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Episode 154: FIFA, Facelifts, and Freshmen Home for the Summer with Melissa Radke · MESSmerized - Funny and faith based encouragement in marriage , family , Christian parenting , and finding purpose

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[SPEAKER_00]: This is Cynthia Gannoff and you are listening to the mesmerized podcast.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Hey friends, welcome to the show.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I mean, seriously, two weeks in a row, I've released mesmerized on time.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I know, round of applause, right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: If you haven't caught onto this, we're having trouble over here this summer staying on track with all the fun and the crazy and busyness.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And so, yeah, I'm giving myself some grace.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But here we are, two weeks in a row.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So the hope and plan is is that July will have shows out for you every week, and then August we're going to take a little time off as Kate, my daughter, who also edits his podcast.
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[SPEAKER_00]: As she gets moved and starts law school, and then obviously we'll be moving our Sun Brett back to college August, and our little one will be starting for
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[SPEAKER_00]: fourth grade everybody so we're gonna take a little time in August to regroup as a family get everybody where they belong and then I've been telling you this and I'll say it again would you take a minute and go to Cynthiaganoff.com and put in your email address.
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[SPEAKER_00]: There's a spot on the front page where you can just like
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[SPEAKER_00]: Sign up for newsletters and we all know there's not a lot of newsletters coming out from me just once a week in email about the podcast That will help me as I consider the changes that I may be making this fall to mesmerize And I would like for you guys to give input the ones who listen to it to give me input So I'll be sending out a survey and a place for you to respond directly to me with some thoughts And so if you are not already signed up on Cynthia again off dot com would you please please do that?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, you guys, Melissa Radke is here today.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Last week, I gave you Jonathan Pitts, and we talked all the hard things in life.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And this week, I gave you Melissa Radke.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We're gonna talk about all the funny things in life.
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[SPEAKER_01]: So if you are here today for a deep theological truth, you have come to the wrong show.
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[SPEAKER_01]: But if you are here for some laughs, if you wanna hear what we are interested in and what we are not interested in, then this is the place.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Melissa Radke is an author.
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[SPEAKER_01]: She wrote one of my favorite books, Chicken Fried Women.
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[SPEAKER_01]: She's an author, she's a podcaster, she's an influencer, and I mean that in the best way possible.
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[SPEAKER_01]: If you don't follow Melissa Radke, you need to on Instagram, she's so much fun.
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[SPEAKER_01]: But every few months, I feel like I just have to catch up with her, and so that's what we're doing here.
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[SPEAKER_01]: We're catching up on all the things, talking about summer, and I know you're gonna laugh because she's hilarious.
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[SPEAKER_01]: So thanks for joining us.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Here we go with Melissa Radke.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Melissa, welcome.
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[SPEAKER_00]: What?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, sorry.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Hi.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Little paranoid or anything?
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[SPEAKER_00]: We good?
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[SPEAKER_00]: What?
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[SPEAKER_00]: What do you need?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Melissa, is it how to pendant that I'm like, oh, a lot's happening in the world in life?
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[SPEAKER_00]: I got to check in with Melissa.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's been a few months.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Is that, I mean, I just feel like if it goes too long to spend a time that I got to figure out what's happening, I got to check in.
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[SPEAKER_02]: No, it's not, to me, it's not weird at all.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Honestly, I wasn't lunch today with some of the women
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[SPEAKER_02]: And I got up first and I said, okay guys, I have to go they said why I said I've got a podcast and interview to do and they all were like, oh, oh, yeah, that's so fit.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And I said no, it's Cynthia.
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[SPEAKER_02]: No, it's not fancy.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I was like, no, it's Cynthia.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And they're like, who?
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[SPEAKER_02]: And I was like, Cynthia, you know, I've, guys don't you'll listen and you'll pay attention to anything I do ever.
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[SPEAKER_02]: But talking to you has become, honestly, something I really look forward to.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And I'm going to tell you, I'm a girls girl, but I can't say that about my new girls.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Like, I really enjoy this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So, well, here's sweet, and thank you for saying that, and I always have so much fun, but I have to start with this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You had a car accident.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Are you okay?
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[SPEAKER_00]: You went in an ambulance.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Yeah.
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[SPEAKER_02]: It was such a scary thing.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I haven't been in a car accident in a million years.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And I did what I was supposed to do.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I stopped that I stopped on.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Someone else did not do what they were supposed to do.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Right.
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[SPEAKER_02]: She just ran right through it.
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[SPEAKER_02]: She said she didn't even see it.
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[SPEAKER_02]: It happens.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I wasn't angry at her.
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[SPEAKER_02]: But I mean, when I saw that car just out of the corner of your eye, like, it's so terrifying.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And also, I felt like I had my baby in the car because my dog was with me.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I'm not one of those people that puts a dog in a seat belt.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Like, I'm not that girl.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I mean, but it was really, really scary.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And so they did, they put me in an ambulance, they took me away.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I had a terrible headache.
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[SPEAKER_02]: So I thought, there's bleeding on the brain for sure.
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[SPEAKER_02]: That's where you go to the other side.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
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[SPEAKER_02]: OK, I'm moving a little slower, but I'm OK.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Okay, well I'm so glad that you're okay and that's scary and and all sincerity.
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[SPEAKER_01]: I'm so thankful you're fine and I was following some of that on our social if you're not following Melissa Radke, you need to be but I now I need to take it down another level.
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[SPEAKER_01]: I've written an ambulance once.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Can we have a conversation just real quick about the writing in the ambulance?
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[SPEAKER_01]: Okay,
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[SPEAKER_01]: There's just, there's a lot of factors.
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[SPEAKER_01]: The little bed they have you on, guys.
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[SPEAKER_01]: It's real narrow.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And so it is very narrow.
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[SPEAKER_02]: But here's what's funny.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Not only is there a lot going on, but there's a lot going on with young, hunky man.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I didn't have the, you know, I didn't have the,
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[SPEAKER_02]: 300 pounds strong lesbian like woman.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I didn't.
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[SPEAKER_02]: There was none of them inside.
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[SPEAKER_02]: They were all in their 20s.
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[SPEAKER_02]: They all had mess dashes and clean cuts.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Should I have known this?
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[SPEAKER_02]: No, I should have kept my eyes closed in my neck break zone.
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[SPEAKER_02]: But I kept looking and I'm like, why are they the ones that are about to pick this bed up and put it out of this ambulance?
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[SPEAKER_02]: That is mortifying.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Why?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Well, I'm sick enough.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I don't deserve to have the emotional distress that comes with that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: There's this narrow little bird thing you're on and it can't hold you.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I mean, you're flopping off every side of it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know who it's designed for, but it is not for the Metapausal woman.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to tell you that because I mean, there's some girth.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And so you're on this board.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And then there's all these things around you and there's not.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And when I was in it, there was
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[SPEAKER_00]: three to four people in there with me.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And if you have a week's stomach, just hit me for a second, mine had some complicating factors because I now knowing what I know.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It was during COVID.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I had pancreatitis and I had my gallbladder out.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Really exciting.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know you're 120 years old when you get your gallbladder out.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But here's the thing.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm not only throwing up.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm also having issues on the other end, both sides.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And they're trying to keep a mask on me.
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[SPEAKER_00]: because it's COVID and it's horrifying.
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[SPEAKER_01]: And I finally get there.
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[SPEAKER_01]: And I mean, I mean,
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[SPEAKER_00]: Every orifice is not is doing things.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It shouldn't be happening and there's the hot guy with the must the hot guys with the mustache and then I'm like, well, at least I've thrown up a bunch when they lift me surely I'm lighter now surely to go I'm not, but no you're just as your gallbladder has blown up to be a 25 pounds or whatever.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, I don't I'm kidding.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I don't know if that's the case, but I'll tell you this in mine.
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[SPEAKER_02]: They would take my temperature and then I would do my blood pressure and then there's a you've got that and that's that's 24 and we got that 40 overs or 60 overs or 60 overs only got quiet for a minute.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I went When are y'all going to cut my shirt off?
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[SPEAKER_00]: They go, do you need us to miss Racky and all that?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Uh-huh.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They're like, all right.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We got a creeper in the ambulance, I have everyone that we have to lift out of here.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, yeah.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I have a creeper.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, my gosh.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Well, I just wondered, and I did ask if they would turn on the sirens, and they declined that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Did you get the sirens?
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[SPEAKER_00]: I did not get the sirens.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I did.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I mean, I'll have you know, if I have to sit in their puking and everything else with a mask on, on a board I don't fit on, I would like you to turn it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That may not be your definition of emergency, but it's mine.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Wouldn't the heck, I said, yeah, I didn't either.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I'm a regional celebrity.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I tell my parents that all the time.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Why wouldn't they cut it all for me?
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[SPEAKER_02]: If it, I would close your thing.
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[SPEAKER_02]: The lady Gaga, we've gotten this down.
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[SPEAKER_00]: a local celebrity.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Do you know who I am?
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[SPEAKER_00]: I try that in Dallas.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It'd be like, no, man, nobody knows who you are, but thank you.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Moving on.
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[SPEAKER_00]: All right, well, interesting.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You moved your sweet daughter home from freshman year, right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: She's a freshman, right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now it's all for, right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, now she's a sophomore.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I hear you got problems with it, lady.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I hear you've got a little attitude about it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'd like to talk about it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I want you to know that I feel like we're good enough friends since you finally followed me on social after 72 podcasts that and that was really something.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I nearly turned on sirens for that moment.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Here's what, here's what I know.
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[SPEAKER_01]: You and I both have a freshman college, and I have an older one in a younger, but you have a younger.
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[SPEAKER_01]: But we have that same one in common.
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[SPEAKER_01]: You have a girl of a boy.
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[SPEAKER_01]: And I got charged with picking, said kid up from college with this stuff.
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[SPEAKER_01]: And it's a boy and it's different.
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[SPEAKER_01]: But when I got there, there was, there was a couple of shoes.
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[SPEAKER_01]: There's a fire lane, and there's parents parked in the fire lane to pick up their kid in their belongings, but you, in that's fine.
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[SPEAKER_01]: So, you please.
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[SPEAKER_01]: but be actively engaged in moving.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Like, I don't know if I don't go to the country.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Like, I can't see anybody come or go from said vehicle in the three hours that I'm schlepping all the way down the way because there's nowhere for me to park.
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[SPEAKER_01]: But then, up pulls a moving van.
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[SPEAKER_01]: And I'm like,
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[SPEAKER_01]: Okay, let's talk about this moving then.
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[SPEAKER_01]: And I watch, and I see them go in and get into girl stuff.
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[SPEAKER_01]: And I'm the dumb one who didn't even bring the sports wagon Melissa, bring something Cynthia.
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[SPEAKER_01]: I'm just walking with a lamp in a hand and, you know, a rogue like fishing pole, because it's a boy.
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[SPEAKER_01]: And then I see these moving crews come and buy.
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[SPEAKER_01]: And I mean, if there's a, I'm like, you got to be kidding.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Who hires a moving crew to move your kid out of their freshman dorm?
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[SPEAKER_01]: I do.
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[SPEAKER_01]: I do.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I'm a rat kid.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I do and I repent not and I won't even say sorry not sorry.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I did it and I will tell you it's the best decision we've made.
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[SPEAKER_02]: If you know that your kid is going back to that university, why wouldn't you do it?
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[SPEAKER_02]: Because what they're doing
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[SPEAKER_02]: So especially long distance, how far is the drive from where you live in that university?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Between Dallas and College Station, is three and a half hours.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And so three and a half hours.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And by the way, little, let me interjectle something here.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We have a storage unit there.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So why wouldn't I at least hire them to move it to the storage unit?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now, I moved it to the storage unit without my husband with me and my son packed the cars took half of it there, brought the other half home that didn't fit in the storage unit and now it's
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[SPEAKER_02]: Well, why?
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[SPEAKER_02]: That doesn't even make sense to me.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I understand that the process, it's very expensive to get movers, right?
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[SPEAKER_02]: But this was, I saw an ad and it was, it was a group of guys.
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[SPEAKER_02]: They look like your average, all American sweet heart guys and they firemen are ambience, guys.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I don't, what is this I, Cynthia, David Radke brings me notes all the time to read and he has got the handwriting of a serial killer.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I can't read one thing.
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[SPEAKER_02]: It's, it look like he just said, bass August month.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I don't know what it said, but that even man.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Great.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Great.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That's helpful.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, were they hunky, were they hunky ambulance guys that moved her?
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[SPEAKER_02]: Ah, no, they really weren't.
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[SPEAKER_02]: They were just like all American college guys.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And first of all, they because they're just trying to make a living.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Let's help them out.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And so, but when I found out that what they do is they go in and they pack it all up so it's safe.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And then they put it in a storage unit and then part of the contract is they help her move in next semester.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I was done for.
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[SPEAKER_02]: That was like, I was sold.
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[SPEAKER_02]: That's a great idea to me.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Because she's moving into a sorority house.
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[SPEAKER_02]: So eight hours away, we're seven and a half.
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[SPEAKER_02]: We didn't have to trick.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Then pack it all up.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Then drop seven and a half hours back for it to sit in my dining room.
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[SPEAKER_02]: It just seemed like a good deal.
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[SPEAKER_02]: David ended up talking to the guy that owns it.
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[SPEAKER_02]: They've become friends.
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[SPEAKER_02]: David's helping him out with his marketing online.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It turned out to be a great deal for us.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I've just, I loved it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: At a minimum, we can hope that David isn't writing him, chicken scratch notes, and actually communicating via email like that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But yeah, for real, I just want you to know that there's a little bit of a judgment level on that for me, and probably just because people are smarter than I am about it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And then I saw that you did that, I'm like, OK, well, here we are.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And so are you even going back with the kid?
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[SPEAKER_01]: Or are you just going to be like, see a blower kiss and send her back in August?
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[SPEAKER_02]: I thought about it honestly and I do think I have to go back simply because she's moving into a single room in the sorority house so we get to decorate it a little bit more in a little bit nicer but to know that I'm not trekking in with all of the stuff.
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[SPEAKER_02]: He's doing that.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I'm just hanging pictures on walls.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I'll do that all day.
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[SPEAKER_00]: you know okay don't be mad that you weren't smart don't be mad you weren't smart learn from this learn from me it's a life the life don't be mad that's a smart there's this you never thought you are you here learn from me
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[SPEAKER_00]: from Melissa Radke.
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[SPEAKER_00]: She's back, it's just curious, because I think people listening probably have some of this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, they come back after that freshman year, and I've done this before with my older women, but it's a little different than the boy.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They come back, and then there's all that, like, I've been an adult for a whole year.
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[SPEAKER_00]: My son, and he's awesome, y'all.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I prepped this by saying, I love that kid.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But he literally said to my husband, two weeks into his internship, that he was financially independent.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And my husband's like,
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to stop you there with the car that I pay for that you drive and the phone that you're talking on that I own and the house you're living in this summer that I pay for.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But there's like this and again, love this kid.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But there's this all of a sudden I'm a grown up thing going and they are in a lot of ways, but I'm just wondering, any thoughts on that transition and come and back in or is it easier because it's a girl?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Well, is your son 1819, what?
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[SPEAKER_00]: 19 just barely.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Rimey, you know, we held her back in kindergarten because we were those parents that wanted her to be, you know, a little bit further along.
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[SPEAKER_02]: She just wasn't quite ready.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Which means that here she's just finishing up her freshman year and she just turned 20.
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[SPEAKER_02]: So,
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[SPEAKER_02]: It is, I feel like just even terminology was, it's different when your kid moves time from college and they're like, I'm not team, I can do it over on one, because it's got team attached to it.
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[SPEAKER_02]: But when they're like, I'm 20, and my wrong, it just feels different, doesn't it?
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[SPEAKER_02]: Fair.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Yeah.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And so, you know, when you're, when you're, when you're trying to say, you've got a curfew, let's say, and they're like, I'm 20 years old.
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[SPEAKER_02]: So how do you handle that?
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[SPEAKER_02]: Because that's been really new for us.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I do it this way, Melissa.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I say, and this everyone, feel free to take this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I say, listen, I know you've been in college.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You're an adult, but in then I give some judgey statement after it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But really, we don't need to be out that late.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Or, but that's kind of expensive.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So I started off acting as if I'm giving full authority and acknowledging the age, but then I still revert to telling them how it should be done and what the right way is.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I would say it's getting a mixed review, but then I go back to your stuff as in my dining room, sucker.
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[SPEAKER_00]: so I still call the shots.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Right.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But he, he's well, he's not a big curfew guy.
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[SPEAKER_02]: You know what?
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[SPEAKER_02]: Honestly, neither has Remy.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And I'm gonna, I'm gonna say something.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I know that
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[SPEAKER_02]: You know, I belly ached about my kids.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I really was worried.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I sent her a long email before she came home saying, hey, I just want to get some things out in the open before you get here.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Here are the things we expect when you come home.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Dada-dada-dada.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And she responded really well to the email first of all.
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[SPEAKER_02]: She didn't fight it.
17:04
[SPEAKER_02]: She didn't, you know, are you kidding me?
17:06
[SPEAKER_02]: She was like, okay, I hope that I will be pleasant and that you know, I'll get along with Rockout.
17:14
[SPEAKER_02]: She's actually been a breeze.
17:16
[SPEAKER_02]: She's actually been a breeze.
17:17
[SPEAKER_02]: I don't know about your son, but I haven't had to tell her what curfew is because she doesn't go anywhere.
17:22
[SPEAKER_02]: I haven't had to, you know, she's, I saw a quote the other day from a parent.
17:27
[SPEAKER_02]: It said, the summer, this summer my kid came home from college and it's been less about family activities and more about me bumping into them at midnight when they're microwaving something.
17:39
[SPEAKER_02]: It totally, and I thought that actually sounds a lot like my house.
17:43
[SPEAKER_00]: She's been really easy because she's in a room all the time, and I don't see her that much.
17:46
[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, fair enough.
17:48
[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, you mentioned them being in the room, and all that, one other thing I wanna hit on to college kids coming home, I don't think I realize how much better they live than I do until they come home.
17:56
[SPEAKER_00]: Like, I went in their rooms, like he brought home some certain things, like both of my two of mine are home from my college.
18:02
[SPEAKER_00]: Huge TVs, I'm watching like,
18:05
[SPEAKER_00]: Like I don't know what but it ain't good in my bedroom and I then I see their clothes like my son like I think he's a poncho like those poncho shirts I think he's a poncho model and nobody told me I just am wondering like what's happening over here like they're they're kind of bougie.
18:22
[SPEAKER_00]: Are you are your kids bougie?
18:25
[SPEAKER_02]: Okay, I have to tell you something and see our office is attached to our house So I have to be a little bit quiet about this.
18:31
[SPEAKER_02]: I need your help
18:33
[SPEAKER_02]: Is she bougie no and I am bougie.
18:36
[SPEAKER_02]: She's not bougie.
18:38
[SPEAKER_02]: Remy could live, Remy could live in the outback with a little hand fan and you know, some ramen and she'd be good to go for a year.
18:45
[SPEAKER_02]: But Cynthia, she's so unbougy that she has the worst taste in clothes.
18:52
[SPEAKER_02]: And I thought she would come home from college and come home from being in a sorority and be like mom, I'm gonna start dressing in more pinks and whites.
19:00
[SPEAKER_02]: But no.
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[SPEAKER_02]: She has no taste.
19:03
[SPEAKER_02]: What do I do about this?
19:06
[SPEAKER_00]: You're speaking to the wrong woman because I've my oldest.
19:08
[SPEAKER_00]: We've got the same thing Darling girl, just like your darling doesn't care.
19:12
[SPEAKER_00]: And I'm just you know what?
19:14
[SPEAKER_00]: Pure pressure has failed us because I...
19:18
[SPEAKER_00]: I really, I really hope she would just feel a crushing pressure to conform to the cuteness of a Collison there a school bully that should have done this for us.
19:30
[SPEAKER_00]: No, now I'm the school bully.
19:32
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm like You're wearing that Do you I even we even had her colors done because I wanted someone else to tell her she looked awful in that color.
19:42
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, she don't care
19:44
[SPEAKER_02]: She don't care.
19:45
[SPEAKER_02]: Okay, but now granted, whenever I see you, it's from Buba.
19:49
[SPEAKER_02]: That's not what I ever see.
19:50
[SPEAKER_02]: That's all you need to see.
19:51
[SPEAKER_02]: That to me, you dress like a SEC mom all the way.
19:54
[SPEAKER_02]: Like cute, southern for your style.
19:57
[SPEAKER_00]: I mean, what is happening to our daughters?
20:00
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't, did we push them the other direction?
20:03
[SPEAKER_00]: what to be holy because that ain't happening either.
20:05
[SPEAKER_00]: So, well, my son, my son, I know my son dresses better than her and I don't know what to do about it.
20:10
[SPEAKER_00]: It's a whole situation over here too.
20:13
[SPEAKER_00]: So, I don't know.
20:13
[SPEAKER_00]: I mean, listen, they love the Lord.
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[SPEAKER_02]: That's what I do today, because I'm going to tell you we're going to take a vote on that, too.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We're going to, the Lord wants them to dress a little better.
20:26
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, we've got a little that going on here, too.
20:29
[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, well that helps me, because I do think, like, especially in terms of electronics, though.
20:34
[SPEAKER_00]: I mean, they have better electronics, my son's clothes are better.
20:37
[SPEAKER_02]: They're supposed to have 14 different types of aeropods.
20:40
[SPEAKER_02]: In case this one gets hurts, my ears will disdiac and we know.
20:43
[SPEAKER_02]: And Rocco is like your son, Rocco is a great dresser.
20:46
[SPEAKER_02]: You said the poncho shirts, he shall wear nothing less, nothing less than that.
20:51
[SPEAKER_02]: And he's making his own money right now.
20:53
[SPEAKER_02]: He's got a job and he's balling.
20:55
[SPEAKER_02]: The kid is balling.
20:56
[SPEAKER_02]: Okay.
20:56
[SPEAKER_02]: And I'm over here going through the couch cushions, right?
20:59
[SPEAKER_02]: Trying to rub two sticks together.
21:02
[SPEAKER_01]: Totally, we were laughing about my oldest, I mean, sorry, my son, my freshman, the one that's your daughter's age.
21:09
[SPEAKER_01]: And the other day says, I have X amount in my savings account.
21:13
[SPEAKER_01]: And I was like, what?
21:14
[SPEAKER_01]: Like, how does he have so much as savings account?
21:16
[SPEAKER_01]: And I figured out, and remind me if I've told, I don't think I've told just, that they fit, that both them realize that if they get under $100, it alerts my husband, they're dad, that they're account fell under $100.
21:28
[SPEAKER_01]: And so he feels bad for him, so he adds money.
21:31
[SPEAKER_01]: So the minute that they get their monthly stipend, they put all of it that like 10 bucks in their savings account, then my husband gets the alert, he's like, oh gosh, and he adds money.
21:41
[SPEAKER_01]: And then these people are building up a savings.
21:45
[SPEAKER_01]: And I go, what's happening?
21:47
[SPEAKER_01]: One, that they know how to be the system.
21:49
[SPEAKER_01]: And two, that my cats have figured it out.
21:52
[UNKNOWN]: What?
21:54
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm actually that's genius of them.
21:56
[SPEAKER_00]: I mean, so proud of them.
21:58
[SPEAKER_00]: They might be proud that you raise that.
22:00
[SPEAKER_00]: They might be criminals one day.
22:02
[SPEAKER_02]: And good ones and good ones.
22:04
[SPEAKER_01]: And good on you Cynthia.
22:05
[SPEAKER_01]: Thank you.
22:06
[SPEAKER_01]: here welcome um okay i'm tired of talking about something with people and that's the main reason i have you here today there's three things that i don't want to talk about anymore i don't want to fake interested in these things and i feel like i'm forced to be interested and i would just want to know if you and one of them is gonna it's gonna be fighting words for you i just thinking here's the three things i cannot fake interest in anymore number one world cup
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[SPEAKER_00]: cares about it.
22:31
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't understand.
22:33
[SPEAKER_00]: Is it is it is David still in there?
22:36
[SPEAKER_00]: I said okay I said FIFA the other day I think it's FIFA or vice versa and my family's like you have a problem you don't even know how to say I don't understand I don't know what that means I don't know any use you sent me show notes okay
22:51
[SPEAKER_02]: I am sitting in the Chiropractor's office.
22:53
[SPEAKER_02]: David text me.
22:54
[SPEAKER_02]: He says, look over the show notes for today.
22:56
[SPEAKER_02]: Just so you have a clue what she's going to talk about.
22:58
[SPEAKER_02]: I literally was reading them over.
23:00
[SPEAKER_02]: Everything was fine.
23:01
[SPEAKER_02]: I got to that and out loud in the waiting room I went, what's the fight for?
23:08
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know.
23:08
[SPEAKER_00]: Here a hood about it.
23:09
[SPEAKER_00]: Not going to watch it.
23:11
[SPEAKER_00]: Not interested.
23:11
[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, that's number one.
23:12
[SPEAKER_00]: Here's the second thing.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm I cannot.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I refuse to act like a mission anymore.
23:17
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't care about peptides.
23:18
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know what they are.
23:19
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't want to talk about them.
23:21
[SPEAKER_00]: Shame on you.
23:22
[SPEAKER_02]: Shame on you.
23:24
[SPEAKER_02]: I knew it.
23:25
[SPEAKER_02]: And the reason that you're sick of talking about it is because it it peptides are a language that you have to learn and people don't want to put forth the time to learn it.
23:35
[SPEAKER_02]: But if you saw what they did for your body.
23:38
[SPEAKER_02]: Look at you.
23:38
[SPEAKER_02]: You're you are.
23:41
[SPEAKER_02]: you're a window.
23:43
[SPEAKER_00]: You know what?
23:43
[SPEAKER_00]: Fine.
23:44
[SPEAKER_00]: This is coming.
23:44
[SPEAKER_00]: Hi everybody listening.
23:47
[SPEAKER_02]: Please know that that's coming from a woman who doesn't even wash her face before bed.
23:51
[SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
23:51
[SPEAKER_00]: So if that's the law, you want to get up under.
23:54
[SPEAKER_00]: Go for it.
23:55
[SPEAKER_00]: But that's not going to be my cover.
23:57
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't even know what a peptide is but every time like I feel like remember how they used to laugh about people who do CrossFit have to talk about CrossFit And you know, that's like the big joke and they're like, oh gosh, they do CrossFit.
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[SPEAKER_01]: You're like, oh man, save us.
24:09
[SPEAKER_01]: Okay, that's how I feel about a peptide You take a peptide then suddenly I have to be interested in peptides and I I'm not gonna do it.
24:17
[SPEAKER_01]: I won't talk about him anymore And I will you're telling me
24:19
[SPEAKER_02]: If I told you how good peptides were for you, for you, you wouldn't even find interest in going, well, I would like my libido to be better.
24:28
[SPEAKER_02]: Okay, that was a good example of everybody.
24:30
[SPEAKER_02]: David, get back in the living room, but I'm just saying you wouldn't be interested in any of that.
24:35
[SPEAKER_00]: At our age, where the same age, you wouldn't...
24:38
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm not interested, I don't think we're the same age, but no.
24:41
[SPEAKER_00]: Here's the third one, are you ready?
24:43
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm not going to talk out, World Cup.
24:44
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm not going to talk about peptides, and I am not, hear me say, I'm not going to talk out protein anymore.
24:50
[SPEAKER_00]: I will not talk out protein.
24:52
[SPEAKER_02]: Oh, wow.
24:54
[SPEAKER_02]: I got to tell you.
24:55
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't give a crap what your macros and my clothes are.
25:00
[SPEAKER_02]: I don't even know what it is.
25:01
[SPEAKER_02]: I don't know what that means, but don't I don't know macros and macros are, but I'm going to tell you what, every Monday morning, I wake up and I swear to you, the protein council has gotten together and said, hey, let's up it by 50 grams.
25:13
[SPEAKER_02]: because one week it's a hundred, the next week it's 250, the next week it's 14.
25:17
[SPEAKER_02]: I don't understand what y'all are doing.
25:20
[SPEAKER_02]: I don't get this much protein in.
25:23
[SPEAKER_00]: Well, and then I look and there's like my daughter's here and she's like, oh, I'm buying like frozen eggos for my little kid and she's like, oh, get the ones that protein.
25:31
[SPEAKER_00]: They're putting them in the egg a waffle?
25:33
[SPEAKER_00]: I mean, his yogurt, his gogards, she's like, get the one, the protein.
25:38
[SPEAKER_00]: Every is talking out, they're talking out, they're macros, they're talking out, if you weigh X amount, you need X amount of what, I might know.
25:44
[SPEAKER_00]: And I try to, I'm a people pleaser, and I'm like, okay, tell me about the world of cups, so then you can tell me about the peptides, and then maybe we'll hit the protein, and then I can move on to something I actually give a rip about, but I just can't do it anymore.
25:56
[SPEAKER_00]: It's too much.
25:58
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't care either.
25:59
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm not,
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[SPEAKER_02]: I'm, listen to everybody, listen to me.
26:03
[SPEAKER_02]: Melissa Radke said it.
26:05
[SPEAKER_02]: She ain't gonna make her protein go.
26:07
[SPEAKER_02]: Melissa Radke ain't gonna make her protein go and she's not gonna care that she didn't make her protein go.
26:11
[SPEAKER_02]: And also, I have trouble believing that you're gonna lose a bunch of weight if you keep hitting your protein go.
26:18
[SPEAKER_02]: I think they're just trying to keep best batter.
26:20
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know if we're the poster children to be talking about that, but I will say this.
26:27
[SPEAKER_00]: Are you not making your goal because you're going to a world cup game like is there something exactly right I don't know I don't I don't get it.
26:34
[SPEAKER_02]: I'm I'm with you on that one man.
26:35
[SPEAKER_02]: It drives me nuts.
26:36
[SPEAKER_02]: Okay.
26:36
[SPEAKER_00]: It does and now they're in our Starbucks Get out now this may be go hand in hand I think I'm struggling with because it's summer in Texas and that's measurable for us and you kind of Committed somewhere on the where I read it or heard it or real did or something you talked about how it's a bummer because then you have to wear summer clothes
26:55
[SPEAKER_00]: And I decided what my perfect summer is, it's set aside the weather is not conducive to this, but wouldn't it be nice if we could have summer, but still wear our winter clothes?
27:05
[SPEAKER_02]: Yes, I saw that you think that.
27:08
[SPEAKER_02]: And I was like, here's the thing that you said, what you said was, what would be ideal for me would be summer activities in winter clothes?
27:16
[SPEAKER_02]: Yeah.
27:17
[SPEAKER_02]: I'm not entirely sure I lack summer activities to be perfectly honest with you.
27:21
[SPEAKER_02]: like in Texas especially it's so hot that we want that I want to stay inside and there's really not any activities.
27:27
[SPEAKER_02]: So I'm more fall activity to fall close.
27:30
[SPEAKER_02]: The ideal for me is shorts on bottom sweatshirt on top.
27:35
[SPEAKER_02]: That's the weather.
27:36
[SPEAKER_02]: I love that.
27:37
[SPEAKER_02]: I love that.
27:39
[SPEAKER_02]: Which is like six days in Texas.
27:42
[SPEAKER_02]: Exactly.
27:42
[SPEAKER_02]: Exactly.
27:43
[SPEAKER_02]: But I am a
27:45
[SPEAKER_02]: I think I'm getting to the age where I start to kind of think in my head, where my I want to retire to help, good gravy.
27:55
[SPEAKER_00]: That's where we are.
27:57
[SPEAKER_00]: Ever since that ambulance ride, I mean, your life flashes.
28:00
[SPEAKER_00]: You guys think this is it.
28:02
[SPEAKER_02]: And I don't want to live in this hot hot state for the rest of my life.
28:06
[SPEAKER_02]: I know.
28:08
[SPEAKER_02]: Well, you're local celebrity.
28:09
[SPEAKER_02]: What would they do if you left?
28:11
[SPEAKER_02]: For your information, it's not local anymore.
28:12
[SPEAKER_02]: We'd moved to regional.
28:13
[SPEAKER_02]: Oh, sorry.
28:14
[SPEAKER_02]: Okay.
28:15
[SPEAKER_02]: Regional.
28:16
[SPEAKER_02]: That's what my friend got me at coffee cup.
28:17
[SPEAKER_02]: It said regional celebrity.
28:18
[SPEAKER_02]: Excuse me.
28:19
[SPEAKER_01]: Excuse me.
28:20
[SPEAKER_01]: Excuse me.
28:21
[SPEAKER_01]: Well, I know.
28:22
[SPEAKER_01]: I hear you.
28:23
[SPEAKER_01]: And I go places to speak or whatever.
28:25
[SPEAKER_01]: And I'm like sitting in North Carolina.
28:27
[SPEAKER_01]: And I'm like, you people know something we didn't.
28:29
[SPEAKER_01]: You probably hired moofers, too.
28:31
[SPEAKER_01]: When you put your kid in front of me, you know what they did.
28:34
[SPEAKER_01]: You know what they did.
28:35
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, and we're sitting here and, okay, well, I'm just curious as some or anything must have things you want to share with us.
28:42
[SPEAKER_01]: You have any favorite snacks, activity shows, books.
28:45
[SPEAKER_01]: I feel like you're the person that kind of, you're intense about the things you love and I'm just wondering, is there anything you need to share with us?
28:51
[SPEAKER_01]: Because I've got one thing I need to share with you, maybe, too.
28:54
[SPEAKER_02]: I wanted to say I've got a little bit of a sinus cold today and did you happen to notice that I keep wiping my nose and blowing my nose and I'm having to do it with a toilet paper roll.
29:04
[SPEAKER_02]: That's how classy I am.
29:05
[SPEAKER_02]: We don't even have tissue boxes.
29:07
[SPEAKER_02]: I'm you're to your listeners.
29:09
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm pulling it off of a toilet paper roll.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Okay, that's the kind of woman I am.
29:13
[SPEAKER_02]: I did I get ready with me the other day and I needed to wipe
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[SPEAKER_02]: Underneath my eyes or something and I couldn't find anything to use, but one of my kids when I had gotten in the shower that they had left a dirty sock lie in there So I just know you didn't I did and dabbed under my eyes.
29:28
[SPEAKER_02]: That's where that's where I'm at and it worked Speaking of which a little situation that's going on in our home right now
29:36
[SPEAKER_02]: is that I do not have a car because it was wrecked.
29:40
[SPEAKER_02]: We were a one car family.
29:41
[SPEAKER_02]: People will go, why?
29:43
[SPEAKER_02]: Well, the engine went out on my car about eight months ago.
29:47
[SPEAKER_02]: I had a little Audi and it was so cute and I loved it.
29:49
[SPEAKER_02]: And it went out and we decided not to get anything, because David had a really nice truck.
29:53
[SPEAKER_02]: So we were in David's truck.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I say really nice.
29:56
[SPEAKER_02]: It's old, but it was working.
29:58
[SPEAKER_02]: So we had this truck.
29:59
[SPEAKER_02]: And then this old load crashed into us.
30:02
[SPEAKER_02]: Now we don't have a car.
30:05
[SPEAKER_02]: We got a rental that insurance pay him for all that, but speaking of bougie kids, my son has got this job and he's earning money because he wants a boat.
30:16
[SPEAKER_02]: Because he's all about the summer activities, all about him.
30:20
[SPEAKER_02]: His summer consists of fishing,
30:23
[SPEAKER_02]: Um, boating, working a little bit, napping, fishing, boating, wrapping, working, boating, okay.
30:29
[SPEAKER_02]: And he said, Mom, I really think I am so close to getting that boat.
30:33
[SPEAKER_02]: And I said, Raqqa, I couldn't be happier that you have, and he's got this beautiful truck.
30:37
[SPEAKER_02]: I'm like, I couldn't be happier that you will now be driving around on both land and sea.
30:42
[SPEAKER_02]: But I, yeah, still don't have anything for land.
30:46
[SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, you know.
30:46
[SPEAKER_02]: Uh-huh.
30:48
[SPEAKER_02]: That's all.
30:49
[SPEAKER_02]: He can stay outside all day long and sweat and it's fine.
30:52
[SPEAKER_02]: I can't.
30:53
[SPEAKER_02]: I'm not a big fan of someorectivities and someore things.
30:57
[SPEAKER_02]: So what I do is I find myself inside watching TV and that's when I can really tell you things I love.
31:05
[SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
31:05
[SPEAKER_00]: Are you a TV watcher?
31:07
[SPEAKER_00]: not like you are.
31:08
[SPEAKER_00]: But carry on, I'm not judgmental about it.
31:11
[SPEAKER_01]: I mean, I really, I'm here for, I just started watching the Madison on Netflix.
31:16
[SPEAKER_01]: And so that, but other than that, I haven't watched a ton, I do have something that I'm going to be watching them getting about.
31:22
[SPEAKER_01]: But tell us what you're liking.
31:24
[SPEAKER_02]: Okay, so a couple of things that I don't like in a friend is when someone says, when someone says, one of these two lines to me, I know that we can't be friends.
31:36
[SPEAKER_02]: Okay.
31:36
[SPEAKER_02]: Good.
31:37
[SPEAKER_02]: The first one is when they take a bite of something and they go, oh, this is too rich.
31:41
[SPEAKER_02]: Oh, I'm out.
31:42
[SPEAKER_02]: No.
31:43
[SPEAKER_02]: Okay.
31:43
[SPEAKER_02]: No.
31:44
[SPEAKER_02]: The second one is when they say, I don't watch a lot of TV.
31:46
[SPEAKER_02]: I'm like, oh, God, Jennifer, it's never going to work out.
31:51
[SPEAKER_00]: I think that's what you just did.
31:53
[SPEAKER_00]: Well, I mean, I'm trying.
31:54
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm trying.
31:55
[SPEAKER_00]: Tell me what to watch.
31:58
[SPEAKER_02]: There, okay, on Apple TV, have you watched Windows Bay?
32:03
[SPEAKER_02]: No, writing it down, everybody, what does Bay?
32:06
[SPEAKER_02]: Okay, the listeners, y'all don't have to write it down, because y'all are listening to pop culture, and you probably already know this.
32:11
[SPEAKER_02]: Try to get through the zone.
32:13
[SPEAKER_02]: I have never seen a show like this.
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[SPEAKER_02]: comedy at the same time.
32:23
[SPEAKER_02]: I'm not talking like, what are those stupid, stupid movies where they're called scary movie, where they go and they make fun of all them scary movies, it's not like that kind of comedy.
32:33
[SPEAKER_02]: It is about a little island called Widow's Bay and the actors in it are legit actors.
32:39
[SPEAKER_02]: And scary things are happening on this island and the little mayor is trying to figure it out.
32:44
[SPEAKER_02]: But it is such incredible humor everybody's talking about it.
32:48
[SPEAKER_02]: It's already got another season and it hasn't even finished coming out this season.
32:53
[SPEAKER_02]: I'm talking like, people are saying it's going to win every kind of award.
32:57
[SPEAKER_02]: The cast is excellent.
32:58
[SPEAKER_02]: The rotting is excellent.
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[SPEAKER_02]: It is top tier television.
33:02
[SPEAKER_02]: And each episode is 30 minutes.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And you're thoroughly entertained.
33:06
[SPEAKER_00]: When you say television, I was thinking we were like going primetime family ties or something.
33:11
[SPEAKER_00]: Like, I think, I mean, am I streaming things?
33:13
[SPEAKER_00]: I mean, I guess that is television.
33:15
[SPEAKER_00]: Well, honey, family ties.
33:18
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know.
33:18
[SPEAKER_02]: I just have Parkinson's for God's sake.
33:22
[SPEAKER_01]: Okay, to that point though, did you see, and you're gonna, this is gonna get some hate, I feel like.
33:30
[SPEAKER_01]: Did you see that they're doing a little house on the prairie, like a revamp?
33:34
[SPEAKER_01]: They're redoing it.
33:35
[SPEAKER_01]: I did.
33:36
[SPEAKER_01]: Isn't it already out?
33:37
[SPEAKER_01]: I don't, I don't think so.
33:39
[SPEAKER_01]: I'm okay.
33:40
[SPEAKER_01]: I'm giddy.
33:42
[SPEAKER_00]: Are you really?
33:44
[SPEAKER_02]: Did you watch the little house back in the day?
33:46
[SPEAKER_02]: Did you grow never watched one episode?
33:50
[SPEAKER_02]: I have never seen a single episode of Little House on the Prairie because we only had one channel when I was growing up and it didn't play out here in the sticks, but it would be on when I would go to doctor's offices where we were at a hospital waiting room.
34:05
[SPEAKER_02]: It seemed to me like there was always something terrible going to happen because of the music.
34:09
[SPEAKER_02]: So I would always like look away or leave the room.
34:12
[SPEAKER_02]: I was scared.
34:12
[SPEAKER_00]: It was dramatic out on the prairie.
34:14
[SPEAKER_00]: There was it, there was stuff happening.
34:16
[SPEAKER_00]: Not minds like Melissa, you don't want to watch it.
34:19
[SPEAKER_00]: They burned down in a fire and they go blind.
34:21
[SPEAKER_00]: You don't want to watch it.
34:22
[SPEAKER_00]: Well again Mary went blind for unknown reasons and Laura had a fiancé that was like 19 years older her older than her and she was like nine.
34:29
[SPEAKER_00]: So there were some weird stuff happening.
34:31
[SPEAKER_00]: But yes, I loved it so much.
34:33
[SPEAKER_00]: They tackled the issues of the day.
34:36
[SPEAKER_00]: Melissa liked the rich store owner and the
34:39
[SPEAKER_00]: poor Paul, who's just trying to make an earning.
34:41
[SPEAKER_00]: You know, just important things.
34:43
[SPEAKER_00]: But they're having revivals.
34:44
[SPEAKER_00]: So I just said, you know, I'm going to watch that this summer, I'm going to watch the Dallas Cowboy cheerleader show, you know, and love that one.
34:51
[SPEAKER_00]: Love love love it.
34:52
[SPEAKER_00]: I love it.
34:52
[SPEAKER_00]: When they tell those girls, they're not uniform ready, which means you're fat and they weigh nine pounds.
34:57
[SPEAKER_00]: I love, I mean, I'm here for every bit of it.
35:00
[SPEAKER_00]: And so that one's coming out too.
35:02
[SPEAKER_00]: So I'm going to watch that, are you?
35:03
[SPEAKER_02]: How are you going to, whoa, 100% America sweethearts?
35:07
[SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, 100%.
35:08
[SPEAKER_02]: How are you going to feel though of hard people talking because true lovers of little house have said y'all if that show comes out and it is woke.
35:19
[SPEAKER_02]: I do not know what I will do.
35:20
[SPEAKER_02]: I will burn this town down How will you feel if Mary's date is that Mary a person on there and Mary was I want to apply and please take an interest Okay, what are you going to do if Mary's date in a girl?
35:34
[SPEAKER_00]: What are you going to do if Pa has a secret
35:36
[SPEAKER_02]: relationship on the download.
35:38
[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, what did it?
35:39
[SPEAKER_00]: Hall wouldn't, and Mary, Mary won't.
35:41
[SPEAKER_00]: I just, I, no, it's fine.
35:43
[SPEAKER_00]: It's your next book, total.
35:45
[SPEAKER_00]: Paul wouldn't, and Mary won't.
35:46
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36:06
[SPEAKER_00]: What is that?
36:07
[SPEAKER_02]: Okay.
36:09
[SPEAKER_02]: Have you been hearing lightly about hair mist or hair column?
36:14
[SPEAKER_00]: Yes, hair clone.
36:16
[SPEAKER_00]: It's a great perfume in the air and walk under it and be done.
36:18
[SPEAKER_02]: I thought so.
36:19
[SPEAKER_02]: I thought so.
36:20
[SPEAKER_02]: That's what I've been doing for years.
36:21
[SPEAKER_02]: But now they're specifically hair colon.
36:23
[SPEAKER_02]: And so I saw this being advertised the other day on TikTok.
36:27
[SPEAKER_02]: And it's Patrick Taw's hair column, okay?
36:31
[SPEAKER_02]: And people on TikTok were like, oh, it smells so great.
36:33
[SPEAKER_02]: I got it, it comes to me, and I will say buying perfumes and stuff off of TikTok shop seems cagey at best because you can't smell it for yourself, right?
36:44
[SPEAKER_02]: But I took a chance, and it came to my house, and I'm gonna tell y'all.
36:48
[SPEAKER_02]: It smells great.
36:50
[SPEAKER_02]: It smells wonderful.
36:52
[SPEAKER_02]: It lasts about 0.4 seconds on me.
36:56
[SPEAKER_02]: So I spray it and I'll say smell it and I'll spray it.
36:58
[SPEAKER_02]: Smell it and because then it's gone.
37:00
[SPEAKER_02]: I don't have the body chemistry to make sense last on me.
37:05
[SPEAKER_02]: So I use a body oil in the shower instead of soap.
37:10
[SPEAKER_02]: Then I get out of the shower and I put on more body oil and then I put on a smelly lotion and then I put perfume on top of that hoping that I can stack it and I know people are probably listening and being like, that's too strong.
37:23
[SPEAKER_02]: Oh, no, no, no.
37:24
[SPEAKER_02]: No, whatever tells me I smell good because they can't it just doesn't work on me.
37:28
[SPEAKER_02]: So I'm probably going to end up giving this away somebody ought to use it.
37:32
[SPEAKER_02]: It's so good.
37:34
[SPEAKER_00]: It smells so great.
37:36
[SPEAKER_02]: I would imagine it does and I like the thought of it lasting in my hair and if they would kiss in the ear hugging me and my kids they'll say that it would smell good, but it just doesn't smell on me I wouldn't give anything to have that name on side day.
37:50
[SPEAKER_00]: What?
37:51
[SPEAKER_00]: because it didn't smell fresh where when I was an ambulance with all my problems.
37:54
[SPEAKER_00]: I would have just been like, oh, yeah, I mean, wouldn't that have been good to have?
37:56
[SPEAKER_01]: Um, I like, I mean, a hair perfume.
37:57
[SPEAKER_01]: I'm not against it.
37:57
[SPEAKER_01]: I was trying to think if there's anything like I can't live without this summer.
37:59
[SPEAKER_01]: And I'm, I mean, I, I mean, I, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean,
38:07
[SPEAKER_01]: I'm not in the pool like you are with your fam, doing all the aerobics.
38:11
[SPEAKER_01]: And so we have a pool, I just don't get in said pool.
38:13
[SPEAKER_01]: So I am a fan of the spray tan, like for the, just like, no, I mean, like at home, everyone, I'm not busy.
38:20
[SPEAKER_01]: Like just like those, you know, that you rub on or whatever and I've been trying that.
38:23
[SPEAKER_01]: And are there some marks and creases, yeah, and that's just character, whatever.
38:27
[SPEAKER_01]: But I did use some of that.
38:29
[SPEAKER_01]: I just hope for the best, I don't know, are my hands a little orange, maybe.
38:36
[SPEAKER_02]: And you've got self-tanner creases all over you, just FYI, nobody looks at you and says I bet she's got a lot of character that girl.
38:47
[SPEAKER_02]: Let's don't make fun of her kids.
38:48
[SPEAKER_02]: I bet she's got a great personality.
38:50
[SPEAKER_02]: Nobody is saying that.
38:51
[SPEAKER_02]: They're saying get it right woman, get it right.
38:54
[SPEAKER_02]: What do you use it?
38:56
[SPEAKER_02]: You know, I do actually at the beginning of summer, but then I do like to get out in the sun.
39:01
[SPEAKER_02]: And I know my dermatologist tells me not to, but I do it anyway.
39:07
[SPEAKER_02]: That's something I'm sick of here and about.
39:09
[SPEAKER_02]: I don't want to, I'm not gonna find interest in the fact that you wear long sleeves and pants to the water because you want your skin to look like Nicole Kidman.
39:18
[SPEAKER_00]: Get out of here, Becky.
39:20
[SPEAKER_00]: I had interest in that.
39:22
[SPEAKER_00]: I just ordered one of those, what is it that you put every, what are those called when you wear shirt over your bathing suit?
39:28
[SPEAKER_00]: Um, I didn't do that.
39:30
[SPEAKER_00]: Well, I had to most of because I keep getting skin cancer.
39:35
[SPEAKER_00]: I knew it was going to come down to that because I keep having burn things off my face.
39:41
[SPEAKER_00]: And I figured, well, I can't control my face out there in the hat, put a little sunscreen on.
39:45
[SPEAKER_00]: But I can cover everything else.
39:47
[SPEAKER_02]: I do wear a big sun hat.
39:48
[SPEAKER_02]: I don't get it on my face.
39:49
[SPEAKER_02]: You're right.
39:50
[SPEAKER_02]: I don't want any more sun spots than I already do.
39:53
[SPEAKER_02]: But I do like to get sun, so I don't have to use the tanning stuff at home for long, because then I just get sunnaturally.
39:59
[SPEAKER_02]: But I'm going to tell you something.
40:01
[SPEAKER_02]: And I have not even said this on my own platforms.
40:03
[SPEAKER_00]: So this is where I'm going to place yourself.
40:07
[SPEAKER_02]: Brace yourself, America.
40:10
[SPEAKER_02]: I am saving up my money right now.
40:11
[SPEAKER_02]: And I'm getting a facelift and turkey.
40:14
[SPEAKER_02]: OK.
40:18
[SPEAKER_00]: I want to thank you for being a guest on this show.
40:23
[SPEAKER_00]: I am.
40:23
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to Istanbul and I'm doing it.
40:26
[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, well, I'm not going to be a part of your crowd sourcing or your go find me.
40:30
[SPEAKER_02]: I won't bring you a meal and because what why is it every follower if every woman that follows me would then mow me one dollar.
40:41
[SPEAKER_02]: I'd be able to go there and back three times.
40:44
[SPEAKER_02]: I would be able to, it would be completely free surgery.
40:47
[SPEAKER_02]: And I'd take y'all along on it with me, so you could see how it goes.
40:51
[SPEAKER_02]: But I've wanted to do it for a long time.
40:53
[SPEAKER_02]: People of that, my girlfriend's have asked me, aren't you scared?
40:55
[SPEAKER_02]: No, I'm not scared at all to do something like that.
40:58
[SPEAKER_02]: And I really want it.
41:00
[SPEAKER_02]: I've lost some weight, but I cannot get rid of this.
41:03
[SPEAKER_02]: And it just shows up in every picture and every video.
41:06
[SPEAKER_00]: Please refering to the space and to her chin.
41:09
[SPEAKER_00]: What's that called?
41:10
[SPEAKER_00]: Your waddle, it's just this turkey gobble thing and I hate it.
41:13
[SPEAKER_02]: It's really embarrassing to me.
41:15
[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, well, I mean, oh, uh...
41:18
[SPEAKER_00]: If I asked every single follower, I had to put a dollar in, I would maybe get half a, half a, half a liter of bow talks.
41:25
[SPEAKER_00]: And we could do if everybody would just give us one dollar.
41:28
[SPEAKER_00]: That's not getting what I'm saying, breaking the bank for nobody.
41:31
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm not trying.
41:32
[SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
41:32
[SPEAKER_02]: So I have contacted the hospital and I have talked to them.
41:36
[SPEAKER_02]: I don't know.
41:37
[SPEAKER_02]: You're that serious.
41:38
[SPEAKER_02]: I love setting my pictures in.
41:40
[SPEAKER_02]: They've told me exactly what they would do.
41:41
[SPEAKER_02]: We've had appointments.
41:43
[SPEAKER_02]: I just have to get the money together.
41:44
[SPEAKER_02]: So I'm saving up my money, and that is literally what I want to do.
41:48
[SPEAKER_02]: Okay, and I kind of wanted to run that by your crowd first before telling mine because my is going to yell at me.
41:55
[SPEAKER_00]: Mine's just going to well one if you could see Melissa right now if you're I mean most people are listening but if you can see or like there's not a wrinkle on the face there's nothing.
42:02
[SPEAKER_00]: It's the perfect face and she's unhappy with the under the chin.
42:06
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm telling you the perfect face so I think we're getting we've gotten a look stream here.
42:11
[SPEAKER_00]: I think we're gotten, yeah, you know how I told you I have body dysmorphia.
42:14
[SPEAKER_00]: I think I look better than I do.
42:17
[SPEAKER_00]: And stuff, I reverse body dysmorphia.
42:19
[SPEAKER_00]: I think you've got that going on with your face.
42:20
[SPEAKER_00]: I think that you're seeing things that are not there.
42:23
[SPEAKER_00]: But, um, but I wish you Godspeed.
42:26
[SPEAKER_00]: I will pray for you.
42:27
[SPEAKER_00]: And I will go and help the movers get your daughter in if something happens to you in Istanbul.
42:33
[SPEAKER_00]: You don't want to go with me?
42:34
[SPEAKER_00]: I have to take a person with me to come for me.
42:37
[SPEAKER_00]: We'd have fun.
42:38
[SPEAKER_00]: I mean,
42:41
[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, we gotta go in a sec.
42:42
[SPEAKER_00]: I need to run a couple more quick things by you.
42:45
[SPEAKER_00]: Jellies, the shoes.
42:47
[SPEAKER_00]: Wearing one right now.
42:49
[SPEAKER_00]: My brothers call them dairy queen baskets when I was growing up and I hurt my feelings.
42:54
[SPEAKER_00]: That is so true.
42:55
[SPEAKER_00]: Look.
42:56
[SPEAKER_02]: That's what I'm wearing.
42:57
[SPEAKER_02]: It is a type of jelly.
42:58
[SPEAKER_02]: It is black.
42:59
[SPEAKER_02]: But I bought myself a slide in mule.
43:03
[SPEAKER_02]: Clear jelly.
43:04
[SPEAKER_02]: I wear them every single solitary day.
43:06
[SPEAKER_02]: They are so cool to the feet.
43:08
[SPEAKER_02]: And I absolutely love them.
43:09
[SPEAKER_02]: My daughter says, Mom, those are hideous.
43:11
[SPEAKER_02]: You've got to quit wearing them to which I say.
43:14
[SPEAKER_02]: How would you know you've got the style of a right we're not taking it from you girls.
43:19
[SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
43:19
[SPEAKER_00]: We would like a link to those.
43:21
[SPEAKER_00]: I'd like to know about that.
43:23
[SPEAKER_00]: I also want to talk about the lip flip.
43:26
[SPEAKER_01]: I heard you mention it.
43:27
[SPEAKER_01]: I'm.
43:29
[SPEAKER_01]: I don't even know what that is other than Melissa Radke mentioned it and then I thought it was permanent.
43:34
[SPEAKER_01]: It's not Istanbul.
43:35
[SPEAKER_02]: It's just, it's just, I don't know what it is.
43:39
[SPEAKER_02]: It's just a sick, so they put in, that's what Remy wanted for her birthday, so my mother got it for.
43:44
[SPEAKER_02]: As y'all can clearly see, we're women that are not scared of a little poke poke, okay?
43:49
[SPEAKER_02]: So she got a lip flip for her birthday.
43:51
[SPEAKER_02]: When Remy smiled, she has hardly any upper lip.
43:54
[SPEAKER_02]: When she smiles, you can see her gums, which I think is adorable.
43:57
[SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, but a lip flip literally, it's not filler.
44:00
[SPEAKER_02]: It's not making her lips bigger.
44:02
[SPEAKER_02]: It's causing that effort to just go up just to touch so that when she smiles now, you don't see lip gums.
44:09
[SPEAKER_02]: And it says cutest can be.
44:11
[SPEAKER_02]: She got the minimum amount, which is four little pokes, and it does hurt.
44:16
[SPEAKER_02]: But she loved it.
44:17
[SPEAKER_02]: She said, I'm going back to get it again.
44:19
[SPEAKER_02]: So, okay, it's so simple.
44:21
[SPEAKER_00]: Would you let your daughter do something like that?
44:24
[SPEAKER_00]: I would, if I thought she cared about anything like that, I'd be so thrilled.
44:28
[SPEAKER_00]: She got it.
44:29
[SPEAKER_00]: So, but yeah, I mean, I'd probably, if it's not permanent, yeah, I mean, these kids are wanting some real permanent things out there.
44:36
[SPEAKER_00]: This is, there's some easy yeses, and if this is permanent, that probably falls on our easy yes for me.
44:41
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, for me, it wasn't a mountain I'm going down, right?
44:44
[SPEAKER_00]: No, there's a lot to die on that, it's not it.
44:46
[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, and then the Portuguese has the Portuguese taken over there, or do you know what I'm talking about?
44:53
[SPEAKER_02]: is going on ladies, y'all need to get in a book club or something.
44:58
[SPEAKER_00]: If our dream is taking the clothes on and off your porch geese, that is weird.
45:03
[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, I knew you would have an opinion about the porch goose.
45:07
[SPEAKER_00]: I just wanted to ask, do you, and so I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I'm pretty smart that way.
45:11
[SPEAKER_00]: You, I'm gonna say you don't have one.
45:14
[SPEAKER_00]: Don't have one, not gonna get one.
45:16
[SPEAKER_00]: Absolutely not.
45:17
[SPEAKER_00]: Do you think I do?
45:21
[SPEAKER_02]: really hope you don't.
45:23
[SPEAKER_02]: But you've been a little bit of an enigma to me.
45:26
[SPEAKER_02]: So I can't tell.
45:27
[SPEAKER_02]: Do you?
45:29
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know.
45:30
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm kind of mad that you think I might.
45:31
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't.
45:32
[SPEAKER_00]: No.
45:32
[SPEAKER_00]: No.
45:33
[SPEAKER_02]: Well, I'm not going with you.
45:34
[SPEAKER_02]: It surprised me.
45:35
[SPEAKER_02]: But I didn't see it in your personality.
45:36
[SPEAKER_02]: But you're just southern enough that I thought maybe you might.
45:39
[SPEAKER_02]: But no, I don't see it.
45:41
[SPEAKER_02]: And these people let's dress them up like a policeman one day.
45:44
[SPEAKER_00]: Let's dress them up like a veterinarian.
45:46
[SPEAKER_00]: It's the weirdest thing.
45:48
[SPEAKER_00]: I know I just wondered if they I'm know and people because I talked about on my other podcast people now send me every picture of every porch You say have and people of multiples there's twin porch geese.
45:58
[SPEAKER_02]: I mean, it's a whole situation out there and out wild I just curious I just want to see where doesn't has one and one day she puts that their bow around its neck and I said Michelle you've got to either get a dog or have another baby because this is just weird no
46:10
[SPEAKER_01]: We're not, yeah, we're not gonna do that.
46:11
[SPEAKER_01]: All right, the last thing, you said something I thought was really sweet and thoughtful, like thought provoking.
46:16
[SPEAKER_01]: And you said, the economy of heaven runs on gratitude, man's economy runs on money.
46:22
[SPEAKER_01]: And I was thinking about that and just this, just gratitude, and we all know it, but do we do it well?
46:28
[SPEAKER_01]: I don't know.
46:29
[SPEAKER_01]: And as two girls that love to laugh a lot, I do think,
46:33
[SPEAKER_01]: I do think I don't know.
46:34
[SPEAKER_01]: I think you're good at gratitude.
46:35
[SPEAKER_01]: I think I am too.
46:36
[SPEAKER_01]: I'm thankful even in the midst of the funny and we laugh at everything and make fun of it.
46:39
[SPEAKER_01]: Make fun of our kids and everything else.
46:40
[SPEAKER_01]: We're grateful people in general.
46:42
[SPEAKER_01]: But I just wondered like what was behind that.
46:44
[SPEAKER_01]: I mean, I guess having a wreck makes you think about those things, but yeah, that'll do it.
46:50
[SPEAKER_02]: I'll tell you what made me think about it.
46:52
[SPEAKER_02]: I'm a woman on a budget, and we have always lived our life like that, and kids coming home for the summer, and I need money for youth camp, and Rocky was telling me that, and I got accepted to this internship thing in Washington for a couple of weeks, and so we had to flyer to get her there, and money money money, right?
47:10
[SPEAKER_02]: And you're paying also, we're paying for the sorority house already, and all the things, and I was looking at our bank account one day,
47:20
[SPEAKER_02]: And then I remembered, I can talk to God about money, and he understands, but that's not what his economy is.
47:28
[SPEAKER_02]: So when I say to God, give me, give me, give me, give me, he doesn't really work like that.
47:32
[SPEAKER_02]: So what I instead do is, I say, oh, thank you for what you have given me.
47:36
[SPEAKER_02]: Thank you for this and this, because his economy just runs differently.
47:40
[SPEAKER_02]: It's a whole different kind of Wall Street, right?
47:42
[SPEAKER_02]: And a whole different stock market.
47:44
[SPEAKER_02]: And so,
47:45
[SPEAKER_02]: I just began to thank him.
47:47
[SPEAKER_02]: And also, I am having a print made for my kitchen right now.
47:53
[SPEAKER_02]: That says, we are rich.
47:56
[SPEAKER_02]: on it, and I saw that in a woman's home in California.
47:59
[SPEAKER_02]: I was in California and went to a dinner.
48:01
[SPEAKER_02]: She had that picture in her home on her mantle that said, we are rich.
48:04
[SPEAKER_02]: It was so beautiful.
48:05
[SPEAKER_02]: And I said, that's so sweet.
48:07
[SPEAKER_02]: And she looked at me and she said, she put her hand on her chest and she goes, but we are, aren't we?
48:12
[SPEAKER_02]: Aren't we all just so rich?
48:14
[SPEAKER_02]: She didn't make it about her.
48:16
[SPEAKER_02]: It wasn't about her pocketbook.
48:17
[SPEAKER_02]: It was about God's economy.
48:19
[SPEAKER_02]: We are so rich.
48:19
[SPEAKER_02]: And so I'm having that made for my kitchen.
48:21
[SPEAKER_02]: I just think it's so sweet.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I want to live in that mentality.
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[SPEAKER_00]: all the time.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I love that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, I love and Dallas where people really are trying to drive around saying we are rich, by the way, the cars they have and houses they have.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, so it takes a different tone, but no, I love that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And just that reminder with our kids and all the expenses and all that, what a privilege that we have kids that have expenses and that they can go to camp and that they are healthy and absolutely.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Right, like all the things, that if you really dig a few layers
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[SPEAKER_02]: So, I don't know, we aren't, yeah, you're right.
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[SPEAKER_00]: The fact that I even get to pay for youth count, that we even have a church where they're taken, I mean, we're rich, we're so rich, we're rich.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That should be maybe your next one of your next products.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Like, that's some of your, we need hats or something.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, so think, we need swag.
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[SPEAKER_00]: With that, that's a good one.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I like that one.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, well, thank you for chatting about all the things that we didn't even get to some of the things I'm interested in and that's why like jeans.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm so thankful, man.
49:20
[SPEAKER_00]: If we ever go back to skinny jeans, it might be my 13th reason why.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I cannot with those anywhere.
49:27
[SPEAKER_00]: We didn't get to talk about the fact that I found new cushion covers that fit on your outdoor furniture like fitted sheets.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Okay.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Save that for our next time.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I was very curious about that.
49:36
[SPEAKER_02]: I want to talk about outdoor cushion covers and I want to talk about why you're making fun of my firm planter.
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[SPEAKER_02]: So we're getting to that next lady.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Don't talk about it.
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[SPEAKER_02]: We won't and we didn't get to talk about KVC.
49:47
[SPEAKER_01]: I want to talk about that.
49:49
[SPEAKER_01]: Promise me next time we will.
49:50
[SPEAKER_01]: Next time.
49:51
[SPEAKER_01]: I'm going to make a note and keep it for next time.
49:52
[SPEAKER_01]: Thanks for being here friend.
49:54
[SPEAKER_01]: We wait, stop.
49:55
[SPEAKER_01]: What am I saying before we even say goodbye?
49:57
[SPEAKER_01]: Will you tell everybody books?
49:59
[SPEAKER_01]: How to find you all the things real quick?
50:01
[SPEAKER_02]: Yes, you can find me on Instagram at MS, Miss Melissa Radke, and that's not because I have multiple sclerosis, not that there's anything wrong with that.
50:08
[SPEAKER_02]: But I don't have it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It just, there was already a Melissa Radke.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Okay.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I'm also not single David won't show it now.
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[SPEAKER_02]: God knows y'all are going to be beaten down my door.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Melissa Radke on Facebook, Melissa Radke on TikTok, and of course, Melissa Radke.com.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Always.
50:22
[SPEAKER_00]: If I'm here, okay, and she's not on the show many times, you can go listen to old ones, but also you can see, you can hear, I talk about her books, how much I love them.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's our another one coming, I keep forgetting that.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Now go put pressure on me, lady.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Take your time.
50:34
[SPEAKER_00]: No, we're just all waiting on it.
50:36
[SPEAKER_02]: All right, thanks Melissa Bradkey.
50:38
[SPEAKER_02]: Remember, pop a wooden and marry wall, okay?
50:42
[SPEAKER_02]: That's your next book.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Pop a wooden, pop a wooden, to marry wall.
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[SPEAKER_02]: There we go, love ya.
50:48
[SPEAKER_00]: They end.
50:52
[SPEAKER_00]: I mean Melissa Radke, and she's the funniest.
50:54
[SPEAKER_00]: I love her so much.
50:55
[SPEAKER_00]: And I'm always so thankful when she comes on the show.
50:57
[SPEAKER_00]: I mean, after all, she is a regional celebrity, right?
51:00
[SPEAKER_00]: All right, you guys, thanks for always being here or being here when I'm here, right?
51:05
[SPEAKER_00]: When I release shows.
51:06
[SPEAKER_00]: And again, run over to Cynthia againoff.com and sign up if you don't mind, put your email in and then we will be touching base with you in the next several weeks.
51:15
[SPEAKER_00]: And I said, beginning I'll say it again, there's more fun shows coming in July and then we'll take a little break in August.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So thanks for being a part of the mesmerized family.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You're the very best.