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- 0:00Speaker 1: We got a question for American mama's. Dear mamas, why
- 0:02Speaker 1: do I still get so upset when leftists are crazy
- 0:04Speaker 1: rude to me online? Well, let's ask American mama's alma
- 0:21Speaker 1: and joining us now are American Mama's Terry Netville and
- 0:24Speaker 1: Kimberly Burlison.
- 0:26Speaker 2: Uh.
- 0:26Speaker 1: And you guys have had a little bit of experience
- 0:28Speaker 1: with this. I think that the worst anybody's ever been
- 0:32Speaker 1: to me online. It was it wasn't necessarily about politics.
- 0:35Speaker 1: It was about the weather. I got a death threat because.
- 0:37Speaker 2: Of you got it wrong.
- 0:40Speaker 1: No, I got the forecast right. A guy who worked
- 0:44Speaker 1: for me. It was my weekend weather man. He came
- 0:47Speaker 1: on air to tell people about a tornado during a
- 0:50Speaker 1: football game. And so I got death threats. But that's
- 0:55Speaker 1: but I haven't gotten death threats over my politics yet.
- 0:59Speaker 1: I'm sure or one day it will happen. But anyway,
- 1:02Speaker 1: you guys have had some nasty exchanges. Well, no, you've
- 1:06Speaker 1: had people who have been nasty. Ye, not exchanges the
- 1:09Speaker 1: wrong word. Yeah, you've had people that have been nasty
- 1:12Speaker 1: towards you. Does it still hurt your feelings? You know?
- 1:15Speaker 2: I think it makes me mad. I was telling Terry
- 1:18Speaker 2: I posted a video on Instagram the other day and
- 1:21Speaker 2: it was literally a sweet my grandmother, our grandmother. She
- 1:24Speaker 2: got married on a dare nineteen thirty seven. We found
- 1:28Speaker 2: the dress that she wore when she won on that
- 1:30Speaker 2: date and I asked my youngest daughter saying to put
- 1:33Speaker 2: it on. So I videotaped her and she was being silly.
- 1:35Speaker 2: She was dancing a little silly beautiful red dress yeah,
- 1:37Speaker 2: and blue dress with red.
- 1:40Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I thank you. It was the red flag
- 1:43Speaker 1: is the red five second home?
- 1:44Speaker 3: So I posted it.
- 1:45Speaker 1: Well it goes viral, yeah, because it was really it's.
- 1:48Speaker 3: A clear story.
- 1:49Speaker 1: Yeah, a great grandmother right right right, And by the
- 1:52Speaker 1: way the marriage worked, she got married on a first
- 1:55Speaker 1: date on a dare.
- 1:56Speaker 2: And children, happy life exactly, So you know, for them,
- 2:00Speaker 2: I'm telling you, like, for the most part, I got.
- 2:02Speaker 2: These are people that don't know me, So everybody's commenting,
- 2:05Speaker 2: but I had kind comments. But I had a person
- 2:08Speaker 2: tell me your daughter should be ashamed of herself for
- 2:11Speaker 2: making fun of her grandmother's dress, which obviously meant a
- 2:14Speaker 2: lot to her since she kept it. Maybe when she
- 2:16Speaker 2: grows up she'll understand the meaning of heirlooms. Another one
- 2:19Speaker 2: are you desperate to be relevant? Another one cute dress,
- 2:22Speaker 2: but stringy hair ruins it? And I was loved about
- 2:27Speaker 2: your daughter. He was about and I was so mad.
- 2:29Speaker 2: It was about my daughter in the dress. And then
- 2:33Speaker 2: a lot of people saying what's wrong with her? Why
- 2:35Speaker 2: she dancing that way? And a couple of people I responded,
- 2:38Speaker 2: I said, you know, she didn't want me to post
- 2:39Speaker 2: this because she thought, no, people are going to think
- 2:41Speaker 2: I'm being real. I went, no way, But you've proven
- 2:45Speaker 2: her right, you know, because you're an idiot. But one
- 2:48Speaker 2: thing I thought is I thought it.
- 2:49Speaker 1: Was such a sweet moment.
- 2:51Speaker 3: I did too.
- 2:51Speaker 2: I did too, but I was given so much power
- 2:55Speaker 2: to that that negativity. It was bugging me. It's like,
- 2:59Speaker 2: here's all these one wonderful comments that I'm scrolling past,
- 3:01Speaker 2: these sweet things, and then I'm focused on this jerk
- 3:05Speaker 2: and then this jerk and this jerk. And it kind
- 3:07Speaker 2: of reminded me of when my dad had the magazine
- 3:09Speaker 2: Millionarile Blueprints magazine. We got hundreds, hundreds of letters from
- 3:14Speaker 2: people saying, this is the change my life, this is incredible.
- 3:17Speaker 2: But one person wrote a letter, and it was my
- 3:19Speaker 2: dad's editor's letter. It's in the front of the magazine
- 3:21Speaker 2: and he had corrected it with a red pin where
- 3:24Speaker 2: my dad had not. Yeah yeah, And he sent it
- 3:28Speaker 2: back to my dad and it ate my dad alife.
- 3:31Speaker 2: He was so angry and upset and he was like
- 3:35Speaker 2: giving so much energy to that one jerk, right without
- 3:39Speaker 2: all these beautiful letters of people, It's like, just put
- 3:42Speaker 2: them aside, and here's the one I'm going to focus on.
- 3:44Speaker 3: I think we all do that. I think that you
- 3:46Speaker 3: could have, you know, forty five compliments. You have one
- 3:50Speaker 3: person that says something very rude, very wrong, and you're
- 3:54Speaker 3: going to focus on that. We all have that for
- 3:57Speaker 3: whatever reason, there's something in our psyche that that's what
- 3:59Speaker 3: we focus on. If you if you give a speech
- 4:01Speaker 3: and everyone says, oh my gosh, I really got a
- 4:03Speaker 3: lot out of that, and then you have another one
- 4:05Speaker 3: that says, oh my god, that was the most ridiculous. Seriously,
- 4:08Speaker 3: I mean, do you do this often? And that's who
- 4:10Speaker 3: you're gonna You're gonna play that in your mind over
- 4:13Speaker 3: and over and over and try to correct things or
- 4:16Speaker 3: right like that. But you know, it kind of reminds
- 4:18Speaker 3: me of these baseball games and you've got these people
- 4:21Speaker 3: in the crowd. Most of them are funny.
- 4:24Speaker 1: You know, they're your son plays for Louisiana Tes, and
- 4:26Speaker 1: so you're going to baseball.
- 4:29Speaker 3: Yes, And I've been doing this for a years, I
- 4:31Speaker 3: mean for their whole lives, but at college, not just
- 4:33Speaker 3: for Shane, but still yeah, yeah, and so there I'm
- 4:42Speaker 3: just going to say. His name is George. So there's
- 4:44Speaker 3: a guy that's, you know, behind me. Most people are funny,
- 4:47Speaker 3: and they when they yell things, this guy tends to
- 4:51Speaker 3: have just this rage, innate rage to just yell out
- 4:57Speaker 3: anything negative to the ump or to the player or
- 5:01Speaker 3: about the player, about the coach. It's never a positive.
- 5:04Speaker 3: And I cringe because sometimes it's so embarrassing. I'm like, dude,
- 5:08Speaker 3: just ease up, calm down, enjoy yourself. And so, you know,
- 5:11Speaker 3: Kevin and I will be driving home. Well if somebody
- 5:14Speaker 3: cuts him off or they're in the they're in the
- 5:16Speaker 3: passing lane, but they're going slow. You know, Kevin's like, ah,
- 5:20Speaker 3: this is what's this is the problem. You know, these
- 5:22Speaker 3: are the people and like you are georging me right now.
- 5:25Speaker 3: And he's like, well, I mean this is ridiculous. I said, yeah,
- 5:27Speaker 3: but he doesn't know that you're mad. He didn't get
- 5:29Speaker 3: to feel this tension. I feel it. I'm over here
- 5:32Speaker 3: minding my own business, trying to have a nice, pleasant
- 5:34Speaker 3: ride back with my husband, and I'm feeling tense. I said,
- 5:37Speaker 3: stop georging me, stop, And you know, he got tickled
- 5:41Speaker 3: about it, and I said, what is it? What? What
- 5:44Speaker 3: is it about people online? You know, the keyboard cowards
- 5:48Speaker 3: and all them in their cars, Yeah, in their car.
- 5:50Speaker 3: What is it about? Well, they can't hear, but the
- 5:52Speaker 3: ones that allow you to hear, Like, if if those
- 5:55Speaker 3: people heard Kevin, that would be you know, that'd be terrible. Yeah,
- 5:58Speaker 3: I have to hear it. But as far as these
- 6:00Speaker 3: people that are writing on writing on Kimberly's page is like,
- 6:03Speaker 3: what is what is your problem? Who hurts you?
- 6:05Speaker 1: I just figure that as bad as they've made you feel,
- 6:08Speaker 1: they probably feel worse every minute of every day.
- 6:10Speaker 3: Yeah, it has to be the case.
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- 6:15Speaker 1: including I asked the moments pudon turning out about Kimberly
- 6:17Speaker 1: Brothers and thank you so much, thank you