1: happen at this age.
• 7:30
  Speaker 3: Let me make you feel better.
• 7:32
  Speaker 2: I did pinch a nerve in my shoulder once playing
• 7:36
  Speaker 2: golf on the Wii.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I actually do feel a lot better. Seven oh
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  Speaker 1: one two eight zero one nine eighty seven. Weirdest, strangest
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  Speaker 1: injury that you kind of had to realize. Man, I
• 7:49
  Speaker 1: am definitely getting older and the joints aren't moving how
• 7:52
  Speaker 1: they used to a little bit ago. We were talking about, Man,
• 7:57
  Speaker 1: when was what was that injury? What was that oops
• 7:59
  Speaker 1: moment you had when you realize, Wow, I am not
• 8:02
  Speaker 1: twenty two years old anymore. I'm getting older as according
• 8:06
  Speaker 1: to Google, I'm like ninety eight percent.
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  Speaker 4: Sure. I pinched a nerve in my neck stretching.
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  Speaker 1: I hate saying that loud, but we did get a
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  Speaker 1: text from this person who said, I believe it's Travis.
• 8:19
  Speaker 1: He said, I'm a thirty five year old man. Hey,
• 8:21
  Speaker 1: welcome to the thirty five club. Travis Solmar, who was
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  Speaker 1: embarrassed to admit I have a memory foam butt cushion
• 8:28
  Speaker 1: in my pickup truck for when I'm driving. I also
• 8:31
  Speaker 1: had to get running boards installed on my truck to
• 8:33
  Speaker 1: make it easier to get in and out this winter.
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  Speaker 1: I got off my cushion a step out of my
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  Speaker 1: truck and pulled a nerve in my back and went
• 8:41
  Speaker 1: sliding out the door and down the side of my
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  Speaker 1: truck like a washboard. You know what that's up there
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  Speaker 1: with pinched a nerve stretching right up there, right up there, Travis.
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  Speaker 1: But you know what, you keep pushing forward, and I
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  Speaker 1: hope you have a great day man.
• 9:00
  Speaker 5: Rating life's little victories victory every morning. We practice gratitude
• 9:04
  Speaker 5: on Big ninety eight point seven. If I could, I
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  Speaker 5: would keep this feeling in a basket job busted out
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  Speaker 5: when it was someone's acting hard.
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  Speaker 4: I just really needed to win.
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  Speaker 5: You know, sure your little victories with us at seven
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  Speaker 5: oh one two eight one, eight seven.
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  Speaker 1: And Angie, do you have a little victory. I'm sure
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  Speaker 1: you have a pretty massive victory. You got some family
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  Speaker 1: visiting you this weekend. I'm sure you got up to
• 9:25
  Speaker 1: some fun.
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  Speaker 3: I did you know what though? I want to Mikey.
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  Speaker 2: My Mikey actually just texted us a little victory.
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  Speaker 4: Oh really, yeah, he said.
• 9:36
  Speaker 2: My little victory is that I've pulled out all of
• 9:38
  Speaker 2: my golf equipment from winter storage, cleaned my clubs, put
• 9:42
  Speaker 2: lines on each golf ball, got new grips. Now just
• 9:46
  Speaker 2: waiting for the weather to cooperate. Let me tell you,
• 9:49
  Speaker 2: I had no idea this took play. When was he
• 9:51
  Speaker 2: doing this?
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  Speaker 1: This was This is an awesome victory and something I
• 9:55
  Speaker 1: need to do. I need to get the clubs cleaned up.
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  Speaker 1: I'm ready to go for a year of playing below
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  Speaker 1: average golf.
• 10:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah all right, Well.
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  Speaker 4: That's a great little victory, Mikey.
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  Speaker 3: I'm so glad that you did that. I what was
• 10:05
  Speaker 3: I doing? You know what I was doing.
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  Speaker 2: My little victory is that my sister and my nephew
• 10:10
  Speaker 2: are in town visiting. This is the first time they've
• 10:13
  Speaker 2: come to visit me in Fargo, and it's my nephew,
• 10:16
  Speaker 2: Collins fifteenth birthday, so it's a birthday trip.
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  Speaker 3: And we've just had such a fun weekend.
• 10:22
  Speaker 2: One of the things that we did is we went
• 10:24
  Speaker 2: to Sweet Shots yesterday and we played golf.
• 10:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and we played the.
• 10:29
  Speaker 2: Angry Birds game that they have there, you know, yeah,
• 10:33
  Speaker 2: while you're swinging away and your girl based on sheer
• 10:37
  Speaker 2: luck alone one me, I was the top winner out
• 10:41
  Speaker 2: of six players. That does not mean that I'm good
• 10:45
  Speaker 2: at hitting a golf ball, not even a little bit.
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  Speaker 1: But I want to know how this happened, because if
• 10:49
  Speaker 1: I was there, Angie, there's no way I'm letting you.
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  Speaker 4: Did people let you win?
• 10:52
  Speaker 5: No?
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  Speaker 3: They didn't.
• 10:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah. The thing, it's by virtue of what the game is. Yeah,
• 10:58
  Speaker 2: it doesn't necessarily like you don't have to actually be
• 11:01
  Speaker 2: good at hitting golf balls, which is the level that.
• 11:04
  Speaker 3: We needed to be out. Okay, we're not.
• 11:06
  Speaker 2: On Mikey's Mikey was, I mean, hitting amazing shots and
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  Speaker 2: did not win.
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  Speaker 3: So right, that's that's just how it had to go.
• 11:15
  Speaker 1: Well, you know what, I don't want to yuck your yum.
• 11:17
  Speaker 1: I'm glad you got the w Angie.
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  Speaker 5: Thank you.
• 11:19
  Speaker 4: I'm proud of you. You know what, they say, a
• 11:21
  Speaker 4: win is a win. That's right. Where is I get them?
• 11:24
  Speaker 4: That's right?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah? What about you, gab? What's your little victory?
• 11:26
  Speaker 4: My little victory?
• 11:27
  Speaker 1: I have had this Minnesota Wild hat sitting and waiting
• 11:31
  Speaker 1: and lurking and staring at me that I was not
• 11:35
  Speaker 1: I bought at a Wild game this year and I
• 11:36
  Speaker 1: have not worn it once because I wanted to save
• 11:39
  Speaker 1: it for the playoffs when they started, and now they
• 11:42
  Speaker 1: played on Saturday. I got to wear my new hat. Yeah,
• 11:45
  Speaker 1: they played today. I get to finally bring this hat
• 11:47
  Speaker 1: to work. But I have been sitting on this ad
• 11:49
  Speaker 1: I'm not even kidding you for probably five months.
• 11:52
  Speaker 2: It does look fresh and brand new. I had never
• 11:55
  Speaker 2: seen it before. But now since they won yesterday, you
• 11:59
  Speaker 2: have to wear that hat every single time they played.
• 12:02
  Speaker 4: That's right.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, they went on Saturday, and they played tonight, and
• 12:05
  Speaker 1: this hat will be busted out for every game in
• 12:08
  Speaker 1: the playoffs. I didn't want to wear it leading up
• 12:11
  Speaker 1: to the playoffs, Angie, so it got bad luck or
• 12:13
  Speaker 1: bad juju on it, all right. I wanted a fresh
• 12:16
  Speaker 1: Minnesota Wild hat for playoff time, and I finally got
• 12:19
  Speaker 1: to bust it out.
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  Speaker 4: So that is what I'm very very excited about.
• 12:21
  Speaker 1: I also got to be another judge in a food
• 12:24
  Speaker 1: contest this weekend, which was.
• 12:26
  Speaker 4: A ton of fun with a coworker.
• 12:28
  Speaker 1: We have Farley here in the building and now him
• 12:30
  Speaker 1: and I had a great time meeting some tacos this
• 12:32
  Speaker 1: weekend and doing a judging contest, so that was a
• 12:34
  Speaker 1: lot of fun as well.
• 12:35
  Speaker 2: Well, I love this And then real quick, well, Zach
• 12:38
  Speaker 2: just texted us that he got the cover up tattoo
• 12:41
  Speaker 2: that he's been trying to get for.
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  Speaker 3: The last four years. Lots of little victories this weekend.
• 12:46
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's right on the way.
• 12:47
  Speaker 1: Elizabeth Taylor will have the tea coming up, and congratulations Zach.
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  Speaker 1: I know, getting a tattoo covered up or having a
• 12:54
  Speaker 1: tattoo that maybe don't like overtime, it can be kind
• 12:57
  Speaker 1: of an annoying, tough process to go through, but to
• 12:59
  Speaker 1: get it done that's major.
• 13:01
  Speaker 2: I'm going to need more details because I've got a
• 13:02
  Speaker 2: tattoo on the back of my neck that has been
• 13:04
  Speaker 2: needed changing. There are still things that I'm learning about
• 13:14
  Speaker 2: my gee to this day because he'll just interject them
• 13:18
  Speaker 2: at the most random times. And the other week we
• 13:21
  Speaker 2: were at Unhinged Sports Bar. We were doing big happy
• 13:24
  Speaker 2: hour and I had the idea of corporal punishment came
• 13:28
  Speaker 2: up and I forget for what reason, and he just
• 13:31
  Speaker 2: casually says, oh, yeah, they used to hit me with an.
• 13:34
  Speaker 3: Or at school.
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  Speaker 2: What.
• 13:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, time to pause every other conversation that thought about
• 13:41
  Speaker 1: going on right now. Yeah, just a casual like or beating, Yeah,
• 13:46
  Speaker 1: an or beating, And I guess he well, he said, well, yeah,
• 13:49
  Speaker 1: back then, we still did that. And I remember, oh, yeah,
• 13:53
  Speaker 1: you're sixty years old.
• 13:55
  Speaker 4: So I did not.
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  Speaker 2: Experience that growing up. I just experienced getting hit by
• 13:59
  Speaker 2: my parents, but.
• 14:01
  Speaker 3: Not at school.
• 14:03
  Speaker 2: And he said that not only because now I wanted
• 14:07
  Speaker 2: all the details. I mean, Gabe was really fascinated also,
• 14:10
  Speaker 2: and why did you get hit.
• 14:13
  Speaker 3: With an or? Like what?
• 14:15
  Speaker 4: Yeah, what'd you do?
• 14:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah? And he didn't do his homework right.
• 14:19
  Speaker 2: And he was in fifth grade and he didn't do
• 14:21
  Speaker 2: his homework and then he got hit with this or.
• 14:23
  Speaker 2: And he went on to tell us that not only
• 14:27
  Speaker 2: were their oars for beating the children, that also they
• 14:32
  Speaker 2: were like bedazzled and engraved with.
• 14:35
  Speaker 4: Things they swagged out their sticks.
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: This is incredible, Like can you imagine being a teacher
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: and you're in the teacher's lounge and you go, oh, hey, guys,
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: look at how I designed my ore weapon.
• 14:49
  Speaker 2: That's insane, Babe, you're so shook by this. So this
• 14:54
  Speaker 2: weekend I had Mikey tell the kids, and he dropped
• 14:57
  Speaker 2: another little tidbit that he he did not tell me earlier.
• 15:02
  Speaker 2: And so now you get to find this out too.
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: They would drill holes in them to make them more aerodynamics.
• 15:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and make the whack harder.
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah what, Yeah, that's kind of insane because yeah, I
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: suppose if with the holes in it, it travels through
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: the air. Yeah quicker. Yeah, that is kind of creepy.
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: I don't know if I love this.
• 15:23
  Speaker 3: I really I hate it.
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: I really don't love that they swagged out these oars.
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: And part of the thing the conversation I was having
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: with Mikey after discovering this was well, so how old
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: were you Because if I was seventeen, eighteen years old
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: and back in the way, back in the day, yeah,
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: there's no way I would have sat there and just
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: taken that.
• 15:41
  Speaker 4: Well, not an eighteen year old adult, right.
• 15:44
  Speaker 3: It happened to.
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: Him when he was in fifth grade and then he
• 15:46
  Speaker 2: like shaped up and didn't do it. But it goes
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: through high school, way through high school. I don't I
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: feel like there are still some states where that can happen.
• 15:56
  Speaker 3: But I'm glad that this is like a thing of
• 15:59
  Speaker 3: the past.
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well, we want to know this morning at seven
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  Speaker 1: oh one two eight zero one nine eight seven, was
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: there something you did in school that was bad?
• 16:08
  Speaker 4: What was the punishment?
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: I want to know when we stopped from bedazzling our
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: oars to when we got detention. Yeah, okay seven oh
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: one two eight zero one nine eight seven.
• 16:22
  Speaker 4: This is am I the problem. It's the problem, it's me.
• 16:29
  Speaker 5: We'll hear one side of the story, and with your help,
• 16:32
  Speaker 5: am I the problem, decide if it's right or if
• 16:35
  Speaker 5: maybe you're the problem.
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  Speaker 3: I'm hardly the problem. On Big ninety eight point seven.
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  Speaker 3: This one is from Haley. Hi, gab and ANGI.
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  Speaker 2: This is Haley, and I want to know if you
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  Speaker 2: think my older brother is justified in being mad at
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  Speaker 2: me for calling him out on meddling with my love life.
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: I only just found this out a week or so ago,
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: but it happened ten years ago. I reunited with a
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  Speaker 2: group of high school friends, including my crush, and he
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  Speaker 2: admitted that he had a big crush on me, but
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  Speaker 2: my brother.
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  Speaker 3: Forbade him from dating me.
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: They were both on the hockey team, but my brother
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  Speaker 2: was two years older. So I called my brother and
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: I was mad af because I ended up marrying the
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: guy who ended up being my high school sweetheart and
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: he turned out to be a full on jerk and
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  Speaker 2: we're divorced now. My brother said back then he just
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: didn't want to hear anything about me and a dude
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  Speaker 2: in the locker room.
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  Speaker 3: But marrying, But me marrying a jerk was my fault.
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  Speaker 3: But who knows what could.
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  Speaker 2: Have happened if he didn't meddle in my life. Now
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: he's ticked off at me for blaming him. So who
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: do you think is right?
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  Speaker 3: Gabe?
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: I want your thoughts first.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know. I am an older brother.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: I have a younger sister, and it's just kind of
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: funny thinking about this.
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  Speaker 4: You're gonna have to learn to let that one go.
• 17:57
  Speaker 4: I think you are who is this? Haley, Haley Haylee.
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  Speaker 4: I think you are the problem.
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  Speaker 1: Who knows if you and this dude would have been
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: together for two months a couple of years got married,
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: You can't. It's easy to play the hindsight Henry game
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  Speaker 1: ten years down the road.
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  Speaker 4: I think you just have to learn to let that go.
• 18:15
  Speaker 4: Am I that wrong? I mean he's just being an
• 18:17
  Speaker 4: older brother.
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  Speaker 1: When you're in your high school years, any decision you
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: make involving relationships should almost just be erased from your
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: permanent record. Okay, we're all just doing the best we
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: can and trying and going through a lot of things
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: and changes in our brains.
• 18:35
  Speaker 4: Our bodies.
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: He didn't think your older brother, excuse me, Haley. He
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: didn't think, you know, in ten years my sister might
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: be real upset with me that I didn't want this dude,
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: I'm hockey buddies with to date.
• 18:50
  Speaker 4: That didn't go through his brain.
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: What are your thoughts? Seven oh one two eight oh
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: one to nine eight seven. We also have this up
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: on the Big ninety eight point seven Facebook page. I
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: think that her brother is the problem because that is
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: such a tired old trope of oh.
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: You better not date my sister. Eh, there's gonna be consequence,
• 19:13
  Speaker 3: like grow up.
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: I know that they were teenagers when that happened, but
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: I feel like your brain is developed enough to stop
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: with that machismo.
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: Like, no, that's my sister, you better not date her.
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: Who are you to say who can and can't? Baby?
• 19:29
  Speaker 4: You ever been an older brother, Angie.
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: No, I just have a mustache and I have a
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: little brother. I guess it doesn't count, but I think, yeah, no.
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: I think at the very least her brother could have apologized.
• 19:43
  Speaker 4: Yeah that also, I think you are right there.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: He could have been like, hey, I'm sorry, I just
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: didn't really know what I was doing when he said,
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: not marrying.
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: A jerk was your fault.
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: I don't think I understand the hindsight henry game, Like
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: you can't.
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: Who's to say that you would have ended up with
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: this dude?
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: But it could have been not that she married this crush,
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: but that if she was preoccupied with the crush, she
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: wouldn't have ended up with the other guy.
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that is true. Seven oh one two eight zero one,
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: nine eight seven. This is a great commo if you
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: have siblings, If you have an older sibling a younger sibling,
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: definitely want to hear both sides of the team here.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: Seven oh one two eight zero one, nine eighty seven.
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: This is also on Big ninety eight point seven's Facebook page.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: On the problem, Hailey wants to know if she's the problem,
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: if her older brother is the problem. So ten years ago, Uh,
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: she had a high school crush and her crush liked
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: her back, but she didn't know because her older brother,
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: who played on the same hockey team as him, forbade
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: her crush to date her.
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: And so she just found out and she big mad.
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: She's big mad because she ended up marrying who ended
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: up being her high school sweetheart. That was a bust
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: their divorced now. So she called her brother out on it,
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: and he.
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: Was like, that was your fault. Who cares if I'm meddled?
• 21:01
  Speaker 4: It sounds like such a sibling argument.
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: It really is, Am Gabe.
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: I think you'll be happy to know that someone agrees
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: with you.
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: I'm on the side. She's got a kind of she's
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: gotta let that go. That's ten years ago.
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: Well, Stephanie said, I agree with Gabe. That's just the
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: way older brothers are with their sisters. Y'all are family,
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: and that isn't something to be mad about. Angie, that
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: was ten years ago. Elowel, Okay, I'm aware that it
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: was ten years ago, but I don't care how.
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: Many years ago it happened. I'm someone who holds a grudge.
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: Okay, so if you wronged me ten years ago, I
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: don't forget. I just hold on to that until I
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: can strike at the right time, the right moment.
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: Now there's the logical side of me that yes, fine,
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: it was.
• 21:51
  Speaker 4: Ten years ago.
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: Julia says, it's not your brother's fault. Your ex husband
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: was a jerk. This guy may have been too. Being
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: mad about the what ifs is pointless. If the crush
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: really wanted he would have. Maybe the thing to focus
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: on is the potential with the crush.
• 22:08
  Speaker 4: Now that is true?
• 22:09
  Speaker 3: Why that part?
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: Why not?
• 22:11
  Speaker 4: Now you got you know, it.
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: Seemed like you both are into it back then. Who know,
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: you're definitely not the same person you were ten years ago.
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: So maybe this high school crush doesn't evolve into something
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: more than that.
• 22:21
  Speaker 4: But what's stopping you now?
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: But that's a cool story.
• 22:24
  Speaker 4: Yeah, guy, it's a cool story.
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: If you end up together.
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: Now you can be like, yes, because my brother forbade it,
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: and now.
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean, like for the lure alone,
• 22:36
  Speaker 3: you can't be mad at your brother. I've done a one.
• 22:38
  Speaker 4: Eighties Yeah, Lillian.
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: She also said, I also don't think it was the
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: brother's fault. If you really like that guy back then,
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: you shouldn't have let what your brother said get in
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: the way. And if he let what your brother said
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: get in the way, he obviously wasn't the one either.
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: It's nobody's fault you ended up with a crappy husband.
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: But you live and you learn.
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: It's easy to blame when we don't want accept what
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: we put ourselves through. That sounds like a little bit
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: of adversity, which we are all about here on Big
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: ninety eight point seven. There's no reason why you can't
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: let this potentially be a thing now, especially everyone's a
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: little bit older, a little more mature. Your older brother
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: was also a teen on the hockey team trying to
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: just be a big brother, or what he thought a
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: good big brother was. You can't be that upset at him,
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: and you can't be upset really in anybody who makes
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: decisions on relationships when they are in high school. All right,
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: we're all just trying to we're all just hoping, all right,
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: we all just hope and try for our best.
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: Jailey.
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: Everyone seems to think that you're the problem. But if
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: you want to vent more to me personally, go for it,
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: because I'll hold the grudge for you.
• 23:49
  Speaker 5: Starting off the day with something good. This is Gabe's
• 23:53
  Speaker 5: good news on Big ninety eight point seven.
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: In some chilly April weather, the community Morehead came together
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: for a pretty special moment.
• 24:02
  Speaker 4: Local scouts and volunteers.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: They helped carry the final books from the old public
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: library to its brand new home at the Loop, just
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: a few blocks away.
• 24:12
  Speaker 4: And it wasn't just a move. It was a tradition.
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: The same kind of book brigade happened back in nineteen
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: sixty two, making this really a full circle moment for
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: the community. The grand opening celebration was moved indoors thanks
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: to the cold, but that didn't stop the excitement. Leaders
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: like Mayor Shelley Carlson and Senator Tina Smith were on
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: hand to celebrate the new space, which features a library,
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: a walking loop, and a playground.
• 24:38
  Speaker 4: Really something for everybody here.
• 24:40
  Speaker 3: I'm so excited about this.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's a great reminder that even on a
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: cold day, community spirit can really show up strong.
• 24:47
  Speaker 4: So congratulations to the Loop.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: We've talked a bunch about this, and it's awesome to
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: see the grand finale kind of finally happen in people
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: showing up and being really excited about it despite it
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: being very windy this weekend.
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's not going to stop that.
• 25:00
  Speaker 4: That's right.
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: Don't forget my favorite quote, broken Craons. They still color
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: and the world is full of nice people. If you
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: can't find one, you gotta be one.