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- 0:30I Hate Talking: Welcome to episode 17 of I Hate Talking.
- 0:34I Hate Talking: Here to talk about my most hated topic.
- 0:38I Hate Talking: And what is your most hated topic?
- 0:41I Hate Talking: Money Money.
- 0:44I Hate Talking: So part three of our little.
- 0:47I Hate Talking: Unplanned money miniseries, uh, where we started out with inflation and money dysmorphia, then moved into in our most recent episode, the some of the strategies around budgeting and making sure that we are managing our social media inputs appropriately.
- 1:08I Hate Talking: As well as making sure that uh perhaps sharing some resources that are out there with others.
- 1:15I Hate Talking: And now we are on to part three, but before we do that, we always have a word or phrase of the episode, and what is our word or phrase of the episode in this episode?
- 1:27I Hate Talking: Native.
- 1:29I Hate Talking: I said it so well the first time, no, nativity.
- 1:37I Hate Talking: Nativity?
- 1:39I Hate Talking: No, not like Christmas, not baby Jesus.
- 1:44I Hate Talking: N oh no, now you're in my head.
- 1:49I Hate Talking: So that would be the word naive.
- 1:53I Hate Talking: Naivetivity, nativity.
- 1:57I Hate Talking: No, -- I -- can't even say it properly.
- 2:00I Hate Talking: So what does the word nagativity mean?
- 2:05I Hate Talking: You have the dictionary in front, don't you?
- 2:08I Hate Talking: I like it?
- 2:10I Hate Talking: Oh no.
- 2:11I Hate Talking: Well.
- 2:12I Hate Talking: -- I don't even know how to spell -- it.
- 2:16I Hate Talking: We're laughing because I said the word.
- 2:20I Hate Talking: And Adam was very impressed that I um said it so clearly.
- 2:25I Hate Talking: Cause I don't think it's any surprise to anyone that I do not, I struggle to speak clearly sometimes.
- 2:31I Hate Talking: And that's a hard word to say.
- 2:34I Hate Talking: And now we're tripped up and neither of us can say it right.
- 2:36I Hate Talking: Indeed, so.
- 2:39I Hate Talking: Naivety.
- 2:41I Hate Talking: I can't say it properly either.
- 2:44I Hate Talking: Naivety, naivety.
- 2:49I Hate Talking: So, That particular word is from being naive, but it is the actual noun of having the lack of experience, wisdom or judgment.
- 3:06I Hate Talking: So this actually is from the French for naivete and uh comes from basically that status or state of being naive, again, that Apparent or actual lack of experience or sophistication.
- 3:22I Hate Talking: Sounds good.
- 3:23I Hate Talking: So now you no longer need be naive on the definition of naivety.
- 3:30I Hate Talking: Not to be mistaken with nativity.
- 3:34I Hate Talking: Exactly.
- 3:35I Hate Talking: So we are going to continue, as we said on this discussion on money and again move into perhaps some things that have either worked or not worked in our own personal experience with regards to strategies around budgeting and money management and just dealing with economic downturns or upturns when we find that we are within those things.
- 4:00I Hate Talking: And for this particular topic, we're going to continue with cost tracking.
- 4:09I Hate Talking: Oh yeah, that's one of the things that's most helpful for me.
- 4:14I Hate Talking: I go through phases.
- 4:16I Hate Talking: Right now I'm one in one of those phases where I'm trying to track all the money I'm spending makes me really think twice about making a purchase, because I have to go right down that number on my little spreadsheet.
- 4:30I Hate Talking: And it's also been interesting a coup I do separate up by weeks now.
- 4:34I Hate Talking: And like what I buy at Target versus Kroger or um.
- 4:39I Hate Talking: Chick fil A and that sort of thing.
- 4:42I Hate Talking: I have like, so I can see how often I patron all those places.
- 4:48I Hate Talking: Um, one month or one week.
- 4:50I Hate Talking: I was $1 off.
- 4:53I Hate Talking: Um, now I just round up.
- 4:55I Hate Talking: I don't do scents.
- 4:57I Hate Talking: But with each purchase, I just round to the nearest $1 higher, and I was only $1 off two weeks in a row.
- 5:04I Hate Talking: So I thought that was pretty good that I'm sticking.
- 5:07I Hate Talking: At least for those 2 weeks, pretty consistent on my purchases.
- 5:11I Hate Talking: That is very good.
- 5:12I Hate Talking: And uh yeah, when we're doing our budgets again, maybe perhaps a call back to our last episode in budgets, but uh for our budget, we balance that down to the penny.
- 5:23I Hate Talking: You do.
- 5:25I Hate Talking: I do and I.
- 5:27I Hate Talking: I think that is only because my mom was an accountant and drilled that into me.
- 5:32I Hate Talking: So shout out to my mom for the accuracy down to the dollars and cents.
- 5:40I Hate Talking: So for my particular cost tracking, I also do something similar, uh, but I will actually get an alert for every expense on any sort of electronic transaction that happens for any of our accounts.
- 5:59I Hate Talking: Years ago, I was with a friend and we went through the McDonald's drive-through to get a soda.
- 6:05I Hate Talking: And so you text and you're like, enjoying your soda?
- 6:08I Hate Talking: And she was so impressed that you knew what I was doing, or so shocked.
- 6:13I Hate Talking: Uh maybe a little freaked out that you were tracking me so much.
- 6:17I Hate Talking: But I was like, no, he's, he gets notifications on his phone.
- 6:21I Hate Talking: He knows that if I spent $1.10 at McDonald's.
- 6:24I Hate Talking: It's um a soda I bought.
- 6:27I Hate Talking: Exactly, so those are things that typically most financial institutions with either a credit card or a debit card will allow you to set alerts uh that can also have the benefit of notifying you of any potentially fraudulent expenditures.
- 6:45I Hate Talking: So if your credit card happens to fall into wrong hands that and they start spending money that you'll see these alerts and be able to put a stop to that.
- 6:53I Hate Talking: Uh, but it also, I think, again, going back to maybe perhaps one of the Ramsey solutions in terms of the envelopes and the actual physical money, these alerts do make it a little bit more tactile in terms of what you're actually spending.
- 7:09I Hate Talking: That you'll have a record of it, that you'll get the alert that it's not just you scan all the groceries at the checkout and swipe the card and move on with your life, but that there is a small amount of additional attention brought to your mind in terms of your expenditure, uh, for in our case, any expense, one penny or more.
- 7:34I Hate Talking: I think that's super practical to have, cause also what if somebody steals.
- 7:40I Hate Talking: are hard.
- 7:43I Hate Talking: Like you can get your fraud checked quickly.
- 7:46I Hate Talking: If we know that we aren't buying anything.
- 7:50I Hate Talking: Or maybe something was ran twice on accident.
- 7:54I Hate Talking: You can uh notice that quicker than waiting for your statement.
- 7:57I Hate Talking: Also, one year you challenged me.
- 8:01I Hate Talking: It wasn't for your credit cards or bank cards.
- 8:05I Hate Talking: That's what we're talking about right now is the practical use for that.
- 8:09I Hate Talking: But when December, Um, I got cash and I could, I did not use my card.
- 8:16I Hate Talking: Now, you paid our stuff, you paid our water bill and stuff like that using cards.
- 8:21I Hate Talking: Uh, for food, gas, any extra purchases, um, I had to use cash and it was very Difficult to budget because I knew I needed this money to last.
- 8:36I Hate Talking: It was also shocking when I was buying with people, how many employees would be shocked they had cash and were struggling themselves to count out change.
- 8:47I Hate Talking: So it's so quick, just to swipe, and now you just tap.
- 8:51I Hate Talking: You don't even have to.
- 8:53I Hate Talking: Really pull out your card.
- 8:55I Hate Talking: Yeah, and in today's day and age, you don't even have to go to the store.
- 8:59I Hate Talking: You can just buy it online, process the thing electronically and have it delivered right to you.
- 9:04I Hate Talking: OK, but also, can that also um you can tell me if you disagree, that I feel like also helps me with my budget.
- 9:12I Hate Talking: Um, we use Kroger, sounds bougie, but we use Kroger delivery now for our groceries.
- 9:20I Hate Talking: It is so nice because you get the gas points and so the To fill up my minivan, it's a lot cheaper.
- 9:28I Hate Talking: But when I'm sitting down, I can meal plan, I can see what's on sale.
- 9:34I Hate Talking: And plan what we have and very strategically buy stuff, versus if I'm at the store and impulse buy, like, oh, that's on sale, oh, that looks delicious.
- 9:45I Hate Talking: Um, this way, I feel like I stick easier with the budget.
- 9:50I Hate Talking: Uh, when I'm looking.
- 9:52I Hate Talking: In my car on my phone.
- 9:55I Hate Talking: Versus just in my cart physically shopping.
- 9:59I Hate Talking: I think I save more money and stick with the budget when I'm shopping from home, versus if I'm in the store impulse buying.
- 10:07I Hate Talking: Exactly.
- 10:09I Hate Talking: And also within those apps, you already mentioned that you're getting some points and can identify perhaps more quickly what you are buying that's on sale at one store versus the other, rather than looking at the particular quote unquote circular as it used to be called for different grocery store advertisements.
- 10:30I Hate Talking: Uh, and as well, you also have a history of your purchases that you could see what you are frequently purchasing and perhaps what is being consumed most often and potentially perhaps finding a cheaper substitute for those items if it's uh a highly expensive item or uh seeing how the costs have changed over time, which is actually an interesting anecdote that relates to some of our discussion on inflation.
- 11:00I Hate Talking: There was actually a Redditor that went back and looked at their Walmart purchasing history and they had a store purchase from January of 2020 for 30 items, and that cost them $70.29.
- 11:15I Hate Talking: And they did a little experiment where they added those same exact 30 items to their store for uh this was.
- 11:25I Hate Talking: Back in June of 2024, so about 4.5 years later, that.
- 11:34I Hate Talking: Order for the exact same 30 items.
- 11:37I Hate Talking: Supposedly because we know that quality also has decreased to some degree, but the dollar amount for those same 30 items was $165.42 which represents a 135% increase in the cost of goods over those 4.5 years.
- 11:57I Hate Talking: Wow.
- 11:58I Hate Talking: That's insane.
- 12:00I Hate Talking: But also, I guess it shows that my thinking.
- 12:04I Hate Talking: is developing along with purchasing.
- 12:09I Hate Talking: Like, I'm used to these prices.
- 12:11I Hate Talking: Because when you said that, I was like, wait, is that tax, the $70 is that tax included or not?
- 12:17I Hate Talking: Because 30 items for $70 that's just a little over $2 an item.
- 12:22I Hate Talking: What is he buying that's all these items that are just $2 each.
- 12:26I Hate Talking: So they had on the screenshot that they shared, uh, a granola bar, single serve, uh, two boxes of cereals, a bag of tortilla chips and some popcorn.
- 12:38I Hate Talking: So, uh, that's the only thing that is visible in the screenshot.
- 12:42I Hate Talking: So perhaps some items that, uh, Or maybe $1 or $2 all the way up to maybe a few dollars and then maybe some larger items.
- 12:52I Hate Talking: OK, and maybe like apples, are they counting apples individual because apples now are over $1 a piece usually.
- 12:58I Hate Talking: Yes, this would be in whatever grouping the Walmart app does it.
- 13:03I Hate Talking: I think these would be probably.
- 13:04I Hate Talking: Line items, the actual individual skew, but um, hard to say, but yes, nonetheless, 30 items, $70 the same 30 items.
- 13:14I Hate Talking: Up to 165 dollars.
- 13:17I Hate Talking: But obviously, 4 years later.
- 13:19I Hate Talking: His salary, like we're talking about before with inflation, it is not.
- 13:24I Hate Talking: Unless he is some big mogul for whatever, his salary hasn't increased that much.
- 13:31I Hate Talking: Highly unlikely and I think the normal experience is that uh during those COVID times, people were either getting very minute increases or no increases at all or even some people being furloughed or laid off and uh that there's no way that they had a 135% wage increase over those 4.5 years.
- 13:53I Hate Talking: It was probably more somewhere in the neighborhood of I would guess 7 to 8% over that 4.5 year period.
- 14:00I Hate Talking: OK, so call back to our word of the day.
- 14:03I Hate Talking: But like, I just feel like I'm super naive.
- 14:07I Hate Talking: What did we do with all that money 4 years ago?
- 14:10I Hate Talking: Or are we as a society just in debt more than we were 4 years ago?
- 14:17I Hate Talking: So, as a nation, and some of the things that we talked about as well in terms of the comparative nature of how we're doing financially being appropriate or not appropriate, but one thing that we can determine is that this is a period of time that The American citizen has the most amount of debt that they have ever had within our lifetime.
- 14:43I Hate Talking: So not Cause boomers, right, like baby boomers, um, their generation had quite a bit of debt.
- 14:52I Hate Talking: So, and then they all, not all, many of them got out of it and reworked their finances.
- 14:59I Hate Talking: So since that generation, so basically since baby boomers were our age, was that the last time.
- 15:06I Hate Talking: That was seen like this?
- 15:08I Hate Talking: Is that what you're saying?
- 15:09I Hate Talking: No, I'm just indicating that for Our lifetime, so the last uh You know, 30 to 40 years that this is the highest per capita.
- 15:24I Hate Talking: Debt load that has existed in, OK, so you can't blame it on just credit cards, cause that's what I think the generation.
- 15:35I Hate Talking: Or so or two before I.
- 15:37I Hate Talking: Got into troubles with the creation of credit.
- 15:41I Hate Talking: Credit cards.
- 15:43I Hate Talking: Yes, and that is the theory on a number of people that I follow that this.
- 15:50I Hate Talking: Credit card debt remains at record levels because Americans are relying on those credit cards due to inflation.
- 15:59I Hate Talking: So, to answer your question in terms of what we're doing with the money that was left over from purchasing the 30 items for $70 it was either going into savings or that is the money that we had.
- 16:12I Hate Talking: And now perhaps in this theoretical scenario, we only have $80 to $90 to spend on those 30 items.
- 16:20I Hate Talking: So the remainder of the 75 to $85 is going onto a credit card to be dealt with later.
- 16:29I Hate Talking: Wow.
- 16:30I Hate Talking: So In my scenario, I'm thinking, oh well, in his scenario, he bought the granola bars.
- 16:37I Hate Talking: I said apples earlier, but he had a granola bar.
- 16:40I Hate Talking: So he's paying a ton of money for that granola bar if he's paying interest on it then.
- 16:47I Hate Talking: Exactly.
- 16:48I Hate Talking: So the estimates say that about on average 9.8% of the household income goes to managing debt payments.
- 16:59I Hate Talking: Just for credit cards.
- 17:01I Hate Talking: OK, that's what I'm saying, like, is that including school debts or anything?
- 17:06I Hate Talking: Because there's some debts, I mean, unless you are.
- 17:09I Hate Talking: come from a family that um is able to help a lot financially or you win the lottery or whatnot.
- 17:17I Hate Talking: That is It is a big part of our society because you have a house, if you buy a house, if you buy a car.
- 17:24I Hate Talking: Most people do not, aren't able to save up for that stuff.
- 17:29I Hate Talking: At least very easily to get it.
- 17:32I Hate Talking: To pay in cash or whatnot.
- 17:35I Hate Talking: So you do have debt.
- 17:36I Hate Talking: As a society, um, culturally here, right?
- 17:41I Hate Talking: Yes, I think so.
- 17:42I Hate Talking: I think, you know, some of those things are in terms of having debt on a physical asset like a home or a car, um, are Less of a liability, right, because you have that physical asset against the, the asset, whereas revolving debt with like credit cards and things of that nature are less so.
- 18:02I Hate Talking: I think that again, if you're responsible with it, you actually can benefit from it because there's a number of things that offer points or cash back or Uh, some of the things that we talked about last month with deferred payments depending on when expenses and incomes are hitting in terms of time and that you actually have some.
- 18:23I Hate Talking: Time to value on that cash, uh, that you can make interest rate and actually uh make a little bit of interest versus paying the interest.
- 18:33I Hate Talking: Um, but nonetheless, you have to be responsible with those things.
- 18:36I Hate Talking: And again, if you're in a point where you don't have a cushion and you're in debt, you don't really have any physical asset in order to liquidate to be able to overcome that particular debt.
- 18:48I Hate Talking: Right.
- 18:49I Hate Talking: And I mean, there are ways you can use.
- 18:51I Hate Talking: Again, like you said earlier, how you would, um, how you differ with Ramsey since he's um very against that.
- 18:59I Hate Talking: Is there are ways you can use it for your benefits, like, Um, getting the points, getting paying cash back, all that sort of thing.
- 19:10I Hate Talking: Um.
- 19:10I Hate Talking: But also as a society, we need credit cards in a way, right?
- 19:17I Hate Talking: Cause that's how you're gonna build your credit score to buy a car or to buy a house.
- 19:22I Hate Talking: It does have an input into your credit score uh with regards to how you're managing revolving debt through a credit card, uh, as well as building up your credit history and uh the Most important thing on that is on time payments of at least the minimum payment for anything, mortgage, a auto loan note or your credit card and that's uh one of the things that will be important as well as your Debt limit to income ratio being important in terms of how much debt you have versus how much income that you have, um, from my experiences are, I think two critical things that impact your uh credit score, um.
- 20:06I Hate Talking: It's interesting to note that if you do have a credit card and are paying off the full balance every time that actually may not benefit your credit history that much, you actually need a little bit of balance to remain on there, uh, because then you're actually in debt, quote unquote, and uh that will have a more positive acceleration on a good credit score as long as you're again managing that debt to income ratio and making all your payments on time.
- 20:34I Hate Talking: And then how do you find out?
- 20:37I Hate Talking: Is that based on all, is that just a general rule of thumb, or is that based on certain credit card companies, that's what they like to see?
- 20:46I Hate Talking: That is typically based on the 3 credit.
- 20:50I Hate Talking: Score companies that do this as a living uh that go into that particular calculation.
- 20:59I Hate Talking: OK.
- 21:01I Hate Talking: So, all in all, right, the thing that we're getting at in terms of the concrete strategy for this particular episode is tracking every cost, balancing the budget, uh, in our case down to the penny, and making sure that we understand where all our money is coming from, which is going to be for most people quite a bit easier in terms of having a job that is where you're getting your income.
- 21:28I Hate Talking: As well as more in more complex fashion where all your money is going with regards to reviewing credit card statements or getting credit card alerts and reviewing where all your debit card transactions are coming from and everything that is going out of your checking and savings account.
- 21:46I Hate Talking: And to that end, one of the things that I think is a legitimate thing to check on.
- 21:51I Hate Talking: Uh, although I think it has become somewhat of a overused trope is looking at your monthly expenses as it relates to subscription services.
- 22:03I Hate Talking: So that is one thing that you can look at in terms of what you're paying for a TV subscription or a music subscription.
- 22:12I Hate Talking: Don't cancel Spotify so that you can continue to listen to us.
- 22:16I Hate Talking: But those are things that again are things that you can evaluate and determine if you are really getting the necessary benefit out of it for the cost or where you could cut those costs again if you're dealing with the rise of the cost with things that you need in terms of food or basic necessities that uh these are things that maybe you have to make the hard decision that you hit pause on or cancel outright.
- 22:43I Hate Talking: Uh, for that time being, so that you can manage your budget accordingly.
- 22:48I Hate Talking: Yeah, it's so hard nowadays because You know, I like to watch The Office, so that's the peacock, and so that's a certain amount.
- 22:59I Hate Talking: And then the kids like Netflix and Disney Plus and Apple TV and Again, I was saying, yeah, I feel like I keep going back to like, it's just a couple dollars.
- 23:11I Hate Talking: But then when you're adding all those up.
- 23:13I Hate Talking: It really um can start taking a big chunk of the money away.
- 23:20I Hate Talking: And how often are we really watching so and so, you know, like, is it worth?
- 23:25I Hate Talking: $5 an episode if we only watch two shows a month on it.
- 23:30I Hate Talking: Exactly.
- 23:32I Hate Talking: All things that must be considered with regards to your expenses.
- 23:35I Hate Talking: And the other thing that we've touched on as well in our episode two episodes ago was not only the cost side, but also the income side.
- 23:45I Hate Talking: So anything else on the cost side before we talk on a few things related to the income side?
- 23:51I Hate Talking: Yeah, we'll just real quick on what you were saying about the subscriptions.
- 23:55I Hate Talking: I will own that I fall for this constantly and it makes me so frustrated.
- 24:01I Hate Talking: But they'll have a sale, like, 06 months for $2 or something.
- 24:07I Hate Talking: So, I sign up.
- 24:08I Hate Talking: And then I do not cancel it before that subscription ends and then you get charged.
- 24:15I Hate Talking: We do that with a couple of meal services, they'll send me a coupon.
- 24:19I Hate Talking: I'm like, oh, this is awesome.
- 24:20I Hate Talking: I can't even pay this at the grocery store.
- 24:23I Hate Talking: And then I'll be really consistent about skipping meals for a while, uh, deliveries, they let you do that, um, but you have to go in and manually skip them, and then I'll miss one, and then we get a full price delivery.
- 24:39I Hate Talking: I forgot to skip that week, and it's so frustrating.
- 24:44I Hate Talking: Yep, and I'll find out about it as soon as I see the charge on the credit card with that alert and know that uh you forgot to skip that one.
- 24:52I Hate Talking: And uh And then that's how I know we have groceries coming.
- 24:57I Hate Talking: It's when I text you and say, I see we got another every plate.
- 25:01I Hate Talking: Yeah.
- 25:01I Hate Talking: Indeed, so, uh, on the income side, like we talked about before, one of the most important things, uh, that is your particular asset is your own intrinsic ability, your health and ability to do a job and generate income.
- 25:20I Hate Talking: So that is also something that you need to consider on how to protect and develop in terms of your own abilities to generate income.
- 25:31I Hate Talking: Whether that be through career development or just healthy living, so that you can continue to be a productive member within your job place and continue to receive a paycheck, uh, because again, when we are Living pay check to paycheck or uh are in a particular debt scenario if we do have a particular accident or unhealthy thing that we encounter and are unable to generate income, that cushion does become so much more important and uh there's even opportunities with uh particular insurances that If you are living a more dangerous lifestyle and doing uh sports or martial arts or things of that nature that you can even buy accident insurance and those are all costs and benefits that one must determine how they pursue or not pursue, uh, but nonetheless, the, the bottom line making sure that you protect your own health and ability in order to generate that income.
- 26:35I Hate Talking: As well as just develop skills that can make you more of an asset within the job place, uh, which hopefully will lead to raises and promotions um beyond the, the average.
- 26:47I Hate Talking: Yeah, I like that um you can bring it back to money.
- 26:52I Hate Talking: I think one of the reasons I hate talking about money.
- 26:56I Hate Talking: So much is that it just seems cold.
- 27:00I Hate Talking: It's this bottom line number.
- 27:03I Hate Talking: Uh, just saying that like we're all people and We all have our intrinsic.
- 27:10I Hate Talking: Worth And uh so what can we do to Help ourselves, help society, help our families.
- 27:20I Hate Talking: Like right now, I do not make any income.
- 27:23I Hate Talking: I stay home and uh.
- 27:26I Hate Talking: Take care of the kids and the family and stuff.
- 27:29I Hate Talking: But you are so much more than just the person who brings a paycheck home so I can go buy stuff.
- 27:36I Hate Talking: Indeed, and that brings us to our final point for this episode is when you are managing your costs and you are doing things to pursue additional income generation or at least stabilizing that is what you can do with your potential excess money.
- 27:57I Hate Talking: Uh, we've mentioned some of the things around saving or investing, but one of the other critical things is donations, charity, and giving.
- 28:06I Hate Talking: Yeah, I think that's excellent.
- 28:09I Hate Talking: So, When you do have those things and you have the ability to again recognize the intrinsic value of others, you can donate that money to causes as you see fit, as well as support your local community, your local church or whatever particular.
- 28:30I Hate Talking: Nonprofit Entities that uh you most subscribe to, uh, those are things that benefit the community as well as ensure that we have a healthy outlook on money and consumption and helping others.
- 28:48I Hate Talking: Yeah, I love that.
- 28:49I Hate Talking: Um, Because many times in our lives, we've had times where people have helped us.
- 28:55I Hate Talking: Having the joy to be able to help people is a real blessing.
- 28:59I Hate Talking: And if I can just share like a quick anecdote.
- 29:02I Hate Talking: Uh, every time I get stressed about money, uh, my dad was always really quick to remind me about, um, because you're talking about giving the importance of it.
- 29:11I Hate Talking: My parents had an older child, a child before I was born who was very ill.
- 29:16I Hate Talking: And um they couldn't pay their hospital bills.
- 29:20I Hate Talking: They wanted to, they were trying to, but they just physically did not have the money.
- 29:25I Hate Talking: Doctors and the nurses took up a fund for him.
- 29:28I Hate Talking: Help pay those bills and still to this day, my dad talks about that all the time as a how good people can be and how generous that when they were at their saddest and their hardest part of their life, that hopefully they never have to do anything that hard again.
- 29:44I Hate Talking: With this um sick child who ultimately passed away.
- 29:48I Hate Talking: They didn't have the weight of paying all those bills for essentially the rest of their life on them.
- 29:55I Hate Talking: Um, the doctors and nurses were so generous and really took the one really difficult part away from them at their hardest part of their life.
- 30:04I Hate Talking: Indeed, so we've talked about a number of concrete things that one can do to manage their expenses, budget accordingly, perhaps, uh, further income generation, but at the end of the day, these things in terms of helping others are critical to keep in the forefront of our mind in terms of what we can do with our wealth when we have it.
- 30:29I Hate Talking: And those are things that we want to encourage our listeners to consider as well.
- 30:35I Hate Talking: So, from your friends at I Hate Talking, until next time, remember, it is only through talking that we begin the journey to understanding.