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DLHS HOUR 1 | Mother’s Day, Marriage, and a Viral Debate That Set Social Media on Fire · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: I really really have to say this, and I did
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  Speaker 1: not expect to be saying this.
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  Speaker 2: Vegers Field was lit. It was lit. It was lit.
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  Speaker 2: It was lit.
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  Speaker 1: You know, you get these unexpected It was a dope audience.
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  Speaker 2: That was all I had. It wasn't scenery or nothing
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  Speaker 2: like that, but it was lit. And you know, we do.
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  Speaker 1: This, uh my my podcast which is called Uncertain, And
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  Speaker 1: there were some things I said on the podcast that
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  Speaker 1: Charlemagne and I had a conversation a couple of hours,
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  Speaker 1: and I would have to say, if you.
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  Speaker 2: Want to know what I'm talking about, just go to Uncertain.
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  Speaker 1: But I was just talking about all the people who had,
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  Speaker 1: you know, helped us get where we are right now
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  Speaker 1: or inadvertently or inverted. Would you say, Skip and Jazzmine
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  Speaker 1: that there is a war on black people in this country?
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  Speaker 2: Of course politically now, politically social.
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  Speaker 1: I would say that there is a warlike stance. And
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  Speaker 1: I would say also, like even today the president is
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  Speaker 1: talking about sending election people to polls.
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  Speaker 2: Who do you think that's for?
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  Speaker 1: You know exactly what that's for, So we're not even
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  Speaker 1: talking about That's what you do when you are at
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  Speaker 1: war with somebody, right you you put troops right yep.
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  Speaker 1: And they're also when that is the footing when you
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  Speaker 1: are at war, if you give aid and comfort to
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  Speaker 1: somebody who's your perceived enemy or adversary, that there is
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  Speaker 1: a penalty for that, right right. I think the penalty
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  Speaker 1: for that, the killer mikes and is ostrac.
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  Speaker 2: You're being ostracized. Yeah, they're getting that, boy.
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  Speaker 1: Because and I think that's it's that's what it is.
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  Speaker 1: It's not it's not that you know, people are mad
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  Speaker 1: or it's that people feel as if, uh they have
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  Speaker 1: uh take taking a war like footing, and you have
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  Speaker 1: been in some ways an accomplished yep. So that and
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  Speaker 1: it isn't the first, like I've talked to him, and
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  Speaker 1: you know I've talked to him a lot. But uh,
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  Speaker 1: we'll talk about that later on Marcellus Wiley, I will say,
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  Speaker 1: I don't you I said, I don't like it.
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  Speaker 2: Of course you don't.
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  Speaker 1: But I never am glad for anything bad to happening.
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  Speaker 1: But I will say this, Trump supporters. They one thing
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  Speaker 1: a Trump is supporter gonna do is explain away multiple
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  Speaker 1: rabel That's the one thing they're gonna do. The one
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  Speaker 1: thing they're gonna have to do explain away multiple regular
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  Speaker 1: They are a rapey lot. I'm not saying that they
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  Speaker 1: did well. Yeah, kind they have more accusations. It's so
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  Speaker 1: many accusations. The cath the church is like.
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  Speaker 2: Wow, that's a lot of It's a lot happy.
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  Speaker 1: It is mental health Awareness, Moms and Women's Health Month.
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  Speaker 1: I think that there's something kind of weird that that
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  Speaker 1: is the same, the same.
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  Speaker 2: It's not weird at all to me, I understand it. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: me too. You can roll your eyes if you want.
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  Speaker 2: Two sentards. I'm just saying I'm making I didn't make
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  Speaker 2: this happen. It happened. I do know a woman, as
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  Speaker 2: a matter of fact, who failed.
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  Speaker 1: In mental Remember that somebody she'll say that, you'll take
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  Speaker 1: what I know someone who failed their mental acuity and
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  Speaker 1: they wanted to take it over again.
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  Speaker 3: I had a nap.
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  Speaker 1: Concert tickets, but I do not want to hear it
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  Speaker 1: on my social media. Happy Birthday the Black China Have
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  Speaker 1: breatha the Cam Newton. Happy Breath to Kobe Bale, Jason
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  Speaker 1: Pitts on the Games. Happy birth to our to our
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  Speaker 1: Frat brother Lewis Farrakahn, Happy birth to the age Hood,
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  Speaker 1: Happy Breath to the Frase, Holly Fraser Dance Dance Moms.
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  Speaker 2: Happy birthday to James Dolan. I don't know what say.
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  Speaker 1: The Knicks look good, man, They look good and they're
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  Speaker 1: long too, so I Lakers.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Happy birthday to Cola Ray.
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  Speaker 1: Happy birthday to Atlanta Condor Jubilee on the X Men Apocalypse.
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  Speaker 1: Happy birth to the Danielle Pinnick from Ghost And this
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  Speaker 1: is that's We've got a great show lined up for
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  Speaker 1: you with dal Hughley Show. It is not a coincidence.
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  Speaker 1: It is not a figment of your imagination. It is
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  Speaker 1: not happenstance. Donald Trump's administration has specifically gone after black people.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of people on this side of the ledger
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  Speaker 1: didn't like the success that black people made. They didn't
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  Speaker 1: like the black girl magic. They particularly didn't like that
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  Speaker 1: we had a black president. And all of this is
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  Speaker 1: to roll back those things. One of the first things
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  Speaker 1: he did immediately was to fire several prominent black people
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  Speaker 1: in government. To the extent that he could do it,
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  Speaker 1: he has done it, resulting in about three hundred and
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  Speaker 1: fifty thousand black people, black women specifically.
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  Speaker 2: With jobs taken away.
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  Speaker 1: One of the things he also did was rolled back
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  Speaker 1: you know, a discriminatory practice. There was an executive order
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  Speaker 1: not allowing federal vendors to segregate bathrooms. He rolled that away.
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  Speaker 1: I remember doing a joke about that. I remember talking
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  Speaker 1: about that. He today or yesterday sent the Department of
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  Speaker 1: Justice weaponized the Department of Justice to go over a
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  Speaker 1: state center to harass a basically a state senator in
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  Speaker 1: Virginia who had been integral in the redistricting there. And
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  Speaker 1: now we have the gutting of the voters. Rice acts
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  Speaker 1: with states immediate like the like the Louisianas, like Alabama's,
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  Speaker 1: and several other states are trying to enact it right
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  Speaker 1: away to give him an advantage. This was all deliberate.
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  Speaker 1: What I can't understand is why so many black people helped.
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  Speaker 1: I cannot understand it. We told you what was happening,
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  Speaker 1: and if you had told people then when we were
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  Speaker 1: telling people then about Projects twenty twenty five, all they
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  Speaker 1: were fear among I remember Boyce Watkins that are like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: this is always happened.
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  Speaker 2: They've always done this.
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  Speaker 1: We haven't seen anything like this since the Woodrow Wilson era,
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  Speaker 1: when they used to build cages around black people so
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  Speaker 1: they'd be separate from workers.
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  Speaker 2: Stephen A. Smith the other day.
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  Speaker 1: Talked about all black people should vote Republican. This is
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  Speaker 1: the interesting thing. Sixty percent of black people live in
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  Speaker 1: the Red States and the Southern governance. They live in
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  Speaker 1: the southern region of the United States of America. How's
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  Speaker 1: that working for them? It has always been in their
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  Speaker 1: designs to do what it is they're doing. What they
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  Speaker 1: never had was an administration that was so craving it
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  Speaker 1: would do it. They never had, you know, everybody who
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  Speaker 1: had the specific administration, to have the levers of power,
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  Speaker 1: of appliable Congress, a willing Supreme Court justice. None of
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  Speaker 1: that really is surprising. What is surprising is how many
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  Speaker 1: black people helped. How many said, are their fearmonger? How
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  Speaker 1: many said there was no difference. How many said, but
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  Speaker 1: this but her skin color. But with the stimulus jack,
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  Speaker 1: but she got a white husband. But it's a woman.
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  Speaker 1: But anything would be better. And I ain't talking about people,
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  Speaker 1: you know, on the periphery. I'm talking about people who
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  Speaker 1: are now rank being apoplectic about.
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  Speaker 2: The loss of the voter's rice. At the greatest.
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  Speaker 1: There was an old expression that says that the greatest
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  Speaker 1: trick the devil ever committed was convincing people he wasn't real.
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  Speaker 1: And I think a lot of these black people convinced
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  Speaker 1: black people they had their best interest at heart. And
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  Speaker 1: now look at the results.
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  Speaker 2: That's a little note from the GED section. It's the L.
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  Speaker 2: report on the d. L. Hughley Show.
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  Speaker 3: Eighteen American passengers who had been aboard of crews that
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  Speaker 3: faced a hints of virus outbreak arrived in the US
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  Speaker 3: early this morning. Sixteen were taken to a quarantine unit
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  Speaker 3: at the University of Nebraska Medical Center in Omaha. One
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  Speaker 3: who tested mildly positive for the virus, was in a
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  Speaker 3: bio containment unit, while the other fifteen were in less
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  Speaker 3: restrictive quarantine.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, nembrassify.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, Well they say two of the eighteen out of
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  Speaker 3: two of the eighteen, I think one of them is
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  Speaker 3: actually was sent to Emory in Atlanta.
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  Speaker 2: Another one had miles symptoms. Right, they say the symptoms
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  Speaker 2: can manifests them in forty five days. Yep, stay in
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  Speaker 2: quarantine where we got a new boat wheel on me.
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  Speaker 2: I would worry about that on her new boat anyway.
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  Speaker 3: Research suggests that coffee may actually influence everything from brain
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  Speaker 3: function to digestive health thanks to compounds like polyphenols, which
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  Speaker 3: of course you know are plant plant based antioxidants that
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  Speaker 3: can help protect against cellular damage. Moderate coffee consumption has
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  Speaker 3: even been linked to a lower risk of chronic conditions
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  Speaker 3: like type two diabetes, liver disease, and cardiovascular disease. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: that's a good thing, drinking cup coffee. But you know,
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  Speaker 3: I like be careful with it.
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  Speaker 2: I like coffee.
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  Speaker 1: So this is we saw this. This is an argument
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  Speaker 1: on social media. I sent it the skip that a
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  Speaker 1: man was having his wife. He's basically arguing that he
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  Speaker 1: got some for his mother and his kids got something
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  Speaker 1: for her. That he is his wife, not his mother,
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  Speaker 1: So he didn't get none for his wife. He got
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  Speaker 1: some for his wife of his mother because that's his mother,
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  Speaker 1: but he didn't for his wife because she's not his mother.
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  Speaker 1: Which is a reasonable argument to me, but it's not
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  Speaker 1: one that I would ever argue because I wouldn't want
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  Speaker 1: to have the headache to go along with it. I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to do it because what I've noticed is
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  Speaker 1: women will find a way to make something work. Women
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  Speaker 1: will find a way to have a day, mean gifts,
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  Speaker 1: something's gonna happen.
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  Speaker 2: I don't give a damn what it is.
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  Speaker 1: Valentine's Day, Mother's Day, you know, Christmas, you're gonna give gifts. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: some kind of way, it's gonna happen. Yeah, And I
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  Speaker 1: don't give a damn. And it's logical. It ain't called
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  Speaker 1: wife's day, it ain't called girlfriend's day, it's not called
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  Speaker 1: significant other's day.
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  Speaker 2: It's called mother's Day. So you should only give something
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  Speaker 2: to your mother, not the mother of your children, not
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  Speaker 2: the mother and children. I don't think so.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm never going to really say that out loud,
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  Speaker 1: because it.
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  Speaker 2: Ain't worth dying for. It's not. I was proud of
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  Speaker 2: him for making that argument.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I was proud of him, and I immediately,
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  Speaker 1: I immediately.
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  Speaker 2: Said it, just give us. This be an interesting thing.
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  Speaker 1: But you're always trying to get something out of a day, always,
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  Speaker 1: even on Father's Day.
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  Speaker 2: Some mothers ago, I'm the mother too, I'm the rights
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  Speaker 2: kid always. So do you think you should only get
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  Speaker 2: something for your mother on Mother's Day? I already know
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  Speaker 2: it it's gonna go. I already know.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I can actually hear eyes rolling now I can
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  Speaker 1: hear it happen eight seven seven two.
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  Speaker 2: What why do you have that face? What do you
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  Speaker 2: fix your face? Cure me fix my face? He's still
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  Speaker 2: mad am. I seriously, I'm sitting here with nothing. The
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  Speaker 2: kids gave you something. The kids gave you something. What
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  Speaker 2: do you mean you got something from Mother's Day? Where's
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  Speaker 2: my flowers? The kids gave you flowers. You went into
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  Speaker 2: the store and got your mom flowers and didn't get
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  Speaker 2: me because she's my mom.
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  Speaker 1: Do you think that you should only get press for
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  Speaker 1: your mother on Mother's Day?
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  Speaker 2: You shouldn't get him for your wife, girlfriend's significant other.
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  Speaker 2: You should get him for your mother.
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  Speaker 1: Uh, we're gonna it just seems I don't I don't
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  Speaker 1: think I should be assassinated for thinking we're gonna go
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  Speaker 1: to a social media But what are they saying out there?
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  Speaker 2: Kyle? So, we got Nino from Baltimore, and Nino says,
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  Speaker 2: I'm giving the mother of my children the gift because
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  Speaker 2: she makes me happy in a different way. Yeah, my
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  Speaker 2: mama does. I just think we just don't want to
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  Speaker 2: hear it. Oh wow, I just think.
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  Speaker 1: That.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. I think he had a reasonable argument.
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  Speaker 1: It's one that I would never make, but I think
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  Speaker 1: I couldn't dismiss it out of hand.
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  Speaker 2: It seemed reasonable watching the video the whole time. Do
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  Speaker 2: just set I don't care if you think you right,
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  Speaker 2: Just it ain't it ain't worth it. I just don't
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  Speaker 2: think I think it is not worth that.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I will say this, I I now this
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  Speaker 3: for me. I am a firm believer.
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  Speaker 2: Please tell me something. Shut up.
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  Speaker 3: No, I'm a firm believer, and I've never understood why
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  Speaker 3: if it's not your mom, or if it's not the
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  Speaker 3: mother of your children, why you would try to do
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  Speaker 3: something or make somebody do something. So I think that
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  Speaker 3: since he made her a mother, now, if he made
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  Speaker 3: it very clear that you know.
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  Speaker 2: I bought these gifts and gave him to the kids
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  Speaker 2: to give to you, that's exactly what happened. I think.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm saying I think absolutely you should.
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  Speaker 2: I get it.
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  Speaker 3: Now, if you're married and you don't have any kids,
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  Speaker 3: then that's different. But I think once you're married and
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  Speaker 3: your wife has now become a mother, you would.
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  Speaker 2: Say Happy Mother's Day to her because she is a mother.
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  Speaker 3: She's the mother, your mother, but she's still she's still
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  Speaker 3: a mother thanks to you.
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  Speaker 1: I say Happy Mother's Day to you, right, but you do. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: But here's the thing I don't think. I think it
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  Speaker 1: should stop there. You should stay Happy mother Day and
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  Speaker 1: you shouldn't have to give somebody.
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  Speaker 3: I agree. And the case you, you know what, you
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  Speaker 3: always say Happy Mother's Day to me. I never expect
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  Speaker 3: anything from you because I ain't your mama. Now my son,
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  Speaker 3: on the other hand, he better give me a lot
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  Speaker 3: of gifts. Right, that's different.
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  Speaker 2: But but her son did give it, her kids did
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  Speaker 2: get it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think her husband should too because he.
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  Speaker 2: Made give this. He did where they get the money from. No,
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  Speaker 2: I just think it should be different since.
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  Speaker 1: You want two things a gifts they even even though
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  Speaker 1: the children got them, he did it. Yeah, you shut
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  Speaker 1: the car seats in the back. Obviously they couldn't have
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  Speaker 1: got the money they sell. I think it's a selfish
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  Speaker 1: mentality to have and everybody got to give you gifts.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think everybody, not everybody, not everybody, and your
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  Speaker 3: husband if you're married.
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  Speaker 2: He think you should.
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  Speaker 3: Give a gift to the woman that you made a mother.
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  Speaker 3: So you now, and when you refer to her, what
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  Speaker 3: do you say? She is not only my wife, she
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  Speaker 3: is the mother of my It depends on Happy Mother's
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  Speaker 3: Day to this woman.
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  Speaker 2: Fair Gonna. I would never, I would never do it.
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  Speaker 2: I think he did make a reasonable argument.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not saying that he's I think he's right, but
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  Speaker 1: I would never die on that hill. Give me, give
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  Speaker 1: us a thing eight seven seven two four two two
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  Speaker 1: four two six.
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  Speaker 2: We'll get to your calls. At a bit of cidel,
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  Speaker 2: he was showing